the sad life of bella hadid
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- Think influencers have an easy life? Think again. This is the sad life of Bella Hadid. Download AURA here: bit.ly/3xgJHWy
Bella Hadid is the envy of women everywhere. Perfect body, perfect face, rich family, supermodel mother and sister, 54 million followers on Instagram, paid millions of dollars every year to look pretty... it seems like some people get all the luck huh! And it's so easy from the outside looking in to be jealous of these models and influencers and wish that your life was like theirs. But look into it a little bit deeper and you'll see that not everything is as it seems, and a lot of the time these people are really hurting inside, and their lives aren't actually perfect at all. From her nose job at 14 which she
now regrets, to getting arrested at 17, to suffering from debilitating depressive episodes, Bella's life isn't always sunshine and rainbows.
Lots of love to Bella and anyone else watching this who struggles with their happiness and mental health. No one's life is perfect, but that's just life, and we gotta make the most of it. xx
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Hi Steph ! I've been wanting to talk about it for a long time now,
HYPERPIGMENTATION IS REAL!!
Especially for people of colour. I've seen the most confident people around me getting conscious about it, when it's COMPLETELY hormonal and has nothing to do with how one takes care of themselves. Especially the society I'm currently a part of is very colourist and this makes it worse. Can you please maybe do like one of those videos and do your part in normalising it? So that atleast I can show it to people around me and point it out? I personally feel there's a lot out there about bodypositivity and how all shapes are equally beautiful, this is smth very less talked about.
Also my fellow viewers y'all can also copy paste this comment on her multiple vids so we can make it reach her.
Sending love 💕
👍👍👍👍👍👍 love so much
I’ve seen so many critical comments of her weight by her mom
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I love watching people who feel sorry for celebrities. It's honestly the saddest thing ever and it's sad because you are so desperate to find anything wrong with their life so you can relate to them but the truth is you can't.
Yeah, I don't feel sorry for millionaires with sob stories, we are all broken people. Some of us are just broken people with millions of dollars in the bank, boohooo,.
If I were her, I'd just take my millions and move to Iceland or something. Somewhere quiet. She's earned enough to never work a day in her life again. No one is forced to stay in the spotlight.
Physically forced, but mentally many are
Her mom is crazy
Right, but that’s a very self-centered way of looking at it. Not sure if you’re aware of her extensive work in activism and bringing awareness to the gross human rights violations happening to native Palestinians. She knows that if she leaves, no one will shed light on this reality the way and on the scale she does, and that’s a big part of the reason she stays on.
@@kanzudaanan4409 if she wants to be an athlete go for it, i can tell why her mother forced her AF.
Problem is, she really ain’t like that. She likes to listen to her mother
If Yolanda had no issue pushing Gigi into starving herself in national TV, I can’t imagine how she must’ve treated Bella.
@@emryborge7027 lmao telling you daughter to eat like 2 almonds when she’s telling you she’s dizzy because of the lack of food is encouraging starvation and therefore an eating disorder. Watch the whole clips instead of what you choose to see.
@@emryborge7027 Telling your kid not to eat a piece of cake that they clearly don't get to have very often is controlling full stop.
@@emryborge7027 there's a different episode where she talks about only eating a ridiculously small number of almonds when Gigi is hungry, like 2 or 3
@@emryborge7027 She actually told Gigi over and over again to stay thin, not eat this, not play volleyball I think because you get a "manly statue"... totally controlling behavior and totally pushing your child into an eating disorder. And who doesn't allow their children to eat their own birthday cake on their birthday????
@@emryborge7027 being that weird about eating cake AT A PARTY...a cake yolanda herself probably paid for...sure, it's not starving. it's just cake. so why is it such a big deal if gigi wants to eat it? it's literally got her picture on it. yolanda's acting like gigi's about to shoot up in front of her. if you think yolanda's behavior in that clip is anywhere near healthy or normal, that's fuckin dark
yolanda is the toxic one here. its sickening how she treats her daughters
Yes, it’s sad to see how her daughters worship her, when all she did was use them for her own ambitions.
Her mother is a models and she probably a better mom then the pickme you have. She taught her daughters to model. Bella self esteem is partially her mothers fault not entirely
She’s so awful to them. She acts like they’re going to (god forbid) gain a few lbs if they have a slice of cake.
@@luxbeauty4952 my mom taught me to be a strong independent woman who places more emphasis on what is in my brain and living a life that contributes something positive to this world...at least i wasnt raised to be a hateful pos like youre being...
I hope they eat french fries, pizza, ice cream, and gobs of cake when Yolanda isn't around. You should teach your kids to eat healthy, not starve them.
I don’t understand why Yolanda had kids with a man that she thought was ugly like she didn’t know the genes are 50/50 or there’s a chance that they might favor the dad. Also, I feel like it’s child abuse to have a 14 year having major nose surgery.
This is why
🤑
@@labornurse You're not wrong
why are you all blaming Yolanda and not the dad???
@@minaceroni4586 Because they divorced when Bella was 4, and why would the dad want her to change how she looks when she favors him?
So are you saying ugly people shouldn't have kids?
I used to cry like that when I HATED the job I NEEDED to have. The anxiety was horrible until I quit. Bella needs to take her $$ and RUN. Mental & emotional stability feels better than skinny.
