Why I Gave Up Everything and Moved to the Philippines. Every Man Has a Story

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  • @emersonmandal8536
    @emersonmandal8536 Před rokem +16

    Awesome story.You’re one of the best vloggers in da world👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏👊🇺🇸

  • @martymorgan9977
    @martymorgan9977 Před 3 lety +308

    This is probably the most sincere person that I have ever watched on here. I see him doing a weekly podcast about travel and life, both ups and downs! People need you...

    • @mela6046
      @mela6046 Před 3 lety +3

      I agree... & another black man...is also good

    • @jameswalsh2427
      @jameswalsh2427 Před 3 lety +5

      Very sincere

    • @lynnenowlan3386
      @lynnenowlan3386 Před 3 lety +3

      Very interesting. Can really relate to where you were and the need to make a change. Happy for you that you did it and it worked out. Thanks for your insight. Food for thought!

    • @b__w_4565
      @b__w_4565 Před 3 lety +2

      @@delac9864 gold digger alert!

    • @dounghataiwataim5180
      @dounghataiwataim5180 Před 3 lety +1

      Agree​ dont​ kill​ yourself​ lol

  • @donnamariegunn5526
    @donnamariegunn5526 Před 3 lety +219

    Congratulations!!! Welcome to Philippine living. My dad is an American who fell in love with my mom and the country and lived here for 57 years. He had a good life, had lots of friends, love the culture. Before he died he said he would choose my mom and the Philippines over again. Mabuhay!

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Před 2 lety +3

      What a great story that you for watching

    • @danilochua6945
      @danilochua6945 Před rokem

      Seldom happen in the phil. Congratulation!

    • @spaniardinthephilippines
      @spaniardinthephilippines Před rokem

      That’s was get , I am happy for you ! Please contact me I want to ask you something about the Philippines. Thank you

  • @ericshayer
    @ericshayer Před 3 lety +123

    This was the most honest, touching, meaningful real life video I have ever seen in CZcams. All my respect , keep walking man.

  • @jasperd3705
    @jasperd3705 Před 3 lety +314

    Never thought I would watch some middle age guy talking for about 26mins about his life. That was nice. 👍

    • @jamesross8612
      @jamesross8612 Před 3 lety +28

      Me too! It is great story though with happy ending eh. I much rather hear interesting real story about regular guy than stories about Kardashians or Hollywood brats. Mark's story is truly inspirational.

    • @ivanj.conway9919
      @ivanj.conway9919 Před 3 lety +16

      Hmm ya, better if it were an 18 year old, right? I'm 55 and trying to get my channel off of the ground as well, and one of my fears is that I'm getting ignored because of my age, which is so, so, sad. Everyone will get older eventually, and no one likes to be thrown to the side and rejected because of something so, superficial, plus we still, have much to offer, well into our years. All of us do.
      Anyway, I'm pleased you enjoyed this man's video and I hope you learned something from it. My Best. Out.

    • @ivanj.conway9919
      @ivanj.conway9919 Před 3 lety +10

      @@jamesross8612 : Now that is absolutely, true, My Brother. If people want "reality tv" it's much, much, better for them to check out channels over CZcams here, than that garbage on cable tv anyway. My Best. Out.

    • @ivanj.conway9919
      @ivanj.conway9919 Před 3 lety

      @Nik Out And About : Well Nik, first off, almost everything you've mentioned here, so far, I've already considered. Secondly, my channel so far, very much, reflects the type of person I'm trying to present here. I am a nature kind of guy, so the lake / forest image at the top of my main, channel, page reflects my personality perfectly, here. Also, of course, the thumbnail photo / image connected with my channel is not of me, naturally, but the me I see myself as on the inside. Some may consider it a bet misleading, but seeing as we are on a site where well over half the people here, don't even, try to have anything accurate to reflect their channels well, it's a bet hypocritical to shoot me down for that. At least, I'm not using the image of some celebrity, fooling people that they are someone who they are not, and which really, should be considered plagiarism or false representation at the very least. Third; I'm not here trying to make money, and I've said that repeatedly, in many of my videos, so far. I'm here to make friends and try to find a life partner, primarily. So keeping that in mind; I don't much, care if my channel appeals to kids or young adults anyway. What would even, be the point in trying to attract people from that age bracket. I'm OK with MATURE, 25 plus year olds, and pretty much, anyone beyond that age bracket. Forth; clearly you have not bothered to take the time to check out any of my videos, as I have explained time and time and time again, what is going on with the thumbnail images, both in the videos and in the descriptions to the videos, as well. Did you take the time to read any of those? This is how fucked up this website is, by not allowing people to upload proper thumbnails of themselves, unless you are willing to pay a small fortune for that simple, little, perk. The thumbnail images are from the videos themselves, and usually, the best from what CZcams usually, allows me to choose from. All that I've explained so many times it's not funny. And lastly; I don't and never have and likely, never will ask for people to subscribe to my channel. Every subscription to my channel so far, I've gained purely, on the power of my comments and replies alone, it seems. Before this channel, I was here as the "whitemannativemind" that's "white man native mind" and I had over 50 subscriptions to that channel purely on the power of the same thing, as I never, ever, asked or begged anyone to subscribe to my channel. I'm quite, proud in gaining subscriptions that way, as I feel that if people truly, feel my channel is worth subscribing to, they will anyway, without me begging and pleading for them to do so. Sadly, that channel got terminated from the CZcams website, without a proper explanation to me as to why, first or last. That was over two years ago now. The channel I'm using now is my google e-mail account. I've been surfing this site for over, eight years now, by the way, if not longer, so not new here, at all.
      Now, all that being said; I do ask for respectful, constructive, criticism all the time, and I DO, thank you for taking the time to suggest ways in which I can gain more viewers. I WILL, take your suggestions into consideration. Thank You.
      Warmest Wishes from Canada. Be Well. Be Safe. Out.

