WOMEN will use your impatience against you when dating - My UNTOLD STORY (I was so BROKEN as a man)
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Question: my gf always tends to accuse me of flirting with girls at my job which I’m not and it’s kinda annoying. Why is she doing this? Just curious
@@courtlandwilliams9044 Jealous types can get dangerous
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bro one day you'll find the right one that makes you throw most of your rules out.
@@courtlandwilliams9044because of insecurity. Do things to show you care. I dated one who continually accused me of cheating and there was no fixing that relationship because i put my foot down and said no more, and she didnt stop, she just got crazier.
DON'T EVER drop your guard. NO matter how sweet, feminine, or innocent they seem. NEVER get attached. ALWAYS prioritize YOUR self respect and your sanity, over any relationship. This will keep you from mental anguish. I feel sorry for men who HAVEN'T felt heart break yet, because you CAN'T tell them nothing. They just dont get it, UNTIL they GET it.
How can you have family and kids with her loving you? It seems like all Casey talks about is dating, which is degenerate itself. Most men want family and kids and 1 loyal woman. How can one apply this knowledge into a marriage is the question. You cant really play these games for 10 20 years, this is channel is for teens who do dating.
@sentient6944 MOST men CANNOT get a relationship because they SHOW too much interest, well, because they're THIRSTY for female affection. It's like being in a desert with no water, and then when you finally find a lake, you can't take a drink because you're penalized for being too thirsty. Unfortunately, this NATURAL thirst REPELS women. So, they've got to get the first date, to get the second date, and eventually a relationship. It is what it is.
@@sentient6944don't brainwash others in your ideology
@@sentient6944 "Most men want family and kids and 1 loyal woman." LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL. Dude, that shit is a scam, a fabrication imposed by religious, social and political orders. The human species IS NOT MONOGAMOUS. Science itself states that. To believe in "Marriage" is to believe in a fairy tale. Wake the f*ck up! Only weak men want marriage, because they project a mother-figure in their wives. It's what happens in ALL Long term couples that I know! ALL OF THEM. And the mothers develop a bizarre incest-like relationship with their sons. Even when their sons become adults.
@@johnlove2954 These dudes have a childish mentality, they have mother-issues and want desperately a wife that will become their adoptive mother. It is that simple. "A loyal woman." he says. LOOOOL. Bring in Santa Claus as well, why not?
This is why it's so important for a man to have options, just like women do. A man with plenty of options has all the patience in the world.
This is actually true of all men who value themselves. They just have to have the balls to walk.
@@jeansollot6419 What does that have to do with anything he said? You're not making sense
@@jeansollot6419 I don’t think you’re as deep and intellectual as you think.
Absolutely
@@jeansollot6419
How exactly is casey a grifter?
Here's the way I put it 25 years ago. Women would rather have part of a winner than all of a loser.
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Hell I'm 33 and single and just trying to get my little brother and mom on the right track after my Dad passed and avoid women but they are all coming at me wherever I go. It's creepy. Even found out where I live and drive by slowly whenever I'm outside doing yardwork or mowing the grass. Women never acted this desperate when I was 15 to 25 when I was actually fully interested in dating
Well said
"The Second she knows you want to see her, the Second she doesn't want you"
- Uncle C
Like ,what the hell man ? What the hell should we do then? I am so sick of this.
It is the mentality, basically don't show desperation,interact more with woman to not put them on a pedestal,hard to do but this is how it is
@@Hunkzillalive alone with a high end sex doll
@@Hunkzilladon't get attached just be flexible, be respectful but don't gaf if she plays games or wants to walk you continue living life not dependent on a woman
The second she plays stupid games, the second I don't want her. This is a dilemma, since I've moved on from women who would try to contact me after a month or two, but I simply lost interest because I found someone new, or I find it just too tedious. It's almost like, they don't think about the consequences.
Anytime I feel myself feeling weird about a girl not messaging me back, I use that as a signal to go work on something that somehow enhances me. Could be exercise, could be clean the house, could be some online instructional thing.
If you’re feeling insecure, secure yourself by yourself. Don’t rely on someone else to satisfy your insecurity.
