What Does the Bible Say about Divorce? | Episode 93
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- Does the Bible ever justify divorce? If so, under what circumstances? If a person is divorced, are they permitted to remarry? Dr. David K. Bernard tackles these tough but important questions facing Christians and church leaders.
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Bishop David K Bernard should be protected at all cost. This man has just laid it out sensibly just like the Bible would want us to understand it. There are UPC Pastors in Jamaica who doesn't see it like this.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
[9] Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, [10] nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Revelation 22:14-15 KJV
[14] Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city. [15] For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
Colossians 3:5-6 KJV
[5] Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: [6] for which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
[4] Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
All remarriages following the death of a spouse are considered legal. On the other hand, all remarriages after the divorce of a spouse are regarded as illegal. The entire teaching of Jesus on divorce and remarriage hinges on these two statements.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
David Pawson is a prominent teacher on the subjects of divorce and remarriage. He shared a recent conversation he had with someone.
I was travelling by train to London. The last halt to pick up passengers was at Clapham Junction. A man boarded my carriage at the far end, sat down, stared at me for some minutes before walking down the aisle and taking a seat facing me. As I recall, the conversation went like this: ‘I think I recognise you. Are you a preacher?’ ‘Yes. Where would you have seen me?’ ‘Fifteen years ago, someone brought me to Guildford to hear a preacher, and I think it was you.’ ‘It almost certainly was. Are you a Christian?’ ‘Yes. [pause] Can I ask you something?’ ‘I can’t guarantee an answer, but what’s the question?’ ‘Well, it’s like this - I’ve left my wife, and I’m now living with another woman.’ ‘Why did you leave your wife?’ ‘Because I met this other woman and fell in love with her.’ ‘So, what do you want to know?’ ‘If I get properly divorced and marry this other woman, would that put it right in God’s sight?’ ‘No, I’m afraid it wouldn’t.’ ‘Then what would?’ ‘Leaving this woman and returning to your wife.’ ‘I thought you’d say that.’ ‘I believe it’s what Jesus would say if you asked him.’ This produced a silence between us. By now, the train was slowing down for Waterloo, and I realised I probably only had a minute or two more with him. I wanted to Kindle that fear of the Lord, which is the beginning of wisdom, so I reopened the conversation with: ‘You have a difficult choice to make.’ ‘What’s that, then?’ ‘You can either live with this woman for the rest of this life or with Jesus for all the next, but you can’t do both.’ His eyes filled with tears, but he jumped onto the platform and disappeared among the crowd. I felt a little of what Jesus must have felt when the rich young ruler left him. I prayed he would never be able to forget what I had told him until he had repented. But was I right to say what I did? Was I telling him the truth or trying to frighten him with a lie? What he really wanted was an assurance that his sin would not affect his salvation. This I could not give him.
The apostle Paul speaking.
I command the married -not I, but the Lord-a wife is not to leave her husband. But if she does leave, she must remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband-and a husband is not to leave his wife. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11
A wife is bound as long as her husband is living. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to anyone she wants-only in the Lord. But she is happier if she remains as she is, in my opinion. And I think that I also have the Spirit of God. 1 Corinthians 7:39-40
Appreciate this.
However, I find myself cringing when there are statistics or %'s given about physical abuse in relationships. My ex-wife was very abusive physically and mentally. I finally went to the police and was laughed at. I was mocked the next day at work with my busted lip as well. That was the last time i tolerated it, and when I actually put my hand on her in retaliation I realized that I could not stay married to her. (I shoved her when she hit me, but it was enough to wake me up.) There was also light evidence that she was cheating but I didn't feel I had enough to move on it, and the abuse became my breaking point.
Through study, it is very easy to see that overwhelmingly, men do not turn physical abuse situations in to the police because it is socially unacceptable for a man to admit it. Many times, physical abuse goes both ways, but societally, only the man is culpable.
This is true. For some reason, men are supposed to take it? I think of the relationship is abusive, it is irrelevant if the abuser is male or female! I was a female that was in an abusive situation, but I have seen it the other way around as well.
@@healedfree706 In the eyes of a man's peers (non-Christian) he is NOT supposed to take it. He is supposed to retaliate and if he doesn't that's why he is ridiculed because his peers and the public feel like he should be able to stop her. Some women can't be stopped unless you hurt them. If you're not willing to do that, then you have to get away from her, i.e. separation or divorce.
Now you have the right to get married to another bone (wife)of yours. Not Because she cheated on you. If the wife or husband got abused, they have a separate from him or her. It's written 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 KJV
[10] And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: [11] But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
Ephesians 5:31-33 KJV
[31] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. [32] This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. [33] Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
[4] Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
@@healedfree706 Any abuse should merit a separation
@@J_a_s_o_n I agree.
Thank you Bishop!!!
Marriage cannot be undone; when you're married, you’re married for life; only death can undo it!
Read your Bible, study and pray for understanding
I’m so grateful I found your CZcams page… you Pastor Bernard are on of the few preachers I trust!!! I don’t go outside of upci and still even than I’m still picky about who I choose to listen to!!!
❤
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
[9] Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, [10] nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Revelation 22:14-15 KJV
[14] Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city. [15] For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
Colossians 3:5-6 KJV
[5] Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: [6] for which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
[4] Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
@@josefjking308 I’m in this situation now don’t know what to do
You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free
Thank you, I can’t get enough of your teaching !!!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Thank you sir!
Jesus in Matthew 19:8, gave the reason for Moses allowing divorce.
The allowance is found here:
Deuteronomy 24:
1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
Jesus referred to the uncleanness found as being fornication.
He was very much aware of the term adultery and used it in the next verse.
This would have covered any sexual sin committed by the married.
So why did he use fornication?
When did this fornication take place?
Why is the divorce allowed because of the hardness of the heart of the person seeking the divorce?
For whose benefit was this allowed?
Was it for the hard hearted man or for the woman being divorced?
What was the alternative to allowing divorce in this situation?
If this alternative is no longer applicable, then why is divorce needed?
Answering these questions will lead to the truth about divorce and re-marriage.
Jesus is referring us back to how it was, before Moses was permitted, to do this. This implies this is how it should be now.
Matthew 19:
6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Thank you DKB. God's timing is divine. He is sovereign and He knows our situations and hears our prayers. His grace is sufficient and HIS WORD IS FOREVER SETTLED. I love how you stand firmly upon the word of God in ALL of your teachings. Please keep teaching me. I AM listening!!!some people just hear 😂 God bless you IN JESUS NAME!
He is very wrong about divorce and remarriage. Mr first last
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
yes to separate, or divorce, yes....options are to reconcile, or remain unmarried...
Only if you're spouse CHEATS on you, or, if they're UNSAVED, and your SAVED, and they desert you, you can remarry. ( Matthew 5:31-32;1Cor. 7:10-15)
Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19:4-12 KJV
So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY.
Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception)
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Luke 16:15-18 KJV
Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlwaysShorten sermon. Too long. And adultery is merely a form of fornication. Fornication simply means, to engage in premarital sex, therefore, adultery is fornication.
I Cor. 7: 27-28 speaks volume with the word BUT connecting the two verses.
A person cannot be apreacher if he is double married one means first.....