Skinny isn't bad but I get u, cuz I am skinny I really want to gain weight
@@annastasia248 Skinny is bad for those that it's not natural for. I don't even like that sentence I just wrote. There's no good or bad, just healthy or not healthy 😉
That’s exactly the place I am in right now. It’s horrible and I have tons of empathy for anyone going through this. It takes a lot to be strong and “stay grateful”. I can only imagine the anxiety and pressure being where she is…More money more responsibility. It must be hard to handle with 0 healthy support system like her mom
@@annastasia248 I should clarify. Idk if you remember what supermodel, Kate Moss, once said. "Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels." Models are pressured to live by this senseless phrase. Bella deserves better. It's a shame she lives in pain.
@@magiquealley I wish you nothing but the best. Keep in mind that your situation is temporary 💯 You'll survive and then thrive.
It's very sad to hear that Bella would be happier if she became a professional horse rider. A modeling career alone cannot make you happy. Going the wrong way (way of soul) is what's really heartbreaking. I hope she'll be fine((
She didnt want to be a jockey, she wanted to be a professional horse rider. Jockeys aren't in the Olympics, which she wanted to compete at
@@nezamariannek6319 Thanks! Edited))
@@nezamariannek6319 if she wants to be an athlete why modelling? If you want to be an athlete go for it, make your dreams come true, don't listen to the others.
@@visualbeauty3427 i don't know, and we don't know, what reasons she had, probably included pressure from her mother.. but we don't know what goes on behind the curtains..
@@visualbeauty3427 honestly it's easier said than done. Bella and Gigi have been conditioned by their mother from an early age. If you've seen some of their history Yolanda their mother is very much a narcissistic, manipulative and only cares about image kind of person. She has destroyed their confidence and the only way they can be accepted to society is to be "skinny" and be a model. There's a lot of mental health issues that's in this story, it's a lot more complicated than just following ones dream if you've been denied it since birth.
Often times I’ve envied others only to realize they have issues I’ve never had to deal with. We must be careful about what we assume of others. Our preconceived notions of someone can be completely incorrect
exactly, well said.
couldn't agree more.
at the end of the day, she has millions in her bank. she lives a lavish life, and that’s way more than 99% of the population will ever get. she should be grateful for what she has.
@@ihateallyall she is. She spreads awareness with on serious to her fans and she's really humble and she never denied her privilege.
Wise words. That’s true. 👏👏
Ugh, I hate that she didn't think she was naturally beautiful. Her original face was so stunning. Though I can imagine how it would feel to constantly have people telling you you're not good enough. I have Roman ancestry and my nose is shaped kinda like hers was originally. It took me a long time to be happy with it.
Lots of us go through that everyday
she was also under the pressure of having a "prettier sister", and it's something i personally struggle with, the pain that comes with everyone complimenting your prettier sibling for their looks is just.. crushing.
Stunning? Ehh, not a face for modeling...
@@jsully8076 What are you trying to say? she was and is stunning, and she could have been a model. I just don't understand why people make that kind of comments, what are you trying to achive?
I love that kind of nose. It's so attractive!
Her dad Mohamed is fantastic. He’s always posting her and Gigi, as well as his other children and telling them how beautiful they all are and how proud he is of them. The reason they are as nice as they are is because of their father. Yolanda is evil.
Yes I love how he’s always posting all his kids and is always complimenting the others too not just Gigi !
@bimbo WAIT WHAR
@bimbo WAIT WHAT..
@@--scarlett4632 WJAT DID THEY SAY
It is WILD that Bella could have ever been described as the “ugly” sister. If you naturally have light colored eyes against dark hair and olive skin, you automatically won the genetics lottery.
no need to make others feel insecure though
Bella is a blonde though. She dyes her hair dark to differentiate from Gigi
Out of context but thanks for saying this! I have that same exact combo but I don’t think I’m pretty. Reading this made me feel better about myself💜
@@mkelly534 no she’s not blonde lmao her natural hair is brown
@@TaeTae-yq3ef She absolutely was born blonde and started dying her hair. This is not a secret. She has talked about it many times. Just google her childhood pics. She was blonde
How sad that she wanted to ride horses n Gigi wanted to play netball n study criminology! Yet that mother pushed them both into her dream!! Surely as a mother, you should want your kids to follow their dreams, not yours! SMDH
I hope they tell her to get effed, eat what they want and love themselves and best of all study and do what they really want and get out of that/those toxic industry!
and not to mention she's also destroyed her own daughter little family 😭😭 this is so heartbreaking on another level
@@aegle9192 agree
@@aegle9192 And there are people that doubt that she played a hand in it even when she's already on camera being controlling af.
@@MotherofWeePigs I hope so too!
It's not a "Eurocentric" nose. It's an unnatural, overdone trend of a nose. No one is going to have it or want it in 5-10 years. It's not a nose that genetics create unless there's a problem.
I'd say that Bella probably got way worse treatment than GiGi. Because she's the "ugly" sister so she has to work twice as hard to be a fraction as pretty. I'm the ugly sister, I've experienced this sort of thing.
Ugly sisters unite! I'm the ugly cousin too 🤣
It is eurocentric. Stop erasing the racism ingrained in society
Yeah I’ve always thought this comment was strange. Her “before” nose is incredibly common among Europeans, her after nose is rare regardless of background. I just get annoyed when everyone calls anything other than a small, upturned pixie like nose “ethnic” when statistically it’s not true
Lol same 😂
Eurocentric.. as if Europe was one nation and one culture. Especially in the southern und eastern countries in Europe you will find so many different shapes of noses.
