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From my lifetime of always being the quiet wallflower "good listener" friend... One of the biggest things I've learned is: The simplest way to make someone like you is to make them feel seen and heard.. Even if they know NOTHING about you, they'll automatically associate you with positive emotions if you just allow them to speak and express themselves. It's kinda crazy lol
@@jonb6564 Totally. That can definitely be the downside of it, I've been in that position as well. That's why it's super crucial to find people who match your energy.
1. Empathy has gravity and can make people feel protected, comfortable, and safe. Mirroring others’ words and emotions can activate mirror neurons and create a sense of familiarity and comfort. 2. Stroking someone’s ego is essential to being magnetic. By making them feel important and focusing on their experiences and topics of interest, you can engage them and make them feel good about themselves. 3. Humor is a powerful tool for magnetism. Making people laugh and providing entertainment, even with simple misdirection, can make you more magnetic and attract others.
1. mirror: words, emotions, body language 2. let their ego come out: how do u make them feel? important? good? 3. humor, comfort, hugs, entertainment, misdirection
I've had ppl in my life who sincerely took interest in me, listened well, stroked my ego and literally said LOL and they never ever appeared charismatic in my eyes. Example of W Churchil,l, he was experienced by ppl as extremely charismatic - because he was taken over by a grand spirit and lofty ideas that moved him in a mighty way. He was an instrument of powerful destiny. That is being charismatic - there is otherworldly energy that moves you.
I feel it's also important to find people who are open to receiving these things. You can give them you attention, empathy etc. but if they are not open to it, it's all in vain. That's just my experience and the conclusion I came to.
Yea I have been socially distant & closed up & I’m also aware of these strategies to be get close to people & what not so whenever i feel people are trying to get close to me using these strategies it makes me feel like I’m being deceived even if it’s not in a negative way so I always get close to those who just seem to be themselves & not care what i think of them
OMG I do the mirroring subconsciously, that's happens so naturally. I just noticed recently when sister pointed that out ,who was not involved in the conversation but merely observing.
This is great advice for business as well. Making connections, building rapport, and being able to communicate through challenges is key for doing business and negotiating with others.
From someone that's talked to thousands about their life and listened to their relationships with others -- I will say that your advice is spot on. Thanks for sharing your experience!
I believe that it is far more important to attract wise people into our inner circle. The quality of friends or companions you choose will help you power through in some of the most difficult times of your life. And if you keep on attracting self-absorbed and self-serving individuals all throughout the course of your life, you're gonna end up resentful and miserable. There's no need for you to please everyone because people come and go. One thing as well is we need to be the wise kind of individual as well. Most often we don't realize that we are the "toxic and narcissistic one" in our group.
This video was exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you Show for inspiring me and so many others. You have made me realize I should give myself more credit, for being brave enough to break the pattern of habit. For giving those I love the space and safety of being heard. I might have taken the exact same thing for granted, when I am the one on the receiving end.
A lot of people think that having an ego is such a bad thing it’s really not it just makes you feel better about yourself and that’s something that everyone should be able to do!
Having an ego is considered a bad thing if you’re too prideful in your own vanity. It’s especially bad if you’re a slow progressor that simply can’t compete with others other than yourself. For example, everyone is talking about how they’re going to a trip to Hawaii this weekend, but your schedule doesn’t allow you to, and you’re on a budget to buy the car you need for work. If you let your ego get all over you to get on a plane trip to Hawaii, you’ve just unbalanced your life and your goals. And now you’re a step farther behind from where you even want to be. So that is why it’s important to realistically focus on yourself instead of your ego.
Empathy and mirroring: People are drawn to those who make them feel understood and safe. Example: When someone listens attentively and rephrases what you said, it shows they're paying attention and care about your feelings. This activates "mirror neurons" in your brain, creating a sense of familiarity and connection. How to practice: Pay attention to what people say and rephrase their words or feelings. You can also mirror their body language subtly. Stroke their ego: People enjoy talking about themselves and their accomplishments. Example: If someone mentions their love for travel, ask them questions about their favorite trip. This makes them feel important and valued. How to practice: Listen actively and ask questions that encourage them to talk about themselves. Use humor: Laughter creates a positive connection and makes people feel good. Example: You can use unexpected answers or misdirection to create a surprising and funny moment. How to practice: Play with answering questions in unexpected ways, but avoid being annoying. The goal is to be lighthearted and create a fun atmosphere.
i have a friend who is a magnet,he attract people without talking to them,he is confident in himself ,as a friend of him,i can see how girld around him ,all seeing his direction,and all time checking him ,he may not notice them,but i can see it clearly,and i get a bit jalouse ,but he is my best friend and i respect him alot
I find it interesting because some people are just ignorant and they can feel resentment towards you because they know you’re charismatic, interesting and magnetic that they will try to sabotage your image in front of others based on intimidation.
