64. Perfect Match Ep 10 Recap w/ Tolu + Snooping Through His Phone
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- čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
- This week on Out of the Pods, Deepti and Natalie dive into the juicy debate: Is it ethical to snoop through a partner's phone? They spill why they think it's totally fair game. Plus, they break down all the drama from the Season Finale of Netflix's Perfect Match. The excitement doesn't stop there-they sit down with Tolu from The Trust and Perfect Match to get the inside scoop on her fiery drama with Dom and what really went down behind the scenes. Don’t miss this explosive episode packed with gossip and revelations!
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20:56 for Tolu’s interview
GOAT
Omg thanks babe!! 💖💖💖
Thanks queen 👑
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you're doing god's work
Tolu looks like a supermodel. Like if Naomi Campbell and Alek Wek had a baby. Don't waste your time on reality tv, get signed to a modeling agency instead.
Also really love her dynamic honest down to earth personality. She could be a talk show host.
She said on perfect match that she’s doing modeling already
Said the same
Can’t believe people don’t have any heat or real criticism for Harry but got all this energy for Kaz…
Bingo!
Tolu is the whole package! Looks, brains, personality, STYLE! Literally a goddess. Whenever she was on screen I couldn’t stop staring at her 😍
She really, really is! She's a natural star, I hope she's on our TV for more shows!
Charismatic AF
This girl WAS the trust. I’ve never seen anyone else from it on anything else. Love the energy!!
Yes!!! I was so excited when I saw her cast in perfect match because she made the trust soooo much more interesting and fun
Yes she was!!!
Yes she was and I was rooting for her
"The devil you know is better than the angel you don't" 100%
Tolú is so genuinely herself in such a graceful and warm way. I really enjoy listening to her.
Tolú and Xanthi were my faves!! Two dope queens who stayed true to themselves and also set boundaries.
Chris somewhat fooled me, although there were a couple of times I side-eyed him, like mispronouncing Tolú's name repeatedly 🙄and that comment about wanting to "try" to see if things could work outside the villa. It was giving non-committal.
Ps: I can't tell you how refreshing it is to see THREE beautiful, smart & accomplished women of color, of varying skin tones, on a platform like this. Keep up the great work, ladies!
Xanthi came onto the show whilst in a relationship which is why she didnt participate in the kissing challenge and didnt develop a relationship with anyone else.
Love Tolu! She has an amazing personality. I hope to see her as a host next on a Netflix show.
Dom is just a sad boy who wishes he was cool. Never wanted him with Tolú.
Ok, my two cents, pods besties:
1. Tolu makes the best DOM impressions lmfaoooo
2. About DOM switching, I feel like he has changed A LOT since he first started on these shows. Just because he used to be the "nice guy" who got friendzoned or cheated on (ironically, with his so-called 'best friend', who keeps bringing that up and literally mocks him about being the other guy), and now he wants to be a Harry copycat or something? Even going on his podcast laughing, being a douch3 and acting like *the new fckboy* or smnthing. Just weird af.
3. WHY were Tolu and Chris the only ones who were cleaning up and cooking??? lmao they're all kids fr.
4. I have to admit, at some point I trusted Chris. But now, looking back and watching his body language, his non-expressive kisses/responses and all that, I can see he was with her for the clout. He just knew the "right things" to say. Ugh, boo u wh0r3!! Hate that he made tolu take that video with him. Men asking women to give them grace after they give us NONE is such a classic.
5. I loved Xanthi the whole season but after I saw her laughing at Tolu in that interview I don't think I can see her as a girl's girl anymore. Which is so sad, I had hope in her :((
6. The way almost every guy ghosted their girl and wanted to save face for promo a year later... lmfaooo bye.
Hope Tolu really gets more screen time and/or a show as a host! I enjoy everything about her!! ♥
Thank u girlies so much for the great content, wishing you the BEST vacations :)
Xanthi been nasty….she was on the circle and showed her true colors.
@@latoya2763 I tried to watch The Circle but it was so boring and confusing i couldn't, so I don't know her like that 🥲. But, yes, sad 💔
wait what xanthi say, what’s tea?
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I was waiting for this sooo much! Tolú I LOVE YOU, you should have your own show. A true genuine QUEEN.
Dom should be given the side for the simple fact that he made friends with the person his girlfriend cheated on him with😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑…. And the fact that that person is Harry, is just icing on the cake. Him, Stefan and Harry are all the same person. That’s why they friends and that’s why they all sat up there and try to gaslight the audience about Melinda. Birds of a feather.
