This indeed was a marriage fraud, right? [Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.12.24]

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    Hello Counselor EP.393
    - Seo Inyoung, Luna, Yun Seongho, Shorry, Dong Hyunbae
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  • @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju
    @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju Před 5 lety +331

    "None of your business"??? .....that's rude. Also, it's your wife's business!! Aren't you all here to fix your problems?? Smh

    • @lilybell8104
      @lilybell8104 Před 5 lety +12

      yeah..he made it sound like it's from a loan by saying that. And I wouldn't be surprised if it was. Probably sky high interest rate as well!

    • @stevenlee5146
      @stevenlee5146 Před 5 lety +8

      NOTHING WRONG with that, alot of people consider their finance as personal pride and wouldnt want to share their finance on national tv it wasnt rude at all why does someone need to tell people how he make his money. do you ask your colleagues what their salary is? do you ask your friends how much they make?

    • @nabila6401
      @nabila6401 Před 3 lety +3

      No. Asking something very personal (like this) should be considered rude. It's a national TV. How can a third person ask this type of question infornt of Everyone..?stop normalizing this.

    • @user-ti9ix7hi8l
      @user-ti9ix7hi8l Před 4 měsíci +1

      no? maybe he can't talk about his job? ppl in asia usually hide where their main income comes from (unless it's a gov job)

  • @dianmufti5867
    @dianmufti5867 Před 5 lety +189

    Talking to the husband like talking to the wall, it's useless, he's stubborn, so braven, soooo childish 😑 just hope he got an enlightenment someday so he can change

    • @steffiwibisono1611
      @steffiwibisono1611 Před 5 lety +2

      a good stubborn in reaching goals is good tho. but this kind of stubborn is useless & childish.

  • @Jana_7
    @Jana_7 Před 5 lety +155

    I also don't like a man that smokes. It stinks. Clothes smell and their breath smells too. I won't be able to be around him. And he really shouldn't smoke at home with a baby there. He seems super stubborn so I don't know if he will keep that promise.

    • @minenetoki
      @minenetoki Před 5 lety

      i love the nasty smell of it.. ahh

    • @christopherliang6879
      @christopherliang6879 Před 5 lety

      Yeah, I'm male and I also absolutely detest the smell of cigarettes. Can't even sit with someone smoking for more than three minutes. It kills me when people smoke in restaurants in China against the law everyone time I visit.

    • @fifi7367
      @fifi7367 Před 5 lety

      I can't breathe in the air with cigarettes smokes around (it's really painful because my nose feels like not working anymore) so it's like i have no choice but to live without them. My family don't have any smoker too since only my mother who doesn't have weak lungs.

  • @ArcticFalcon
    @ArcticFalcon Před 5 lety +69

    Just look at his face. Take a good look and you'll see that he couldn't care any less about all this. Look at how he sits, so carefree, so relaxed. There's no need for further counseling since he's already shut everyone off. Some sense that everyone's trying to talk into him will go in one ear and out the other.

    • @steffiwibisono1611
      @steffiwibisono1611 Před 5 lety +1

      also he looks like a child when the mcs asked him to quit smoking.

  • @ItsBrittanyLajoyce
    @ItsBrittanyLajoyce Před 5 lety +90

    This show makes the people promise at the end but it doesn’t really promote a true change people break promises daily it’s like they are forcing him to change but he isn’t ready u can’t force ppl to change.

  • @fightingrivers1788
    @fightingrivers1788 Před 5 lety +68

    1. If you don't want a smoker husband don't date a smoker and marry one. Its not easy to stop smoking. Don't expect them to change for you.
    2. Breaking off to see someone's reaction? What is wrong with you?
    3. About the games, she somehow married a child. Who the hell spends thousands on clawing machines?! Shouldn't a person with responsibilities think about spending money wiser?
    4. Even if you can't stop smoking shouldn't you at least not smoke in the house and be sure to get rid of the smell before interacting with your family?

    • @steffiwibisono1611
      @steffiwibisono1611 Před 5 lety

      accurate 100 for you 🎉

    • @steffiwibisono1611
      @steffiwibisono1611 Před 5 lety +2

      respond to number 2: i think relationship is a serious matter so she cannot "i'll break up with him to see his reaction." then, when it happened, it seems like she was the one playing.

    • @fightingrivers1788
      @fightingrivers1788 Před 5 lety +1

      @@emilyconnor3911 he quit smoking for her and the girl broke off with him. When asked why she said she just wanted to see how he'd react. When Youngja ask what does she expect him to do she can't even answer. Wasn't that the case?

  • @Ivy-fi4wo
    @Ivy-fi4wo Před 5 lety +64

    This guy is so brazen which makes it worse -_- there’s no point in trying to talk to him to make him change coz he’s not willing to. That promise is defs gonna be broken 😒 you better plan up your divorce, girl. It’s definitely a marriage fraud.

