How To Talk To Your Crush (If You're Awkward)

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  • čas přidán 19. 05. 2024
  • Thanks for watching! Ask me for advice below and I'll make a video about it! Subscribe here for daily videos:
    This video is dedicated to anyone who wants to know how to talk to your crush. Shoutout to That Woozen Ariana, who suggested this topic. Now I could go on for hours and hours about this, how to approach people, how to start a conversation, etc. Not saying it would be valuable information, but I could ramble.
    So to simplify, I broke it down like this: if you want to know how to talk to your crush, do the following:
    1. SAY "F*** YOU" TO FEAR AND GO UP TO THEM.
    2. Compliment them honestly.
    2. Ask them a question that you actually want to know the answer to, ideally related to the compliment. "Hey I like your jacket, where did you get it?"
    4. Keep them talking about themselves. People are vain and they love that.
    5. Try to end on a funny note where someone is laughing. I know you'll want to talk forever. Don't do that.
    6. I didn't include this in the video but RELAX. It's not the end of the world.
    7. I talked about rejection in the video but I'd be surprised if anyone rejected CONVERSATION with a peer. Maybe a date, but conversation? I doubt it.
    8. Thank me for all my hard work.
    So that's it! Obviously way more complex for that, but we don't have time. That's how to talk to your crush.
    If you liked the video, hit the thumbs up and subscribe. CZcams is against me so I need help here haha.
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  • @ally2449
    @ally2449 Před 5 lety +4591

    i honestly just don't understand how people can go up to someone else and start a conversation.

  • @jov5491
    @jov5491 Před 5 lety +4641

    Who tf rejected this guy

  • @estelle51
    @estelle51 Před 4 lety +8434

    goes to school with 100% confidence*
    *sees crush*
    turns around
    me:
    maybe tomorrow

    • @Tiski_jukka
      @Tiski_jukka Před 4 lety +297

      RELATABLE!

    • @St0nerWithDaB0ner420
      @St0nerWithDaB0ner420 Před 4 lety +158

      Bruh🚫🧢

    • @Avenger90075
      @Avenger90075 Před 4 lety +96

      I’m the same way

    • @THAYSSA.
      @THAYSSA. Před 4 lety +167

      That's my situation. It's been almost a month since i'm telling myself i'll talk to him but i overthink a lot so i end up not doing it. he seems to be really nice and i love his style... help me. :(

    • @mrfriendreaper5506
      @mrfriendreaper5506 Před 4 lety +13

      yes

  • @lizardsouttalies3164
    @lizardsouttalies3164 Před 5 lety +490

    Crush: i play soccer
    Me: I LOVE YOU TOO 🥰

  • @ZeroBaseTine
    @ZeroBaseTine Před 5 lety +4036

    Goes to my crush: I like your face
    Crush:.......

  • @dannylauu
    @dannylauu Před 6 lety +3024

    i actually hate talking about my self, makes me feel awkward lol

  • @pilt6569
    @pilt6569 Před 4 lety +2548

    Me: makes a joke
    My crush: _laughs_
    Me: Alright, I gotta go, was nice to talk to you.
    _walks out of class_

  • @bassslayer9049
    @bassslayer9049 Před 5 lety +5362

    Me flirting
    Me: What color is your toothbrush
    Crush: why
    Me: because mine is red

  • @bringmetheblackveilbrides7361
    @bringmetheblackveilbrides7361 Před 6 lety +5136

    How to talk to your crush if you're awkward:
    *You don't*

    • @serxplayz6686
      @serxplayz6686 Před 6 lety +71

      That's so true

    • @sifeburger4093
      @sifeburger4093 Před 5 lety +18

      Bring Me The Black Veil Brides that doesn’t help;)

    • @geno5952
      @geno5952 Před 5 lety +68

      What if they talk to you first?

    • @alexchase6075
      @alexchase6075 Před 5 lety +55

      @@geno5952 that doesn't happen if you're awkward XD

    • @geno5952
      @geno5952 Před 5 lety +28

      Bro I swear, I actually don't talk to girls (in high school btw) and this hot blonde russian girl dms me

  • @worthlessmutts9598
    @worthlessmutts9598 Před 5 lety +3392

    finally a youtuber that doesn't yell at the camera and sound over excited to talk into the camera.

  • @jenninejoseph4027
    @jenninejoseph4027 Před 5 lety +976

    My crush: I like ur shoes
    Me: I like your face
    My crush: I'm gonna go now.. aheh..
    Me inside: ☠

    • @killerx123_5
      @killerx123_5 Před 4 lety +24

      bro one compliment a day my dude

    • @killerx123_5
      @killerx123_5 Před 4 lety +9

      oof u daid i like her face oof😂 u should have said she is cute/pretty

    • @esmeedebruin4660
      @esmeedebruin4660 Před 4 lety +13

      I literally did this... this guy snapchatted me saying “nice glasses” and I replied by saying “thanks, nice face” 😳

    • @amiahedmondson6320
      @amiahedmondson6320 Před 4 lety +2

      Sksksksksksks I’m dead🤣🤣🤣🤣 the best comment🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cocoacat.pngggg
      @cocoacat.pngggg Před rokem

