Reacting To Dating Profiles With My Single Friend | Courtney & Hallee React
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- čas přidán 26. 02. 2022
- Hallee is back here today to review your online dating profiles! I thought it would be beneficial for you guys to get the perspective of a single girl who is currently using dating apps. If you'd like to participate in a future video, be sure to follow me on Instagram.
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Had my first ever date last week, 3 hour chat over coffee that I think went superbly!! So thankful for your channel :)
Wow! 3hrs? How long between meeting in person/online until you met up? Take your time bro
@Admir Barucija Congrats man. But leave her with wanting more. 3 hrs is way too long. Leave the date on a cliffhanger/high and setup the next date after if you two were really into each other. Hope you left with a kiss as well
@@drip369 About 2 days or so between scheduling the meet-up and it taking place! We are extremely compatible in terms of personality/worldview, but I certainly didn’t expect it to go on that long haha. Will definitely take my time :)
@@moolis It was long, but I enjoyed it and thought it was a good start. Because of my work schedule and such I don’t have many chances to go out so I have to make the most of them
Courtney has the great dating advice, but you should definitely check out Corey wayne!
I met my current girlfriend on Tinder, after many years of failure. I just took some of Courtney’s tips on how to make a good profile, as well as some of her fashion tips. Been going strong for over a month now and I’ve never been happier. Online dating does work if you do it right
can you help me
I will probably never use a dating app but if I ever do will definitely use your advice. As for Hallee 😍
Love your videos! You’ve helped me improve a lot in my personal life. Thank you and keep it going🙏🏽💯
@CourtneyRyan I went on a 4th date with a woman yesterday. Your videos helped me identify red flags I would have missed in the past. It sucks that this relationship did not work out, but at least I was able to cut my losses before any real emotional attachment happened.
I have been watching your channel for a while and picked up alot of good tips. I like Hallee too, she seems like a kind person.
FYI ladies "no ONS attitude" means "no one night stand attitude." He was talking about himself. Basically saying he isn't a fuckboy.
Thank you for letting us know! Appreciate it
I assumed he missed the comma - “no ons, attitude…etc”
Thanks @Duke on Wheels for explanation :) exactly as you said I must forgot that comma there
Personally just stay off dating sites, I believe that they are a waste of time and money for the majority of men.
Just go old school and go out in the real world, I’ve had more success by just going out to speed dating events and nights out in a couple of months than a year using apps. As this video proves we are scrutinised and judged even before a match, the data is out there for most dating apps regarding swiping to outcomes.
Yeah I go to speed dating events as well but haven’t had any success in terms of actually going out on a casual date. I got a few matches but the girl either never replied to my texts or after a few exchanges she basically goes ghost or says they’re too busy etc and at that point I just stop talking to them and go on about my life
@DrRobotnik True Facts 👍 🤣🤣
Love your channel!Your friend has a gorgeous smile!
Absolutely love the profile feedback from both of you. While not using a dating app, it’s good to hear the girl perspective in things.
CZcams's favorite big sis!
A million other women will say the opposite. Focus on one woman that likes you and isn't petty as fuck over everything on your profile. Or just don't waste time on dating apps and do it in person.
I took some tips from these videos and changed up my photos and bios now the matches won't stop! Thanks ladies 🥰
YAY! 🥰
Oh Snap lol
Oh shi teach me how to do that man.
Cadid Photos work well, a visual of how the subject felt opposed to how they looked captures a genuine essence. Keep it real guys!!
To the guys out here watching this, you can have the perfect profile that checks all the boxes these ladies tell you to check and they’ll still keep scrolling if you aren’t attractive enough.
True, you should really only be on dating apps if you're above average in physical attractiveness. At a certain point, personality will kick in, but if you're below that point, like you said they'll just swipe left before reading anyways.
@@thecommenter9267 Chris Rock said it best.. If you’re fat, you’d better be rich and if you’re broke, you’d better have a six pack.
Yeah. You're better off networking with people in general. Go out and have fun doing things. Expose yourself so they know you are a down to earth fun loving/likeable person. Online, you can't display vibe, tonality, energy and behavior.
Well keep trying to level up because women only swipe right on 20% or less of guys and their area. Some may come back after they don't find what they're looking for the first go-around which if you aren't her first choice, she might not be worth choosing (if you're seeking something long term)
FACT.
Really love your advice Courtney. Yes Hailey always kicks it out of thé park style wise.