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
I was so blessed by this teaching. Only God knows how much. This man speaks with such compassion and understanding. God bless you for clarification, dr. Bernard
Yes. They're just very limited and in some situations, reconciliation is a command. IMO, people need to repent and seek restoration to God before remarriage.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Great Blessing and people need to trust God
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Gbu Dr
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Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
For this cause, It is so important to read Ephesians everyday if possible, that way we'll know how to deal with this situations... After all it's God's word and his Spirit giving us wisdom according to his will 🙂 remember 2 Tim 2:15 Study to show thyself approve unto God... (not man)
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
This is true.
No it's not. It's not biblical.
"No civil, legal, religious, cultural, or state divorce is valid in the eyes of God. This includes all human divorces that have taken place on planet Earth since Adam and Eve sinned. Not a single one of them severed the one-flesh union of a lawful marriage. They all took place without God’s permission. They were all unilateral decisions, as they are to this day, and will be to the end of time."
"Whose report will you believe? Jesus unequivocally stated no allowance for divorce; Paul echoed the same message, and John the Baptist ultimately lost his life for speaking out against it. Whose report will you believe? We will put our trust in the teachings of our Lord!"
Read your Bible, study and pray for understanding. To say Jesus didn't make a statement and he did, is blasphemy. Now if you didnt/don't understand it, then again, pray for understanding. Don't say he didn't say it, because he did. Just alot of ppl misunderstand his statement
Thank you!
I love this!
Here is a QUESTION!
There are a lot of new Pastors, and sometimes they can be very authoritative.
(How should Pastors grow a new ministry without having Pride and other tips you may have?)
I would love to share this with a few leaders just to help.
True it seems ministry also attracts narcissists to the position, who hurt and manipulate and guilt their leaders for their own agenda and ambition. The big question raised is how to save the church from wolves in sheep's, and shepherd's, clothing.
@@dl2204 Yes. Pastors need leaders as well.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
Dr. Bernard is so spot on, and a breath of fresh air doctrinally, in the midst of an internet filled with false teachings on the subject of marriage and divorce today. Satan is trying desperately to tear apart Christian families, and one of the enemy's devices is to attack our past. Thank you, Dr. Bernard, for a much needed light for truth on this subject in the last days.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
[4] Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Colossians 3:5-6 KJV
[5] Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: [6] for which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:
Revelation 22:14-15 KJV
[14] Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city. [15] For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
[9] Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, [10] nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
All remarriages after the death of a spouse are considered legal in the eyes of God. All remarriages after the divorce of a spouse are considered illegal in the eyes of God.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
@@josefjking308 You are a liar.
Why does upci allow their ministers to pastor a church when they have been married and divorced not just once but four or five times married and divorced all while still pastoring the same church?
They don't. 😂
What church is this? Is higher leadership aware?
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Good question, because if the only exception is due to sexual immorality, then the pastor should be stepping down from the pulpit, not still teaching.
Never have being so clear..Thanks Pastor Bernard .
Listen closely, to those who understand the law. The law holds power over a person as long as they are alive. For instance, a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he is alive. However, if her husband dies, she is no longer bound by the law and is free to marry another man without being considered an adulteress. (Romans 7:1-3)
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No.
Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
Luke 16:18
Exactly. This man is a false teacher.
I am so confused.Doesn't the Lord say it is a sin to marry a divorced woman,even if their adulterous husband divorced them?
He got it wrong for sure.
Sure does.
Right. This pastor just read what God's word said and then added his own spin to it.
Scripture, please
His not telling the truth that’s why you’re confused. Listen to Pr Gino Jennings he says it how it is.
His speaking his opinions instead of speaking what the scriptures says. It’s sad to listen to.
Is there a way that this can be translated in Spanish ?
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Powerfully articulated Dr David. Hallelujah
I do like Dr. Bernard but 1 Corinthians 7:11, states to remain single if you do not go back to your spouse. You are you accountable when you make those marriage vows. Non-believers are also held accountable to God's law on marriage. The grounds for divorce are abandonment, sexual immorality and of course if the person passes away. The guilty party is not allowed to re-marry.
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
What is the biblical teaching on the wife taken control of the finances? This is a serious question so please be kind
Makes sense why there's no marriage in heaven.
because we won't have male and female organs.
Amen to that!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Repent AND turn from your wicked ways. Repenting alone doesnt change that your living in adultery. Thats why you a have to turn from your wicked ways.
Yes, to repent of a divorce and remarriage you must get a divorce and remain unmarried or else be reconciled to the first spouse. It is the same for a gay marriage. The fornicator, adulterer, divorced and remarried adulterers or homosexuals must repent and forsake their sins.
what a wonderful pastor explaining the view of Lord Jesus's to marriage.
All remarriages after the death of a spouse are considered legal in the eyes of God. All remarriages after the divorce of a spouse are considered illegal in the eyes of God.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
@@josefjking308 Lord Jesus permits to divorce if He/she betrays, cheats, or abusive to you. But don't permit to divorce Only to be able to make adultery
So I can repent of divorce and remarrying from living in adultry and GOD will forgive my continuing to live in adultry?? Can A person repent
of any other sin and be forgiven snd continue to live in those sins???
if you repent of a sin....you can not stay in that sin.... if you was married then divorced and remarried before coming to Christ if your first spouse is alive..you live in adultrey... no matter how many times you repent of it...
@@BLD-ReviewerThat's false
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Read your Bible, study and pray for understanding
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.
From.the comments you can see many people never study scriptures on their own.
Divorce is not permissible in the scriptures till death.
If it's a genuine sexual immorality ground, and all efforts to reconcile fail & the sexual abuser spouse files for divorce because of the shame of the immorality yet the victim doesn't want a divorce, then 12 months later the judge will unfailingly stamp Divorced on the papers, and if the abuser never wants reconciliation after divorce. This is one of the sorts of grounds that Jesus is talking about in Matt 5:32, that it is an exception, it's not adultery. We must apply the full scriptures on the subject, the Word here is not simply just black and white that in every case of divorce it is adultery. An exception from Jesus is Him saying you have not committed adultery in such a situation 🙏
Excatly this guy will be held accountable for leading people to sin.Exception was fornication for jews. Engagement period not for as gentiles No Divorce and remarriage. Cant believe this guy is lying. Paul also gives absolutely NO GROUNDS for divorce.
Amen
Divorce and remarriage is not permissible. But death ends the marriage covenant. Hopefully you will read the Scriptures- Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18, Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2, 10-11 & 39, Ephesians 5:31, Malachi 2:16, Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 2-3, 21:8. Jesus said to stop sinning or something worse would happen to you. God killed 23,000 people in one day for sexual immorality. If you die in sin, you go to hell.
Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 is not an allowance for divorcing for adultery, but only for FORNICATION (losing your virginity) during a JEWISH BETROTHAL. Joseph was betrothed to Mary and they were called husband and wife who had taken vows. The Jewish betrothal could only be ended if the woman fornicated and then he had to divorce her when he had never had sex with her. For us, we end engagements without legal action, but once you are married, only death ends the one flesh marriage covenant. Get right with the Lord Jesus or be left behind.
if you repent of a sin....you can not stay in that sin.... if you was married then divorced and remarried before coming to Christ if your first spouse is alive..you live in adultry... no matter how many times you repent of it...