    • @ivanj.conway9919
      @ivanj.conway9919 Před 3 lety

      @Nik Out And About : PS: One thing you maybe, can help me with; can you suggest a program I can use to edit my videos when I forget myself sometimes and let out the odd, curse word. To be honest with you, I don't even, know how to bleep things out sometimes, when I want to correct something, so simply, leave it and hope for the best. If you've already, included that in your suggestions then thank you. Also, are there programs where I can include background music and won't get copyright notifications for? As I like playing my radio in the background, for background music that way, but every, darn, time I do, I get a copyright notification with the video once it's uploaded. Honestly, I find that the height of ridiculousness, and have even, e-mail CZcams asking them to stop doing that, to no avail it seems. l see one suggestion here, and I'll have a look at that. Thank You.
      Also, please take note of what I've been using to make my videos so far. I've described that in almost, every video I make. I'm using a $50.00 camcorder that is some eight to ten years old, and which is on the way out now, and giving me endless problems. That is why everything is of such poor quality. But I've worn myself out explaining that one. I've been months now, trying to get the money together to get better, and am now, on the verge of doing that. I have $360 odd, dollars to work with now, so if you have any suggestions of what I can get for that, great quality for making CZcams videos, then I'm very happy to get your suggestions. Right now, I'm torn between getting either a GoPro Camera or a Smartphone within that price range. Plus, I understand there are far, far, better camcorders out there, that I can get instead, and for that price, so I should be able to get something decent, and am also, considering that option, as well. The plus with a GoPro is that I can take it out in all kinds of weather, which is a huge, plus when trying to make videos for CZcams. So I remain torn there, as to the best route to go.
      Again, I don't mean to come off rude or snotty here, and I am grateful for your attempt to help me. Thank You.
      Warmest Wishes from Canada. Be Well. Be Safe. Out.

  • @thetraditionalmale
    @thetraditionalmale Před 3 lety +70

    This is such a beautiful story that we can all relate to no matter your background. Thank you for sharing and I just subscribed.

  • @patriciacalunniato6872
    @patriciacalunniato6872 Před 3 lety +65

    I am so glad you found happiness in the philippines you went through hell and i hope you never ever get suicidal thoughts again God Bless you

  • @thecylistpoet2988
    @thecylistpoet2988 Před 3 lety +188

    Something about your storytelling that made me watch for 26 mins and I'm usually not that patient but this is cool yeah

    • @thecylistpoet2988
      @thecylistpoet2988 Před 3 lety +10

      @@everymanhasastory no problem sir. Keep making awesome vids. You're inpiring people. GODBLESS

    • @Poplicola08
      @Poplicola08 Před 3 lety +8

      @@everymanhasastory Same here. I was thinking, "I watched the original, but let's see how different this one is." 26 minutes later... haha. Good stuff. You should have the mountain in the background more often. Looks fantastic and peaceful. Thanks for your videos!

    • @TopSpinWilly
      @TopSpinWilly Před 3 lety +5

      I did 26 minutes and 44 seconds with ease

  • @elizabethmetteer2772
    @elizabethmetteer2772 Před 3 lety +24

    I am still here in the USA 🇺🇸 right now but I stopped working 2 years ago because I get too much stress from work but I am not retiring age for at least 5 more years.Since my husband wants to work still, I let him and when he is ready to retire we are planning to stay in the Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @mysmartieteevee3036
    @mysmartieteevee3036 Před 3 lety +353

    Cmon man, you didn't have to apologise for the ads. You create good content, you deserve to be paid....

    • @johngreydanus2033
      @johngreydanus2033 Před 3 lety +10

      I got ad for cruise ships haha

    • @Bel_leonie
      @Bel_leonie Před 3 lety +6

      I signed up for 3 of the 4 ads 😂

    • @boomafoo9
      @boomafoo9 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Bel_leonie that’s a first. Which ads? 😂

    • @TopSpinWilly
      @TopSpinWilly Před 3 lety +3

      I didn't get an advert. Why?

    • @E-Kat
      @E-Kat Před 3 lety +5

      @@TopSpinWilly they're individually tailored, connected with your browsing history or the things you talk about when your phone is turned on, as your device records your conversation if the mic isn't turned off.

  • @ericksanderson2832
    @ericksanderson2832 Před 3 lety +258

    My wife and I have been married for 27 years. She's a Pinay and we are planning to retire in the Philippines in about another two years. Happy for ya bro.

    • @delac9864
      @delac9864 Před 3 lety +1

      Bet all this likes are from all philipina women,

  • @elementalsfourheaven3401
    @elementalsfourheaven3401 Před 3 lety +204

    It’s embarrassing and sad what is happening in USA . The health care issues here is a burden and the food industry completely corrupt which is making everyone sick

    • @needparalegal
      @needparalegal Před 3 lety +7

      Food is improving. I am seeing less corn syrup and less hydrogenated oil in food, and everyone is avoiding carbs.

