Why Attractive Women Date Less Attractive Men

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  • čas přidán 1. 07. 2024
  • In this video, I discuss oofy doofy couples and why attractive women date less attractive men.
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Komentáře • 125

  • @lookismcel
    @lookismcel Před 4 měsíci +64

    over for the oofy doofy couples

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  Před 4 měsíci +19

      Over for oofy doofies

    • @sreekrishnanmuralitharan520
      @sreekrishnanmuralitharan520 Před 4 měsíci +9

      ​@@ascended266 I love the fact that you've incorporated rehab room's lingo into yours. Well done ascended

    • @univuniveral9713
      @univuniveral9713 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@sreekrishnanmuralitharan520 Someone told me dbdr invented oofy doofy.

    • @cedricdellafaille1361
      @cedricdellafaille1361 Před měsícem

      i havent seen it , its only an extremely small percentage. its so rare that its like seeing a lapricorn in the forest

  • @kevinwilson7318
    @kevinwilson7318 Před 4 měsíci +39

    I’ve also noticed a lot of oofy doofy couples that the overall unattractive guy who managed to get an attractive woman he is almost always legitimately tall.
    Ive seen seen several examples of this where some 6’2”+ guy might be a 5/10 facially or slightly overweight (not morbidly obese, but around 25% body fat) but he has a legit 8/10 girlfriend with a pretty face and nice body.
    These men may also have money and other social accolades we don’t know about, but that just goes to show you how much women some women value a man’s height over other physical attributes.

    • @foschnizzle
      @foschnizzle Před 4 měsíci +1

      I feel like Frank Kaminsky and Ashley Brewer are this. Little exaggerated example but not far off

    • @seventhkeyomegasghost8233
      @seventhkeyomegasghost8233 Před 4 měsíci

      I see it in the gym. Another "self-improvement" fail.

    • @kevinwilson7318
      @kevinwilson7318 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 Are you talking about ugly tall dudes trying to get a better physique at the gym?

    • @JiggerjoggernoHGer
      @JiggerjoggernoHGer Před 4 měsíci

      He could maybe just be a sub 5 tallcel who’s ripped but has nice innocent eyes idk… it can happen.. I’m a tall guy but I have nice deep set piercing eyes so it works sometimes I’m no chad obviously never will be never have been.

    • @kevinwilson7318
      @kevinwilson7318 Před 4 měsíci

      @@JiggerjoggernoHGer how tall are you?
      … and have you ever been able to get Stacie’s from your height alone?
      Sometimes I see legitimately tall men (6’2”+) with normie faces who have stacey girlfriends. If it wasn’t for their height those girls probably wouldn’t be into them am I wrong?

  • @gamerword2350
    @gamerword2350 Před 4 měsíci +35

    Another point that doesn't get mentioned that often is how there are more attractive women than attractive men as girls have an advantage in looks since they can get away with more features than guys can. So sometimes due to a shortage of chads, women will have no choice but to date down unless they're ok with being alone until the end of their days

    • @Badger8200
      @Badger8200 Před 4 měsíci +11

      In my experience women would rather be alone then date down or wait for Chad to come along.
      Even older women will not date down. Across or above only.

    • @gamerword2350
      @gamerword2350 Před 4 měsíci +14

      @@Badger8200 It goes both ways really. There's a a reason why normies always say, "I know a guy! 🤓", because many women do settle down because passing away alone isn't something to look forward to but it's purely a business deal. There's no love in those relationships.

    • @cliffchampion5501
      @cliffchampion5501 Před 2 měsíci

      You forget women have all kinds of enhancements to excel their beauty so they cheat everyday. Men don’t have these advantages there are a lot less actual beauty gorgeous women than you think under the make up and hair extensions.

