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It’s racist as heck if they say things like oh wow you dress ice and speak so well you can’t be African smh I can’t understand people. Also our ancestors where taken by people that look like them so how can they think such ways about us.

Hi, I am Italian and I moved to the UK 12 years ago. My daughter was born in UK and she is going to the school in here as well. I believe schools in Italy are honestly very good since they focus on studying and all, while in England they are focus on extra activities and other things and it is really impossible to develop a good common sense e general knowledge. Basically no one knows anything in here, it's so disheartening to talk to people who have no clue on any topic

Great video! Love the different conversations. I'm African, living in US and grew up here, so it gave me a unique perspective on culture/race and relate to both sides. I agree with G that no one should ever go up to another human being, especially a child and just touch their hair, a part of their body. It's not healthy to allow children to think it's okay for strangers to touch them for reasons of safety and boundaries in addition to it's just not okay.

OMG! This video is so cool. Reminds me of all the other black women friends I made in France! A microaggressions video would be great!

I loved this video. It was very informative. Will be glad if you make another video on what to expect from the extended family (parents /siblings/ uncles/ aunties/ cousins) of an Italian spouse or what their behaviors are in general and expect of me, as a female immigrant. To understand their way of thinking. 😃

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The disagreement you’re having is that Africans aren’t growing up in majority white societies whereas black Americans (and black British) generally do. I think that’s what leads to Africans overlooking microagressions sometimes.

Maybe the Gary Coleman comment was a reference to adoption and not phenotype 🤔? Arnold was adopted by a white father, after all. That was my first thought …

Maybe you can show some pix of your family to show your points…

my aunt is from Zim and married to Italian dude and my nephew is so handsome , such a lovely family I miss them they always visit us in South Africa

African woman your kids you see as mixed are seen Blacks by white people and in the white world..When you come over to America , your kids will be called blacks because look at the American lady she is mixed and light skin but in US we said Black in general, Ugandan woman stop trying to play the white woman. Be yourself.

Black people always want to live everywhere, but Africa.

Non sono riuscita a guardare tutto il video, mi è venuta un senso di sconforto. Ora mentre passeggio in centro ho paura di traumatizzare i neri se li guardo per più di qualche secondo, e devo anche stare molto attenta a non fare complimenti ai loro bambini perché anche questa è una "microaggressione". Penso che la signora afroamericana potrebbe arrivare a dire che i bianchi sono pericolosi per il semplice fatto di esistere e che potrebbero farle il piacere di suicidarsi.

I never get the people that put an emoji on people they don't want to share. Like, don't post them

lol! Oh this is fun

enjoy

Thank you so much for sharing your views on life in Italy. I am American who was stationed in Naples, Italy for 4 years. Southern Italy is very different than northern Italy. I too experienced the same ups and downs as you. I will ALWAYS have a deep fondness for Italy. It is a part of who I am now. The food, the people, the beaches, the noise of the city, the history, the culture are all AMAZING! I have so many items around my home today to constantly remind me of the life that I lived while I was there. I thank God everyday for those experiences. I'm always telling anyone (who will listen) that if you're going to Europe, you must visit Italy. But with all that beauty they're were some days where the (racist moments) too my breath away and made it a little hard to bear. My hope for Italy is that they don't stay so stuck on how "it's always been" that the world leaves them behind. Change is coming to all of us. I hope to see my old Italian neighborhood again and breathe in the Mediterranean air. To ride around the city on a moped and just for a moment try to forget the negative people who tried to kill my joy. Forever love Italy.

(Italian from Friuli - a sadly conservative and right winged region - by many generations.) So interesting to hear your perspective on living in Milan! What you said about the education system is not related to the school your kids are: extracurricolar activities are something I learned the existence of only when I started looking at other countries's schools. I was also happy to hear that you haven't had any heavily racist experiences, although the further you go from big cities the less white Italians are used at seeing people of different color. And, as you said, Italians don't like big changes, they like to keep things traditional.

well done lady! i find it more shocking that highly educated people, like doctors, don't speak English!!!

The comment that men want soft women to abuse them is ignorant . For a good strong hardworking man soft is better. The blond braided chick upset me with that statement . Men appreciates a soft women

I agree with all and honestly in the past ive judged how people creeped around with things but as i get older i see why some do,lovely video beautiful 😍

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Important information well detailed 👏👏👏 Well said ❤❤

Quite a lot of women posing as looking for a relationship but as soon as you move to WhatsApp chat you find that many are selling sex videos, those frauds that I encountered were mainly from Ghana and Nigeria. It's easy to bypass the paid membership and send your number in blocks of 4, then wait until the one you want types in 'Next'. Then send your next four numbers and so on. For this to work you should type one message at a time and wait for the word 'Next' to appear after each four numbers.

This lady on the left is the reason why men from America are LEAVING AMERICA to marry women in Africa...she thinks all black men in America want to hurt her🔥🔥

@LindaTinahTV Why are you comparing yourself to our beautiful Foundational Black American women? We don't want african women, we are cool with our own women. Why do africans always compare themselves to us. You never compare yourself to carribeans. We are nothing alike. We are not the same people. We are not african in any sense of the word. "a considerable portion of the blood of the Southern Negro is unquestionably Indian" 19th Annual report of the Bureau of American Ethnology to the Secretary of the Smithsonian Institution" (1898) (page 233) by J.W. Powell, former Director of the U.S Geological Society

Yes. The beautiful American sister has a true perspective of what American women as a collective are experiencing. This is a great conversation💜

Question for the beautiful Sister from Africa. Do you find that many women in Africa are happy in their marriages and relationships?