    • @mma85libra
      @mma85libra Před 3 lety +8

      @@needparalegal carbs are good. Plant base diet with no oil, no dairy, no salt, no meat. Potatoes without butter, dairy and salt are very filling and healthy just look up Andrew Spudfit Taylor and Dr McDougall

    • @needparalegal
      @needparalegal Před 3 lety +13

      @@mma85libra Not for me. Carbs make me fat and tired. I was eating 100% meat until the Covid made meat hard to get.

    • @nickt1262
      @nickt1262 Před 3 lety +5

      @@mma85libra There's no diet/way of eating that fits all IMO. :)

    • @nickt1262
      @nickt1262 Před 3 lety +4

      @@needparalegal There's no diet/way of eating that fits all IMO. :)

  • @MarkBrigham
    @MarkBrigham Před 3 lety +33

    This is so great. Reminds me of the Scottish saying: You were born in pain, you live in fear, and you will die alone. Merry Christmas.

    • @brianfergel129
      @brianfergel129 Před 3 lety +4

      Life sucks & then we die.

    • @redpillsatori3020
      @redpillsatori3020 Před 3 lety +2

      @@brianfergel129 haha that saying is depressing as fuck. We have to just make meaning in life to bear struggles. Hard tho

    • @brianfergel129
      @brianfergel129 Před 3 lety +1

      @@redpillsatori3020
      By April, we'll feel like we're in a new world.
      Promise.
      Trump has concluded what JFK began.

    • @brianfergel129
      @brianfergel129 Před 3 lety +1

      That whole pessimistic mindset, though, that alone is why some (many) people will actually never feel to have experienced any Great Awakening.

  • @garygoodrich1
    @garygoodrich1 Před 3 lety +307

    A man has to have courage to find happiness. You have that. Unfortunately so many don’t. Love the channel and keep up the good work!

    • @bede2678
      @bede2678 Před 3 lety

      how sure are you about this statement.

    • @bowhunter8235
      @bowhunter8235 Před 3 lety +9

      @@bede2678 ...your que was not intended for me because I just found this site. I assume you mean the statement; 'a man has to have courage to find happiness...'
      As a man, I Am Absolutely Certain of his statement.
      It is my observation (as the owner of a one manned barber shop...ie... men's stories almost daily) many men 'hide' themselves in marriage, family, job, house, car, debt and self medication.
      It takes R E A L Courage to go against western societal dictates. AND, many never know that courage...some chose suicide. That I am certain of as well. Personal observations.

    • @bowhunter8235
      @bowhunter8235 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Nia.Wilson will you share the typ of business (happiness) you found...
      alphalivingwaters@gmail.com

    • @Nia.Wilson
      @Nia.Wilson Před 3 lety

      @@bowhunter8235 yes, will do. Please look out for my email.

    • @robindui7600
      @robindui7600 Před 3 lety

      M

  • @tonyjtaps18
    @tonyjtaps18 Před 3 lety +52

    The best thing about this story is that you didn't give up and made an easy exit, you keep going, look for a better chances, made some changes in your life and now your happy with it. People going under severe depression or problems must see this video. One true inspirational story. Happy for you sir.

  • @randelltaganas7100
    @randelltaganas7100 Před 3 lety +18

    I'm looking at the beautiful background and thinking "that is used to be my backyard",what the hell am i doing here in Canada dealing with the freezing weather and struggling to pay with the astronomical apartment rent.This guy is very inspirational and convinced me even more to go back home to the Philippines.Liked and subscribed.

    • @johndeopaduaART
      @johndeopaduaART Před 3 lety +2

      My flight got canceled twice. Im also trying to go back to Philippines after a decade here in canada hahaha.

  • @justinh5076
    @justinh5076 Před 3 lety +65

    "Every day is a new life to the wise man". Never any reason to hurt yourself. Glad you found peace.

    • @fabricioemmanuelli1115
      @fabricioemmanuelli1115 Před 3 lety +4

      Amen to that!

    • @marionebayuga3577
      @marionebayuga3577 Před 3 lety +3

      Very true🙂

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes Im so glad he's alive today his lifereally does have purpose!
      Suicidal thoughts is worse to be I have been there too!!
      True happiness is from our higher power not from material things.
      I had everything and lost everything too.
      Prasie God for him!

  • @garysharp4606
    @garysharp4606 Před 3 lety +119

    H*** of a story mate, I've been to the Philippines many times and loved it. Glad you found happiness so enjoy it and cherish it

    • @erwincagampan5777
      @erwincagampan5777 Před 3 lety +10

      Thank you. Philippines is not for most foreigners but to those who like my homeland Thank you

  • @claudiacamama3623
    @claudiacamama3623 Před 3 lety +33

    Life is full of surprises, it’s also mysterious and we never question it, we just go with the flow. You are brave to embrace that change from US to the Philippines and I think that the reason why it’s working for you is because of your positive attitude. Good luck 👍🍀 and God bless you.

  • @ammoalamo6485
    @ammoalamo6485 Před 3 lety +41

    My neighbor is from Philippines, and after raising a daughter in the US she is returning there to be around extended family, and live cheaper.

    • @KlusterFux
      @KlusterFux Před 3 lety +6

      If she lives up north U S. She will probably want to get back where it's warm too.

  • @johnthompson2817
    @johnthompson2817 Před 3 lety +13

    Yes, I too watched for the entire 26 minutes... Glad He seems to be getting His Life back together... Very Informatative too...

