DAD TRIES HOMESCHOOL FOR THE FIRST TIME *STRESSFUL
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- čas přidán 1. 03. 2020
- I took over for my wife and barely made it through the day. Stumbled through homeschool lessons and tried to remain positive. We have 4 children 7 year old, 5 year old, 2 year old and 8 months old. Overall I'm glad my wife left and gave me some time with the kids. She deserves a break!!
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Uriah: "...😢 he slappTed me..."
Beleaf: "...I mean, well then you gotta bob...and weave."
Yoooooo
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That had me cracking up!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
wasn't that the best!!! lol
Man I was so weak😂😂
Life lesson! lol 🤣🤣
I know!!! 😂🤣😂😂😂 I love that dad energy! As a mom, I would not have thought of that! 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
As you were changing Uzi's diaper, I was thinking about how when we're in the midst of God cleaning up our mess, sometimes we're fighting God, crying, kicking an screaming thinking it's never going to be over and how much peace we feel when we're on the other side of that mess. How we can relax in his presence when His work (in that area) is complete.
So true!
That.is.DEEP.
Ohhhhh ma’am! You said a whole sermon!! 💗💓
Beautiful and true
Thank you Jesus for never giving up on our mess ! 😩
Favorite parts...The Snack Time shot, the happy dance when you got Uzi down, the under the counter shots of Uzi in the rocker, the preview of Miss Anaya at the end, and the music as usual. I feel God's peace over the phrase "be alright".
Agreed!💯
I felt that part about fatherhood not getting any easier as time goes on. My son is 4 and I'm starting to see many more ways that I can make an impact. Second one incoming this July :)
Congratulations!
Alexis Thank you!
Congratulations man! 👏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽
Lovefro8 thanks a lot 😁✊🏿
Blessings
Your face walking out of the bedroom after putting Uzzi down is priceless!! Aniyah walking down behind you with allll of the bracelets, so black girl magic!! Uriah's face after he slapped Theo's hand in the hand game, so full of confidence--Uriah "be like", "dis is what I dew!" And Theo's sincere focus and then shock with a smile when he was doing his learning game on the tablet was an interesting catch on camera. He was in his zone, "caught", yet recovered quickly with a smile. What a legacy y'all are creating for your entire family to look back upon!
Candice T look at you narrating so eloquently!
I love his voice when he’s narrating.
Dad: "you gotta bob and weave" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that look as he said it.
You are a awesome father the kids are blessed to have you and your wife as parents. Yall Balance each other out as parents🙌. I'll answer your ? I think you should Adjust your parenting style per kid.
Thank you for answering!
I agree!
Your hair is AMAZING
I clicked on this because I thought it was gonna be a silly video that made me laugh, and it did, but I was truly touched.
Wow thank you!
Beleaf, In 6 weeks I am going to be a first-time dad and very much looking forward to it. Your videos have helped me understand what it is like to be a great dad and what it takes.
Blessings
Chester Hurlston good luck!!! I wish you all the best
Oh Uzy is such a sweetheart. Both parents and kids need to adjust. Parents need to lead and guide but not rigidly each flower has it's own sunlight and water and correction.
Anayas push ups. LOL
All I can say is. WOW...YOU ROCK
Favorite part of video is Glen calm and presence to each child as the each needed even simultaneously.
Sue Prov Beleaf is super calm! Love that part also.
Uzi’s expression in the thumbnail 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 his facial expressions are the best and he's so sweet lol
Just had a similar conversation with my three: parent to the need of the child meaning my capacity to love you all is the same, but it will look differently because you don't share the same needs. You did well Beleaf! I respect your juggling act.
Some children grow up to resent that. My uncle was very high need and so my mom and her sister got less. They are in there late 30s and mid 40s. My aunt resents it to this day and holds it against my grandmother. I would say to be fluid and if one child become high need come up with a plan to pivot and circle back around somehow.
@@ericawer6832 High need doesn't necessarily equate to more to me. My daughter has different needs with multiple allergies and eczema. It would be unrealistic to treat my son, who has no allergies and little to no anxiety resulting from it with the same approach. I don't give her more or less attention, her attention just doesn't mirror his. Fluidity for sure because later down the road his trepidation with sleeping in the dark warranted a different level of attention than she needed with desiring to sleep only in pitch blackness. One size will not fit all.