Speaking of kick one of the profiles had
1 Dan - first degree black belt
TKD - Tae Kwon Do
WTF - World Taekowndo Federation
Thanks for the tips ladies. My close female friend/ big sister is encouraging me to try online dating.
Well design a good profile and let them come to you, so it will be more comfortable for her because if she doesn't pursue you, she doesn't have genuine desire and you don't want to have to negotiate attention because that will lead to torture and even heartbreak
Definitely try it, it can be fun as long as you don’t take it too seriously too fast. And there always will be people who are shitty conversationalists, please don’t become bitter because of them because once you find the good ones it’s great
19:18 "Cute...you have a friend..." 😆 aka "someone can stand being in the same room with you...". Unintentionally hilarious.
Hey Courtney! Thank you for the review (1st profile was mine). Definatelly some good points there :)
Thank you for participating! ❤️
Damn that must’ve been surreal…
The " best" dating profile you can have is a ....smile!....it's free...honest...welcoming & shows that you love living life & genuinely "care". It can make anybodys day! Always put your best foot forward, Not in your mouth!
14:08, appreciate the review. I've always liked my bio and had trouble picking the right pictures.
Good luck out there guys, youre gonna need it!
I try my best with my profile I always change it and do different things Courtney Ryan you really help out a lot
Good to see Hallee again!
Loved This and yes our favourite hallee 😀
Thanks for the advice I really enjoy your channel
Just saw your pwf collab honestly I think people think your older purely because of your classy demeanour usually get that with older women in my experience....Great work thanks for the great content 👍
Appreciate getting the passing grade for my profile, thanks for the feature ☺️
I subscribed to you because of alex from playing with fire. Saw the you vs nelly video. Omg nelly is such a toxic woman.
And you are such a great example of an awesome woman!
Honestly you just gave me hope. I see the hatred modern Tiktok women have for men, which is a result of the criminal mainstream media thru the years.
Thank you Courtney.
❤️
Love your videos! Keep up the good work! Your friend Hallee seems like a pretty amazing person...and she's single?
Just 2 absolutely stunning women giving advice to us hopeless individuals! 😍❤️
Speak for yourself, Sunshine. You’ve managed to give free validation AND disparage yourself all in one sentence. You should think about that.
I wouldn't paint your own gender as "hopeless" ... how about just two people making content for many other people?
This video was so relatable and funny 😂
Lol you had me at single friend, I feel played. For real though, I’m taking notes to hopefully impress someone as lovely. I just moved across the country and I’m looking to update my profiles before turning them back on.
ooo I like Hallee's shirt and how her hair goes with it 👌🏼
Dating apps for the most part are a waste of time. It's crazy how people are simply judged by physical appearance. How more shallow can you be? I get it, you want to be with someone you're attracted to but looks isn't everything. Dating apps is like checking what's on the menu at a restaurant and if you're not a 9 or 10, girls won't give you the time of day....You have a higher chance of getting struck by lightning twice then finding a girl on a dating app!
Big fax
@dflowers30 right bro, but what are the chances of attracting women you want to date if most women are shallow and won't give you the time of day? It's pointless
No ONS attitude means they don't want someone that participates on casual sex (one night stands = ONS). It is important to make expectations like that clear from the beginning.
My theme song is the Captain America theme at the beginning of Captain America 2, the one where you watch the sun rise from afar on the national mall in Washington, as Steve Rogers run lap around the water.
I don't know, this song really give me a morning vibe, along with a much needed energy boost to start my day.
Good video overall, some nice tips. I'm looking for a coparent rather than a lover, so the bio is bound to take it into account, but I'll try to keep your advice in mind.
Maybe it’s just me PMS-ing, but reading that quote about love made me actually want to cry. 😭 If I stumbled upon that while on Tinder I would stop in my tracks. That is so cute.
ONS = One Night Stand
Joel is into FPV drone flying. the VR lets him see the POV of the drone.
I am fpv guy too. Was a bit funny to see her saying "oh you are a drone guy" cause it sounded like she got turned off a bit
“Single” I would give her $100K if I could go through her phone and not find 1 man she’s currently talking to/ seeing.
She doesn't strike me as the promiscuous type, more like just hyper-selective. That's my biggest piece of feedback for these RP channels, they always show these hypersexual promiscuous types when in reality there are tons of quality women out there who are nothing like those women.
The problem is those quality women are almost asexual. They're really focused more on their careers and education. If a good guy just somehow plops into their lives, then they will consider the notion of having a partner, but otherwise it would never even cross their minds.