Hey Show Sensei... today a post, a direct and a video! What have you eaten today?😂 Thank you so much Show Sensei for this video,for everything you are sharing and teaching. Thank you Show Sensei because you are helping me to become the best version of myself. I am grateful 🙏
Charisma is a social personality where no matter what personality you are socially interacting with, you somehow have a good way socially entertaining any personalities. That’s charisma.
its hard to find someone alpha nowadays. most people are self-centered especially the new generations where social media focuses on self centeredness. Being magnetic is a form of spirituality many are not willing to explore because they can get hurt when they see themselves. magnetism is about realising ones own potential and being comfortable with it, as a result people are drawn to you because they are influenced by it.
I need the opposite. I want my peace and quiet and there are more and more people in my field and I can't stand that. I'm already sitting at home alone and don't even want to go out.
I always tend to attract great people naturally so far in my life even though most that used attract was all about themselves, comparing competing never acknowledge your work but just wanted to tell you what to do. Can you do a problem solving meditation video? And how to manifest a person you meet before that you didn't saw again?
What about people who are so annoying but at the same time people are drawn to them? They can be so annoying the more time you spent w them but everybody jst sweeps that part under the rug inorder to be friends w them? Its like everybody knws theyre very narcissistic & toxic but at the same time dont wanna cut them off.
holy crap you look like you came out straight from a movie,..haven't seen an actual magnetic person talking about becoming magnetic until I saw this video lol-🌝
tbh i don’t wanna be magnetic anymore, i just wanna be my self this days, since i started caring abt being “magnetic” i find it more hard to talk abt whats I actually care abt, is it just me ?
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From my lifetime of always being the quiet wallflower "good listener" friend... One of the biggest things I've learned is: The simplest way to make someone like you is to make them feel seen and heard.. Even if they know NOTHING about you, they'll automatically associate you with positive emotions if you just allow them to speak and express themselves. It's kinda crazy lol
Exactly! Seems like you are very good at it! It's a great skill to have for real!
I mean I’m that person too but I’m still overlooked
until they suck every bit love you have to give, and then use it to take advantage of you while you crumble into a soulless pile of dust.
@@jonb6564 Totally. That can definitely be the downside of it, I've been in that position as well. That's why it's super crucial to find people who match your energy.
@@jonb6564what’s up man. What’s bothering you?
1. Empathy has gravity and can make people feel protected, comfortable, and safe. Mirroring others’ words and emotions can activate mirror neurons and create a sense of familiarity and comfort.
2. Stroking someone’s ego is essential to being magnetic. By making them feel important and focusing on their experiences and topics of interest, you can engage them and make them feel good about themselves.
3. Humor is a powerful tool for magnetism. Making people laugh and providing entertainment, even with simple misdirection, can make you more magnetic and attract others.
Mirroring people is nothing to do with being Empathetic. Also if these things are faked and not sincere your making business not love.
@user-ny5dy4tz4y so what is empathy made from?
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1. mirror: words, emotions, body language
2. let their ego come out: how do u make them feel? important? good?
3. humor, comfort, hugs, entertainment, misdirection
I've had ppl in my life who sincerely took interest in me, listened well, stroked my ego and literally said LOL and they never ever appeared charismatic in my eyes. Example of W Churchil,l, he was experienced by ppl as extremely charismatic - because he was taken over by a grand spirit and lofty ideas that moved him in a mighty way. He was an instrument of powerful destiny. That is being charismatic - there is otherworldly energy that moves you.
One simple way i love to throw misdirection into my everyday life is by responding to the pattern question “how r u” with “blessed”
I feel it's also important to find people who are open to receiving these things. You can give them you attention, empathy etc. but if they are not open to it, it's all in vain. That's just my experience and the conclusion I came to.
Yea I have been socially distant & closed up & I’m also aware of these strategies to be get close to people & what not so whenever i feel people are trying to get close to me using these strategies it makes me feel like I’m being deceived even if it’s not in a negative way so I always get close to those who just seem to be themselves & not care what i think of them
OMG I do the mirroring subconsciously, that's happens so naturally. I just noticed recently when sister pointed that out ,who was not involved in the conversation but merely observing.
This is great advice for business as well. Making connections, building rapport, and being able to communicate through challenges is key for doing business and negotiating with others.
From someone that's talked to thousands about their life and listened to their relationships with others -- I will say that your advice is spot on. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Humour is the very important quality i love in people, people love my humour and I'm also attracted to people with good sense of humour.
