He completely loses it when she speaks out at his parole hearing
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If he can't control himself during a parole hearing he sure can't control himself on the street.
You can tell by the way he talks that he’s gonna be a problem forever
To every woman's horror
@@KimberlyBishh Females aren't his only victims. The husbands, children, friends, relatives, and the members of society are also his victims.
true. But women will be his primary target. @@EvanBlaze-fq5eg
Well put lol
Yup
As a retired parole officer I keep waiting for him to say he found God and is now a new person.
Me too. They all find god in jail
Yup
It truly happens to some but I know what you mean. Jail is “God’s Hotel.” 🕊️
@@WJK2198 “There are no atheists in a foxhole.” 🕊️⚡️🙏
And he did and he is, according to his statement
20 yrs of protective orders, why is he up for parole ever????
Because the sentencing court decreed it so.
GOOD question...😮
Maybe these woman are liars?
@@Jimbo0341usmc Possible...but not too probable...
@@Jimbo0341usmc😂😂😂 This guy is a crackhead, an alcoholic, a hothead, a habitual offender but yeah, THEY'RE lying
55-years old with the emotional maturity level of a kid and completely clueless about it.
He literally sounds like a 14 year old boy with emotional problems 😬
Knowing your parole hearing is coming and you show up unprepared..childish..
Lashing out...projecting blame.
Someone didn't understand the assignment!!
It does make me wonder about his intellectual capacity or if he genuinely has some mental issues. He just doesn’t get it, at all, not even to allow him to give the usual canned assurances to the parole hearing that any simpleton ought to understand. Surely a person who has been around this same block MANY times before should be expected to be able to get it, it’s not that complicated.
@@jill7759you are right. Sometimes individuals are simply stupid. We don’t all get the same quality grey matter 😅
I honestly think (thanks to my handy dandy commenter's guide to internet diagnosis 😆), that what reads as 'immature' (although he absolutely is) and 'clueless' (well, ditto on that, too) is ultimately down to straight-up psychopathy.
The creepy narcissist is a dangerous menace.
Omg. It hilarious! He can’t stop laughing. I’m surprised they didn’t let him out cuz he was laughing as that might be a sign of distress! lol…
The demonic 👹👹👹
At least he's not clever enough to fool a parole board. Those are the ones we have to really look out for. And those who do exactly what this man is in jail for, but have money and/or power, or name recognition, to evade the consequences.
I don't think he is a narcissist. Not very clever one anyway, since he wasn't able to spin some BS to get on parole. A clever narcissist would have manipulated his way out of there and back to his usual crimes...
@@ermaek2145 when it comes to manipulative behaviour, narcissists are actually a few tricks ponies. In other words they are slaves of a particular pattern of behaviour which they find impossible to break from and their cunning, conniving, crafty habit is no exception. Consequently their devious nature;- all their guile & gaslighting & scheming antics & intellectual gymnastics which constitute their perpetual enterprises in sheer "bad faith" - become extremely easy to predict; very very predictable for people cursed to spend some time close to them. The catch is that they are also very very good; exceptionally good at those few manipulative tricks up their sleeves. This is so because the pathological narcissistic personality disorder starts developing when a person is as young as 7-8 years old and becomes irreversibly concrete by the time that person is in his/her late teens. Now it is from her/his pre-teens to early teens that such a person has started figuring out which type of devious and manipulative behaviour works for her/him and then devote her/him-self at honing them, refining them, mastering them single-mindedly for the rest of her/his life. As a result, by the time they are young adults, they're already very good with those small bunch of scheming antics which they have been honing much of their formative years and are able to easily manipulate most people who did not have the misfortune of being in their vicinity ie. close enough to observe the same couple of strategies and same bunch of tactics being employed by the narcissist repeatedly over and over again.
Want to ensure that your parole application is going to be denied?
...Laugh at your victim.
😂😂IKR!
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While claiming you're the actual victim
He knew he wouldn't get parole
"There's nothing more I can do to better myself!!"
Wow. Zero self-awareness.
Sadly that is a very true statement, he can't better himself.
I am not defending him, but I wonder if he was trying to articulate that there was "nothing more I can do to better myself within the prison walls" and he just didn't have the articulation skills to say that? Just food for thought.