      @@esmeedebruin4660 LMAO

  • @cheersdarlin1516
    @cheersdarlin1516 Před 5 lety +226

    Rejection makes me feel so insecure, I feel like I am not enough for anyone

  • @meaghankehoe3233
    @meaghankehoe3233 Před 6 lety +8449

    Sees the “if your awkward” in the title and I instantly had to click

  • @leonellointheflesh
    @leonellointheflesh Před 4 lety +882

    me: oh yeah we're gonna do this
    crush: looks at me
    my brain: *sirens going off* ABORT MISSION, ABORT MISSION. ACCESS DENIED. YOU'RE NOT WORTHY, YOU'RE NOT WORTHY.
    me, to myself: I guess I'll do this tomorrow!

    • @pigeonfood6782
      @pigeonfood6782 Před 4 lety +25

      I swear I walked into the cafeteria looking for my friend today and I saw my crush and he looked over at me and smiled and I said out loud "nope not today cmon dahlia (the person I was with) lets look for karrmine tomorrow" i wont even go near him I try to keep my distance because in socially awkward and he knows I like him like the entire grade knows and people think he likes me but idk its just like oh no hes there nope nope nope ive been holding off talking to him for 3 days now and the only time I talk to him is because of a dare and I had to ask him out because I lost at rock papers scissors welp

    • @Oscar-iz6sb
      @Oscar-iz6sb Před 4 lety +6

      TURN OFF THE ALARM AND WALK YOU WAY UP TO THEM

    • @kinggrizzly1916
      @kinggrizzly1916 Před 4 lety

      🤣🤣

    • @cecendiwa1375
      @cecendiwa1375 Před 4 lety +1

      and then the cycle restarts...

    • @doomspectrl
      @doomspectrl Před 4 lety +1

      thats so me

  • @kinggrizzly1916
    @kinggrizzly1916 Před 4 lety +109

    “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” ~ Wayne Gretzky

    • @nsa1809
      @nsa1809 Před 3 lety +3

      Yo my teacher has that poster and my crush is in that teachers class. And looking at it makes me want to do itttt but I can’t 😭

    • @kinggrizzly1916
      @kinggrizzly1916 Před 3 lety +3

      NSA Channel take your shot before it’s to late, you got this bro🤙

    • @elizabethmarshall6151
      @elizabethmarshall6151 Před 3 lety +9

      -michael scott

    • @lincoln65gecko3
      @lincoln65gecko3 Před 3 lety +2

      Sooooo even though I tried I missed

  • @hujvcghui4063
    @hujvcghui4063 Před 5 lety +1948

    With me and my crush it’s so easy to text but we barley talk in person and it’s awkward... I need help

    • @dibbage
      @dibbage Před 5 lety +39

      Sams

    • @mosiacsoml
      @mosiacsoml Před 5 lety +127

      Hujvc Ghui is it weird that it’s reverse for me?? I don’t know why but I just dOn’t know how to start the conversation over text like.. jansjsjand

    • @ulysses4989
      @ulysses4989 Před 5 lety +18

      @@mosiacsoml talk about something they like.

    • @xonatalya
      @xonatalya Před 5 lety +6

      Blonde Ambition me too

    • @marisolfalcon9474
      @marisolfalcon9474 Před 5 lety +4

      Omg same!!!

  • @bansimehta2638
    @bansimehta2638 Před 6 lety +1258

    Lol the biggest difficulty I guess is in deciding whether you actually wanna let the person know you like 'em or just continue things the way they are

    • @abdihamidmohamud1943
      @abdihamidmohamud1943 Před 6 lety +34

      Yeah! 100%

    • @lifeofj777
      @lifeofj777 Před 5 lety +39

      i felt that

    • @gx7167
      @gx7167 Před 5 lety +9

      Thats me haha

    • @artix123456789
      @artix123456789 Před 5 lety +2

      exactly

    • @whyshootdown4268
      @whyshootdown4268 Před 5 lety +42

      bansi mehta I literally just told someone that was a really good friend of mine I liked her and she literally started crying bc she liked me back and was wondering when I would make a move

  • @ieatpooalot
    @ieatpooalot Před 4 lety +387

    Me: **looks at crush**
    crush: **looks back**
    me: **sweats and act like i’m doing something**

  • @abcdevitje
    @abcdevitje Před 4 lety +1389

    Me flirting to a boy in my class like:
    Me: wich school do u go to?
    Him: uhm

  • @CorruptForces
    @CorruptForces Před 5 lety +1557

    Walking in the halls with 100 confidence level 100 boss see crush balls drop to floor level 1 rookie

  • @iloveseaslugs
    @iloveseaslugs Před 5 lety +474

    My teacher moved my crush next to me in English class and I can't even move my hand to write because I'm so awkward 😷

    • @vivlovesposty
      @vivlovesposty Před 5 lety +37

      Matea Pena I don’t even have my crush in any of my classes 💀

    • @tomato8123
      @tomato8123 Před 5 lety +30

      omg, the same thing happened to me. Our desks were move to do a group test, and since I sat right behind my crush, we had to sit next to eachother, and I kept on messing up the answers n stuff bc I was so nervous ;-;

