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3 Clues It May Be Time To Consider Leaving
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- čas přidán 23. 01. 2022
- 3 CLUES IT MAY BE TIME TO CONSIDER LEAVING // Has the thought ever crossed your mind about whether you should stay or leave your relationship?
And maybe just the thought of leaving your loved one who struggles with addiction makes you anxious or scared (which is understandable). But just hear me out, okay?
Tune in to this week's new episode, where I dive into three clues that it may be time to consider leaving. And if you decide that leaving isn't the right decision for you, that's absolutely okay, too.
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Is hard at the beginning, I remembered I felt that I was not able to survived alone, that my son needed a dad 24/7 and I needed the house and all the commodities.
Once I got a job, I felt it was the time. Still it was hard for me, I was still feeling insecure about myself! Until one day I found an apartment and little by little I moved my belongings. Got my son with my parents for a little bit to avoid stressful situations.
I live with my son now in an small apartment. Sometimes, I get sad but comparing my pass life with my present life. I will no go back again !
Leaving with an alcoholic is very stressful, is not worthy. ..My opinion!
I’m so happy for you!!! ❤️ you’re strong 💪🏽
@@TiffanyWestNyc Thank you! 😊
This is so raw. This is so truthful. To hear Michelle say out loud, these clues, is powerful. When you can sit with truth, it isn't easy. When you listen, and listen again to this and be open to really asking yourself if this is your story, it's your voice telling you what you already know. Nothing changes, if nothing changes. I am my change, and that's a fearful place to be, to reprogram your beliefs is hard. What you believe about yourself, is reflective in so many ways within this. As you help yourself along this path, it's much easier to stay within, but true healing shows when you now cannot give up and still fighting for yourself. Once you begin to want change, you see that the hardest road is healing your core beliefs because I often say, had I been taught self esteem, self confidence, that I was valuable etc, I would have lived different. Now, after opening up the wounds, you begin to see that you chose this based on your beliefs about yourself. Hard truth to swallow but true. As you finally begin to heal, you see you are very deserving and it's now almost impossible to ignore it. It's one thing to live completely truly naive for years, but completely another now when you have knowledge. I truly thought I could save, help, heal and this process of accepting I couldn't and can't is brutal. The real work began, when I started to save, help and heal..myself.
My biggest fear is finances. Haven’t worked much for 20 years as I stayed home to homeschool my kids. I’m turning 50 in a couple of days but I’m determined to start working on skills to start a business or become employed again. Working the Stay or Go programme is helping a lot in my journey to independence 💜
You've got this!! xoxo Just one step at a time and you'll get there
Same, I am 52 and we homeschooled also. I'm working but I do not know how I can afford it on my own. Especially that I need healing so bad and don't want to have to work 3 jobs 😥
Another awesome message at exactly the time I needed to hear. Thank you for your program and know listening has been life changing for me 🙏
Clue #3 hit home. I’ve been in a marriage for 29yrs & Mistress Alcohol has been a constant. Bottles of vodka are hidden in the garage & her existence is denied. He splurges on the weekend, drinks 2-4 bottles of wine (the wine I see) a night plus kisses from her throughout. I believe she gets kissed during the week so a nip here & there. I’m not afraid to be alone & on my own. Thing is, he’s a great guy & I want to grow old w/him but I do know that I won’t tolerate the Mistress forever. I’m just tired of dealing w/her & I do have a timeline as we retire in 7 yrs. There is no way he will be sober if he doesn’t work. He drinks & watches TV, & I go to bed. So basically I don’t exist & nothing to really get enraged about to leave. Something will be done, the road for me just hasn’t shown itself yet. I’m a fixer so the fixer in me is working on fixing me. A process.
I’ve been to a few divorce lawyers. I make almost 3 times as much money as he does. I was told half my money would go to him. Half my 401(k) would go to him. The thought of giving him my hard earned money so he can quit his job and do drugs all day makes me sick. And he can get Alimony too. California is a no fault divorce, it’s so unfair. So for now, I have been living with my mother for the past 3 months until I decide what to do.
My husband would tell me how lucky I was to be married to him. Because even though he was an addict he didn’t beat me or cheat on me and did everything for me. It makes me so angry that He actually believes that. Oh yeah, I’m so lucky 😂🤣😝
HE is the lucky one, not me.
Thank you 💗💗💗
Hi
I just want to know whether they can see the pain of their family or not?
Or alcohol is their first and last love?
I think they do see the pain, but the addiction is still stronger.