She didn't cheated on him, you need to watch her interview talking about him and how selfish he is
@@emilyjordan4802 she did cheat lol. dom might not be a good person but he had receipts.
@@mileso1042 They were not a couple, they never were. She commented on how everything happened, why do you think he gets along with Harry? I recommend that you watch Georgia's interview where she talks about this, so that you have both points of view. It's no coincidence that Tolu also says that Dom even off camera was manipulative.
@@emilyjordan4802 i’m not watching an hour long yap. she’s the one who started this drama by shading dom out of nowhere which led dom to post valid DETAILED proof of her lying, then she goes on nicks podcast and blames francesca. “why do you think he gets along with harry” can’t the same thing be said about georgia?? she claimed harry lied about them sleeping together and still decided to stay with him lol. even on that podcast with harry, she said she likes toxic guys and leading guys on so what does that say about her?
You can’t cheat on someone who you aren’t in a relationship with. She was “with him” 5 days in a reality show. That is not a relationship.
Tolu is GOAT! She is amazing and deserves all the best. So sad she was treated like crap by Dom and Chris on the show, but I’m glad she knows her worth and stays strong.
“i’m gonna show you that you’re not the player; i’m the game maker”- tolú is a QUEEN and i am rooting for her success in her next endeavor.
thank you, natalie and deepti, for giving us yet another insightful episode. love y’all ❤
She's a real one, Tolu deserved respect not games
Very good nterview! You ladies asked all the right questions we wanted answers to. Tolu is a beautiful soul, super- intelligent communicator, and very stunning. Her funny one liners live rent free in my head! Its so crazy that the guys did not find her attractive. It just makes them look idiotic...Especially Dom and Chris, and the fact that no one else was checking for them.
I fell in love with her on the Trust 😍 She is the reason I watched Perfect Match 💯
Chris can not act...that's why it was obvious in his edits and commentary that he was not the best with the ladies of the house
They get straight into it 38:07
Oh my bad 😅
I keep trying to get into this, but the amount they just chat for kills me
Thank you for the time stamp
You have to be doing something like running or deep cle5 with this one 😂 but if you do, it's great @cocotd
dom just looked sleep deprived this entire season like someone was forcing him to film
I know she didn't mean it that way but the whole; 'she's too pretty to be cheated on'... oof... might be a phrase we wanna remove from circulation. >.
beyoncé got cheated on lmao
@@arianarobinson6633 Right? LOL. But seriously, nobody deserves to get cheated on. No matter how they look.
Oh Tolu my love, they CAN NEVER MAKE ME HATE YOU!!!! Keep standing on business!!! ❤❤❤
You guys manifested this with the last episode. SOOO fun to see Tolú speak with ya'll
Tolu 👑 QUEEEEEN ♥️ Chris didn’t deserve you, none of them did
I’m obsessed with Tolu!!!! Great episode and love the 3 of you!!! Especially together!!!!
29:33 Scarcity mindset is never okay! Tolú is way too amazing to feel this way! I want everyone here to remember that just because you’ve known a person for a certain amount of time and you are uncomfortable or scared of forming a new relationship doesn’t mean you deserve poor treatment! There are ALWAYS people out there for you! This is why soulmates are only semi-true. There are so many people who are meant for you! It’s all about finding them! Much love everybody! ❤
Tolu, that producer wasn't looking out for you. They were looking out for the show and the fact that it would have been a bad look if there were no black women on it. That's all that was. If they really had your interests at heart, they wouldn't have tried to get you to stick around on a dating show where you obviously did not have any good, genuine prospects. The show doesn't deserve to have ANY black women on it.
Exactly not one!
Tolu is so beautiful inside and out ❤ she definitely deserves much better
i genuinely loved yall's talk about catching cheaters and finding the craziest-sounding ways to catch them but it's actually so true, like i've gotten scarily good at investigating
Tolu is just absolutely beautiful ❤
Love you Tolù ! All the way from the motherland… you’re a winner and I’m happy you made it through till the end in the perfect match and Chris wasn’t good enough for you. DOM was dumb and he’ll end up with the wrong person again and again because he likes shallow women anyways! And you did well to leave with the big bag in your previous show ! I wasn’t mad at you. Supporting you from afar ! ❤❤
Find someone who knows what he wants and do it mature. There’s nothing wrong with calling ppl out and asking for a reason. The sneaky shit ain’t it in a relationship and I would never stalk my man’s phone. At some point we all have to grow up. 20min on this I wouldn’t go back to this time in my life for anything.
