Kevin Hale - How to Work Together

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  • čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
  • YC Partner Kevin Hale talks about the importance of building a successful working relationship with your cofounders, and setting up processes to optimize for the strengths of your team.
    Transcript and lecture slides here: www.ycombinator.com/library/6...
    This lecture is part of YC's Startup School, a free online program and global community of founders. Register and join the community at www.startupschool.org/
    Chapters (Powered by bit.ly/chapterme-yc) -
    00:00 Introduction
    00:30 Marriage advice
    2:33 Four things to avoid when fighting
    4:22 Planning for disagreements
    13:05 Non-violent communication
    22:48 Pay down emotional debt
    26:30 Conclusion
    Looking for a co-founder? Try YC's new co-founder matching platform: www.ycombinator.com/cofounder...
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Komentáře • 68

  • @ycombinator
    @ycombinator  Před 2 lety +5

    Looking for a co-founder? Try YC's new co-founder matching platform: www.ycombinator.com/cofounder-matching

    • @I_think_its_funny
      @I_think_its_funny Před 7 měsíci

      Can we get the lecture slides, please? The link above doesn't work.

  • @evanlightner
    @evanlightner Před 4 lety +79

    The startup success rate would probably be something much higher if this video was mandatory viewing for all first time founders. Incredible stuff. Infinite gratitude.

  • @japhetkineze4597
    @japhetkineze4597 Před 4 lety +30

    If you ever in YC then do not complain about how hard life is. Imagine having these guys to talk to all day? Making things easier for the lucky ones in YC.

  • @NicholasJohnson14
    @NicholasJohnson14 Před 4 lety +5

    I love the table after 15mins and move to a Friday meeting and by then many of them resolve themselves.

  • @kyleschutter
    @kyleschutter Před 4 lety +5

    On attachment styles, related to the last question, someone can, indeed, become "acquired secure." Meaning they didn't grow up that way but learned it as an adult. Also, there are 4 attachment styles actually: the fourth is Anxious-Avoidant or Disorganized Attachment. It sounds paradoxical and is. Sometimes the result of abusive parents where the person both received love and abuse from the same person as a child. The book Attachment Effect is a great read on Attachment styles in general.
    This talk is just what I needed this week. Perfect timing.

  • @ulasturkmen965
    @ulasturkmen965 Před rokem +1

    I'm picking up my jaw from the floor right now. What an incredibly good lecture.

  • @dotunopasina3101
    @dotunopasina3101 Před 3 lety +12

    This is amazing stuff!! Not just for founders but anyone in general! Thank you for it

  • @pawnfish
    @pawnfish Před 4 lety +6

    This years videos are awesome

  • @rajinderyadav9250
    @rajinderyadav9250 Před 4 lety +3

    This is an excellent talk and really found it helpful, I also love some of the tools presented to help us all. Thanks Kevin!

  • @dfnhnrtsbnsdfbgs
    @dfnhnrtsbnsdfbgs Před 4 lety +2

    Incredible content. Can't believe this is free

  • @fev4
    @fev4 Před 4 lety +4

    This is amazing! Thank you

  • @ThomasCzerniawski
    @ThomasCzerniawski Před 4 lety +38

    When [YC posts a video on CZcams], I feel [elated], because I’m needing some [mastery]. Would you be able to [ommmgggg never leave me]?

  • @TheSocialAlchemy
    @TheSocialAlchemy Před 4 lety +1

    Brilliant. Kevin delivers!

  • @jennieohyoung5150
    @jennieohyoung5150 Před rokem

    Wow this is a must watch not just for founders, but for all leaders - clear, actionable, and inspiring! Thank you Kevin!

  • @sdogboe
    @sdogboe Před 4 lety +1

    This talk is really great !!

  • @asanverse_
    @asanverse_ Před 3 lety +2

    This is super useful, every college grad (or a drop out) preparing to work in teams should see this

  • @amitjha8240
    @amitjha8240 Před 3 lety +1

    It is one of the most interesting video i have ever seen.

  • @garethgriffiths7084
    @garethgriffiths7084 Před 4 lety +17

    Fascinating talk. Did not expect it to be packed full of psychology tips. I'll follow up and read the suggested links. Thank you!

  • @ChaidaIsmail
    @ChaidaIsmail Před 4 lety +1

    Amazing talk, really interesting

  • @adlaco4644
    @adlaco4644 Před 4 lety +1

    Love this!

  • @mahab944
    @mahab944 Před 2 lety

    Kevin Hale talks are great!

