For a first date, it should be a simple walk in a peaceful quiet park or even a picnic at the park, if she cant accept that... then tell her byee..... whether good looking or not!
Here are some signs: 1. If she mentions that she's hungry/ craving but doesn't have money, shes looking for money, not a food date. 2. She mentions the food date or a restaurant early on or out of the nowhere within the first few messages. Most fooders won't waste time on small talk. 3. She brings up a specific restaurant (usually a pricey one) and talks about how she's never been to it and been wanting to go. She's baiting you into thinking it's your idea for the food date. 4. Before the date she says she has other plans right after the date (needs to meet others, needs to go home, etc). She is planning her escape after her date so she has an easy getaway once she gets what she wants. Then blocks you right after she's left.
You can test if she is a foodie date abuser by telling her after you meet weith her at a specific place to go for a walk and taking some ice cream and paying for 1 ice cream is not much. If she refuses then go away. But in my honest experience and I am in Europe most guys do not get a DM on dating apps and social media. They can't even get dates and me included.
Thank you for the advice bro, I haven't asked a girl out in 20 years and just got divorced early 2023. Things seem to change a whole lot since early 2000. I'm now totally clueless with how it is now.Don't want to take no risk yet.
@@yesman8558 I'm fixing to be 50 this year, but age is just numbers to me. I feel like I don't have anything to offer someone in dating even though I have a house and a car.
Spot on. Your last point was something i had to learn. In online dating I would carry the convo and made sure to move it to flirty/sexual tones as much as possible. If she flirts back and shows interest, odds of a foodie go way down. If not, way up.
Coffee dates should be done first for the initial meet and greet/getting to know you phase initially. Feminism has freed us men. Holding women accountable to their own rhetoric will be their undoing. Hold the line gentlemen.
Foodie dates are definitely a thing. I didn't think of using Facetime. You are correct in assuming this could be a good way to vet girls. Another thing to try is to tell her you want to go on a coffee date first, and if things go well you both can hit up a restaurant. So if you decide she wants you for the food and drinks, you haven't spent. a lot of money.
the best is coffee date, where you pay for ur coffee, she pay for hers, she wanna eat at fancy restaurant, just ask if she wanna treat.... normally they go silent hahaha
That happened to me in august she was kissing me and stuff lol then she ghosted me after the date I only spent 105 bucks at that burger spot I was mad as fuck
When the cheque comes, ask if she would care to go dutch. If she objects and reasons that you should pay for her meal, ask her to deep kiss you on the lips. Tell her that you don't want to spend money on a woman unless you know she is really into you. If she doesn't want to at least kiss you on the lips, then on principle she should not accept a free meal from you either.
😳 ????? Nope. coffee date or expensive meal--I don't care but I'm not kissing him on the lips just bcz he's asking for it. Not natural--forced kiss. Heck no.
That's fair, but don't expect him to buy you dinner either knowing full well he is buying you dinner in order to have sex with you. "With gifts come obligations" -Eastern proverb@@midnitemoon577
i know , but it is a good screening technique nevertheless. I give it a 90% effectiveness. Even most scammer women wont kiss a guy they don't like@@Cottencandybrain
This is done by flipping the script: The GF Test - Given Flour, Eggs, Meat, Tomatoes, Cheese - make me a dish from scratch - because EQUALITY starts in the kitchen.
короче, карлики, чтобы избежать свидания с тарелочницей, сходите с ней в общественный парк или в гости. Максимум - в дешевую забегаловку типа Макдональдса или КФС.
Here's the best idea yet: If she asks to go to a fancy restaurant, just say no. It's literally that simple.
Bingo I agree with you
For a first date, it should be a simple walk in a peaceful quiet park or even a picnic at the park, if she cant accept that... then tell her byee..... whether good looking or not!
OH NO YOURE A CHEAP BOY ICKK 😂 100% agreed though. Most 8/10+ girls have been spoiled tho so even if she agrees,she'll be comparing it to other dates
COFEE dates, or ice cream date if she really likes you she don’t care what you’re doing 😂
lmao, most women just prefer traditional men
Here are some signs:
1. If she mentions that she's hungry/ craving but doesn't have money, shes looking for money, not a food date.
2. She mentions the food date or a restaurant early on or out of the nowhere within the first few messages. Most fooders won't waste time on small talk.
3. She brings up a specific restaurant (usually a pricey one) and talks about how she's never been to it and been wanting to go. She's baiting you into thinking it's your idea for the food date.
4. Before the date she says she has other plans right after the date (needs to meet others, needs to go home, etc). She is planning her escape after her date so she has an easy getaway once she gets what she wants. Then blocks you right after she's left.