Another trick I use to use when I was 21 and wait two weeks and if they didn't message me back I would send a text that would be confusing and it would make them ask what I meant because women like to know everything that confused them and just ignore them and it drive them crazy. Some of them messaged me for a straight year and I never replied back lol
@@OverRule1lmao
This. Well said 💯
This is gold
You learn once you get burned.
"Lessons not learned in blood are soon forgotten"
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After the lesson you realize how its much easier to hold the fire without getting burned.
I've burned my tongue with hot coffee before, since then I add ice cream to avoid burning my tongue again, and tastes better too.
Once?! Shit. I’m a slow learner
"When we hit our lowest point, we are open to greatest change." - Avatar Aang
Crazy that's so wise especially for a kids show
@@sonicmaths8285 it was never a show for kids
@@edqu5103 hm, season 1 definitely was
You need to lose your old self to be born again
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The Bible
Sounds like a certain European country in the early 1930s.
Women are there to pick the best guy for them and they don't mind wasting your time in doing so.
Wait till they're 40 and tik tok desperate. Set up dates and cancel for no reason. 😆👍
Thinking the rules don’t apply to you…
At any point…
That’s your downfall…
I fucked up by thinking a "good Christian" girl was different.
Nope.
@@baronvoncrags771They're actually the worst sometimes
They apply to every man.
Including Elvis and Tom Brady.
❤ Exactly. I fail prey to that -- forgot everything I knew. ❤
This is a fancy way of saying, ignoring reality for fantasy is dangerous
Thanks for sharing, I am from Brazil, all rules apply here:
- you show interest: they are gone
- talk to them like friends: they get on fire
- dont go for dates, let them chase
- they will eventually fall in love, let them fall in love, but if you like them, avoid liking them, focus on you life always
So if she falls in love with you, How can you be with her without ruining the hypergamy?
@@Markmsvjust use her
Even if this is true for you, dating in Brazil is 100 times better than the USA, and I speak from direct experience.
@@djeanpierre I have tried a lot more on this strategy and refined to a better experience:
- when in group talk like friends, when in private, speak in little flirts
- when near each other, stay close, get your arms around her, take her to nice places
- be clear on your intentions, places that you want to take her, say nice things of your moments together, future plans, future dates
- learn about body language, manipulation, selling, appearence improvement, new clothes, new books, new hobbies, get full of yourself, love yourself more, and that will be abundance and will attract them naturally
Who else needed this RIGHT NOW🙁
Me bro . Perfect timing by Casey as well.
me also
Outstanding timing and all
Been there man. It took me almost a year and a half to stop thinking about her daily. It was pure torture. I still think about her from time to time 9 years later and after a bunch of relationships with other girls. Love is some crazy shit
That’s fascinating. I think women usually switch to being very angry at their exes compared to men. Men think more fondly of their past relationships. Women tend to have the mentality that something was taken from them in those failed relationships so they have so much resentment.
@@halwo9363that’s so true, I was with my ex for 10 years through her 20s and I think she resented me for “wasting” her prime
Thsts autistic tard behavior. It obv fake love. Stop being dumb
@@halwo9363Women get mad because the men are acting like women, so the woman can't truly be a woman.
How absolutely SICK … yet true.
Waiting weeks… months… Then wanting you back ?!?!
By then - FORGET ABOUT HER.
They say they want love - but have NO IDEA WHAT IT ACTUALLY IS!!!
NEVER get too comfortable with dealing with women! I don't care if you've met her family and she bought you a house,BE PREPARED FOR HER TO GO AWAY AT ANYTIME!! OPTIONS 💯
I wish I could find a girl that would buy me a house, is that what women do in America?
So well said!
The so called players/alphas today were once good beta males before
I told this to a friend of mine and he didn't believe it.I would also add that probably was a beta who suffered a lot to the point of promissing never fall in love, and never respect a woman again until his death.
Yep that's why I never playa hate
forged by heart break
Even if a guy is only dating one woman at a time as long as she views the guy as not being thirsty for her she will think he is a player.
Just once lol
Every man go through this once in a lifetime.
Casey is right when he says that's what makes you a MAN.
Things cash before going up.