Threw them snacks cool as hell 😂
my favorite part definitely has to be the way you chucked them snacks at the kids lol
YES, her natural hair is beautiful! YES she is beautiful! Anya is naturally sweet and perfectly beautiful. The Almighty made it so ♡. I ♡ the beautiful Henry family.
Nah who the hater who thumbs down this video??😂🤔👀 This was somewhat of a throw back video seeing you at home with all the kids alone. It's kinda like Beleaf 2.0 more kids but you seemed to have more patience,control and confidence.🖤
How does George not die laughing while recording? 😂 A true professional! If it was me you would see the camera shake and fall to the ground at least twice a video
The edit are on points too. The transitions, the angles, the story telling through the lens. I love these kinda videos.
Who is George? Am so curious who is behind the camera!
@@lilylilylily yes the camera man
Uzi saying dada and you dancing out of the room after putting him down were some of my fav parts. ✨ feels like just yesterday you were home with the boys and Yvette was teaching outside of the home. God is so awesome.
Children naturally have different temperaments. For example, one child may have a calm temperament and never cry while another may make a fuss easier then the others. So, you should raise a child according to their temperament.
Its a blessing to see a black father taking care of his children. I never had a earthly father that would take time to take care of me like that but I let my Heavenly Father help me through it all. I don’t even have kids as I am still young myself but watching this channel and seeing how much progress you guys have to overcome its a true blessing to see.
I like how he just go direct to the video without talking a lot
Actions speak louder than words.
“My hair is beautiful”
😂
I always love everything about your vids... but def got teary whenyou we’re putting Uzi down & you kept kissing his lil cheeks... I do that with my son too- it’s like you get so overwhelmed by the amount of love you have for them in that moment while they sleep so sweetly.. Love watching you & Yvette parent, keep doing what y’all are doing! ❤️
The victory dance out the room was everything
Wow, this is so wonderful to see husbands do their wife’s job and experience first hand what we endure on a daily basis being mothers and wives is such a difficult task. Great job Glen & kuddos to Yvette for getting a much needed break🙏🏾👌🏾😘😘😘
This Is What You Call A Father 💯 Never Spent That Much Time With My Dad But That's Cool I Think Not Having A Father Will Make Want To Be A Parent More
watching you put Oozy to sleep had me remembering the times I had to do just the same as you. people will always ask "how do you do it?" the only thing you can say that it's all God. Blessing Beleaf, you are always an inspiration to me to keep doing my best.
Haven’t even watched the video but Uzi’s face in the thumbnail has me weak!!!! 😂🤣😂
He’s like “I’m too young for this!! Why y’all got me here with these jokas?!” 😂🤣😂🤣
This into music SPITTING 🤣🖤
Ugh! These beautiful children! ....I wish we could see a vlog with Yvette living her best life on this day lol
I wanna be a daddy
Videography goes crazy🔥🔥🔥
I kno right! I thought I was the only one watching it from a videography/creative perspective.
My favorite part was you putting Oozy down for the night.
this channel is really good i could watch his vids any time
I can't believe I've been watching since you had half the amount of kids, crazy how much yall have grown
I loved the analogy that you made between you loving your children the equally (4:20), but not in the same way, and how God loves all of His children the same, but not in the same way. Very good reminder for when I start comparing my life with others during times of trials. I'm getting exactly what I need, when I need it from my Father who loves me.
I've two favourite parts, when you put your son down and walked out of the room like a Don. Your smile said it all. Also your daughter in the mirror at the end....just magic, you guys created magic in those children. Blessings🙏🏾
I was so frustrated today trying to teach my son who has been out of school for 3 weeks. This has encouraged me to be more confident and patient with myself as a parent. Something are just about progress and being in the moment; I just had to see it first hand. Thank you for helping me, much love.
This vlog played a huge part for me in considering to have children. I know for a fact that it's not easy and anyone who tells you it is is lying, but I love being able to pour into little ones and watch them grow to become their own person. These are like the conversations I never had and don't think to have with my parents. Thanks for sharing. Stay dope.
If you are considering having these little humans, I encourage you! They are amazing beings and will teach you more than you will teach them.
Hey Beleaf. I've actually been following you since #Dreamjunkies KingsdremENT. And I've gotta say I love how you do your own music for the videos with your own youtube channel with your beautiful family. I know that Christ is the center of it all and has blessed you and your wife with those beautiful children. I just want to say GODBLESS!
