When The Lies Unravel: The Case Of Jessica Patel
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- When a man came home and found the house had been ransacked and his wife attacked, the local community was left in fear and shock. A major police enquiry was launched to catch the culprit and bring them to justice.
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And of course her family was aware of the abuse and cheating and would've never allowed her to get a divorce.. I wonder when our cultures will move on to prioritizing women's well being over people's perceptions. This woman would be alive today if someone cared enough about her and not the culture and encouraged her to leave and start over.
Agreed. Her family knew and didn't help her... Doing reviews after the fact talking about how strangers could do something?! If you're loved ones know and don't do anything to keep you safe, what chance or hope do you have?
i hate ur culture😭😭😭but i respect ..them but i wish i don't meet the guy from ur same culture don't know how to fight our relationship😭😭😭
Absolutely right. I wonder why families choose to ignore. There were more than just signs in this case. Yet, they chose to not help her.
The Indian culture is very precise and they do not deviate from that culture. May Jessica be in peace. 🙏
20:45 It says she blamed her sister for meddling.
Wow, Mitesh is truly a vile person. He marries because he knows he is gay and he wanted to hide that. He cheated on Jessica throughout the marriage in addition to being emotionally and physically abusive to her. Then kills her to maintain his "honour" so he can then go run off with the guy he was cheating with. What a disgusting human being.
And he forced her to get an IVF to " get pregnant" which is a painful process that lead her to depression , she confessed to a therapist that she feels forced to get pregnant
Once they successfully got 3 embryos frozen in March , he start planning the murder
So he wants to live as a gay man but wanted kids of his own without the woman he abused and took from her family , evil wicked inhuman asshole douchebag ... doesn't begin to describe him
Not to mention the 2 million insurance
And the EMBRYOS too, he really thought he could have it all
Exactly. I couldn't agree more. I saw a Doc on this horrific case before & I forgot all abt the "life insurance policy." Sich a monster. Ugh I'm cringing RN!! 🤔🤦🏻♀️💔🥵🤬🤬
God bless 👑🙏🏻🕊💝💝
And he was planning to steal her embryo 🤢
He can have all the men he wants now, a whole prison of them
too weak in the UK
in the US he would have been given the death penalty. The way he killed her, he needs to be given capital punishment.
He has to pick up soaps a lot though
😁😁
@Dan-xx5jq:
Well, cultural advanced and properly democratic countries abolished the death penalty.
Killing is wrong, no matter if a citizen kills someone, or the government.
Penetration in the Penitentiary!
It's really frightening to live with someone so called husband and had no idea that he've been searching "how to kill your wife, insulin overdose, and how to hire a hit man" for years while living in the same house hold with him. Living with your own murderer planning for your own murder. It's really so scary. Rip Jessica. She was so pretty :(
Omg it is 😣
I WAS THINKING HE WOULD HAVE DONE THAT TO DON´T HAVE TO MAKE THE DIRTY JOB IT WAS AN IDEA GO THROUGH MY MIND ABOUT WHAT HE COULD HAVE DONE .PERSONALLY I THINK IT IS A PSYCHOPATH MITESH. ANY PERSON DESERVE SUCH TORTURE OF LIFE AND DEATH. I HOPE HE IS IN JAIL AND HAS A LIFE SENTENCE AND WILL NOT MARRY ANYBODY ELSE TO AVOID ANY WOMAN GO THROUGH THE SAME HELL.
Bless her, it’s beyond sad. He hohle have capital punishment on him because he’d enjoy prison and the bum fun he’d have in there
I'm 58 my trust of others in this life has plummeted in the lat 20 yrs. Watch your surroundings folks. Kids especially.
I am Indian, and I understand that being a gay Asian man must have been hard for him. But there is no excuse for murder. She didn't deserve an unhappy marriage, and she definitely didn't deserve to have her life taken away. RIP Jessica.
P.S. This reminds me of Anni Dewani's murder. I still suspect her husband. I wish she gets justice one day.
This piece of crap deserves NO understanding, just stop.
It is easy n obvious to blame the murder but why not her own family too, she was a victim of all this cz like most Asian family divorcing a guy is not an option even if he as abuser, gay n infertile etc ..take the shit as u r a woman.. sad even in western country with all the opportunities, these families dosent support their own family women n get away sayin we were clueless...THEY ARE TOO BE BLAMED EQUALLY, JUDGMENT FROM HER OWN FAMILY LED HER TO NOT STEP AWAY!!
@@niks44 you bring up some interesting cultural context. Thank you
@@niks44 true, evn today n Asian countries no matter how well educated acted and independent ur, u hav to take a lot of abuse just coz ur a woman. And der r very few family members dat wil support u,if any. It's like thinkin abt ur wellbein is a crime.
@@Aruna.N exactly...not only this , the perpetrators are aware of the fact they nt supported by family, thts their fuel to keep going...a husband won't plan for yrs , abuse, cheat so blatantly if her family was proactive, supportive, knowing the fall back...he knew how typical asian families are n thts were the courage came from...
The 999 call gives it away.
First thing you would ask for is an ambulance for your wife.
You would not worry about the burglary, the ransacking or mention that you was out, giving your alibi straightaway. Or ask if you should take the duct tape off, surely you would do that anyway, especially if it's on her mouth!
Right? Half way thru the call I started thinking the operator is leading him on for that exact reason!
And start by saying “hiya”. I immediately suspected him.
I'm no specialist but there is also him repeating that her hands are cold...
And also the color of the mark...
After less than an hour, it's not normal...
From what he says she was dead more than an hour before the call...
And he didn't try taking the tape off immediately. Most people would disturb the scene badly trying to save their family smfh
I just commented on that call! I knew he was lying for different reasons but it was obvious from the start.
The thing I find vile in this story is that some members of her family knew of this abuse but did not think it was big of a deal. What a senseless loss of an innocent life.
Ridiculous, he will be released in 30 years aged 64. WHY ?