I believe that it is far more important to attract wise people into our inner circle. The quality of friends or companions you choose will help you power through in some of the most difficult times of your life.
And if you keep on attracting self-absorbed and self-serving individuals all throughout the course of your life, you're gonna end up resentful and miserable.
There's no need for you to please everyone because people come and go.
One thing as well is we need to be the wise kind of individual as well. Most often we don't realize that we are the "toxic and narcissistic one" in our group.
I do these things!! I know these things, but I'm bad at expressing in words, and you just did exactly that
Good it becomes a confirmation to you!
Great video! This morning I heard you in a different video saying something about wasting energy in the wrong people and it shifted my day.
Amazing! Happy to hear that!
This is spot on. But doing what you say can be very draining. It's work. Important to spend time alone also.
I have always excited when you upload something❤
Awesome! I'm happy to hear that!
@@shownemoto❤
This video was exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you Show for inspiring me and so many others. You have made me realize I should give myself more credit, for being brave enough to break the pattern of habit. For giving those I love the space and safety of being heard. I might have taken the exact same thing for granted, when I am the one on the receiving end.
Happy to hear that! Let's kep growing!
The best and the most objective advice anyone can give you and which will stand the test of time is this -
Be Attractive.
1. Swallow a lot of iron.
2. Cover urself with copper wire.
3. Put the both ends of the wire in socket and turn on the button.
My takeaway is I’m magnetic asf 😂 but it really sucks being this way all the time. Being always interest in others but no one interested in you.
Exactly. This video is completely different from the experiences of many people it seems
Same some people are such selfish assholes they just love hearing how great they are, but there are people who will match ur energy ♡
Damn, I really like the way that you talk and explain things, I love these kind of videos and definitely I''m a new suscriber.
Dayum did he just described INFP's cause we're the best at mirroring and stroking others ego.
🤓👆
Show is always teaching us. Great content as always! Keep it up! :)
Thank you! Happy to hear that!
A lot of people think that having an ego is such a bad thing it’s really not it just makes you feel better about yourself and that’s something that everyone should be able to do!
Having an ego is considered a bad thing if you’re too prideful in your own vanity. It’s especially bad if you’re a slow progressor that simply can’t compete with others other than yourself. For example, everyone is talking about how they’re going to a trip to Hawaii this weekend, but your schedule doesn’t allow you to, and you’re on a budget to buy the car you need for work. If you let your ego get all over you to get on a plane trip to Hawaii, you’ve just unbalanced your life and your goals. And now you’re a step farther behind from where you even want to be. So that is why it’s important to realistically focus on yourself instead of your ego.
He definitely knows what he’s doing because his tricks are working on me. LOL
I'm going to try some of these 👀
Thanks for the tips Show, as someone who's building an audience, I know being magnetic is key.
Practice them!
Empathy and mirroring: People are drawn to those who make them feel understood and safe.
Example: When someone listens attentively and rephrases what you said, it shows they're paying attention and care about your feelings. This activates "mirror neurons" in your brain, creating a sense of familiarity and connection.
How to practice: Pay attention to what people say and rephrase their words or feelings. You can also mirror their body language subtly.
Stroke their ego: People enjoy talking about themselves and their accomplishments.
Example: If someone mentions their love for travel, ask them questions about their favorite trip. This makes them feel important and valued.
How to practice: Listen actively and ask questions that encourage them to talk about themselves.
Use humor: Laughter creates a positive connection and makes people feel good.
Example: You can use unexpected answers or misdirection to create a surprising and funny moment.
How to practice: Play with answering questions in unexpected ways, but avoid being annoying. The goal is to be lighthearted and create a fun atmosphere.
Stupendous video😉Practical, easy to use tips. Thanks 😊
i have a friend who is a magnet,he attract people without talking to them,he is confident in himself ,as a friend of him,i can see how girld around him ,all seeing his direction,and all time checking him ,he may not notice them,but i can see it clearly,and i get a bit jalouse ,but he is my best friend and i respect him alot
I find it interesting because some people are just ignorant and they can feel resentment towards you because they know you’re charismatic, interesting and magnetic that they will try to sabotage your image in front of others based on intimidation.
I've never seen you before but that was much more than expected. Well done!
I feel like giving you the hug brodie 🫂
Can you make a short with how are you doing your hair? It looks stunning and probably is a major reason why you're magnetic hehe.
Great video. Keeeeep up the good work ☀️
Thank you!
Hey Show Sensei... today a post, a direct and a video! What have you eaten today?😂 Thank you so much Show Sensei for this video,for everything you are sharing and teaching.
Thank you Show Sensei because you are helping me to become the best version of myself. I am grateful 🙏
Happy to hear that!
Your videos get better and better.
Thank you for this.