    • @samanthacringe7123
      @samanthacringe7123 Před 5 lety +5

      Omg sameeee ;-;

    • @gilberteffenlie9146
      @gilberteffenlie9146 Před 5 lety +6

      Same,i just kept silence or talked to my friend behind me
      (Cant believe me and my crush went to the same school 9 years straight and probably more but just met here 2 years ago)

    • @MistyBubble1
      @MistyBubble1 Před 4 lety +1

      Toby and Marshmello :(

  • @theredhooded9261
    @theredhooded9261 Před 4 lety +283

    Me: Texts crush
    Crush: Responds Back
    Me: *Inner Panic attack*

    • @rositaspigeons1148
      @rositaspigeons1148 Před 4 lety +8

      The Red Hooded I can’t even text my crush, too nervous :(

    • @theredhooded9261
      @theredhooded9261 Před 4 lety +1

      Rosa Acosta just start a conversation

    • @rositaspigeons1148
      @rositaspigeons1148 Před 4 lety +2

      The Red Hooded i would but a while ago he was talking about how this girl was texting him and he didn’t want to talk to her and I’m afraid he might say that about me if I text him :(

    • @acidicpurple8559
      @acidicpurple8559 Před 4 lety

      @Bryan BD RIP

    • @brookjohansson7051
      @brookjohansson7051 Před 3 lety

      And then u don’t reply cuz u don’t know wtf to say

  • @vvkkk
    @vvkkk Před 4 lety +296

    “Tell your crush a compliment”
    Me: hey I love your face

  • @Funflmsify
    @Funflmsify Před 6 lety +677

    "Become a friend of rejection and failure, so that you an live in freedom". :)

  • @xgabby5973
    @xgabby5973 Před 5 lety +3927

    *crush:* *_smiles at me_*
    *me:* *_runs to my friend_*
    *also me* "HE LOVES MEEE!!!"

  • @tyconcepcion9996
    @tyconcepcion9996 Před 4 lety +299

    me: gets friend zoned
    crush: says we should keep talking tho
    also crush: flirts even more
    me: damnit i’m catching feelings again
    she’s probably playing me tho

  • @joliencazaux2620
    @joliencazaux2620 Před 4 lety +138

    Me: talking in the hallway at school
    My crush: walks by and smiles at me
    Me: becoming red and not knowing what to do with myself

    • @priyankasharma3825
      @priyankasharma3825 Před 4 lety +3

      I was getting my instrument and I almost dropped it when I saw my crush walk through the door

    • @marissamccann6254
      @marissamccann6254 Před 3 lety +1

      Jolien Cazaux same tho

    • @glare9059
      @glare9059 Před 2 lety

      @@priyankasharma3825 same I was shaking so bad

    • @bryannice8833
      @bryannice8833 Před rokem

      Bro turned into the Soviet union flag💀

  • @nassa5367
    @nassa5367 Před 5 lety +600

    I hope my crush like me pray for me guys please 😢

    • @vivlovesposty
      @vivlovesposty Před 5 lety +17

      NASER KK ❤️ you got it. Don’t worry!

    • @CorruptForces
      @CorruptForces Před 5 lety +23

      @@vivlovesposty I though it said I hope my crush dosent spray me in the face

    • @thisisntcatnip
      @thisisntcatnip Před 5 lety +13

      @@CorruptForces I god-damn hope my crush doesn't spray me in the face lol

    • @dankassdaniel
      @dankassdaniel Před 4 lety +2

      how'd it go?

    • @thecontroller4518
      @thecontroller4518 Před 4 lety +2

      Did it go well?

  • @babyvanderwoodsen
    @babyvanderwoodsen Před 6 lety +943

    lol britney spears called me hot once when i met her so that's the best i've got

    • @meaghankehoe3233
      @meaghankehoe3233 Před 6 lety +246

      Zoella Caylen wow that’s a life accomplishment

    • @morganqi3495
      @morganqi3495 Před 5 lety +31

      Britney spears is a hypoocrite

    • @idkdrew
      @idkdrew Před 5 lety +65

      She probably says that to every girl

    • @trevorlei4096
      @trevorlei4096 Před 5 lety +35

      @@Inaazabbassi its true she said that to my sister and shes a cold potato

    • @matejcevnik7362
      @matejcevnik7362 Před 5 lety +13

      R/thathappened

  • @kemjm7633
    @kemjm7633 Před 4 lety +103

    Crush: you're the best, I hope our kids will be friends just like us
    That's the best one😂

  • @nitro8718
    @nitro8718 Před 2 lety +37

    Coming from a boy. If you’re even the slightest bit good looking, smart, funny, kind, most guys WILL NOT reject you. They will just appreciate that they are acknowledged and respects that they are even being thought of! We are scared for rejection. 😣😣

