Excellent perspective sir...such an important aspect presented so lightly...sincerely hope that parents like us assimilate the message and implement the same in our daily interaction with kids.
I m 58 yrs. My father treated us whole life like this only. Even today we all feel so anger within us. It is difficult to forgive such parents who always compared u with others. Thanks Sangwan ji for bringing such eye opening video. Every parent need to watch this. Parents should also respect their children
Really admire your courage to pick these topics. These are not popular but important issues. So many kids commit suicide just because they feel trapped under expectations of family but it's not given the attention it requires.
A lot of kids are also going to foreign countries to escape parents and their jibes. They are ready to drive uber in Australia/Canada but remain in India.
Another problem which I see is with us as parents that we do not have that kind of energy left in a day after office and other works that we can spend so much quality time with them. this is a problem with us and we have to somehow deal with it.
Very well presented.. Such invaluable and high level thoughts sir. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Please do share more such perspectives, looking forward!!
Agr maine parents ki baat and tane school age m sunke ignore krna sikh leti to sayad life es trh barbad nhi hoti . I must say children must be selfish that way in india they can survive brna owner killing to india ki nak h
Can you make a video on how to give muhtod jawab hariyanvi style to people who insult. I am always tongue tied and jawab mujhe 10 din baad soojhta hai shower mein 😅 a product of overthinking I guess. By the way thank you for this video ❤😊
Ek sardar ko dekha tha sardar colony me. Apne bachche ko apne hatho se usne tarasha. Uska beta studies me accha nahi tha aur nursery ki abcd bhi usne 3 saal me sikhi kyonki late development. Ab uska beta teenager hua to, wo apne bete ko address hi aise karta tha. Beta, ja jakar bank rashan le kar aa. Bachcha bola ki me kaise lau. To usne bola, tu karega kyonki tu mera sher puttar hai. Ja mere sher putter ye kar ya wo kar. Aaj wo ladka thela laga raha hai rozana 6 ghanto ke liye. Aur lakh rs ka profit kamata hai. Uske baap ne use sher puttar sher puttar keh keh ke use reality me sher bana diya. Thu hai aise middle-class parents par jo bhonkte hai ki apne roti fenk di aur school me fenk diya to ho gaya. Aise logo par jail honi chahiye
I read a book by Robert Plomin that said academic success is 60% genetic. It said competitive exams mostly filter out the genetically superior ones. Most of those kids who got selected had a genetic advantage to begin with. Ab bhi sir wahi bol rhe ho
Parents inspire their children to do better as they love and care for them. Ask those who don't have parents or had single parent. Children shouldn't take anything for granted and learn to value the contributions and commitment of parents. The only flaw is wrong comparison and not taking pride in child's individuality. Parents must focus on uniqueness of their children by listening to their likes/dislikes and improve their strengths while controlling their weakness.
Excellent perspective sir...such an important aspect presented so lightly...sincerely hope that parents like us assimilate the message and implement the same in our daily interaction with kids.
Thanks for such kind words
I m 58 yrs.
My father treated us whole life like this only.
Even today we all feel so anger within us.
It is difficult to forgive such parents who always compared u with others.
Thanks Sangwan ji for bringing such eye opening video.
Every parent need to watch this.
Parents should also respect their children
True
Very good uncle👍Maine apne papa ko video dikhaya ,🤭wo bol rahe hai ki baccho ke dekhne ka video nahi hai.
This is the problem..No one want to accept truth
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Video se better comments hote
hai lol
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Really admire your courage to pick these topics. These are not popular but important issues. So many kids commit suicide just because they feel trapped under expectations of family but it's not given the attention it requires.
Sir, you are genius.. i used to hear your video while car driving during going office.. means ur thoughts are important for me.. GOD bless sir 👌
My parents have broken me from inside by comparing me with my cousins. I have dumped my cousins and started focussing on my own life
You are right, my mother used to compare me with other kids, now she denies the fact.
One more nice video on a burning topic of society... admire you sir, for picking such topics & starting discussion on them..hats off to you Sir 🙏
Awesome clarity. If I don't hear you my day is not complete
A lot of kids are also going to foreign countries to escape parents and their jibes. They are ready to drive uber in Australia/Canada but remain in India.
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Excellent message for parents.
Really very practical advice thank you uncle❤❤
Mujhe to aapki har video me aanand aata hai😊
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Thanks for motivating that never compare your children with others .👌👍🙏
Excellent content sir completely agree, only in my case it was gupta ji😂😂
Another problem which I see is with us as parents that we do not have that kind of energy left in a day after office and other works that we can spend so much quality time with them. this is a problem with us and we have to somehow deal with it.
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Thanks Sir for sharing this information. You are doing a great service to the community.
You have a unique perspective. Great work. Thank you.
Wonderful Amitji👌👌
Lovely; Kindly keep coming up with such videos. Thank you 🙏
You are absolutely correct, sir.
