Unfiltered| African American Men Dating African Women
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
- Me, an African woman @LindaTinahTV and an American @TheGiLife having an unfiltered conversation about Black American men looking for traditional African partners. We ended up also talking about how we raised to see sex and relationships.
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This is such an interesting conversation, L. Interesting to see the differences and similarities between African and African American women. But also, the differences and similarities within the same country (Uganda). If I'm not mistaken, historically women (especially those that belonged to one of the three social classes) in my part of the country worked. Men (not all of course) were generally considered lazy especially those from two of the three social classes. Today, the stereotype of the lazy man from that part still lingers (apparently most men preferred work that wasn't physically demanding and hence considered lazy).
What would you attribute this "laziness " to?
I think you should talk to the African American male than an African American woman about dating African Women from Africa.
There are different POV. It's nice to look at all angles. I am going to put into consideration hosting an African American male to share from that POV. Thanks for the input.
As an African American woman,
I will not live under the roof with any man whether it's rent or mortgage, mine or his and pay rent or mortgage.
I feel, on the smallest scale, this a mans responsibilty providing shelter.
Now this doesnt mean as the Proverb 31 woman that I am, that I will not have provision, a business and income and if times get hard be able to be a help meet.
But it will not be because of his financial irresponsibility or continuous financial abuse to our livelihood.
I'm traditional by nature, in touch with my feminine energy and have a plethora of value to enhance a man's life.
I enjoy the company of a healthy masculine man where I can provide nurture and care with ease, without dominance and demanding behavior, which is not masculine or provider energy.
A rich man doesn't necessarily mean a generous man.
Louder for those in the back please!!
And to each his own if other females are comfortable with a different arrangement. I respect that.
@@LindaTinahTV I resoect it as well. To each his own.💜
There are definitely African Anerican women who feel the same about men being providers.
Even before marriage the few serious relationships I had I was well provided for.
I really didnt think this wasn't standard until recently seeing the opinions on the internet.
The,50/50 rhetoric.
There are African women who expect provision but will settle for less.
I think women for the most part are very similar in what they truly desire until conditioned or manipulated out of it.
My father was a full on provider.
My mother worked, by choice, but was not responsible for any Bill's or monetary needs of the family.
I will say the narrative of 50/50 is running rapid in American culture.
It allows the men to be less ambitious and often entitled and the women to. be overly exhausted and eventually operating in their masculine.
I find that some of the submissiveness men have been taught that African women have is really trained submission not necessarily submission generated from being honored and loved.
We as a collective of women are rising in consciousness and understanding of our feminine nature and power and deservedness.
The world is resetting.
And it beautiful.
At the end of the day, we are one.
This provider rhetoric is not something genuine in the US.
History shows that this idea was not prevalent until the late 40s and early 50s. Before then, men and women worked in an agrarian life or the burgeoning manufacturing industry, and there was no time when black women didn't work by and large, including being forced labor from slavery and after.
Only the top 5٪ of whites had kept wives, and this has become the narrative in the USA, whereas a 6 figure man today, my money pales in comparison to old money.
What 100k could buy in 1960, I have to make 1 million dollars to have an equivalent value today due to inflation.
This conversation can't be had with unrealistic, unaware, and ignorant people who have not the research and study nor the care to understand the issues. This is all emotional hubris, not logical reasoning. Data speaks truth while people tell lies knowingly or ignorantly.
Very valid point in there.
Very valid points in there.
@@user-bw9dy3pd6b And yet it still happens. Men being providers in America.
With 3 to 4 women is he providing?
Are each womans emotional needs met?
Are theybpushibg down emotions and jealousy?
I think we can start to revisit what providing means for those in the American culture who are being convinced to try this.
I understand this is the culture in Africa so in no way do I look to change that, but I've heard so many stories here online from African women who were the children or wives in these situations who have not shared positive outcomes at the end of the day.
Curious.???
That's where they get it wrong. They may be able to financially provide for all but there's no way they can emotionally and physically be there for them.
What a narrow minded view and trash perspective. Every brother isn't a passport bro. Dating a lot of American women was trash and toxic. I went to Africa for wife and found dating to be easier, fun, and better. Kings don't let yourselves feel down but making moves. Set yourself Free and experience live. Culture and being raised a certain way is a thing. This lady's mindset is so closed it's sad.
The fact that's you are calling your own trash and toxic says a lot. But thanks for your input and all the best with your African queen. I hope you treat her like the queen she is.
This is trash
Thanks for watching.
@@LindaTinahTV 😘
@@3DSuccess a raw nerve was touched😆😆