    • @Dimllll773
      @Dimllll773 Před 23 dny

      Cuz 2 things that torpedoes m'en looks is height and balding which they have lil control over... And are super important

  • @Wack-rp9nz
    @Wack-rp9nz Před 4 měsíci +62

    Or if she got pumped and dumped, and cheated on too many times by Chad. At her lowest she might go out with Oofy Doofy, but eventually she'll snap out of it and go back to Chad.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  Před 4 měsíci +16

      Spot on man! Lol

    • @FloppaTheBased
      @FloppaTheBased Před 4 měsíci +12

      I was that guy once. Absolutely brutal experience I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy

    • @chrisruth7057
      @chrisruth7057 Před 4 měsíci +2

      ​@@ascended266Woman where definitely less shallow back in the 90s the guys we're actually a bit more shallow back then but now woman are definitely more shallow or most but not all of them cause true love is still out there but it's definitely more uncommon now

    • @kl7514
      @kl7514 Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@chrisruth7057no such thing as "true love"... The only people that will love you unconditionally are your parents, siblings, and children... And even that's up for debate

    • @chrisruth7057
      @chrisruth7057 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@ascended266I know in the 1950s & 60s women we're way less shallow by a country mile cause men dated up & woman definitely dated down cause woman didn't have as much rights so they were much more humble actually too humble which was unfortunate cause men we're controlling & manipulating women back in those days so dating was a absolute field day for being a guy way back then but now it's almost the complete opposite at least with dating but not in the work force were men still have more power

  • @Gostintheshadows
    @Gostintheshadows Před 4 měsíci +11

    You will always be known as chadlite in my heart

  • @normanosborn1277
    @normanosborn1277 Před 2 měsíci +6

    As a Millennial, I could observe that, even back in those piece-of-shit years (late 2000's), girls already discriminated against unattractive and low-status guys, making negative comments about their socioeconomic position, ethnicity, skin color, and facial features; at the same time, these unfounded, blue-pilled beliefs regarding the so-called importance of "p3r50naleetee" were rampant.
    Man, I hated that era and I'm glad it has been flushed down the toilet.

  • @Wack-rp9nz
    @Wack-rp9nz Před 4 měsíci +27

    Also the guy might be slightly below average but he's tall.

    • @FloppaTheBased
      @FloppaTheBased Před 4 měsíci +10

      height halo is definitely a thing

    • @nicholasrodriguez4990
      @nicholasrodriguez4990 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Facts height can save a mediocre face or even below average face it’s insane + style/sex appeal like tattoos,muscles,jewellery,swagy dressing, groomed beard, fade Hair cut etc

  • @caloFi
    @caloFi Před 3 měsíci +4

    I think race has a lot to do with it as well. Generally if women date out of their race the man is typically attractive, but staying in race she excuses more of the looks. Just what i’ve observed.
    Also Nichemaxxing is huge for 5s. A women would flat out reject a 7 for not having the same interest but would accept a 5 that is in the same interests

  • @sgs8747
    @sgs8747 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Great video and agree with the examples you gave.
    Another consideration is that imo most oofy doofy couples are not true oofy doofy couples when you look at true SMV.
    For instance, the 5/10 in looks guy dating a 8/10 is not an oofy doofy if say he is the school’s starting Running Back. The status boosts him way up SMV-wise.
    To me a true oofy doofy would be say a 5/10 guy making average money and average status organically dating a 8/10 babe. Those are a lot rarer.

  • @masteryoda498
    @masteryoda498 Před 4 měsíci +37

    The Oofy Doofy theory is a massive cope.
    Unattractive men rarely attract beautiful women, in fact unattractive/ugly men attract NO vvomen.
    Bluepillers falsely claim that they often see ugly men with attractive vvomen, this a lie, yes sometimes ugly men get lucky, but it’s the exception, not the rule, and in 99.99% of cases, said Oofy Doofy man is rich$$$$.
    And if Oofy Doofy couples were common place (they’re not), why do people say things like “what does she see in him?”, or “how did he get her?”, if Oofy Doofy couples were common and looks wasn’t an issue, people wouldn’t make comments like that. The reason people make comments like the ones above, is because Oofy Doofy couples are an anomaly.
    Also in couples where the woman is way more attractive than the man, there is a massive power imbalance in that relationship, in the sense that the more attractive partner has all the power.
    Great video, greetings from Australia 🇦🇺.