  • @patriciamammarelli3911
    @patriciamammarelli3911 Před 3 lety +75

    You basically opened up your life story to us and I appreciate your humanity. Thank you. Praying you will not have any regrets moving to our country for you deserve a break .

  • @ron7202
    @ron7202 Před 3 lety +33

    By accident...that's how most of us end up visiting the Philippines. Now, it's tough to leave after a two week visit.

  • @Dude6311
    @Dude6311 Před 3 lety +36

    One hell of a story man, good on you for making tough but rewarding decisions. The Philippines is definitely a real nice place! Especially Cebu

  • @basilqaqish9480
    @basilqaqish9480 Před 3 lety +50

    Thank you for your honesty in talking about struggles of life. Good man

  • @donaldmacdonald4901
    @donaldmacdonald4901 Před 3 lety +40

    Great story Mark, thanks for uploading. I am here after living and working in the UK and Japan for years. Separation from my Japanese wife after 18 years but thanks to the good friends I met from the Philippines at work I was offered a job here. Can’t imagine going back to the UK or Japan now. I still love Japan but no work life balance.

  • @ina505
    @ina505 Před 3 lety +113

    My family is from the Philippines... we're in the USA living right now but we plan to go back and retire in our beloved country

    • @ddd7613
      @ddd7613 Před 3 lety +6

      Same...God's will in about 2 years.

    • @xy5393
      @xy5393 Před 3 lety +7

      CONGRATS on awakening as most westerners are so overfilled with EGO that they have best country LOL! The ELITE families laugh at sheeples!

    • @JasonNoto
      @JasonNoto Před 3 lety +2

      @@xy5393 said elite families have never really laughed in their demented lives. It will call for a miracle to heal their pyschopathic malaise

    • @nhklog674
      @nhklog674 Před 3 lety

      Bcoz of Phil flower 💐🤣🤣🤣

    • @sctpc
      @sctpc Před 3 lety

      Yes that is common use the west and you have no intention of being one you just take. yet No western can go to your country, disgusting.

  • @bigdogmack8692
    @bigdogmack8692 Před 3 lety +13

    Dude this is real life. Your story relates to millions of folks in these crazy times. Need you to contact me man

  • @froids14
    @froids14 Před 3 lety +9

    Hello.. liked hearing your story .. I mean I live in India and never thought I would listen to a random video of an American talking about his life ... But actually felt connected while listening to you .. All the best to you

  • @212Roger
    @212Roger Před 3 lety +118

    “Sorrow, Suffering, And Loneliness Are The Great Builders Of Character. Man Never Becomes Truly Great Until His Heart Is Broken.” -Manly Palmer Hall

  • @henryclay8462
    @henryclay8462 Před 3 lety +128

    This is one of the best "story times" I've heard on CZcams yet. Glad things are getting better for you. Hitting rock bottom, and bouncing back from the brink must really be a great feeling. I keep checking to see when the The Phil is going to open up again. I miss the people and the places there. So much better there than the media tends to show.

    • @carvercapitalequitypartner122
      @carvercapitalequitypartner122 Před 3 lety +7

      Probably a good thing that PI is not being overrun with hordes of expats based on rosy media reports.

    • @daydreamvlogs
      @daydreamvlogs Před 3 lety +5

      Henry probably in 2022 they saying that it will be by next year but we don't know yet if it's gonna work things are always change
      Regards from siquijor

    • @thinkpositive3667
      @thinkpositive3667 Před 3 lety +7

      *Actually, the only clue here is the vaccine. Once a working vaccine arrives, I'm 100% sure it will open up as soon as possible.*

    • @09175121139
      @09175121139 Před 3 lety +2

      Glad to know you were able to bounce back and move forward. You video is an inspiration to those who were down but realized that life has to go on and eventually become happy again.

  • @lwalt8448
    @lwalt8448 Před 3 lety +6

    My later life parallels your story almost exactly. Stress, couple of 90% blockages, loss of hope and purpose. Lots more to it than I’m writing of course. I’m 76 years old now, look like I’m 50 though, but after a while one wonders what’s the point. I’m considering moving, but as you know you can’t move away from yourself and the baggage one carries. Your story brought tears to my eyes hearing what you went through. If you can set a good example and make the world a better place, then you’ve made your life worthwhile in my opinion. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone by any means. I always have respect for older people because I know life hasn’t been easy for them either. Some lucky ones like you are honest and lay it out - I do the same. Thanks for your video. It helped me as well.

  • @maxhammertruth
    @maxhammertruth Před 3 lety +162

    I sold everything to come to Philippines and haven’t missed anything. I love it here!

    • @MOBAEsportsCentralMain
      @MOBAEsportsCentralMain Před 3 lety +1

      Injoy here

    • @sheilafaith4894
      @sheilafaith4894 Před 3 lety +5

      How much money does it take to get started and what does one do for shelter and work?

    • @carvercapitalequitypartner122
      @carvercapitalequitypartner122 Před 3 lety

      Freakin' awesome Max for giving inspiration to others.

    • @alfa2324
      @alfa2324 Před 3 lety +9

      I have sold everything in Australia and came to India with my husband and also don’t miss my old life.

    • @Medietos
      @Medietos Před 3 lety +2

      why do phillippinos move away from there? Poverty, boredom, illusions?