This button type of nose or the pixie (?) nose are more Caucasian nose types, I think
I've read many times that she's actually really sweet and kind!!! Very well mannered and always helps/consoles other models that are not treated as well as her!!! I've always liked her, I've always thought that she went through (still is, I think) so much pain to overcome her insecurities that's why she had so much plastic surgery and obviously starves herself to achieve an impeccable image in the fashion industry!!! Growing up with a very controlling/emotionally and physically abusive mother, also feeling that Gigi was the beautiful one between the two of them, clearly made Bella what she is today!!! 😔 💔
I know someone who works with her and her sister personally as a makeup artist and she says the two of them are some of the kindest and most polite celebrities she has ever met and she works with a lot of celebs. She’s a a celebrity makeup artist.
I've heard she had an adduction problem....and to the worst one , heroin. Hanging out with zayn can't have helped. I hope she gets rehab as it is the worst thing to quit apparently.
@@oldwelshlady6584 meth is worse than heroin addiction. Anyway, dont judge people. Drug addiction is an extremely common mental illness.
Yes she’s always come across as genuinely kind and pretty self aware to me??!
@@stephaniemoore8013 what? Heroin is a lot harder to come off of and you are more likely to overdose on heroin.
Sitting here quietly fuming that being the brunette is apparently “ugly”. What kind of society is this? FFS.
Right,
Just imagine how many pple have brown hair in the world 👀👀👀
she is lying because bella is not brunette she has blond hair but dies it brown to look a certain way
@@mnarsh750 I m pretty sure she is brunette, but she dyes it darker for sure.
It’s really sad because brunettes are only considered non POC people. It further divides people. I hate that we have to have boxes that separates us. I really love everyone. Everyone deserves love
@@LIFESTYLE-ho5vd she is not brunette she was blond when she was a child and whe she grew up it turned dirty blond pretty much like her sister who does highlights to make it lighter. The thing with dark blond hair is that it appears dark most of the times only in daylight it appears blond
I have read that Bella Hadid had 100,000 $ of plastic surgery to get the perfect face. Imagine how she feels that she thought she needed all that to make it big in modeling while her sister made it without surgery.
Yeah well, Bella was the one made to feel like the "boring" and "ugly" one, Gigi was celebrated by her mom. So, not really fair to compare them like this. And MAYBE without surgery, possibly hooded eyelid surgery though as Stephanie discussed in a 2021 video as well as her teeth fixed, but I definitely think Gigi had some cheekbone, jaw and lipfiller.
thanks to mommy
This will sound terrible but I’ve always gravitated towards Bella more than Gigi. I just think bella is so beautiful idk (Gigi is obviously gorgeous aswell.. idk how to explain this lol)
@@emmaspencer1540 I think the same way. Years ago I just knew them through news outlets online, I didn’t know any of their history about their mom or any surgeries. Naturally gravitated towards Bella as I thought she was (and is) beautiful. Gigi looks unique in her features but I always sensed Bella had a more sensitive side inside her. Maybe it’s more relatable to the average person. So I get what you mean!
@@Facetimecat yes I think that’s it exactly! I’m glad others can relate, only you articulated it better
What really stuck with me is her determination of being the most hardworking model. She said that she could never be the most beautiful out of all of them but she could always be the most hardworking - always on time, ready to do whatever is needed for the job. That’s honestly one of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever heard. I’m sorry that she has to go through so much pain and I hope she realizes that it’s not her fault she got a nose job at 14. Her parents should have done something to at least help her see the bad side to it. When you’re 14, you don’t get to make life-changing decisions just like that.
That sounds like she is just saying what Gisele is known for
Bella has always a deep sadness in her eyes even if she smiles. I think deep inside she is empty. I hope one day she will find something that fill her heart.
Yolanda’s comments about the “All American girl” and not looking for Bella as well as praising Gigi’s looks…idk the correct word specifically to describe this is it colorism? racism? Eurocentric beauty standards? Idk but it’s definitely weird and shows how Yolanda views “non-white” features. Also adding to that the comment she made about “Chinese eyes” towards Gigi
She is just a narcissist trying to push her golden child into stardom: what better than identifying her as the perfect poster girl for “all American girl”?
Right? Also, real american is the indigenous people of America like myself.
why did she agree to have children with a middle eastern man in the first place?! You can't be that dumb and naive to think, your children would be only "european" and not have any middle eastern features.
Same i sensed some underlying racism when it comes to Yolanda
@@chihuahuakween2085 technically no because America didn't exist and if your indigenous to this land as you say then youd know they migrated from asia
Her cycle is so toxic. She’s posting crying photos saying social media is fake then posted perfect photoshop photos. This is what’s happening right now; people realizing that social media is fake and depressing but still participated in it’s shallowness
I have a very hard time feeling bad for her because she does seem like an incredibly toxic person. Of course she doesn't deserve to suffer but I don't think she needs my sympathy.