To answer the question, I'm not a parent, but my mom being a single mother for most my life I did what I could to help and watched her. Something I watched her learn is that every kid is different and needs a different kind of support system to be brought up the best they can. While you can make the kids adjust to you, I don't think it's always the best method and makes it harder to capitalize on each kids individual strengths. they're all going to be different. For instance, some kids need to make the mistake and learn why it's a bad idea while others can simply be explained and other will watch the example of their elder siblings and learn from their mistakes. Some need tough love reality checks every now and then and other need calm and loving support circles to be guided the right way. It's important to evaluate the children and make sure you are guiding them properly to be the best them they can be.
Not a parent though, yet, hopefully one day lol. I'll see if I change my mind and what hurdles I'll end up facing.
Parents adjust to the child. Kind of like love languages. You learn how to love the person in a way they can interpret as love. I would imagine that's how we should approach our parenting. The core lessons don't change but the method can/does. I'm here being convicted in my parenting of my daughters as I type this....
I loved everything about THIS video. It has more of, 'a day in the life', type of feel as opposed to an 'episode'. 😅 I'm only @ 7:40 seconds in 😆
Loved this video! I came up in the era where raising and taking care of the kids was the women's job. So nice to see you love and care for your kids while Yvette is gone and not appear to be bothered by it. Loved this video.
Beleaf, you are killinggg it! Your kids are gonna think back and say, “ahhh, those were the days.” (You’re also killing the editing game, sheeeesh!)
not even done the vlog yet but I must say, the editing and production is amazing! love your family xoo
Beleaf your children are so blessed to have you as their father. Unfortunately, I did not have this kind of a relationship with my father until I was well into my late 50's. It took a lot of forgiveness on my part to finally have the relationship I wanted to have with my father. Continue to show your children that you love them and always be there for them. My favorite part was when you finally got Uzi to sleep and did the victory dance. This is an absolutely beautiful vlog. May God continue to bless you and your family.
...lol...that foot under the table rocking the baby...lol...this is what you call WALKING AND CHEWING GUM AT THE SAME TIME! Multitasking is a special skill you need when you have children! There is nothing like parenthood!
The dance out of the room. fav part.
Theo looks so much like his Mother today 😊
Oh they are so cute good job daddy
Watching you has helped me believe I will succeed in fatherhood. SALUTE!
Tony Timberlake III you will!!!
It may be Theo's natural coloring but I had dark circles under my eyes as at his age. I had trouble sleeping deeply and appeared tired all the time even though I still had that kid energy. As an adult I finally got treatment for sleep apnea and realized I had been robbed of good sleep for years!
Parents need to adjust to the needs of their children. Each child is different. What works for one won't work for the other.
Just watching you with the kids should be something all fathers should strive to be: better fathers. Love this video!
Favorite part: Dad dance after Uzzi went down. Yes to sleeping baby lol but I love your family so really it’s all a favorite! And Uzzi is a perfect mix of all the children 🥰 beautiful chocolate babies!
In the end after Uzi diaper change, i got into my feelings about my own family an" when you said, everything is going to be alright, I started crying a little. Thanks for the word's of encouragement. God bless everyone on here amen.🙏🏾💘💘💘🙏🏾
My absolute fav was Beleaf's victory dance for when Uzi fell asleep. Brings back memories. I felt it.
"...its made my heart, soft. my old scares are tender again and my patience has endurance." 😢
that snack time edit tho 😎
That workout break was EVERYTHING!✨ There were so many epic examples of juggling while homeschooling going on it was hard to choose. Loved it all. 💕
This video was like a balm for my spirit. As a School Psychologist, I have seen the natural curiosity and love of learning extinguished in so many black boys at an early age. Children, especially boys were not meant to sit for long periods of time doing paper and pencil activities. I loved your exercise break after the lesson! You and your wife are doing a wonderful job, as evidenced by your happy, well adjusted children. Keep going. You make us proud!!
I really enjoyed this video.. You didn't let them see you sweat. You're an awesome, Father and Husband. Thank you for sharing it with us.
I loved when you first tried to put Uzi down and, in his sleep, he reached for you again and you held for just a bit longer. Nothing like a father's love.
Oh my gosh the end! I used to be a nanny for 3mon and 9mon old and I felt that stress of trying to put the baby down Without waking him up and the dance once it finally sticks, man I felt that so hard 💕
“I don’t balance. Balance is keeping two things at equal weight...but you can juggle. Juggling implies that as one thing is ascending something else is falling down needing to be held on to” You have so much wisdom! ✊🏾
Sheesh! Uzi already crawling AND ready to WALK! Slow dowwwn! Lol.