  • @ajandadonisvlogs4077
    @ajandadonisvlogs4077 Před 3 lety +19

    this is awesome. We are two filipino-americas who wants to move to the Philippines as well. Thank you for this tip

  • @jacobb702
    @jacobb702 Před 3 lety +16

    Your resilience is amazing! Very inspiring story indeed!! Im in the middle of a divorce with 3 young kids right now. And not in good terms with my ex. I felt helpless/hopeless many times already. Im finally starting to put everything together. I wish you good life in the Philippines.

  • @davidwbybee3450
    @davidwbybee3450 Před 3 lety +5

    Lived in Cebu in 1976 - 77. I love the people and after listening to your story I believe that you made a great choice. A wonderful place to live and work.

  • @elcyd220
    @elcyd220 Před 3 lety +16

    So glad you didn't harm yourself. Your story is inspirational.

  • @AlstonSD
    @AlstonSD Před 2 lety +8

    You’re a down to earth honest man who desires to help others! You’re a blessing Mark

  • @RJW27
    @RJW27 Před 3 lety +35

    Glad you found peace

  • @seancambeulful
    @seancambeulful Před 3 lety +35

    Your attitude is an inspiration. Thanks, i really needed it today.

  • @robertjames9547
    @robertjames9547 Před 3 lety +13

    In America you feel like a treadmill that will never end ,but i now realize by attaching yourself to people here is the biggest problem ( spouse and kids). You have to detach yourself from this to live a normal life , your rules your thoughts your speed.

  • @grahamw56
    @grahamw56 Před 3 lety +13

    I'm a Brit' living in Pangasinan. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm happy for you. Stay strong sir.

  • @krisb-travel
    @krisb-travel Před 3 lety +122

    been living in the philippines from 20 years old (was backpacking from the UK) until now, 35 years old. All the best to you.

    • @2007Club
      @2007Club Před 3 lety

      Tell how I can spend 15 yrs abroad

    • @remelebodo4724
      @remelebodo4724 Před 3 lety +2

      it depend upon d situation..our countryis really hospitable...even d old people...wr respect old

    • @frasejonco
      @frasejonco Před 3 lety

      What doing?

    • @fcrossface7875
      @fcrossface7875 Před 3 lety +1

      DO NOT BECOME A VICTIM LIKE THOSE 2 CANADIAN MEN THAT WERE BEHEADED...

    • @doc.christopherthompson324
      @doc.christopherthompson324 Před 3 lety +2

      @@fcrossface7875 . Didn't know, Muslims lived there. HA.HA.HA

  • @theyotu1970
    @theyotu1970 Před 3 lety +9

    Just came across your video here. I am married to a filipina woman from Ormoc for 11 years now. Im turning 50 and will retire to the Philippines when I turn 62. Happy that you found something good in the Philippines.

  • @life2shorty
    @life2shorty Před 3 lety +17

    I’m glad things got better for you. Enjoy your new life in the Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @jameswilson9019
    @jameswilson9019 Před 3 lety +27

    One thing I appreciate about videos like this man's is they are real people who most viewers can relate to. Unlike CNN, Fox, and NBC which has men and women who work there and most of us cannot relate to because they are fake.

    • @MarkBrigham
      @MarkBrigham Před 3 lety +3

      Especially Fox. I cannot relate to those traitors at all.

    • @LouRao
      @LouRao Před 3 lety

      @@MarkBrigham Awesome statement! So true.

    • @waliulislam5775
      @waliulislam5775 Před 3 lety +1

      Fantastic...

    • @MarkBrigham
      @MarkBrigham Před 3 lety

      @@ez2u1 Not buying the both-siderism here.

  • @ymoneify
    @ymoneify Před 3 lety +118

    I'm glad i moved to philippines, this county gave me second change to rebuild my life.love the people ,i love the atmosphere..

    • @troyw.5101
      @troyw.5101 Před 3 lety +1

      I would like to hear your story also. I left the US 2 years ago, but still need a new home. Might I pick the brains of a fellow expat?

    • @carvercapitalequitypartner122
      @carvercapitalequitypartner122 Před 3 lety

      Nice to hear.

    • @regorcabz3259
      @regorcabz3259 Před 3 lety +1

      I am filipino, when i was in Siquijor island, I said to myself I want to live here

    • @carvercapitalequitypartner122
      @carvercapitalequitypartner122 Před 3 lety

      @@regorcabz3259 - Pursuant to the legends, you would have trouble finding a filipina to move to the island with you. But I'm sure there are plenty of awesome ladies who live there already.

    • @enniswhalen2428
      @enniswhalen2428 Před 3 lety

      @ y m - Great place to be. Best Wishes !

  • @tjking1909
    @tjking1909 Před 3 lety +30

    Amen brother keep the faith. You’ve persevered.

  • @paulamarie43
    @paulamarie43 Před 3 lety +80

    I wish I had the strength to move. Recently become disabled. Still, wish. Nothing left here.

    • @touchsmith4630
      @touchsmith4630 Před 3 lety +18

      I want to encourage you to do it. I am waiting for my 63 birthday. I have no reason to stay here any more. I going take my small social security and I am going. Its better then staying and continue to not really live. give it a chance,

    • @bigskyguyatjuno
      @bigskyguyatjuno Před 3 lety +1

      Hey Paula, we might have an opportunity to run by you to consider. Email me mtservicedesk@yahoo.com

    • @paulamarie43
      @paulamarie43 Před 3 lety +3

      @@michaelwood5519 no I don’t have Covid and haven’t so...

