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I'm scared of my girlfriend.She gets very jealous! [Hello Counselor Sub:ENG,THA/2018.07.02]
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Hello Counselor EP.370
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That’s kinda rude of them when they asked the girlfriend if he or the other guy is more handsome and when she said her boyfriend they were all shocked 😡
Korean are really blunt about judging other people's looks. They aren't ashamed to show other people when they think someone doesn't look handsome/beautiful. Its just difference in culture I suppose.
Oh please I lived in France and US and even UK (posh area) they tell you when you are not looking good
+tr smith C'est vrai mais en France c'est pas aussi abusé et tu ne verras jamais de personne à la télé appeler une autre personne "moche" en tout cas c'est très rare et surtout pas à la télé nationale ou dans une émission très populaire et les rares fois où ils le font les gens réagissent sur les réseaux sociaux et ne laissent pas passer ça...
i mean it's just them getting frustrated because they know he isn't considered handsome for majority of the girl based on looks. But i do agree they took it a bit too far
can confirm about their bluntness.. koreans are extremely blunt about looks, especially weight
I actually think that the guy is realy cute and handsome. It was embarrassing for him to see that no one think that he is handsome. I felt sad for him(hoping that his girlfriend won't find and kill me😂😉).
Lol better start running
Анелия Димитрова she wouldnt kill someone with tzuyu's face in it haha she would be killed by
ONCE
Atsushi Murasakibara 😂😂😂right
😂😂😂
Well 😊 that’s true, the girlfriend were really lucky to have him
Koreans are so straight forward about people's Looks and calling them Out for being "ugly". As a European i'm always so shocked by it😀
Well in this case it is her obsession that he is so pretty that every woman wants him so they had to make it clear that he isn't that hot
Let's be fair American started it all . They made all this Hollywood movies and forced actresses to have surgery and it is now out of control adding photoshop and avarage people feel ugly as heck. I am not sure where in Europe you are coming from but I can tell you English people can be very snobish and look down on you the same goes for French people when you are not skinny in France they do call Americans cows lol
xD I am french and you're right but when you're skinny they called you anorexic why you don't eat bla bla and this why I'm confronted in middle school so ... whatever you looks like people criticize you every time :p please sorry for my bad english
tr smith agree partially. I still feel like they wouldnt have called the guy out as harshly in public over here or at least receive massive backlash for it.
tr smith America didn’t start that every culture has their own standards of Beauty stop trying to blame America for some other countries beauty standards when they aren’t even the same standards as America
I really hate this....how they are dissing his looks instead of increasing her faith towards him....
universemelody primadonaelf
Funny thing Is nobody in the public look pretty/ handsome 🤣🤣😳
I found it unnecessary that they kept having to roast her bf on his looks. Everyone has their own type and he looks alright. He’s just a guest too
I hate it every time the hosts mention the guy's look then the audience expression sucks. No matter what that guy looks like to other ppl, if for his girlfriend he's handsome, you can't do nothing abt that. Can we all like stop judging people and belittling them because of their looks and status? Can we all like live in this world with equality?
Kheza Rosales Korea.
thats just our country, some koreans like me dont care, but others just say whatever is on their mind
Hypocrite! You all love and worship kpop idols and don't care if they rape or kill because of their looks but act all high and mighty when Koreans are straightforward about looks
If you exclude her insecurity, they're actually an ideal couple. They genuinely love each other and not care about looks :'(
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone is like beyonce is so pretty this that, but I don't find her pretty at all. So I believe in this phrase
No, getting jealous isn't a sign of love rather insecurity. You should trust each other in a relationship or else you will never be happy.
it actually depends, you can't just say it's a insecurity thing since that's not always the case. Being cheated on and having a bit of trust issues doesn't have anything to do with being insecure. Girls can be perfect for one person and ugly for another.