That comment was unreal.
@@bratlygirlbut truthful 😂
@@KayPrescesky Pretty sure everything else he said before and afterwards indicates that is definitely not what he meant.
"How to fail a parole hearing".
Laughing at the victim's statement will really help his cause!
How to FAIL PAROLE 101
You're not lying! Sorry I didn't see this before making my post which is kinda similar to yours. Great minds think alike 😁
WAR EAGLE @@RollTide24-7
How to fail in life.
He's the perfect picture of a sociopath.
You are exactly correct! Sociopaths always blame others. So manipulative etc. True Eddie Haskells of the world.
@@Big_Pickle same with narcissists.
Or possibly just a true village idiot!
Whoever sentenced him to just 4 years for this crime should be removed from office
They have guidelines for how long they can put someone in jail based on their crime. They cant put someone in jail for 20 yrs for littering. And they cant put this guy in jail for over 4 years just for violation of a protective order.
@@Tech9Jacket”just for violating a protective order “ is a horrifying statement.
This man beaded an attorney
He violated a protective order. She even said he didn't hit her! What do you want, give him life!😂 People like you think with emotions. Bet you are a woman.
@@George-sc3wo Like cornrows?
He has no respect for women
Glad the garbage is staying in the can.
Not for long...In the stb parolee's own words: "I didn't even ask for this parole hearing..."; The prison wants him gone, so they have room for more prisoners that actually physicaly harmed someone...He has "changed", in that he knows this, and was attempting to be brutally honest about the reality surrounding his incarceration. He has learned he is better off alone. (Whether the cause of all the issues in his relationships, or not...Him staying/forming these relationships is at least %50 of his problems. No relationships= No problems.
@brentfarvors192 a scary amount of projection in your comment 😬
@@brentfarvors192 You seriously think the “cure” is staying out of relationships and he will in fact stay single??!!
@@brentfarvors192 this kind of thing scares me. This guy is obviously a criminal who is doing “circle thinking” by not realizing his mistakes and improving. He’s obviously mentally and emotionally bereft, and a substance abuser, with no intention of ever living in society without pushing back. For you to say what you said is just astonishing and I’m having trouble closing in my jaw.
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He doesn't like being grilled by a woman. Arms crossed, raising his voice and acting defiant at a parole hearing of all places. He hasn't learned anything. It's only lip service so he can get out.
Yes. I noticed his knee was really bouncing up and down when the first woman grilled him. It stopped when the man was talking to him.
He’s not “ acting “ his defiance is set in stone.
Shudder at the thought of him released from prison.
That wasn't even good lip service
He said" I only did crack once!" It must have been from 2012-2022!
Women can be very shrill
He hasn't learned anything from his DV classes! A control freak will never change, he'll just find another victim!
He's been convicted 14 times for violence
Domestic abusers NEVER change. I learned this from a DV counselor who had been a police officer for over 30 years. He counseled abusers. He saw first-hand over the course of his career that they DON'T CHANGE, the DON'T STOP HURTING OTHERS!
“Nothing I do is good enough…” is what crappy people say when they are confronted with evidence of their total lack of effort to please anyone.
Not always. In this case, yes.
@@thebenjandboc6981 Yes, clearly OP has never dealt with a controlling narcissist who can never be pleased.
Him walking out of this hearing should be EMPHASIZED at his next hearing. What a man-baby.
The Judge did, right after he's left.
I love how too when he was told to turn around he childishly only turned halfway back.
Will he have another hearing before his release date? I hope not.
@@tp5561 if I was a prosecutor seeing that I'd demand a psych profile and a hearing to determine if its safe to release him.
Yes and why didn't the guard stop him from leaving? The hearing wasn't over.
Dudes like this are the type of people that should never be allowed out of prison 🙄
Yet half the country wants to make another guy, who's pretty much the same, President.
@@stevenbrucci I don't think it's half, but probably like 35% of voting age people do. Just need people to turn the hell out and vote and that idiot goes away.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder 101
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Agree wholeheartedly... survivor of lifetime abuse, neglect by a gaslighting male parent.