    • @TheTruthlady
      @TheTruthlady Před 3 lety +1

      So am I disabled, soon to be 66 and I want so bad to leave also...my mom is 90 so I won't be leaving any time soon though

    • @TheTruthlady
      @TheTruthlady Před 3 lety

      @Lolita Robles ☝🏽 Absolutely!

  • @jocelynchoong7956
    @jocelynchoong7956 Před 3 lety +8

    Dear Mark, thank you so very much for your honesty, your ability to be so open about your struggles is very rare, and much appreciated. Your bravery, courage and honesty are extremely helpful to many who need to hear your story. Thank God you did not check out, so very glad you went to the Philippines instead! Your story is truly inspirational! Wishing you a new life that's filled with joy, peace, good health, laughter and love. Take good care, stay safe. Be happy and be well. Btw, no need to apologize for the ads, we don't mind the ads at all for as long as you get paid!! Sending our best wishes to you. God bless.

  • @rick7972
    @rick7972 Před 3 lety +17

    Wow, I'm glad that didn't happen, Mark. You're a good man, and you deserve to live a very happy life!!👍👍

  • @simonashworth2820
    @simonashworth2820 Před 3 lety +5

    Don’t know why youtube brought me here but Im glad it did. A great lesson in never giving up hope. Wishing you all the future happiness you deserve. 🙏🏻

  • @kabysummit5801
    @kabysummit5801 Před 3 lety +5

    So glad you chose not to end your life when in fact it was just beginning :) Now look at you! You are an absolute survivor and an inspiration to many.

  • @stevemorris3544
    @stevemorris3544 Před 3 lety +15

    Holly Cow Mark, sounds like life or no life could have turned on a moments notice. Glad you pulled out of the dive and now you are cruising in the Philippines and happier.

  • @kevinhunter2785
    @kevinhunter2785 Před 3 lety +12

    Another Superb Vlog Mark !!! Thanx again for telling your story ! I'm early retired at 52 = 2 1/2 years ago up on Luzon in Subic Bay = Love it ! Told Paul & Gio I'll fly there to meet in person

  • @christylynn451
    @christylynn451 Před 3 lety +13

    I’m so happy for you! It broke my heart to hear of your sadness before you moved. You are such a kind good man, I love seeing you living the dream life now with your lovely fiance’. Very inspirational story! You are great at storytelling too!

  • @bobbieschroder6231
    @bobbieschroder6231 Před 3 lety +11

    I've done extensive research since watching your video, comparing the Philippines to Thailand. To me, the Philippines scores higher on all counts, based on my personal preferences.
    I've now decided that I want to move to the Philippines, but not right away. I will definitely keep your information handy for future reference.
    Thank you for your invaluable contribution to those of us on CZcams. 🙂👍

  • @mercycalip8032
    @mercycalip8032 Před 3 lety +141

    I was touched on your story but remember that you only live once everybody had a problem in life it’s just how you handle . Just like me I was married for 30 yrs with my half Filipino- Japanese husband and have 3 sons and my 2 sons are mentally handicapped and suffering from depression my husband left us for another woman and no support at all but I still thank God that we are here in Japan because the government is supporting us in hospitalization of my 2 sons they are all free and we are working 4 hrs a day . I thought before that I cannot handle the situation I was depressed but my siblings advices me that it’s not the end of my life be thank to GOD THAT MY EX- HUSBAND HAD GONE IN MY LIFE AND I’M free from stress and live on my own with my 2 sons here in Japan but when I will retire I want to go home in my home country Philippines.
    Hope you have a happy life in my home country now with your partner. Wish you goodluck.

    • @gemmalynsedaso143
      @gemmalynsedaso143 Před 3 lety +7

      Wow mam so brave saludo, GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER AND YOUR FAMILY PO

    • @GreaterGood2024
      @GreaterGood2024 Před 3 lety +2

      So sorry to hear that you have two sons who are mentally handicapped.
      Were they born mentally handicapped or did they become mentally handicapped after the vaccinations?

    • @Sweetlyfe
      @Sweetlyfe Před 3 lety +2

      @@GreaterGood2024 mate it’s rude to ask questions like that, their medical history is theirs, I’m pretty sure you wouldn’t want your medical conditions to be plastered about the Internet. These young Men deserve their privacy, whether they have an intellectual disability or not.

  • @michaelt380
    @michaelt380 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for this video!! It sure reinforces what I’ve been thinking about. I am a truck driver now the past 5 years and going nowhere towards retirement ability in the USA. I’m 50 this year. I may be on disability soon with a bad back. I’m considering moving there to the Philippines in 2021. It would be so nice for a total change like this, I need it in a similar way you did. Again thank you for your video!!!

  • @olivialopegalake9304
    @olivialopegalake9304 Před 3 lety +53

    You will love it, Pilipinos are the most friendly people in the Universe, God bless you and stay safe.

    • @navajyotichetia3211
      @navajyotichetia3211 Před 3 lety

      Aha! tutor on how to make enemity with phillipinos

    • @navajyotichetia3211
      @navajyotichetia3211 Před 3 lety +1

      @Billy White Well didnt go home, but tried to bring Ireland home and jeopardised brexit and (tried to) stabbed bo jo on his back in his backstop plan and stopped him on his tracks. Sir, people are people - did "they" make aborigines out of the scotsmen - do you blame kilts for the audacity, how can the aborigines be empathised with in the light of this..., empathise with the scots and,.. well follow the song

    • @CanadaMath
      @CanadaMath Před 3 lety

      Love you Filipinas. I live here in the PH also now. SRRV.

