I DIVORCED A SEXUAL PREDATOR WHO PRAYS 5 TIMES A DAY | EP 20
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- čas přidán 28. 01. 2023
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TW: Non consensual content; Physical abuse; consuming child pornography
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The part that worries me that he's a teacher who is around children and he desperately wanted her to have child. I really pray he has been exposed and locked up.
He just wants to get married to father kids he can abuse. The way he was pressuring her to have a child which he can live of his disgusting heinous fantasies
Im not a muslim ( Christian) but I enjoy watching your videos and hearing the advice you give. Im sorry that the writer experienced these things..but....the minute she heard that he watched child porn she should've been out of there. A man who gets off on watching young children being sexually exploited should not be anyone's first let alone last choice for a mate. I don't think the writer has good self esteem and seems willing to compromise her own values for men under the assumption they're better then they actually are..
Exactly what I thought!!! I’d have him reported asap!
I haven't finished watching the video but I pray Allah azza wajjal protects us from such a man 🤲
Ameen
Ameen 🤲🏾
Ameen
I felt sick at the thought of him fathering a child and having access to a baby. Please please report these type men. You safe so many people and so many children.
I am so shocked by the amount of men who either pray 5 times a day or pose as religious and they're so abusive?! Do they not fear Allah? I genuinely cannot comprehend it! It's soo scary, I didn't 'date' for YEARS of my life, only started looking last year and at my big age I've never felt so naive and inexperienced with men. I went through a couple of experiences within the last year, most recently was couple months ago, and let me tell you within a matter of weeks I wisened up to SO much.... I've never ever experienced so much manipulation and emotional abuse ever in my life within a short space of time as well! I've never been through this before so I was surprised when I picked up on certain behaviours, when I addressed things to him I was using terminology that I didn't even know I knew! I really surprised myself and I'm quite proud of myself for not ignoring the traits I saw. I never understood the saying 'men are dogs' (not all men!! I see you real men out there!) but wallah after this experience, I've never experienced what I'm currently going through.
Girlllll literally same I choose not to respond anymore the ones that pose to be religious I’ve noticed are some of the worstttt
Just because someone professes to be religious does not mean they are.
I can understand her being a victim IF this came out after she was married to him. But she is not a victim if she knew he watched child porn before she married him. Yes I feel sympathy for everything else that happened but I am froathing at the mouth that this sister has knowledge pf his predatory nature and has not told anyone. He works with CHILDREN, has admitted that he watches child porn, has activity pointed out that he likes the attention from his female students and much more, has proven to her that he is capable of grooming and sexual assault (her own experiences with him). Yet she has not acted on any of it and has essentially allowed a predator to become involved with vulnerable children. Instead of reportiing him for what he is, this sister has walked away and left this problem with someone else to deal with, potentially a child. As a victim of childhood sexual assault, I can say that this sister is just as responsible as this brother if something happens to a young girl because of him. 😢😢😢
She should've reported him when she left , now is good time too .
The fact that she married him after discovering of his pedo interest and then saying nothing to the authorities knowing he poses risks to these kids and says nothing, no she is wrong for this.
@@averyj5446she's complicit in any abuse that happened after she found out
This broke my heart and make me feel suffocated just listening to it. I can't fathom what it must be like living with a man like this. I'm so glad alhamdulillah at least she had the freedom to divorce him and even though her mum dismissed the slap (horrible) they still sound like supportive parents that would back her when it really comes down to it. Sadly so many people don't have the freedom or support to get out early.
Lucky she escaped this marriage with no kids a lot of woman can’t escape I even know this sister is wanting to have love child with husband but can’t coz she’s married to someone she doesn’t love.
I was really sad listening to this story. It’s disgusting how there’s so many of these men, and those poor people who get involved with them
And she was a reporter right? I hope she puts him on the news or some shit
He told her he watches children and she felt sympathy?? I’m confused
Just to touch on the last comment a Muslim women cannot marry a kafir it’s haram even if she is married to him the nikah is invalid
Based on what she said, he is obviously converting first before they get married
Yeah but they shouldn’t be communicating at all. He’s not her mahram. Until he converts and approaches her father they shouldn’t speak. She should connct him someone at the masjid for questions. So what’s she’s doing is still wrong. 😢
Yes it's Zina
Alhamdulillah she left that guy. This shown that communication is key in establishing a relationship and action speaks loud than words. In our modern society, we fall down mentally due to peer pressure, comprising our values in order to please someone. Before we know, we end up committing sins and being used by them.
insha'Allah in her new relationship, she keeps her values to her heart, states what she wants and expects in a relationship before jumping into another relationship.