@penelopelgoss2520 both of mine were, but it was mom who targeted me. Hugs 🤗 🫂
@@Sandra.Sandy.Robinson I am so sorry to hear this Sandra. I hope you have found, collected and set up both your professional and personal foundations of support, advice, guidance, hand-holding, shoulders to cry on and ears that listen. My best to you on your road of life! 🤗 Hugs back😉
Notice the only time he doesn't cut someone off from talking is when it's the man speaking to him. Throw that key away, that woman will never be safe with him free.
This dude can't take accountability for anything! He is broken no fixing him! Keep him locked up!
Clarice Caufield reminds me of cauliflower smoothy
Exactly. If he can't live by the rules of society, then he can't live in society. That's what the whole point of jail and prison is for. Harsher sentences are what we need to get back to because these light sentences and early parole are just not teaching these people anything.
"I take 100% responsibility." Proceeds to blame everyone else.
Precisely. . .
I, I, I, ME, ME, ME,--- Truly Psychopathic Ideology.
We are ALL Safer with him Exactly Where He IS.
@@teresayates8274Thankyou Darling Person.
Just like any other drunk, nothing is his fault.
Narcissist's are never wrong /at fault. / if its undeniable it's still someone else's fault they were in that position or had no choice.
Not a drunk .. a narcissist
He still thinks that he is the victim. I can't see his mindset ever changing for the better.
He’s 55 and acting like this speaks volumes
Maybe, he's so self-aware that he knows he's not ready to get out of prison that he's blowing it on purpose... Bwahhhh
@@B_Bodziak could be, if that’s true he could’ve still been honest instead of acting like a two year old
This dude's level of comprehension is far below what it should be for his age.
Narcissists are adult toddlers. They don’t comprehend.
You're not wrong.
Always the victim, never the victimizer. This guy will never change!
Yea 😒 unfortunately growing up in chaos & continuing it into older age. Age does not represent mental/emotional growth! More less raised by teen adults & continued it. Education does much more than just line the pockets nicely!
Years of substance abuse will do that...
He says he takes "100% responsibility" so he needs help with math too.
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😂😂😂😂 brilliant
Teaching him to count is the least of the problem for society. He's a real clown isn't he.
He's mad as hell.lol
What a stupid comment!
“How To Stay In Jail 101”
He should NEVER be in public again!
Absolutely! Now somebody needs to inform the parole board bc they release these abusive, dangerous monsters everyday !!! 👿🤬🤮 Heart breaking!!! 💔
He’s in so much denial. No way is he ready to be released. He’s dangerous to society.
Why are these people even up for parole? Just because they haven’t been in trouble in prison? Of course he hasn’t been in trouble - no women to abuse in jail!
They have more rights than their victim.
Too many corrupt prosecutors, judges, police etc have put away innocent people so the over correction what we see here.
Wouldn't dare make trouble with men.
She said you stopped drinking in 2012 and picked up the crack.... that laid me out😂😂😂😂😂
Was reading 📖 this just as she said it . Omg the way she said it.
I thought it's going to be the victim saying that, the parole board saying it is 💋 chefs kiss
Talk about your trade ups! 😉 😜
I find that to be not odd only because I picked up more substances but didn’t drop the old ones. I am 4 years clean and sober from iv meth and opiates. I also drank until black out drunk and did ghb every day the last year of active addiction. When I decided I was tired of living that way I got up the next day and was done. I just didn’t do any drugs and didn’t drink and got up every day after that and made the choice not to. It never made me do something horrible to another person! It is not the fault of drugs or alcohol! These men are predators and drugs and alcohol just make their inhibitions low where they don’t think about consequences. They are just awful monsters.
"I did a complete 180." Nah, man, you did a 360.
"I got a job and bought a big house." Reality: he abused and coerced a woman into putting his name on the deed of the house she already owned and paid for as a nurse. He is SO gross!
So rude and full of himself. He is dangerous 😳
I agree. He's not a good person. He gives me a bad feeling.
The parole board got a masterclass of a prisoner demonstrating "I am an incorrigible bastard".
As well as being an insufferable bastard.
He doesn’t take accountability, laughing just shows how dangerous he is still after all those years, he is done.
Misogyny is hate. Charge these men with hate crimes.
I’m feeling a lot of anger in this post. 😂
He says there's nothing more he can do to better himself. Ok. I guess he's a lost cause, then. Egotistical creep.
