I'll never forget what a bartender told me: "nightclubs are where the majority stand around the minority genetic lottery winners hooking up with one another"
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You're not wrong lol I think high tier normies and Chadlites can definitely do well also but it's obviously much easier to meet women on Tinder and in nighclubs as a Chad.
Yes, nightclubs from my experience are definitely the most hostile environment with trying to get through the crowd especially on the dance floor. Couple this with heavy drinking and it's a recipe for disaster lol
Depends what countries you're in. I went out 1-2 nights per week in a bunch of countries in Asia and basically never saw a fight. Places with more white and black people may have more fights.
Well, people have been seriously injured and killed in fights at nightclubs. Women have smashed glasses in men's faces for refusing to buy them drinks. Nothing good comes out of these places.
as a girl who went clubbing a lot in my late teens, i felt second hand embarrassment to all the girls and guys who were throwing themselves to different people, and constantly taking pictures to show off. the club is literally where people with little to no self-worth who need constant validation go to
Some cases it may be true but I want to go where the party🎉 is at ain’t nothing wrong with having a good time these guys have no energy and are just bitter there not being approached by women
As a guy who spent years transforming himself from a skinny, insecure weakling into a man with a physique like Thor and the charisma of Tony Stark, who somehow got rejected and went home alone every night, hearing that girls were throwing themselves at any guy they could find is confirmation that no matter what I do, girls will never be attracted to me, no matter how little sense it makes.
As a sub5 myself, I wish I had been blackpilled a lot earlier. It would have saved me a lot of embarrassment (and $$$) and made me feel better knowing that it wasn't my personality, and that it was more because I'm a 5'4" manlet with a 3/10 face (with gymmaxxing and good social skills).
Yeah, it took me until I was almost completely bald to really see the blackpill for what it is. Having looksmaxxed over the years, I really see it for how it is. I'm glad you can come to peace with knowing that it wasn't your personality and just your looks. Thanks for watching man!
Same. The experience of being a sub-5 introverted male while constantly having your friends scold you saying that the reason women exhibit hostility towards you is because of your “bad vibe” or “lack of charisma” is extremely demoralizing. So glad I discovered that it was never my fault all along.
@@ascended266 The clubbing scene in 2023 is completely inexistent. Gone are the disco days of the 70's and 80's. I'm in my fifties and I vividly remember those times, clubgoers were relaxed, out to have fun and ONS were aplenty. All you needed was a slim/athletic body some swag + dancing skills. I think the mesmerizing disco beat had something to do with it.
Up until around the late 90’s to early 2000’s the old saying “there is someone for everyone” was pretty true. That has certainly changed in recent times. Technology is now influencing the evolution of the human race. This is unsustainable as a species.
Yeah, technology such as Instagram and dating apps have definitely made dating much harder for 95% of men. My parents used to say that all the time. In their day, I think it was true for the most part. There was way less competition back then.
Seeing as how there's 106 men to every 100 women in the 18 to pre middle age bracket, saying "there's someone for everyone" _literally_ isn't true. I said this to a boomer relative one time. The reply I got? A 10 second pause followed by "well, there's someone for everyone."
@@ascended266 And hookups were somewhat stigmatized. Let's make very clear that it's women who have pushed, advocated and brought to life the ONS culture.
100% TRUE !! i remember my cousin who's in spain saying stories how he saw F ugly guys with drop dead gorgeous women, because some drop dead gorgeous women trully didnt look at the looks of the guys. and i have to say i just experienced how it was before the rampage of facebook and tinder , when tinder first came out... dear lord it was easy to get laid or get a date but it changed FAST ! you saw pretty girls dating with me, to no girl wanting me anymore. im a pretty good looking myself id say not dropdead handsome but good looking. yet i have difficulties to get a date on tinder, unless superlikes. but yeah trust me, before facebook, tinder and ALSO !!! videos !!! i heard even before mobile cameras that women were P R O M I S C U O U S , i know some guy who had his stories when he grew up, he litterally hooked up with his neighborhood girl after a 5minute talk. in the club you could talk with a girl for 5 minutes and do the deed. heck no one knows you, and thats what the girls are afraid of. they want to do the deed also, but they are afraid that they get SL.T shamed. trust me, if you are in a hotel you'd be surprised how many girls want to have a hookup when no one knows her and she knows there is no one from het country or region in the hotel. my god u'd be surprised!! i remember one time in a hotel, i saw 2 girls very girly doing some tourist trips together for a week, the one girl stayed a few days longer in the hotel. There was a small dance club downstairs and she was dancing with no panties if you know what i mean.. she knew she could get away with it. that was righhhttt before the first phones with camera's. girls havent changed at all. if you want a girl, she needs to have an excuse to come to your place. Hey i have a nice pool in my garden you wanne see? i even got laid saying on a hot day ! my god im sweating i really need to take a shower now! can you wait for me at my home? (if the girl is interested in you...trust me any excuse will do but SUBTLE!!! don't say hey wanne come and cuddle on my bed?)
I really getting in a bar fight with a guy and he assaulted me first and tried to put me in a head lock. I beat his ass pretty bad and I can remember women attacking me (including his gf)… they were screaming at me. Now they didn’t intervene when he was attacking me. People were cheering him on until I kicked his ass. I had to flee the bar because the cops came but I can remember peopke screaming “he ran that way to police”… I hate bars or clubs because I hate getting in fights. I have been bullied at every bar iv been to. I don’t even have to talk to anyone there to receive that treatment.
Damn, that's a pretty cool story. Good for you for standing your ground and taking it to him. Bars and clubs can be pretty brutal if you're not that attractive or stand out in a way that's different than the city you're in.
@@ascended266 yeah I don’t miss going to those places. Plus you run the risk of one of these fights and getting hurt or really hurting someone or worse. Or you worry about blowing your entire paycheck or a dui. It’s just not worth it as the ROI is pretty shitty or a big fat 0.
Yep! It's probably the hardest place to meet women if you're not good looking. Literally almost any other place would give you a better chance than nightclubs.
Exactly. You gotta be above average looking, and even THEN, you gotta operate VERY quickly or she'll lose interest. Women have attention spans of a gnat in this environment. Oh, and her friends better approve or absolutely NOTHING will happen.
The club was amazing before smartphones. Me, and my bros use to go to college clubs, and hookup every weekend in the mid 2000s. Back then looks did not matter as much because more people went to the clubs than today, and no one wanted to go home alone. I was a 7 at best in my 20s. I hear from younger guys I work with that clubs are awful now unless you look like chad. So pretty much they are the live action version of tinder by what I hear.
Yeah, I could see how this was the case back then. In nightclubs, almost everyone is on their phones and taking pictures, videos and snapchats and it's harder as a guy to break through all of that noise.
Mid-2000s was something else man 😔 clubbing was still good, more social people, no smart phones, no social media, girls wore tight clothes and were overall skinnier, and I still had friends to watch UFC with
I think ugly men as a rule, have to watch their back. If you ar ugly and go to a club, you will be rejected, but by that point in your life, most ugly men would be used to that. As an ugly man, I get all kinds of bad attention from women. On about 5 different occasions, I have had women cold approach me for money. The best one was, I just parked my car in front of my store. I had not yet walked 10 feet from my car and some female landwhale asked me for money "so she could get something to eat from Jack in the Box". At this point, I just pretend not to even hear women, when they ask for things. I also like the sense of entitlement. Did she think because I was some ugly guy, no gf around, I would be so flattered to get female attention I would just hand her some money? No thanks. One of my hobbies (if you can call it that) is to drive to a less populated part of town and take a long walk. Its quiet and I use that time as "meditation time". Then I get a coffee, sit in my car and listen to a podcast. I parked in front of the library, it was a Sunday and no one else was there. Some random woman comes up to my car window and threatens to stab my eyes, unless I give her a ride. Why would I let a violent woman or person into my car. It was time to leave, so I did. Remember, the odds are stacked against you if you are ugly. Even if you are rich / successful, no one wants to look at an ugly face. I guess if a woman can rationalize dating a rich / ugly man, because she can distract herself with expensive dinners and receive gifts, so she can have some way to keep her mind off of how ugly his face is. I remember in college, there was this one professor. He was short, bald and ugly. He loved to talk about how handsome he was ( he as the only person who thought so). He was so "handsome" he would try to flirt with the college women, offering to buy them things ( I guess even Chad professor has to money max) even then women rejected him......... Yeah, you need a lot of money to hide that ugly face.
I can relate to the negative attention as a sub 5 male. I'll definitely cover that in future videos. It's great that you have a hobby in walking. One of my biggest hobbies is walking and hiking. It clears your mind from everything that is going on in your life and you get to spend time in nature. In nature, you can really separate yourself from life for a bit and it's a healthy hobby as well. I think your professor was trying to play the "Mr. Funny man game" by claiming to be handsome knowing well enough that's he not in an attempt to try and attract the women in the class. More power to him I guess lol thanks for binge watching my videos man! I definitely appreciate it.
Coming from a ex Chad Lite (Chad in college due to 1+ through status) and now a Mental Cell (PTSD, Depression), who has been through "both the sides", take it from me - "meditation" (psycho existential practices) are more eqanimous than getting girls. Getting girls, especially today, is immensely turbulent - most of them are mentally a child, think life is "easy" (by easy, it means make up, fun and eventually a prince charming will marry you - they actually believe that), and have some kind of unaddressed mental illness (ADHD) and additions. Their low self esteem (even beautiful girls have that - because there can only be "one" most beautiful, and they are constantly comparing themselves with the media idol) gives them inflated sense of entitlement. It's like dealing with a monster with a child brain trapped in the body of a hot girl that hypnotized you - you cant help but overcome with lust, but somehow you know this is not the "solution". You will be better off studying existential literature and philosophy (dialectal materialism), and certain mediation practices (32 body parts meditations), than being in an endless competitive mode of looks - which eventually everyone will lose (get mogged by younger men). You can anyways get "back" to the sexual market while doing these practices simultaneously - so just to have a comparison between the kind of gross vs refined pleasure the two realms offer. I think the main problem in our men circles that, fine, now we know we aren't getting infinite supply of Stacys. Now what? There could be more refined and sophisticated ways to live than just "cope hobbies". That should be now the focus of men help circles imho
Since I live near nature, I love to go on a bike ride through the forest. Its so amazing to see how the trees and plants change during seasons. I dont know what I would do without nature.
Excellent video. I agree with the points you raised. Some men and women will often go out of their way to be rude to average looking and below average looking men. Not just at nightclubs either. You can be in various social settings and actually feel a change in atmosphere. I m only applying this to average Western men living in the West by the way. I ve lived in Asia and three Western countries. In Asia, no problem at all ever as an average Western man. Being an average or below average man in USA or Australia now is really shit, and can even be dangerous. You can be singled out for attention. The attitude is "wtf are you doing here" ? Men do not imagine these things, it's real.
Thanks man! I've always wondered what it's like dating in Australia. It seems like it's not the easiest place to date. I definitely want to travel there at some point though.