My parents never said that and the benefit was that I knew no limits and was able to achieve much more than normal standards.
Excellent video..thanks alot 🙏
Sir please create more video on parenting : how to parenting his child and how to protect child from mobile addictions
i am unable to express my feelings. this is so much wholesome. '💗💗
we want more of this kind of videos
🙏 bahut bahut dhanyawad sir aise contents k liye which aad value 👍
Maine to ulta bolna shuru kardia hai😂agar wo mujhe compare karte hai .mai b kar deti hu dosre parents s
Wonderful video sir👍🏻
This is so true, that what parents do, if same is reflected then they can't tolerate 😔
Parents ne bola jab 10 saal tha, parents ne bola jab 20 saal tha, parents ne bola jab 30 saal tha, parents 40 saal mein bhi nahin chodte...
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Very right Amit ji....actually , people who don't work on their own selves....fall prey to comparison syndrome...
Nice
Sir couldn't be brought out in a better way.....must see for all parents / soon to be parents
Relevant points touched in this topic.
Awesome vdo.. 👍❤️
Mind Blowing
Able to relate a lot from the video
Sir, you are really a boon to the society
Good 💯 thanks u
Good n right video
Good. Thanks Amit Ji. Plz prepare on The Art of Parenting ...
You are doing a great Nobel couse for humanity great sir
Very well presented.. Such invaluable and high level thoughts sir. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Please do share more such perspectives, looking forward!!
absolute clarity
Mere sath same hai sir
Guruji your videos are really addictive like coffee😇
Mind blowing sir
Every comment is valuable breaking my 60 year old process of thinking thank you very much
Great effort sir i like it.
Very nice, inspired
Bahut hi badiya . Nice
Thanks a lot sir
Brilliant!
Salary is compared BIG time. Comparing payment of a engineer graduate to a plain graduate with non technical profession
Bang On !
Keep going Sir ..I'm your big fan.
Please make more video on this topic
Thums up sir
You are genius
Very well observed
Great
Agr maine parents ki baat and tane school age m sunke ignore krna sikh leti to sayad life es trh barbad nhi hoti . I must say children must be selfish that way in india they can survive brna owner killing to india ki nak h
Can you make a video on how to give muhtod jawab hariyanvi style to people who insult. I am always tongue tied and jawab mujhe 10 din baad soojhta hai shower mein 😅 a product of overthinking I guess. By the way thank you for this video ❤😊
Thank you so much!
I subscribed today.
Ek sardar ko dekha tha sardar colony me. Apne bachche ko apne hatho se usne tarasha.
Uska beta studies me accha nahi tha aur nursery ki abcd bhi usne 3 saal me sikhi kyonki late development.
Ab uska beta teenager hua to, wo apne bete ko address hi aise karta tha.
Beta, ja jakar bank rashan le kar aa.
Bachcha bola ki me kaise lau.
To usne bola, tu karega kyonki tu mera sher puttar hai.
Ja mere sher putter ye kar ya wo kar.
Aaj wo ladka thela laga raha hai rozana 6 ghanto ke liye. Aur lakh rs ka profit kamata hai.
Uske baap ne use sher puttar sher puttar keh keh ke use reality me sher bana diya.
Thu hai aise middle-class parents par jo bhonkte hai ki apne roti fenk di aur school me fenk diya to ho gaya. Aise logo par jail honi chahiye
Your videaos are Very thoughtful. Thanks.
Sir ji , pair kha h apke, hata off to u , really , i want to send this video to my dad but can't send ni tho bolega ab tull hme Gyan dega
Very nice video
Amazing content sir!
Very good g great
Truth reality 👍🙏👌
Achha hua abhi pata chala jabki meri beti 5 yrs old hai 😀....
Thought provoking VIDEO!
Absolutely right
Good perspective
Guruji MAG
Fantasy world talks!
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Deeply observe, sir
I was harassed like anything coz I was not able to do maths, body shaming, mental trauma everything
Mind blowing 😇
I read a book by Robert Plomin that said academic success is 60% genetic. It said competitive exams mostly filter out the genetically superior ones. Most of those kids who got selected had a genetic advantage to begin with. Ab bhi sir wahi bol rhe ho
Thanks
This is the reason y young generation wants to escape. Then parents say humein bachche nahi poochte.
Good thought
Sir plz ek vidio chote city me 1 crore ki kothi le ya bde city me flat lena acha he plzzz
in my case i was the sharma ji beta
Very funny
Ha papa bolte hai 😂
Bola tha 😂
My wife not like your video, I have shown your video "wife should earn"😂
Parents inspire their children to do better as they love and care for them. Ask those who don't have parents or had single parent. Children shouldn't take anything for granted and learn to value the contributions and commitment of parents. The only flaw is wrong comparison and not taking pride in child's individuality. Parents must focus on uniqueness of their children by listening to their likes/dislikes and improve their strengths while controlling their weakness.