Why attachment theory and love languages are BS designed to leave you WEAK when dating women
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Hey bro, I wanna help with this. Do you need help? I am looking for a job opportunity man. Thanks.
@CaseyZander Hey bro hope you are well....Whatever you all are teaching in youtube maybe helpful but NOT SUSTAINABLE for long term...BRo if a woman doesnt fear ALLAAH..she will not fear any consequences...thats why its best to not marry women from the west..most are damaged goods
Any guy that pursued a woman that wasn't quite interested at first can confirm that it rarely works out. You cannot change how they feel except for short term bursts
Hypergamy is when you have plenty of fish not just oneâŠF her
On the flip side when you are in a situation where you arenât that interested in the woman she is head over heels, until she fully wins you over and the power dynamic quickly changes and all of a sudden she looks down on you
I guess that's how true compatibility is determined?
@@jackfox4216i realized this alsoâŠ. You can NEVER let a woman fully win you over âŠ.once she does she looks down on you and start looking for other men
@@jackfox4216 thanks for mentioning the pair of words bro... " Power Dynamic "
U legit brought everything together in my mind man!!!
My gf of 8yrs cheated on me and I started watching Caseyâs videos to get over that - now Iâm using his content to date women and he is 100% correct - I literally donât have enough days in the week to fit them all in. My ex is now âreaching outâ and I just donât give a f.
Anyone who had a serious long term relationship where he gave the women everything, knows that Casey is 100% right!
Those bitches played us
Broâs always got the best hats
Only thing receding is your time, that you could have spent uplifting others :)
@@jeansollot6419 bro, lol
@@jeansollot6419heâd still steal ur girl
@@banana7400 Good reply!
â ââ @@jeansollot6419dude deleted his replies
Casey changed my life more than any other dating expert ever has. Because of him I have been able to change how my brain works and can actually talk to women better than I ever have before discovering his channel. The main thing I get from him is you MUST form a life to where you don't need any woman and you must pretend you're already there even if you aren't quite there yet.
He also explains everything in such detail and tells us exactly what we should or shouldnât do. He gets right to the point unlike these other guys who give generic advice and take forever to make any valid points if weâre lucky.
What men need to realize and come to terms with is the fact that women can and will operate toxically in any relationship with a man...... So don't feel so bad about doing it to them also.
Feels like the general MO is woman becomes infatuated, is very sweet and respectful so youâll fall in love, sheâll be turned off after a short time by the fact that you love her because women are disgusted by men being in love with them âtoo easilyâ and sheâll start to act like a c*nt, then sheâll either A) stop when you donât put up with it and show youâre ready to leave in a second, or B) youâll try to win her back and sheâll completely lose whatever attraction she had left. But yeah, the harsh reality is 99% of them are toxic and have to be manipulated or theyâll fall out of love.
đŻ% facts.... women will make rules for who they dont want and break rules for who they do want
So do men .đłïžđ
No
@@user-zs2rh9fw5mdefinitely yes.. some men. ..just like some women & I'm not one of them...I've alway's noticed & said that look's determine's what women & men get away with.đłïžđ
Hey Casey, I hear what your saying, and your 100% Right, Men need to stick together and be on the same page in order to cut women out of the Game, let me give you an example, Im walking along the footpath with my girlfriend, and theres a complete stranger walking towards us, and as we get closer, He looks my girl in the eyes, and she returns the glance, eye to eye, and that makes me feel like Im just in the way, what Men need to do Is start respecting each other, He should be looking Me in the eye with a nod, and saying, gday mate as he passes bye, AND THAT, CUTS THE WOMEN OUT OF THE GAME. Its called Respect for your Fellow Man.
Respectfully men want other mens girl.l
Yes brother. Gday mate
True..... However you cannot simply dismiss your girls reaction...... It's indicative of how easily distracted feminine nature can be....... I mean, Eve had Adam who was perfection in flesh..... Adam was created in the express image of the most high God..... And Eve still strayed from him.
Casey don't ever srop bro.. love your content. I listen your teachings for a few hours everyday. I started to change my view on many things.
Oh man, so you're worse than before now LOL
@@stephanea5364 Real funny thing is, these priceless concepts Casey is telling went right above your head and you are here just for trolling LOL
@@furkanyuksel3263 Keep simping for your boy. Sad that a grown man like you look up to another kid LOL
â@@stephanea5364 typical fembot comment
@@furkanyuksel3263 You're in for a sad life. Go for it, champ
By truly not caring about women that you're interacting with you will make them feel as if your sexual market value is above theirs.