You don't have a right to remarry
What does it means its better to remarrie then to. Burn.cause if u remarrie that is adutary to so what to do.Dr.david
Better to marry than to burn is only for the NEVER MARRIED people or widows/widowers. If you get divorced, you must not even lust, use porn or date someone else as long as your covenant spouse is still alive. God will give you victory over if you spend time reading the Bible every time you are tempted to sin.
I was married, I got divorced and remarried, have 3 children and now living for God. Are you suggesting I divorce my God-fearing wife, and destroy my children's future? Sounds like something Satan would love.
QUESTION! Is the Bible to be taken literal or symbolic?
Both! Sometimes literal and sometimes symbolic! Jesus is not an ACTUAL lamb nor people ACTUAL sheep!
It's literal on divorce and remarriage, and this man is wrong. Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19:4-12 KJV
So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY.
Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception)
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Luke 16:15-18 KJV
Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
What a long excuse lord have mercy for n David eBernard
Excatly💯
Read your Bible, study and pray for understanding
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No.
Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
I totally agree. Great pod cast Brother Bernard.
All remarriages after the death of a spouse are considered legal in the eyes of God. All remarriages after the divorce of a spouse are considered illegal in the eyes of God.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
What about in the case where one serves the Lord and the other doesn’t. Ant the one that doesn’t chooses not to be with the one who serves the Lord. And the unbeliever files for the divorce. In this situation would the believer be justified or can he or she remarry?
Paul answered this. Let them go and stay with the lord
I was wondering the same thing. I thought bishop Bernard would hit on 1 Corinthians 7:13-16 or so which brings this up.
@@futurekillerful he only references it and doesnt finish the whole context
@@moa3821 yep. I was hoping he would get more into the context but I get it.. the video was long enough as it is
If they divorce you and remarry then they are the adulterer and to my knowledge that frees you of that bond meaning you are free to remarry.
Definition of FORNICATION is sexual relationship between UNMARRIED persons. Definition of ADULTERY is sexual relationship by someone who IS married. Two COMPLETELY separate definitions. Jesus' exception was only for FORNICATION. SEXUAL IMMORALITY is general and covers ALL types of sexual relationships. Why is this important? If a man is DECEIVED into believing that his wife was a virgin BEFORE the marriage, then realises this after the consummation of the marriage, THEN and ONLY THEN, is there grounds for divorce, according to Jesus. Obviously the act of FORNICATION was committed BEFORE the marriage because a married person CANNOT commit FORNICATION. That is why Joseph wanted to put aside Mary (divorce her), because he thought that she had FORNICATED during their betrothal (engagement). There's NO other grounds for divorce according to the Scriptures. God said He divorced Israel. However He didn't remarry another. He said that He would marry to the backslider. Whom God join together, let NO MAN put asunder. God does not contradict Himself. Substituting the words FORNICATION and ADULTERY is a deceptive move by Satan to destroy marriages. The correct marriage vow says "For better or worse, until death us do part". What is it that the word WORSE doesn't cover in a marriage?
This man is leading people to sin he adds to Scripture.
Good job Anthony. Divorce and remarriage is not permissible. But death ends the marriage covenant. Hopefully you will read the Scriptures- Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18, Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2, 10-11 & 39, Ephesians 5:31, Malachi 2:16, Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 2-3, 21:8. Jesus said to stop sinning or something worse would happen to you. God killed 23,000 people in one day for sexual immorality. If you die in sin, you go to hell.
Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 is not an allowance for divorcing for adultery, but only for FORNICATION (losing your virginity) during a JEWISH BETROTHAL. Joseph was betrothed to Mary and they were called husband and wife who had taken vows. The Jewish betrothal could only be ended if the woman fornicated and then he had to divorce her when he had never had sex with her. For us, we end engagements without legal action, but once you are married, only death ends the one flesh marriage covenant. Get right with the Lord Jesus or be left behind.
Thank you so much for this video! It is a tough topic with so many people divorcing, even in the church 😥. So many people don't want to hear the truth, they want to try and bend what scripture says. You stuck to the truth though!!!
The Apostle Paul, under the New Covenant, never gave Christians any reason to divorce and remarry. He said they must either separate or reconcile.. they must not divorce. Why did he never mention adultery as a grounds to divorce and remarry..
Excatly this man has no clue.
He goes on what he believe's and people's emotions. He is a deceiver. He will be accountable for leading people to sin. I mentioned names in my comments those men have 50 plus years of scripture. They speak truth he will change his believes if he listens to them
@@grant2149Hi Grant, yes, another deceiver that YT suggested to me. Wolves in sheep's clothing are going to be judged soon.
Nice to meet you Ramona. These bishops, pastors, seminary professors etc are all wrong and not even born again. Jesus is Lord, and He's coming soon. Maranatha.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
the second lifetime vow, is invalid, because the first lifetime vow is still in existence.....
Ok I posted one month ago, a thought came to mind,after the abuse physically n emotionally do some individuals find they don’t love there spouse the abused stole that from them I’m not saying that’s the out come for all couples but sadly it happens!
I'm in the middle of discovering the answer to that question sadly after 40yrs I'm trying but it's not possible with only one individual in the marriage doing all the work it has to be both n u can't make anyone choose love n comment,it's called free will love isn't forced it's given freely!...
Divorce and remarriage is not permissible. But death ends the marriage covenant. Hopefully you will read the Scriptures- Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18, Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2, 10-11 & 39, Ephesians 5:31, Malachi 2:16, Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 2-3, 21:8. Jesus said to stop sinning or something worse would happen to you. God killed 23,000 people in one day for sexual immorality. If you die in sin, you go to hell.
Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 is not an allowance for divorcing for adultery, but only for FORNICATION (losing your virginity) during a JEWISH BETROTHAL. Joseph was betrothed to Mary and they were called husband and wife who had taken vows. The Jewish betrothal could only be ended if the woman fornicated and then he had to divorce her when he had never had sex with her. For us, we end engagements without legal action, but once you are married, only death ends the one flesh marriage covenant. Get right with the Lord Jesus or be left behind.
Even if the person divorces he or she cannot remarry without being in adultery
he is talking about an unbeliever but Jesus didn't say if that was for the unbeliever but I assume it applies to both. I could be wrong since he was addressing religious people. it's a tough one and I rather leave that to God.
Exactly. Notice the scripture said fornication. Two married people can’t fornicate; they can only commit adultery. What that fornication is talking about is the espousal period where men could divorce (refuse to continue the marriage consummation) similar to Joseph when he thought marry was pregnant by another man. The scripture says he sought to put her away (divorce) her privately.
R u sure? Pornceia is translated broader than just premarital sex. All manner of sexual immorality. That is what the minister here is explaining
That is right. No remarriage is allowed by God until the death of the covenant spouse. Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19:4-12 KJV
So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY.
Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception)
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Luke 16:15-18 KJV
Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
you dont break a vow, you break a contract.....the only thing that severs a covenant is death......
My 1st husband left me one late night at a store and went to our apartment and packed his things and blamed me for everything and I had backslidden by then and he left me without a place to stay and a car and went back to his first wife. When I found out before he left me that he was cheating on me , I also started cheating. I know two wrongs doesnt make a right.