That’s because it’s an addiction or if you’re famous, you’re a brand you have to upkeep :((
given her mom, like any abusive relationship, it's probably hard to. you guys on your "high horses" thinking your better because you're not in that situation. well, if you ever end up like that, i only hope you have support. this isn't the cool take you think it is. people are still people
yolanda made her own child insecure and now Bella has to suffer the consequences
I don’t think her sister has had any surgeries, so she’s probably embarrassed to admit all the surgeries it took to be considered beautiful by her or her family’s or the modeling industry’s standards. In the shallow world she grew up in especially, why would she want to admit that?
yeah i wouldn’t either. i totally get it.
i think she's definitely had something done lately... she has a moon face now
I want to hug Bella. I've criticized her nose for its unnatural appearance, but it's not her fault. It is an abuse that her parents allowed her to irreversibly modify her body at an age when we are all learning to deal with our appearance.
I do too. Poor sweetie.
:,)
She had two nose jobs. So maybe one was actually at 14, but she did a more drastic one later on... don't be fooled by what a celebrity says on a magazine that's only allowed to ask very specific questions... looking at all the photos on this video, it's so freaking obvious she had one (or two as I believe nose job.s) but also a very APPARENT cat eye surgery or eye lift, and something done to her upper lip... her eyeshape changed completely (as her eyelid). It's not because she admits for ONE thing that all the rest is fake rumours... she's only admitting to one so people will leave her alone.
@@breakdiinternet7186 “I had one nose job when I was 14” we aren’t blind Isabella.
I just want to know why it seems so drastic. She’s beautiful, they kind of over-did her nose it seems like.
Honestly I think Bella’s original face looks like it would have aged beautifully into her late 20s and 30s. I would be so curious to see how she would look if she hadn’t gone under the knife.
Late 20s is still SO YOUNG, GTFO WITH TELLING PEOPLE THAT THEY ARE OLD IN THEIR LATE 20S OR 30S!
@@thedailywisdom1851 sorry I never said or intended to imply that late 20s or 30s is old, I definitely don’t think that is old. Even 40 or 50 is not old in my opinion. I just meant to say that peoples faces change from their teens to their 20s and 30s. Sometimes people will lose some fat in their face making their features look more defined and I think this would have happened with Bella. I used the word “aged” because as time passes everyone ages, but it does not necessarily mean they become old, that depends on the amount of time that has passed.
Exactly…to me her natural nose was her best feature!
I agree, she would have been stunning as is
@@WatermelonThief I appreciate your explanation!!
She is still more privelleged and blessed than most. I know people personally who live in a make shift tarpoline house here in Fiji. Bella and her upper class beauties have it alot easier than most people i know.
Doesn't take away from things she has been through, its just that most people i know fight everyday to even get a meal on the table for their kids.
Very well said
Yolanda should have never had children. This is not how a good mother acts. I am so sorry for her children.
When your mother is a narcissist, it takes so much distance and work as an adult to heal yourself and not have this internal dialogue where you are never good enough. Rich or not, not being loved by your own mother is a hurt that never goes away.
her mom is def a narcissist you nailed it
When I'm crying and feel awful, I can always rely on my parents to help me feel better. Yolanda is terribly insecure and has been projecting that on her daughters for a loooong time. Very sad. Gigi appears to be settled, so I hope Bella finds happiness and peace someday too
Gigi is also affected by her mom
I’ve always gotten a sad vibe from Bella. Her Mom reminds me of mine- picking favorites and using looks as the marker of worth.
Her mother was so crazy:/
Omg yes, especially with diets
*is (from what the public can see)
This is the price of fame and perfection. They can have it! It seems like a miserable life.
Its not perfection if you're miserable.
@@gwcstudio perfection doesn't exist.
Poverty ain't cute either
@@ilovetyraandnaomi I agree.
You know what's funny, you and everyone else would choose her life, over being broke, poor and "ugly".
I mean how did she think that she was going to actually lie about her nose job when it's so obvious, and people would believe it. I just wish all these celebs would just be honest so all the young girls growing up and thinking there just ugly instead of knowing that's there idols all have plastic surgery. I honestly feel for those girls because there mother scares me.
its because of people like you who would constantly judge her for having p.s, making it harder for her to say it.i don't believe she's happy about the fact she lied but insecurity can have a toll on you especially when you have an all perfect sister your always being compared too
@@aviannaislaclara3774 if you can't handle the real world and honest opinions then don't get on the internet. And if my comment was considered mean in any way then I suggest you never actually look at hate comments because mine was I. Support of her because of her crazy mom. I'm just tired of celebs selling beauty products saying they don't have any work done etc. Jesus the point flew right over your small brain
@@aviannaislaclara3774 you don’t actually have any insight into OP’s views on ‘p.s’. You ought not to assume someone is judgemental…that in itself is judgemental 🥴
I say get surgery if you want. But I absolutely hate lies. And to say this is having an effect on how young girls see themselves is to just state a truth.
I don't know where this "Europeans have small, thin noses" thing comes from. I'm 100% European and I have a big fat nose 🤣
right? actually african and asian women have the smallest noses. differently shaped yeah, but europeans usually have prominent, angular noses.
Phenotypes, you learn about it in school
Italian??
same my nose is damn prominent and long and pointy and im eurocentric lmao
Not necessarily that they all have it, but that’s the standard
I was anorexic as a teenager and as a mom, I would rather duct tape my mouth versus putting my old ideas on my kids. I feel sorry for their plight and battle and applaud how brave they are.
It’s so sad, but unfortunately I think so many of the people we look up to as “goals” are suffering incredibly from insecurity and mental health issues related to self esteem. I wish we could get away from seeing appearance and value as intertwined… yet at the same time I’m currently trying to lose weight because I want to feel attractive for my upcoming birthday… so even being aware of the problem I still fall into the trap!!