BS
When you know you have options they can tell. They just fall in line because you got it like that.
@@peytonedwards4225 Nonsense! You are as narrow-minded as all his fanboys, but reality doesnât work as simple as he conveys it!
@@firsthelix6726 Because so many women have grown accustomed to operating toxically in their relationships with men... The only real way they can love a man is when they are pursuing his validation and approval... Not the other way around.
@@spruce5123 I didnât really ask a question, did I? And what you say has nothing to do with love but with co-dependency, and that again only works for broken women with certain attachment styles.
Dr. Orion Taraban has a great video about how women make it difficult for men to love them, calling bullshit on these same concepts. I suggest that everybody watches it after this video in order to deepen their understanding
Orian is amazing. Casey I'd amazing.
Though, I have to say, my DA ex is TEXTBOOK.
Itâs hilarious that what Casey and Psychacks describe is real evolutionary psychology while mainstream psychology is more pseudoscientific to appeal to the masses
Got a link?
â@@user-uc7qb1su4emainstream pyschology is very politcally correct and gynocentric. Its why Psychology courses are full of females
@@couldntthinkofagoodnamesoi8357 i tried pasting links on yt comments, was unable to
What Iâve really noticed over the years about why a woman will be with a man with higher sexual value. She is with him in the hopes of gaining access to men with even higher value via his groups and associations. Iâve known this for years.
Theyre all whores
Casey you are changing so many men's lives for the better, i can't thank you enough. Thank you!
Yeah, he changes minds though, not lives, and for the worse as you all will find out later, hahaha!
Professor Casey always bringing back the TRUTH. Thanks bro
Men should seek women who show them high interest. High interest women will reciprocate effort. They will go above and beyond to prove themselves to the man theyâre interested in. Once youâve had rock star treatment from a high interest woman, youâll never except anything else.
Donât except low or medium interest women unless youâre only seeking a booty call.
If you want a long term fulfilling relationship, you need:
1. Compatibility(MBTI personality)
2. Shared values
3. Shared interest
4. Conflict resolution
5. Similar sex drive
6. Best friend vibes
7. Vet heavily to insure her interest remains high
8. Makes sure she continues to follow your lead.
9. Stay in your masculine frame.
10. Praise her when sheâs in her feminine
How to vet?
@@serdemyildiz2861
Look for red flags and inconsistencies. Inconsistencies with words and actions.
Shits getting wild now!! You canât just go for one chick you have to steam roll them alll. Does not matter if she is ugly or hot. Or just completely ignore her. Make the ugly chicks feel just as good as the hot ones. Oh man. Casey put into words 90% of us canât even fathom the thought
Yeh i noticed if i flirt with ugly or below average looking women by ignoring the pretty ones it flips the script and makes them chase amd actually make an effort
Standard girl code you should be figuring out in high-school.
They teach that shit on nickelodeon
@@loveinthevalley no they teached pedo
I'm 56 years old and I'll tell you what you have taught me a lot and I can fill in the blanks very well†Great Job Brother!!
Casey keep talking son, am listening and watching
This is so true
Thanks boss!
Casey bro..... I've watched this presentation many times....... And in my assessment, you have single handedly cracked the attraction code for women....... Absolutely amazing and brilliant work bro.
Listen to this man,he changed my life,but dont listen to him now,casey said u dont need anyone you only need you to succeed,focus on ur wants focus on you only you,that changed my life,thanks casey
I agree with his underlying message that attraction is not a choice. But, attachment theory is the idea that we as humans are psychologically conditioned to pursue nurturing from a partner the same way our parents nurtured us. We learn from our care givers what âloveâ looks like, whether itâs healthy or not. The main 4 types are secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful.
What it entails for dating/relationships is that if a girl was raised by an abusive father, she has an insecure attachment style, and will subconsciously seek a mate that treats her the same way her father treated her, because through her brain, thatâs âloveâ. This leads back to the idea that the way they perceive love with subconscious turn them on. Therefore, attraction is still not a choice through attachment theory.
I am with you I told you man I always do anything you want
I salute you for cutting through the bullshit! I've felt this for a long time
Clever, how he show's his merchandise while speaking on that topic written on the cap. đđ
Thank you đđ
Casey really knows his shit. He is the best out there.