My girlfriend was like that too. If we hadn't met the way we did (pure coincidence), you would never see her on a dating app, looking at guys, talking about guys, or even thinking about guys. Was just a low/non-priority for her.
Single does mean non exclusive
Save your cash bro and relax
@@drip369 Single means only one (no partner). Exclusive means limited to one (one partner).
So, non-exclusive would have to mean NOT limited to one OR (multiple partners). This is my point, we all know is what it means.
@@thecommenter9267 So.... she's f*cking dudes on the side and just not in a relationship. Got it 👍
She's selective for that relationship status...... meaning she enjoys using dudes and wants to be alone till she's "ready" (about to begin her decline)
I'll double that,they're all full of shit
Hey Courtney! Do you do private teachings? Thank you for this vid. Helped SO much.
Hey Courtney, love the content! I have one ask, though. Could you possibly get some perspectives from women of color as well? I would love to see if there are any slight cultural differences in how black, asian, hispanic women, etc, become attracted to men.
Absolutely I can! ❤️
I love me some chocolate
Brings me back to my teen years 😅
Hey Courtney, what is your opinion on black & white photos? I have all my pictures in b&w do you think it adds an artsy touch or should i keep a few pictures normally so people can see my skin color etc?
I’d say 1-2 B&W photos doesn’t hurt but make sure you have most of them in color!
Umm.. are you on Schindler's list?
I have done online dating in the past with Plenty of Fish, and Bumble. I had an overall good experience with Plenty of Fish but I found Bumble as a waste of time as women are suppose to initiate conversation and if they messaged me, the conversation was jaded
Bumble fundamentally misunderstands female nature. Women don't like doing the approaching, they like being approached.
Women may complain about how they get so many messages on dating apps, but it's really more of a flex than a complaint.
Bumble founders took that feedback way too literally and then made an app where only women can initiate. Shows complete lack of understanding. It's no wonder why it's a poorly rated app with declining subscriber numbers.
Bumble is a total waste of time in my opinion lol online dating is hard enough, let alone when a woman is required to send the first message 😅
@@CourtneyRyan On one hand that makes sense...on the other hand...most of my matches and convos lately i've gotten from bumble lol
@@CourtneyRyan hey Women wanted equality so here is their chance to start asking guys out.
you guys were doing such a great job on this video. Then you said you like pineapple on pizza and my Italian heart broke a little bit... there you go, controversial topic started ;)
Best online dating advice is to not use online dating and approach women throughout your day to day life.
That is the better option, because you have to be more comfortable and confident talking with anybody, especially women. Who knows how many of these guys that need to work on themselves will even want to be patient enough to do the work and then show the market they are available
@@drip369 - It doesn’t matter if your comfortable talking to new people I’m not. I’m very introverted I barley said a word to anyone in school because I was too scared to speak up. But when I see a girl I like for example at the grocery store. I simply go up to her and say something like this.
Me- Excuse my I think your cute I wanted to say hi
Me- I’m James (shake hands)exchange names
Then ask about her day, what she planned for the weekend, ask her what she does for fun, flirt a little and then say
Listen I’ve got to go but let me get your number and we’ll hang out sometime. Most of the time I get a yes it’s really not that hard. It’s not about being shy or having no experience men are so weak they are scared of rejection and care what others think about them.
95% of women want the top 5% of men with online dating. Stay away from online dating, for your own mental health.
@@primeobjective5469 - True
Hard for guys like me that work a trade job that is 99% men, other than going to the grocery store theres really no other opportunities.
In Fahim's 1st picture, I was 100% expecting to see a ghost behind him! 🤣 👻
Hallee is back🤩🤩
I love your content and really appreciate hearing the perspectives of your friends as well. One thing that would really help would be to have more women of color to give a broader perspective. I thing I’ve seen 2 or 3 women of color on your channel so far. More diverse voices would be greatly appreciated!
Melanie King, a black woman, also makes dating advice videos here on CZcams
Halee looks stunning so two beautiful women for the price of one is definitely a bonus so thanks Courtney 😌🙏🙇 UNFORTUNATELY most women have a different attitude to what you're both saying. Most look for bad boys wealth looks height muscles over a man that would treat them right and a gentleman to them that's boring. I wish men had the picking advantage but we swipe right and women swipe left until something trickles their fancy. But keep up the good work may be one day the table will turn but hell will freeze over before that ever happens.
i love the group vids. Especially when you have a topic and ask the opinions of different women LMAO those are entertaining/informative
5:00 this definitely be use for tinder a laughter is definitely added value to your profile
ONS means One Night Stand
Overly Nordic-curl Strong
Over Night Sleeper
Oncology Nursing Staff
None of these are right. You, Dallas are correct. Mine are funny tho
Old North State (just throwing some humor 😆)
Yoooo...that shower prompt when i read it at first i'm like "wait,what?" Then i read it a 2nd time and burst out laughing. Genius Bro.
