DEALING WITH DEPRESSION & ANXIETY DURING UNEMPLOYMENT
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In a strange twisted way, I find comfort in knowing that I am not alone.
same!
Yes honey you are not alone
On month 2, and I’ve never felt more free… and simultaneously never felt worse in my life.
Nearly at month 3. It's so brutal the feeling of not being "good enough" for things you're perfectly qualified for. I've lowered my standards so much and still nothing. Hang in there brother, it's not easy.
Any updates? Hoping things are looking better for you guys
5 years unemployed and depressed. I honestly feel like I have no more worth in this world
I hope u doing okay. I will be better at the end of the day!
im on a four years unemployment im twenty seven years old lmaoooo you should try stand up comedy if u live in nyc and just talk about your problem on stage, your not the only one lol we are all fucked together
Do you have a husband or wife that takes care of you or are you living with parents? How can you be unemployed 5 years and still pay rent? I’ve been unemployed for 10 months and I’m 4 months late on rent
@@stevenstancell I have parents that take care of me financially, in hindsight it looks like I’m a spoiled asshole for being taken care of, but my anxiety and depression stems from my childhood neglect so when I go into job interviews I get super nervous and I start to get panic attacks and it’s just hard for me to get a job, a lot of people think I’m lazy for being unemployed for so long, but what they don’t know is I been going to interviews back to back and failing all of them because I can’t get the nervousness out of my system and the longer I’m unemployed the more depressed I get, job interviews suck too because you have to play a professional role and that’s just not me, in this world you can only get so far when you play up your character and fake your resume so employers want you, I try to get menial jobs too like McDonald’s employee and they don’t even want me, i just don't like the fact that job interviews feel like auditions, and it makes it feel like the only way i can live is if i make the employer like me....its so fake....makes me feel like a stripper "dance for me so i can give you this minimum wage job"….
And family pressure.
5 months unemployed after end my education. I try to go for walks 10 k steps. But like today, it's not a good day. I feel alone among others when I'm outside as if they all judge me for just wandering around.
Feeling okay at times and hopeful, few hours later I'm depressed and not able to find motivation to look for jobs or write another application that I don't know if they even are going to look at.
I find comfort in reading others stories on being unemployed. Some of 1,5 years, not that it's my goal to wait that long time. But it sort of feels like I'm not the only one struggling.
Also single, so I can't help feeling how different my drive would be to have a girlfriend. I'm can be to hard on myself so it be helpful to have someone saying "don't worry".
Hopefully this new year brings new opportunities. Never loose hope, but it's okay when you feel hopeless, just know that it won't stay like that.
Am in the same boat with you brother.
It isn't easy
@kennsez same here also
1.5 years unemployed and depression absolutely harsh seeing rejection after rejection, 500+ rejections and the other half just ghosting.
It's very depressing how miserable the applicable process has gotten along with the rude harassment lack of morals and values at some jobs too...
Going through this now. The worst moments are when I wake up I get a wave of emptiness and a feeling that my heart is soaked and heavy. The feeling is awful and almost suicidal. It lasts a few seconds/minutes before I distract myself eg by getting out of bed/couch, logging into the internet to read something, etc. I have also enrolled at the gym in the evening and this makes me feel better afterwards. Generally, I feel worse in the morning and much better as the day ends. However, my worry is, how long will this take? Will I feel like this forever? How did I find myself here where I know no peace? ( I am writing this as a 30-year-old medical doctor in Kenya)
Try doing some yoga in morning and meditate. Have that time to love yourself and remember you are not alone. I also am in this position ATM !
I been suffering depression and anxiety for along time plus lost jobs because of it I have no friends plus no family where I live and it can be really stressful I’m the only child so I have no siblings to talk to for comfort. I’m at a point in my life where I feel I have no reason to be here anymore. Day by day I’m
Not happy and my life is a Blair
Looking at social media doesn’t make it no better plus I just found out I have lupus I just feel like I’m facing problems after problems I pray I try to find therapist but their no hope. Your video help me this morning I needed this
Hey you do not deserve to be self imprisoned by so much of the negative. Even if it seems minimal there is positive in your life and im unemployed at 22 for 1 full year now and I want to tell you that you deserve to still smile. FOR ANYONE READING THIS YOU DESERVE TO SMILE AND BE HAPPY IN YOUR JOURNEY OF LIFE ! I am praying you all see that and that God reveals himself to you all…even if you can’t already see him through this comment.
@@traydavis7750 Thank you your right 😌 I pray we all have a good year of 2024 and many more to go 🙏🏽 better & happier days are coming
You are like me. I am the only child in family. I have only a few friends and they are busy.