    • @TwistedLullabies
      @TwistedLullabies Před 4 měsíci +10

      Also most people can't rate women accurately

    • @masteryoda498
      @masteryoda498 Před 4 měsíci

      @@TwistedLullabies
      That's hard to say, because it's a subjective topic, because "what's one mans food, is another mans poison".

    • @TwistedLullabies
      @TwistedLullabies Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@masteryoda498 Looks are objective

    • @masteryoda498
      @masteryoda498 Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@TwistedLullabies
      How can they be?, once again "what's one mans food, is another mans poison".

    • @TwistedLullabies
      @TwistedLullabies Před 4 měsíci +11

      @@masteryoda498 You can't be blackpilled and deny the objectivity of looks

  • @basselalkhatib1324
    @basselalkhatib1324 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Looks aside , Imo social connections are the most important factor to becoming socially attractive to people and maybe to a wide range of women after their early 20s

    • @notsojharedtroll23
      @notsojharedtroll23 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Yep, mere exposure effect

    • @Dimllll773
      @Dimllll773 Před 23 dny

      I think skills/talents are more important
      Ppl Will gravitate towards u and ull get a social circle that way
      ive seen regular dudes have real pull cuz they were amazing at something cool like snowboard, skateboard, singing, dancing, drawing....

  • @jasonp3431
    @jasonp3431 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Hitting the hard topics I like it.

  • @222333aaaaaa
    @222333aaaaaa Před 2 měsíci +1

    These are very insightful vids. I will definitely be subscribing and watching more.

  • @kingbucketz182
    @kingbucketz182 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Good looking guys can’t even date women on their looks level without having a lot of other things going on.
    You wanna date the best of the best? The as a man you need to be a triple threat. Handsome, rich, and well known.

    • @thenewjord50
      @thenewjord50 Před 25 dny

      It's easier said than done if you don't have talent

  • @psychoticninja100
    @psychoticninja100 Před 4 měsíci +6

    These couples are getting rarer but they still exist. Generally speaking it’s usually for security/stability on the woman’s end. Often times the guy is getting walked all over, or if he has more self respect and doesn’t allow that she is still shit testing him left and right about everything. It’s also depending on where you live, for example I live down south in the United States, and this kind of couple is actually more common here than probably in other places. A lot of overweight “dad bod”, blue collar kind of guys with absolutely gorgeous women that are just dating them for stability and to take advantage of the cultural aspect of the man “pays all the bills” which is still very common belief down here, and which these guys are happy to adhere to as long as they get to keep this gorgeous woman. A notable “oofy doofy” couple imo is Jelly Roll and his wife. He is easily sub 5 (mostly due to weight, and the ugly face tattoos), and his wife is easily an 8, they came out a while back and talked about how they have an “open marriage” jee I wonder whose idea that was? Lol

  • @The_First_Sean
    @The_First_Sean Před 4 měsíci +8

    Shiet that was you in the Pic with that girl, ahh dude so you've gotten an experience of Chad's life, that's great for you man👌

  • @Shiro642
    @Shiro642 Před 4 měsíci +7

    They honestly don’t find us attractive, only maybe 15% . So of course if she wants children, she will “settle” for her looksmatch.
    My sister who has multiple kids and near 45, is always eyeing the younger guys she wish she had. Eyeballing a 20 yearold chadriguez one time. Even younger than her kids !!
    So yes she settled for you. Mind you her husband is at least a 6.5 imo. Prob even a chadlite

    • @Aright231
      @Aright231 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Can you think of cases in which the guy is settling for a girl and is eyeing other women? Guy settling for his looksmatch I mean

  • @Variability11
    @Variability11 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Your channel is so enjoyable to me

  • @thiagodemartin2698
    @thiagodemartin2698 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Could you make a video about your online Dating profile and what pictures to use? Would be very interesting to see

  • @system3335
    @system3335 Před 4 měsíci +2

    as i was listening to this i saw an ooft Doofy couple in the supermarket

  • @Therealmattchong
    @Therealmattchong Před 4 měsíci +4

    You’re a handsome guy. At least a 7/7.5 in the face.
    Height and body puts you in the Chad range.
    And yes, dating 9/9.5s is fun but they tend to have less of a personality than the 8.5s and 8s x

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks man! I appreciate it. Yeah, that makes sense that they would have less of a personality in most cases.