I stopped going to bars after that one night because it was blackpilling and upsetting. Also bring brutalized by women and being called a creep for asking for a woman’s phone number. I haven’t been to a bar or club in 6 years.
@@ascended266 yeah I escortmaxx and think that is better although currently not the most sustainable unless I do it once a month. On the upside i lost my virginity at like 28. I’m 34 now and still doing it, with my old job I could afford to do it every weekend lol.
Night clubs are a big waste of time, I have never been to one before but I know its just a place women go for attention and an ego boost..Also when women see tgat you ar that "thirsty" guy who is just approaching women they will reject you.
Yeah, you're not missing a lot. They can be incredibly expensive, they are super loud and not the best environment overall. The only times I go now are once in a blue moon when I'm on vacation or if it's someone's birthday.
Best place to meet women is at work. If they get to know you a little bit, then you have an advantage of asking them out, or they can ask you out. At clubs nobody knows you so why would a girl risk herself going home with someone especially where trafficking can happen. I would say I had been asked out multiple times at work, but i do decline anyways just cuz i like being by myself.
Another one of these videos. Tbh, I think clubbing is fun! You don’t have to go with the intention of meeting someone. Just hit the dance floor and rage.
i agree with you man when i goto clubs i just go there and dance all the time and i have a super fun time with friends and random pople, all the rest is useless
Yes, anyone telling you that they no longer take rejection “personally” is 1000% lying. That shit hurts and will eventually destroy you and remove any motivation to live anymore.
20 years ago I went with my buddy multiple times a week to night clubs. I must have danced with at least 300 women in 8 months. Almost never did I get a phone number, and rarely made out with woman. Even if she was grinding me and making out with me then I would get ditched. They would walk away right after the dance or after talking to them for outside a short time after the dance. Was 6'3, 175 lbs, white, probably 7/10 looks. Picked up mostly 6's & 7's and some 8's. I failed 99% of the time, even my 1% where a half way failures. My friend however probably 5'10, 8/10, would get chicks regularly. Never knew what the fuck was so bad about me that almost no girls would never give me a chance. I guess I wasn't exciting enough, couldn't hold an interesting conversation, maybe came off lame. That or most girls just go to the club to dance and get male validation nothing more. It's weird though because I got a girlfriend from a woman who approached me at a nightclub, as well a date from my friends girlfriends cousin from a nightclub. Both of them were 6/10. All that matter too them was my looks in those cases, they didn't know me.
Yeah, nightclubs are tough! You should feel blessed that you're 6'3 and 7/10 in looks. That's a great situation to have. As for your friend, sometimes that extra point in looks can do wonders.
@@ascended266 Height cope, 5 inches shorter and he is doing way better, what does that tell you. The OP also probably added 'extra points' because he imagined his height made a difference to his face, so his true rating is probably wrong.
Makes sense but it also sounded like you were only into their looks too? XD.. The pot calling the kettle black... but devil's advocate aside... It's men that are [sometimes] the unique ones... all women are essentially the same outside of looks here and there and they all fraud so............ I'm a 5'10 chad
Hey @chadlite! I think your videos are very good and I enjoy the professionality of your channel, unlike many other blackpillers. I hope you can gain more subscribers and views.
i dont go to clubs often but when i go i just go to reset myself, i dont drink because id ont like alcool i dont think about girls and i just have fun with little money and some friends, every now and then maybe a girl can come close to me but i never try to impresse any of them and usually this type of nights go very well,i have fun, i dont think about everyday stuff and im just not stressed
I wasn’t a clubgoer as much as others were. I didn’t go to clubs every week but only on a certain occasions. Everytime I went to nightclubs, I felt like I don’t get nothing out of being there. 99% of the time I never felt like I belong there at all, so all I got was hurt feelings from girls that didn’t take a chance on me. Most of the girls there were only there for free drinks and being drunk. I was only there to dance with them and that’s it. I only went to the diversity type of nightclubs, so I never felt comfortable going to ghetto nightclubs. The ghetto nightclubs were the clubs where the DJ was just play all of the trashy music from the early 2000s to now stuff. One of the biggest problems is they played nothing but terrible music that I can’t dance to. I try to pretend to like the music but I don’t. This is one of my reasons why I stopping going to nightclubs altogether. Once you hit 25 years of age, you start noticing how stupid half of the things kids do in the clubs. The older you get in the scene, the more people expect you to be their daddy of the group, which isn’t fun. After awhile, you start to feel like you’re babysitting a bunch of kids. Secondly, the nightclubs get boring by there’s a certain point where the songs, the lights and the party action becomes monotonous. There are only so many times you can dance the night away before you begin wondering what else you could be doing. It’s even worse when you realize that you’ve heard the same terrible songs played every single night for the past month or so. Thirdly, When you know all the major promoters and their personal drama, the fun from clubbing can really disappear. Part of why I used to like clubbing is because it was a way to feel like everything was alright, fun and happy in the venue. Boy I was wrong. It can be downright destructive. Fourth, the nightlife can really be very stressful and it’s very expensive because you have to wait in line to get into the clubs by having your ID to make sure you are age appropriate. Fifth, the drama was always there in the nightclubs where men wanna fight over a woman. Really dude! It is not worth it at all. It just ain’t worth dying for! Or the girls don’t wanna dance with you then she wanna give you a fake number to call her. Come on mane! It’s get old real quick dude. Sixth, buying drinks for girls was never my thing or drink at the clubs. It’s not worth the money. Seventh, I used to get ready to go out at 11pm just to get in the club and leave. Dressing up was a hassle and I did that on and off for 6 years, so I can dress up just to impress the girls. Finally, I decided to quit going to nightclubs because it was just a major waste of time and money. I don’t miss the nightclubs at all, so I glad nobody have ask me to go back to that life. I don’t really enjoy it.
You nailed it on the head Blake! Lol overall it's a waste of major time and money for most guys. If this can help some guys save a $20-$50 charge, I hope it does lol
It helped me though…I don’t miss it because I had responsibilities to deal with such as bills. That place is the most hostile environment ever and don’t think I will go back anytime soon. I have been free from that nightclub nightmare for 13 years straight and never look back.
i agree except for once you hit "25 year of age", you feel that way because we inkwells are worthless thre are chads and connected/statusmaxxed guys having private parties and even enjoying their life till their 40's. Only though as long as they are chads of their age or statusmaxxed
Pretty much! In a nightclub, you definitely need to have a certain degree of attractiveness to see any success outside of buying tables and playing the promoter game.
My advice to younger men would be...only go to a club to see a cool band, have a drink or vibe to some good music. Don't go to meet women and don't buy them shit! If you meet someone genuinely, then great...but don't count on it.
@@ascended266 you should make a video about online dating as an average and below average men lol. I think it’s over for average men when it comes to online dating
This is some good info. The Taylor brought to my attention. My short legs for my hight. I measured and it was true.I was forced to be a vegetarian early in my life. So my growth got stunted. I used to try to extend my hight. But with out shoe's I am under 6' or so. Yep if you are shorter you already lost.
In a nightclub, height becomes very important. It sounds like you're about 5'11 so that's a decent height. I'm definitely interested in reading into whether environmental factors such as your diet growing up have an impact on height. Thanks for watching!
Bro just spoke the truth. I’ve been through almost all he described in this video. Always got dirty looks, ignored…. Shit is fucking annoying. Nightclubs are a waste of time period.
As a guy who's spent years building a physique like Thor, a level of charisma and confidence like Tony Stark, and focused on becoming as attractive as possible physically, socially, and emotionally, it's great to hear that I'm getting the same results as guys who are unremarkable in any way, are out of shape, and otherwise haven't dedicated any time whatsoever to improving themselves. When you've worked for years to build a physique with 6 pack abs, 17 inch biceps, and a V-Taper like a Dorito, yet get the same results as fat guys who have dedicated no time whatsoever to improving themselves, I think the universe it trying to tell you something.
I'm the guy who gets picked on all the time by my mates. The worst thing I ever told my mates was that I am a virgin because the rest of the normie friend group has lost their virginity (I'm 21). So now they can see my insecurity and pick up on it and insult me all the time.
Sorry to hear man! I had friends like that in the past that would make fun of me for slightly different reasons. I dropped that friend group and only hang out with good quality people that make you feel good. I can see it was one of the best decisions I made. With friends like that, who need enemies. I'd say don't waste your time with those people. I'd rather have no friends than hang out with people who don't care about you.
@@ascended266 Nah I'd have to disagree. If the only way I can get out and not rot in my room is by going out with a bunch of normie friends who tease me 24/7 I'd take it
Don't waste your time to people like that. They are not your friends. True friendship looks completely different. You have band of brothers supporting each other. Where even chad will stick to and support a sub5
Unless you're rich, famous and good looking - night clubs and going out in general is a waste of time / expensive. I'd rather stay inside and rot. Don't give your money out to these foids, boyos - it's a waste of energy, time and money. With great power, comes great responsibility.
Yeah, you're not wrong. In a nightclub, you really need to either be good looking, rich enough to buy a table or have some sort of status to succeed on a high level.
" pre-jection " That's the word we needed, friggin' brilliant 👏. The story about the short guy with the 20 rejections in one night hit home for me. If you don't like big, loud dance clubs, try small live music clubs; cooler crowd, cheaper drinks, friendly vibe.
Haha thanks Sarge! Yeah, it was brutal to see all those rejections happen to him. Small live music clubs do have a much better vibe, I agree with you there.
Nightclubs s.uck, always have, the drinks are overpriced, they are all sausage fests (too many men, not enough vvomen), dance music is c.rap, and unless you’re a Chad, the chances of you taking a girl home, are NIL. Me personally, I rarely went to nightclubs, I prefer watching live rock music.
Now that sounds like a much better time! I was in New Orleans back in 2018 and went to a jazz bar and it was a really great time. Thanks for watching Richard!
In my college year, i remember girls using me to get their boyfriend jealous. One time it was funny. She knew I was interested in her. So she would come to me where I sit at the party and pretend to laugh at my joke that is not even funny she was faking it. I knew that. And she would go back to her boyfriend who was watching. I was young at the time and i realized how cunning girls can be.
It's good that you experienced this at a young age. I have had a girl use me in a similar way a few times but I was old enough to realize what was going on.
