Lol he only approached the cousin to make the other cousin jealous. You only se what’s good about him in the outside. Marriage is different when you’re living together and you don’t know him. I wouldn’t wanna damage my cousins relationship honestly. Lol we already know how shady men can be.
So true! My husband is hot and I didn’t know he had money but I knew he had a job. However, I would rather have an average guy with average income if he were kind and patient. What’s his character?
Maybe he approached the second girl to get her cousin jealous. A lot of guys even say if they can't get her, they'll go after other women she knows. Thats the most trifling behavior a guy can do off rip. Also, he asked for her hand in marriage twice and now he's trying to get her cousin, so he's trying to find anyway in. It might not be because of the family, it could just be an ego thing. You're both right though that this story needs more context, especially with regards to why he was rejected twice and his character.
I would advise her to not marry him. It seems like he really likes the cousin very much that he asked for her hand twice. His heart is already with the other lady so sis don’t waste time.
I know someone who was in a relationship for 15 years, got married and divorced the same day, then out of spite got with and married her first cousin. The first cousin was fully aware of the situation too and still accepted to marry him. Crazy lol.
Emmm. If you like the man, have gotten to know him, and he’s a good man and wants to marry you because of Allah, by all mean. He may have wanted your cousin because of certain qualities he’s seen in her and the family but she turned him down twice. He is allowed to move on. Islamically he can ask for your hand in marriage. Do it because you want him and know he wants you too. Your cousin might only want him back because she doesn’t have anyone still
Omg Masha’Allah! I’m kinda late on the CZcams side bc I usually listen to the podcast only while I do stuff around the house but wow you guys are in a new studio and “🎶 moving on up! 🎶” Allahuma Barik I’m so happy for you ladies. I’ve been making dua for you ladies’ success and I see you lot are flourishing 🥰
So every time your cousin is around your husband, or family functions etc.. you’ll be feeling insecure and jealous, thinking he wanted her first.. it’s better to say to the guy, if you want to marry her I think she will agree now and see what his his next actions are. Also I don’t think suspicion he’s interested in the cousin, they are probably all cousins and have to get married in the family lol he might not be aware of their closeness.
Hodo is right, after asking for her cousins hand in marriage why did he jump to her? OP should have explained the situation more better if she wanted advice 🤦🏻♀️.
I do not like that it seems like he is making the other cousin a second choice/rebound, however since their muslim why not fulfil the sunnah of polygamy by marrying both of them? Please do not attack me guys it is a win win solution, the girls just need to bare in mind that he will honestly only love one, but that does not mean he can slack on the one he does not love. He should live with them in a just manner, treat them kindly and they must all live honourably. Polygamy is not a bad idea, but people can be bad.
Lol he only approached the cousin to make the other cousin jealous. You only se what’s good about him in the outside. Marriage is different when you’re living together and you don’t know him. I wouldn’t wanna damage my cousins relationship honestly. Lol we already know how shady men can be.
So true! My husband is hot and I didn’t know he had money but I knew he had a job. However, I would rather have an average guy with average income if he were kind and patient. What’s his character?
That’s what I thought too it sound so suspicious
Maybe he approached the second girl to get her cousin jealous. A lot of guys even say if they can't get her, they'll go after other women she knows. Thats the most trifling behavior a guy can do off rip.
Also, he asked for her hand in marriage twice and now he's trying to get her cousin, so he's trying to find anyway in. It might not be because of the family, it could just be an ego thing.
You're both right though that this story needs more context, especially with regards to why he was rejected twice and his character.
I would advise her to not marry him. It seems like he really likes the cousin very much that he asked for her hand twice. His heart is already with the other lady so sis don’t waste time.
It comes down to dignity at the end of the day. Are you second choice? I think not. SO reject him and seal the family deal of rejections towards him
Lmboo seal the family deal of rejections 😂
I know someone who was in a relationship for 15 years, got married and divorced the same day, then out of spite got with and married her first cousin. The first cousin was fully aware of the situation too and still accepted to marry him. Crazy lol.
Are they still together
Nooo 😮😮😮 never be the second choice.
Don’t be a silly girl
I swear I love when they talk in somali it gets me every time they are too funny 😂😂😂
Me too I feel bad for those who don’t understand
I feel like the cousin only regrets it because the OP got a proposal. Op still should say no…but yeah…this whole situation is cray
The away this got away from you guys with all the scenarios 😂😂loved them all😅
New vid from you guys makes Getting up for work just a little easier 😢
That is life time of family drama.
Emmm. If you like the man, have gotten to know him, and he’s a good man and wants to marry you because of Allah, by all mean. He may have wanted your cousin because of certain qualities he’s seen in her and the family but she turned him down twice. He is allowed to move on. Islamically he can ask for your hand in marriage. Do it because you want him and know he wants you too. Your cousin might only want him back because she doesn’t have anyone still
This comment 🔥🔥🔥
Omg Masha’Allah! I’m kinda late on the CZcams side bc I usually listen to the podcast only while I do stuff around the house but wow you guys are in a new studio and “🎶 moving on up! 🎶” Allahuma Barik I’m so happy for you ladies. I’ve been making dua for you ladies’ success and I see you lot are flourishing 🥰
So every time your cousin is around your husband, or family functions etc.. you’ll be feeling insecure and jealous, thinking he wanted her first.. it’s better to say to the guy, if you want to marry her I think she will agree now and see what his his next actions are.
Also I don’t think suspicion he’s interested in the cousin, they are probably all cousins and have to get married in the family lol he might not be aware of their closeness.
Hodo is right, after asking for her cousins hand in marriage why did he jump to her? OP should have explained the situation more better if she wanted advice 🤦🏻♀️.
Clearly she’s a rebound , to either make the cousin jealous or upset
@@truemuslimah5135 True, I hope she also rejects this guy honestly
you guys are amazing Tabaraka al Rahman
But it’s so weird how he was rejected twice because he couldn’t get her now he is trying to get that’s sooooo weird
He has no shame
Sorry, ladies. I am 60, and I would still want passion and excitement in my life. I am not old by the way.
I wouldn't marry him, I would be worried about any affairs that could happen.
yeah people are so heartless and are cheater
Wallahi i love you girls😂😂
Same wllhy the Somali part kills me 😂😂
I do not like that it seems like he is making the other cousin a second choice/rebound, however since their muslim why not fulfil the sunnah of polygamy by marrying both of them? Please do not attack me guys it is a win win solution, the girls just need to bare in mind that he will honestly only love one, but that does not mean he can slack on the one he does not love. He should live with them in a just manner, treat them kindly and they must all live honourably. Polygamy is not a bad idea, but people can be bad.
I love ur woggy advices
Talk of the town All that
I laughed a bit too loud with this episode
The cousin only wants the man because he stopped wanting her
Halimoyii wanisalameee
Bro imagine is marrying her because he wants to make her jealous and smirk it in her face like itch u rejected me but I'm with ur cousin how u feel
brb im gon write a story based on this scenario only
😂😂