She is not going to come back SO he should rot in jail for the rest of his life.
Most despicable person.
Divorce wasn’t going to work for him. He needed her eggs and the insurance money.
He is pure evil.
@@labyrinthe4830 what?
@@labyrinthe4830 because you don't understand orthodox indian families. That's how they are divorce is seen as something shameful and especially when a women does it. They think it will ruin their reputation and bring Shame to the family
@@sukritidash9358 He is asking why she didn't file for divorce?
I think she felt second hand shame. Despite his cruelty, she was kind and compassionate. Too generous to hate him.
@@labyrinthe4830 Well, the concept of divorce has a lot of stigma surrounding it.. so it must have been difficult for her to take that step..besides, she was being abused by him. It becomes really too much for a person to handle.
Imagine going to university, getting married, renovating a home and then having to beg your husband to “allow” you to visit your dying grandfather.
Unbelievable way to live.
Jessica didn’t deserve any of this; I wish she got the love story she’d always wanted.
Well-said.
@@deepikabalasubramanian3119
Thank you.
thats just not well said
I will draw a lot of flak, but most Indian men are EXTREMELY entitled, mysogynistic and abusive. They believe in very rigid gender roles, make the women pay hefty dowry and treat the wife and her family like dirt. They have Severe internalised mysogyny.
@@khalidrather569 telling on yourself?
This case reminded me of the Annie Dewani case. I believe her husband got away with murder, but in this case justice was served. Jessica didn’t deserve what happened to her. Honor killing or not, I’m glad Metesh is behind bars. Also, I hope Annie Dewani gets the justice she deserves. R.I.P to two beautiful women whose lives were ended too soon
You took the words right out of my mouth. Was just watching a documentary on the Shrien Dewani case. As a Capetonian, it sickens me that that b*****d got away with murder. I remember Anni Dewani's dad and his family walking right past me at a local restaurant when they were down here for one of the court hearings. It was heartbreaking. Capetonians knew from day one Shrien was behind it. The facts just didn't add up. And still no justice for the Hindocha family. 🇿🇦
Sick Hindus
Sick Hindus
ONLY DIFFERENCE IS MONEY TO GET OUT OF TROUBLE
Yes. Amazed judge through the case out. Bizarre.
Now the murderer will find lots of bfs in jail.
His plan all along, to live that life freely
lmao.😆
😂
i knew he was guilty the moment he said “hiya!” when the emergency dispatcher picked up. maybe it’s just me - but if my spouse appears to be DEAD, i’m not starting the conversation with emergency services like peppa pig calling suzy sheep.
Not Peppa Pig!
If I found my partner bounded and unconscious my first reaction. Is to unbound him without asking anyone "should I unbound him"
Exactly,you could clearly tell from the whole call that he was faking it
You’re talking stupid,you don’t know what you would say in a situation lite that .
😆
There is a very similar case in Greece. The husband murdered his 19 year old wife, staged the scene as a robbery, hanged the dog, placed their baby on her dead mother's body and tied himself up. Her smart watch solved the murder and he is now in jail.
Yes, Caroline Crouch! There’s a video about the case on the channel already! Such a horrible crime.
Yes you are wright I watch video about that case not long ago and it is so selfish and mind blowing what that man done to his young wife and daughter she was from UK but her family is from Greece or they will go to summer over there I can't remember well and because of that she feel in love with that man who killed her and put their little girl with her dead mother body that is so horrific what that man done he definitely deserve to rot in hell forever for his deascasting crime
That chapter just covered that story! So tragic 😢
@@julijajanjis8272 her parents had moved to Greece and met there, her father British and her mother Philippine.
Her father had stated that if he was able to move (he has serious kinetic issues now) he would strangle him, and now there is a rumour there is a contract to have him killed in prison. The murderer now is afraid for his life, maybe he knows now a bit how Caroline was feeling when he was taking her life
Oh ya…the case of the robbers took trouble to hang the poor puppy but left the strongest able person tied up and *alive*
I don't get these cultures, that divorce is dishonorable… In my eyes I'd rather my child be divorced ( still having them ) than murdered ( and gone forever )
Most Indian parents I’ve noticed is that they pressure their children so much. It’s seriously oppressing. Just imagine 37 grown ass man scared to come out and the other 34 adult woman who cannot divorce or leave him, this all came from toxic culture. I truly hope another Indian woman doesn’t have to go through pain and death because of dowry, gay or society. This also reminds me of the Dewani case. Truly heartbreaking.
No culture is toxic..it depends on the people how they follow the culture...blaming a culture for the evilness of few is foolish.
People are toxic don't blame the culture
@Esther u are absolutely right
@@kabitadash9734 but it is our culture ..we put our so called honour before our happiness ... divorce is still a taboo ... staying in an abusive and unhappy marriage is praised whereas divorces because of any reason is still not accepted ...
@@iampigoinkoink5185 right
Just one minute in the video you know the guy is guilty. In his 999 call he doesn't say first that his wife lies unconscious on the floor. Instead he starts by saying he was not there
Lots of clues that he is the killer in that call...
He also asked if he should take the tape off her mouth!?😲😲
No shite sir! Ya think? Usually good ppl at least would have done that even before dialing 999. He planned this for years. I'm glad he was stupid and got caught. I'm sorry to Jessica most💔💐
You’re right. I knew right away that it was him
Just 40sek in the the video, you knew he was gay.
He gave a rundown on his outings to the operator. Meanwhile, sought zero advice about how to help his wife medically.
She had such a warm adoreable smile. Rest in Peace Jessica
and her eyes look so innocent
I live in Middlesbrough. This did NOT get enough coverage at all. We need awareness, we need to give help to people in these situations and let them know the support is there! It’s devastating. A truly gentle and beautiful woman inside and out who was adored by the community 😢 Rest in Peace darling ❤ xxx
They cover up crimes comitted by gays and ethnic minorities because that goes against the agendas the government is promoting. I was assaulted by a black racist ( unprovoked) and police did nothing because I am White. They are actively promoting lgbt lifestyle to children so they don’t want these cases to be made public
She looked and seemed like such a sweet person. It's so sad.