  • @Amedo98621
    @Amedo98621 Před 6 lety +653

    So to summarize bc who doesn't like summaries:
    - Start the conversation with a (sincere) compliment or a question; or a compliment followed by a question
    - Leave the conversation on a good note/on a joke
    - There's a charm to people who are awkward, embrace it!
    - You might get rejected! If they're a douche to you, they're not worth your time, and if they're empathetic, well you tried!
    - The only way you guarantee failure is if you don't try.
    - PRACTICE. If you're really afraid of rejection, talk to people who you don't know yet before the person you really like.
    - Don't overdue it till it gets to an awkward silence. From a silence in the conversation, get a foundation to continue talking.
    - perhaps get a number ;)

  • @janinesaid2378
    @janinesaid2378 Před 6 lety +3091

    DONT. LET. AN. OPPORTUNITY. SLIP. BY. I had a small crush on this guy in my class but I was 600% convinced he was going to reject me if I even tried to talk to him, so I never did. I really wanted to be his friend cause he wore band t-shirts of bands I love, but I was too scared to approach him. Just found out from his current girlfriend that he thought I was pretty and I was fucking shook. I genuinely never thought in 100 years he'd even look in my direction, don't fuck up like I did. I didn't think I was attractive enough for him and but he thought I was, don't miss an opportunity cause it really fucking sucks. I'm serious, you're worthy of their attention just have to believe it.

    • @_the_cheetah_wao1335
      @_the_cheetah_wao1335 Před 6 lety +196

      Thanks, I will talk to my crush now.

    • @user-sg2bt3sh9d
      @user-sg2bt3sh9d Před 6 lety +140

      aw :) im scared as hell tho, haha
      hope you see him again

    • @dittodlamini829
      @dittodlamini829 Před 6 lety +70

      Janine Said
      Wow...um that's really something . I...uh I think I'll give it a shot then. Wish me luck😅😅😅 Im making a move this Sunday. Hope I'll look back on it and laugh about it. Because I know he'll think Im weird.

    • @sleepycheems3041
      @sleepycheems3041 Před 6 lety +3

      Janine Said rip

    • @elkuuun537
      @elkuuun537 Před 6 lety +14

      what if your a boy and she's the cute one , ; w ; ,

  • @oliviabartel6222
    @oliviabartel6222 Před 5 lety +212

    Damn the “if you’re awkward” part is just for me

  • @LathynBeenThat
    @LathynBeenThat Před 4 lety +63

    every crush i had i never talked to them. like a year later or something i told them i use to have a crush on them and everyone said they had a crush on me too. 😂😂😔

    • @lucias7167
      @lucias7167 Před 4 lety +6

      oof that never happens to me. if i like a guy, he never notices me and that's just facts. esp after i thought my crush liked me back but then i found out that he liked someone else. it sucked. so now i feel like i'm gonna die alone and no one that i like is ever gonna be interested in me.

    • @casper1374
      @casper1374 Před 4 lety +1

      Lucia S your cute and I’m sure you will find someone that would love and appreciate your presence

    • @kyamzkyam861
      @kyamzkyam861 Před 3 lety

      Also happened to me

    • @user-sx1hj4nk7j
      @user-sx1hj4nk7j Před 3 lety

      same

    • @laayybaeee7770
      @laayybaeee7770 Před 3 lety

      RIGHT BRUH

  • @thibsilunga4739
    @thibsilunga4739 Před 4 lety +26

    Now just to build up the courage to even look at him..

  • @corderostevenroman
    @corderostevenroman  Před 6 lety +373

    CZcams hates me because I'm not monetizing my videos, so please TURN ON POST NOTIFICATIONS so you can see these videos :D Need advice on something? Comment below!

    • @chloebrattain5880
      @chloebrattain5880 Před 6 lety +1

      Cordero Roman I have an odd fear of attention, or intimacy. Some of my friends also have this and none of us know what to do. Thoughts?

    • @shelbylobbezoo472
      @shelbylobbezoo472 Před 6 lety +2

      Cordero Roman So you talked about rejection, how would you recommend telling someone you don't like them back? I feel bad because I was the first person a guy told he liked, and he had anxiety so I didn't want to hurt him or make him unwilling to ask out anyone else.

    • @garrettlee89
      @garrettlee89 Před 6 lety +3

      Social anxiety?

    • @ariannaavina2466
      @ariannaavina2466 Před 6 lety

      Cordero Roman Feeling a little disconnected from things?

    • @charlieboulais918
      @charlieboulais918 Před 6 lety

      How to stay alive?

  • @miahutner554
    @miahutner554 Před 6 lety +443

    i clicked on this vid. "Hello there, I'm Cordero." Me starts shaking cause my crush's last name is Cordero

  • @MrBarns-cu7ry
    @MrBarns-cu7ry Před 5 lety +57

    I have the worst anxiety...so when I see a boy my face turn's red .

  • @ToadDK01
    @ToadDK01 Před 4 lety +65

    Me Sees crush: hey I like your hair, where did you get it?
    Me realizing what I said:....
    Me:Ima go

  • @savannah3921
    @savannah3921 Před 6 lety +582

    Lol my crush keeps on dm'n me and I'm so freaking awkward and shy

  • @benjohnson8958
    @benjohnson8958 Před 6 lety +188

    I am socially awkward and introverted, I'm not sure if it's because of my environment or it's just who I am, but how can I get more comfortable around people? I don't fell that I'm lacking technique, but rather confidence.