BINGO! I can tell you’re an experienced dater, this all 100%
Agreed very accurate this is why dudes with dignity are not wasting money taking them out to eat
You can test if she is a foodie date abuser by telling her after you meet weith her at a specific place to go for a walk and taking some ice cream and paying for 1 ice cream is not much. If she refuses then go away.
But in my honest experience and I am in Europe most guys do not get a DM on dating apps and social media. They can't even get dates and me included.
So you buy one ice cream for the two of you?
@@squarecircle2347 Yes because these are few bucks it will not hurt in my opinion
Thank you for the advice bro, I haven't asked a girl out in 20 years and just got divorced early 2023. Things seem to change a whole lot since early 2000. I'm now totally clueless with how it is now.Don't want to take no risk yet.
How old are you?
@@yesman8558 fixing to turn 50 this year, I just look at it being numbers.
@@yesman8558 I'm fixing to be 50 this year, but age is just numbers to me. I feel like I don't have anything to offer someone in dating even though I have a house and a car.
Don't waste your time or money.
When I was single I stopped doing dinner dates only drink dates and if they didn’t like it then they could go out with someone else.
Spot on. Your last point was something i had to learn.
In online dating I would carry the convo and made sure to move it to flirty/sexual tones as much as possible.
If she flirts back and shows interest, odds of a foodie go way down. If not, way up.
Coffee dates should be done first for the initial meet and greet/getting to know you phase initially.
Feminism has freed us men. Holding women accountable to their own rhetoric will be their undoing. Hold the line gentlemen.
You pay her food. Chad gets her cake.
Brutal lol
Be Chad, never lead with money
How to avoid foodie dates:
Just dont avoid as a sub5
I meant just dont date lmao
Foodie dates are definitely a thing. I didn't think of using Facetime. You are correct in assuming this could be a good way to vet girls. Another thing to try is to tell her you want to go on a coffee date first, and if things go well you both can hit up a restaurant. So if you decide she wants you for the food and drinks, you haven't spent. a lot of money.
Dating for normies (me) is basically jestermaxxing. no thanks
the best is coffee date, where you pay for ur coffee, she pay for hers, she wanna eat at fancy restaurant, just ask if she wanna treat.... normally they go silent hahaha
Literally just made a video about this on my channel 😂 CRAZY. Its true though Every relationship is just transactional...
They’re not just transactional. They’re a grift
First date , nandos , or coffee split the bill
That happened to me in august she was kissing me and stuff lol then she ghosted me after the date I only spent 105 bucks at that burger spot I was mad as fuck
$105 at a burger joint? Was it the drinks?
@@springheeljak145 yea we had drinks too lol I thought she was really feeling me 😂😂
I just split the bill
Yeah..the too quick to meet, especially no phone talk..just text. is a red flag. Ask how I know.
When the cheque comes, ask if she would care to go dutch. If she objects and reasons that you should pay for her meal, ask her to deep kiss you on the lips. Tell her that you don't want to spend money on a woman unless you know she is really into you. If she doesn't want to at least kiss you on the lips, then on principle she should not accept a free meal from you either.
😳 ?????
Nope. coffee date or expensive meal--I don't care but I'm not kissing him on the lips just bcz he's asking for it. Not natural--forced kiss. Heck no.
That's fair, but don't expect him to buy you dinner either knowing full well he is buying you dinner in order to have sex with you. "With gifts come obligations" -Eastern proverb@@midnitemoon577
We not living in no fairy tale where with a kiss you found your true love 😂 many ppl get ghosted even after a kiss
i know , but it is a good screening technique nevertheless. I give it a 90% effectiveness. Even most scammer women wont kiss a guy they don't like@@Cottencandybrain
This is done by flipping the script: The GF Test - Given Flour, Eggs, Meat, Tomatoes, Cheese - make me a dish from scratch - because EQUALITY starts in the kitchen.
Well said!, bravo!
How that's even possible, when you can't even get any😌😆
@@faaaduma speak for yourself
Id rather just let her cook whatever thats an odd choice of food
Would much rather have some steak shrimp or lamb but to each his own
короче, карлики, чтобы избежать свидания с тарелочницей, сходите с ней в общественный парк или в гости. Максимум - в дешевую забегаловку типа Макдональдса или КФС.
Really, if she's hot enough, I don't even mind the foodie date, I just want them to be honest.
im surprised you know who quando rondo is
Haha why is that? To be honest, I wouldn't know who he is if I didn't have a friend that listened to him a lot lol
Ffs the internet gives me no hope in women
I don't even try anymore. If I did get matches, they were paywalled. No motivation to bother with it
First date should be in the backseat of the civic
Don’t mind paying for things, I’m a gent.
But I don’t rate it when girls don’t even pretend to get their purse out haha
Because most traditional women expect a traditional man and have standards
Simps