I cannot believe he killed her because he couldn’t handle his family learning that he was gay. I mean, why not just divorce her? She didn’t do anything wrong in this marriage. Nothing at all. Yet she lost her life.
Not only that. Making her go through 3 rounds of IVF so that he could start a family with his lover in Australia! Don't understand how someone would be so cruel!
What I don’t understand is why she didn’t divorce him when she found out he was having an affair
@@MooiMeissje culture and shame. She would have been ostracized.
What a spoiler in the first comment 😂
@@MooiMeissje Yeah the questions revolving around why these two didn`t "just" divorce one another. Appearences and sense of duty to a family is something someone cannot possibly understand unless they`ve been a part of it themselves. In many cultures, even if one didn`t care at all to be completely cut off from one`s family and their entire community aka oftentimes their ENTIRE support system, their actions have consequences even for their families- their parents, their grandparents and their siblings can face dishonor, shunning and discrimination from the community because of what YOU did. That kind of responsibility is a heavy burden to bear, which is precisely why communities are so powerful.
This kind of behaviour is so ingrained that it can only be remedied through the slow modernization of each new generation.
You know, just 20 years ago it was looked down upon to divorce in the west too. For many communities, acceptance of more modern ideas still haven`t properly taken hold.
0:53 A man whose wife just got murdered would not explain in detail that he was out to "get something to eat" and "see the lads at work" and "get the laptop". I think I've watched too many criminal documentaries and eventually understood the pattern lol
Exactly!! And he asked the operator if he could take the duct tape off ? I feel like it would be a natural intuition to instantly remove the tape n try to check if your loved one is ok. Not just stand on the side n give details that weren’t required!!
Hahahaha so true !! My thoughts exactly , we have watched too many crime documentaries to notice the pattern 🫣
It’s called creating an albi. So stupid, if you ask me. Also asking to get off the tape off of her, was to make sure that his finger prints were on the tape (because he did it).
@@WILMA_ I mean you’re right , but I wouldn’t wait for the 911 call n then remove the tape, I feel like no one would ya know. So he thought ahead hence it was suspicious. That’s all
Lol 🤣👍
May Allāh protect our daughters and sisters from such vile monsters. My heart sank listening to this!
There is no allah, god, or whatever anyone calls that imaginary diety.
No fake god is gonna do that that my friend is done by people and cultures putting the wellbeing of the women first and not the fact that getting a divorce from an abuser will bring "shame" that is what's wrong with people following fake religious crap it kills people and supports the abuse and more of many women
Ameen
I AM ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIED BY JESSICA'S FAMILY... wearing Support Tshirts , acting holier than though !!! Minaal the lady who gave the "THANK YOU" statement knew EVERYTHING that was happening in Jessica's life... OBVIOUSLY the family knew... but they did NOTHING, coz even their "HONOUR" was at stake. And the audacity of the lies of Jessica'z family , that 95% of the things happening to Jessica were not know to them till the murder.
Jessica was NOT betrayed by her husband... she was betrayed by her own family.
I am an Indian and totally agree with this point. They are partly responsible for this and now to save face in society,they are doing all this drama. No other Indian or any person has the guts to face this truth but they all cowardly liked your comment but didn't comment because it's the bitter truth and they don't want to accept it.
@@chaaaaaaaaaaaad so true, "what will people say" ( loag kya kahenge) is the biggest bane of our Indian society.
I totally agree with you. This was the same as in the case of Anni Dewani. They know but it is their honour at stake or so they believe, but who the bloody cares about honour when your child's life is at stake? Surely they knew about Anni Dewani's case from 2010. It was all over the news.
So he didn't want his family to find out, so now the whole world knows!!!
Well said! 👋👋👋👋💐🥂
Another irony after the 999 call...
Thats what happens when we breed unintelligent life
Love this page. No useless detail. You get to the point immediately
Life insurance should never be issued without both parties in presence. These insurance companies need to be accountable.
The call to police is the first clue. When someone starts talking about things that don't matter, when there is a death, you know it was them, who killed the victim.
Yea absolutely & everything they say nearly sounds like a question. Like they're asking to be believed
I know..always the same..
I was about to make same comment; I'm not certain how I would behave, but he sounds phoney, with the fabricated crying..
Yes especially when they start offering up alibis
And they pretend to be remorseful,they cry crocodile tears not feeling empathy for the victim but because they are going to be caught and imprisoned. So monstrous. RIP my beautiful namesake.
This was exactly my life one year ago but got divorced...this video made me realize how far things could've gone. In my case i attempted suicide.I'm really happy that i'm alive... thank you so much for creating awareness through these kind of videos..💖
Hope you happy now..wish you life filled with happiness 😊
Thank you for your kind words..
Proud of you 🙌🏿🌹
Glad you are here and you are living your best life! !
I find it beyond sad that families wield so much power over their children that they feel their only option to be who they are is to take their own life or the life of someone who thought they were loved by. Parents need to know that they do not OWN their children and that their children have every right to be who they want to be. My children don't owe me anything for giving them life. In fact, I feel blessed to have had them for a few years to love and treasure but to let them fly and make their own way. My reward is their happiness. Nothing would stop my love for them. NOTHING. Parents need to dictate their children's life or to life their own dreams through their children. My heart goes out to you for feeling that taking your own life was the only way to be able to be yourself. I am glad you chose life and were strong enough to stand for who you are. ❤ Matel chose the path of destruction and took the life of a beautiful, loving and innocent woman. I can't understand how he felt that this was the only way. RIP sweet Jessica. You deserved so much better. May the family find peace. 😭💔❤
Never dedicate your life to a man. He‘s never going to be grateful for that. That’s an important life lesson that every woman need to be thought at a very young age…
Many men feel the same about women. The thing is - respect is key
Silly feminist. Feminism’s has rotted your brain
It’s amazing how far human evil behavior will go
My mother was terrified to come out and many in our family no longer speak to her, but she'd rather be out and happy with a woman (which she is now) than stay with my father even if it meant being disowned, and I'm so proud of her for leaving AND raising me. But *Mitesh abused Jessica before her death. He harmed her in life and sought to profit from her death. This isn't simply a case of a gay man stuck in a loveless marriage to a woman, this is a coldblooded killer. I have no sympathy for him, despite feeling sympathy for other closeted people trapped in heterosexual marriages.