I relate to the 'controlling the food, because that is the only thing you can control in your life'.
And it is horrible to get out of. It can become so ingrained in your mind, that even when you know it is wrong, you can't stop.
tysm Stephanie for normalizing regular life and bodies for teenage girls!! Ilysm 💕
True, but she looks like Bella at the same time 🙂
I wish Bella had maybe been around her older sisters more and learned to love herself more and be around positive people who look like she does naturally. I think if there'd been more of that then she wouldn't have felt the need to change herself to fit her mom and society's view of beauty. Because she's beautiful just as she was
All of her face is different. Her eyes, cheeks, nose, chin are all different. I remember her on the Real Housewives of BH before the modeling started telling her mom she wasn’t as attractive as Gigi. This was when Gigi was starting modeling. I don’t believe she had had all of the facial surgery at that point.
I love these videos 💖 and I do feel for Bella, however the vast majority of people aren’t as privileged as she was growing up. Many of us don’t have the luxury of living like her, neither do we have the same opportunities. Many of us are insecure and dislike way we look but we can’t afford to change anything and we are limited in terms of opportunities and financial freedom. This is a bit off topic but she is very lucky x
Financial freedom certainly is nice to have, but having loving and supportive parents is priceless, and that seems to be something that she was (at least partially) lacking growing up.
Just saying, as someone whose family struggled financially growing up but had parents that never made me feel less-than, I don't envy Bella Hadid.
I have ME, which is similar to Lymes disease in symptoms and I would say having good health is a huge privilege that most people don't think about. She might be able to change the way she looks but she hasn't been able to change the endless debilitating symptoms she suffers with.
Sometimes it's worse to be able to afford all that because it makes you spiral down. If you can't afford it, you're forced to accept it and you end up living a more fulfilling life.
every one is trying to be a model. And with that, every one is trying to stand out, which puts even more pressure on each person individually. I really hope she can go back to horse riding one day. I seriously feel for her
I also think she had one of the Mediterranean beauty traits. She resamble a kind of Sophia Loren to me.
We are all different, it looks like everybody has to be equal, like clones.
The worst part is that she regrets that, I'm so sorry for her, she'll be better when she will put some limits to her mum I guess.
I think she's Dutch (northern europe) and Arab (Arab peninsula), not Mediterranean. But I agree that there's beauty in difference.
@@alexanderk.6869 she is Palestinian so Mediterranean not Arab pansiwella like you said
Hi Steph ! I've been wanting to talk about it for a long time now,
HYPERPIGMENTATION IS REAL!!
Especially for people of colour. I've seen the most confident people around me getting conscious about it, when it's COMPLETELY hormonal and has nothing to do with how one takes care of themselves. Especially the society I'm currently a part of is very colourist and this makes it worse. Can you please maybe do like one of those videos and do your part in normalising it? So that atleast I can show it to people around me and point it out? I personally feel there's a lot out there about bodypositivity and how all shapes are equally beautiful, this is smth very less talked about.
Also my fellow viewers y'all can also copy paste this comment on her multiple vids so we can make it reach her.
Sending love 💕
Yes I would love a video about hyperpigmentation!
Yes please!
Yes please!!!!!
@E. B. I'm suffering with the exact thing. Being brown its very very common for people like me yet people are often shamed for it and therefore I sometimes don't feel secure wearing the clothes of my choice.
This. I have it too around my eyes no matter what I do. I’ve tried to lighten it but I can’t. And on my inner thighs as well. Always felt bad about it, makes me hate having no makeup on.
Biggest reason I refuse to go into the performance/modeling industry. The girls who go in are always so mistreated, abused, and their mental health is always in shambles from the expectations. No matter how rich you are, no matter how ‘protected’ you are, no matter how glamorous your life seems, it does not change the impact the industry has on the people who work within it. Being rich does not stop you from being depressed. Being rich does not stop you from having anxiety. Being rich does not stop you from having trauma.
I just want to say I love you Stephanie you are such an encouragement you are helping so many young women with their self-esteem as well as myself I'm not so young anymore but it seems my insecurities have never really gone away but your videos help me feel so much better and just plain happy to be a woman...
so thanks again you're absolutely lovely not to mention gorgeous!!
Stephanie, thank you for posting videos so often. you literally make me feel so much better and most importantly, normal about myself
We do tend to appreciate the outer beauty but what really makes you beautiful is inner beauty. I appreciate my family for giving me such a beautiful and unique face.
I once wrote this also on Twitter but I’m gonna repeat myself: Levantine features of Bella’s family have NEVER been ugly. I liked her before the cosmetic procedures. She was different and in a good way!
Meaning no offense, I love Levantine features too, but isn't her father Arab, i.e. the features are ultimately from the Arab peninsula, not the levant? Arab features are beautiful as well and I hate when people feel they have to change them.
@@alexanderk.6869 her dad is Palestinian, so he probably is both. I agree tho, Arab women are beautiful! She took a dna test a few years ago and she got: Levantine-Cyprus, Middle Eastern and southern Italian (along with north Western Europe from her mom). Pretty common in that area!
@@alexanderk.6869Palestine is in the Levant region. I know this is an old comment, but just wanted to make this small correction 😊
I saw a clip of their mom telling Gigi she can’t have any of her own birthday cake on her birthday 🥺 just imagine what happens behind closed doors
Yolanda emotionally abused those girls. I hope they can heal.