Stoicism, detachment, self respect. Things are not given. It's earn by an experience.
A sad experience.
Nothing will red pill a man like heartbreak or a big disappointment. Casey's work is valuable because he turned the pain he overcame into the drive to help other men to avoid making the same mistakes as much as possible. i think it's a noble endeavour and i wish him great success.
"What is to give light must endure burning." ~ Victor E. Frankl
Yes
Red Pill is for weaks.
My mum had the right answer all along. I thought it was different nowadays but it's not. You need to make her chase YOU no matter how you perceive her. I've finally learned at thirty-one that indifference is key. Every time I attract a woman it's because I'm not actually into her, and then the ones I actually want I can't close on or fuck it up along the way because I get too comfortable and say something stupid that she interprets as weakness. I've been stressing over a girl I met in Australia over a year ago and what I said after the first time we made-out in a tent was "I really like you" OOOF things completely took a turn from there... at first I was able to play it well and indifferent, then fumbled at the goal line.
OK but how am I supposed to even approach a girl to get her number without ever expressing my interest in her in the first place? Does that put me in a losing position from the very start?
Dude, I know you been through some shit because of what you know. I'm 34. I tell people about Casey Zander, and I say he has the wisdom of a 50yo man. I'm a bouncer at the most popular bar(arcade) in the region of NC. I've been married, I've had girlfriends that broke my heart, and I've lived a full life. BUT I still listen to you every day because of how you convey the wisdom that I feel in my own heart.
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When you understand sexual dynamics you finally realize how fucking stupid it is that we basically can't be emotional around them and we can't ever show how much we want them in our life or that we need them. We're just supposed to be this impenetrable rock for them while the waves of existence keep crashing upon us and we're never allowed to be beaten by life or be beaten by the inherent shit tests they are constantly going to do with you in a relationship because they need constant reassurance that you're a survival option at all times for them. The only option is to learn how to act the entire way through life when it comes to women and it's completely fucked and it proves women cannot love you just for you only under the condition that you're providing her with whatever she values.
That's kinda cool in a way though, cause u can keep inside of you all of it as a personal secret and let it inspire you for good stuff to come, even if there's no reciprocity in kind, you still were motivated by noble energies rather than lowly ones and since women are highly emotional, they can sense you having this subtle liking for them, so bottling it in you and not being overly expressive or overly exicted about all of it, kinda makes you admirable not just as a man but person too. Cause after all it's the self-restraint that makes someone admirable, not impulsivity.
@thedisgruntledgrunt2239 if you have your shit together to the point a woman knows she’s safe with you both physically and emotionally, if she’s confident that being with you y’all won’t fall into financial trouble, if she can see that with you she and any kids that may come into the picture will safely survive and also thrive and on top of that if she sees that you like the idea of a family, are not afraid of it, that you have the inward desire and mental/emotional capacity to maintain a family, if she sees that the idea of a family and family life brings you joy, happiness and excitement, if she can see that the work ethic you hold to signals that you’d have the same devotion to a family- you won’t have any problems and women will find their way to you. On the other hand if you fall short in or are lacking any of those key attributes she seeks (and you already inwardly know if you do or not) then that shortcoming or lack leaves you in the position of not being ready to have a family or to have a good woman (in most of their eyes), you will not qualify, you won’t meet their selection criteria, once said shortcomings or lacks are revealed to her you stand to be rejected as mate material and so the only thing you’ll be left with is the prospect of lying to someone to cover up those deficiencies to obtain hookups with women that you can fool or who don’t really care- both poor choices. All your attempts with good women will be short term as it won’t take long for them to figure out that you’re not what you represented. In truth if one falls short and can’t provide those things one really doesn’t qualify as deserving of a high value woman and ethically has no business going after them since like a bird she is looking to establish a nest with a capable partner under whose care she absolutely knows that her kids will survive and be ok for life and also secondarily herself but although relationships and sex revolve around her mating and nesting instincts consideration of her potential kids’ future will come first. That’s what a keeper is looking for not a F buddy or a best pal. A guy who doesn’t measure up and can’t provide that for a woman all of his options are limited to less-than-favorable hookups based on how good the illusions are that he can float. But those will all end at some point. Best would be to leave good women alone if one has any ethics and knows he is not and can’t provide what she seeks. That’s why so much of the advice in these kinds of videos recommends that a guy devote himself to working on himself and to getting his shit together because if you can achieve that you can become what the high-value woman is seeking and trust me they will find you, you will stand out everywhere you go without even needing to try