I'm in my early 50's now but in my 20's and 30's I was there every week. For you guys that are going to clubs now here is my advice: 1) Walk in, be confident (like you own the place), do a lap, and stand at the bar facing out. Don't approach anyone. If a woman is interested in you, she will make her way over to you and make it known she would like to have a conversation with you. 2) Keep your money/card in your wallet. Spend it on your boys. Buy some shots, make a little noise. Women wanna know what all the hype is about. Doesn't mean they're gonna come over. Only get bottle service if you're OK with parting with a large amount of money and/or are celebrating something big. 3) DO NOT approach women in groups of 3 or more whether they are at a table, at the bar, dancing, etc. No woman wants to be the one who left the group for a guy because they don't want the backlash/reputation that comes with it. Your chances will increase when a woman is alone or with just 1 friend. 4) Don't go in there with the "dart mentality". "I'm gonna shoot my arrow 50 times but all i need is one bullseye". Women are very observant and can smell your desperation. Just don't. You'll be known as "that guy" if you become a regular at the club. 5) If you're a regular Joe, get there early, but not too early. Less competition. If you're a rockstar, roll in there late. Let 'em think you were at another happening club. 6) Women go to these things to take photos and dance with their girls. The hotter the woman, the more value she gives herself. Maybe lower your standards a bit? Are you going there to find a wife? 7) You're better off at suburban/local clubs. Vegas, New York, Miami, Chicago, LA.... forget it. The only guys these hotties are giving their time to are movie stars, pro athletes, rappers/musicians. Good luck. 8) Try sports bars, lounges, neighborhood bars. Less noise, easier to interact. Much more relaxed environment. 9) Smile, laugh. Look like you're having a good time. Girls don't like creepy guys that stare at 'em like they are a piece of meat. 10) Do not go there with expectations. Nobody owes you anything and you owe nobody anything. Just relax, take it all in, and let the chips fall where they may. If the fish ain't bitin' in this pond, move on to another one. Hope this helps. Good luck.
Every nightclub I've ever been in only played bling rap or crap country at A DEAFENING VOLUME. Never even seen a DJ except in movies & shows. In the depictions I've seen literally all they do is stand there with headphones every once in a while scratching records or twisting knobs onstage. Looks like the easiest job imaginable.
Yeah, the nightclubs that I have been to in past years have mostly played rap and hip hop or EDM. Being a DJ is tough at first but once you get going it's pretty smooth sailing.
I am 21, 6'2 w/ tanned skin (punjabi decent), 7-7.5/10 face (but pont. of 8/10) but 8/10 hyper-masculine blend wise, in Australia. SMV is anywhere from 7.5-8.5. Also, dress very well (f.€kb○y formal). But i got the frame but need more muscle mass, though. Furthermore, I get called Arabic alot, even though I'm Punjabi. I have gotten approached by women in clubs (your hot, your sexy, your cute, women touching/bumping me, friends push there friend into me, etc), women constantly staring at me, get messaged first on dating apps, etc. I barely get rejected by women in clubs, if i do soft rejections like you mentioned. Also, I have gotten with white women (Canadian/Aus), Wog women (Italian/Greek, etc), Arab women (Lebanese/Iraq, etc), Asian women (Philippines/Cambodian, etc) and some other races but forgot.
I have this indian friend who is not that good looking but he is tall and he is able to pull a lot of girls while me as a 6/10 white guy rated by wheat waffles and is average height I cannot pull any girls at nightclubs. I don't know what to do at this point
Well, it's really because the music sucks. You don't get DJs who have dance versions of Motley Crue or LA Guns in their playlists, so the atmosphere is totally pop culture conformity, not strip club. But the smart man uses that to his advantage. Get elegantly wasted on THC and some good tunage before you walk in the door, sip sodas all night, and let horny drunk women hit on you. Don't do the alcohol because it's a depressant and you want to stay well above the swirl.
Lemme put it to you this a-way, if you don't get noticed by chiks when you're out N about or hit on at work, in the club it's gonna be way worse........ once I let my waist measurement creep up to almost 40" and women were very hostile towards me....... however when I recomped down 45 lbs. and my waist went down 9 1/2", I had women cat-calling me whenever I went out for a quick jog after I finished my bodybuilding routine..........
@chadlite6223 I was at 285 and went down to 210 at 6% maybe 8% give or take bodyfat level percentage, they just went GAGA....... I had chiks doin double-takes everytime I was shirtless or in a tank top......... and I'm less than 6' tall 5' 10".......
I never had this problem. Back in the day. When I gave the establishment money. Than the owner gave me beautiful girls. That's history though. I quit clubbing. It's going downhill.
So a weird take on this is I’m trans and if I go to a club I get hit on but Im usually with a friend or never alone Ofcourse because that’s so dangerous. The thing is I love the music and just for that alone…. I never expect to meet anyone serious at a nightclub because I know they all want one thing and plus they don’t even know I’m trans half the time so I’m not going to meet with them and risk getting killed. Another weird thing I herd the other day was this straitish bi guy I met with off a dating app was like nothing on there is transsexuals and you’ll rarely get lucky with a biological woman…. Interesting…. Well it definitely made just turn off my app… I’m not trying to sit here and be like pity fest for me but Omg it’s so hard to even meet a boyfriend in a city like Las Vegas even if you’re pretty it doesn’t matter. Especially if your trans forget it on top of that. They will play with you or play you but not take you seriously at all. So I definitely regret transitioning in the sense of dating etc. it’s a double edged sword and you’re pretty much aligned to be alone forever with no one to help you and experience lots of SA…….. also when you’re pretty other girls will flock to you then you’ll get called over to a man’s table but then he’ll find out your trans and try to hook up with the other girls (I don’t want to hook up anyway) but they want you at the table sometimes to attract other woman. So yes the Chad like men use pretty woman or even hot trans girls that can lure in flocks of women because if a girl sees an attractive women by a man it makes them feel more safe or wonder what he has going on…. From my experience…. Anyway I would use a club just for dancing and feeling cute just to show off my latest outfit on social media or take a photo for that memory and try to enjoy the atmosphere with no expectations at all….. oh I’ve gotten groped by couples and asked to go back for 3 somes and stuff…. But yeah I don’t want to die or catch a disease or be robbed. I just want to say guys don’t be so hard on yourself. Just enjoy yourself!!!!!
Thanks for your perspective Sarina! Yeah, it seems like preselection makes a big difference in Las Vegas. I have dated a few women in Vegas and dating is very difficult there. There are so many attractive people and people are looking for the best of the best. I could see why some guys would want you at their table to bring in other girls.
...ive had nights thrown out of night clubs by bouncers, rejection by ladies, hook-ups and one night stands...waking up in places saying...how did i get here...??? scraps on the dance floor...😂😂
That's part of the game if you're on the prowl. You forgot to add, "I'm with my girlfriend". There's someone for everyone. You have to learn how to maximize your odds because in those environments it's about the laws of percentage. You don't need all the women there. You just need one.
People hate on bars and clubs but they have always been the best way to meet women. They are environments basically designed to be ‘meet markets’. The bitter truth is that if you can’t make it work in these environments then maybe you’re not desirable in general.
I wouldnt 100 percently agree on incel mentality, being sub 5 in high school kinda explained why I was treated thay way. I really did not know why high school was just a let down. I realized it was because i was viewd as sub 5 for many people. But I am not saying it was all bad. But If I was taller and muscular, and more good looking in general i would have had more social life. I was ignored most of times(there was not even sub 5 term), I realized now ( i am not saying it was all because of that but I think it was also racism), maybe nightclub is even worse I think. This channel kinda lets light on this true side( although i do not 100 percent agree on incel ) . And bouncers yes they are there i have seen them. Sometimes men are the worst enemies of other men.
Thanks sung! I definitely try to show the true side around the nature of dating and life without being too negative. In high school, you're mostly judged on your looks and your social group.
@@ascended266 why do you think that it seems like girls get along with each other better than guys do especially when they are sub5? Guys in general end up with no friends. I get why but at the same time I dont know why girls themselves socialize better with each other. Even if they are sub5
what is the point of putting up the photo of good looking dude when talking about your bad looking 5.2 friend at the club? Either put appropriate photos to the story, or do not put anything and confuse people by putting misleading photos
Thanks for pointing this out and for watching! I believe this was an editing mistake I made. I always try to choose a photo to illustrate a point I am trying to make. I think I had a photo for this section but for some reason I must have chosen this video. I will definitely be mindful of that going forward as the last thing I intend to do is mislead people.
Sub 5 in my teens and avg since I looksmaxxed. Definitely concur with a lot of points. I have actually met cool women at lounges and bars where you can actually talk, but for picking up girls, the club is not the best unless you are a chad or you already have a girl going with (ex. Frat dudes bringing women.) In my single days, I have had my fun seeing DJs I specifically went to see or to get lit with friends back in the day, but Beyond that, house parties and lounges would be the best for normies.
Agreed! House parties and lounges are much better for meeting women. It's much easier to strike up and maintain conversations when you can actually hear people.
I highly encourage homosexuality or MGTOW. As a homosexual, you’ll be able to find someone who’ll love you for you. As a MGTOW, you’ll be free from wanting someone, trick is is to not want women at all. I was MGTOW for a long time, best time of my life. Lonely as hell now, coping as TFL. Man I wish were gay.
What you are proposing leads to suicide mate. I suggest to focus on yourself and if you lack of male friends find some (gym, gaming, sport teams, hobbies). Men needs other men more than a women. If you have a good male friends you are going to be ok.
The only way I’m going to a nightclub is if the girl is buying me drinks. Not the other way around. And if she refuses then I’ll ask her to just give me whatever money she has and tell her to piss off
Here is something you kids need to understand. Virtually no one is fuckin girls they meet at the club. Even what y’all call “chads” The fucking that happens is friend group/acquaintance fucking…. That’s totally different
Yeah, the vast majority of the time you're not bringing random girls home from the club but it does happen. You're right though that the majority of the time it's from a friend group.
I am energy sensitive. I can't be around chaotic energy. I visited Austria, years ago, as part of a honeymoon [she went absolutely nuts, I had to divorce her for my own safety] We did the Sound of Music tour, which is nice. We saw the palace in the movie Amadeus. The von Trapp house in the movie had a front from one house, and a back from another house. Nice tour. At one point, the tour guide bemoaned the loss of Jewish merchants- who always had low prices, were great businessmen. There was a concentration camp not far from that area. Over half of SS troops were Austrian. All I could think of, was, well, it's not like your people made Jews feel very welcome, did you... I am so very amused, listening to women ask where all the good men went. Uhh, yeah. The good men go dark, they drop into brush, and vanish from view, as any prey animal would, when a predator is around. Years ago, I went to a martial arts class, in a college town. There were women 30-60 there. All poisonously feminist. And... and... all of them knew that Prince Charming was right around the corner, waiting for the right conjunction of Venus and Mars, to marry them, put them on a $5K/month allowance, buy the big house for them, the vacations in Europe, and to lavish attention on them, despite their constant disrespect for him. They based these on the documentaries they watched- you know, soap operas, Hallmark movies, romance novels, and so on, which are always precisely accurate depictions of real human daily life. And the only reason they didn't have that fairytale life was male oppression. I put on my cloak of invisibility- aka being a beta male- and just listened. I learned much. Of course they later decided that the instructor, a black man, was somehow sexually harassing them during the course. I have spent enough time on VisionQuests and other spiritual stuff that I can lavish love on people, just be turning on the flow. Around those women? Cloak of invisibility. If you need to get rid of a woman fast- just start crying. Works like a charm. Or otherwise act beta- you know, talk about your feelings, just like the feminists tell you. They're gone. I remember a woman about 55 in college- like this- she was desperately dating professors, to find Mr. RIghtWallet. They'd date her, but cut her off after one date. She had a little problem- nuclear waste grade resentment, plus a drinking problem. Oddly enough, Dr. RightWallet was doing his risk assessment. I had no status- just a student assistant- she invited me to dinner, I brought my girlfriend at the time- and Madame Battleaxe got sarcastic, and abusive, to the point we had to leave. THis was like 1981. Women wanted everything men have... now they have it, and they are upset... 1 in 3 women have had an abortion, has an STD... 80% of women consort with 20% of men. 10% of men are 6'1". Women find 80% of men ugly.