True
@@cloudyme1430 your word doesn't make sense? She is insecure because she get scared if he will cheat on her
N_H i said it doesn’t have anything to do wth that. Did you even read and understand everything? The way you said my word instead of words already hints the chance of you just not understanding it
Weekender Girl yeah i agree but just some people are saying she is insecure as in her lacking self confidence. which is a total different thing than her not being confident of being in a relationship, but you should know asking your boyfriend for pics of wherever he is can get to a point where he feels like she doesn’t trust him and cause him to dislike her
Wow! It was hard to watch everyone laugh at the guy.
Awww the bubbly personality is really charming tho
The way they keep mentioning the man's look is just uncomfortable to watch and a bit impolite (idk maybe it's normal in Korea) eventhough he says no woman would be attracted to him.
Its normal here. People dont sugar coat things.
nadhira rahmayanti Yes that was rude. I'm upset at Dongyup. She has the right to find her own guy attractive.
It is for comedic purposes
iWanMahbleuPig still how is making fun of someone for the okay, it can really mess with someone
Britany Cooper in Korea its normal
dang y’all are really wrong for that nooo honestly downgrading ones looks like that. oml they’re so blunt, if it “does t fit the standards of a handsome korean man”
Her bf isn't ugly. If he was as skinny the guy sitting next to his gf they would about the same.
RubyRim the girlfriend might see this comment be careful😂😂😂
my exact same thought if he lost weight he will be good looking
Moo Hset I think she would be too
@@moohset4662 😂😂😂😂 i should be more careful
I loved that she found him very handsome. I have a friend who thinks "ugly" guys are cute (using the term lightly here), based on societal standards, while the rest of us are like "umm...no, not at all". But some of us would say "OMG, he is so cute/handsome" and she'll say "he looks 'ugly.'" I wish I was like that. I won't have to be jealous of anybody, lol.
But yea, she's insecure from her past relationship. It's understandable, but she really needs to come to terms that this is a new relationship with a new man.
Girl's bout to ruin a marriage because she's stuck in the past.
If the genders were switched, i doubt the reactions over looks would be the same. I remember a segment where this dude called his wife ugly and all hell broke loose. I know he is not the best looking guy out there, but its heartbreaking to see how they are constantly reminding him about his looks. Its disturbing tbh.
oh they would believe me
lol you haven't been watching for long
ik bruh, and my mans isnt even ugly, as a dude i can say he is actually pretty good looking, a little chubby but nothing wrong with that
The way they kept mentioning that they find him unattractive irritated me. I understand it's "normal" in Korea, but he was obviously uncomfortable and seemed embarrassed. ugh. He's charming and cute. I especially hated when they asked the gf to compare her bf to that ladies husband. That was rude and uncalled for. Koreans blatantly fat-shame, call someone ugly if they don't meet society beauty standards, etc. It really irritates me. They do this and women and men get plastic surgery or develop eating disorders and they even shame them for that. SAD.
borderline obsessed with him because of their own insecurities. I know he's too nice and will try to make the relationship work, but watch her go on the same bullshit. this segment was dry cause I don't think they really convinced her to stop. jealously is a killer.
rather have a girl that cared about me then a girl that doesn't care for shit and just does her own shit.
Actually the man is quite cute( i mean chubby cute)
crystal li and funny. His expressions are priceless XD
i think he's cute too! so lively
I think he's cute too!
She is extremely insecure and needs to find herself before trying to be in a relationship. Regular counseling is a good way for her to start. He should find a new girlfriend these types of situations get worse and worse over time. Petty jealousy can turn deadly and she is already showing signs of being irrational and overly attached.
you don't need counseling because of being jealous and being jealous doesn't always mean that the person is insecure. That's just bullshit, Find a new girlfriend ? lol so you just gonna walk away from a girl that loves you just because she has a bit of a jealousy problem ? That's weak.
You do understand that being unreasonably jealous of complete strangers and patients is indicative of an underlying issue right? That's not weakness on the boyfriends part. Yes he should seek out a partner who doesn't make him hesitant in being himself who isn't irrational and overly jealous. It isn't healthy. You sound like you are projecting. Being jealous in relationships isn't cute. Jealousy stems from the fact that you have a lack of trust in your partner and you aren't secure in yourself, you don't think that you are good enough so you lash at those who have the qualities you lack. That's not okay. And I always recommend counseling. It's healthy and helpful. Try it out sometime.