  • @bhanusinghal1918
    @bhanusinghal1918 Před 3 lety +1

    This talk is gold

  • @agalienterprisesltd4259
    @agalienterprisesltd4259 Před 4 lety +1

    This is very helpful information, thanks a lot sir.

  • @agalienterprisesltd4259

    Great stuff...learning to take action.

  • @Omahaneb6
    @Omahaneb6 Před 3 lety

    Such a valuable presentation - great job

  • @davidpalmer7952
    @davidpalmer7952 Před 3 lety

    Fantastic approach to problem solving

  • @sonfaada
    @sonfaada Před 2 lety

    I feel like I’ve been to a therapist with out me talking at all and for free! This is amazingly useful information.

  • @clumsy_diane
    @clumsy_diane Před 2 lety

    Really helpful. Thanks!

  • @margaretcezar1109
    @margaretcezar1109 Před 2 lety

    I appreciate the tips Kevin 🙏

  • @LifeyApp
    @LifeyApp Před 4 lety +4

    love these videos!

  • @ArtemDudynsky
    @ArtemDudynsky Před rokem

    Amazing video!

  • @mr.jamoudikhalid134
    @mr.jamoudikhalid134 Před 4 lety

    Great talk.

  • @RudolfEremyan
    @RudolfEremyan Před 3 lety

    This is a GOLLD! Thanks a lot!

  • @mrddadi
    @mrddadi Před 2 lety

    One of the most amazing speech. 🤓

  • @tudorturcu8827
    @tudorturcu8827 Před 4 lety +6

    Awesome content and delivery! Kevin always finds a way to make his talks funny and engaging
    Also, I laughed very hard at 36:35 :))

  • @aragothkarsen5010
    @aragothkarsen5010 Před 2 lety

    I cant find the slides in the link, great content obviusly love it

  • @gianpaj
    @gianpaj Před 4 lety +1

    Don't forget as well that people change and their needs too in the span of 10 years. Are they able to learn to adapt and share with you when they feel they needs have changed? they want family, etc.

  • @ewanmchorton
    @ewanmchorton Před 2 lety +1

    Can you share the PDF with evaluative emotions Kevin talks about on 18:30?

  • @dreamerinc.8491
    @dreamerinc.8491 Před 2 měsíci

    👍great

  • @jesusoliveros9950
    @jesusoliveros9950 Před rokem

    could you please guys publish the links?

  • @kmjones7
    @kmjones7 Před 8 měsíci

    Gottman is the model for couples counseling. No one does it like him.

  • @I_think_its_funny
    @I_think_its_funny Před 7 měsíci

    Can we get the lecture slides, please? The link above doesn't work.

  • @vhg655
    @vhg655 Před 4 lety

    Incorrect link to the slides in the description. Please, correct it

  • @andrewshvv
    @andrewshvv Před 4 lety +6

    How to save this video twice?

  • @hnmAck
    @hnmAck Před 4 lety +2

    "God forbid, seven of you!"
    XDXDXD

  • @sunshineo23
    @sunshineo23 Před 4 lety

    Makes me think if a partnership in business is overrated

  • @vladimirvakhter4655
    @vladimirvakhter4655 Před 2 lety

    The video about attachment styles, mentioned by the lecturer, is available at: czcams.com/video/2s9ACDMcpjA/video.html

  • @matrenitski
    @matrenitski Před 3 lety

    When I see a link in the video, I feel frustration and anger, because I need convenience to save the time on typing it in. Would you be able to add an active link in description or as a popup? Thank you!

  • @JosephProsnitz1
    @JosephProsnitz1 Před 4 lety +2

    Is there empirical evidence this works? The time and effort needed to deal with this level of touch seems resource consuming beyond benefit at least at first glance to me. I feel like if there is sufficient professionalism much of this is not needed. Then again I am a solo founder so mountain of salt on my words

  • @Alphfirm
    @Alphfirm Před 4 lety +1

  • @philobryan2975
    @philobryan2975 Před 4 lety

    MAHALOS

  • @samsammurphy
    @samsammurphy Před 4 lety

    Attachment styles
    czcams.com/video/2s9ACDMcpjA/video.html

  • @vlogmoinc5597
    @vlogmoinc5597 Před 3 lety

    this was corny basically you have to teach people common sense nowadays

  • @danieldeelite
    @danieldeelite Před 2 lety

    Ugh, don't recommend School of Life. Toxic video series.

  • @millennialm1money500
    @millennialm1money500 Před rokem

    Instant loss of credibility when you say you can predict the success of a marriage with 94 percent certainty. Seriously that’s insulting to your intelligence to even say that