  • @aenkamal5572
    @aenkamal5572 Před 5 lety +57

    he's annoying,that so obvious..he doesnt even want to tolerate..he's rude to be honest..he just dont want to listen and change for his wife.duh..😑

  • @yasminemohammed5242
    @yasminemohammed5242 Před 5 lety +54

    I was in a relationship with a man like this before, we recently broke up beacuse i realized after 3 years that he is never gonna change. He promised me he would stop drinking, smoking and many other things but he always broke his promise, i would get angry at him and we actually broke up so many times i lost count. When i had broken up with him he would come back to me and beg me to take him back, he would promise to change and he did change. Some changes were permanent but many were just empty promises. The permanent changes made me blind and forgiving towards him, i realized the permanent changes he made was not beacuse i told him to change or because of his love for me but because he simply grew away from these things. He was no longer intrested in those things and he made me believe he changed for me. And my mistake was i believed him.

    • @yasminemohammed5242
      @yasminemohammed5242 Před 5 lety +3

      I hope she realises that this man is hopeless before it is too late. He is never going to change because he doesn’t want to change. He has a beautiful loving wife, a son, a house and a job and yet he has to drink soo much? This man need psychological help ASAP.

    • @marianadelaguila2631
      @marianadelaguila2631 Před 5 lety +2

      Omg I felt like I was reading my own story . I felt relieved when it ended for real . The fact he moved away helped so much and being busy at work definitely helped to stop thinking about it.
      On anther note , People like this man are selfish, I feel that because of how korean society works The man just wanted to marry her so he can have the “married” status. And divorce is not something any korean wants because of the stigma and stereotypes about it. Sad to see so many married couples in here , yet we don’t know how much this show really does for the couple. With any addiction people will relapse. That’s why the “treatment” or “help” needs to be constant and with a professional.

    • @steffiwibisono1611
      @steffiwibisono1611 Před 5 lety

      me too. luckily it was just for half of a year.

    • @yachishairclips2250
      @yachishairclips2250 Před 5 lety

      I am so sorry for this ignorant question... But, in the end, you broke up because he is a person who does only prioritize self and never been that sincere to you?

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 Před 3 lety

      No need to be sorry.. Some ppl have really a quality to make others idiot and cheat with their lies

  • @ailee799
    @ailee799 Před 5 lety +25

    How can he talk like that to hello counselor saying “it’s none of your business “ , so rude 😤... he could’ve word it in a nicer way

    • @steffiwibisono1611
      @steffiwibisono1611 Před 5 lety +2

      ikr. hello conselor needed an answer to solve the problem. they helped them.

    • @meganod279
      @meganod279 Před 5 lety +1

      Actually it's nons of their bussiness indeed. Would you go out sharing how much money you make for example? Some people want to keep their details private.
      I also sense pride in him so it's fine if he doesn't wanna talk about stuff.
      But yes, I agree about being rude. He isn't a bad person but he talks harsh.

  • @squidweird8879
    @squidweird8879 Před 5 lety +42

    Wife looks like lucy, gru's wife in despicable me 😂

    • @nonaegepanhaesso
      @nonaegepanhaesso Před 5 lety

      squidweird oh my god, you’re right! i was sitting here thinking “she looks so familiar tho, where i could’ve seen her?
      that’s right! it was Despicable Me! 😂

    • @steffiwibisono1611
      @steffiwibisono1611 Před 5 lety

      the husband's belly looks like gru's as well

  • @pogostick8449
    @pogostick8449 Před 5 lety +6

    When he said he would file a petition to the government. I think he is kind of saying 'if i cant smoke no one else can smoke'

  • @sherine9033
    @sherine9033 Před 5 lety +38

    This is why I ain't gonna get married. I ain't risking my life to a man that's all sweet when they date and after getting married he thinks he owns the woman now and can do whatever he wants, because if couples divorce the social burden is all on the women.

    • @aaiish9097
      @aaiish9097 Před 5 lety +14

      Its not marriage that is the problem though. Enough happily married couples around. The problem is people get into a marriage when they themselves arent even independent financially or emotionally AND people ignore the obvious red flags in the name of 'love'. Also never believe a person when they tell you they will change for you thats always bs.
      This man obviously knows his wife wouldn't leave him for whatever reason so he does everything that he wants without giving shit about her. If she was stern with him from the beginning and told him she would leave his ass if he misbehaved he would never do all that trust me.
      So a pro tip: always set your boundaries/lines before you get married and tell the other you are outta there if they ever cross that line for real.

    • @steffiwibisono1611
      @steffiwibisono1611 Před 5 lety +1

      too bad they've already got a son. if not she might be able to consider to divorce.