@@LeashMechanic It depends on the woman though because every single woman has a lot in common with every other woman even though they all walk around thinking they're special and unique. The problem with western women and I'm being very specific with that title because it encompasses women of more than one continent is that in general the marital vows mean nothing to them as evidenced by who initiates divorce more often which is in fact women. They always reserve the right to change their minds. A man can have and do every single thing you have stated but he can still lose the woman he loves especially when economic factors are in play where he has no real control over. Look at individuals such as Tom Brady or even an Elon Musk. The problem is that you can become the absolute best version of yourself in this life and you can climb the economic ladder but if the woman you are with has no morals and has no self esteem then your chances of keeping her are dramatically decreased because the attention economy that have women today has caused them to have an inflated sense of importance because the simp economy feeds into their egos via social media and other apps. In today's dating market there is absolutely zero guarantee that whatever woman you pick to settle down with will go all the way with you because the numbers are in and women simply do not even like men. To them relationships and or marriage is a retirement plan it's all business. A woman will never love you just for you she'll only slightly give a shit about you under the condition you provide something to her existence. Women don't marry a man they marry a lifestyle. There's no sense in hating them for it because they mostly operate on a subconscious level but it's best if all men start to realize that the game isn't about love it's about value exchange and if we're being honest women today believe they don't owe a man anything. They don't believe they have to bring anything to the table because they intrinsically believe through the simp economy and through the sisterhood which is their highest counsel is that they are the table. To them it doesn't matter if they had a hoe phase because they operate on the assumption that because men are able to sleep around then they can to which is not true because everyone innately knows that sluts are damages goods and not worthy of marriage. The problem is that the common man has nothing but sluts to choose from and while he can do all the right things you're saying but the unfortunate aspect of his endeavors is that she will always be comparing him to another who had her whether consciously or subconsciously and that hinders her ability to pair bond with a high achieving moral man who's serious about commitment and having a family. The problem with today is that there is no social fabric no moral teachings no religious infrastructure that keeps us all together. The dating market is a global game and if you're a "good man" well then you better understand that there's always someone else out there that might just top you by 1% and it's in women's nature to get with that extra percent. There are no more guarantees in the modern world.
Not when you are her best option. Move to a small town or away from lots of people where women don't use social media. The women actually behave as they should. It's only where women have phones and exposed to the options they have that they start chasing guys that are way too above them and constantly get used for a hook up left and right and eventually have to settle for a guy around her level and will make him suffer brutally because he will never be as good as the guys she was chasing
Goddamn do you know what a paragraph margin is?@@LeashMechanic
They are all the same, I thought you were wrong and I thought that soulmate twinflame bs was real but oh boy how I was wrong and oh boy I was damn wrong, She is literally doing everything you describe, the moment she realized I loved her more than she loved me she started being less sweet, texting longer, taking days and coming with excuses and the longer it goes the colder she becomes, Women are all the damn f*** same.
You fuked up... She always wants to feel like, YOU are the prize.. By showing her you love her more, she begins to feel like SHE is the prize and not you. Hypergamy in chicks is REAL... They only date up and want to have the best man... This is why you should not care about them much
Welcome brother. I suffer as well...
Facts. Only fools will believe a woman is “different”. I was one of them.
It’s the woman’s job to be emotional and nurturing; it’s your job to be the strong warrior, protector, leader. That’s what they’re hardwired to respond to. All that soulmate / twin flame nonsense is new age speak.
How can you be the prize in her eyes, when you let her feel that you love her more? She becomes the prize not you. Your not supposed to fall in love like a chick, your a man. Control your emotions and lead.. Be the man and let her chase your love and approval.
5 years on and i feel like this about my kid's mom, sometimes. Having a kid together will prolongue the heartbreak because you can't just say goodbye. There's no No Contact possible.