I married someone else 15 yrs ago from another belief , I wasnt living for God then but after marriage I started going back to church and he was married 2 times b4. His 1st wife left him for another man and his 2nd wife passed away.
So are we fine?
@@FirstNationNameBeliever-215 how rude.
if you repent of a sin....you can not stay in that sin.... if you was married then divorced and remarried before coming to Christ if your first spouse is alive..you live in adultry... no matter how many times you repent of it...
What if one spouse is in church but the other spouse has never been converted, meaning not baptized in Jesus name and never filled with the Holy Ghost. And the unsaved spouse decides to leave the marriage and moves in with a new partner but then it doesn't work out... should the other spouse wait to see if unfaithful and unsaved spouse comes to repentance and if they do, should remarriage be considered to the unsaved spouse? Or is the other spouse free to remarry once it is evident the unsaved and unfaithful spouse moves in with a new partner?
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
In the Bible, divorce was not sought due to adultery or fornication because those found guilty were subjected to capital punishment. Therefore, all divorces in the Bible were initiated for reasons other than adultery or fornication. As mentioned earlier, if anyone can find a single scripture in the Bible that clearly allows divorce for adultery, I will personally rip out that page and eat it.
How about emotional abuse, physical abuse n emotional abuse go hand in hand... It's been said emotional abuse is an lasting effect in an individual long after the physical abuse has stopped.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
That's not an exception, though you can separate and remain unmarried
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No.
Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
All remarriages after the death of a spouse are considered valid, while all remarriages after the divorce of a spouse are deemed invalid. These two statements encompass the entirety of Jesus’ teachings on divorce and remarriage.
Amen blessings
Once married, always married until death do us part, without exception. This applies to all humans, whether sinner or saint.
Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19:4-12 KJV
So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY.
Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception)
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Luke 16:15-18 KJV
Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.1 Corinthians 7:10-11
But any of this gives you the right to remarry only if your spouse has died........
1 Corinthians 27: 27
This is the best teaching I’ve ever heard on the subject of divorce.
Me to..
I meant to me in person, and shook his hands. He is such a humble person. I've also bought many of his books.
Once married, always married until death do us part, without exception. This applies to all humans, whether sinner or saint.
A woman who is running around is not worried about working a marriage work she is waiting a divorce and remarried
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Christ and the church ,will christ devoice the church???
But some where in the bible do says .god will forgive a devoice.Dr barnad will u answer this for me thanks!!
The Bible says his grace covers a multitude of sin
John-1 1:9. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us [our] sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
and there is only 1 sin that has no forgiveness
Which is blasphemy unto God
Matthew 12:31 KJV
Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men.
This is why it's important to know scripture and seek after Gods knowledge because the Devil is the accuser of the brother.
Many churches preach divorce into hell but what Brother Barnard is saying is truth .
Backed by all scripture that can be found.
Sins can all be forgiven when truly repented and eyes are open to wrong doing.
That is why jesus came to die for our sins. He is married to the backslider
Jeremiah 3:14 says: “'Return, O backsliding children,' says the Lord; 'for I am married to you.
He leaves the 99 to find the 1
Because that is why he came and died in the cross
It's true you can be forgiven for divorce, and then go and sin no more. Don't even think about getting remarried or having sex with anyone else. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 & 39 only the widow can remarry. If you already remarried and your covenant spouse is still alive, you are committing adultery, and need to repent (Proverbs 28:13- confess and forsake the adultery to be given mercy) and get out of the adulterous remarriage just the same as a homosexual must get a divorce from their gay marriage. If divorced you must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to your covenant spouse.
Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19:4-12 KJV
So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY.
Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception)
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Luke 16:15-18 KJV
Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
One of my sisters divorced her 1st husband and it was because he began to sexually mess with my other sister( who passed) her son. My nephew. He abused him so long he is now living with him as a couple.😢 .. However God saw my sister's heart and He allowed her to move on after her divorce. She is now married to a preacher. And they pastor a pentecostal church.
It says except for sexual imorality.. am I correct? This would give her the grounds to divorce and to move on.
@@lenorasaucier7689 Hi. Sorry that she had such a horrible time with her first husband. If she was his 2ND wife (ie he was a divorced man) she was never married to him, BUT if it was a fiirst marriage for both of them, the covenant marriage is still in tact in GOD'S EYES. To divorce and remarry even if it's to a Pentecostal pastor is adultery. The exception clause only given in Matthew is only for FORNICATION during the JEWISH BETROTHAL, premarital sex. It is not a provision to divorce for adultery and remarry.
Marriage
We believe marriage is a holy institution only and exclusively between a man and a woman that is ordained by God which is binding for life, giving neither partner a right to marry again as long as the first companion lives (Mark 10:6-12; Romans 7:1-3). If one divorces and marries another this constitutes adultery (moichao), and if one marries the divorced this is also adultery (Matthew 19:9). In reality, in the sight of God, these are not marriages but adulterous relationships as long as they continue in them while the first companion liveth (Matthew 19:1-12; Romans 7:2,3). Therefore, if the first spouse dies while one is presently living a divorce and remarried state, they need to make a marriage commitment for the first time. Failure to do so would result in one living a life of fornication, due to the fact that the previous vows were void and of non-effect in the sight of God (Romans 7:1-3). The only exception clause for divorce and remarriage is fornication (porneia), found in Matthew5:32; 19:9. In this context fornication is pre-martial unchasity referring to Jewish custom of betrothal (i.e. Joseph and Mary; Matthew 1:18,19). Therefore, there is no exception clause for divorce and remarriage after the wedding ceremony. It is God's will and desire that marriages be restored, and that those that have experienced divorce and remarriage repent and turn from their sin, receiving the forgiveness of God, and if possible, be reconciled and reunited to their first companion, or remain single faithfully serving our Lord Jesus Christ (Matthew 5:31,32; 19:1-12; Luke 16:15-18; 18:27; 1 Corinthians 7:10,11).
I cover the Scriptures in a lot of my videos and there are a lot of deceived Christians because of false teaching pastors.
The Bible said nor adulterous will inherit the kingdom of God, if divorced is permitted by God who are the ones living in adulterous relationship?
Fornicators and adulterers will be judged. Everyone who is divorced and remarried are committing adultery unless they got remarried after their spouse has died and then only to a never married person or one who has a deceased spouse. All liars go to the lake of fire too- Revelation 21:8.
I am confused , the Lord has made it clear about this topic but man has complicated it
The word Fornication is sexual sins between 2 single persons and it not interchangeable with Adultery
Adultery = sexual sins by someone who is bound ( married to a husband or wife
= whosoever marries a divorced person while their spouse is still alive as quoted in Mathew 5, Mathew 19, Luke 16, Mark 10. Romans 7 and 1 Cor 7 :39.
The reason why there are so many divorces and remarriages is that man has changed /implemented laws to allow it.
The Lord is the final authority on this matter not governments, kings, pastors, or denominations, solicitors, judges etc.
if I am confused as a born again Christian then just imagine how confused the unbelievers will be on this topic
It is simple :
The Lord Jesus gave only one exception and that is for Fornication and not Adultery
For the Jews in the betrothed period they called each other husband and wife
Luke 2 : 5 : To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife. ( Prior to this Joseph taught that Mary has been unfaithful and committed Fornication
Adultery is therefore not a ground for Divorce and REMARRIAGE.