Thanks, feel free to use it 👍🏼
@@zakkhetfield1963 Cool, but I've been trying not to incorporate prompts since you can't remove them once you use them.
Do you think you can get away w/o prompts or you find you need them if you want them to message something?
@@LandofLit More girls respond to my prompts than my pictures, so I'd recommend using them, just make sure you pick some that represent your personality as much as possible while also being easy to respond to.
That's why I chose the shower thoughts prompt. It's equal parts witty and funny, while also being genuinely interesting to think about.
Concentrate on 1 prompt that you're really happy with, make that the first one they see. The other prompts don't need to be as specific or as thought out.
Its what has worked for me anyway.
@@zakkhetfield1963 okay so at the very least focus on having one prompt right? That prompt and answer can be yours or my own that I like? 🤔 I might try my own first I mean...my channel LITERALLY dabbles in comedy lol 😊
@@LandofLit Exactly. Figure out your own or work away with mine, it's all good. Best of luck 👍🏼
6:10 Not virtual reality per se. You were right the first time, it's drone stuff, just not the kind of drone stuff most people are used to. He's basically sitting in the drone "cockpit," but it's not 3D. It'd probably be better to have a photo with him holding the drone, with the goggles around his neck, and the controller hanging on the lanyard.
only car you should take a pic of would be a camper-van taken in a cool scene. Only because it shows adventure / free spirited. I could be wrong though.
In my opinion the best profiles are the ones where they don't take things too seriously. Post some funny / goofy / confusing pics.
I went on a first date with a girl where we actually swooned about nice cars with a funny twist. We were talking about what would make a good death, so she said she'd like to get run over by a really cool car at high speed. I proceeded to ask her which one she'd prefer, so I'd know when to hold her tight when such a model passes us. Never expected to proceed talking to a girl about cars for half an hour, but we did and it was awesome! ^^
Stereotypes are stupid. I'm a woman and I've talked about horror films and hentai porn with other women 😂😂😂
"Ruffle your feathers" 🤩 this can have a double meaning...my very attractive ex-wife used to talk about going to have her feathers plucked once a month!😍
😅 Ah, I love emojis too and use them as bullet points!
🚗 I like the car tip, ladies!
🙇♀️ Thanks!
Uh oh! Courtney told her fans that her friend is single! 😂😂🤣 The simps will swarm......fellas lol just in case, level up, let them swarm
I came here to see if anyone was going to comment on the fact that she just told the entirety of CZcams that her attractive and cool friend is single. She's either doing her friend a favour or playing a prank of some kind 🤣
I think it helps to know that you’re getting the perspective of a single girl who is actually using the apps! 😂 it’s been a while since I’ve used one so I like to add a fresh perspective 🙌🏼
@@georgegray2712 i know but it might nudge some of them. Twas just poking fun at Courtney 😅
@@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121 see see! See! Could be messing with her friend, or just not caring 🤣🤣
I love these videos. Two beautiful women being honest and funny? Who wouldn't like this content? =;- )
Maybe make the phone bigger so we can see the pics/bio better? Also might be better to get opinion from your friends on if they would swipe right/left - and why or why not?
Dudes left theirs blank? I'd say 90+% of women on any dating site (hinge and bumble excluded) put "blah" "..." Or "Idk" and that speaks volumes (she came to swipe, not to find an LTR)
Yep, she's looking for validation and to see how high her sexual market value is
Yep, at this point it's pretty much objectively true that female dating profiles are significantly lower quality than male dating profiles. And the obvious reason for that is because men face stiffer competition and therefore NEED to be on point in order to stand out. Women have all the options anyways so there really is no need to put effort into their profiles.
@@thecommenter9267 for sure. I mean if they only have the effort to write blah, or this is stupid, then you can already get a sample of their basic attitude.
Another great video 👌🏾
Posted nice pics, a decent overall bio about me, my goals and interests. Next to no sucess. It’s hard out there
2:50 he's saying "no ONS attitude" == he doesn't look for one-night stands. I don't think that's even remotely the same as saying he doesn't want a girl with attitude.
2:18 ONS Attitude?
Urban Dictionary, the Acronym is: “One Night Stand”.
She is single? No way.