He's not ugly at all .... he's not the most handsome, but labeling him ugly is wrong, I would say he's more cute than anything
I hate how they made it so obvious that they dont think he is handsome,tbh he looks good to me,koreans care abt looks too much and are too honest when it comes to it its sad
He is so cute 😂
Vinoja De Silva Becareful or else the girlfriend might come to u... 😂
Kpop lover hahaha 😂 Xd IKR !!
LOL yes girl, be careful she will hunt u down
Ngan Doan hahahha 😂🖐🏻
The boyfriend is actually so funny. I cant tell if he is laughing or crying. Its such an absurd situation😅
Its Korean culture to mention someones physical looks that's why they are always body and self conscious and worried about what someone will think about them. They don't mind fat shaming you and we can see it through how they always make fun of Yeongja and her love for food. Plus the standard of beauty in Korea is so not the boyfriend that's why no one pressed the buzzer for his looks. Anyway, the girlfriend is obsessive. If you want to be that obsessive, don't bring that behaviour into your workplace or you'll be transferred to a different hospital; at least I want to believe that's how it is done in SK. It's not even normal to get jealous of all the women he works with or comes across. If I were the boyfriend, I will run away from her while I have the chance. An obsessive person can become violent, stalk you and worst case kill you because they will not like to share you with anyone else. A relationship is for two people to be happy and not one person being happy and the other suffocating because of the other persons behaviour. Hopefully she becomes less obsessive because getting married to an obsessive person is like getting married to your stalker, none ends well.
This chick came into the relationship with baggage from the previous. That’s her ish to focus on herself and work through, not to punish the next guy. If he doesn’t marry her, that’s her own fault for suffocating and creating such a toxic relationship. This is so frustrating.
boi who tf says she was the one starting the relationship ? It's more likely that the guy started it since a girl normally wouldn't date a guy right after she got emotionally fucked unless the guy really proved her that he loves her a lot. But even that, it's understandable that she is protective tbh
Cloudy me First off, I didn’t say that she started the relationship, I said she ‘came into’ the relationship which implies either, or, because none of us know how their relationship began. Secondly, it doesn’t even matter who started the relationship. It takes two to tango. Did she not give him her phone number? Did she not text him back and show up at dates? Are you trying to tell me he demanded his way into her life? As an adult, she should have known better than to consensually begin a new relationship if she was so ‘protective.’ She needs to ‘protect’ herself and figure out her own life before getting involved with any other person. Why is she all up in her man’s business? Because she’s insecure and doesn’t have anything going on in her OWN life. That’s not his fault, that’s due to her own negligence. She wouldn’t be so obsessed with him if she had any confidence and self-esteem. This chick needs to reevaluate herself and why she wants to be in a relationship so much and can’t stop being so jealous. He’ll probably marry her, but I doubt they’ll be happy.
first of all it does matter who started the relationship, because if the guy was the first to start it, it would be natural for him to persuade her since she stated that she had trust issues because of her past , and he knew that yet was with her, so it's not her fault since she didn't become this way out of no where. And secondly relationships it's not like you choose who you love, and at what moment you want it to happen, so saying it's immature of her going into a relationship is pathetic since like you said, it takes two to tango. And omg wtf do you mean because she's insecure, don't you fucking get that, because of her past that she's over protective what does that have to do with being insecure ? So if i were to gotten cheated on i suddenly am insecure instead of just having some trust issues? And we are in no state to say if he and she will be happy or not since as he said he loves her and she loves him clearly a lot.
This case proved there's not only Korean men are controllers but some women are too.... actually controlling someone, being rude, hurting someone mentally...has a deep root in the whole Asian culture.... you'll find case like this (regardless if the gender) in almost every Asian family..we all have a freaky relative like her...