The simple teaching is that no Divorce Except in the betrothal/ engagement period BUT not after God has made you one flesh.
Remarriage as stated in the verses mentioned above until the death of the other spouse is ADULTERY 😢
This is because the Lord wants the two parties to forgive one another and reconcile.
The choices that you have if husband or wife has divorced each other is to stay single ( unmarried) or be reconciled to husband or wife 1 Cor7 :10.
This choice to remarry while the husband or wife is still alive has been created by Man, so you have to choose if you are going to obey God or listen and follow the doctrines of men / women
Exactly....
If I am already divorced and remarried, how do I repent? What should I do to make it right in God's sight? The options for repentance in this situation include leaving your current partner and reconciling with your original partner if possible. If reconciliation with your original partner is impossible, you should remain single. You have a difficult decision to make-you can either continue to live with your current partner for the rest of this life or choose to live with Jesus for all eternity, but you can't do both.1 Corinthians 7:10-11
Correct they were throwing there wives out for burning supper and not officially divorcing them. This causing women to couple up and the man with her committing adultry.
What?
Who told you this?
Divorce and remarriage is not permissible. Only death of one of the spouses ends the marriage covenant. Hopefully you will read the Scriptures- Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18, Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2, 10-11 & 39, Ephesians 5:31, Malachi 2:16, Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 2-3, 21:8. Jesus said to stop sinning or something worse would happen to you. God killed 23,000 people in one day for sexual immorality. If you die in sin, you go to hell.
Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 is not an allowance for divorcing for adultery, but only for FORNICATION (losing your virginity) during a JEWISH BETROTHAL. Joseph was betrothed to Mary and they were called husband and wife who had taken vows. The Jewish betrothal could only be ended if the woman fornicated and then he had to divorce her when he had never had sex with her. For us, we end engagements without legal action, but once you are married, only death ends the one flesh marriage covenant. Get right with the Lord Jesus or be left behind.
In Matthew 6 Jesus said if you don't forgive oneanother nether will your heavenly father forgive you its in the old testament that if a man finds a woman that is not betrothed and lay with her he shall not put her away as long as he lives that where Jesus said in the biggining it was not permitted on any grounds which is what the true church should embrace
Yes, the true church knows the permanence of marriage. Divorce and remarriage is ongoing adultery.
it would help if you understand why it is that only the woman is bound by law and not the man also, then ask yourself this question, who's law is it? it's a religious law that pertains to people getting married in a wedding where the father gives away the bride and she and him make vows to each other in the sight of witnesses before God, I'm pretty sure her vow to him is for him to be her only husband all the days of her life, also pretty sure his vow differed since at that time men could have more than one wife, nevertheless he vowed to take care of her all the days of his life, Paul is teaching to two different types of men that have wives, one through marriage and another not related to marriage, he says, to both that have wives, then he says, he that giveth her in marriage does well but he that giveth her not in marriage does better, why? because of the laws that pertain to each and the vows made to God that He said if you make a vow to Him and don't perform it, He will call it sin in you, what Paul was saying is a warning in a religious marriage that will have a negative effect down the road in case it don't work out which agrees with what Jesus taught when He said don't make any vows to God or swear by the heavens in KJV, because you don't know what tomorrow will bring, then there's Jesus law which differs from the marriage law that doesn't bind two together except under one circumstance that doesn't include adultery, Jesus said the children of this world marry and are given in marriage, that's two different acts, in marriage your " married " after the ceremony, in Jesus law your married NOT by the act of sex but in what the act produces or rather what God has joined together, not man, it's a product of LOVE and not adultery or whoredom which God hates, nevertheless it includes ALL men and women regardless of marriage laws or not, in the process of TIME, the two shall become one flesh, now go figure this out, what is one of him and one of her, it's when two fleshes become one flesh, it's not hard to figure this out, a disciple said, if that be the case with a man with his wife, it's better not to marry, come on now, Go unto thy brothers wife and " marry " her and raise up seed in thy brothers name, do WHAT to her?? what do the children of this world do? people read 1 cor.7 and think Paul is teaching sexual matters to the married, not so, that was unlawful to do with the married, he's instructing the unmarried then includes the widows in his instructions, then goes on to commanding the " married " but saying not just him but the Lord, it's not the one's that marry and we all know he's talking about sex but the one's that have married, sex does not bind no one together by any law except the married, in marriage, which is the married, to the unmarried, not after they marry but after they have married, Paul's instructions come from the old testament concerning single men and women sexually involved with each other, NOT children, the laws that applied to children were different, anyway, Lev. 15:16-24 deals with them, they are unmarried, both of them, what their to do to be clean IF either her blood or his semen gets on either of them was to wash themselves in water and be unclean until the evening, it's a cleanliness law that most people do anyway just out of common sense, the biggest problem people have when reading 1 cor. 7 is the translators fault by not identifying the betrothed, the girlfriend, and just the woman in general because at that time they were ALL referred to as the man's wife, nevertheless, there's two kinds of people God hates, one is the adulterer and the other is the whore or whoremonger, one is married and the other is not but has many lovers or more than one to be more specific, there are also two different types of people that God will never judge which both could be and that is the faithful, if you will study the Greek and get off the KJ you will see it but you got to recognize the different in all the variations of the words they used for only man and woman as either man and woman or husband and wife, so simple in their thinking, the words actually tell you what KIND of man and woman they are if you study it enough
What if your going through a divorce and the spouse has a girlfriend before the divorce is actually sealed.
Then I’d say they are in adultery. The divorce has not been finalized and technically you are still married.
It’s wrong for him to have girlfriend with or without divorce.
It's adultery. And anyone you or he has sex with after the divorce is also adultery. Only death ends a covenant marriage, not divorce. God hates divorce- Malachi 2.
Hopefully you will read the Scriptures- Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18, Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2, 10-11 & 39, Ephesians 5:31, Malachi 2:16, Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 2-3, 21:8. Jesus said to stop sinning or something worse would happen to you. God killed 23,000 people in one day for sexual immorality. If you die in sin, you go to hell.
Once married, always married until death do us part, without exception. This applies to all humans, whether sinner or saint.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No.
Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
There is a contrast with the scriptures and preachers a woman was brought to Jesus who was caught in the very act of adultery and the persecutors said Moses says to write her a bill of devoirce and put her away but Jesus said in the bigening it was not so and he did not endorse their intention but says to the woman nether do I condemn thee go and sin no more when I search the scriptures There is a law permitted for a woman that is a widow with no children from her husband to lay with a man to raise up a seed for her company and if the man refuses she should spit in his face and lose his shoes Sarah Abraham wife could not have children and tell her husband to lay with her handmaid and he did what one could say a one night stand it also said in the scriptures if a man finds a woman who is single and lay with her he shall not put her away as long as he lives for no reason that where Jesus told the in the bigening it was not so fornication is not adultery the answer to Cristian on devoirce is mat 6th where Jesus said if you don't forgive nether will your heavenly father forgive your sins
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For "True Christians" divorce and remarriage is against the Bible no matter what causes the divorce. "Death is the only reason to marry again." Rom. (7:1-3)
In (Matthew 19:8) Jesus was still under the law "to redeem them that were under the law (Gal. 4:4-5)" so Matt. 19:8) is not applicable to Christians. I don't agree with pastor David Bernard's explanation that Christians can still remarry even though one of the spouses still alive. It is against the teaching of the Bible, it is adultery (Rom 7:1-3). His explanation is NOT rightly dividing the word of Truth, it is an appeasement to those who are already entangled in divorce and remarriage, especially they already have children. But the word of God is forever settled in Heaven. "Let God be true, and every man a liar" (Rom. 3:4)
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Once married, always married until death do us part, without exception. This applies to all humans, whether sinner or saint.