As a side note I had a really hard time understanding why all the men weren’t falling at their knees for Tolu- I thought she was gonna do some damage for sure, and I started to wonder if these men saw what I and most of the viewers saw 🤦🏻♀️ I know the theory is that’s it’s cause she’s a chocolate queen; but honestly Melinda seemed to fare very well with the men… I don’t know, I don’t get it. Tolu is literally a visual Goddess incarnate and I see from the comments that’s pretty damn obvious to most of us 😅
(To be fair; that house was full of knockouts, but I still thought Tolu would eat it up 😅)
Her not having hair is the reason. My hair looks exactly like hers. Zero men look at me. When I wear a long wig, men stay in my face. Most men like long hair on women, they see that as feminine
@@yogaqueen1527 They don't know what they're missing. ;) I always thought that being able to pull off a shaved head, and pull it off well, is one of the epitomes of beauty, because it only shows how flawless your bone structure is when there's nothing to hide behind (ex: Tolu).
I don’t think they were romantically interested in Melinda maybe just lust, she came across overtly sexual
@@adev9764 They were still attracted to her though so the point is the same… I don’t think most of these guys were thinking romance to begin with 😆😆 Maybe that’s part of the problem though… Tolu has more “I’m here for the real deal” vibes.
these shows cast men who dont have black women as their preference. Harry's type was Jess, Kaz' type was Holly/Micah, Stevan's type was Brittan, etc. They alwaysssss do this its so sad
Love the panel diversity hereeeeee
So excited for her!! Thank you for getting her on your podcast!!!
Tolu is absolutely gorgeous. Sweet spirit
To be friends with you 3 must be really fun. Thanks for the tea girls ❤
i think i loved tolu more after this podcast she’s a sweetheart❤
She's so genuine..... Ugh I hope we see here soon!!!!
You guys killed that interview. That was awesome! 🎉
Didn't you just get back from vacation in April? I love it. Hope both of you are enjoying yourselves to the fullest 🎉
None of those guys knew what they were dealing with when you walked in the house. I love that as a black woman Tolu does not give them what historically black women a role that was attached to them, either the vixen or the mom. She is just the grown woman that knows her worth. At my old age I feel the same about dating. Date with intention.
Why is this the best interview ever plus great questions
i can look at tolú's face all day long every day. jesus. she's god's favorite.
Loved this episode! Thanks for having Tolu on!!!
I can totally see Tolu hosting a show where she cooks up some yummy food for her guests while chatting and laughing with them. Like very nurturing love language and soul food vibes.
You guys were all amazing 🤩 Tolu radiates such positive and good energy and I loved watching her on my tv screen. It was nonstop laughs ❤️ I wish you guys all the success in the future 🫶🏽
It’s actually so sad that if you go through a man’s phone, you MUST see something. Either they are flirting with a girl or they are trying to sleep with her or they are already in a full blown relationship.
Girlies please for the love of god give a sister some timestamps
I'm glad she called Melinda out as well as Harry.
Im gona miss you ladies while you’re on vacation but u deserve! I’m here watching the vid even after listening to the pod yesterday. ❤❤
I love her energy
She said “life changing amounts of money” at least 6xs when explaining ‘The Trust’ 😅 loved you in PM, Tolu! Best Wishes 💞
Deepti we get you with the Apple conferences I always look forward to them every June. Not my fave day of the year but it’s pretty cool 😎
I hope one day they get a partner or they get in a relationship that trust is a foundation and is not toxic, a relationship where you don’t need to check your partners phone or your partner doesn’t have a problem giving you the password in case you need to use their phone, because they’re normalizing all this toxic behavior by thinking is normal to go through their partners phone and hiding, l think it’s incredible the amount of energy and thought they have put into how unlock their partners phone without her knowing.
What a great energy!!! Tolu you will be our favorite perfect match cast forever.
She is so vibrant, can it feel through the screen🔥🔥🔥
i must be insane bc i ALWAYS find a way to get in my partners phones when i really want to lmaooo
Adore her sm!!!!!!!!!! What a great podcast ep!
I love her even more!!
I love how honest Tolu is
Harry sent Dom on that date just to bring him into the house
Great interview! I love Tolu, speak your truth girl! 💜
I love TOLU!!!
Happy 60th to your mum! I’m also heading to Greece for my mum’s 60th too!!