I’ve been watching your videos for a while and I’ve learnt quite a bit thank you sho!
fuzzzzzz... that half naked man really caught me off guard 8:02 ... almost spill my coffee 🤣
This is awesome!
thank u bro.. i need this been searching many content who can talk like this
Hi, Nemoto. Good to hear from you again.
I absolutely love all the wisdom but damn I need fashion advice from you ❤ zajebisty gust naprawdę
I read the title as "how to be Majestic af"
me clicking this video bcs i saw the thumbnail and really thought yupp he looks very magnetic so this must be really legit ;D
Fantastic video sensei. This will truly help all of us evolve 🙏
I think your so cool and so intelligent. Wow!
You are the best life coach ever & I am your forever fan❤
You are so beautiful. And your words are even more beautiful.
When you said the second type of ppl, i felt it personal ( i tho it was gonna be like persephonmid vid but its different)❤
Hey
I am great fan of you
I really wish to see u in personal bt not possible
U r doing a great job 👏❤
Good content, i try to understand carisma in other’s videos but I never get it.
With your video I understand i lot more! Thank you!
Keep going!
Thank you! That's a great feedback!
Charisma is a social personality where no matter what personality you are socially interacting with, you somehow have a good way socially entertaining any personalities. That’s charisma.
I loved this. You are gorgeous and you gave great tip. Thank you!
The last one is deep❤
You got a great voice and accent.
Just found your channel on recommendations 👍
Great content!!!!!
Great voice - spot on topic
You are a very beautiful human
Charisma and charm.
love this, ty 🖤
As a low key person myself. I’ll definitely give this video a watch and do the very opposite to everything you said.
😂
Animal magnetism when some of us live in places and times where, "to see first is to run and get away from that person" :)
Subscribed solely off of your Voice
Siempre podemos aprender algo nuevo .Se agradece desde Chile.
brilliant video dude , well said
brooo... how do you know that i needed this video soooo bad......... i think there is some connection between us
Happy to hear that! You gotta practice!
Bruce Lee is one of the most magnetic person in my opinion
Loving the background, 🌿🙌🏻🤍 nice vlogs maaaan
your accent is so interesting bro
Very insightful and well spoken video. Subscribed.
New Subscriber. You have meaning in my life.
This helps so much! ❤❤
There is a problem with being magnectic. If the person is going throug a rough time, they might fall in love. For real!
its hard to find someone alpha nowadays. most people are self-centered especially the new generations where social media focuses on self centeredness. Being magnetic is a form of spirituality many are not willing to explore because they can get hurt when they see themselves. magnetism is about realising ones own potential and being comfortable with it, as a result people are drawn to you because they are influenced by it.
I love this video!!! So interesting
Funny I do these things naturally - good to know what and why it is haha
Also wear rings. Each finger symbolizes different things
I need the opposite. I want my peace and quiet and there are more and more people in my field and I can't stand that. I'm already sitting at home alone and don't even want to go out.
So relaxing to listen to😍
I don't know who you are, but I think you are absolutely gorgeous.❤
These were refreshing^^
literally clicked on this video to see this guy
Love these videos you make!
Happy to hear that!
Thank you 🙏🏼🥰
Thank you ❤
Great video as always Show, love from the Netherlands ☺️❤️
Thank you! Alles goed
I feel like cold gold 14k fits your skin tone better. Sorry my adhd just couldn't focus.
8:19 😂😂😂😂😂now i have serious issues with the naked man images 😂😂😂😂
I like the dancing naked idea 😂
Great! Living like movie !😀🙏
We have to cuz we are main character!
Lol, 8:44 got me!
Lovely video 🤍
Thank you!
i love your color profile
How do you style your hair like this? It's very nice
I always tend to attract great people naturally so far in my life even though most that used attract was all about themselves, comparing competing never acknowledge your work but just wanted to tell you what to do. Can you do a problem solving meditation video? And how to manifest a person you meet before that you didn't saw again?
Like your videos very much keep up the great work
Thank you!
If u want to be more magnetic be that in which u wish to attract
What about people who are so annoying but at the same time people are drawn to them? They can be so annoying the more time you spent w them but everybody jst sweeps that part under the rug inorder to be friends w them? Its like everybody knws theyre very narcissistic & toxic but at the same time dont wanna cut them off.
holy crap you look like you came out straight from a movie,..haven't seen an actual magnetic person talking about becoming magnetic until I saw this video lol-🌝
😢😮😮
tbh i don’t wanna be magnetic anymore, i just wanna be my self this days, since i started caring abt being “magnetic” i find it more hard to talk abt whats I actually care abt, is it just me ?
I thought u were gonna ask me to coil myself with some wire with electricity passing through them lol
Lol