I’m so happy for your mom and I’m glad she had the strength and courage to come out and find her own happiness even when it wasn’t what others agreed with she sounds like an incredible soul. My grandparents are Catholic and one of my uncles came out as gay he is now married to an amazing man whom I love dearly,my uncle didn’t experience being shut out completely by my grandfather or their siblings but it did take awhile for them to accept my uncle being the way he was(they are more open now)but I believe it’s so important to accept those we love as they are we don’t always have to agree with them but at the same time being supportive means the world to them.❤️❤️
@@shannondominguez9725 She is, thank you! Much love to your uncle and his husband and your family.
@@temp_unknown Thank you I send the same to yours as well😊❤️
Great comment. I'm so glad you have a good relationship with your mum. Its such a hard thing to come out in a traditional family. Your mum's a strong woman, who passed that strength of character on to you.
Sounds like your mom did a great job parenting, you do your family proud.
Do people who plan, and execute these crimes really think they can truly get away with murder???
Yeah. Plus taking out a load of life insurance policies. They must be bloody deluded.
Sadly yes
yes because they're so arrogant and believe themselves so clever the possibility of being caught doesn't even cross their radar
I thought about that too!
It is easy n obvious to blame the murder but why not her own family too, she was a victim of all this cz like most Asian family divorcing a guy is not an option even if he as abuser, gay n infertile etc ..take the shit as u r a woman.. sad even in western country with all the opportunities, these families dosent support their own family women n get away sayin we were clueless...THEY ARE TOO BE BLAMED EQUALLY, JUDGMENT FROM HER OWN FAMILY LED HER TO NOT STEP AWAY!!
Her prolonged abuse and horrific death might have been avoided had her family bothered to actually help her end that sham and hellish marriage.It clearly wasn't just Mitesh who wanted to hide the truth about their marriage....it was her family too!!all of them cared more about preserving their honour than Jessica's horrible situation,it wasn't just Mitesh who cried crocodile tears....in the end it was just Jessica who paid the price of all of their collective honour,both in her life and death
Mitesh shifted residence to a far off place to distant Jessica with her family. To isolate her in every way possible
This is crazy. I knew him years ago. He has always been gay. And i remember when he said a girl called Jessica really liked him and wanted to get married. After that we lost contact because his stories never had any consistencies. This is such a shame for her and her family.
So he was planning the “perfect murder” for a decade? It seems like he only planned it for only an hour. I mean, I can understand not knowing about the iPhone health app but CCTV?? No gloves so his DNA was on everything (tape, plastic bag) used on his poor wife. I knew he was lying by his 999 call. He said he was only gone about a half hour. Yet his wife was fully bound and already cold when he returned and called. Time didn’t add up. She would’ve been dead before he left. Kudos to prosecution team for going the extra mile on evidence. They had more than enough but they stock piled it. There’s no way it could all be explained away. RIP to her.
I guess it never crossed his mind to divorce. What an absolute moron he is.
I immediately thought it was him. How incredibly stupid can he be when he left evidence everywhere. For someone who had been planning this horrific crime and taking steps to not be found out, he made a lot of obvious mistakes and thank goodness for that. Poor Jessica for being such a wonderful person and marrying such a cold hearted, person that never wanted their marriage to last. She was nothing more than a pawn to be used to cover up his gay lifestyle. It's sad she believed that he could change and stayed with him. She would still be alive if she would have left him.
Yep. A soon as he said an hour. I was like🤥🤥🤥
If he was so smart, he would just move to Australia and live happily ever after. He would have disappointed his family and community and would be a free man…
Yes. And most of the true crime stories, it’s apparent that if the perpetrator is the one calling emergency services, they always spend more time setting their alibi to the operator than focussing on the victim.
It's better to end the abusive relationship than lose life.. It's simple but Indian parents think divorce as a big social stigma no matter whether u stay in London, NY or New Delhi, it's the same..
Sometimes they’ll drag you back and force you, though. We see sad, wronged people, but we don’t know if they were this type.
Divorce is a better alternative than murder
A lot of ridiculous culture beliefs people practice 🤦🙄
Nothing but love for Jessica and her family. She was seen as little more than an obstacle by the person she trusted most, and was shown no grace nor respect by his hand. He deserves any and all punishment he receives, and then some.
Her warmth radiates in her smile. Such a gorgeous and inviting person.
Such sadness is difficult to comprehend but in this world and the next she will still be walking with you.
What a horrible and wicked man. It sounds like he possibly used her right from the start at a “womb donor”, and his intention was always to do this. Poor women, I can’t even imagine. RIP.
I didn’t get that part. It said he made her keep doing the IVF but was also taking meds to suppress his sperm count so she wouldn’t get pregnant??
@@samanthasinger3747 He wanted her eggs she had frozen. He was hoping to take them and start a new life with his bf.
If he'd used her as a "womb donor" he wouldn't have taken med to reduce sperm count. He used her as a social/cultural (Indian/Hindu) acceptance tool. In his society he had to have a career, get married and have children.
@@rosierose8549 ohhhh that’s right. Thank u
Yes evil 👿 she his angel 😇 he jus psychopath n selfish
It never ceases to amaze me how in this day and age cultural and familial pressures still lead to sad situations like this where because divorce is unacceptable someone has to die.