    • @marlaramval9067
      @marlaramval9067 Před 6 lety +2

      Ben Johnson 🌞

    • @kjcruiser7855
      @kjcruiser7855 Před 5 lety +14

      The story of my life. You and me both need some answers amigo

    • @basemaster300
      @basemaster300 Před 4 lety +13

      Ben Johnson just fake it till you make it.it sounds corny and redundant but its crazy how much i changed myself just by believing that i was confident even when i didn’t really feel that way

    • @cocoacat.pngggg
      @cocoacat.pngggg Před rokem

      @@basemaster300 for sure!

  • @Heinousness
    @Heinousness Před 2 lety +14

    It's so refreshing to know women feel this same way. Fear of rejection, feeling like you don't deserve love... We all deserve love. We are all human and share the same emotions. Lets all be more receptive to love from every other human.

  • @Juju_Love_heart
    @Juju_Love_heart Před 4 lety +222

    Me: *UGH I JUST FAILED THIS TEST AND IM TIRED THIS IS THE WORST DAY OF MY-*
    Crush: *smiles at me*
    Me: *_AND EVERY-TIME WE TOUCH I GET THIS FEELING_*

    • @noahmoore2442
      @noahmoore2442 Před 3 lety +6

      Same mines a different story tho i have wrestling practice and me and my crush wrestle💀💀💀

    • @111yrsold6
      @111yrsold6 Před 3 lety +2

      ✨wInX cLuB !!!✨

    • @MC-lk8nv
      @MC-lk8nv Před 2 lety +3

      Literally! I was having a bad day and he sent me an art history video because he knows I like it and it made my whole day better

    • @alexandra040726
      @alexandra040726 Před 2 lety

      Damn oxytocin

  • @calebfrieslaar1857
    @calebfrieslaar1857 Před 6 lety +79

    Where do i go from the compliment its gonna end up to that awkward silence

    • @galaxian2797
      @galaxian2797 Před 4 lety

      Caleb Frieslaar backup the compliment with a question

  • @owlwho4927
    @owlwho4927 Před 6 lety +161

    Shy awkward introverted=me. My crush talks to me and asks me everyday why I don't talk wee work together. I found out he didn't like me when he wad taking to another coworker and confessing he had a crush on someone else not me.

    • @last_womann8344
      @last_womann8344 Před 6 lety +19

      Owl Who Aww you should come out of your shell and talk some more! I'm sure he didn't like you at the time because you don't talk. But I'm sure he would've liked you back if you did. :3 If he's still single it's not too late. ^^ Go for ittt

    • @Matthew-ll3fp
      @Matthew-ll3fp Před 5 lety +1

      Fucking illiterate

    • @allstr8peopledeservetodie10
      @allstr8peopledeservetodie10 Před 4 lety

      Matthew Fry LMFAOO

  • @makenac2130
    @makenac2130 Před 5 lety +40

    I couldn't even tell my crush he was next for the singing test in choir i just pointed and said "you"

    • @emmamooney3820
      @emmamooney3820 Před 3 lety +4

      Im a year late but oh my god i cant stop laughing

  • @ioanamaria2709
    @ioanamaria2709 Před 4 lety +19

    It's even harder when you have social anxiety. Like it took me 6 freaking months to even introduce myself to my crush. Things went well and I really felt comfortable talking to him, but we haven't talked ever since. I would try to text him, but I honestly don't want to put myself again through anxiety attacks and neverending back and forth speeches to myself...idk

  • @z0mb13.sl4y3r
    @z0mb13.sl4y3r Před 6 lety +507

    Thank you SOO freakin much for responding, I found your advice very helpful 😄

    • @RealWillington
      @RealWillington Před 5 lety +17

      Hit or miss I guess they never miss huh

    • @spong2
      @spong2 Před 5 lety +8

      You got a boyfriend I bet he doesn't kiss ya MUAH

    • @Xaeromani
      @Xaeromani Před 5 lety +9

      He gone find another girl and he wont miss ya

    • @jackpitchford673
      @jackpitchford673 Před 5 lety +5

      You play with them balls like its fifa

    • @Woody1738
      @Woody1738 Před 5 lety +3

      Bro youre getting pussy now.

  • @gamingwithnick2347
    @gamingwithnick2347 Před 5 lety +41

    Rejection is good for you
    Flashback to me getting rejected 12 times already

  • @springjamz.
    @springjamz. Před 4 lety +42

    *Gets Self Motivation For school tomorrow*
    -Walks in classroom-
    -“Oh,No...”-

  • @JonnyCrackers
    @JonnyCrackers Před 4 lety +57

    I'm like 95% sure my crush also has a crush on me, but we're both too shy to talk to each other. It's frustrating.