Thank God for you!
Maybe grandpa didnât care about attachment theory but he sure already was surrendering the frame since itâs currently 3rd generation of men who are each passing this Happy Wife Happy Life mentality to another. How do I know? I see it at every wedding which Iâve been to hundreds all over Texas. I hear the toasts and speeches, matter of fact I record them as a videographer and sometimes listen to them twice during editing, itâs really is like Matrix after a while.
Good topic
My gf hate that I have friends and a brotherhood. She tell me that she don't feel valued when I'm with them instead of her đ
Dw sheâs subconsciously fucking with it đđ
Women are naturally sarcastic
Just be yourself dude, dont waste too much time on nights out drinking and such, but if you want to spend time with your mates on legitimate interests, like a sport you all play, fishing, rock climbing, or whatever, i would limit compromising that for you gf to feel "valued" to as low as humanly possible, maybe never. If i want to engage in a fun, healthy hobby with my family or friends and i have no real plans with my gf im going to enjoy myself, increase my skill, my confidence, and the bonds i have with my friends and family.
And yet it also means she has to earn your time and attention ... which is how it should be if you want her to actually value your time and attention.
Facts đŻ
Tone back on the cryâs for buy in to the community - itâs coming across as effeminate. It will sell itself - just keep doing what youâve been doing focusing on good content.
Agreed. All these guys just want to sell their courses and itâs sort of pathetic
ChatGPT says "The claim that these concepts are "total BS" lacks empirical support and fails to acknowledge the complexity of human attachment and emotional expression."
Everytime I watch a cz video I do 10-20 push ups, gonna be yolked this summer
Helpful
Anytime you Casey with that white board itâs finna be a lesson learned đđ but it be facts gotta respect it
Casey is the man, I love these; so true, this is the same principle Doc Love, rest his soul, said, "interest level cuts through everything". My main problem is actually finding some pure blood, non-injected women, do they even exist?
Bro, been following you for a while. This video of ur theory is just partially true like the attachment theory and love languages; it does apply only in particular time frames of the relationship. There is a point when you are with the person you somehow start to be yourself especially after u move in together. At some point you going to experience all the emotions she has and vice-versa. We are both human, hence not perfect. You cannot avoid talking about how you connect with each other, the way you skip out most of the things that involve a relationship is quite alarming. Once you have slept and lived with that person for a year or 2 Smv in your theory is satisfied you gonna have to start consider how you are being with that person on a weekly basis, if u start ignoring her taking her for granted you are not going far but most importantly you are not even fulfilling your own relationship needs. It's in both sexes interest to fulfill each other needs, I advice you to a good ifs therapist; no matter how much money you will make, a certain degree of fulfillment will never come to you if you don't let go of past shit, but the way you have to let it go is through your subconscious otherwise it will NEVER work.
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I missed the whiteboard! đ
Uncle C, heâs back in the office!!
Dude, youâre totally right. Figured that out myself last year. (see my other comment on here for my story) I just fear youâre gonna get kicked off yt for speaking the truth. They donât like that. You need to start collecting emails or something for a backup plan. ***Edited-my bad, I see you have your own sight. đGood work!!
Yesssirrr ⊠we all need, each other .. ainât !!! no âcolorismâ thing đŻ
Race is real
@@johannesolofsson221 only 1 ârace â & thatâs the human .. RACE!!!đŻ
Hey Casey , do I have to subscribe to be part of headman
Attachment theory is BS? Oh I love these self proclaimed gurus who think they know better than some of the biggest minds that walked the Earth.
facts!
Attatchment theory doesn't take anything away from what you're talking about.
Everyone has an attatchment style. It's developed from your relationship with your parents in your early years and nobody is escaping it.
There is nothing BS about it, it exists in perpetuity and again does not take away from this content.
If anything understanding yourself better will help you engage with this content and fix your problems even more.
Why Casey would not be leveraging this to help his cause makes no sense.
Love languages are just a rough image of who you are at that moment in time.
Most therapy is recieved by women so.. really this isn't something there is data for in regards to harming men.
I love Casey but he clearly doesnât understand what attachment theory is. None of what he says has anything to do with the subject
Parenting & upbringing play a big role, but dating relationships can also have a major effect as well.