    • @creatorgifty99
      @creatorgifty99 Před 4 lety

      same hear

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 Před 3 lety

      Well then you should stop doing mwnh things bcoz there's no way you can never be in risk in things.. It is idiotic to think that because of someone else ppl should not get married or have family.. From the first day some things should be clear and not be flow with their talking and in love.. And i believe there should be law to this kind of frauds

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 Před 3 lety

      @@aaiish9097 i m Going to do same thing.. And also i m going to tell which things i dont like which can ruin our relationship

  • @thatoneduck1331
    @thatoneduck1331 Před 5 lety +4

    My grandfather died at a young age from drinking and smoking too much, i wouldn’t wish that upon anyone else. I hope he actually gets help for himself and his attitude. Best of luck to this family.

  • @bell-ns3qo
    @bell-ns3qo Před 5 lety +34

    The way she kept saying 'What" so cute lol

  • @drivewayturtle65
    @drivewayturtle65 Před 5 lety +2

    This man doesn't want to be married and he doesn't care about what his wife thinks. Nobody would blame her for divorcing him.

  • @andrewk2658
    @andrewk2658 Před 5 lety +14

    this lady should do the tofu in the face technique like that dudes mom did :)

  • @baybeetacoo8734
    @baybeetacoo8734 Před 3 lety +4

    I think the wife was horrible for testing her husband when she broke up with him for 2 weeks. Why did she think that was a good idea. She just broke up with him for no reason, he was actually quitting then her actions sent him back. She needs to hold some accountability in how her husband can't quit.
    That being said, the husband now knows he has her and she can't really leave so now he is taking advantage of that, hence his ugly behavior.

  • @siamhossain1479
    @siamhossain1479 Před 5 lety +3

    Cigarettes, coffee and stress will lead him to an early grave. He needs to listen to his wife more I wish him the best.

  • @ERIN_GUNN
    @ERIN_GUNN Před 3 lety +2

    SAVAGE!! She told him he had bad skin AND basically called him ugly from his round face by saying he wasn't handsome. Who is she kidding this was doomed from the start.

  • @igeorgoudi
    @igeorgoudi Před 4 lety +3

    it's both their fault, she tried to make him into what she wanted and he was already talking back. bilateral toxic relationship

  • @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju
    @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju Před 5 lety +21

    Also, LUNA!!! Ughhhh, i want an f(x) comeback!!! 😤😤

  • @myqktosky
    @myqktosky Před 2 lety +3

    처음부터 끝까지 남탓이네ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 담배 못끊는것도 이제 국가탓ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

  • @amaya0613
    @amaya0613 Před 5 lety +11

    The wife looks like a who from “Horton here’s a who” I’m not being mean I just find it funny

  • @michellelee8425
    @michellelee8425 Před 5 lety +2

    he is like taking granted. i feel he have intention.

  • @user-nf3ni5sk4u
    @user-nf3ni5sk4u Před 5 lety +2

    The first reading of concerns reminds me of my partner he quit smoking when we started dating but started again when he’s out the house and he loves phone games so always pays micro transactions even when we’re short on money which frustrates me the most. 😅

  • @0o0_27
    @0o0_27 Před 5 lety +13

    I don't understand why these women torture themselves and stay married to that type of man....

    • @BONHEURMAYINDU
      @BONHEURMAYINDU Před 5 lety +4

      Marriage in korea has a WHOLE other value than in the west...

    • @BlueMeaney49
      @BlueMeaney49 Před 5 lety +4

      B Maydu is right. First, divorce is extremely frowned upon. Second, it's always the woman who takes the blame. Being a "single mother" you become a pariah in society. Third, economics. It's hard enough for young people to find a job in the current Korean economy. A single mother? One in a billion jobs.

  • @hearty2106
    @hearty2106 Před 5 lety +7

    This is definitely a marriage fraud. Nw I'm afraid to get married

    • @AmbiCahira
      @AmbiCahira Před 5 lety +1

      Don't be, just dont rush to marry. Someone that keeps up a front during dating can only do so for X weeks or months before a slip up and their big behaviors that they would potentially hide shows through. If a guy smokes and he promises to quit then no sex until he has quit for at least a month because then he has a reward to gain. If he can "get the goods" no matter what then he gets the best of both worlds. By no marriage and no physical intimacy until a promise like that is kept you protect yourself. I can't date people that smoke because of my asthma and when I tried to date one he was very clueless about his responsibility in my lungs so it never went further than 1 date. I'm now married to someone incredible and my friends calls us couple goals... all because I put up standards that I would only marry someone that would also be my best friend because if you aren't best friends you wont last. Best friends have each others back, encourage eachother, and never get sick of hanging out together and talking about anything and everything. Build that relationship quality during the dating period while waiting to see the true colors that come back after the new and excited love settles into comfortable love.