Don't act like other nations are better . I was in africa and the guy was running after his wife with a knife. But also in America , correct me if I'm wrong but no other nation has such a trophy wife mentality like Americans and domestic violence is normal no other country has more killings
Minori ruba Not just Asians. This kind of behavior simply exists because certain humans are too insecure and refuse to admit they have an issue to fix.
why is that though? The standards to be the best in asian culture? I dated a Chinese man that only lasted 4 months, and I shouldn't of even met the psycho. He was extremely insecure, jealous, accused me of cheating on him before he even met me etc. He would belittle me, thought he was smarter than me because I wasn't in a "smart" field (I was in healthcare and he was in computer science). The last time He told me I had "big arms" and had "greasy hair", omg I could go on and on lol. But he told me stories of his tough life in china and would always put me down for issues I would vent to him about. I almost told his workplace about how he treated me but he took me everything to stop myself...I regret not calling him out on his bullshit to this day and I broke up with him.2 years ago. This woman was EXACTLY like the Chinese guy I met....
peanutbutterfiend That guy's behavior has nothing to do with the diverse Asian cultures. Everyone's a product of their environment, but I wouldn't blame it on a person's culture. Unfortunately you met a guy who's insecure and simply a POS. I'm glad you left him though.
tr smith where in Africa plss mention the country. It's 2018 and people still believe Africa is a country SMH....
Low self esteem girl ... I was once like her and my bf at the time was really a tall and handsome, model-like, man and girls always look at him and got lots of DM ... I was blinded by his handsomeness and also I was always afraid that he might got other girls ... that was when I didn't recognize my own value and that if I am confident, I will give out an irresistible aura ... but sadly, I caught him cheated on me more than three times ... So ... he is not worth my time.
He is not ugly he is average and any girl will fall for him if they know his personality because seriously these days a guy with a personality like him is hard to get
Why vote on his looks? Like bruh!!! Seriously?
How bad must have he felt. So sad.
Tbh that guy is my type, hope the gf doesn't read this 😂😂
i suddenly realize we Filipinos are very considerate of foreigners in our country and even appreciates their beauty but in other countries someone who is mistaken as my nationality causes discrimination.. dont forget Philippines holds crowns for Ms. Universe, Ms. World, and Ms. International.
Orch Dork yes i agree with you.. i am upset also how in general Koreans seem to be problematic with their appearance and others.. altho i also share interest with Korean culture and actually like this show because of Yeonja and Yooseob i am upset that most problems are actually shallow and problems are not address in a more sensible way.. which brought me to think we Filipinos are reslient to all forms of problems.. we can even smile through the strom.. really i love Korean culture but i am happy to be Filipino.
Orch Dork yes i agree with you.. i am upset also how in general Koreans seem to be problematic with their appearance and others.. altho i also share interest with Korean culture and actually like this show because of Yeonja and Yooseob i am upset that most problems are actually shallow and problems are not address in a more sensible way.. which brought me to think we Filipinos are reslient to all forms of problems.. we can even smile through the strom.. really i love Korean culture but i am happy to be Filipino.
This is the most funny and cute concern EVER😂 especially at 16:00 ! I know this is a concern but I can't help but smiling along it. So SORRY AND THANK YOU HELLO COUNSELOR😆😆
His facial expressions! He is so sweet!
I love him he was so over this concern. Had me laughing the whole time 😂😂😂
That guy is cute, tho??
Hold up she believes her boyfriend is the most handsome cute etcera etcera so she should feel like the most beautiful person since her man is the most handsome man in her eyes and he chose her when she calls other women beautiful she is the most beautiful in his eyes BOOM! Problem solved!💝
They are madly in love and I think it would get better if she got therapy for her insecurities and to address her past relationship but other than that I think they will be fine with a bit more understanding and time
therapy for that? not everyone is weak. It's not that difficult to learn to deal with it. Therapy isn't always the answer
Her behavior is grounded in love. She is codependent and possessive.