I always felt sorry for her because she dated The Weeknd. That in itself must have been a nightmare. But that clip of Gigi’s graduation party made me sick. If she treated Gigi like that, I can only imagine how awful she must have been towards Bella.
Nightmare how? I’m not too familiar with the weeknd
@@IlikepurpleXP judging by their on again off again relationship; and honestly, how he describes himself in his own music. He’s incredibly toxic- unfaithful, manipulative, and dishonest
I mean … i’d rather be sad in lamborgini and 85m$ mansion than to be sad and broke🤷🏻♀️
Gurl sit tf down..that's literally so insensitive of u
She may not understand what it is to grow up like we did... but we also don’t know what it is to grow up as she did. If you’ve never been sad in a Lamborghini then you have no idea if you would rather. Sometimes a bigger house just makes you even more lonely. I think we all face our own struggles and I don’t judge
That's what it seems like. But what do these things actually change? If you're feeling like shit, mentally broken etc., I don't think it matters what car or house you have. Those things don't change any of your internal problems. ESPECIALLY if you grew up like that and don't know any different. Those things are nothing special for you then
....the hell is the point of having tons of shit that doesn't do anything to alter your mentality for the better?
Lemme guess: garnering the attention from other's is the "remedy" from feeling like shit all the time.
Lmao....this kind of mentality is a major part of the equation as to why we have such an empty, suicidal, masochistic, obsessively vain, self-centered population addicted to celebrity worship.
I grew up extremely wealthy. We had maids, cooks, chauffeurs, and guards. We ran in some high society circles and lived overseas for most of my childhood. I had every material thing I could ask for including a horse that I loved dearly. From the outside looking in, it looked like I had everything a girl could ever want and my life was golden. Let me tell u what the inside was - my father was an abusive alcoholic. He beat my mom and us kids. He also raped me for 8 yrs of my childhood. If I wanted to ride my horse or even feed and water him, I had to “perform” for my father. If I didn’t, my horse went unfed, unwatered, and unexercised. I performed bc I loved my horse. I performed bc I didn’t want him to kill my mother which he threatened to do regularly. I also tried to commit suicide 3x in my late 20’s until I got therapy which literally saved my life. Being sad in a mansion and a Lamborghini isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Pls don’t wish for that and pls don’t joke about that. U have no idea what it can really be like.
Honestly, I just wish she would 100% cone clean about her surgeries instead of claiming she just “grew up”. Like gurl🙄. I also don’t believe she regrets any of them tbh.
Steph you are phenomenal for putting out these videos. Truly, they are justice and you are championing women everywhere.
The nose subject hits home to me. I have a big round nose like my indigenous great grandmothers. I spent many years of my life hating my nose. I went to a doctor to get evaluated and see what could be done to my nose but after that I just started hating it more. I started seeing more and more people that had nose jobs and they all looked the same to me. Eventually I just grew out of that and decided to get my septum pierced and accept me for who I am. My nose is like this because of my ancestors and I could never change that.
Wow, this changed my whole perspective on her. I can definitely relate to her struggles. The crying spells and anxiety. Her posting those pics hits hard, because often I go through the same. Even with all the money and beauty we all experience similar difficulties in life.
Steph, I’ve been a follower for many years now. Thank you doing these videos! I’m in my early 40’s and would hate to be growing up in these times of obsessive social media influence. Girls/young women need to see the other side. You’re a beautiful soul 🙌🏻
I'm early 30s. Even when I was a teenager, it wasn't this bad. It was pretty bad, but the badness was limited. Now it seems unlimited.
I’m 26… I was introduced to MySpace at 12 and Instagram at 16/17. Social media was not good for my esteem. That’s an understatement too. I deleted Instagram my sophomore year of college because I just couldn’t let it rule how I felt about myself anymore. I STILL get sad if I lose a friend on Fb… I know, pathetic because Fb isn’t a real place but social media does that to you
Amazing video Stephanie. I would just like to add one thing. It is clearly parental abuse when a child at 14 yo has a rhinoplasty. Her mother is behind this. She made her feel bad for herself and have a cosmetic surgery at 14yo. In which universe is this normal!
Reminds me of krusty jenner and her kids.
I don’t get it , why in the west it’s ok to change a kid sex by surgery because he likes Barbie but have a nose plastic surgery?
@@pinkblossom1516 Well it is also abuse if you change your child’s kid sex with a surgery just because they like Barbie. What you are confusing is assisting transgender kids (which are not defined by liking barbie’s) to use puberty blockers (which is not surgery). Surgical gender reassignment at 14 to is not something that is done. Also, gender dysphoria is a diagnosable medical condition, not a “liking barbies” thing, and not a “I hate my nose” thing. If a 14 yo genuinely from their heart hates their nose, they can wait till they are 18yo and have a surgery to fix it. It won’t hurt them, on the contrary it will make it better for them, cause their face has reached their final proportions. Whereas, in the case of transgender kids, not administering puberty blockers in time, it will cause more agony and need for more surgeries later on.