It would be great if the parole board took him at his word and said, "okay if this is your best, you will never be released because you are not fit to live in society."
I do not think this guy has a clue as to what the right answer even is.
He’s made himself crazy inside his cocoon of lie upon lie upon lie. That’s why he can’t find the right answer.
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"I lost my son last time I was locked up. I lost my nephew. What more can I do?" Trying to use the deaths of his son and nephew as signs of his own strength is disgusting. Lowlife creep. He will never change.
If you've never lost a child, you and others like you should sit down and stfu.
He's refusing a settlement to remove his name from the deed. Therefore, he has NO ability or intention to respect a no contact order. End of story.
He wants the money (1/2 the house).
His shaking his head and laughing at the beginning of and during the victim’s impact statement say it all
Keep him in prison for as long as possible
@@Grammichal Pig had no right to ask to be on it in the first place.
13 unsuccessful releases is 12 too many.
Yes he should stay in for life
Girl protect yourself at all cost
I'm genuinely scared for her. He's sat in prison getting angrier and angrier at her " for putting him in there" I hope the police keep extremely close tabs on him and that LE make sure there's no way he can find her. The lengths a narcissist will go to if you leave them is frightening.
Hopefully she has a new identity & has moved far away.
@@Ruth78620 that's part of the problem with protective orders. And they said she has a 25 year protective order. But the problem is that he has to know where to stay away from to avoid violating the order, so her home & work address is put on these orders. But obv in his case he uses these orders to find, harass, & obviously violate the order. This is not safe, she may be while he's on parole, but like he did the last time, as soon as he got off parole, he immediately went back to doing what he does best, abusing women. With all the charges & convictions going back to the mid 80's, I don't know why he's not considered a habitual offender or a predicate felon that should be used to give harsh sentences.
He will eventually get out and she better be prepared to protect herself. She needs to be very familiar with a firearm.
At 55, in and out of prison, pos attitude…ya, he’ll never change. Keep him in forever.
Thank you. I am disgusted at the Judge/Court who let this psycopath back into society to abuse, intimidate, humiliate and destroy numerous women's lives. Watching him made me feel physically sic, he's revolting and despicable. His record demonstrates his narcissistic, psychopathic, violent, insolent and unconscionable behaviour. He should never have been released from prison to continue his pathological threatening and terryfying persistent sexual molestation, when his entitled and aggressive advances were made on women. His sister sounds as bad by refusing to sign over the house his ex-wife was bullied and no doubt intimidated to sign.
5K into his account 🤦🏻♀️ Put his name on her deed
Well, they can’t just keep human beings in prison when that person didn’t even physically touched the victim. Throwing out names and dishes doesn’t call for one to be locked up forever. So naturally, he’s going to be released after some time. They didn’t release him here after 2 years of prison time and the victim stated he had never physically abused her.
@@BS-dq1kz Domestic violence hasn't historically been taken seriously in legislative circles and laws were weak and often unenforceable. After many highly publicized cases in New York the law was changed and police officers responding to emergency calls no longer had to depend upon victims to make arrests. That was a game changer
@@BS-dq1kz Domestic violence against women hasn't historically been taken seriously in legislative circles. Laws were weak and often unenforceable; women unbelieved. After many highly publicized cases in New York the law was changed and police officers responding to emergency calls no longer had to depend upon victims to make arrests. That was a game changer
Liberalism.
He needs to stay in prison. He’s clearly a danger.
You would think they give 10+ years for violating THAT many restraining orders
If it were ten separate people maybe, they dont care if one woman gets killed, a community being bothered while cops do nothing will cause some problems however.
Removal of moniter and escape on a motorcycle that alone and failing community work release. Good grief this guy needs more time in added on. Not parole
He takes ZERO responsibility for anything he has done.
Typical of a narcissist
He had no clue
"There's nothing more I can do to improve myself." That's where I was done.
Please don't be in Jury duty.. Thank You 🤦🏽🤦🏽
This poor soul has zero self awareness. He has no understanding of his behavior. All he wants to do is blame others and drugs/ alcohol.
No self-preservation either.
Yes I also agree with you as well.