Going through it right now
@@joelseverino3199 baby's mom shit? Its the fucking worst.
We need a support group lol
minimal contact
Be the absolute best you can be. Don't worry about the no contact stuff, instead let her see you enjoying your life with healthy new beautiful girlfriends that appreciate you. And be a great father at the same time. It's like chick crack, and it's the right thing to do besides
word brother, after u make a family with her and she dips, the pain is exponentially worse than the basic love breakup, plus if she's vicious then you get railed by the court system too and lose your money, your home and your kids too which is a whole other universe of heartbreak to kill you inside. stay strong gentlemen.
Bro, just wanna say: Your channel has helped, motivated, gave me more hope than any other self improvement, motivation, red pill channels.
Thank you for improving my life and many others like myself.
Hell yeah.
True
This is such excellent advice. I’m 45 years old and I’ve been through all the heartbreak in the world. Be patient, stand your ground as a man and never be afraid to let her know you can leave at any moment. This is all you really need and she’ll never leave. It’s about hypergamy, not money or status. Casey is spot on here!
I’m literally going through this exact type of heart break as we speak. I broke up with my girl because of how toxic our relationship was becoming. She called me yesterday after 3 months wanting to see me and I stayed stoic and say no that we are officially done. Yet how strong I have made myself I’m still hurting every single day. Using this pain to better myself but some days is just truly devastating.
damn. proud of you bro, i know how hard that must be to say no.
@@jeffreyscottking thank you, it’s a decision I’m sticking through with all while feeling hurt by my choice. The more I speak with god and dive into my masculinity the more I know I am doing the right choice.
You did exactly the right thing, don't give in - proud of you bro
@@Incandescence555 thank you guys 🙏🏽
If it was bad enough for you to break up with her first, it was bad.
Stay strong. 💪🏾
I can honestly say that my dating life has gotten better ever since i started following casey
I didnt even get hoes now i do💀if i did i couldn't keep them now they want me
Casey you are the guy who tells it straight. I've only been with this girl for just over 4 months and when I don't see her for more than a week I lose sleep over her wondering if she will ever want to see me again. All I can think of at night is her face her eyes, her body in entirety and her crazy infectious smile and memories of the wild sex we'vehad together. I start losing sleep wanting to see her again impatiently. I sure needed to hear something like this in my life right now.
I know the feeling. Listen to uncle C. He knows what his saying. Be patient and remain stoic. You'll be fine brother.
😭😭 Bro same and i’ve only slept w her once and it’s only been like a month. this vid was so needed
dump her even if u have no other option. it will make u a man
I forgot to mention that laugh of hers is burnt into my hearing senses as well, she laughs at everything I say, even if I just start laughing for no reason she just laughs along for no reason. Hard to sleep without her when she is away.
@@OGTrollTroll8 thank you brother
Only guy telling the truth. Tend to your garden. Make your garden excellent.
1:20 all of that is exactly why she left. Women only leave a men when they KNOW that leaving him WILL HURT/BREAK him. Sounds cruel, true. But if you understand female nature you will understand why and act accordingly.
Yep, that’s why begging a chick to stay and “give you another chance” doesn’t work most of the time.
If a chick threatens to leave yet you just shrug your shoulders and say “c’est la vie” whilst carrying on about your day as if you are nonplussed, a lot of them will stop in their tracks and wonder why you won’t chase after them.
A lot of them will also start to doubt their own resolve in leaving you. They will start to make up scenarios in their heads as to why you seemingly do not care that they are about to leave, like maybe you never loved them at all, or maybe you were cheating the whole time and had other women lined up.
What many women will say then is things like “I just wanted to see if you actually cared”, and then elect to stay instead even though you didn’t ask them to.
However if you cry and beg them to stay, a lot of them will use it as extra motivation to break up with you in the cruelest way possible. It’s like a confirmation that you are weak and “nothing without them”, which turns women off even more.
Things like this made me realize that one of few things women truly care about in a man is real strength, the strength to not care what they think, nor have your opinions or actions swayed by their chaotic up and down nature!