I have been seeing the “Tinder Swindler” going viral, haven't seen it yet, I suppose that's a: ⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳
Your feedback is always so helpful Hallee.
Hey Courtney first off thank you for offering hinge , way better than tinder and the others. I watch most of your content and take tips from you and wanted to know. As a devorced dad when is it right to tell a girl im dating that i am one?
Hi Jake! I would recommend letting her know very early on, honestly the sooner the better. I did a video with my friend Alexa Lee and we discussed this in detail, I think you would really enjoy that episode!
@@CourtneyRyan i think iv seen that one , with your devorced friend? The problom is, that everytime i get a girl to go out with me, once i tell her about it , she ends it
@@jjteller41 if she ends it quickly, good. You can’t change it, so may as well not waste time with someone who wants fundamentally different things.
i like how you girls are so cute, and dress real nice
Its so refreshing to see and listen to REAL women that do not have an “agenda” against men. These women are so Beautiful and honest. Women, need to take note. Men are more receptive and understanding when women are not hostile and hating men.
How to move on it has been more than a year still i feel about her what to do and how to do now?
Guys, read this a hundred times! " Online dating sites are a waste of your time..."
Anyone else notice Jan took that dog bio off of Courtney's other Tinder video?? Haha I don't think she even noticed
I always like watching your videos for real
Thank you! Glad you’re here 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan yeah the first person you put out there with the whole part about no attitude. Is really helpful because for me I always try to put what I don't want. And you're right it's coming at it with a negative mindset. So I appreciate that thank you very much
@@CourtneyRyan your videos are definitely very helpful
Courtney- "We're joined by one of your favorites Hallee😁"
Me-"ok😕"
I've come across three girls in the last 6mo that can work on cars. It's definitely a cool thing
The guy with the controller and the goggles is using a drone/quad copter with a camera on it that you're seeing what the drone see's while flying it. Actually really cool and fun, but a bit nerdy lol.
Must say that Hallee is absolutely gorgeous!
Where do i submit my tinder profile? I need help haha
Something I absolutely hate is when all of their photos are GROUP photos! Idk who I’m looking at😂
her friend is the human version of a golden retriever
When I had tinder my main profile pic was in front of a car that wasn't even mine. No wonder I didn't get many matches
Courtney, any advice for dudes on Grindr?.
Reactions to dating profiles is extremely subjective, but does give an idea of the thought process which is good. For example, the issue of the car in the photo. They are correct that it could attract a certain type of person and turn off others, but that's the point isn't it? So the takeaway is whatever you show, you will be judged by it, so make sure what you reveal is signaling to the type of person you want to attract.
You should do a video where you see what women’s profiles look like
To give context to the first profile I think ONS means one night stand!
Why did you tell the guy with car to keep it of its his interests but the guy witht the vr headset on to get rid of that photo ? Dosnt that show interests? Can there be wrong interests?
Thank God I’m asexual and ace romance. Because romance is very much of a tiring game it sounds like it’s all so complicated. So basically these videos will not help me because I can’t take into much information. But when I do look at videos as a sexual person. It just seems so tiring into doesn’t seem right it’s supposed to have a naturally.
I feel the same bro i'm too lazy for that
Two pretty ladies!
I think it is solid advice in the video and I don't really know Hallie's situation but I just question all these upper tier chicks who are single. Any woman who looks like that has thousands upon thousands of guys hitting her up on social media, cold approaching them. Really to be "single" for more than a couple months would tell me she is dismissing every guy as not good enough. I have seen this happen all over the country and if Tom Brady showed up he would be too old and if Zac Efron showed up he would be too short and too old. The point is every dude is dismissed and then they become addicted to rejecting guys and often they are in a teenie Bopper tease phase until their mid 30s.
I how to use a mirror pic because I don't have any pictures of myself
It might be good to make a profile and keep one up. Updatig it every so often and stuff. Dont take it to serious tho. Have it be there. interact with it whenever you interact with it. Continue to improve in every aspect of life should be the goal still
wew the last guy... If such guys exist I have nothing to do on dating websites...
#Even I learned a thing or two watching these reviews. kahma portraits would level up anyones dating game for sure.
Hallee is just simply beautiful... fantastic smile as well!
Don’t simp my man
@@Marcus_009 Yes, especially because attraction can be made through one comment on CZcams. LOL! (sarcasm)
Question Ladies? Once you find a match on a dating app. At what point will you delete your profile / app. And do you think you will wondering if you are missing something. asking for a friend.
That guy is flying a first person drone.
How do I match with Hallee?