Well hopefully you have got the question of divorce sorted in your own mind....... And now I guess you are going to put it into your group discussion????
he has the correct term....not under bondage, it is just that the term does not mean not bound.....ergo a false interpretation of this verse...
any sex, out of the marriage covenant has its own term adultery......so, once again skip this one...
LISTEN TO DR JOSEPH WEBB,DR MIKE GORRIE,STEPHEN WILCOX,DAVID PAWSON,PASTOR LARRY BAPTIST CHURCH GINO JENNINGS AND MANY MORE. THEY WILL AL TAKE THIS MAN BACK TO THE DRAWING BOARD THEN HE WILL LEARN SOMETHING
Jesus Himself Speaks About Hell And How Not To Go There.
In Luke 16:19-31 Jesus describes a rich man that lived lavishly and a poor beggar man named Lazarus. It came to pass that Lazarus died and was carried by the angels into Abraham’s bosom. The rich man died, was buried, then went to hell. 23 And in hell he lifted up his eyes, being in TORMENT, saw Abraham afar off and Lazarus in his bosom. 24 And he cried and said, Father Abraham have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue, for I am tormented IN THIS FLAME. 25 But Abraham said, Son, remember that you in your lifetime received good things, and likewise Lazarus received evil things, but now he is comforted and you are tormented. 26 And besides all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed, so that they which would pass from hence to you can not, neither can they pass to us, and would come from thence. 27 Then he said, I pray you therefore father, that you would send him to my father’s house. 28 For I have 5 brothers that he may testify unto them, lest also come into this place of torment. 29 Abraham said unto him, They have Moses and the prophets, let them hear them. 30 And he said, Nay father Abraham, but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent. 31 And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead.”
LOCATION OF HELL: Jesus said in Matthew 12:40, ”For as Jonas was three days and three nights in the whale’s belly, so shall the Son of man be three days and three nights in the HEART OF THE EARTH.” Paul said in Ephesians 4:9, ”Now that he ascended, was it but that he also DESCENDED into the LOWER PARTS OF THE EARTH.”
HELL IS A PLACE OF FIRE: Jesus said in Luke 16:24,”….Father Abraham have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue for I am TORMENTED IN THIS FLAME.”
Jesus said in Matthew 13:42,”And shall cast them into a FURNACE OF FIRE, there shall be WAILING AND GNASHING OF TEETH.” Jesus said in Matthew 25:41,”Then shall he also say to them on the left hand, Depart from me, you cursed, INTO EVERLASTING FIRE, prepared for the devil and his angels.”
Jesus said in Revelation 20:15,”And whosoever was not found written in the book of life, was CAST INTO THE LAKE OF FIRE.”
HELL IS A PLACE OF TORMENT: Jesus said in Luke 16:23,”And in hell he lift up his eyes, being in TORMENT….” 24 …..for I am TORMENTED in this flame.” Jesus said in Revelation 14:11,”And the smoke of their TORMENT ascended up FOR EVER AND EVER, and they have no rest day or night….” Jesus said in Mark 9:45-46,”And if thy hand offend thee, cut it off, it is better for you to enter into life maimed, than having two hands to go into hell, into the FIRE THAT NEVER SHALL BE QUENCHED. 46 Where their WORM DIES NOT, and the fire is not quenched.” Note that it doesn’t say “THE Worm”, it says “THEIR WORM” dies not. Jesus said in Revelation 21:8,”But the fearful and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whore mongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burns WITH FIRE AND BRIMSTONE, which is the second death.” Note that Brimstone is Sulfur and burns with a very strong odor of rotten eggs.
The scriptures above prove when a person goes to hell they will constantly see hell, constantly smell hell, constantly feel the heat of hell, will constantly breath hell, will constantly hear the wailing and gnashing of teeth of others in hell, will constantly be aware of their own worms, they will have no rest day or night, there is no way out and it will continue for ever and ever, they can’t die because they are already dead.
The following is how to not go there and it is a SIMPLE AND EASY thing to do:
All of the book of Acts is what Jesus disciples said what we must to be SAVED - meaning not go to hell, which is repentance, water baptism in Jesus NAME, (NOT the titles Father, Son, and Holy Ghost) and being baptized with the Holy Ghost. Jesus said in Mark 16:16,"He that believes and is BAPTIZED shall be SAVED, but he that believes not shall be damned."
At about that same time He said in Matthew 28:19,"Go therefore and teach all nations BAPTIZING them in the name (SINGULAR name and not name's) OF the Father, and OF the Son, and OF the Holy Ghost." Father, Son, and Holy Ghost are titles and not names. Jesus disciples never used those words when they baptized anyone in water, nor did they use those words in one sentence regarding any other topic. Every time they invoked Jesus NAME at baptism which is Acts 2:38, Acts 8:14-18, Acts 8:38, Acts 9:18, Acts 10:44-48, Acts 16:15, Acts 16:33, Acts 18:7, Acts 18:8, Acts 19:3-5, and Acts 22:16 (Paul's baptism).
Jesus said in John 3:3-7,"Verily, verily I say unto you, Except a man BE BORN AGAIN, he can not see the kingdom of God. 5 Verily, verily I say unto, Except a man be born of water AND of the Spirit, he can not enter into the kingdom of heaven. 7 Marvel not that I say unto you, YOU MUST BE BORN AGAIN." Being born of water is being baptized in water which is for the REMISSION OF SINS - meaning the INITIAL remission of sins and not the confessing of sins later addressed in 1 John 1:9. Being born of the Spirit is being baptized with the Holy Ghost. What being baptized with the Holy Ghost means is addressed in Mark 16:17 (Jesus speaking), Acts 2:3-4, (Pentecost), Acts 8:17, Acts 9:18, Acts 10:44-48, and Acts 19:3-5 - which is when the Spirit of Christ initially dwells in a person. Nowhere in Scripture does it say it happens any other way than that way. There is not one Scripture that says a person receives the Holy Ghost just because they are a believer. Acts 19:1-5 is a good example.
Paul said in Romans 8:9-11,”But you are not in the flesh, but in the spirit, if so be that the spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, HE IS NONE OF HIS."
Numbers 23:19, ”God is not a man that he should lie, neither the son of man, that he should repent, has he said and shall he not do it? And shall he not make it good?”
Malachi 3:6,”For I am the Lord, I change not...”
Hebrews 13:8,”Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, and today, and forever.” That means there is no reason to think that Jesus will make an exception and save someone that has not been baptized in water in Jesus NAME, and has not been baptized with the Holy Ghost.