My grandmother worked. AT HOME. Monday was wash day. No washing machines; it was done by hand. You had to scrub out stains- by hand. Tuesday was ironing day- with flatirons. It took a while. No mixes back then; you bought your flour and sugar in bulk. In 1944, it cost 8c/lb. Only after WW II did prepackaged mixes come out. Wednesday was mending day- clothes were expensive, they had to be repaired. Thursday was baking day, you baked bread for the week. My grandmother taught, before marrying. Her husband told her he made enough money so she didn't have to work. Which delighted her- this was luxury, not having to work at an outside job. I met them, in the 1960's. Yep, still in love... My gramma was a widow about 1940. She had to work. My father was still young; he had to work, got a dime an hour, to clean off old bricks to be reused- and he said he was glad to get it. My mother made 25c/hour, in a grocery store- she would get flour "from the bottom of the barrel", put it in a bag. My father made 25c/hour as a night watchman. He got into college, at the height of WW II... he wanted all the college he could get, before being drafted. He wasn't drafted. He finished high school in 3 years, and a 4 year degree in 2.5 years. Socialists want everything to be free. Great idea. Native americans had that system. But their tribal villages were deeply mutually supportive, and spiritual... Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels originated socialism... based on studies of the Iroquois... and they COMPLETELY MISSED the spiritual side of Native Americans. In a Dakota village, a prime cut of buffalo meat was put outside the tipi of a widow. Kind of like what happened in the small towns my parents grew up in- a widow known to not have much, would find groceries outside her door, from time to time, because that's just what you did, then. Women wanted to be equal to men. Cool. It's not so much fun, is it? Where are the female bricklayers, plumbers, roofers, etc? Even today's feminists have a plan, though- marry a top 5 percenter, because they are all 10's, even if they are 50 kilograms/110 lbs overweight. The "wage gap" exists- women are paid more than men, for the same work. In the military, women can do half what the men do, and get promoted timely. In Paul Revere's day, life expectancy was 43. First menstruation qualified a woman for marriage- you had to get moving, to have your kids early. VIsit a colonial house museum- we have some in my area- or even civil war era- people worked 6 days a week, often, at least 12 hrs/day. In the 1820's, they had DVD players- aka Shakespeare's plays. Alexis de Tocqueville noted this. American women in the 1950's had a life better than that of 70% of women worldwide. But they decided that women needed men like a fish needed a bicycle. No problem, get down to it, bicycles don't need the fish, either. I do not know any single men over say 35, who has any interest, at all, in a committed relationship with a woman. Single men over 40 that I know avoid women, as the massive risk they are. All that resentment, and false claims, and so on... Men are forced to assess risk. Relationships with women? "Achtung, minen" [Warning, active mine field]. Too many women seem to have completed their BSC degree. B*t Sh*t Crazy. I have never slept around. My first & second wife did play around... I cut them off. Not time for that BS, or for the MS- degree- More of the Same- or the PhD- Piled Higher and Deeper... Modern women are not making men walk away from dating, no no. They are making men RUN away from dating, at top speed, evading fire, and taking cover. Every now and then I speak w/teenagers, or young men in their 20's. They seem to have the idea that oh yes, prenuptial agreements stand up in court, they aren't the 50 meter target on the firing range- for women- the target nobody misses. When I was young, I got older guys, and even women, talking- to learn. I knew I was totally ignorant, and needed to learn. The veterans often had great wisdom, and were willing to share it, with someone who listened. The wedding stores in my area have all gone out of business... if that's not an indicator of issues, I don't know what is. There ARE no soulmates, any more than there is a Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny. There may be compatible ladies, guys, whose minds and hearts aren't totally toxic, but all relationships are imperfect. It's just the way our world is. We live in a world where: Body count is something to boast about. Milage on a car doesn't matter. Rain does not wet the ground. Fish fly a mile high over the ocean. Fast food is nutritious. Poisoning one's soul with hatred and resentment makes a woman far more attractive to the alpha male she wants. Adorning one's body with toxic cosmetics doesn't poison the liver and kidneys. Pouring out hatred and resentment on men makes them want women. Hallmark movies, Soap operas, romance movies, Disney heroines- are all documentaries of how the world works. Yes, Virginia, there really is a Santa Claus, and 20 years of throwing away your value absolutely gets you Mr. Big, just like it happened in Sex and the City, which is also a documentary. But let's make a comparison. Let's imagine a rabid Wolverine, so violent that it has to be caged in a cage made of logs. Would you risk your life, to be around such a creature? Maybe not. I don't play with poisonous snakes. When I was young, I was allowed to play with tiger kittens, but even then, I had no idea to be in the same space as adult tigers. Yes, lady, there are creepy people out there, and you are among them. The Romans used to line the Appian way with the bodies of crucified men, as an object lesson. Divorce courts perform the same function, in our society.
Out of curious, what made it bad in your opinion? Did you a mean hot streak of good videos or bad videos? I'm genuinely curious from a creator standpoint. Looks are what get your foot in the door. I won't deny that personality matters. It just matters after a woman is already attracted to you. If they aren't at least somewhat attracted to you, you won't have a chance to really show your personality.
@@ronaldlugo9967 The one time I went to a club I bought my own drink. No sure what the hell you're talking about. I wouldn't want a man pushing me because he bought me a drink.
@banyana6515 I'm responding to your original comment about men feeling entitled for play just for buying drinks & I say lost of wn expect free drinks just for existing.
Why else would a guy buy a drink? Since you women feel coerced by the slightest thing, I am gonna clarify that nobody is forcing you to open your legs, because someone bought you a drink. However in return, you should atleast give him a chance to see where things go, assuming that you accepted his request. But if you are sure, you'll never fall for him, then just reject it. If you are one of these women who would disappear afterwards, then every negative judgement of you by other people is deserved.
I liked going to the club just because it was fun. I new I wasn't going to get any girls because I already don't in real life. Whenever I went to the club I would have such a fun time because I was care free. Sometimes a girl would grind on me but it was really rare.
I'll never forget what a bartender told me: "nightclubs are where the majority stand around the minority genetic lottery winners hooking up with one another"
That bartender is a smart man! Lol
Bartender said Welcome to the jungle
just brilhant remark
That’s accurate af
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Clubs and Tinder have 1 common rule : If you not a Chad don't waste your time and money.
You're not wrong lol I think high tier normies and Chadlites can definitely do well also but it's obviously much easier to meet women on Tinder and in nighclubs as a Chad.
Even chads struggle in Tinder.
@@Diego-uo3gicope
Extra point: It's dangerous when you are surrounded by drunk people, so you are more likely to be in violent encounters.
Yes, nightclubs from my experience are definitely the most hostile environment with trying to get through the crowd especially on the dance floor. Couple this with heavy drinking and it's a recipe for disaster lol
@@ascended266 And guys in competition mode trying to get girls.
Depends what countries you're in. I went out 1-2 nights per week in a bunch of countries in Asia and basically never saw a fight.
Places with more white and black people may have more fights.
@@-whackd 'Cause rice men are low-T.
Well, people have been seriously injured and killed in fights at nightclubs. Women have smashed glasses in men's faces for refusing to buy them drinks. Nothing good comes out of these places.
as a girl who went clubbing a lot in my late teens, i felt second hand embarrassment to all the girls and guys who were throwing themselves to different people, and constantly taking pictures to show off. the club is literally where people with little to no self-worth who need constant validation go to
I agree with you as a guy trying to be more mature. Being mature is attractive in a woman, adult conversations and such.
Yes! This is very true. Say it louder for the people in the back.
Some cases it may be true but I want to go where the party🎉 is at ain’t nothing wrong with having a good time these guys have no energy and are just bitter there not being approached by women
As a guy who spent years transforming himself from a skinny, insecure weakling into a man with a physique like Thor and the charisma of Tony Stark, who somehow got rejected and went home alone every night, hearing that girls were throwing themselves at any guy they could find is confirmation that no matter what I do, girls will never be attracted to me, no matter how little sense it makes.
Not for men. Only women do that. Men go there because they are lonely.
Nightclubs are the worst. Loud awful music. You wake up the next day with a hangover and minimum $150-200 wasted on drinks, parking etc...
Lol yep I have definitely been there! The loud awful music and the hangover for the rest of the weekend are both brutal lol
The only attention i ever got from a girl in a night club is when her boyfriend sent her over to chat me up so he could steal my coat.
Darn! Sorry to hear that man. That's messed up. I remember I had a hoodie that someone took at a party.
Did you ever end up getting your coat back?
@@trill8967 yes i got it back 😁👍
Wow thats messes up man. I hope that doesnt happen again to u.
@@thomasscott199 that's good. At least it was a happy ending👌
As a sub5 myself, I wish I had been blackpilled a lot earlier. It would have saved me a lot of embarrassment (and $$$) and made me feel better knowing that it wasn't my personality, and that it was more because I'm a 5'4" manlet with a 3/10 face (with gymmaxxing and good social skills).
Yeah, it took me until I was almost completely bald to really see the blackpill for what it is. Having looksmaxxed over the years, I really see it for how it is. I'm glad you can come to peace with knowing that it wasn't your personality and just your looks. Thanks for watching man!
Same. The experience of being a sub-5 introverted male while constantly having your friends scold you saying that the reason women exhibit hostility towards you is because of your “bad vibe” or “lack of charisma” is extremely demoralizing. So glad I discovered that it was never my fault all along.
@@ascended266 The clubbing scene in 2023 is completely inexistent. Gone are the disco days of the 70's and 80's. I'm in my fifties and I vividly remember those times, clubgoers were relaxed, out to have fun and ONS were aplenty. All you needed was a slim/athletic body some swag + dancing skills. I think the mesmerizing disco beat had something to do with it.
@ryan tucker I m 54. It was over long, long ago.
Just find a girl shorter than you dumbass
Up until around the late 90’s to early 2000’s the old saying “there is someone for everyone” was pretty true. That has certainly changed in recent times. Technology is now influencing the evolution of the human race. This is unsustainable as a species.
Yeah, technology such as Instagram and dating apps have definitely made dating much harder for 95% of men. My parents used to say that all the time. In their day, I think it was true for the most part. There was way less competition back then.