Actually I was a little like her after my bf cheated on me so I can see why she feels like that. We decided to work it out and I continued to date my bf like this for months after I found out the news but I calmed down and stopped this behaviour after 7 months. This girl is going tooo overboard because her current bf didnt cheat on her so she has no excuse to act like this. She must first work on herself and heal. She shouldn't marry him until she can feel secure again. Only she can change this.
His girly voice just cracks me up with laughter..🤣😂😂🤣 when introducing a storyline...viewer from the UK
I understand y gf is lyk that...she z too afraid to loose him....she is madly in lv wid him
I like how Koreans are so direct. There is no time for political correctness or hiding how they feel.
They also have a high suicide rate too!
I feel so bad for the guest.. he's just asking for help but they keep making a joke about his apperance... that's just wrong
they are people like this everywhere not korea only. why u dont make your own show like this in your own country. btw im malaysian!
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I can relate them...
My crush is ugly (my fri says)
But in my eyes,he look so handsome really....
You saying that doesn't helps🤣
can someone say the title of the song being played when they call him handsome? so enticing song.
Whats na title of the song?Tnx for the answer,in advans
The way Koreans judge people so naturally by calling them ugly or fat without thinking about their feelings... Where's the manners and respect that people say Korea has? 😵💫
I mean it also tells us the amount of trust and loyalty you have with your lover...
Who are the male idols in this ep??
I ended a relationship recently and it was similar, but my companion was so toxic with jealousy that I was badmouthed every day by him, it was almost 3 years like this that when it ended I simply lost my way, I didn't know what to do, who to ask for permission to go out or talk to people, when I talked to my friends I would ask myself if everything was okay with it
Oh my Korean are so straight forward !! Don't they think it might hurt the person T^T
Also the girl is so hateful *GRRR* Tho this concern really make me angry but it's so funny !! the one beside Woojin is so cute .. ofc not gyeongree but the east light member
I actually think the boyfriend is quite attractive!
His personality is amazing too :)
What´s the music name in 5:02?
maybe one of them can go to another hospital and work there then meet up after work, Work and love are two different things and you must stay professional and not let other things bother you during work
Does anybody know this song? 5:02
idk why, but i can see answer pattern in every person they invite. Lol
Why people think that because they stalk or harass theyr partener they will not cheat on you. What i have learned from others relationships is that when someone wants to cheat, they can fo it even in front of you in yoir house and you will not notice it. I think the first thing you are accepting from a relationship is trusting that person and thats why you want to be with them, since you feel safe, secure and trust them. For me is the basic.
Why everyone think looks are what decides how u live and should be treated? Gosh, he isn't ugly at all. Look at how disgusted the audience members look at 5:11 and the cast should know better as they're dealing w real probs (although they aren't so dire) they're still real so they should treat them respectfully. Ugh.
This is sad.........the people in the audience ain't even goodlooking......hes a chubby handsome leave him
I find it pretty mean how they kept on mentioning the dude looks like he wasn't attractive just because they thought he wasn't. It wasn't even me but I started feeling nervous because i started feeling bad for him :( they shouldn't do that to the people on the show and consider everyone else feelings it's not like they look like flower boys themselves.
Tbh I can understand her.. i am not as jealous as she is but also more jealous than what you would define as good.. but its really hard to let go of that feeling. even tho my head knows that my boyfriend would never cheat on me i just dont like it when he talks to women too much.. and i cant really ignore that feeling. if i would i would get frustrated not to talk about it. i think its important to talk about everything you feel when you're in a relationship. maybe after some time the jealousy will get less and less. but its definitly not good to ignore it. and you cant really do anything about what you feel in some circumstances..