Some say the thief on the cross next to Jesus was not baptized yet Jesus told him he would be in paradise with him that day. Jesus had not given the COMMANDMENT to be baptized in HIS NAME until after he had risen from the dead and before he ascended into heaven. The thief on the cross could not have been baptized because he did not know about it.
If you do what Jesus said above in Mark 16:16, Matthew 28:19, and John 3:3-7, you will be making SURE your name is Written In Lamb's Book Of Life.
If you are convinced you need to get baptized in water in Jesus Name do a search and type in "United Pentecostal Church International", scroll down to just below the red box, type in your zip code, a screen will show a Church near you that will do that.
Jesus said John 10:27, ”My Sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.”
I agree with those Scriptures, but Luke 16:18 says if you are divorced and remarried you are committing adultery so you will go to hell. And getting baptized while continuing in an adulterous remarriage will just be getting wet.
Divorce and remarriage is not permissible. But death ends the marriage covenant. Hopefully you will read the Scriptures- Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18, Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2, 10-11 & 39, Ephesians 5:31, Malachi 2:16, Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 2-3, 21:8. Jesus said to stop sinning or something worse would happen to you. God killed 23,000 people in one day for sexual immorality. If you die in sin, you go to hell.
Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 is not an allowance for divorcing for adultery, but only for FORNICATION (losing your virginity) during a JEWISH BETROTHAL. Joseph was betrothed to Mary and they were called husband and wife who had taken vows. The Jewish betrothal could only be ended if the woman fornicated and then he had to divorce her when he had never had sex with her. For us, we end engagements without legal action, but once you are married, only death ends the one flesh marriage covenant. Get right with the Lord Jesus or be left behind.
Can the wife that is unfaithful remarry another man if the faithful husband divorced her and remarried another woman?
Exactly it opens a lot of questions. This is why I believe it’s grounds for divorce and not to re marry
@Tman Wheeler For which party? The innocent, guilty or both? The only question is why would Jesus allow it and never mention the innocent party can't remarry? Up for interpretation. Jesus never said they could or could not. In the old testament one would be stoned and obviously the innocent would be able to remarry then. But my question was more about the guilty party out of curiosity.
@@tmanwheeler8270 exactly
In the old testament the guilty one got stoned and died and then the innocent could remarry. So why would that change for the innocent to not be able to remarry? And if Jesus allowed divorce he surely would have said but the innocent still cannot remarry. But since the cheating spouse broke the vow I wonder if she should remain unmarried or if it is just forgiven and she can also remarry. 🤔 Then in that case a spouse could just continue cheating and divorcing and remarrying so I see a problem with the guilty party.
No. Marriage is for life. Even the innocent spouse who is divorced against his/her will (that's me) is still married in God's eyes and cannot remarry or they become adulterers/adulteresses. I have kept my vows 41 years though he divorced me in 2008. It's sickening to see all these false teachers lie to people. I have been doing videos about this and Christ coming to rapture/rescue His bride/church for six years. Maranatha.
I remember seeing a couple on CZcams that both realized they remarried and were in adulterous marriages and even after having children with the second marriage decided to divorce anyway. If it’s true repentance then you can’t say you’ve repented for marrying the second time if you’re still IN the adulterous marriage cause you’re still IN the marriage …adultery hence sin. To rectify it would be to do like that couple I mentioned and to be safe than sorry just end the second one and remain single until the former spouse decease or Jesus comes. But this is why He says “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers YAH will judge.” Heb.13:4 ♥️💯🙃♥️💯😯
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Who is yah?
if adultery were the issue, it is saying except for adultery, you will be committing adultery.....hmmm....why two terms for this verse....
It is saying you are not allowed to divorce, except it be for sexual immorality. If you divorce for any other reason and remarry, is to commit adultery. With that being said, if one has the "exception" to divorce thier spouse, due to sexual immorality, then the spouse that committed "adultery " is already living in adultery. This is my understanding of it, just to help out.
But read your Bible, study and pray for understanding
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No. Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? No. Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abandoned me? No.
Under what circumstances can I get a divorce? None. The Bible is clear; only death can dissolve a marriage in God's sight. Our only option is to separate from our spouse and remain single. If things improve between us and our spouse, reconciliation is possible (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible).
What about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew's gospel: Once married, always married until death do us part, no exceptions. This applies to all human beings, regardless of whether you are a sinner or a saint.
Error guys, error
What specifically?
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Scriptures- Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18, Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2, 10-11 & 39, Ephesians 5:31, Malachi 2:16, Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 2-3, 21:8. Jesus said to stop sinning or something worse would happen to you. God killed 23,000 people in one day for sexual immorality. If you die in sin, you go to hell.
Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 is not an allowance for divorcing for adultery, but only for FORNICATION (losing your virginity) during a JEWISH BETROTHAL. Joseph was betrothed to Mary and they were called husband and wife who had taken vows. The Jewish betrothal could only be ended if the woman fornicated and then he had to divorce her when he had never had sex with her. For us, we end engagements without legal action, but once you are married, only death ends the one flesh marriage covenant. Get right with the Lord Jesus or be left behind.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
Again your saying things because you error in understanding.
Yes divorce is for fornication committed before the marriage but nowhere does it say during the betrothal period. Suppose you take a wife to marry in two months but you have no knowledge that she had just committed fornication does that mean she can't be divorced after you marry her and now you see she is pregnant?
No!
That is the very reason that allowed you to divorce her in the first place.
If a man marries a woman divorced or who is a widow and he finds that she has gotten pregnant by a man before the marriage, gives him the right to divorce her.
Why do you think she finds no favor in his eyes?
Watch this
Deuteronomy 24:1 KJV. When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
This uncleanness Paul speaks of here Watch this
1 Corinthians 7:14 KJV. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
Don't create something that's not there and say people can't divorce because if a woman turns up 4 months pregnant after you only married her (became one flesh) a month ago then that is perfect cause for divorce.
Once married, always married until death do us part, without exception. This applies to all humans, whether sinner or saint.
Many scriptures wasn’t address here but I’ll just deal mainly with Jesus words in Mathew.
First, Fornication is not the same as Adultery.
Other scripture use both and states an obvious difference. 1 Cor 6:9
My understanding is Jesus was speaking to Jews in the book of Matthew. Therefore he was addressing a Jewish marriage custom. DT 22: Kjv.
On the wedding night if a Jewish man found out his wife was not a virgin obviously having committed fornication ( sex before marriage) he could return her to the father with no repercussions to himself.
A Linen cloth ( chuppah cloth ) laid on the marriage bed would bare the evidence if she was a virgin or not . This was presented to her father as binding evidence.
If she was a virgin then the marriage was Consummated , if not then for the cause of fornication there could be an Immediate divorce.
No where in the Bible do i find adultery as a justification for divorce.
The marriage vows say for better or worse so help me God.
An oath with God can never be broken according to scripture. DT 23:21-23 Kjv.
If we simply say ok if they cheat on you a divorce is justified.
We don’t take into consideration many many possible causes and open the door to more confusion.
For example I know of a man that mentally abused his wife until under his advice had sex with another man. Soon as she did he was justified to get a divorce and did.
He is now attending church and she is not
Further more I’d ask if God puts something together as in one flesh how can it be separated again?
Jesus’s said Moses didn’t have the ability or authority too in Mathew.
I certainly understand this is a very difficult situation and not a easy one to discuss.