THAT MUST STOP!
Still happens ALOT. in India a dead daughter is considered much better than divorced one.
All the blame is out on women, because "she couldn't adjust in that house"
That actually means, she should have kept going on with abuse, manipulation and control and submit to all that happens to her.
Recent case of a medical student, who was married off. Her abuse was pretty evident, her family, friends, university and even parents and siblings knew it.
She got trashed in front on her own brother but on a recorded call to her father, her father actually said, " it happens everywhere child, you will adjust".
While she was hysterical on the other side.
She committed suicide, only then mother father brother friends acted.
The shameful part was she was sending photos to everyone of her injuries and calls of abuse.
Even the husband and family members were recorded on call how to abuse her more and not to get caught.
All was in open and none batted a eye, but rather said to her to continue.
So yeah it's really happening.
Mind you she was on the way to be a DOCTOE, a freaking doctor.
That much knowledge and capabilities was lost a life was lost because family wanted their honor more than a daughter and to avoid the stigma of having a divorced daughter.
What has "cultural pressure" to do with the murder? Very revealing comment from you
@@publicsectordirect982 he's actually right
@@sshukla7975 Not all families r like tat uncle ! Pls $tfu
@@aditisharma6951 sure they are not like that. Then why does a male child is still celebrated more than a girl child even in highly educated family.
Many working girls forced to marry their family choices, why they can't have their own choices in place for a partner?. Why They have to hide boyfriends and their relationship even if they are working and consenting adults living with them?
Why girls give up career in name of marriage and kids, while not their own family and in-laws never talk about their dreams and aspirations?
Why girls have to be scared going out at night and day and have to be decent and to be within norms of a family?
I am sure I will shut the fuck up! But the matter of fact is the problem is women like you and many mother and girls themselves who refuse to see the way we treat our own girls.
They believe coercive control is love and care.
And serious stalking and control is love by boyfriends and husbands.
Grow up a little, no one is trying to be feminist but that's the real problem.
Indira noi herself said her mom would tell her, to be a cook for her own husband and leave her crown outside the house. While noi was on the way to be company executive.
If that doesn't reflect how we are towards our own girls I don't know what is.
I hope you would face the similar thing sooner in your life, and I feel sorry for you.
That's learning few curse words makes you modern.
Do you feel proud of yourself now? Hope this cycle of indoctrination of women stops in oppressing other women.
But I guess some are purely brain washed in believing there's no problem as look other way.
Great.
Thank you for the crime documentary! Glad stories like these are solved and exposed. Justice was given 🙏🏽
She did not deserve this, Mitesh is garbage, pure and utter garbage. This is a loss for all of us
Rest In Peace beautiful Jessica 😔💛
What Honour 😅🤣😂
I feel so sorry for her family. I'm amazed at how strong the sister was giving that victim impact statement.
It is easy n obvious to blame the murder but why not her own family too, she was a victim of all this cz like most Asian family divorcing a guy is not an option even if he as abuser, gay n infertile etc ..take the shit as u r a woman.. sad even in western country with all the opportunities, these families dosent support their own family women n get away sayin we were clueless...THEY ARE TOO BE BLAMED EQUALLY, JUDGMENT FROM HER OWN FAMILY LED HER TO NOT STEP AWAY!!
@@niks44 Why are you shouting at me? You can make your point without being so aggressive.
Agreed 💔
Leaving a comment...n making a point...not shouting... definitely nt u... maybe pointing hard at family..but definitely no shouting at u..
lessons to learn.. take constant verbal, emotional and physical abuse seriously. I wish her family, specifically her sister with whom she shared her pbms, helped her to remove herself from this disastrous marriage. His sexual orientation is different.. so it will not change ever.. how will this marriage ever work? Jessica should
have herself separated from him as soon as she got to know or her family should have helped her to separate. she had a future, maybe even a happy relationship with a good person 😢
As usual I love your somber narration and I really appreciate the seriousness with which you investigate each case.
No excessive self promotion, no bs 3-minute long ads, just to the point, always informative and engaging.
Thank you for your awesome content and please keep up the good work!
Ya the young kids baking pies whilst telling this shit and using slang and giggling ... its just wrong
I refuse to watch videos that have the CZcamsr delivering ads themselves, I pay for premium so I don’t have to watch ads. I’m not having them forced on me by CZcamsrs themselves
Fully agree with this! I used to love Emma Kenny, her videos are great but now the adverts are coming in thick and fast for hello fresh etc, it just gets a bit too much.
Same. I think it’s really disrespectful when these stories are told in a whimsical tone with jokes peppered throughout.
@@saltytea these days, you're missing out on a lot of decent content when you refuse to watch CZcamsrs delivering ads themselves.. Adrian from coffeehouse crime puts in occasional ads. His channel is awesome
Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 for giving us a voice.
Jessica was so kind and forgiving of Mitesh after she found out what he was doing, giving him chance after chance. It seems like originally she wasn't even mad at him for his sexual preferences only sad that he was unfaithful. A good man at that point would admit what he was doing and let Jessica move on to someone else. Jessica deserved to have a partner who loved her and adored her. She deserved to have her loving marriage and have her beautiful baby no matter how long it took. The fact Mitesh took medication to suppress to his sperm count and that he was physically abusive is absolutely disgusting. He is just pure evil. What a total d-bag.
My God, she was a beautiful and educated young lady. This is sad, the pressure to stay married, and have a kid makes it harder to leave abusive partners. Many women stay in abusive marriages because of the pressure they get from society and family members. Rest In Peace Jessica.
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Protect what honour. Mitesh did not have any honour.He was a Monster Just out for his own pleasures and desires!
Very good narration!
My old friend found her man was seeing men behind her back. Ladies if ya catch ya man once I can guarantee it won't be the last. You're just their cover up. Get out as soon as you catch them! YOURE WORTH MORE & YOU DESERVE BETTER!!