    • @infiltr80r
      @infiltr80r Před 3 lety

      Unless you expect honesty and decency, then the real thug mentality comes out.

  • @petermathieson5692
    @petermathieson5692 Před 3 lety +6

    Touching story; the feeling of 'What's left, and why bother..." really resonates. Glad it's working out for you.

  • @clarkanthonyminoza4449
    @clarkanthonyminoza4449 Před 3 lety +23

    “The strong survive, but the courageous triumph.”
    ― Michael Scott, The Warlock
    I love to hear stories of success, of courage, of holding on no matter what, and your story can be inspiration to many. I wish you more luck, Sir, and may God bless you more. Celebrate life! ---- new subscriber here!

  • @arnief44
    @arnief44 Před 3 lety +45

    Welcome living in the Philippines🤙leave all worries behind as God always look after the unfortunates😍hang in there, you’ll be Ok👌

  • @4everu984
    @4everu984 Před 3 lety +12

    I went to Bali and I’m super excited to retire somewhere in Asia. I felt like a Queen!

  • @odyshopody9387
    @odyshopody9387 Před 3 lety +5

    I applaud you for your perseverance! I was really captivated by your story, life seemed to keep on kicking you in the gut but you never gave up. I'm glad things have turned around for you and your enjoying your new life in the Philippines. I'm half Filipino and know how beautiful the country and it's people are. Take care, wishing you all the best!

  • @marvinphillips1326
    @marvinphillips1326 Před 3 lety +18

    Every one I know here in the US can't believe my plans. Most are married. Have kids. I hear the lame excuses but I really think they're all scared. I know the cost of living is making it more difficult for people to live OR retire here. I think once they see what its really about some may have second thoughts. Nice video Mark.

  • @coradalida2375
    @coradalida2375 Před 3 lety +11

    I'm so glad to hear this kind of a story..Good luck guys..

  • @kathypersall5439
    @kathypersall5439 Před 3 lety +32

    Wow, can’t believe your so called partners! Not sure why I stumbled upon your video but I liked it a lot! Beautiful background!

  • @boblindner5808
    @boblindner5808 Před 3 lety +31

    Love the honesty, transparency and your story telling talent

  • @angelogumnad8206
    @angelogumnad8206 Před 3 lety +13

    You've really been through what we call the wheel of life. One day you're up on top, then you're at the bottom. The inner strength and courage that you have helped roll the wheel and you're on the way up again.
    Hope that my countrymen and your other friends here in the Philippines helps you get on an even keel again.
    Your story gives comfort and hope

  • @rolandogalvez6322
    @rolandogalvez6322 Před 3 lety +14

    Fantastic VIEW man ..you're one lucky senior ,nailed it again..

  • @pacoandellie
    @pacoandellie Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you for sharing your story. That takes a lot of courage to share. I'm so happy you're here!

  • @TrumanGN
    @TrumanGN Před 3 lety +28

    I feel your pain with your daughters. Experienced something similar.

    • @Medietos
      @Medietos Před 3 lety

      If they let it be sorted. Is there really anything to be sorted? we should get ourselves sorted, all the real world.

  • @arcs1016
    @arcs1016 Před 3 lety +17

    I feel your sincerity while you are telling your story. Welcome to Philippines start over again. You are in a land of many opportunities just try all your potentials.

  • @johnblack3497
    @johnblack3497 Před 3 lety +10

    I really enjoy your videos! Beautiful background too! I'm Subscribed! Keep up the great work!

  • @TAM-mj9lb
    @TAM-mj9lb Před 3 lety +6

    Your story resonates with me as I am in the same boat with my daughter and my life. I wish you all the strength and contentment in life - you deserve it after everything you have been through.

  • @kathygracevlog
    @kathygracevlog Před 3 lety +14

    You seem like a really good person. Have fun in the Philippines.

  • @jeanphillips8866
    @jeanphillips8866 Před 3 lety +15

    Great sound system Mark! I never get tired of watching your videos over and over! ❤️🙏✝️🇵🇭❤️🙏✝️🇵🇭❤️🙏✝️🤣

  • @edgardovillacorte7012
    @edgardovillacorte7012 Před 3 lety +100

    Your life story inspires me to go on with life.

    • @TheWestlandgirl
      @TheWestlandgirl Před 3 lety +5

      Plz at least try it Edgardo!

    • @mamao823
      @mamao823 Před 3 lety +11

      Jesus loves you, Edgardo! Remember the old song Footprints in the Sand? We’re never alone even in the darkest days of our lives, which is when He carries us! He’s just waiting for you to seek Him with all of your heart! Blessings to you, Edgardo!

    • @valerierogers9609
      @valerierogers9609 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too. His is a story of the human condition.

  • @BabelynMalate
    @BabelynMalate Před 3 lety +5

    This is so heartbreaking. So many sufferings and problems in life that we experience everyday. I am glad that you are sharing your story and hopes to give inspirations to others.

  • @hbryant1971
    @hbryant1971 Před 3 lety +53

    The background shot speaks enough as to why......