We all have family and friends that have been faced with divorce.
However churches need to be bold enough to teach once again that God absolutely hates divorce.
After all marriage is symbolic of God and his bride the church, do we want him to divorce us and find another when we have committed spiritual adultery/ Sin?
Excellent
Concise. This explains perfectly Matt 19. Thanks a million for this reply. There's no ground for divorce except it be for fornication which cannot be committed in a consummated marriage
Thank you so much for this explanation. Perfectly said…
And if the unbelieving spouse leaves you and remarries?
@@jayaustin1939If the unbeliever leaves and remarries (mine did), you are still one flesh with them and they are continually committing adultery. So you must be a eunuch for Christ and not commit adultery yourself by dating, using porn or getting remarried too. All remarriage is ongoing adultery as long as the covenant marriage is still in effect (one man to one woman for one lifetime).
Fornication is not the same word as adultery in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19. And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another, committeth ADULTERY: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
Matthew 19:4-12 KJV
So nothing ends the one flesh covenant except for the death of the spouse. In those days the Jewish betrothal began the marriage, so divorce for fornication only applies to Jews like Joseph was going to DIVORCE Mary though she was really still a virgin- Thank you Father for sending your Son, Jesus Christ.
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth ADULTERY against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth ADULTERY.
Mark 10:6-12 KJV (no exception)
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor ADULTERERS, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ADULTERY, FORNICATION, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
Galatians 5:19-21 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and ADULTERERS God will judge.
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God: that no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness. He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath also given unto us his holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 KJV
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: but and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 10-11, 39 KJV
And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The law and the prophets were until John: since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man presseth into it. And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth ADULTERY: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth ADULTERY.
Luke 16:15-18 KJV
Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be DEAD, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an ADULTERESS: but if her husband be DEAD, she is free from that law; so that she is no ADULTERESS, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:1-3 KJV
He butchered this topic 😢. Notice he interjects I a lot…
He sure did. False teaching wolf.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways he’s still a champion in the faith. I wouldn’t go that far. Spirit of error here for sure.
pre conversion marriages are accepted....and as such the spiritual condition, at the time of the marriage is not relevant to this issue....
if you repent of a sin....you can not stay in that sin.... if you was married then divorced and remarried before coming to Christ if your first spouse is alive..you live in adultry... no matter how many times you repent of it...
Romans 7:2-3 KJV
[2] For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. [3] So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Ephesians 5:30-33 KJV
[30] For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. [31] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. [32] This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. [33] Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Sadly this and 1 Cor 7 gets overlooked often when the topic is approached. And in some cases, as in some other comments on this video, they do get mentioned and then used as "support" for the exact opposite idea than what the verses say.
This scripture is relating to the law not divorce and remarriage. The law in the OT allowed for divorce and remarriage . Keep on reading. Don’t stop on vs 3 , read on to verse 4.
Therefore, my brethren, you also were made to die to the Law through the body of Christ, so that you might be joined to another, to Him who was raised from the dead, in order that we might bear fruit for God.
@@jasonroberts4177 2 Corinthians 11
2 For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ. God hath one wife and also church hath one husband
@@gedionteshome5178 amen!
Again, this scripture is NOT a teaching on divorce.
Please read on for the context of the scripture.
He is making the point about people being led astray by false doctrine.
Not a teaching on divorce/ remarriage.
This is why people take scripture out of context on many things!
Jesus said that divorcing and remarrying equals adultery, breaking one of the Ten Commandments.
Read your Bible, study and pray for understanding
So that's just your opinion I'm not looking for an opinion you're going to send people to hell for adding and taken away by your opinions all we can do is go by the word of God not by your opinion that opinion is not right we got to go buy exactly what the word of God says
He's flat out wrong. Divorce and remarriage is not permissible. Only death ends the marriage covenant. Hopefully you will read the Scriptures- Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18, Romans 7:1-3, 1 Corinthians 7:1-2, 10-11 & 39, Ephesians 5:31, Malachi 2:16, Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, Galatians 5:19-21, Revelation 2-3, 21:8. Jesus said to stop sinning or something worse would happen to you. God killed 23,000 people in one day for sexual immorality. If you die in sin, you go to hell.
Matthew 5:32 and 19:9 is not an allowance for divorcing for adultery, but only for FORNICATION (losing your virginity) during a JEWISH BETROTHAL. Joseph was betrothed to Mary and they were called husband and wife who had taken vows. The Jewish betrothal could only be ended if the woman fornicated and then he had to divorce her when he had never had sex with her. For us, we end engagements without legal action, but once you are married, only death ends the one flesh marriage covenant. Get right with the Lord Jesus or be left behind.
This is what happens when we don't use scriptures due to error of understanding
This man is definitely unbiblical. Fornication is not adultery when used in the same sentence.
@@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
True!
he has one thing correct....two wrongs dont make a right....first wrong, is divorce and remarriage, second wrong, remaining in a relationship considered adultery.....so for this to work one has to invalidate a covenant relationship and change a relationship, of adultery, to a valid covenant relationship....hmmm....how do you do this...
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
Expand on what Jesus says: Mr. Bernard’s explanation about divorce I would for the most part agree with from a Biblical perspective. But I have been divorced for unjustly reasons as I kept myself pure in Christ so I would have a more heart felt understanding of what Jesus and the Apostle Paul says about it.
Having agreed for the most part about divorce and remarriage does not mean I agree with Mr. Bernard, I agree what He said is in line with the word of God.
But something he said about Paul’s explanation of a persons spouse leaving them in Christ struck me real funny. He said I did not believe Paul was trying to expand on what Jesus had already commanded, that is divorce and remarriage only if spouse commits adultery.
As he said that I went back to his false teachings on water baptism. Jesus already gave the command baptize in the “name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Yet Mr. Bernard would say that Peter “expanded” on what Jesus said in Acts 2:38…how hypocritical.
Peter was not expanding on what Jesus said, OF COURSE NOT, Peter was not talking about the words to say when baptizing a person…period. No longer was a person to be baptized with John’s baptism of repentance, but now after the cross, resurrection and ascension of Jesus we are baptized because of our remission of sins through the authority of Jesus Christ. If we are not born-again in Christ there is no reason for water baptism…simple and period.
Mr. Bernard needs to apply the same credentials of interpretation to water baptism as he does to divorce and remarriage. When you have your own presuppositions it becomes hard for clear interpretation of scripture…what I can see so clearly Mr. Bernard choose to be blind to.
Can I get a divorce if my spouse commits adultery? Never!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse is abusive to me? No!
Can I get a divorce if I no longer love my spouse? Absolutely not!
Can I get a divorce if my spouse has abundant me? No, you can't!
So, under what circumstances can I get a divorce? Absolutely none. The Bible is absolutely clear; only death can't dissolve a marriage In God site! Our only option is to separate from our spouse and stay single. If things get better between our spouse and us soon, we can get back together! (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, Bible.
But what about the exception in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:1-9? There is no exception in Matthew’s gospel: Once you are married, you are married for life. The exception in Matthew has nothing to do with people who are already married.
the presenter goes from bad, to worse....from one exception, to a laundry list of exceptions....a classical false teaching......marry, divorce, remarry, repent, repeat....