Using and wasting people's whole lives to use them as camouflage. Its maddening how selfish and entitled people are.
How do you get to this point?
Weed your mind as you would a garden, folks.
Everyone deserves better… man or woman… gay or straight… black or white… Christian or Hindu… young or old
That is so nasty! My ex hit on my gay BFF!
@@dianadundidit5343 Smh sounds bout right. Happens way too often though. I've known several gay guys that's all they prefer. The so called "straight" man ugh. They got a rush out of trying to tempt the men and seeing how far they'd stray from their girlfriends/wives. It bothered me and I told them abt it. I dnt want my man cheating with anyone but it does something to your esteem to know they actually wanted a man instead as if u aren't enough. I ain't judging them its just very selfish to play with others lives cause you aren't happy with yours. You want a man, grow ya some balls & go get one just leave everyone else out of your insecurities.
@@cw6621 Yup its real selfish! Quit going for what you don't want cause you too scared to admit what ya rlly want. If the shoe was on the other foot you know they'd be devastated but let's go out and do it to someone else smh.
I dont understand why a beautiful , educated women put up with men like these
Marry dah people think Marriage is a deal nah that shit just a paper in ur name 🤷🏾♀️ as soon u remove that shit out ur name u free . marriage is nothing to me my life is more important even i don’t get divorce I ‘m live my life as single woman nd move to different state u don’t kn me .
I'm crying here!!!.... God bless her soul!!!
This case mimics the murder of Anni Dewani, while on honeymoon with her husband Shrien.
RIP Jessica and Anni
When the dispatcher asked if Jessica was responsive at all, you can hear Mitesh suddenly realize that he forgot to sound upset which is when he then turns on the tears + the dramatics and the "Jess baby, please wake up"s. Absolutely cold.
I'm sorry but that 'Oh Hiya' by Mitesh had me cracking 🤣
Can’t believe how sick some can be..Just sad. RIP young lady. Prayers to the family and friends..
Indian culture needs to progress! There is STILL so much shame attached to getting a divorce. The older generation specifically dont understand that two people are divorcing because they aren't compatible on many levels. They blame the women and always ask the women to compromise. I wonder if this was reason why Jessica didn't share her DV and emotional violence with her family. I wonder how alone she felt in her last days. From my personal experience with depression sometimes you feel so numb that life just becomes about survival, just getting through that day and you stop seeing the bigger picture. You stop thinking about the future. I wonder if she felt this way too, totally trapped with a person who had been plotting to kill her for years.
Progression of cultures such as theirs is often called "colonization" and deemed "evil" and "racist"
Honestly, the west tried, but people like you ruined it.
This is the world you begged for, now live in it.
(And before you say it, no the terrible thing their own people did to each other is not "colonization")
What has this got to do with indian culture?? It happens in every culture, the case in greece being a recent example. He solely is to blame for his vile actions, no deflections.
Lots of sweeping generalisations there
@@publicsectordirect982 i never said he wasn't to blame?! I just wish she felt more comfortable to share her abuse with her family. Maybe they could've protected her
@@publicsectordirect982 Because her family knew and did nothing.
I don't understand how the family and friends of Jessica could talk about how loved she was and yet there were so many times when those same people could have helped "the person they loved", could have listened to her pleas for help but instead did nothing and allowed that monster to emotionally and physically abuse her and ultimately take her life.
Yup! Its the culture.
Her family equally responsible for her death too... When she went to them asking for help they did not help her.
This same thing happened with my mother too when my father pressurized her for divorce coz he want to be with his girlfriend. He physically abused her and torched her mentally after all suffering for only 2.5 years long marriage when I was only 1.5 years old when she took her own life.
In Indian family doesn't support when a girl ask for divorce from his husband and it is still countinue in Indian society no matter where they live.
This is not about being Indian
Its all about him being gay and a psychopath
Sooooo Jessica's family knew of the abuse, but didn't have the know-how to pull the plug? I'm confused, how much did they love and value her to let her go through all that?
To an extend, I think Jessica's family is also responsible. Among Indians, divorce is considered as a black mark when it comes to women. So, the bride's family will always suggest to forgive and patch up. Here, being eldest among 6 children, Jessica would not have had the courage to walk of the abusive relationship for two reasons, one the social stigma and two, that her parents have to take care of her siblings and she returning home will become a burden on them. If her parents or siblings had been supportive, probably Jessica would have been alive today. Irrespective of where they live or how rich they're, Indians have this in their blood.
Im an indian, and i totally agree with you,
Well said. It’s a tragedy that could have been avoided
I agree with you . Like everything it needs balanced approach, this matter itself is complicated - either people divorce on a instinct or will not do no matter what (like in this case) - balance
Not true of the ones I know in Singapore and Malaysia
i don't understand at all, she's an adult, with good education. If she gets disowned she could still live an independent life. In my family, my mum would always say, if a man slaps you, run. Chances are, you will get more than a slap in the future. In her case, she was abused to the core...
Can we ask Jess parents if they’re happy or had more pride that their daughter died in a loveless marriage than been divorced and happy?please let me know their responses,thanks,rest well pretty Jess 🥺
It's called Seti, where families would rather burn their unwanted daughter/wives than deal with the social shame.
They build funeral pyres and burn them alive. 🔥
Divorced women are not happy, Jessica was married to a wrong man - this is why one has to do a lot of background checks before getting children married. Marriage must be done the right way - not on a whim & fancy.
@@SodiumSyndicate Divorced women are a lot happier alone than they are when they’re in an abusive marriage. They also have the option of finding another husband. It’s never too late. BTW It’s extremely easy to say “choose the right person” but sometimes you don’t see the red flags until it’s too late.
@@Quizack Nope. No self respecting man looking to raise a family will marry a divorced woman or a single mother - they are damaged goods.
if we all had a crystal ball to see into the future then....
And as soon as its at the stage where a person puts their hands on your neck. That's past the stage where you need to get out. The next stage is not letting go...