Seeing as how there's 106 men to every 100 women in the 18 to pre middle age bracket, saying "there's someone for everyone" _literally_ isn't true. I said this to a boomer relative one time. The reply I got? A 10 second pause followed by "well, there's someone for everyone."
@@ascended266 And hookups were somewhat stigmatized. Let's make very clear that it's women who have pushed, advocated and brought to life the ONS culture.
@@ryantucker2166it's a product of the sexual "revolution" of the 60s, which was socially engineered by Jewish Marxists.
100% TRUE !! i remember my cousin who's in spain saying stories how he saw F ugly guys with drop dead gorgeous women, because some drop dead gorgeous women trully didnt look at the looks of the guys.
and i have to say i just experienced how it was before the rampage of facebook and tinder , when tinder first came out... dear lord it was easy to get laid or get a date but it changed FAST !
you saw pretty girls dating with me, to no girl wanting me anymore. im a pretty good looking myself id say not dropdead handsome but good looking. yet i have difficulties to get a date on tinder, unless superlikes.
but yeah trust me, before facebook, tinder and ALSO !!! videos !!! i heard even before mobile cameras that women were P R O M I S C U O U S ,
i know some guy who had his stories when he grew up, he litterally hooked up with his neighborhood girl after a 5minute talk. in the club you could talk with a girl for 5 minutes and do the deed.
heck no one knows you, and thats what the girls are afraid of. they want to do the deed also, but they are afraid that they get SL.T shamed.
trust me, if you are in a hotel you'd be surprised how many girls want to have a hookup when no one knows her and she knows there is no one from het country or region in the hotel. my god u'd be surprised!!
i remember one time in a hotel, i saw 2 girls very girly doing some tourist trips together for a week, the one girl stayed a few days longer in the hotel.
There was a small dance club downstairs and she was dancing with no panties if you know what i mean.. she knew she could get away with it.
that was righhhttt before the first phones with camera's.
girls havent changed at all. if you want a girl, she needs to have an excuse to come to your place.
Hey i have a nice pool in my garden you wanne see?
i even got laid saying on a hot day ! my god im sweating i really need to take a shower now! can you wait for me at my home?
(if the girl is interested in you...trust me any excuse will do but SUBTLE!!! don't say hey wanne come and cuddle on my bed?)
The only time a man should be at a nightclub is if he is; the owner, DJ, or security. No exceptions.
You're not wrong. Being any 3 of those would at least give you status in the nightclub especially as the owner or a DJ.
@@ascended266 I'm trying to say men should go to the clubs to make money. If you are not getting paid while in the club no reason to go.
@@targetegrat meh ive seen 7s have success
Or if he’s Chad(lite). Everyone else needs to stay away.
As a Chad, it's possible to just dance and have the girls simp for you.
Definitely!
As a Chadlight this is my go to…get a few drinks in me to feel loose, then hit the dance floor and see what girls give me the strongest IOIs
@@kylefopma4108my strategy too.
I really getting in a bar fight with a guy and he assaulted me first and tried to put me in a head lock. I beat his ass pretty bad and I can remember women attacking me (including his gf)… they were screaming at me. Now they didn’t intervene when he was attacking me. People were cheering him on until I kicked his ass. I had to flee the bar because the cops came but I can remember peopke screaming “he ran that way to police”… I hate bars or clubs because I hate getting in fights. I have been bullied at every bar iv been to. I don’t even have to talk to anyone there to receive that treatment.
Damn, that's a pretty cool story. Good for you for standing your ground and taking it to him. Bars and clubs can be pretty brutal if you're not that attractive or stand out in a way that's different than the city you're in.
@@ascended266 yeah I don’t miss going to those places. Plus you run the risk of one of these fights and getting hurt or really hurting someone or worse. Or you worry about blowing your entire paycheck or a dui. It’s just not worth it as the ROI is pretty shitty or a big fat 0.
You're not going to meet chicks there if you're not good looking. It's also too loud to talk.
Yep! It's probably the hardest place to meet women if you're not good looking. Literally almost any other place would give you a better chance than nightclubs.
Exactly. You gotta be above average looking, and even THEN, you gotta operate VERY quickly or she'll lose interest. Women have attention spans of a gnat in this environment. Oh, and her friends better approve or absolutely NOTHING will happen.
Clubs aren't for talking. They were the Tinder of 1960's, '70's and 80's.
@@ascended266I would say day game is probably the worst but yeah, night clubs/bars are probably a close second.
clubbing has never worked. If you don't get it on your daily routine, just forget it.
I was a bouncer in my college years and yup
Watching guys fail over and over again was a great free entertainment time killer
Haha that definitely must have been great entertainment! I would pay for that.
The club was amazing before smartphones. Me, and my bros use to go to college clubs, and hookup every weekend in the mid 2000s. Back then looks did not matter as much because more people went to the clubs than today, and no one wanted to go home alone. I was a 7 at best in my 20s. I hear from younger guys I work with that clubs are awful now unless you look like chad. So pretty much they are the live action version of tinder by what I hear.
Yeah, I could see how this was the case back then. In nightclubs, almost everyone is on their phones and taking pictures, videos and snapchats and it's harder as a guy to break through all of that noise.
Mid-2000s was something else man 😔 clubbing was still good, more social people, no smart phones, no social media, girls wore tight clothes and were overall skinnier, and I still had friends to watch UFC with
@@ralpherl5657 Yep pretty much how things where for me, and my bros back then.
@@ralpherl5657 girls have really ballooned nowadays
Good point.
I think ugly men as a rule, have to watch their back. If you ar ugly and go to a club, you will be rejected, but by that point in your life, most ugly men would be used to that.
As an ugly man, I get all kinds of bad attention from women. On about 5 different occasions, I have had women cold approach me for money. The best one was, I just parked my car in front of my store. I had not yet walked 10 feet from my car and some female landwhale asked me for money "so she could get something to eat from Jack in the Box". At this point, I just pretend not to even hear women, when they ask for things. I also like the sense of entitlement. Did she think because I was some ugly guy, no gf around, I would be so flattered to get female attention I would just hand her some money? No thanks.
One of my hobbies (if you can call it that) is to drive to a less populated part of town and take a long walk. Its quiet and I use that time as "meditation time". Then I get a coffee, sit in my car and listen to a podcast. I parked in front of the library, it was a Sunday and no one else was there. Some random woman comes up to my car window and threatens to stab my eyes, unless I give her a ride. Why would I let a violent woman or person into my car. It was time to leave, so I did.
Remember, the odds are stacked against you if you are ugly. Even if you are rich / successful, no one wants to look at an ugly face. I guess if a woman can rationalize dating a rich / ugly man, because she can distract herself with expensive dinners and receive gifts, so she can have some way to keep her mind off of how ugly his face is.
I remember in college, there was this one professor. He was short, bald and ugly. He loved to talk about how handsome he was ( he as the only person who thought so). He was so "handsome" he would try to flirt with the college women, offering to buy them things ( I guess even Chad professor has to money max) even then women rejected him......... Yeah, you need a lot of money to hide that ugly face.
I can relate to the negative attention as a sub 5 male. I'll definitely cover that in future videos.
It's great that you have a hobby in walking. One of my biggest hobbies is walking and hiking. It clears your mind from everything that is going on in your life and you get to spend time in nature. In nature, you can really separate yourself from life for a bit and it's a healthy hobby as well.
I think your professor was trying to play the "Mr. Funny man game" by claiming to be handsome knowing well enough that's he not in an attempt to try and attract the women in the class. More power to him I guess lol thanks for binge watching my videos man! I definitely appreciate it.
Coming from a ex Chad Lite (Chad in college due to 1+ through status) and now a Mental Cell (PTSD, Depression), who has been through "both the sides", take it from me - "meditation" (psycho existential practices) are more eqanimous than getting girls. Getting girls, especially today, is immensely turbulent - most of them are mentally a child, think life is "easy" (by easy, it means make up, fun and eventually a prince charming will marry you - they actually believe that), and have some kind of unaddressed mental illness (ADHD) and additions. Their low self esteem (even beautiful girls have that - because there can only be "one" most beautiful, and they are constantly comparing themselves with the media idol) gives them inflated sense of entitlement. It's like dealing with a monster with a child brain trapped in the body of a hot girl that hypnotized you - you cant help but overcome with lust, but somehow you know this is not the "solution".
You will be better off studying existential literature and philosophy (dialectal materialism), and certain mediation practices (32 body parts meditations), than being in an endless competitive mode of looks - which eventually everyone will lose (get mogged by younger men).
You can anyways get "back" to the sexual market while doing these practices simultaneously - so just to have a comparison between the kind of gross vs refined pleasure the two realms offer.
I think the main problem in our men circles that, fine, now we know we aren't getting infinite supply of Stacys. Now what?
There could be more refined and sophisticated ways to live than just "cope hobbies". That should be now the focus of men help circles imho
I hope you made up that story about women threatening to stab you. I just seems not real to me.
@@Nilithic It is real. I live in a town in California with a lot of crack heads. She had that "crack head" energy
Since I live near nature, I love to go on a bike ride through the forest. Its so amazing to see how the trees and plants change during seasons. I dont know what I would do without nature.
Well said and very well done vlog
Thanks Steven! I appreciate it.
This is accurate well said dude 💪🏾
Thanks Prescott! I appreciate it.
It certainly is accurate.
This by far the best breakdown on why the night clubs are falling off.
Thanks man!
Excellent video. I agree with the points you raised. Some men and women will often go out of their way to be rude to average looking and below average looking men.
Not just at nightclubs either. You can be in various social settings and actually feel a change in atmosphere.
I m only applying this to average Western men living in the West by the way. I ve lived in Asia and three Western countries. In Asia, no problem at all ever as an average Western man. Being an average or below average man in USA or Australia now is really shit, and can even be dangerous. You can be singled out for attention. The attitude is "wtf are you doing here" ? Men do not imagine these things, it's real.
Thanks man! I've always wondered what it's like dating in Australia. It seems like it's not the easiest place to date. I definitely want to travel there at some point though.
I stopped going to bars after that one night because it was blackpilling and upsetting. Also bring brutalized by women and being called a creep for asking for a woman’s phone number. I haven’t been to a bar or club in 6 years.
I can understand why you didn't want to go back. The good thing is that you have probably saved a ton of money.
@@ascended266 yeah I escortmaxx and think that is better although currently not the most sustainable unless I do it once a month. On the upside i lost my virginity at like 28. I’m 34 now and still doing it, with my old job I could afford to do it every weekend lol.
Complete waste of time for sub 7 males. Even a 7 would struggle unless the female can't get Chad for whatever reason.
Well said on this.
Thanks man!
Night clubs are a big waste of time, I have never been to one before but I know its just a place women go for attention and an ego boost..Also when women see tgat you ar that "thirsty" guy who is just approaching women they will reject you.
Yeah, you're not missing a lot. They can be incredibly expensive, they are super loud and not the best environment overall. The only times I go now are once in a blue moon when I'm on vacation or if it's someone's birthday.