Just keep him locked up. There is no hope for some people. His criminal record, his lying and immaturity makes him too dangerous. Going before a panel to decide if you can be released early and still acting like a clown. Unbelievable !!!
Poor soul? He has no soul.
For sure! and minimize his behaviors big time. What he said and what she said about his behaviors were so far apart. Including his drug-alcohol usage. He should leave women alone!!
Lol he didn't learn anything in domestic violence class. Dropped alcohol and picked up the crack😂😂
He needs to repeat that class and take a test proving he at least learned something. Keep repeating until he learns or can at least fake it.
His body language says he doesn't want to hear what he already knows. -Alexandra
Boy… he’s got a giant chip on his shoulder. He hasn’t taken accountability for nothing. I doesn’t want out very bad. Did it too himself 😊
All I hear are excuses... why nothing is really his fault... parole DENIED
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Talking about excuses, please watch the interrogation of Jennifer Eiland. I’ve never heard someone come up with an excuse for literally everything that they’re called out on, it’s insane.
@@George_uh_Glassdo you have a link? I searched CZcams and nothing came up.
@@christiewright1457 I’m not the original poster, but I think the creator was TRU RED Crime vault.” This mother let her daughter drown “ is the Title.
How to fail a parole hearing in 10 minutes or less. 😅
How about “even with no audio”!
This is him on his BEST behavior.
The man will reoffend period. Keep him in prison to fulfill his entire sentence and mandatory parole. He needs intensive psychological counseling.
The way I screamed when she said “you dropped the alcohol and picked up the crack!” 😂😂😂
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This monster is laughing.
Monster is a strong word. Why do you say that? Seems like he never hit her. Every man has a breaking point. You're a woman, you clearly don't understand how crazy a woman can drive a man even when he has the best intentions.
I've never lifted a finger toward a woman. But been cheated on, mentally and emotionally abused by women. Lack of empathy, lack of understanding; but I don't blame you. You just have never been there, and so you don't get it.
If your analysis is "he's a monster". That is so 1D, so mid honey, so mid.
Monster is a strong word. Why do you say that? Seems like he never hit her. Every man has a breaking point. You're a woman, you clearly don't understand how crazy a woman can drive a man even when he has the best intentions.
I've never lifted a finger toward a woman. But been cheated on, mentally and emotionally ab*sed by women. Lack of empathy, lack of understanding; but I don't blame you. You just have never been there, and so you don't get it.
If your analysis is "he's a monster". That is so 1D, so mid honey, so mid.
Showing his TRUE COLORS!
That's a nervous reaction but aside from that he's a danger to society and he's an idiot.
Zero remorse. He's like a giant man-baby
He has absolutely no remorse for what he's done and accepts no responsibility. They're crazy if they let him out.
He claims to have learned things. Then he demonstrates that he has learned only how to blame everyone else more.
My son in-law was bi-polar. Once they separated (he wanted his freedom), he made several death threats. When her and the girls were on vacation, he went into the home and destroyed a lot. All sorts of crazy threats to kids, to her, tried to kill his sister, etc. We were all terrified as he seemed hell bent on killing my daughter & he beat his current girlfriend - but all of a sudden, he committed suicide. It was very sad but also relieving that no one has to be constantly afraid. Horrible for his children and my daughter still grieves, but they can go to bed at night not wondering what may happen. At court he acted like this man, same disposition, smarter than anyone, all lies against him, no respect for lawyers or judges, threats to his wife, my daughter.
Yea this guy video does NOT have bi polar 🙄🤬 stop excusing these malignant narcissists…..he’s got ZERO hope of ever being normal and nor emotionally and physically violent he’s a lost cause….and I’m gonna guess that son in law didn’t JUST have bi polar from the sound of it….I mean are you that uneducated on abusers and how they operate? How they talk? Guess not.
I’m sorry that someone felt they had to take their life, but it was probably the “best worse “ outcome in the end. I’m glad you and your daughter and the kids are safe now.
Why do you think he would do that? Your son in law had bipolar, as far as we know this man does not. I HIGHLY doubt Alan would ever commit suicide. He thinks WAY too highly of himself, and not just due to a manic episode etc, he just lives and breathes believing he is more important than others, and nothing is his fault.