@@BioBioLove then it should be legal to children to have surgery plastic or not
@@pinkblossom1516 puberty blockers is not surgery. And cosmetic surgery in minors is legal with parental approval btw. If you cannot see the difference between persuading your 14yo daughter that her nose is so bad that she needs to do an excruciating surgery to alter it, and supporting your trans son, who really wants to not go through female puberty, into taking hormone puberty blockers, then I do not know what to tell you. The one case you manipulate your child into a surgery that is permanent and super painful, the other supports what your child independently wants and is reversible upon stopping the hormones. Unless you think people brainwash their kids into being trans in which case please check your tinfoil hat it has a leak 😉
If she wants to change things, she has the resources. She could get a ton of therapy, go to a retreat in the middle of nowhere and find peace. She doesn't want to
Yeah she craves the attention.
I think part of her struggle is needing and wanting validation and she can fulfill that through the fame and attention modeling gives her, even though it doesn’t TRULY make her happy. Hopefully one day she will seek therapy and it will guide her in a healthier direction and she can come to terms with this.
Bad mental health could make you never take action
Like maybe she can do something with horses again? She'd probably never reach the olympics or compete much since she's been out of the game for so long, but maybe she can do something else? From what I know she has millions, she could start a horse rescue or horse rehabilitation, some kind of retreat with horses. She could get good infrastucture, hire the best staff. It should be more fulfilling than what she does now
I have chronic Lyme disease and people have no clue what it's really like. I look at people now just living their normal lives and would give anything do wake up every day and just feel normal. The worst part is there are no doctors to help unless you pay thousands out of pocket. It sucks!!
Yes I know it's awful and people gaslight me too .It's an awful disease
It’s sad about the Lyme disease because her mom and brother have it too and Gigi is hypothyroid/hashimotos . It’s extra hard when your whole family health is struggling
this beautiful girl is dying inside while living someone else's dream. pray she finds her true self and passion.
Same
Exactly!!! it angers me so much that people still feel the need to bring up the fact that she lies about her plastic surgery and that everyone still calls her fake, like, we *know* she's had surgery, it's old news at this point. we need to start paying attention to the fact that she was probably forced into doing these things by her mother, and that she didn't even want this life to begin with, it's so sad 😭.
oh! boohooo!! do you know who I pray for? people dying of hunger, people sick with cancer, girls who had their genitals mutilated, girls who were attacked with acid and I could go on, not this privileged rich girl who's had every leg up in life and still complains. if she really hated it all, she could just step away and live an anonymous life, she's an adult now.
I just really wanted to say thank you Stephanie, I really love your videos and I’m so happy to have came across your channel. I have struggle so much with mental health and with my physical body especially in the last few years. And seeing all your videos has really helped give me some light in dark times. And this video was no different and it was exactly what I needed to hear today and after the week I have had. Thank you again💕
Another great video, thank you Stephanie 🙏❤ love how you stay respectful and supportive of the women you comment on, but highlight how not all that glitters is gold so the rest of us are reminded that we are human and no one's life or looks are perfect as it might appear online. We should all show kindness to ourselves and others.
I'm so glad you talked about her mother because I think that's where most of Bella and Gigi's insecurities (and ED) come from. All you have to do is watch clips of their old reality show to see how Yolanda talked to and about them. It's horrible.
The clips I've seen of Yolanda talking about food and their bodies is just *insanely toxic* I always thought my mom was bad, my first memory I have is of me jumping rope on our deck when I was like 5-6, and my mom coming out and telling me to go faster, because my genes are shit and no matter what I do, I'll be fat once I'm an adult. My mom always stressed that I would be fat as an adult no matter what, but atleast she wasn't sitting there insinuating that the only way I'll be worthy, is if I'm beautiful and skinny and perfect. Yolanda is so toxic it's honestly crazy
No Yolanda made those two mediocrities rich and famous. How is she a bad mother?
The audio quality is really nice on the video! I also like the gifs you included.
Or you can go through everything Bella's been through but without the gift of wealth. Even though she's likeable and I don't have ill feelings towards her, I'm not gonna cry for her when millions of people who don't have a platform go through so much more.
Honestly, my family had a much bigger influence on my E.D than any other thing. Yollanda is toxic, and she is the one who erased bella's features, when you are 14 you trust your parents to make the best decisions for YOU, but Yollanda did it for herself.
Just dropping by again to say THANK YOU for posting the material you do-- I think it will help a lot of people, maybe mostly younger girls and women, but ANYone can benefit from the truths you lay out in a lot of your vids. Brava! You're doing good work here.
omg loving the new edits! So funny 😅Keep up the great work girl! I always feel good watching your content thank you ❤
I've always genuinely been feeling so sorry for Bella. I know it sounds ridiculous; a nobody feeling sorry for super famous, riddiculously rich, super beautiful and sucessful girl, but I truly do. I genuinely wish her healed and find her peace and happiness.
Why do (mostly white) girls think that being brunette makes them the “uglier” sister/friend/etc? Dark hair is gorgeous and I always found Bella to be the more stunning sister (Gigi is also really pretty too of course) but I think people hold blondes in general on a weird ass pedestal.
Not all glitter is gold!🤷♀️ that's all i can say..
The "doctor" that did her nose job should be put in prison for child abuse and medical malpractice. How is it acceptable in our society to do that to a child?
I hope you're not implying that a child can't decide on her own on a nose job, or sex change? She could have probably shopped around for a better surgeon, but at the end of the day, it was her own decision. Children know better what's best for them, and adults should listen and allow them to have access to life-saving medical care!