Best place to meet women is at work. If they get to know you a little bit, then you have an advantage of asking them out, or they can ask you out. At clubs nobody knows you so why would a girl risk herself going home with someone especially where trafficking can happen. I would say I had been asked out multiple times at work, but i do decline anyways just cuz i like being by myself.
Another one of these videos. Tbh, I think clubbing is fun! You don’t have to go with the intention of meeting someone. Just hit the dance floor and rage.
Yeah, this is solid advice. I've definitely had fun going with good friends and just rocking out on the dance floor.
i agree with you man when i goto clubs i just go there and dance all the time and i have a super fun time with friends and random pople, all the rest is useless
Yes, anyone telling you that they no longer take rejection “personally” is 1000% lying. That shit hurts and will eventually destroy you and remove any motivation to live anymore.
20 years ago I went with my buddy multiple times a week to night clubs. I must have danced with at least 300 women in 8 months. Almost never did I get a phone number, and rarely made out with woman. Even if she was grinding me and making out with me then I would get ditched. They would walk away right after the dance or after talking to them for outside a short time after the dance. Was 6'3, 175 lbs, white, probably 7/10 looks. Picked up mostly 6's & 7's and some 8's. I failed 99% of the time, even my 1% where a half way failures. My friend however probably 5'10, 8/10, would get chicks regularly. Never knew what the fuck was so bad about me that almost no girls would never give me a chance. I guess I wasn't exciting enough, couldn't hold an interesting conversation, maybe came off lame. That or most girls just go to the club to dance and get male validation nothing more. It's weird though because I got a girlfriend from a woman who approached me at a nightclub, as well a date from my friends girlfriends cousin from a nightclub. Both of them were 6/10. All that matter too them was my looks in those cases, they didn't know me.
You got hobbies?
Yeah, nightclubs are tough! You should feel blessed that you're 6'3 and 7/10 in looks. That's a great situation to have. As for your friend, sometimes that extra point in looks can do wonders.
@@ascended266 Height cope, 5 inches shorter and he is doing way better, what does that tell you. The OP also probably added 'extra points' because he imagined his height made a difference to his face, so his true rating is probably wrong.
@@ascended266 Yea I did appreciate and have confidence about that. Those days are over. I dropped out many years ago.
Makes sense but it also sounded like you were only into their looks too? XD.. The pot calling the kettle black... but devil's advocate aside... It's men that are [sometimes] the unique ones... all women are essentially the same outside of looks here and there and they all fraud so............ I'm a 5'10 chad
Hey @chadlite! I think your videos are very good and I enjoy the professionality of your channel, unlike many other blackpillers. I hope you can gain more subscribers and views.
Thanks Simsto! I appreciate you watching and for the support! I do my best to be professional.
i dont go to clubs often but when i go i just go to reset myself, i dont drink because id ont like alcool i dont think about girls and i just have fun with little money and some friends, every now and then maybe a girl can come close to me but i never try to impresse any of them and usually this type of nights go very well,i have fun, i dont think about everyday stuff and im just not stressed
I wasn’t a clubgoer as much as others were. I didn’t go to clubs every week but only on a certain occasions. Everytime I went to nightclubs, I felt like I don’t get nothing out of being there. 99% of the time I never felt like I belong there at all, so all I got was hurt feelings from girls that didn’t take a chance on me. Most of the girls there were only there for free drinks and being drunk. I was only there to dance with them and that’s it. I only went to the diversity type of nightclubs, so I never felt comfortable going to ghetto nightclubs. The ghetto nightclubs were the clubs where the DJ was just play all of the trashy music from the early 2000s to now stuff. One of the biggest problems is they played nothing but terrible music that I can’t dance to. I try to pretend to like the music but I don’t. This is one of my reasons why I stopping going to nightclubs altogether. Once you hit 25 years of age, you start noticing how stupid half of the things kids do in the clubs. The older you get in the scene, the more people expect you to be their daddy of the group, which isn’t fun. After awhile, you start to feel like you’re babysitting a bunch of kids. Secondly, the nightclubs get boring by there’s a certain point where the songs, the lights and the party action becomes monotonous. There are only so many times you can dance the night away before you begin wondering what else you could be doing. It’s even worse when you realize that you’ve heard the same terrible songs played every single night for the past month or so. Thirdly, When you know all the major promoters and their personal drama, the fun from clubbing can really disappear. Part of why I used to like clubbing is because it was a way to feel like everything was alright, fun and happy in the venue. Boy I was wrong. It can be downright destructive. Fourth, the nightlife can really be very stressful and it’s very expensive because you have to wait in line to get into the clubs by having your ID to make sure you are age appropriate. Fifth, the drama was always there in the nightclubs where men wanna fight over a woman. Really dude! It is not worth it at all. It just ain’t worth dying for! Or the girls don’t wanna dance with you then she wanna give you a fake number to call her. Come on mane! It’s get old real quick dude. Sixth, buying drinks for girls was never my thing or drink at the clubs. It’s not worth the money. Seventh, I used to get ready to go out at 11pm just to get in the club and leave. Dressing up was a hassle and I did that on and off for 6 years, so I can dress up just to impress the girls. Finally, I decided to quit going to nightclubs because it was just a major waste of time and money. I don’t miss the nightclubs at all, so I glad nobody have ask me to go back to that life. I don’t really enjoy it.
You nailed it on the head Blake! Lol overall it's a waste of major time and money for most guys. If this can help some guys save a $20-$50 charge, I hope it does lol
It helped me though…I don’t miss it because I had responsibilities to deal with such as bills. That place is the most hostile environment ever and don’t think I will go back anytime soon. I have been free from that nightclub nightmare for 13 years straight and never look back.
@@blakebrown84 That's awesome man! I'm glad you had some cool experiences and now you don't have to waste any time and money at them.
Yeah! My nightclubs days are long behind me now.
i agree except for once you hit "25 year of age", you feel that way because we inkwells
are worthless thre are chads and connected/statusmaxxed guys having private
parties and even enjoying their life till their 40's. Only though as long as they are chads of their age
or statusmaxxed
If you're not at least 7/10 SMV (even then it's not easy) or 6/10 SMV with VERY good game don't bother as it is a waste for the most part.
Pretty much! In a nightclub, you definitely need to have a certain degree of attractiveness to see any success outside of buying tables and playing the promoter game.
My advice to younger men would be...only go to a club to see a cool band, have a drink or vibe to some good music. Don't go to meet women and don't buy them shit!
If you meet someone genuinely, then great...but don't count on it.
That's solid advice!
From my experience This is very accurate sir
Thanks Kevin! Yeah, I tried to use a combination of my own personal experiences along with everything I’ve witnessed. Nightclubs are brutal.
@@ascended266 you should make a video about online dating as an average and below average men lol. I think it’s over for average men when it comes to online dating
@@kevinwilson3337 That is a very good suggestion. I will definitely make a video on that in the near future.
This is some good info. The Taylor brought to my attention. My short legs for my hight. I measured and it was true.I was forced to be a vegetarian early in my life. So my growth got stunted. I used to try to extend my hight. But with out shoe's I am under 6' or so. Yep if you are shorter you already lost.
In a nightclub, height becomes very important. It sounds like you're about 5'11 so that's a decent height. I'm definitely interested in reading into whether environmental factors such as your diet growing up have an impact on height. Thanks for watching!
Not where I live. Yeah I guess there is a dense population. But I no longer go to clubs at all.
Bro just spoke the truth. I’ve been through almost all he described in this video. Always got dirty looks, ignored…. Shit is fucking annoying. Nightclubs are a waste of time period.
I try to speak the truth lol glad you can relate
As a guy who's spent years building a physique like Thor, a level of charisma and confidence like Tony Stark, and focused on becoming as attractive as possible physically, socially, and emotionally, it's great to hear that I'm getting the same results as guys who are unremarkable in any way, are out of shape, and otherwise haven't dedicated any time whatsoever to improving themselves.
When you've worked for years to build a physique with 6 pack abs, 17 inch biceps, and a V-Taper like a Dorito, yet get the same results as fat guys who have dedicated no time whatsoever to improving themselves, I think the universe it trying to tell you something.
I'm the guy who gets picked on all the time by my mates. The worst thing I ever told my mates was that I am a virgin because the rest of the normie friend group has lost their virginity (I'm 21). So now they can see my insecurity and pick up on it and insult me all the time.
Sorry to hear man! I had friends like that in the past that would make fun of me for slightly different reasons. I dropped that friend group and only hang out with good quality people that make you feel good. I can see it was one of the best decisions I made. With friends like that, who need enemies. I'd say don't waste your time with those people. I'd rather have no friends than hang out with people who don't care about you.
@@ascended266 Nah I'd have to disagree. If the only way I can get out and not rot in my room is by going out with a bunch of normie friends who tease me 24/7 I'd take it
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Let it motivate you.
Don't waste your time to people like that. They are not your friends. True friendship looks completely different. You have band of brothers supporting each other. Where even chad will stick to and support a sub5
dude, if thats you in your picture you look good. relax
Unless you're rich, famous and good looking - night clubs and going out in general is a waste of time / expensive. I'd rather stay inside and rot. Don't give your money out to these foids, boyos - it's a waste of energy, time and money. With great power, comes great responsibility.
Yeah, you're not wrong. In a nightclub, you really need to either be good looking, rich enough to buy a table or have some sort of status to succeed on a high level.
" pre-jection "
That's the word we needed, friggin' brilliant 👏.
The story about the short guy with the 20 rejections in one night hit home for me.
If you don't like big, loud dance clubs, try small live music clubs; cooler crowd, cheaper drinks, friendly vibe.
Haha thanks Sarge! Yeah, it was brutal to see all those rejections happen to him. Small live music clubs do have a much better vibe, I agree with you there.
Nightclubs s.uck, always have, the drinks are overpriced, they are all sausage fests (too many men, not enough vvomen), dance music is c.rap, and unless you’re a Chad, the chances of you taking a girl home, are NIL.
Me personally, I rarely went to nightclubs, I prefer watching live rock music.
Go to a blues club instead. See a great live band and really nice people (with good taste in music) !
Now that sounds like a much better time! I was in New Orleans back in 2018 and went to a jazz bar and it was a really great time. Thanks for watching Richard!
In my college year, i remember girls using me to get their boyfriend jealous. One time it was funny. She knew I was interested in her. So she would come to me where I sit at the party and pretend to laugh at my joke that is not even funny she was faking it. I knew that. And she would go back to her boyfriend who was watching. I was young at the time and i realized how cunning girls can be.
It's good that you experienced this at a young age. I have had a girl use me in a similar way a few times but I was old enough to realize what was going on.
I'm in my early 50's now but in my 20's and 30's I was there every week. For you guys that are going to clubs now here is my advice:
1) Walk in, be confident (like you own the place), do a lap, and stand at the bar facing out. Don't approach anyone. If a woman is interested in you, she will make her way over to you and make it known she would like to have a conversation with you.