@@christophertishlias2450 Attachment theory is coming to fuck with every dating coach's wallet. Casey's usually great, but fighting AT isn't it.
@@bobbyhonez I donât understand the reason to try & fight it but rather integrate those lessons into dating coaching as they are valuable for both personal growth & in relationships as well.
@@christophertishlias2450 agree
Bro always gets me when he says "warning this might piss you off"đđ
Gold
Attachment theory is absolutely valid and is based on biochemistry.
Bruv this shit like therapy fr. idk what you talking about when you say "yall gon get hurt with this fact"
Next Video. How to demonstrate Pre-Selection 24/7 with any woman you want.
Dude is serious, spread the word and have a brotherhood
There was always something off putting and pseudoscientific about all of these psychology concepts and funnily enough, mainstream psychology discredits evolutionary psychology the way you describe in your videos even though it makes way more sense. Glad to see you and also Psychacks calling it out.
Evolution, space all lies...
Speculative science is a scam, nobody went to the sun, its made of cheese
7:57 You're never going to see me change my beliefs about that, says the guy who changed his beliefs the minute his gf dumped him and was saying how he didn't care about dating advices LOL
My man
You gotta point about women follow the herd about what other women think. Just look at âthe ballon showâ as soon as one woman pops her balloon the rest of em do too.
I can attest attachment theory is bs. I was with one woman for 25 years, since I was 14 we just grew apart, and Iâm still friends with her. âstableâ. Then I dated a woman 17 years older than me, which made me âavoidantâ (just didnât care to be in that relationship that much), then I dated a beautiful woman 20 years younger, and I became âanxiousâ (didnât want to loose her of course) so according to attachment theory. Iâve been all three? Why even have all that jargon? Itâs bs. đ
attachement theory is a legit theory in psychology
Legitimately designed for Simps
@@AxxelX5 Come back in 5 years and tell me how your love life is. I can guarantee you it won't be satisfying.
A gay one clearly, bc he's right
Itâs pseudoscience
@@stephanea5364 I'm not overly concerned about it as long as I'm getting my balls drained. đ€
#1STMAN
I love the grounded reality of this channel!!!
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I'm in a similar situation where should I look to increase income? Do you have any advice? What did you do ? Thank you
How did you do it? Do explain please, My family have been into series of sufferings lately
That's an amazing testimony, I've also heard good things about this Tonya Evans, I think she's one of a kind.
She's a top notch for real, my colleagues at work kept talking about her, so I decided to take the test and work with her; she's put a smile on my face for the past few years of working with herđ
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One of the many reasons I laugh when dudes talk all this "pair bonding" nonsense. That's something a woman would say, but much of today's men are the new women!
Good all brother have
He made a community for all of us guys but for a price to line his pockets
Yeah but you have to put some skin in the game. Nobody appreciates anything free
If he gives a lot of free info away everything he's given out has helped me immensely and I didn't even join his program so
Heâs got a decade of research
Oh he got his women to come and defend him. So, I guess his methods work?
@@managerjacks142 it's called dating and trial and error.
Itâs useful to learn about love languages for your loved ones (children, other immediate family, etc.)
I ainât gone lie, I love your content, but this was weeeeaaaaaakkkk. Feels like you had nothing to say but needed to upload.
Just as always.
Yes, remember women donât know what they want so the only way for them to understand what they want is to see the other women want it paradoxically
What about atraction vs long time relationship? Wouldnât those theories help in LTR?
I've definitely met more anxious women and more avoidant women.
My dream girl was leaving me on seen / responding hours-days later for weeks til I posted myself w a cuter girl.. next morning sheâs mad while saying sheâs happy for me & she doesnât care.. so I said âLET ME SEE YOU ONE LAST TIME..â she said I was âa fool for wanting to see me while you have a whole ass gfâŠ
Anyways Iâll lyk when time Iâll be done do you can pick me upâ
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Got to suck on her huge milkers & now sheâs taking me out for dinner tmr.. ima make her pockets hurt & take her back to my place then start dating the hotter girl after so she can learn a valuable lessonâ
I use the love launguage with my sons and it works, they like different things, idk with woman.
Even not in dating
Attachment Theory is the Astrology of Psychology.
attachment theory does not take anything away to what he said and makes sense when understood as a whole.
It is definitely misused in a pop psych bs way.