@@jermaineayivoh8263they just want constant attention, validation, and a walking 🏧
Heartbreak will open your eyes about your whole life and from that point you only want to get better but it’s hard because you act and behave normal on the outside but on the inside you still broken
I already got burned before a little after high school, I thought I had all the answers since. Now at 24 I got burned yet again. I can’t eat, barely sleeping, constant anxiety because I know she’s talking to someone else. I know this will pass, but going through it rn just sucks.
Hang in there brother. Things will get better and time will reveal the truth.
sorry for what you go through, but you know Casey Zander now!!! I went the same through with 42 … so you literally safe 20 years if you do what Zander says he knows the stuff I should have known with 24 …. or even 16 !!!! Time will heal … go to gym , find a mission, do what you like … go to a tango or dance 💃🏼 club learn new skills…and never get attached to much…. get options
You’ll get thru it bro, just takes time. Been there myself. You have to just forget about her and keep yourself busy and talk to another woman, it’s only way to get over that down feeling
Hang in there. 24 is nothing, work on yourself and get more serious about dating at maybe 27+, get the mind, body, finances in order, and date younger women who will look up to you and respect you. Only then will you find a healthy relationship.
Brother just remeber you made a mistake by falling in love, caring too much, just know the next guy she is with if he does the same mistakes and he probably will is cooked aswell and the cycle continues
Yes sir your spot on. Women want what they can't have.
Exactly the law of supply and demand(scarcity of resources)
Thank you being transparent Casey. I had a dream about my ex wife running to my arms like old times and I woke up alone and cried. That heartbreak made me a wise man focused on elevating mentally physically and financially
Just recently broke up with my girlfriend, and this comment hit me hard ❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
If you want to really wake up, imagine her running to another man's arms..
That's the cold hard truth of what she's doing.
@@carteblack6537 I didn't have to dream that. I lived it. 10 years together meant nothing at the end. I got in gym and in school and became a man a woman would be foolish to leave. Thanks to Casey videos I stay sharp with hypergamy
That is why detachment is key. The foundation for a mans life.
65 years old and after more than 10 times of a long relationship of more than half a year I can say that every word said here is true to the core. I say this with great pain. It's a shame I didn't understand these things many years ago
Thanks for your honesty and humility - i'm 32 and I just had my heart burnt to bits through a relationship I had complete control over, until I started being too nice, needy, fucked everything up. Burns like crazy - 3 weeks out, i'm turning into a new man. Heartbreak makes a man, and it destroys, terminates boys.
Being a patient man in a relationship is attractive to any woman.
This is why im glad these videos exist. So I can remember to leave women alone until I'm far more successful in life and more dominant in every other way then women will naturally come to me without even trying. I have all the patience in the world knowing they will ALWAYS be here so i dont give a damn about em, do whatever you want, i got nothing but time to build anyways.
Even if you are a 6'6, millionaire, jacked gigachad you have to make the first move and put in more initial effort.
@@kareemcallender3799very true
This is pure cope. Women would rather die single than make the first move. Doesn’t matter how successful or dominant you think you are
Bro. make the first (initial) moves, if she doesn't reciprocate then ignore and leave her..
you have to work in everything at the same time (Looks, Money, status, social circle and game)
This pain i wish on all men for it made me immune! bro i became so skinny i was not eating i had anxiety i could not get off my bed the only time i got a bit of a relief was when i was binge watching tv shows! did not go to work for like 2 months i even started losing hair! but i fukin recovered and with the help of Uncle C i have literally 3 girls at work competing each other for me on God!
He ain’t lying I remember I went through the same, and I def lost weight as well it was crazy. I’ll never put myself through that again
@@jeansollot6419 pretty much
I got my heartbroken for the very first time at age 47. And it SUCKS! Now I know how all the women felt after I dumped them. Like Casey said. I could barely eat or sleep for months. It messed me up so bad like my life was completely derailed. I could barely even function. It’s the worst!
I can relate.
All comes down to having true options and abundance.
Disclosure of all these experiences is going to be very helpful because I’m sure a lot of people agreed with your material but assumed you were a top G from birth and never went through the heartbreak lol.