2) Keep your money/card in your wallet. Spend it on your boys. Buy some shots, make a little noise. Women wanna know what all the hype is about. Doesn't mean they're gonna come over. Only get bottle service if you're OK with parting with a large amount of money and/or are celebrating something big.
3) DO NOT approach women in groups of 3 or more whether they are at a table, at the bar, dancing, etc. No woman wants to be the one who left the group for a guy because they don't want the backlash/reputation that comes with it. Your chances will increase when a woman is alone or with just 1 friend.
4) Don't go in there with the "dart mentality". "I'm gonna shoot my arrow 50 times but all i need is one bullseye". Women are very observant and can smell your desperation. Just don't. You'll be known as "that guy" if you become a regular at the club.
5) If you're a regular Joe, get there early, but not too early. Less competition. If you're a rockstar, roll in there late. Let 'em think you were at another happening club.
6) Women go to these things to take photos and dance with their girls. The hotter the woman, the more value she gives herself. Maybe lower your standards a bit? Are you going there to find a wife?
7) You're better off at suburban/local clubs. Vegas, New York, Miami, Chicago, LA.... forget it. The only guys these hotties are giving their time to are movie stars, pro athletes, rappers/musicians. Good luck.
8) Try sports bars, lounges, neighborhood bars. Less noise, easier to interact. Much more relaxed environment.
9) Smile, laugh. Look like you're having a good time. Girls don't like creepy guys that stare at 'em like they are a piece of meat.
10) Do not go there with expectations. Nobody owes you anything and you owe nobody anything. Just relax, take it all in, and let the chips fall where they may. If the fish ain't bitin' in this pond, move on to another one.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
All solid advice right there!
Lowering standards is never good advice
Every nightclub I've ever been in only played bling rap or crap country at A DEAFENING VOLUME. Never even seen a DJ except in movies & shows. In the depictions I've seen literally all they do is stand there with headphones every once in a while scratching records or twisting knobs onstage. Looks like the easiest job imaginable.
Yeah, the nightclubs that I have been to in past years have mostly played rap and hip hop or EDM. Being a DJ is tough at first but once you get going it's pretty smooth sailing.
When a lady suggests we go to the club, she goes in the fun only box. Sorry. That's just how it has to be.
FACTS my man! Lol
I wish I had known this when I was young. I spent some unhappy times in nightclubs.
Luckily I always found a woman sooner or later, but never there.
Yeah, I spent a good amount of time in nightclubs as well!
I am 21, 6'2 w/ tanned skin (punjabi decent), 7-7.5/10 face (but pont. of 8/10) but 8/10 hyper-masculine blend wise, in Australia. SMV is anywhere from 7.5-8.5. Also, dress very well (f.€kb○y formal). But i got the frame but need more muscle mass, though.
Furthermore, I get called Arabic alot, even though I'm Punjabi. I have gotten approached by women in clubs (your hot, your sexy, your cute, women touching/bumping me, friends push there friend into me, etc), women constantly staring at me, get messaged first on dating apps, etc. I barely get rejected by women in clubs, if i do soft rejections like you mentioned.
Also, I have gotten with white women (Canadian/Aus), Wog women (Italian/Greek, etc), Arab women (Lebanese/Iraq, etc), Asian women (Philippines/Cambodian, etc) and some other races but forgot.
Nice man! That's awesome.
things that never happened.
@@meinkek7896 -- You've just never seen behind the curtain.
how your experience your first time at night club
Do you manually find and place images into your videos, or do you use AI/automatic tools?
I manually choose images from Storyblocks that I think match the theme of what I'm talking about. Hope that helps!
@@ascended266 Wow. Must be brutal and take a giga amount of time, bro. Effort mogs me.
I have this indian friend who is not that good looking but he is tall and he is able to pull a lot of girls while me as a 6/10 white guy rated by wheat waffles and is average height I cannot pull any girls at nightclubs. I don't know what to do at this point
Nightclubs were always broootal for me
Well, it's really because the music sucks. You don't get DJs who have dance versions of Motley Crue or LA Guns in their playlists, so the atmosphere is totally pop culture conformity, not strip club. But the smart man uses that to his advantage. Get elegantly wasted on THC and some good tunage before you walk in the door, sip sodas all night, and let horny drunk women hit on you. Don't do the alcohol because it's a depressant and you want to stay well above the swirl.
It sounds like you have had some fun times in the club! Good stuff. It depends on the club. A lot of clubs focus on EDM and top 40 music.
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Thanks man! I appreciate the support. I've always wanted to go to Thailand!
Tryin to meet people in a club was your first & biggest mistake
Yeah, clubs definitely aren't the ideal place to meet people.
Lemme put it to you this a-way, if you don't get noticed by chiks when you're out N about or hit on at work, in the club it's gonna be way worse........ once I let my waist measurement creep up to almost 40" and women were very hostile towards me....... however when I recomped down 45 lbs. and my waist went down 9 1/2", I had women cat-calling me whenever I went out for a quick jog after I finished my bodybuilding routine..........
Good perspective man! Losing weight makes a massive difference for your attractiveness.
@chadlite6223 I was at 285 and went down to 210 at 6% maybe 8% give or take bodyfat level percentage, they just went GAGA....... I had chiks doin double-takes everytime I was shirtless or in a tank top......... and I'm less than 6' tall 5' 10".......
nightclubs always were good for Chads. Average guys don't waste your time
Agreed! It will be much easier for good looking guys.
high/medium level clubs won't even let sub5 getting in.
Welcome to Club Succubus where its always “ladies” night.
Haha nice!
I never had this problem. Back in the day. When I gave the establishment money. Than the owner gave me beautiful girls. That's history though. I quit clubbing. It's going downhill.
I went clubbing in Vegas a few months ago and the host brought us girls. It depends on the club but yes it's gone downhill.
Your looks is your personality.
Yep, definitely! Your personality is influenced by your looks.
Clubs are alright if you’re reasonably picky and down to approach into the double digits
Yeah! I will definitely make a video on this. Facial hair was a game changer for me.
So a weird take on this is I’m trans and if I go to a club I get hit on but Im usually with a friend or never alone Ofcourse because that’s so dangerous. The thing is I love the music and just for that alone…. I never expect to meet anyone serious at a nightclub because I know they all want one thing and plus they don’t even know I’m trans half the time so I’m not going to meet with them and risk getting killed. Another weird thing I herd the other day was this straitish bi guy I met with off a dating app was like nothing on there is transsexuals and you’ll rarely get lucky with a biological woman…. Interesting…. Well it definitely made just turn off my app… I’m not trying to sit here and be like pity fest for me but Omg it’s so hard to even meet a boyfriend in a city like Las Vegas even if you’re pretty it doesn’t matter. Especially if your trans forget it on top of that. They will play with you or play you but not take you seriously at all. So I definitely regret transitioning in the sense of dating etc. it’s a double edged sword and you’re pretty much aligned to be alone forever with no one to help you and experience lots of SA…….. also when you’re pretty other girls will flock to you then you’ll get called over to a man’s table but then he’ll find out your trans and try to hook up with the other girls (I don’t want to hook up anyway) but they want you at the table sometimes to attract other woman. So yes the Chad like men use pretty woman or even hot trans girls that can lure in flocks of women because if a girl sees an attractive women by a man it makes them feel more safe or wonder what he has going on…. From my experience….
Anyway I would use a club just for dancing and feeling cute just to show off my latest outfit on social media or take a photo for that memory and try to enjoy the atmosphere with no expectations at all….. oh I’ve gotten groped by couples and asked to go back for 3 somes and stuff…. But yeah I don’t want to die or catch a disease or be robbed.
I just want to say guys don’t be so hard on yourself. Just enjoy yourself!!!!!
Thanks for your perspective Sarina! Yeah, it seems like preselection makes a big difference in Las Vegas. I have dated a few women in Vegas and dating is very difficult there. There are so many attractive people and people are looking for the best of the best. I could see why some guys would want you at their table to bring in other girls.
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100%!
So what's the alternative?
I would say bars or lounges would be decent alternatives. You can actually have conversations with people and it's a much more relaxed environment.
Hookers, at least you’re guaranteed to get laid.
...ive had nights thrown out of night clubs by bouncers, rejection by ladies, hook-ups and one night stands...waking up in places saying...how did i get here...???
scraps on the dance floor...😂😂
That's nightclubs in a nutshell for ya lol I've had some crazy nights also but luckily I have never been thrown out of a nightclub before.
That's part of the game if you're on the prowl. You forgot to add, "I'm with my girlfriend". There's someone for everyone. You have to learn how to maximize your odds because in those environments it's about the laws of percentage. You don't need all the women there. You just need one.
Agreed! Nightclubs are largely a numbers game.
Huge waste of time and money.
People hate on bars and clubs but they have always been the best way to meet women. They are environments basically designed to be ‘meet markets’. The bitter truth is that if you can’t make it work in these environments then maybe you’re not desirable in general.
A what male ??
I’m between 5’9 To 5’10
I’m an average black guy
I wouldnt 100 percently agree on incel mentality, being sub 5 in high school kinda explained why I was treated thay way. I really did not know why high school was just a let down. I realized it was because i was viewd as sub 5 for many people. But I am not saying it was all bad. But If I was taller and muscular, and more good looking in general i would have had more social life. I was ignored most of times(there was not even sub 5 term), I realized now ( i am not saying it was all because of that but I think it was also racism), maybe nightclub is even worse I think. This channel kinda lets light on this true side( although i do not 100 percent agree on incel ) . And bouncers yes they are there i have seen them. Sometimes men are the worst enemies of other men.
Thanks sung! I definitely try to show the true side around the nature of dating and life without being too negative. In high school, you're mostly judged on your looks and your social group.
@@ascended266 why do you think that it seems like girls get along with each other better than guys do especially when they are sub5? Guys in general end up with no friends. I get why but at the same time I dont know why girls themselves socialize better with each other. Even if they are sub5
what is the point of putting up the photo of good looking dude when talking about your bad looking 5.2 friend at the club?
Either put appropriate photos to the story, or do not put anything and confuse people by putting misleading photos
Thanks for pointing this out and for watching! I believe this was an editing mistake I made. I always try to choose a photo to illustrate a point I am trying to make. I think I had a photo for this section but for some reason I must have chosen this video. I will definitely be mindful of that going forward as the last thing I intend to do is mislead people.
Sub 5 in my teens and avg since I looksmaxxed. Definitely concur with a lot of points.
I have actually met cool women at lounges and bars where you can actually talk, but for picking up girls, the club is not the best unless you are a chad or you already have a girl going with (ex. Frat dudes bringing women.)
In my single days, I have had my fun seeing DJs I specifically went to see or to get lit with friends back in the day, but Beyond that, house parties and lounges would be the best for normies.
Agreed! House parties and lounges are much better for meeting women. It's much easier to strike up and maintain conversations when you can actually hear people.