    • @shenenehjenkins357
      @shenenehjenkins357 Před 2 lety +4

      Bro same, I have a crush on this dude from my. 3rd and 6th hour and we are always catching ourselves staring at the other and we instantly turn away. But this dude hangs around the cool kids in school but he kinda nice compared to them. But I don't have the gut to ever start a convo with him because he the kinda dude to get distracted, either by his phone or sum else. I do tell him I like his shoes and clothes every now and then but that's about it. We both just might have to admire each other from a distance

    • @muffinette6207
      @muffinette6207 Před 2 lety +6

      Silently flirt. I am mega shy irl and what I do is just hold eye contact fora few seconds and smile. Or give them a flirtatious side look. Sometimes When I need to go someplace and I run into them, I just say something like "I like your shirt" with a nervous smile on so that they will question whether I'm flirting. Just remember, there is no reason to be embarrassed because the person you are flirting to is 100% loving it

  • @charlieboulais918
    @charlieboulais918 Před 6 lety +94

    How to stay positive?

  • @lilynewell9474
    @lilynewell9474 Před 5 lety +16

    Once I was doing a dissection and I got put in a group with my crush. I desired to talk to him and ten years later we are married and are proud parents. Don’t be afraid to express your feelings!

  • @magicalplace3788
    @magicalplace3788 Před 2 lety +15

    I don't want to make it very formal, I just want to casually start a small talk with her...

  • @xxdapperwolfxx1930
    @xxdapperwolfxx1930 Před 4 lety +28

    Literally any person i find attractive: hi izzy
    Me: *ugly crying* I LOVE YOU 😭😭😭

  • @samvanoutrive5954
    @samvanoutrive5954 Před 6 lety +107

    I dont make eyecontact when im talking to someone i like... Maybe inspiration for a video... And thats something me and other people notice but i just cant help it...

    • @idkdrew
      @idkdrew Před 5 lety +9

      S VO! Look at their nose instead, they can’t tell and it’s helped me a lot

    • @Natalieim
      @Natalieim Před 5 lety +4

      idkdrew I feel like if you look at their nose, it’s might be too noticeable

    • @myiagarcia4075
      @myiagarcia4075 Před 5 lety +4

      I look in between their eyes or at the floor because when I make eye contact my face gets hot , sweaty ,red, and my glasses fog up ,for some reason I have a bad reaction when I make eye contact

    • @rosybelleramirez3232
      @rosybelleramirez3232 Před 5 lety +1

      S VO! The rare occurrence that my crush talks to me he makes direct eye contact with me and I don’t and I respond with yeah (I’m dum and awkward)🙃

    • @vihtori2727
      @vihtori2727 Před 5 lety

      @@idkdrew are you sure lmao

  • @maxumilius6655
    @maxumilius6655 Před 4 lety +31

    Me: So what vegetable gives you the most anxiety?
    Awkward: Yes

  • @applecider5205
    @applecider5205 Před 3 lety +4

    I treat my crush like they're a friend...
    And I keep doing it no matter what.
    A friend who I basically try to talk to and hangout with more...

  • @Idkwhtdis
    @Idkwhtdis Před 4 lety +6

    Anybody ever look at their crush from afar and be like damnn she’s beautiful 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @marcusmvpgoat1236
    @marcusmvpgoat1236 Před 6 lety +392

    That adams apple is huge lol

    • @meaghankehoe3233
      @meaghankehoe3233 Před 6 lety +33

      ultimate destroyer 231 oh gosh now that’s the only thing I️Be been thinking about the whole video. Curse my ADD

    • @m.houdeib
      @m.houdeib Před 6 lety +8

      ultimate destroyer 231 lol mine is twice as big

    • @incomments2864
      @incomments2864 Před 5 lety +17

      And sexy.

    • @thdis_9235
      @thdis_9235 Před 5 lety +2

      @Mike Burnsy its not creepy maybe to you but not to many others

    • @leserbeacerbe6910
      @leserbeacerbe6910 Před 5 lety

      You didn't see mine it is wider

  • @valentintitiionescu9160
    @valentintitiionescu9160 Před 6 lety +163

    Honestly, I've been trying to approach a conversation with my crush like I even planed out what to say and what not to say but when I see him i just freeze up when I see him. What do I do? I'm too shy to talk to him😔😔😔😔😰

    • @333.alyssa
      @333.alyssa Před 5 lety

      howd it go

    • @soultheconfusing9563
      @soultheconfusing9563 Před 5 lety +14

      I feel the exact same way i always say to myself i am ready to talk to her when i see her sometimes i see her close to the library in my school and i always freeze up i dont know what to say to her.

    • @skudufu9889
      @skudufu9889 Před 5 lety +18

      Toby Ezulike mad thing bro, i got a worse situation; I have the social skills to just approach her, but she is always with her one (or more) of her friends and thats what stops me 😭😭😭

    • @500bordenz
      @500bordenz Před 5 lety +7

      @@skudufu9889 dude that's my life and I can't have a 1 on 1 talk with her with all her friends there

    • @annafifihui7003
      @annafifihui7003 Před 5 lety

      Same!😭😭😭But I will try to talk to him tonight!