According to Harry Dom is just an awkward, anxious guy, who struggles to talk to anyone especially women sometimes. He's said that he hated being on this show. It sounds like he might’ve just gotten some bad memories and shut down. I don't know why he did a second season.
Tolu! My Fave!
Tolú would be an incredible host! Her energy is amazing and I can’t wait to see her incredible future. 🎉
Tolu, you SO are beautiful inside and out 💛 I’m glad you recognize your worth! Wishing you all the best!
main character energy
This is exactly why I no longer want to be in any type of intimate relationships. Not wasting anymore of my time playing detective while the other person gets to live there life stress free
I screen recorded this snap story cause it was so weird and uncomfortable but harry posted a BTS video of him and Elys and Tolu in the back and the mean judgy faces on harry and elys I got the WORST vibes like them thinking their cooler .. the same vibe Jess had in that interview Natalie was talking about
I love Tolu!!!! So far she's the best person that's come out of reality tv, she's magical ✨
She makes me laugh so much hahaha I love her
We love Tolu ❤❤
Loved every bit of this podcast & absolutely love Tolú. She definitely needs a talking show for sure.
I would like to share my wild experience with trusting my instincts about my cheating ex baby daddy. I will be changing names for privacy reasons. I will also include our ages so you guys can see the whole picture play out.
I had a strong gut feeling my baby daddy Erik (18) was up to no good on this particular night. First & and foremost, I would like to mention that I (16) was 2 months away from giving birth to our 1st baby when this all went down, so I was really, really pregnant. It was my cousin Jessica's quinceañera & the whole party took place at my mom's house where the house was small, but the side yard was huge to host a lot of people. My baby daddy & I also lived with my mom cause we're teen parents to be. So I noticed Erik & my other cousin Eloise (early 30s, Jessica's older sister) getting along extremely too well this night. They have already met before & had each other's #. Just to show how naive I was at this point. Also, Eloise is a married woman. Her husband Rory (mid 40's) is obviously at the party as well.
Something told me to look at my baby daddy's phone. I probably told him I needed to check the time or whatnot. He was drunk, so he had no problem handing me his phone. I quickly checked his text messages & sure enough, I found incriminating text messages between him & Eloise. They were texting I love you to each other & were planning to meet up in our bedroom, where our baby's crib, clothes, & toys were all set up.
[[ FYI! Eloise, 3 years prior, did the same to another cousin of ours that also was pregnant. She messed with the baby daddy. She also tried stealing one of our aunt's boyfriend years before that]]
I don't remember confronting Erik right away, but I definitely didn't say a word to Eloise.
By the end of the party, around midnight, I was told by my mom that Eloise, Rory, & their 2 kids were going to sleep over at our house since they lived in a different county & it was late at night. It was pretty obvious from the get-go that not only were they going to sleep over, but they were all going to sleep in our room since it was the biggest room from the entire house. Erik & I in our bed, while Eloise & her family are on our bedroom's floor. I was completely furious & uncomfortable. I couldn't sleep & somewhere between 1 & 3am, both Erik & I went to the bathroom to
talk things out. I honestly thought this was over for Erik & I. While we were trying to argue quietly, we heard someone get up & open the fridge. The next morning, Elosie had mentioned she was so wasted last night & doesn't remember anything & that she got up to get milk for her 1 year old. She obviously knew I found out and was confronting Erik about it. Days later, I was told by another cousin that while I had my head turned away from Erik at the party & while Rory was distracted, Eloise & Erik both gave each other a quick peck. I absolutely blame both but still decided to give Erik a chance.
Fast forward to a few weeks after having my daughter. My mother, Erik, & I decided to go to my aunt's (Jessica, Eloise, & Anton's mom) house to bathe my daughter for the 1st time since our bathroom was way too tiny for an infant tub. I didn't know at the moment that my cousin Anton (Jessica's & Eloise brother) had just graduated HS. I thought my aunt was by herself at her house, that's why I didn't see Jessica or Eloise while bathing my daughter.