I've been gone from this channel for so long. Somedays God reminds me to come back to it. Seeing this representation of fatherhood is so encouraging. While I don't have kids of my own, I work with a lot of youth that look up to me. I recognize these struggles every day. I vibe with the idea that I care for them all differently.
A day in the life Beleaf. This was precious and beautiful.
Psalm 37:23-24 "A man's steps are established by the LORD, and He takes pleasure in his way. Though he falls, he will not be overwhelmed, because the LORD holds his hand."
Beautiful family, so encouraging to see the love!
My father had 7 kids and never found it difficult to raise and care for us. He made a choice not to complicate his life.
As a result, we as kids struggled so much raising and caring for each other. Did we hate or blame him? At first yes of course...we grew up having to envy every kid we knew that are lucky to have a responsible father and felt pity and ashamed of our fate. But this negative feelings must be burried and face the life ahead of us instead with more positivity. Beleaf is an absolute inspiration for good fatherhood. Much respect! The world will be a better place to have more father like him.
Yay Yvette got a day off!! 💜🙌🏾
Since I had a 3rd baby last year, I feel the same, Always hugging on him that even my middle 2 yr old is side eyeing me. I hate watching your vids at work because now I miss my little shitty batty boy. LOVE your channel black King
Loved seeing Uriah rocking Uzi momentarily, Glen's victory dance once he was able to put Uzi down (😂) and Anaya's little laugh and beautiful smile right at the end 💕
😍 baby girl is SO beautiful
Your a great Dad the way you have them play together and individually priceless,
So many children need a father like this, awesome dad.
I just had my first baby in December and I can say your content and the life\tips you share with us has helped me so much - I've been following since the beginning - this is by far the best channel out there. Not having my dad growing up, then seeing your videos and your evolution has made me feel more capable as a parent; I wish you could know the depth of your impact. All that black boy/girl joy has been healing. Thank you Beleaf, bless up.
Positive vibes
Yes Anaya!!! Baby girl knows her worth 💖
Capable and competent father. ROCK ON DAD. You got this. They got you.
😂 that Cosby dance after laying Uziah down
im 28, single and have no children.. yet i find myself loving this channel, and EVERY time you talk about your feelings or how in this video you speak about how having children changed your life... having a daughter has made you tender hearted i cant help but get choked up & cry... i never had a father growing up and to me you represent what a father could be 🙏🏼✨💕
VAYA CON DIOS
Wow! You are an amazing father. Honestly my favorite part was you putting Uziah to bed. The love and the bond with an infant is beautiful. Sooner than you know he'll be Theo's age.
I really loved seeing you in front of the camera! Loved this whole vibe and storyline. BRAVO
You guys are simply the best!
You do it man! Thank you for sharing your thoughts,and journey.
Awesome, when u put Uzi down and he was trying to wake up. I smiled 🥰🥰🥰Great Job
My favorite part of the video is the children's love for each other, i love seeing their love for oneanother and the song at the end.
Thank you for sharing just a snippet of you daily life, it’s inspiring, encouraging, and above all else positive.
❤️This is beautiful. Absolutely LOVE your family.
...and your family makes me smile. Awww.
Uzi and Anaya look so much alike!
I love how you're so inspiring and happy. Your channel is always entertaining and informative at the same time, your videos always have a life lesson. I'm only 11 years old but I love your channel. I've been watching your channel since I was about 7 years old because of Theo's hair but then I saw what your channel was about other then Theo's hair and I got mildly interested with your channel. Keep doing what you're doing man! Remember, your family and us fans are always on your side.😊❤
Such a BEAUTIFUL family. Thank you for all that you do and sacrifice. Many blessings!🙌🏽❤ Parenting each child differently is key!
my favorite part is from the beginning to the end every single thing that you and your family do is a favorite to me and to see you take time to spend with your children it just touches my heart cuz that's one of the reason I started watching your video and the first place years ago
THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR LOVE AS A FATHER . GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Every lil thing be alright , that's such a lovely song
These videos are so beautifully made. Watching your family grow and learn each other really brightens my day and makes me look forward to when I’m lucky enough to start my own family.
I LOVE THIS FAMILYYYY!!! Beautiful.