I highly encourage homosexuality or MGTOW. As a homosexual, you’ll be able to find someone who’ll love you for you. As a MGTOW, you’ll be free from wanting someone, trick is is to not want women at all. I was MGTOW for a long time, best time of my life. Lonely as hell now, coping as TFL. Man I wish were gay.
What you are proposing leads to suicide mate. I suggest to focus on yourself and if you lack of male friends find some (gym, gaming, sport teams, hobbies). Men needs other men more than a women. If you have a good male friends you are going to be ok.
Mgtow is horse shit because you go against your desires
I See Alot of “ Normies” With Trans and Femboys Now.
Much easier said than done lol
Eww
The only way I’m going to a nightclub is if the girl is buying me drinks. Not the other way around.
And if she refuses then I’ll ask her to just give me whatever money she has and tell her to piss off
Haha I've only had a random girl offer to buy me drinks twice in my life so that's going to be tough.
Train stations are bad for trying to talk to women’
Because it’s too noisy
The night club is a waste of time for me
I have better opportunities
With women
in retail stores and other outdoor places
If you're ugly but tall and masc, a dark club with alcohol flowing can be great
This is a true statement. Being tall and muscular can definitely help in a nightclub environment where the lights aren't too bright.
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Explains why I get the most attention in clubs but barely outside hahaah
Why are you in the night club to begin with
I only go to nightclubs when I'm either on vacation or if it's a very special occasion like a friend's birthday.
Here is something you kids need to understand. Virtually no one is fuckin girls they meet at the club. Even what y’all call “chads” The fucking that happens is friend group/acquaintance fucking…. That’s totally different
Yeah, the vast majority of the time you're not bringing random girls home from the club but it does happen. You're right though that the majority of the time it's from a friend group.
@@ascended266it happened to me twice and I’m no Chad, I can’t imagine what Chads do
I am energy sensitive. I can't be around chaotic energy.
I visited Austria, years ago, as part of a honeymoon [she went absolutely nuts, I had to divorce her for my own safety] We did the Sound of Music tour, which is nice. We saw the palace in the movie Amadeus. The von Trapp house in the movie had a front from one house, and a back from another house. Nice tour. At one point, the tour guide bemoaned the loss of Jewish merchants- who always had low prices, were great businessmen. There was a concentration camp not far from that area. Over half of SS troops were Austrian. All I could think of, was, well, it's not like your people made Jews feel very welcome, did you... I am so very amused, listening to women ask where all the good men went. Uhh, yeah. The good men go dark, they drop into brush, and vanish from view, as any prey animal would, when a predator is around.
Years ago, I went to a martial arts class, in a college town. There were women 30-60 there. All poisonously feminist. And... and... all of them knew that Prince Charming was right around the corner, waiting for the right conjunction of Venus and Mars, to marry them, put them on a $5K/month allowance, buy the big house for them, the vacations in Europe, and to lavish attention on them, despite their constant disrespect for him. They based these on the documentaries they watched- you know, soap operas, Hallmark movies, romance novels, and so on, which are always precisely accurate depictions of real human daily life. And the only reason they didn't have that fairytale life was male oppression. I put on my cloak of invisibility- aka being a beta male- and just listened. I learned much. Of course they later decided that the instructor, a black man, was somehow sexually harassing them during the course. I have spent enough time on VisionQuests and other spiritual stuff that I can lavish love on people, just be turning on the flow. Around those women? Cloak of invisibility. If you need to get rid of a woman fast- just start crying. Works like a charm. Or otherwise act beta- you know, talk about your feelings, just like the feminists tell you. They're gone. I remember a woman about 55 in college- like this- she was desperately dating professors, to find Mr. RIghtWallet. They'd date her, but cut her off after one date. She had a little problem- nuclear waste grade resentment, plus a drinking problem. Oddly enough, Dr. RightWallet was doing his risk assessment. I had no status- just a student assistant- she invited me to dinner, I brought my girlfriend at the time- and Madame Battleaxe got sarcastic, and abusive, to the point we had to leave. THis was like 1981.
Women wanted everything men have... now they have it, and they are upset... 1 in 3 women have had an abortion, has an STD... 80% of women consort with 20% of men. 10% of men are 6'1". Women find 80% of men ugly.
My grandmother worked. AT HOME. Monday was wash day. No washing machines; it was done by hand. You had to scrub out stains- by hand. Tuesday was ironing day- with flatirons. It took a while. No mixes back then; you bought your flour and sugar in bulk. In 1944, it cost 8c/lb. Only after WW II did prepackaged mixes come out. Wednesday was mending day- clothes were expensive, they had to be repaired. Thursday was baking day, you baked bread for the week. My grandmother taught, before marrying. Her husband told her he made enough money so she didn't have to work. Which delighted her- this was luxury, not having to work at an outside job. I met them, in the 1960's. Yep, still in love... My gramma was a widow about 1940. She had to work. My father was still young; he had to work, got a dime an hour, to clean off old bricks to be reused- and he said he was glad to get it. My mother made 25c/hour, in a grocery store- she would get flour "from the bottom of the barrel", put it in a bag. My father made 25c/hour as a night watchman. He got into college, at the height of WW II... he wanted all the college he could get, before being drafted. He wasn't drafted. He finished high school in 3 years, and a 4 year degree in 2.5 years.
Socialists want everything to be free. Great idea. Native americans had that system. But their tribal villages were deeply mutually supportive, and spiritual... Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels originated socialism... based on studies of the Iroquois... and they COMPLETELY MISSED the spiritual side of Native Americans. In a Dakota village, a prime cut of buffalo meat was put outside the tipi of a widow. Kind of like what happened in the small towns my parents grew up in- a widow known to not have much, would find groceries outside her door, from time to time, because that's just what you did, then. Women wanted to be equal to men. Cool. It's not so much fun, is it? Where are the female bricklayers, plumbers, roofers, etc? Even today's feminists have a plan, though- marry a top 5 percenter, because they are all 10's, even if they are 50 kilograms/110 lbs overweight. The "wage gap" exists- women are paid more than men, for the same work. In the military, women can do half what the men do, and get promoted timely.
In Paul Revere's day, life expectancy was 43. First menstruation qualified a woman for marriage- you had to get moving, to have your kids early. VIsit a colonial house museum- we have some in my area- or even civil war era- people worked 6 days a week, often, at least 12 hrs/day. In the 1820's, they had DVD players- aka Shakespeare's plays. Alexis de Tocqueville noted this. American women in the 1950's had a life better than that of 70% of women worldwide. But they decided that women needed men like a fish needed a bicycle. No problem, get down to it, bicycles don't need the fish, either. I do not know any single men over say 35, who has any interest, at all, in a committed relationship with a woman. Single men over 40 that I know avoid women, as the massive risk they are. All that resentment, and false claims, and so on... Men are forced to assess risk. Relationships with women? "Achtung, minen" [Warning, active mine field].
Too many women seem to have completed their BSC degree. B*t Sh*t Crazy. I have never slept around. My first & second wife did play around... I cut them off. Not time for that BS, or for the MS- degree- More of the Same- or the PhD- Piled Higher and Deeper...
Modern women are not making men walk away from dating, no no. They are making men RUN away from dating, at top speed, evading fire, and taking cover. Every now and then I speak w/teenagers, or young men in their 20's. They seem to have the idea that oh yes, prenuptial agreements stand up in court, they aren't the 50 meter target on the firing range- for women- the target nobody misses. When I was young, I got older guys, and even women, talking- to learn. I knew I was totally ignorant, and needed to learn. The veterans often had great wisdom, and were willing to share it, with someone who listened. The wedding stores in my area have all gone out of business... if that's not an indicator of issues, I don't know what is.
There ARE no soulmates, any more than there is a Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny. There may be compatible ladies, guys, whose minds and hearts aren't totally toxic, but all relationships are imperfect. It's just the way our world is. We live in a world where:
Body count is something to boast about. Milage on a car doesn't matter. Rain does not wet the ground. Fish fly a mile high over the ocean. Fast food is nutritious. Poisoning one's soul with hatred and resentment makes a woman far more attractive to the alpha male she wants. Adorning one's body with toxic cosmetics doesn't poison the liver and kidneys. Pouring out hatred and resentment on men makes them want women. Hallmark movies, Soap operas, romance movies, Disney heroines- are all documentaries of how the world works. Yes, Virginia, there really is a Santa Claus, and 20 years of throwing away your value absolutely gets you Mr. Big, just like it happened in Sex and the City, which is also a documentary.
But let's make a comparison. Let's imagine a rabid Wolverine, so violent that it has to be caged in a cage made of logs. Would you risk your life, to be around such a creature? Maybe not. I don't play with poisonous snakes. When I was young, I was allowed to play with tiger kittens, but even then, I had no idea to be in the same space as adult tigers. Yes, lady, there are creepy people out there, and you are among them.
The Romans used to line the Appian way with the bodies of crucified men, as an object lesson. Divorce courts perform the same function, in our society.
Teens hate 28 year olds ?
I don't think so. Going to nightclubs as a 28 year old is pretty common at least in major citites.
Men, just go to a club to dance.
That is it.
Just dance.
Zero expectations.
Nothing but dancing.
Your experience will be infinity better.
Yeah, this is a good tip. I've found that when you go to a club to have fun with your friends it can make for a fun night.
Just be confident
"Just be confident bro and you'll find the right woman."-Every guys mom
@@ascended266
"depressed? Just go get laid bro"
Your worst video yet and you had a hot streak. Looks don't matter, they are nice but personality counts.
Out of curious, what made it bad in your opinion? Did you a mean hot streak of good videos or bad videos? I'm genuinely curious from a creator standpoint. Looks are what get your foot in the door. I won't deny that personality matters. It just matters after a woman is already attracted to you. If they aren't at least somewhat attracted to you, you won't have a chance to really show your personality.
Time of waste for what? Entitlement to get laid because you bought a woman a drink? Glad the penny dropped.
I rarely buy women drinks unless I am having a great conversation with them lol
It's completely fine in your head to buy free drinks just because? Opportunist detected lol
@@ronaldlugo9967 The one time I went to a club I bought my own drink. No sure what the hell you're talking about. I wouldn't want a man pushing me because he bought me a drink.
@banyana6515
I'm responding to your original comment about men feeling entitled for play just for buying drinks & I say lost of wn expect free drinks just for existing.
Why else would a guy buy a drink?
Since you women feel coerced by the slightest thing, I am gonna clarify that nobody is forcing you to open your legs, because someone bought you a drink.
However in return, you should atleast give him a chance to see where things go, assuming that you accepted his request. But if you are sure, you'll never fall for him, then just reject it.
If you are one of these women who would disappear afterwards, then every negative judgement of you by other people is deserved.
I liked going to the club just because it was fun. I new I wasn't going to get any girls because I already don't in real life. Whenever I went to the club I would have such a fun time because I was care free. Sometimes a girl would grind on me but it was really rare.
You’re telling me some men go to nightclubs and don’t hook up with any women?
Correct.
I know right? Lol