Hopefully things are turning with each day that passes, I love you you got this! I believe in you
I got an inheritance of 154’000, I immediately quit my job at lowes because at the time I thought it was killing me. I now have paid for school, a decent car and a house (with my partners help, who has a career)
And with all of these achievements, I have never felt so meaningless, I apply for a couple jobs a day, I get stuff done around the house, I take care of our four dogs, but I still constantly feel like I am nothing. I have this intense pressure and heaviness on my chest and in the front of my head all day, and sometimes I feel like ending my life, because it just feels so incredibly hard to find fulfillment.
@biancam.3828 I feel you because I just got fired and I know unemployment from my past. I also have kids and animals to care for but the feelings you describe are the same. On the other hand it really makes me sad that we all feel this way, that we got our entire self worth out of this and I ask myself why is this so? I think home work does not count for societys standards but to be true I also feel lonely now without my co-workers.
Month 6 i don’t even care anymore. This world is better for others
11 months of unemployment due to the interview anxiety problem, and at the end of all sources. Cannot sleep anymore, but will keep fighting.
Stay strong brother, you are not alone in this fight
found a job after a 14 months of an unemployment period with tens of interviews. I just used a half dideral (beta-blocker - do not use without asking to the doctor), and a glass of wine before the interview. The whole interview was great, I was able to express myself during the interview, and performed well. But I accept that I have a performance anxiety problem, none of the therapy or anti-depressants helped on the long term.
It's funny, but that's how I got my first job too. A few shots just before the interview, and I had plenty of sober interviews before that, that didn't work out. 😂😂😂
4 years of unemployed and I'm alive... I'm laughing at my depression and my life that I'm still clinging.... don't know what will be my future, don't know my worth of being alive, don't know if anyone cares ...but I'm hopeful...because magic happens in life and I'm waiting for my time.... 😊..... I know people behind me curse my existence, I know they don't care about me, they want me dead instead and I'm laughing at my life, it's making me laugh because it is giving me such pain... well, if life gives you unbearable pain then pain becomes part of you, and you won't feel anything more torturous... maybe I'm used to this pain. And this pain takes away your fear for future, atleast Nothing worse is going to happen....yes, I'm not sure why I became retarded away from life. I don't know what went wrong. Maybe I don't belong here, maybe my birth was a mistake, maybe I won't worth anything here and Nothing here belongs to me..... I think, I belongs to my own loneliness...my loneliness never betrays me, I can talk to me I can cry about my failure and regret. Maybe I can blame my fault of missing out of my chance, but my loneliness hears everything. Nothing tastes good, Nothing feels good, the only thing that excites is my loneliness. I became curse and shame for my family, because they have to hear the stories of success that my age people are enjoying....where exactly I'm here? Nowhere. I GENUINELY WANT TO BE ME, I WANT TO BE LOVED, TO BE ADMIRED BUT IT'S NOTHING RIGHT HERE.. ONE THING ONE MUST REMEMBER, THE WORLD IS A CRAB, IF YOU ARE NOT STRONG ENOUGH THEN IT WILL BITE you till it will crush your existence...
I wish I could meet u
coz u wrote everything I feel each day..
u seem like Indian and a girl.
I'm same..
I graduated, got few job offers then but salary wasn't that good and I wanted to crack UPSC...so I took into full time of preparation....
All I did was stay in my room and study and study...My bf of 10 yrs, left me got married 😂
My parents curse me , think I'm burden..😂
I'm currently 4 yrs unemployed... I'm searching for job like crazy.. I cry all by my own. I can't fall asleep. When I go to bed, I wish I didn't have to wake up anymore. When I wake upI have this massive headache, I feel tried and I keep wondering how I'm supposed to go through the entire day today...
The hardest part of Evrything is:
My parents, who are most dearest to me..I hurt them so much. I was a topper in my class and now I'm an embarrassment to my parents..
I don't want to die but I wish I can sleep and not have to wake up..😂
I have nobody to talk to and anyone I talk to won't understand what I'm going through. So I keep writing in my journal...
yesterday I was reading my journal...
Evrything I wrote in last 4 yrs, made me feel miserable about myself. I can't believe I felt that way each day... I want to be happy but Idk how to do that...
nvm, I won't hurt myself.
I won't die...
I'll somehow get a job.. Idk how but I have to...
all the best to u too...
if I get a job, I'll come back here to inform u...
if anything good happens to u , can u let me know too... I'll happy for u..
U deserve happiness.. I want u to be happy....U got this...
let's keep fighting 💪🏻
@@trusfratedkim4226 I feel for you. same situation here, unemployed, no relationship, burden for parents, got sick family members, lonely, depressed and broken...