While there, I also decided to shower. As I was putting on my clothes, I hear a whole commotion outside. I see my cousins & Rory & an ambulance outside. According to my baby daddy, this all went down. While I was showering, my cousins had arrived from the graduation, Eloise saw Erik waiting on the couch for me & she immediately went to her husband Rory. Idk what she told him but Rory told Erik that he wanted to have a talk man to man. Erik & Rory both went outside to the alley & for 1 split second that Erik looked away, Rory clocked Erik right in the jaw. I guess Erik must have been out of it that he called for an ambulance. I just still find it disrespectful to both my daughter & I that Rory this buff mid 40 year old ex convict would straight out just punch an 18 year old skinny ass child that literally just had a newborn. There's no excuse for Erik cause I know he's to blame as well for that night, but I obviously didn't want to see him end up in the hospital. I decided to stay with Erik & I ended pregnant again when our daughter was around 6 months old. We broke things off when our son was 2 months old.
Fast forward to 4 years later...I am now married to my now husband & had another baby & happy as ever. Next thing you know I get a FB message from Eloise. The audacity of this woman is crazy!! She had the fucking nerve to message me & say 'hey cousin do remember that party where Erik tried to kiss me at?' Rory also messaged me & asked me the same question. I never responded to either of them because a no response is a response. But I so badly wanted to put in my 2 cents there & put her in her place. Rory & Eloise also messaged my sister & our other cousin that saw the kiss & wanted to know exactly who saw the kiss. My sister told me that they wanted to know cause they were in couples therapy. I have her blocked in all social media's. I absolutely want nothing to do with her, even though I have moved on & happily married still GET. AWAY. FROM ME.
she absolutely lost my trust & straight out disrespected me. Although I still see her at family get togethers, I just make sure to stay far as possible away from her.
All this to say, ladies if you absolutely feel a nasty intuition about your man cheating, absofuckinglutely go FBI his shit. Save yourself from a heartbreak. Give yourself time to grieve the relationship & move on. Be gentle on yourself, it's not your fault, men could be nasty.
Absolutely love Tolu! Thank you, guys, for having her on! ❤
Tolu was one of the HIGHLIGHTS of the show! Queen 👑
wait I’m dying at the gasp at 6 hours screen time…. mine is 12 😭😭😭😭😭
the only podcast I'm interested in watching.
Dom seemed like he was just struggling in general. It's giving mental health issues. I really don't think it was you.
Dom has a type and it doesn’t look like Tolu (as gorgeous as she is). I think he entertained her for his image. I also felt he was annoyed that Tolu was looking for love and he wanted her to be more strategy focused.
I was soo happy for Chris and Tolu’s match and I cried when Tolu was crying the last date !!!!! So am soo sad and disappointed 😢!!! Nway I watched this season because of her… and btw Deepti I was mad with your $&@@@&&$ in LIB and I didn’t watch perfect match season1 because I saw Natalie’s $&@&&&@ you know who soo!! Bravo girls and hope the best for you! Big love
Big brother meets The challenge?? How was Perfect Match even compared to The Challenge?? Must be a joke! 🤣🤣
Tolu is so perfect 😍 I love her personality!
Deepti, going to Italy during euro 2024 is going to be an experience.
LOVE LOVE LOOOOVVVEEE TOLU!!😍😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍
Tolu!! Love Tolu!!
I loved this podcast! Tolu is amazing, you both are amazing! Love love love!!
Dom gives me the creep something is off
Dom wants to be a stylie, good guy but he’s about status and approval. They need to find people with substance. The shallow types are boring.
I really liked Tolu on the trust actually, never thought she got a bad edit!
This interview was chef’s kiss, really enjoyed it ❤️ and I was shook to find out things about dom’s behavior, although then again, it shouldn’t be surprising considering he’s friends with Harry (yuck!)
I loved Tolu, my fav as well. The authenticity can’t lie. 💕
What lipstick are you wearing Natalie? Obsessed with the color
Tolu is amazing!! Beautiful inside and out.
I’m glad she is the star of perfect match I know Jessica went in thinking she was going to be the hottest and most loved im glad it wasn’t her . Fake boobs can only get you so far 😂
@@isabelscr111 using jessica as a comparison by describing her that way isn’t cool but okay
@@MB-pt8np Jessica is a jerk anyways.
@@MB-pt8npjess is a mean girl so bye
@@TweetsIsBoss lol to each their own. Love the judgment.
@@joanna0988what did she do?
I soososososos love Tolu! You ran the show honestly. The show was fun because of you. ❤❤❤
So disappointed in Dom, I liked him on season 1 and have been following him on insta since but it seems like it’s all gone to his head because I didn’t even think he had a good edit he was giving bad energy
I feel like izzy didint put himself out there a lot. He seems like such a sweetheart. I ship him and tolu
I didnt want this interview to end. Tolu is amazing
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