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 Před 3 lety

      I sometimes thinks that some law should be there in country to punish frauds to ruin someone

  • @user-hx6hs3so3c
    @user-hx6hs3so3c Před 5 lety

    All this concerns be showing you how someone can change drastically

  • @riayaraizel2214
    @riayaraizel2214 Před 5 lety +2

    Yes the husband is bad but I don't think the wife is fault-free either. It sounded like she only married her husband for his money. I don't know them personally but that's the vibe I got from this episode.

  • @atinjho5814
    @atinjho5814 Před 5 lety +2

    "None of your business"... that so rude.. He need psychologists doctor 😏😏

  • @FernandaGarcezC
    @FernandaGarcezC Před 5 lety +1

    "none of your business" how rude and gross, seriously uncalled for.

  • @pygmipuff_
    @pygmipuff_ Před 5 lety

    He wouldn't realize if smoking and drinking alcohol are bad for health before he's suffering some health issues due to it. So many cases in hospital patient come with cancer stage 3 until 4, after they got that disease at the end they feel so regret to have smoking as a habit.

  • @sarahouni1293
    @sarahouni1293 Před 5 lety

    A ledger is something that loan sharks normally keep hahahah

  • @Izumi70V3Naruto
    @Izumi70V3Naruto Před 5 lety

    1:03 oh he is the one who play as a trainee in The Best Hit drama right??? I become a fan because of his character in that drama XD

  • @RACHATV8004
    @RACHATV8004 Před 5 lety +1

    What a jerk he is never gone a change for her

  • @user-id3pg3je8q
    @user-id3pg3je8q Před 5 lety

    3년 살으셨은데 남편분 대단하시네여

  • @hygge5736
    @hygge5736 Před 5 lety +1

    When they are talking about $ does that means US dolars?

    • @cherahsBroll
      @cherahsBroll Před 5 lety

      Akabane uwu Yes, they translate the currency.

  • @nieshaanthonieatoledo6001

    This guy is rude..😈

  • @halimahrizkia5699
    @halimahrizkia5699 Před 5 lety +2

    sending a virtual kick for the husband-_-

  • @michelleinkorea
    @michelleinkorea Před 2 lety +1

    아내분 얼른 도망치세요.

  • @user-bp7hs9ss9i
    @user-bp7hs9ss9i Před 2 lety +1

    왜. 나 와냐

  • @adbts24
    @adbts24 Před 3 lety

    He is not a good catch. From his expressions he isn't interested in any of this and his ego is hurt. He is gonna be worst once they reach home I'm sure😕

  • @Dingo7423
    @Dingo7423 Před 5 lety +3

    Quit the smoking for you not for the wife. 살 그렇게 쪄서 술담배 못끊으면 럭키하면 심장마비 로 사망, 재수없으면 반신불수로 평생 똥오줌 지리고 살아야됨.

  • @amateur5862
    @amateur5862 Před 5 lety

    Is that MY TAEYANG'S BROTHER??

  • @yolandayuda
    @yolandayuda Před 5 lety

    He is so stubborn, just leave him. Live happily, find another spouse who will be good to you and your son. You are pretty and young. You also can start working. He's a dumb. Throw him.

  • @pandabete4583
    @pandabete4583 Před 5 lety +13

    Too early to read comments 😭

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 Před rokem

    Jaker mersawal ka youtubse puchho nahi togoogal hai hi pata chaljayega ok

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 Před rokem

    Chaloye chhodo athani chawani no go joda rupiya kita bataye abhi ok

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 Před rokem

    Bibibeti ka izzat chal jaye per many nahi jana chahiye yahi aapki soch hai esliye youtubko bhagwan samjhte ho jaw aapsab dosti ke layak nahi ho ok

  • @michellemcleod4950
    @michellemcleod4950 Před 3 lety

    prozd

  • @peepeepoopoo9702
    @peepeepoopoo9702 Před 5 lety

    Im not hating on the girl but she looks like she came out from a dr seuss book :v

  • @user-ms5wq7mm6c
    @user-ms5wq7mm6c Před 2 lety

    댓글이 죄다 영어야
    왜지

  • @dhukhiathakur4232
    @dhukhiathakur4232 Před rokem

    Dekhliya kitana tej ho padnlikhane me jangaya jhutha sab ki rank mila hai many wale ko rank milta hi hai garibka kitana bhi tej rahe per uska nam nahi hota ok

  • @nonaegepanhaesso
    @nonaegepanhaesso Před 5 lety

    ugh. he’s so annoying.

  • @choohah5604
    @choohah5604 Před 5 lety

    This guy is a brazen,scammer and selfish guy. Pfft
    I stopped watching at
    *12:22** that's none of your business*
    I almost throw out my phone. Damn guy

  • @nyjunie1941
    @nyjunie1941 Před 5 lety

    이영자님, 연배 아래인 사람에게 여쭤본다는 표현은 틀립니다.