@@sadiefalco4673They didn't say that they thought Alan would do the same. They were simply sharing their own story with a similarly frightening abuser. Simple. Not sure what about that confused you.
That's usually how they end up, same happened to me
13 unsuccessful releases. Wtf?
Now that is insane. 13 times
Yep, 13 and saying I just want to get back to my regular life and there is nothing else I can do to improve myself. Retired, never been in trouble and I still have things I would like to improve about myself. Yikes
Yet that woman thought getting with him was a grand idea?!? Yea ok 🙄🤣 women need to start NOT BEING SO DESPERATE FOR ANY MAN ANY DICK TO PAY ATTENTION TO THEM!!!
She's not at fault for him but you've got TO OWN YOUR CHOICES!!!
Our justice system at work
“There’s nothing more I can do to better myself…” this is probably what NOT to say at a parole hearing lol 😝
That is really a tragic statement. I’m 76 and as perfect as I might be, even I try to improve myself in so many ways.🤣😎😇. By the way, you are adorable. I don’t think I’ve ever seen you before 🫶
Omg! This dude makes my PTSD flare big time!! When he said SHE was being disrespectful it reminded me of all of the times my ex would become just plain evil saying I had disrespected him some how. Either because I found proof he was cheating, lying, or because I would try to explain that something he was accusing me of wasn't true. I was accused of calling him liar whenever I didn't just admit to something he thought I was doing. Ugh!
My sister too. This happens to so many women all the time. All the time. She refused to admit to the lies and said she would not perjure herself. She got 2 black eyes. 2 strangulations. 4 sprained thumbs. A sprained wrist. bruises we never saw. But she said those were the good parts. It was the emotional, verbal, psychological constant abuse that sucked her heart and soul out her body and there is very little support for battered women. She said why does everyone ask why the woman doesn't leave? Why don't they ask why he doesn't stop abusing his woman? That's the right question they should be asking she told me.. She was right. God rest her soul.
Personal accountability failure
Four years?! Meanwhile, we have countless innocent people serving life sentences for stuff they never did. Our judicial system is so bass ackward.
When you got prisons for profit there is definitely something wrong!
Theres not that many innocent people locked up anymore since DNA was discovered.
To all females.. If you see this man, run! Remember his face.
He’ll never change. His words drip with disdain every time he speaks about his victims.
One step away from a murderer.
What we have here is a man losing control of his situation.
He came to this with absolute conviction about how it was going to go.
He’d rehearsed it in his head over and over….it was a given…he was going to get what he wanted. He’d done his part and the rest of the world has to fall into line because he’s done his bit.
His script was learned and what we have here is it not happening hence the explosion and genuine confusion. It’s genuine. He’s bewildered….and dangerous.
They should have been more explicit about what he needs to do to pass the dv program. Because he flunked it.. Just saying I take responsibility is not taking responsibility. How? Maybe sign the house over? Apologize and send her money or work donate cash to women's shelter. Something..
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Years ago, locally, we had a shooting in the court house parking lot. The abuser shot his ex-girlfriend after their protection order hearing. He had never physically abused her before, but she was terrified of him. He had enough other disturbing, abusive behaviors that he was an absolute risk to her life.
That's ridiculous. People aren't terrified of a partner that never abused them.
@@user-sx9rx5of1c > he hadn't physically but clearly he abused her in other ways
@@TariAkpodietehe physically abused her. She just didn’t talk about it.
One of our staff had her partner come to the hospital looking for her. Something about his demeanour just didn’t seem right and the ER nurses hid her down the back hallway until he left. He went next door and Sh0t himself behind the office supply place there. Nothing on earth will ever convince me that his original plan wasn’t to take her with him and who knows who else might have become entangled in that terrible day. Domestic violence is no joke and partners who are violent or threaten their mates are absolutely a danger to the lives of their partners.
When I was highschool, back in the day my boyfriend at the time had a friend that a girl I went to school with dated. My boyfriend and her boyfriend were best friends and we occasionally went out together on double dates. When she decided to break up with him, he called me. I didn't know her really well or him, but she and I were in band together. He never hit her, never even verbally abused her. But when they broke up, he went off the deep end. Cried so hard he puked in my car the day she broke up with him. Then after he and I had talked while driving around for maybe an hour he took a .22 semi automatic to the grocery store where she worked and waited for her in the parking lot. Shot her five times. She lived, and recovered and he went away to prison. He gave ZERO indication that he was the kind of young man that would do something like that. You just never really know people, ever.