  • @kaiserwaffen6818
    @kaiserwaffen6818 Před 4 lety +25

    Im not awkward i just have nothing to say

    • @ihsan2837
      @ihsan2837 Před 3 lety

      EXACTLY

    • @tammy69711
      @tammy69711 Před 3 lety

      Yes exactly
      Can u guys tell me what to sayyy I wanna be friends with him QwQ

    • @sparkz343
      @sparkz343 Před 3 lety

      Same

  • @umm_chaeyoung1772
    @umm_chaeyoung1772 Před 5 lety +26

    Me to crush:HEY I LIKE THE WAY YOUR FACE IS
    crush:ik
    Me:😨
    Crush:your so obvious
    Me:yuppp

  • @meghanh6679
    @meghanh6679 Před 6 lety +14

    Oh my god finally, I feel like every single one of the videos on how to talk to people you need to be confident and outgoing and all this stuff that I’m not, and I’m a naturally shy and awkward person who is also afraid of rejection, so thank you, even tho this video is kinda old

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 Před 6 lety +13

    If I'm at a party and don't know anyone, I pick a circle and elbow my way in while stating exactly what I'm doing with some humor "I'm just gonna squish into this circle right here!" With a smile, so far it works every time, someone else immediately welcomes me in. I just show interest everyone and then eventually fine tune my people

  • @yawarakai3003
    @yawarakai3003 Před 4 lety +3

    Dude i really really love this video, i am awkward and introverted as shit, i’ve watched some other vids but all of them are one of those “well just do it, be confident” well obviously that’s not for everyone but your vid just take it slow, talk it through and it just feels like I’m talking to a close friend who understands it

  • @zuenramkisoensing7378
    @zuenramkisoensing7378 Před 5 lety +54

    I have a crush but I'm shy to talk to him( awkward ) please help me

  • @emykitkat8464
    @emykitkat8464 Před 5 lety +12

    “If you’re awkward”
    *cant relate* 😎
    Haha....... Because awkward is an understatement...........

  • @Ebees_Map
    @Ebees_Map Před 5 lety +46

    My crush likes me and keeps on giving me signs that she is interested in me but Iam too shy.

    • @ceasardiamos6358
      @ceasardiamos6358 Před 4 lety +6

      I hope it turns out well man. In my case we just got into the same class and I think it would be a good start if we were good friends first.

    • @subswithnogoodcontent
      @subswithnogoodcontent Před 4 lety

      Go get em

    • @_Ha11oween
      @_Ha11oween Před 4 lety

      S A M E!!
      I hate life~~~

    • @tatertottay5088
      @tatertottay5088 Před 3 lety +1

      Then just go for it. It is good to get out of your comfort zone

    • @joshh6075
      @joshh6075 Před 2 lety +1

      im sure they do, just go for it they r waiting for u to talk to them, im doin the same trying to show my crush i like em just never got the courage to talk to her

  • @axbergie165
    @axbergie165 Před 3 lety

    I like how raw this is and how it’s just him speaking and not with edits just natural

  • @yuphengmoua7843
    @yuphengmoua7843 Před 5 lety +5

    *shoulder touch* “HEY”

  • @sonias9722
    @sonias9722 Před 6 lety +10

    I love people who are even more awkward than me

  • @henneycollem3054
    @henneycollem3054 Před 4 lety +4

    Bro u build my confidence up so much keep making videos bc they help a lot

  • @suugko
    @suugko Před 4 lety +5

    "The way your nostrils flare when you're excited."
    This video was very helpful and I must thank you for taking the time to do this, but you got me with that sentence xD.

  • @kidneykrawler1735
    @kidneykrawler1735 Před 4 lety +7

    I’m scared of being rejected because if somebody rejects you in my school they will spread it like fUcKinG bUtTeR oN toASt

  • @Sebastian-ep6nw
    @Sebastian-ep6nw Před 4 lety +13

    * sees crush talking to another boy *
    Me: welp it was good while it lasted

  • @arunabaya3548
    @arunabaya3548 Před 6 lety +40

    You are awesome! I actually binge watched all of videos! 👍👍 great work keep ......making videos!

  • @kovaaburger
    @kovaaburger Před rokem +1

    I tried this last week with my crush! Everything is going good so far thank you so much!

  • @jblockman5597
    @jblockman5597 Před 5 lety +5

    I emailed my crush that I like her and she emailed me back and said she liked me but she didn’t want to say it because of teasing. She also said she was sorry about not telling me. I don’t know what I’m feeling right now, I’m shocked and overjoyed at the same time

    • @richardson2338
      @richardson2338 Před rokem

      Blud who the hell emails their crush 💀💀

    • @soconfused3616
      @soconfused3616 Před rokem +1

      @@richardson2338 he pulled her though so who r we to judge 😂

  • @jop2735
    @jop2735 Před 6 lety +9

    Whenever there’s an awkward silence, I was always point it out and we just laugh it off, I tend to be awkward lol

  • @6av1d8
    @6av1d8 Před 3 lety +4

    I have a thing that I could text like no other but when I see the girl in person I turn shy/awkward/scared and lost

  • @isaiahmiller9710
    @isaiahmiller9710 Před 2 lety

    Your voice is soothing and chill I can actually understand you as well.

