Narcissists Constantly LIE
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The lies and the gaslighting was my life for 40 years married and now I’m pretty sure the 3 years we dated was the same.
Even with evidence in front of them, they lie.
Oh, the lies of omission! The gift that keeps on giving! The omissions ARE the gaps!
Pathological liars. Then they try to blame you when caught.
That has happened to me already. I even sent him a screenshot and he said I didn't send that. I said well, it must of been your twin! I'm on no contact.
OMG point on.. Thanks Ben - my head is spinning. my husband to the point. he would eat all the ice cream and deny it to my son's face as we watched him eat it... lie lie lie. about everything
This happened to me at work. A very abusive coworker would yell and rant and then say, "I never said that." "I never did that." Since I left a new person in the same position, he quit to "pursue his own business" within 5 months." A male immigrant who waited for such a well-paid job for a long time. Now a third person is quitting within 8 months. Nothing is worth that. Now that narc is there for all to see. Bcs I took action to reveal who he is. Nothing is ever that person's fault. He is so prefect! LOL!
Mine would say, "I never said that." We met as coworkers but maybe he is living under his own revision of history in the present. I honestly don't know if they don't remember saying something from years ago or if it was just deliberate lying tbh. Mine thinks he is a living paragon of knowledge or something lol.
@@dianaalyssa8726 I think they know they are lying. 100%. This man was constantly seething, as in angry all the time. It came to the point that I knew he was smearing me to all he could in the workplace. I have moved, but sadly trauma is still with me. I could not imagine someone ranting and being that abusive in the workplace.
I hope you moved on too.
That's what I don't understand is why doesn't upper management ever see that the narcissist is a toxic worker? They could burn the place to the ground and never get fired.
Always document. Print out emails. Get another person to validate your experience
My previous boss did also. I recorded all the interactions once I felt threatened, found a lawyer and sued him. He made sexual advances as well.
My lawyer said I collected better evidence than cops he's worked with in 17 years 💀
I have a love for justice and can't stand liars
This!! I noticed one weekend that things just didn’t seem “right.” As he was leaving to drive home (he lives 2 hours away), I gave him a note (usually did saying “I love you!” ❤️) saying I felt there was a chasm growing between us. Did I do something to hurt him? That evening when we talked on the phone, he didn’t say anything about the note. I finally asked, “Can we talk about what I wrote about the chasm I’m feeling?” His response - I can’t help how you’re feeling. Over the next two weeks, I discovered the “relationship” he was having with an “old HS friend” over social media. That explained the “chasm” - I was correct. I ended the 4 year (off and on) relationship/engagement. I caught him in this lie - I don’t know how many others there were, but this was enough for me.
I can Sense This Things too… you feel it when there is a Change i felt it… too!
This is my existence, I have had to record conversations because he lies so effortlessly and then when I confront him he lies and messages me the next morning that I abuse him.
Leave quickly, they’re using you. Nothing good can come out of this, trust your gut and trust God
Please I wish people would realize there are a ton of Narc women. My ex being one. Severe NPD.
Of course and they have the anatomy to be very dangerous
Last year when my family meet a narcissist ( a man with a position of authority) both my husband and myself felt that something was a miss. His behaviour was odd and we couldn't pin down what was wrong. We became this man narcissistic supply . After researching and asking questions we realized that he was a narcissist that didn't care who we were and what we were feeling. The lies continued and the narc became hostile towards our family. He was texting with us and actually threatened my family when we asked direct questions he didn't want to answer to cover his dirty deeds. To date his lies continue. We are now going to Civil court as he has stolen our personal possessions and won't admit to his lie. The narc employer is preparing to answer for the bad choices in court because the Narcissist had run for cover. Thank you Ben for addressing this topic because it is so important to know what how these toxic people think.
Ben - you made so many crucial points. Your CZcams has changed my life. Definitely one of the best channels on here.
Exacly. I think hé is the best, on you tube to.
Everything you pointed out was right on point, and exactly what I went through. All the way down to "I need to get a journal to write things down about my past before i forget it all", because im sure hes been lying ALL of his life, not just with me. But when my response was reactive abuse, after catching my ex in lie after lie, cheating on me and catching him 4 days after he said he wanted to marry me, and him having so many female connections on social media that he always made an excuse for, I just couldn't take it any more. He said "your scaring me". I truly didn't care at that point because he had killed the love I once had, the love I thought HE had toward me. I wanted to make sure he never came back. He could try to ruin my reputation. Those who know me know better than any bad reputation he could spread.
Thank you, Ben. You have no idea how much you've helped. None of this completely dysfunctional relationship was my fault for failing. I'm not crazy after all.
My ex.n lied just about everything 🤮
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EXACTLY ❤ I just commented on your video “lies of omission” and then watched this one! You covered my comment in this video lol. I’m separated r now and never ever going back.
How do I break out of this fog, I feel trapped within my mind and barely have enough understanding to realize what happened to me. I feel like I got forced into something, everything that I ever learned about her was a lie. Why do people do this? It’s evil, it’s disgusting, it’s just so inhumane how somebody can make somebody into their puppet. I felt empathy for her and she took advantage of my kindness. She knew that I had a good heart and she saw me as vulnerable. Fed me with lies to keep me wrapped around her finger. I feel like a puppet and I just want her to leave my mind. I feel a tormentor in my mind. I’m spiraling.
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you HAVE to realize no matter how much evidence you gather and show they will forever deny it no matter what it is.. you will NEVER get an aha moment with them you are fighting a wall. start grey rocking and focusing on you pray it off you and leave… you can start over you don’t NEED them it’s like a child throwing a tantrum every time you give in they lose respect for you even more until you have nothing left you should leave now
Thank you Ben.
I think that when we seek help or second opinion re situation, what was said, screenshots etc I think, well for me, I was trying to validate my truth & did doubt my own self alot because of the lies. This is why & how we get so confused & mentally muddled because you start thinking you're going crazy but, you're not, you're just been lied to.
Sometimes he did lie to be more "super effective" to try to win in the moment. If he learned saying xyz was better than the truth, than that's what the story became. I would always ask which entity I was talking to so I knew which version of the story we had as the perceived reality. Honestly not sure if the other time if he doesn't remember saying anything mean if "I never said that" is true to his memory. I know he did say that but maybe years later he forgot. Been NC, no backyard hoover since 2020 from him. Last time I had to deal with him was 2019 though. I honestly feel like half of me hopes he stays with replacement supply if he is still with 100k as my mom was texted, she can have him. Got rid of a bunch of narcissists in my life, it's boring but less drama.
I had one tell me how mom was dead. She’s still alive. Just the worst kind of lie.
All love addicts are narcissist, but not all narcissist are love addicts.
What do you think about Johnny Depp? Serious question and I am interested in your answer.