If he can't even pretend to be remorseful or pretend to take accountability in order to get paroled, then he needs to stay right where he's st. He's the dangerous type. He absolutely can not see any wrongdoing in his actions. The only thing he said he took full responsibility for is not getting a lawyer to fight the charges.
If he can't show simple respect for the interviewers, I wouldn't trust him loose where he could get to the victim. He does need to stay where he's at.
If I were on the parole board, I would've stopped the hearing and entered a motion for denial as soon as he started laughing!
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He’s so pissed at the end. They better be glad he’s not in the same room as they are.
The other way around.
What do you think he was saying to them? They should have recorded that. Not muted him or ask the cop to listen. & watch his lips. Ask him to say it to them. They let him get away with everything. No wonder he's a spoiled baby.
What a big man baby, cant even stay and finish the hearing to hear what he needs to do to get out next time.
He has the iq of the chair he's sitting on
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That's insulting to the chair.
They wanted to hear how he bettered himself and ways that he had changed, but all he wanted to do, was rehash the problems that got him in there and wanted to continue to blame her for his actions. That is not what the parole board wants to here!
And that's why he will stay where he is
And aren’t we glad he’s not smart enough to fake it.
Professional victimhood is a powerful drug.
Yea @@ArtLenLayea, even if you're faking it you should know to be as humble and contrite as possible. Even if things are being said you disagree with don't disagree just say yes, yes, I was wrong.
@@garyluciani1082 yes, common sense even among offenders-some of them.
As that lady's reading the victim's statement, Alan's sitting there on fire bc he can't shut her up, and he's under their control. He probably has some dark thoughts about what he wishes he would have done to her or what he wishes he could do to her to make her pay for what he's going thru
He'll bide his time, she'll never be safe if they let him out.
What do you think he was saying the last 5-10 mins? He was threatening to kill them all. Or something violent. Did you see his face? His eyes? His grin?
@@steppenwolf3252 I was wondering that too. I wish we could have heard what he was saying. I'm sure he it was something very dark
He started out giving the good ole “ tell them what they want to hear”…. he severely failed that by the second question. Zero accountability, excuses, blatant blaming, and yeah, stay there sir you are not good for the outside.
The nurse way outclasses this dude.
this man is exactly like my maternal grandfather.
when presented with _years_ of evidence of wrongdoing, he refers only to the most recent one and repeatedly minimizes it. when faced with past drug use, he brings up previous suicidal behavior. he frames incidents of violence as "wanting to leave a relationship."
multiple conflicting statements things can be true at the same time: he was an alcoholic, which is why things were so horrible in this last relationship; and also, he stopped drinking and was doing "phenomenal."
his violence against women did not happen, was justified, and was simply a part of a flawed past that he has overcome. all of these are true at the same time.
but most indicative is this phrase: "nothing i do is good enough for anybody."
in the mind of someone like this, he is the only person who's ever made a lick of sense, and everyone is out to get him because of it. he is the only person who's ever really suffered.
he can't be fixed. he's been like this for decades. he will continue to be like this.
my grandfather did indeed stop beating his wife and daughters. this is because his daughters moved away and then he got old. he's too old to beat her anymore. he's in his 80's and he won't fucking die.
You nailed it. They're either gaslighting, manipulating or whining about being the victim. They're insufferable. I cut off contact with every narcissist in my life.
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You will get nowhere with this type of person, he will always have an excuse for everything. He is never wrong, and everyone is to blame . He will never take accountability for his actions.
Everyone should feel sorry for him.. Lala dada.etc..
He feels he shouldn't have to change. Everyone around him needs to change.
Narcissist.
I wish I had known this years ago when I was married to a narcissistic abuser. He never took any responsibility for what he did. I’m sure he still doesn’t. He literally ruined my life. It took many years to finally get rid of him. I’m still very afraid of him.
@@Roxanne_Oregon they never change!