I am trying to look for the small things in life that i can be grateful for..like having strength to do small jobs around the house, having a roof over my head when many suffer in the heat without a roof or a place to go, just having food and water to drink, surviving and small things like that..
maybe u struggle to sleep because of continual negative thoughts and poor mental health.. it affects your sleep and gives headache at times..
just stop in a between, breathe, go outside and look at nature if possible, take a walk outside (safely), write 3 things you are grateful for, it need be a job or people or materialistic things, just small things like being grateful for basic necessities, having strength each day and things like that.. Gratitude can help your perspective.. Give it a try..wishing you only the best
You matter and I love you
@@trusfratedkim4226stay strong you're gonna get through this......prayers are with you.
I am in this situation..
Have been working out everyday… yoga / calisthenics…. But the anxiety doesn’t goes off… you wake up with a tension about future and sleep with the same.. z
Thank you so much for this lovely video. The breath-work definitely helped take some of the edge off of my anxiety. I am ready to get back out there and to have fulfilling life again! :)
Im 62.. loved my great job for 20yrs.. i made a very bad decision,.. and my job was over. It has destroyed me.. My job & workplace, friends, etc.. was my life. I was devastated,. I have depression now. Life is horrible now.
I hope you find peace and happiness again❤
@Clannah 🙏Thank you for caring about me..
Appreciate your hope of happiness again.
I haven't yet recovered, depression is so unbearable. I've reached out.. talked to everyone possible.... still, I'm unable to accept 😌
It's so terrible when you love something or someone so much. When it's, or they're gone.... can take the life out of you, and nothing any longer means anything.
I've called 988 many times. I'm not doing well....
T Y... for caring ⚘️
KaL
@@klanderkal I understand you but sometimes its necessary to let go things. Maybe its a chance for you to explore more and have different world. Again i hope u find the right thing for you
@Clannah Thank you for the hope for me..
My job was as a city bus driver, was the best job I ever had. It became my everything. All my friends, coworkers, passengers. ...
I was so attached. And made my workplace a second home, and my family.
It's affected me terribly. Caused me to have anxiety and depression. ( and insomnia ). I'm now, unable to enjoy life.
It all was a mistake. This all shouldn't have happened.
I planned on living out this job for my whole life. It wasn't work for me.
..... im so upset, all that had happened. I just can't believe it.
It's ruined my life, my mental and physical health. Im never happy anymore. Depression really is a horrible illness.
It's been 8 months..
I can't stand it.
Thanks for sharing this. Very helpful. ❤
The morning can be so bad that I sometimes have to call off the entire day. I hate that but U am having hell in my mind being unemployed. So much time to think. Worried I’ll appear nervous our out of date. Just hell. No you are not alone congrtyoh can get out of bed. Go into town talk to ppl maybe. But it sounds like you have the inner strength to conquer this situation. Wish you help and heart!
Thank you, I needed that today.
I'm on this situation
8 months of unemployment...
Been there, it gets rough but it will end. The light at the end of the tunnel is coming, don't give up
13 months... Insomnia... But learning to regain the faith through recession
Were exacty the same 😢😭@@STUPIDCZcams_HIDINGMSGS
1.5 years of unemployment...
2 years unemployment and still (india)
Felling worse and worse everyday 😫😖
2 months of unemployment....but you relaxed me now ...with " i am here"
3 years now. If it wasnt for side gigs, aww man.
In India it is very common..
I need help 😢
5 months unemployment, more rejection more disappointed. im thinking a lot right now, negative thoughts.
👍
almost 3 years unemployed, looking like i'm heading for a very short life
Hang on buddy
Hang on
Hang in there! You'll find something. Went through the same situation. People around you make it much worse than it really is by calling you useless, dumb and worthless. But, your day comes. Don't worry!
4 years of unemployment
Working for companies is hopeless these days , just being working and poor isn’t going to give you hope or motivation to work !
Yoga doesn’t give you a job…
The worst thing is because your parent demanding you get a job.. 😅😅😂😂
No one is hiring
No one hires, and if they do its part time....we can't live on part time work
Unemployment (depression) or Underemployment (burnout)... pick up...that's what we have these days.
YOGA???? Seriously???? Then what???
Yoga doesnt pay the bills.......
2 years of unemployment
I might lose my job......which is sooo scary
@@mihirwadyekar2000what do you do for a living
@@HiYashika employed as a fresher in private sector
@@mihirwadyekar2000btw what is your salary?
@@HiYashika 12k / mnth