I hear you man. Limerence is a nightmare. I lost my job. Lost myself. Lost a lot of money. Craziest part - she’s still my business partner and I don’t want to see her ever again
I went from the heartbroken simp to immediately running 4 or more women and not giving a f**k if they come or go….. they all stay .. I worked this out from first principles … I have recently come across Casey and he articulates the nature of relationships perfectly… ,,, it’s not the romantic fantasy we may wish it to be… but once you know, you know..
I can't tell you how good it is to hear YOU describe exactly what I'm going through right now!!
I can't believe you actually know what it feels like. The almost unbearable pain of it all.
I can't explain it to anyone!
And we were basically attached at the hip for over 15 years. Since my late 20's. It was the first relationship I ever really committed to, and gave my all to. And to then, just end up like this.... It's such a deep, deep blow to my psyche. Driving me insane.
Tough. No mater what they will find a way to leave. Never ever take em seriously and limit exposure and investment. That will help with breakups
That happened to me. Don’t think your going to Ukraine and finding that one sweet heart, those sweet hearts will suck your blood and the mom will have a straw in drinking you too
LOL.
Her mom gave me suky suky too and better
Only weak tards will go overseas. Stop being funk tards.
lmao
So hard to find dudes not in secret competition due to their low T coomer lifestyle. Good stuff brotha for this knowledge 🤙
Thank you. This is how we men need to run this. Tend your own garden guys
Just remember; it’s just a feeling or emotion. Just simply turn it around in your head and CHOOSE to be happy
As if it's a choice 😅
Major bummer man, about your girl leaving you. I knew a person who's fiancee did the same thing. They were engaged for 3 year's and one day his future wife just left him. I don't know, sometime's life is just tough. I guess that all you can do is stay positive and keep moving forward.
@@jeansollot6419They were raised old school and on the go all the time busy with working to pay bill's and building career's. I guess they figured they'd just wait for the right time. It's too bad with what happened.
Casey you’re the man and you’ve been the man, not just for helping us, but because you publicly put all this stuff out there, and anybody from your own past can see it. You’re a beast
I've been there before... I agree, you've not grown up until you've experienced this.
I love when coachs share these personal stories. Very grateful and relatable, keep up the great work 💪
I'm glad you dropped this video to show you aren't just an a-hole, that you've been where lots of guys have been and have instead learned a better way. Makes you much more relatable.
This is, in many ways, one of your best uploads ever. Humble/ honest/ open/ informed/ genuine. Keep this up
Thank you @caseyzander for the honest and real video. And for helping so many men make sense of women and the world around us. Your mission is a noble one, and is highly valued.
Best theological interpretation of the Adam and Eve story ever! 😂
Yep the Plantation, the Garden, the snake(with the forbidden fruit) and the Establishment
The same can be said for the story of Samson and Delilah.
youre pretty smart brother. most guys wouldnt connect the dots and reorganize their understanding of reality like you have done. thanks for sharing your hard work with us casey.
2008 I felt exactly like you. It’s 2024 and I still use that experience as the fuel to excel in every element of my life. Thank you Katie!
Thanks for sharing we have all been there. I appreciate you being genuine. I have learned to NEVER NEVER get emotionally attached
This is such good advice. Well worded. The whole concept about impatience is so true. I’ve seen it play out over and over again but never nicely put the pieces together.
you win when u stop caring....
I ACTUALLY needed this rn
I’ll say this once and I’ll say it again.
It’s very nice to hear you with vulnerability. It was very hard to connect with someone (whilst doing coaching with you) when there’s no compassion. However, in this message, I can tell that you genuinely want to help other men avoid the mistakes you’ve made, and the message has a tone of compassion.
I like this side of you Casey, I’m coming back more and more because of it.
Whether you read this or not, it doesn’t matter. I’ll leave this here anyway.
Be kinder to yourself bro. I’ve learnt that authenticity attracts. This video is filled with it.
All the best bro
you re already a relationship SCIENTIST Mr Casey! Congrats
You're right brother!
I am a 54 years old man. I have been dating a hot 38 year old chick for the last 6+ months.
I don't put up with her BS games & she knows it. She gets pissed off but keeps coming back!
Stand your ground, stand up for what you believe in. If they want to stray away from what "you believe is Fair honest & right". Call them out on it. Let them know you will not put up with that kind of BS in your life!