@@Roxanne_Oregon The Crappy Childhood Fairy and Live Abuse Free are really good channels.
You can't light yourself on fire to warm another person. Take care of yourself first Roxanne. Think positively.
@@lorimiller4301 thank you!
Then he cannot be released. Ever.
IMO he failed the hearing as soon as they asked him why he should be paroled. The outburst was just the cherry on top.
This man is a narcissist. He’s never going to change because to him he’s “not the problem, everyone else is.”
Side note, chastising him about leaving the hearing early would’ve been pointless because he’s a narcissist and absolutely refuses to acknowledge he’s the problem. He’s not ever going to change, he’s going to continue to be in and out of prison.
Well, he should not have been allowed anyway. Keep the damn door looked until the hearing is over. That's the least they could have done. They're laughing too and never mentioned his mouthing something at them and smirking and grinning. He needs mandatory counseling and go through the dv program again because he flunked big time.
"I'm not a crackhead," said every crackhead ever.
It’s hilarious watching a narcissist come undone because of their narcissism. They will never admit fault and they will always think of themselves as a victim. The gaslighting is textbook.
Edit: be wary of anyone who uses extreme passive aggressive body language.
100%! They love being passive aggressive and it exudes from them. Also, God forbid you tell them they've done anything wrong. It's like lighting a powder keg.
@@SeashelleBytheseashore Are you sure you know the definition of passive-aggressive?
@@EvanBlaze-fq5eg yes I know the meaning of passive aggressive. Have you ever spent time around someone who is PA with a mentality of the guy in the video and told them they were wrong about something? They may act like they're not bothered by anything you've said and have a laugh or 2 with you. But you may wake up the next morning with all your car tires flattened or your windows bashed out. If you're familiar with PA people, their body language will tell on them.
Yep spot freaking on! Malignant narcissism with explosive anger.... Sounds like my daughter's father smh
His inability to manage his emotions is not PA.
He hasn’t changed or learned anything! Just think if she didn’t speak in this they may have let him out! Scary!!!!!!!! It took her speaking about him to show his true colors! God bless her!
Oh his true colors were shining bright when he couldn't share what he learned in the dv class, his lack of accountability when telling the stories from the past, and his crossed arms.
I think he decidedly wasn’t getting out way before the victim statements
He destroyed himself like a fool
His body language says exactly what you need to decide this guy has not been rehabilitated, he may never reach that. If he ever is released, my guess is someone will die at this guys hands.
He's an excuse maker. He has a reason for everything.
There's nothing more he can do to improve himself. So say we all lol
And why is he being allowed to just walk out of the hearing when it wasn't over? Isn't he in prison? What a joke.
He's a child in a man's body! If he ever does get out in the future, he will screw up and catch more charges in my opinion.
He doesn't ever need to be released!!!!!!
I spent 6 yrs in state prison [ non-violent drug offense], and these guys are all the same. Always the victim, dont belong there, and it's her fault. Another common trait is that they won't fight other men straight cowards
He's in that category of weak men with mommy issues and blaming everyone for his short comings .. I used to be married to one of them. Please protect all women in the world, he should never be released from prison.
This man-child is infuriating! Can we say, “Serious Mommy Issues”?! No woman will hurt me! I will hurt first. No woman will control me! I will control you completely! No woman will leave me! My mom never loved me so how dare you not love me! He needs intervention and insensitive therapy! I vote to let the ex decide the voltage of the shock!
Bingo!
Finishing every sentence with an explanation mark is it's own red flag
He actually complained that he can’t control someone. He hates that.
My son died. My nephew died. Waaa! Waaa! Waaa! If I were her I'd bring all his stuff to his lawyers or his sister's office. She should not have anything in her house to give him an excuse. File for divorce right now.
Freedom and the Outside World is not for everyone!
He doesn’t know what the words ‘full responsibility’ means. He takes zero responsibility.
He sounds like he's still very bitter and angry and blames his victim for everything that he has done. And he is not taking any responsibility for what had happened. I knew what the outcome was going to be as soon as he started talking.
No doubt of that. No doubt but somehow I don't think the parole board really gives a damn.
Dude is a creep. He looks like a character from Reservoir Dogs.
Lol
That’s my favorite movie. Who does he look like to you? 😂