    • @321cv56
      @321cv56 Před 4 měsíci

      Your getting old expecially ur yt so u age fast find a partner before then​@@ascended266

  • @shvcked996
    @shvcked996 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Dbdr mentioned!!!!

  • @Facecel_
    @Facecel_ Před 4 měsíci

    I plan on getting more leaner again but I know it won’t help me pull women , so I feel like not doing it at all , currently I can see a vein in my lower abs but I know it can be more visible if I lose more weight , but I’ve been leaner before and it never helped me get matches on tinder or anything, so idk, I feel like letting myself become obese

  • @Dino-Savage
    @Dino-Savage Před 4 měsíci +2

    I live in a retirement town and I see a lot of oofy doofy couples.

  • @GrandChallenger-bd8yf
    @GrandChallenger-bd8yf Před 4 měsíci +1

    Question: how many 8s and 9s males, do you meet on daily basis? :D

  • @Nick2quickOfficial
    @Nick2quickOfficial Před 4 měsíci +7

    If you need money to get a girl then she doesn't really like you.

  • @nigeldonaldson1647
    @nigeldonaldson1647 Před 4 měsíci

    you did answer my question eventually, I assume that's not you in those photographs, it's often the case that above average looking females do come from educated middle class family's(*which doesnt help if as him you don't, she's even more of a mountain to climb) the middle classes tend to believe, that they have "breeding" they are from a lineage of 5-6 generations of money & sometimes power, making them snobby

  • @jennerrr
    @jennerrr Před 4 měsíci +14

    good content man, would be interested to see what you think about my videos? I like your stuff and we have a similar story of losing weight and looksmaxxing so seeing both sides of the coin

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  Před 4 měsíci +4

      Thanks man! I will check out your content. I'm glad that you can relate and have been through the weight loss grind!

    • @tendiie
      @tendiie Před 4 měsíci +2

      You guys should collab

  • @MichaTheLight
    @MichaTheLight Před 2 měsíci

    15:50 Right niche maxing can be an option. But you must invest a lot and the gains are mediocre.

  • @nigeldonaldson1647
    @nigeldonaldson1647 Před 4 měsíci +1

    It's likely that it's about admiration, and of course what he can offer her, especially for every day people that arent rich & famous, to her thinking.
    Your example of Beyonce, ive seen some images of her where she's NOT necessarily that attractive, this Jayzee to my eye they are a little alike, almost like sister & brother, ("& of course they are both musicians) ive heard theory's that sub conciously Women can choose men that remind them of their relatives i.e Ronnie Reagan's wife Nancy resembled his mother quite a lot, Arnies ex wife had the same square jaw he had etc

  • @jrd3675
    @jrd3675 Před 2 měsíci

    There's always a caveat in these situations.

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 Před 24 dny

    I'm not a fan of celebrity examples. They're in a world of their own. Even the looks matched couples are mostly PR constructed. And in Jay-Z and Beyonce's case, it was a calculated business decision; which they themselves have openly talked about. Their entire relationship is it's own brand. The term, "power couple" was formed from their union. In real life, sometimes, it's just right place, right time, right people.

  • @liberalartsguy2982
    @liberalartsguy2982 Před měsícem

    I work at Disney world and I see thousands of guest every week. When I do see a lot of ofy Dofy couples. I’ll ask them how long have you been together and they say years and imo the guy used to be attractive and he let himself go especially when they have kids. I can say there are a few exceptions. But sadly you need to be handsome to get your foot in the door.