  • @jullx6k
    @jullx6k Před 3 lety +5

    Oh the background! Hope to have a place like that, with vegetable garden and fruit trees. 🥰🌴🌺

  • @driftwoodsmittyasia1286
    @driftwoodsmittyasia1286 Před 3 lety +18

    Thankyou brother for the soul touching heartfelt account of your life thus far ....my best wishes to you Mark, God Bless,....Smitty

    • @jeanaagudo7562
      @jeanaagudo7562 Před 3 lety

      Wow so Good Luck your new life in my Country Philipines Sir...Never Give up..God Blessed your new journey here.

  • @MrBriantennis
    @MrBriantennis Před 3 lety +5

    Mark incredible video! Thank you for sharing your story and for being so transparent! Much of what you said is very inspiring to me, particularly how you overcame so many tough obstacles in life. So glad it is working out for you there in the wonderful land of the Philippines. Can't wait to get there full time as well!!!

  • @kj3rd2657
    @kj3rd2657 Před 3 lety +6

    I did the same back in the 90's until I had a daughter and then we move back to Hawaii until now. I am planing to move back to the PI within two years from now Oct 2020

  • @lovelypinaysmile4048
    @lovelypinaysmile4048 Před 3 lety +14

    I feel you because i start in scratch as in zero,but life must go on and learn to live and survive in our 2 feets.

  • @lorenl9262
    @lorenl9262 Před 3 lety +33

    I am sorry for all of the "losses" that you have to endure in your life but it sounds like you have put things back to order.

  • @herbigp
    @herbigp Před 2 lety +1

    Great inspirational story! I am so happy I found your channel!! I plan to come when there are a few less restrictions with COVID.

  • @AidaJof
    @AidaJof Před 3 lety +17

    Oh, my - that was some story ... you were caught in a whirlwind and did not know how to get out. I was shocked that your so called friends would do something like that but they did and you are better off without them. You did the right thing which is if you do not like your life ... change it. Wishing you all the best!

  • @wayner1272
    @wayner1272 Před 3 lety +9

    I for one, am so glad that you survived and are still with us. you are a very interesting and down to earth guy, hope to meet you some day.

  • @elainemagto7985
    @elainemagto7985 Před 3 lety +3

    Hello Sir, I’m your new subscriber . Thanks for loving our country Philippines. Just keep smiling and be friendly to Filipinos they will give so much love in return. God bless! ❤️

  • @needparalegal
    @needparalegal Před 3 lety +9

    Yup, I was making a nice 6 figure salary as a patent attorney back in 2005. After the 2007 crash lawyers were never in much demand again.

  • @mkay1564
    @mkay1564 Před 3 lety +13

    I have no desire or need to move to the Philippines. Dunno why this caught my eye. But, I really was touched by what you shared. You hung in there and now things are good. I am feeling like I just read a really good short story. All the best.

  • @yolandaflores2664
    @yolandaflores2664 Před 3 lety +53

    you're on the rhe right country,even we're not a very rich country,people here are hospitable,happy even some of my fellowmen eat only twice s day,i'm proud to be a filipina,loving,caring

    • @adelinaobillo4389
      @adelinaobillo4389 Před 3 lety +7

      Yeah sa foreigners lang pero sa kapwa pinoy ewan lang mulat natin mga mata natin anong nangyayari sa mga majority kababayan natin hospitable ba tayo sa mga kababayan natin?

    • @allanlegaspino6290
      @allanlegaspino6290 Před 3 lety +1

      @binondoboy1 enriquez ...got it, one point!! 👍

    • @Hello-je7iv
      @Hello-je7iv Před 3 lety

      Racism is still in the Philippines

    • @arvi8843
      @arvi8843 Před 3 lety

      @@adelinaobillo4389 Grabe ka naman sa mga Pilipino. 🤣 Pilipino ako at marami ako na-encounter na Pilipino na hospitable sa pag-cocommute, travel, etc. Yung mga Pilipinong di hospitable, they are a special kind of snowflakes. 🤣 Wag ninyo naman sabihin na mga Pilipino hospitable lang sa foreigners because that is 100% fake news.

    • @adelinaobillo4389
      @adelinaobillo4389 Před 3 lety

      @@Hello-je7iv ngayon mo lang alam pag puti iniidolo pag itim ang kulay ginagawang kenkoy

  • @SoCalLAKid
    @SoCalLAKid Před 3 lety +20

    Your honesty is inspiring and uplifting to those who are down and out and can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. This story is more about your perseverance and less about the country you chose to start anew -albeit the Philippines is not a bad place because of the friendliness of its people. You sharing your life story gives strength to many around the world. I hope you are starting to enjoy life again. Thank you and take care.

  • @Lightningoddestablishment5566

    I have always wanted to do this . Having seen our system here. That’s very admirable what you have done ✅

  • @suezyneslavizc5669
    @suezyneslavizc5669 Před 3 lety +2

    Great courage! Thanks for sharing with us your life story. It's very inspirational for people that going through lots of struggles in life and family. May God bless you and your family.

  • @paullemiremusic3101
    @paullemiremusic3101 Před 3 lety +4

    I like how you made the decision to buy that one way ticket not knowing how life would turn out. You had nothing to lose and you just followed your gut. That's the definition of courage. Bravo. I could one day see myself selling my condo here in california and moving to the Phillipines. Pretty cool

  • @AussieinthePhilippines
    @AussieinthePhilippines Před 3 lety +10

    Im glad you are still with us mate...i know the pain...

  • @lambertguadez8826
    @lambertguadez8826 Před 3 lety +12

    Have good time in the Philippines wish you well and the Best..