When someone starts the call with , "I was out and..." you gotta be suspicious as to why they feel the need to alibi themselves
Hello Deb, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the Virus??
as soon as he told the 999 dispatcher he was away for an hour but then told the police half an hour...I knew he did it
Never be too “embarrassed” to leave someone who is an a$$.
Rip.
Fr
In Indian culture both sets of parents pressure you to stay with someone even if you know you aren't compatible. They say just to work it out and not get bothered by differences. Often they downplay or ignore openly done abuse. I don't know if Jessica's family and inlaws condoned the abuse but I'm sure they convinced her that getting a divorce or walking out was wrong. Also the repeated IVF would have been pressure from her inlaws to bear a child. Usually the husband doesn't argue with his parents when they demand a grandchild.
Finally, someone is covering this case. A case which has been shunned a lot. RIP jessika
Awww, poor thing. She looks like she was such a nice innocent person.
Dreadful just dreadful. Killed his wife so that he could selfishly lead the new life he desired. Cold blooded murder. A young successful, kind and generous woman, left for dead. A heartbroken close and loving family now with one of their family missing. He killed her to protect his honour? He didn't have honour in his soul. God bless you Jess.
Can you imagine the level of delusion some cultures expect you to live in? I don't understand why ppl choose to adopt a culture that does not serve them.
@@saraho9568 If you're referring to homosexuality within different cultures, it's only a short 50 years or so since Britain stopped persecuting people who were homosexuals or lesbians. Each child is born into their immediate culture, the majority of people stay within that cultures' beliefs and traditions. I'm living my life in the same culture as I have always lived with my friends and family, its just natural for us to do so. Most people are enjoying happy and fulfilled lives in all parts of the world, we shouldn't really be criticising other folks creeds and cultures, its nothing to do with us.
@@saraho9568 have you been out of America? And are you an adult. Before I say what I have to say.
@@patriciamoffat1542 I was talking about woman who get married to a monster or stay in a marriage because of their culture. If you make the long ass pilgrimage to a free country, then live the free life. Leave a toxic relationship. Culture be damned.
@@_zombie_queen_ yes and yes
Horrible! All he had to do was divorce her and go on with their lives.
Good 911 phone operator. He knew what to ask and what to advise. Good info provided by both.
Not very bright was he? Leaving only a 30 minute window for someone to have broken in, attack Jessica, tie her up, strangle her and ransack the house! Didn’t even need a police officer to review the evidence & work out that it was him…
Also that 999 call was a dead give away. Who needs to ask if they need to take the duct tape of their spouses mouth or is more concerned about a burglary at the start of a 999 call
Just as well the Bazturd.
This man has now got what he wanted! The rest of his life living closely with other men
You're right, it's funny and ironic
He's gonna love it though
@@menaceledennis Let's hope not. Too much of a good thing
You are fast becoming my favorite true crime channel!
This is crazy, Dr Amit Patel was my landlord in the early 2000's whilst he was at medical school! OMG
This could have been prevented if he had a divorce or, better yet, broken away from his parent's tradition and live his true life.
This could've been prevented if she left.
he wanted the embryos and money.
I have seen many guys around me in real life who hide their sexual orientation because of fear but drag another girl unnecessarily ruining her life too not only that they let all of their frustration out on her. may it be physically or mentally when it's not even her fault.
He is a greedy and pure evil person. Wanted the money and the embryo which wouldn't have been possible if he divorced her
It was just not a loveless marriage … he wanted money and even a free embryo 😡😡😡😡😡
Wow what an evil man he was...and I wonder what his Mum who verbally abused Jessica thinks of her "golden son" now...I'm sorry but the sentence is not long enough he planned this over many year's...he pumped insulin into her so that she couldn't move while he ransacked their house...then came back and killed Jessica with his bare hand's he should never be released...RIP Jessica 😥 her family must be so shocked at how this man that they thought they knew turned out to be such an evil person 😡
I think she'd have made a narrative in their head which places the blame elsewhere so that the boy is still golden... especially to others.
People like that end to double down because if their child is looked at badly, it’s a negative reflection on them.
He's not a man he's a monster.
The police call at the begining gave it all away. He was more focused on giving information that wasn't relevant.
This happened in my home town. I remember this happening. Heartbreaking.
Absolutely heartbreaking. Jessica deserved so much more. I wish she would have realized it before that evil, wicked, heartless man took her life. My heart goes out to her family and friends.
Knew from the start Jessica's husband did it. How can some kill and then ransack a house completely all within 30 minutes. Though the first giveaway was when he said her hands were cold. The guy is a pharmacist and should have known better. R.I.P Jessica.
Yes. He should have read the book, "How to get away with murder".
Seriously, one hour isn't nearly enough time for a human to feel 'cold' within a controlled climate.
@@temp_unknown Yes....and I thought he had read up on how to get away with a murder. What a disappointment. He obviously is a very low intelligence man.
He should have got things ready ahead of time, like the CCTV cameras should have removed a week before and dumped in a lake with bag of cement. He was so stingy that he didn't want to throw the duct tape away. And who ransackes a house like that? Even a 9 year would tell him that is too obvious! And the best tip is..get rid of the bodies. Use bags of cement and boat to do it at night on a lake. Ideally you want to take up fishing as a hobby so that you have the boat already and make sure you go night fishing a few times prior. Also get as many people to see you go night fishing so they can vouch for us that was unusual for you to go night fishing. And finally buy the cement from a store with no CCTV and use cash!
I think I got everything.
No body. No case. You can say, she ran off with another person. And stick to your story! Bingo! That's the way to do it! And I didn't even read the handbook on "How to get away with murder".
ps...and don't Google how to do it. They will go through your search history!
Oh, so were both Jessica and Minesh pharmacists? I thought it was just her, I kept wondering about his occupation. Why was he looking up insulin? He would know exactly what happens and what dose is lethal etc., in fact he had access to a pharmacy of drugs to choose from.