Oh god, never been this early
honestly after i heard the other guy‘s story (sitting next to the gf) he kinda looks sly/disgusting to me... and the chubby bf just gives off a pleasant and kind vibe that his face becomes more likable to look at, he‘s not even ugly i think he‘s kinda cute :3
I kinda understand where his girlfriend is coming from, as I was once that like too... But one day I just realized, I was really "jealous" to the point of suffocating the other person is due to my own low inner self esteem and confidence. Once I figured that out, and began to change my focus on working on myself, that insecureness disappeared
Honestly even disregarding his amazing personality he's cute lol these ppl are so mean lmao he'd be an amazing husband
Obsession is a hard case to break. I have one to. It happens coz I grew up seeing my father cheated on my mom several times. My current partner also cheated on me at the beginning of our relationship. I saw my father in law cheated on his wife publicly. No shame! That's why its hard to even trust even a single person in your life.
5:02 Can someone please tell me the song `s name? This couple is cute as hell !
please update
Just b/c there are guys out there who sexualize ever woman they see, it doesn't mean that every guy is like that. You must trust.
TRUE but cheating isn't only sexual, there's emotional cheating too which is just as bad.
I think the English subtitles are very exaggerated and a bit incorrect. That makes a lot of ppl think that Koreans are mean.
I swear this show is such an eye opener for me about koreans standard beauty and other shits. I hate how they laugh at the guy when he came out like TF rude ass.
Yeah that’s so rude .. he doesn’t have to be Wonbin to have a jealous gf.
But ngl, I’m a jealous gf too but not to that extent.
Two people in a relationship need to trust each other in order for the relationship to thrive. I don't think it's a good idea for them to get married yet if she's going to continue being like that. Maybe she could get counseling for it considering she's traumatized by a past relationship.
If she doesn't stop then he needs to leave her smh she's getting in the way of his job
I think she’s just insecure
Lol I know it’s probably because I’m not a Korean person let alone male but could someone please explain why he always says that they don’t have to greet or help male guest (one episode a guy had trouble getting out of the pit and they just watched him)
I think they cute couple and are truely in love , but too much jealously can ruin good relationship so she sjould trust him more and not soficate him .. and he also should tell her more often that he love and teasure he so she can feel secure .
His more handsome if he lose weight,! Why they make fun of this guy! His personality is great though..
The guy is actually cute and handsome n the way ppl are reacting is really rude
Maybe it's just for not being korean, but it's very sad when they talk about how the guy looks, cos' they don't really take care of their words. It isn't funny, you can hurt ppl, don't make laugh about that.
He's handsome for his GF, his GF is a sick-jealousy person, we are not talking about he looks like a K-drama actor or not.
they're such a cute couple tho n.n
This society is really obsessed with looks. Koreans don't have a problem trying a man he's handsome. I thought it was disrespectful to have the audience rate him on how his looks. It's obvious he isn't a model but to point it out so blatantly was awkward.
I freaked out when I saw that this came out😂
i mean i get her tbh, she is just a bit traumatized by her past, it's understandable
You can see how he was scared of her. Look when he sit so distant with the girl beside her n sit so close with mc beside him
He is so pretty. They call him ugly because he weights more than them smh. Rather be a bit larger and pretty than being skinny and having a ugly personality
They through he was handsome that his girlfriend gets jealous 1:41 they were like ohh she is jealous for what he is not handsome
Omg is that little maknae Woojin from p101 s 2?!?!?
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Why do they have to say who would want to steal her bf and he's not handsome...i mean he's kind and considerate , loves her as a woman i would love that kind of man...they are kinda making fun of him this isn't right
LOL she thinks he's so handsome she must be so in love
A little jealousy here and there is harmless, but the way she's behaving is beyond that. I hate that she's expecting change from him even though she recognizes that her behavior is a bit excessive. She needs to find a way to stop feeling so insecure before she settles down with him. Trust is an important part of a relationship and obviously, she doesn't trust him at all. I hope they fix this issue before tying the knot.
Lee woojin was there?😲
Getting jealous is ok but too much will kill your relationship..It's not healthy.
i think they emphasize too much about the boyfriends attractiveness rather than the more important issue that the girlfriend is really insecure and has trust issues x.x she needs to self evaluate
if a couple needs to check each other phones , means they do not have trust within themselves
When it comes to relationship.. You should trust your partner..
He looks like he is acting innocent