Bro it kept on getting worse
One last advise. Sister you started your first relationship/marriage in haram. Mixing with him and doing things that were not permissible. Don’t do that for your second marriage. This non Muslim guy you are with is just a fantasy. Close that off. He needs to establish his connection with Allah, enter Islam for Allah and be practicing for a bit. I have seen men enter Islam just to secure the girl then not follow through. Also now you speaking to him is not great. If he is meant to be your paths will collide don’t involve yourself with him now. Also people say whatever you want to hear to secure your most precious jewels
I doubt that this guy ACTUALLY prays 5x a day…
But do these ladies looking for a payday, do?
Subhannallah!
Some of the worst advice I’ve heard on CZcams 🥴
People are so sensitive these days. Realizing that you are the problem can be empowering and actually improve the quality of your life. The fact that we have now classified that as victim blaming is absurd. The guy is messed up for sure. The girl is even more messed up for getting involved with such a character.
The part at the end where she alludes to her new relationship being great is so sad. Like oh, the next chapter begins in your messy, messy life. Spoiler alert since you didn’t seek professional help last time, you’re probably attracting the same type of guy🫣.
Yeah ngl I watch these vids sometimes for the horrid advice .
Thank God they didnt have kids. Alhamdullilah
Omg 😢
Date??? So it was haram from the start.
Maşallah without makeup and proper hijab you look fantastic.
Without proper hijab???! Wtf have some manners and respect our Muslim women who wear the hijab properly. They wear it for Allah not for you!
0:01 men watch this channel as well or is it strictly just for ladies. 😂
Lucky she never gave in a had a child with him and lucky she divorced.I know of many woman who fall into the the trap of having kids when they didn’t want to so called husband wanted kids first night without knowing or sleeping with wife of arranged married she took pill but he found out n through the pill he manipulated her like a toxic narcissist n ruined her life he’s into oral and masturbation too has erectile dysfunction but he’s very arrogant ignorant egoist big headed person wife helped him through out his life but he made her sad and miserable
The guy is definitely trash, and may allah keep him away from young girls under his care as students.
I am truly sorry for what the sister went through, and I hope that other young Muslim girls can learn from her experience. Just because someone is praying the five prayers does not mean that he is following the commands of Allah as he should. You can know a lot about a person by how they treat other people and how they treat you. This guy showed his true colors, before they started their first date and it went downhill from the date.
I believe it is easy to say that oh he was praying all the five prayers and he is still awful so I will go for a relationship that allah would not be pleased about. may allah guid her and I hope that she find the right person for you
To be honest, I hate the women like her, she has no dignity, and she is very soon for something like that she allowed him to humiliate and humiliated her like this.
so you think sexual predators should be protected and women should be quiet and accept the abuse?
You have all of those trash words to say about a woman, yet you're silent on sexual abusers. Disgusting. Get out of here.
Stupid man..stupid
I understand your point Eman tbh there where many red flags! Why did she want to connect with him. Why didn’t she talk to her father or someone about him. Why didn’t the family see some red flags, why did you think it was ok to marry a man that gets off on child porn? Allahu Alam there is blame on her part as well as him. I’m sad what happened to her but sometimes Allah gives us warning but unfortunately we overlook. She seems like a people pleaser maybe an empath.
@@joydiallo4444 Why are you guys so adamant that this is the woman's fault for marrying him. This mentality is why so many Muslim women are reluctant to marry Muslim men - you all do nothing bile blame, blame and then blame.some.more. She didn't know he comsumed child porn until they were married. Was that her fault for not knowing? Was it also her fault that she felt the pressure from family and married him without taking the time to understand him? Oh right because it's HARAM for them to couple first. Do any of you even think first before even saying anything? What is the use of your 9 akal when you clearly are not using a single one of them?