I live in a Caribbean country made up of almost 50% Indian or people from east Indian decent. This is soooooo common. Domestic abuse is very common but the shocking this is that it's usually widely known among the family. They usually ask the ladies to stay because divorce is a shame. Within the past year, we have had so many cases of violence against women, domestic violent and it almost always ends up in murder suicides ....the Indian community needs to stop facilitating this nonsense. They usually know the daughters and daughters in law and being beaten and sometimes even raped by the husband's and they don't do anything!!! Hypocrites
My heart goes out to you and yours Jessica. This stranger thanks you and , please believe, loves you.
Considering all his premeditation and research, he is one of the dumbest murderers. He should have watched more true crime shows and he would have learnt that faking a break-in is easily recognisable when police see all the drawers and cupboards open and stuff strewn all over the place. Not to mention having evidence still on the premises for the police to find. This guy was not smart at all. Glad he got caught. RIP Jessica. Well, where he is going, he will be living a grindr lifestyle every day.
Just the 999 call... The amount of irrelevant details he gave (out to see the lads at work, etc.) was an immediate red flag, lol
Very few get away with murder, in the end, most of them are caught. And sometimes it all depends on the investigators.
Hahahahhahahaaha
Sorry- The crime itself is not humorous whatsoever, of course; it need not even be said.
But the Grindr comment…. That gave me a laugh. Good ol’ dark humor. Much appreciated.
Oh, hiya.
not as dumb as jessica apparently though
This poor woman, I feel so sad that she had to go through all that fertility treatment and how hard that would of been. What a god awful monster he is. I hope he rots. Rip in peace Jessica 💕🕊 xx
When Jessica knew that Mitesh was Gay, she could have asked for separation or divorce. There was no need for her to drag that marriage and leading to her unfortunate and untimely death! I guess gay men are being projected in a bad way by this series in a country where the word Gay has found legal acceptance. Mitesh could have confided to her about his feelings, got a divorce to settle with the man that he wanted but went horribly wrong in doing this heinous crime of killing an innocent soul. May Jessica, RIP!
I live in linthorpe and I remember this happening, honestly couldn’t believe something like this could happen on your doorstep.
When I first heard his voice I thought it was a woman why he couldn't just accept who he is & be proud & ignore his family & just get a divorce so heartbreaking & selfish he killed his beautiful wife poor lady 😭🙏 he is so evil I'm afraid he's probably enjoying prison with all the men it's so sad he deserves to suffer 😡
I also assumed it was a woman on the 911 call so have to think his relatives were deeply in denial about his homosexuality.
Poor girl, what she had to endure - the heartbreak of finding out her husband is cheating with men, difficult medical treatments and thinking she cannot have a child when it wasn't her fault, abuse from her mother in law and her POS husband, and finally agonizing death. Absolutely heartbreaking.
Right! Note that you mention it, it’s actually a form of abuse that he made her think infertility was her fault when he was taking medicine to suppress his sperm😤
He really inflicted torture on the poor woman. I definitely wouldn’t be trying for a baby with him. My ph balance is important to me.
@@jaijai5250 Lmao. Your PH balance!? What does that have to do with anything? You’re not a Hydrangea flower.
I come across this post today, and it breaks my heart to see how evil the ones that we trust to protect, love, and guide us can end up be the one that ended precious life.
I have gone through. Domestic violence for 14 years now. Finally, when I managed to get the courage to come out and seek help, for my abuse to end,I find myself in the same position. Nothing has change, I,m still up today going through domestic violence by the same perpetrator my ex partner. even though we are separated, he still find ways to get to me.
by emotionally and verbally abusing me
unfortunately, in my case, I have not been protected by the police whatsoever After up to today. I’m in fear of my life every day with children depend on me to protect them. It’s very sad that this beautiful angel have to go through this tragic situation. I pray that her soul rest in peace by the grace of the Almighty God 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 and I pray that one day I will find the help that I’m seeking before it’s too late for me.
Pls get help
well done truly, this and the shrein one, well done.
This case is similar to the one of Anny Dewali who was killed on her honeymoon here in South Africa.her so cold husband got away with her murder🙄.and it was suspected that he was also gay!why do they get married with woman when they know they are gay?ending up killing them for no reason😥
The 999 call alone revealed enough to know he was behind the murder but putting her through IVF cycles was another level of cruelty by the narcissistic man. RIP, Jessica.
Edited to reflect it was the UK's emergency services number rather than that for the US.
ironically he was in the house for 1 hr before calling for help😮
999
It's 999 🤫
@@Battismore-Blue My apologies; I'm so accustomed to hearing cases involving the US that I am used to typing 911 if commenting.
@@richard7645 My apologies. I've edited my OP to indicate this.
I live just round the corner from where this happened and honestly going past the house is unbelievably eerie!
So scary! Can’t ever wrap your head around anything like this. So terrible.
I watch plenty of true crime vids. This one upset me more than usual. Jessica seemed like an absolutely beautiful human being.
She's partly to blame. Literally HUGE RED FLAGS everywhere...and she still chose to marry and stay with him.
Exactly, and she was selfish enough to try to bring children into that abusive dangerous horrible family. What about how their lives would have been living that lie.
@@Lotsielots the culture indoctrinated into you is that as soon as you have kids, everything is fine
@@Lotsielots that would be my only criticism of her. It’s abusive to bring innocent children into marriages plagued with domestic abuse.
I'm sorry you're going to VICTIM BLAME??? Are you serious???
This channel is truly a treasure, and a labor of love!
Good job❤
A perfect example of the detrimental effects of systemic patriarchal violence particularly in strict gender normative cultures.
Literally knew it was the husband 2 seconds into the phone call....pathetic attempt to look innocent
It's hardly Agatha Christie. The killer always makes the call on this channel.
@@eadweard. I never realized that lol
He did research for perfect murder than leave so many loop holes what a noob