I’ve got a soft spot for Bella. It must have been so hard growing up feeling like she did. I hope she’s able to overcome everything she’s been through.
If someone asked me would I like to be depressed and dirt poor, or extreamly privileged and depressed I would chose rich, Bella has no idea what it feels like to not have food or shoes, or abused sexually and physically, I was born in the USA but at twenty years old I didn't even know how to read and write. The abuse was so severe.
I can't express how much I love you Stephanie, you make me feel so much better mentally xx
I can’t tell you how much your videos have affected me, you are truly helping me start to love myself. I have not for so long. Thank you Stephanie ❤️
Thank you for sharing the truth behind the fantasy with compassion, kindness and empathy. Your videos have helped me love myself as I am for time in my life. Keep making your amazing content!
For me, seeing those post about her crying for three years every day and talking about her mental health struggles just reminds me of how much dieting (and basically starving) had an effect on my mental health. Starving can bring out depression or depressive episodes so easily I just feel like this should be talked about more and why so many models suffer like this.
The sound on this is AMAZING Steph!!!! Congratz on the upgrade ^-^
Oh thank you for noticing!!! I got another new microphone 😆❤️
Stephanie, thanks for the episode and also thanks for the microphone as it's so much easier to listen now
Oh good!!! ❤️
Stephanie i love your channel and i share some od your videos with my teenage impressionable granddaughters. They are good girls involved in sports and hope to go Pro and Olympics someday. I fear something like an injury putting sports out, like with others, because they have no other want or need.
I hope Bella can find peace with herself soon. She's beautiful inside and out, and being different from her sister is a great thing. I know the Lyme disease was a nightmare, I wish her health, love peace and happiness in her future
I mean these ppl have all the money and resources in the world … money, doctors, psychiatrists, plastic surgery, dental care, time off from work, relaxing vacations, etc. why they don’t take advantage of all of that is really beyond me. Hard to have compassion for someone that has access to all the help that so many people need but chooses not to use it
Don't believe for a second she is regretting her surgery. She's only saying that.
True. Without plastic surgery she would be nowhere.... She wasn't beautiful, not even pretty. She was average/ below average. And this is the truth. Nothing wrong about that either.
@@onceuponatime9445 I disagree, she would have made it, cuz she famous already, she had soft features already like Gigi. I think she had the surgery for self worth issues, to get an edge over her sister, cuz she had bone sharp features after and also the buzz of "omg she is different". She was in no was shape or form ugly before. She was cure af
@@onceuponatime9445 Did you watch the video or are y'all just speaking out of your a$$es?? 🤦🏾♀️ Bella, just like Gigi, wanted to be a professional athlete, but Bella had to quit because she got Lyme Disease (which is a life-long and exhausting disease). There are literally videos of Yolanda talking down on Asian facial features, trying to make her children starve themselves, and favoring Gigi because she has blonde hair & blue eyes.
Bella totally regrets her decision to get a nose job and is upset she couldn't be an athlete.
Out of everything that was said here that's what you picked up?? Shes struggling with mental health like anyone, rich or not. She was 14. You cant get surgery unless your parents sign off on it. Imagine how much othe crap her mom made her get at that age.
@@onceuponatime9445 she was pretty as hell before surgery. You honestly sound jealous lol
She's still very young and i hope she takes care of herself and finds more people who love and respect her for her heart. Honestly this is a great reminder for all of us who feel bad looking at the seemingly perfect lives of these public figures but then you realise how they've had to deal with their own issues too. Can't imagine how hard it must have been for her to do make-up,glam etc and walk down elegantly on a runway then go back to crying and feeling alone ...for 3 damn yrs :((
Also kudos to Bella for posting the pics of her crying. She gets flack and I never understand why? It’s the best thing she’s ever done in terms of shining a light on mental health struggles but also the reality of living with a chronic illness.
Stephanie!! i missed you, hope you're doing okay :) thank you for making this video, I admire the effort you put into your videos, you're so sweet
Bella is an adult and has enough money to do the hell what ever she wants, live wherever she wants and do whatever career she wants. Nobody should be crying over the life of an extremely privileged individual who can literally live whatever life they wish.
after watching ur videos I feel so much better about myself.....i started feeling insecure at 14 and I'm 16 now I tried sooo much things to end my insecurities ...i watched a lot of videos too but ur videos really helped a lot ❤❤❤ thank u soooooooo much and DAMN U ARE SOOO PRETTY😍❤💓💛💜💕💝💖💞💗💟💙💚❣
First time seeing your content..you are very kind and respectful..good job..and hopefully we can all embrace the things about ourselves that make us unique.
“i cant believe you just did that” all she did was eat a bite of cake… this way of thinking and living is beyond me. especially forcing it into your loved ones.
Not once, in the middle of anxiety/depression despair, did i stop to think oh this would be a good moment to take a selfie.
Thanks for posting this video, I had no idea Bella felt this way. I hope she can get the help she needs, she probably needs a break
Thank you for all your amazing videos, also can confirm that Aura is the BESSSST app ever!!!
I really feel empathy for her, parents who push their dreams on their kids really damage them. You have to love your kids and let them choose their own path.
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bella's insecurity seemingly stems from her mum's treatment of her. it's very apparent how yolanda prefers gigi over bella.
Happy to see a new video of yours pop up on my recommendation!!🙂🥰
Thank you so much for these videos! You're truly a breath of fresh air in the age of all this social media bullshit