If they don't like it, move on!👉
They will keep coming back.
I'm 39 dating 42 year old yuppppp
This guy explain everything like a scientist.. i watch all of his videos. I make research I test the game on a deepest level. Nothing is personal. Mother Nature is made to punish you every time you failed on your duty.
Started watching this guy back in 2020 when I was 16-17.Fellas the things I knew at that age because of this guy was dangerous.Listen to him everything i experienced back in high school was spot on.
I really appreciate what you say about brotherhood, all my life friends, family, etc. were competing and trying to put down the other, i thought why don’t we push all together and bring up the ones we have beside instead. Literally nobody says that Casey, keep it up man!
So your videos all depend on where a person is in their journey and which experiences a person has had. For advanced men like myself who have been through THE heartbreak, been confused for years, repeatedly chase, bend over backwards, get hurt and nervous and hurt again (all same woman) then just get tired and understand why the blue pill just isn't it. I learned so much from Coach Corey, AMS, and now you with the finishers and precise logical explanations with curriculum on female nature... its just amazing because im the guy that MUST understand why. Like I gotta get WHY shit is happening. For a guy like me, this may be the best video on your channel. With so much in field experience and watchibg how my BM behaves with certain actions on my part, i am a believer and been one! Thanks Casey! #NumberOneWay
This is truly from the heart, we thank you brother 🙏
It takes balls to open up and tell these personal stories. Thanks for sharing.
"Made are made through heartbreak" - 100% true for me. I feel your pain man. Hurts me to watch this.
The first cuts are always the deepest.
Listeing to all these vids , being a single guy and loving yourself just seems like the best option imo..yeah its good to have love but the juice probably not worth the effort to squeeze...
Thanks Casey Zander, this has given more clarity.
Great vid and I appreciate your honesty. I went through a similar spell at 19, she was 17. I was messed up for like a year as well. You're so right though, until you been through that you don't know how to even put it into words, but I think you did a great job explaining this feeling here. Much better than I could. Valuable lesson and story, thanks for sharing.
crazy how Casey explained his heartbreak. it is 100% the same as my experience. realest guy on dating.
Dude this is solid gold advise. I've experienced it myself. Obviously I failed a lot. I can say with confidence my experience is very similar! Thanks for your videos! Appreciate you man!
100%...the hollywood tale of falling in love, being vulnerable and living happily ever after is pure fantasy.
Hollywood and mom, lied
I don’t know if you realize it but you really are doing the lords work. Talking about how you dropped your guard for “the one” and recognizing that the rules must still apply… wow. Spot on
Great Video, Insight and Wisdom!
Thanks brother!
Yet again, a Golden Lesson!
They all ALWAYS want what they can't have.
Respect the honesty. Adversity builds character
Hey Cascy, this is one of the best videos you've ever posted. Thank you.
Casey! I read my Bible differently now, because of you!
Thank you my brother! Now that I've listened to dozens of your videos, so many things became clear! Thank you for offering yourself to us 🫂
This helped me immensely man, I was feeling the same before this video, now I follow you all the way
I know exactly what you're talking about brother. Been there. Really appreciated these videos that you're making.
He is like saying my story exactly for 90% ,all true idk how he knows all this things but he is on point 100%
I can relate with those feelings after breakup. Thanks for being real Casey.
Thank you, Casey, this contents of yours help a lot. You sharing your past experience shows that I am normal. I was thinking about her before but now I am prioritizing myself and chase what a really want.
This one is a banger. All drop gems but this one a whole gold mine!
Facts 💯 i felt every word & appreciate the vulnerability
That's why they call it "Falling" in love.
Amen, thanks for this one. Men suffer.
But, we make it through stronger.
this man speaks TRUTH !!
Man I felt this video. Heartbreak and anger have been my biggest drivers. I’ve gotten further than I thought I would though.
It's called "brotherhood" for a reason.
Best model iv adapted, treat women like drugs, careful not to get addicted, careful not to indulge to much, enjoy in moderation, if you find your craving time to step back.
I’m literally going through the same situation right now, and i think I’m moving from this past relationship and will hopefully be able become the greatest comeback