  • @federico1544
    @federico1544 Před 4 měsíci +1

    It doesn't matter, because the lifestyle you can offer her thanks to your status and money wont make a woman feel attracted to you. Only good looks can generate genuine attraction

  • @mrzackattack261
    @mrzackattack261 Před měsícem

    Dan B is above average
    Strong jawline and good physique

  • @crawler561
    @crawler561 Před 4 měsíci +1

    For me oofy doofy is also a guy with his looksmatch but his looksmatch os interested in chad and tries to belittle and cheat on oofy doofy

  • @romansantos2323
    @romansantos2323 Před 4 měsíci +5

    lots of head canon in this video as usual with your vids also a 7 dating an 8 or a 5 dating a 6 is not offy doofy its regular people usually date up or down buy a bit whether it be men or women

    • @andikrause399
      @andikrause399 Před 4 měsíci +6

      women settle when they have to

    • @jzmnmrh0009
      @jzmnmrh0009 Před 4 měsíci +3

      ​@@andikrause399
      Most people are settling since their ideal is either out of their league or unattainable/ doesn't exist. Ideally, I'd like to have 3 girlfriends who worship me 24/7 but that would be unrealistic for my current state so I'm settling for being single 😂

    • @kl7514
      @kl7514 Před 3 měsíci

      Getting your looksmatch is now oofy doofy

  • @bomsbravo
    @bomsbravo Před 3 měsíci +1

    Which diamontion are you from? This doesn't happen in our universe. Here both attractive and unattractive women go for good looking men here.

  • @SzymoniX005
    @SzymoniX005 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Chadlite is it you?

  • @nigeldonaldson1647
    @nigeldonaldson1647 Před 4 měsíci +1

    "He had a face like a rat" ha ha ha are you sure he wasnt one?
    How do you rate your own looks? I'm NOT being sarcastic, I also believe that where as there are the one's that go for the...less attractive guy's this is an exception, not a rule, there doesnt seem to be much evidence to suggest other wise.
    We are STILL in the year 2024 shown what ideal features should look like be it - fashion models Hollywood actors, often musicians & athletes because looks sell.
    We NEVER see average to what's considered ugly people in the public eye much, because they DON'T sell

  • @westernsellers9148
    @westernsellers9148 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Remove the make up and shes 2 points above him

  • @Tbatbatba88
    @Tbatbatba88 Před 4 měsíci

    💯💯

  • @cyberpunkalphamale
    @cyberpunkalphamale Před 4 měsíci

    Take away this guy's "objectively" macro.

  • @123pb
    @123pb Před 4 měsíci +1

    Video was too long -more of a 12 minute rant would be better. Also grown men do say "goofy doofy"

  • @Jj-mu6hg
    @Jj-mu6hg Před 2 měsíci +2

    You’re definitely an 8 lol

  • @docentTeofilFiutt-jh4mr
    @docentTeofilFiutt-jh4mr Před 4 měsíci +2

    Agree, but every girl becomes a sub5 in her late 20’s, so they don’t look better than their oofy doofies at that time.

    • @univuniveral9713
      @univuniveral9713 Před 3 měsíci

      Help me, to the best of your knowledge, who is the inventor of the word oofy-doofy?

    • @cookiegirl891
      @cookiegirl891 Před 12 hodinami

      Anyways. No the fuck we don’t

  • @The_First_Sean
    @The_First_Sean Před 4 měsíci +2

    Shiet that was you in the Pic with that girl, ahh dude so you've gotten an experience of Chad's life, that's great for you man👌

  • @The_First_Sean
    @The_First_Sean Před 4 měsíci +1

    Shiet that was you in the Pic with that girl, ahh dude so you've gotten an experience of Chad's life, that's great for you man👌

  • @The_First_Sean
    @The_First_Sean Před 4 měsíci +2

    Shiet that was you in the Pic with that girl, ahh dude so you've gotten an experience of Chad's life, that's great for you man👌

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  Před 4 měsíci +2

      Yep! I've been on both sides of the coin: The subhuman basement and the penthouse lol

    • @IbrahimHassanDayTrade
      @IbrahimHassanDayTrade Před 2 měsíci

      @@ascended266based