LoL. It literally defines your for life. Would be much better for people to get scholarly and academic literature and actually learn stuff than listen to online gurus and cult leaders.
True words of a moron!
@@vanessac1965Sure, right? Why donât you study the subject matter first before commenting?
Casey creative critiques: fix the lighting, ditch the cap and the dry erase board. Your content alone is good enough without that lame board. Also the vids where youre holding the mic and looking not into the camera, like youre on a podcast with others is stupid. Its just you and the camera - so embrace your audience. Again, you have great content and these are just suggestions for more views/likes.
9:36 actually real, they really tranied me for 20 years to be a beta, n now i have to get all that shid out my body
same, but we're awake now
I completely agree with this video and havent even watched it. Growing up ive women chase men of all looks classes. Ive even seen very good lookingwomen emetionally bend over backwards emotionally very unavailible men that absolutely would not compromise. Most of these guys were the laborers and working class guys i was taught were "assholes". Looks have always mattered but regular guys got women because they used to be MEN.
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Fucking A this man nails it every time đŻ
Personally, thank you for helping me get my balls back
When you see the purple pinkish background you know Uncle C gonna drop them Truthbombs !
That shit never made sense to me lol
Becoming a Headman will get you head, man
I donât know bro; some chicks stay with dudes even though thereâs higher status men around and available
Thank you very much for sharing this.I agree with you but don't you think this will always attract a woman who only cares about substance not ethical aspects wich should not be appropriate woman?.
With this view point are you suggesting to never show attraction to her and never tell her you like her or want her?
Never sacrifice or leave sleep,food, enjoyment and career anything for a women the moment you do you are just showing her how important she is for you and she is your priority
This make her feel she has power and she feels higher
This is biggest mistake a man can make
It is bullshit. Why? 1. How woman know that other woman are interested in particular guy? 2. Its create just domino effect. You do not have woman so you do not get any. You got a few womans and next you have tones of them? 3. Players always wins, beceause they can won some womens short term and it create that domino effect
Say you are hanging out with a group of people and there are few guy and girls in the group. As soon as one girl shows interest in you (by body language/flirting) the other girls would start showing interest. That's what pre-selection means
hire a girl that play s3xual interest in a guy, and suddenly other girls will want that guy too? Right? Its so stupid... đ
@@hkcheung1217
So the best strategy is to just hire a girl that play s3xual interest in a guy, and suddenly other girls will want that guy too? Right? Its so stupid... đ
@@hkcheung1217 Now we need to get this on a video
@@hkcheung1217body language is a bad indicator of interest. You guys are gonna be in for a rough time if this is the only way you know how to evaluate people
From the first second a woman is looking in your eyes, she knows exactly she wants you or not.
Attachment theory applies to dealing with your parents and love languages is an assumption rather than something that's been appropriately researched and experimented with. Casey is right on point.
There's scientific evidence that people with PTSD express lesser levels of oxytocin on average than normal people.
Uncle c
For the most part women have always been the hunters and pursuers of men..... Hypergamy is a very base and primal emotional instinct in women that is somewhat outdated in modern civilization...... In modern times it can quite often cause women to make irrational and ill-advised choices and decisions in terms of choosing a mate......... This is why in some cultures arranged marriages were implemented by paternal figures to counteract hypergamy particularly in highly religious societies.
The business aspect is important tho.
At one point in the late 1800s, 80 percent of Americans were self employed. The education system has created a nation of worker bees, dependent on a paycheck.
Self reliance and financial independence matter to self esteem, especially in men.
We are losing our freedom.
Some things are way more important than dating.
NEVER love her more than yourself!
the movement, Is it going to be like a destructive sect or cult?
ALL WOMEN COMPETE!!!đŻđŻ
Bonds > attachments
Thanks Casey but I ain't buying no damn course.
So they are children and need cameras and everything monitoring them in case they decide to throw a tantrum
So it`s a movement, but we must access it with payed subscription?
It's a cult, same as every "guru teacher".
Which makes you realize that heâs sort of tricking you
@@marcusmcgraw3519 if there are pigs, there are butchers - we say in my country. Even if I wanted to pay for that movement, I can`t. I pay only in cash.
9:00 my smv is 0
I was wondering about this love language garbage. Iâm married and one of my step daughters friends claims to be a love langauge expert but she is always single đ€Šđ»ââïžđ. I donât think this is a coincidence