I think it’s simple fior African American women to allow a man to lead. I do see women finding it hard to find men who understand what true leadership is. Women often share with me in sessions that men want to dominate them, not lead them.

Blame white woman Margaret Sanger founder of THE NEGRO PROJECT.

How is the weather in October?

All the way to the end of the video and the man hating American woman get to her real fantasy, a woman. Sitting up under that woman drinking wine probably ten in the morning. I was interested in the African woman's perspective. Keep an eye on those western women. Watch where they are in a year or two. Follow them after you see where they're headed. 8:15 😊

What a narrow minded view and trash perspective. Every brother isn't a passport bro. Dating a lot of American women was trash and toxic. I went to Africa for wife and found dating to be easier, fun, and better. Kings don't let yourselves feel down but making moves. Set yourself Free and experience live. Culture and being raised a certain way is a thing. This lady's mindset is so closed it's sad.

It is not about how much a man’s make, it’s about respect. A lot of African American women are not thought values and respect. Any man won't tolerate be disrespect. We dislike women who are loud. We dislike women who lack manners. We're not fond of women with unresolved daddy issues. We're not fans of those women who lack basic relationship consideration. We're put off by confrontational behavior of African American women. We prefer individuals who have the strength to remain calm when addressing upsetting issues

I think you should talk to the African American male than an African American woman about dating African Women from Africa.

Most African American women are lesbians as well🔥African women NORMALLY are not lesbian

African American blk women got (bad attitudes) with (ridiculous expectations)..and they wear (white wigs trying to be a white woman) in USA....not African women🔥..African women don't want to be white women. 50k is plenty of money for a traditional African woman

This is such an interesting conversation, L. Interesting to see the differences and similarities between African and African American women. But also, the differences and similarities within the same country (Uganda). If I'm not mistaken, historically women (especially those that belonged to one of the three social classes) in my part of the country worked. Men (not all of course) were generally considered lazy especially those from two of the three social classes. Today, the stereotype of the lazy man from that part still lingers (apparently most men preferred work that wasn't physically demanding and hence considered lazy).

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With 3 to 4 women is he providing? Are each womans emotional needs met? Are theybpushibg down emotions and jealousy? I think we can start to revisit what providing means for those in the American culture who are being convinced to try this. I understand this is the culture in Africa so in no way do I look to change that, but I've heard so many stories here online from African women who were the children or wives in these situations who have not shared positive outcomes at the end of the day. Curious.???

As an African American woman, I will not live under the roof with any man whether it's rent or mortgage, mine or his and pay rent or mortgage. I feel, on the smallest scale, this a mans responsibilty providing shelter. Now this doesnt mean as the Proverb 31 woman that I am, that I will not have provision, a business and income and if times get hard be able to be a help meet. But it will not be because of his financial irresponsibility or continuous financial abuse to our livelihood. I'm traditional by nature, in touch with my feminine energy and have a plethora of value to enhance a man's life. I enjoy the company of a healthy masculine man where I can provide nurture and care with ease, without dominance and demanding behavior, which is not masculine or provider energy. A rich man doesn't necessarily mean a generous man.

There are definitely African Anerican women who feel the same about men being providers. Even before marriage the few serious relationships I had I was well provided for. I really didnt think this wasn't standard until recently seeing the opinions on the internet. The,50/50 rhetoric. There are African women who expect provision but will settle for less. I think women for the most part are very similar in what they truly desire until conditioned or manipulated out of it. My father was a full on provider. My mother worked, by choice, but was not responsible for any Bill's or monetary needs of the family. I will say the narrative of 50/50 is running rapid in American culture. It allows the men to be less ambitious and often entitled and the women to. be overly exhausted and eventually operating in their masculine. I find that some of the submissiveness men have been taught that African women have is really trained submission not necessarily submission generated from being honored and loved. We as a collective of women are rising in consciousness and understanding of our feminine nature and power and deservedness. The world is resetting. And it beautiful. At the end of the day, we are one.

There’s always joy in making and spending your own money 😅

Interesting Video LT. I've had a love hate relationship with money for long. And this was only because back home we are never taught about money, even in schools. As I've aged, I've learnt to respect money more. Not to love it like you said but to make it serve me. Still on a learning curve, but in a better place with Mr dimes now more than ever! That said, I should also say that the love (obsession) of money can be a very dangerous thing. It is the only thing God said, to be the root of all evil...the love of money!

Money is definitely important- I see it as a form of freedom and makes life easier. Can money buy you happiness? YES & NO

Yes! My sentiment too " money gives you options." I hate to depend on people.

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Hi Linda, thanks for this! I also have a complicated relationship with money and am always trying to find ways to make more! I also grew up in a family with not much money, so one of my goals is to be financially stable and thriving. I haven’t quite figured it out yet (I have student loans from university), but I am trying to improve my skills to make myself more marketable.

i just want to get out of italy

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