  • @marissad.167
    @marissad.167 Před 6 lety +3

    I recently found your CZcams channel through body positive searches, and your positivity and belief that every girl is beautiful has helped me in ways I haven't even realized yet. Your "Dear Insecure Girl" video made me cry more than I'm willing to admit😂, and the fact that you take time out of your day to boost confidence in others deserves to be recognized. I, myself, am insecure in ways that I wish I wasn't. I've recently started high school, and I know that being a girl at this age is a difficult thing through experience.
    My video suggestion is- drum roll please, ;)
    girls learning to feel comfortable in their own skin as they begin high school!
    Thank you, once again, for the positivity you share and the confidence I've found through listening to you. ❤️

    • @alyssa7056
      @alyssa7056 Před 2 lety +1

      Hey girly it’s been 4 years since this comment. I hope you’re feeling better about yourself!

    • @marissad.167
      @marissad.167 Před 2 lety +1

      @@alyssa7056 Ahh, you’re so kind! This is wild because I’m now in my first semester of college, haha!
      I am, in fact, doing better. Thank you for your kind comment and for bringing me back to this moment. ❤️❤️

    • @alyssa7056
      @alyssa7056 Před 2 lety

      @@marissad.167 No problem!! I’m so glad you are doing well ❤️!

  • @ApartmentAngelsFireStarters

    I am really into this one girl in my class,and we dont even make small talk but we smile at each other it that a good sign and for u guys who read this i will compliment her today

  • @annareichelt5997
    @annareichelt5997 Před rokem +2

    Often we forget - especially when you talk to someone who you never talked to you - that everyone, upon meeting you ,WANTS to like you. Subconsiously, we're social creatures and when someone approaches us, we immediately want to like them. We want to make connections. However, if you blow it, then yes, you tainted your reputation, but actually it takes quite a lot for someone to geniuenly dislike you.
    That being said, I still came to this video.
    I actually have no problem talking to people, and 95% of guys that get to know me, fall in love with me. However, I am crushing so hard on this one guy I barely know (we went to a couple of events because we share the same friend group), that all of the sudden, when he's right in front of me, I am literally paralized.
    I cant talk, I cant strike up a conversation, I cant behave normal, I cant be myself, eventhough I KNOW THAT PEOPLE LIKE ME. Havent met a single person who doesnt, actually. And yet here I am. A fricking mess.

  • @ch1pp3r22
    @ch1pp3r22 Před 4 lety +22

    Me: I can do this
    Me seeing her: yeaaaa maybe tomorrow

  • @calebt4yahweh210
    @calebt4yahweh210 Před 6 lety +65

    Bruhhh, I thought you were still introducing the topic until 5:04.

    • @calebt4yahweh210
      @calebt4yahweh210 Před 4 lety +1

      tf, how did i get a like? damn i dnt even have a cush rn
      cuz i got rejected after watching this!

  • @idontknowwhatimdoing2465
    @idontknowwhatimdoing2465 Před 4 lety +12

    Me: hello
    Her:good morning
    Me: how u doin
    Her: good
    Me:....
    I can’t find the strength to ask every time

    • @gavinrayburn2562
      @gavinrayburn2562 Před 4 lety +1

      Sammme then it just runs dry and u end up not knowing what to say and it's like a annoying ass cycle every single day 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️

    • @joshgonzalez9362
      @joshgonzalez9362 Před 3 lety

      That’s from friends isn’t it from joey

  • @TonyStark-xc7ws
    @TonyStark-xc7ws Před 4 lety +10

    Lol my first conversation (and the most) conversation I had with my crush was when I asked about her height

  • @reapd2576
    @reapd2576 Před 4 lety +2

    Im watching too much of these that its making me too confident. I love this channel and TheJoshSpeaks

  • @avrilfelix7317
    @avrilfelix7317 Před 6 lety +5

    This is the best advice video i've ever watch and also thanks for your hard work :v

  • @bob1503
    @bob1503 Před 6 lety +34

    Keep up with the amazing content man!
    Been a fam since the social experiments and pranks man.
    Keep up the great work!

    • @bob1503
      @bob1503 Před 6 lety

      Them spoken word videos are emotionally touching and lit asf 🔥

  • @marshallmathers6770
    @marshallmathers6770 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you bro i needed this, been on my mind all day of how i can approach my crush. I am now officially talking to her and we will bang soon

  • @malorienicole4370
    @malorienicole4370 Před 2 lety

    You are absolutely adorable! Thank you for this message!

  • @thestranger5564
    @thestranger5564 Před 5 lety +3

    Thanks man I'm liking this one girl at school I had a crush on since the beginning of school and I just started talking to her yesterday barley and I feel Akward about it and trying to start a conversation but I feel like she's gonna say No when it Gets to the time of after I get to Know her I'll ask her out but u helped me out now thanks I'll keep trying.

  • @amandawaller4686
    @amandawaller4686 Před 5 lety +12

    *there's a reason why you like them*
    Me:heyyy
    crush:hi
    me:*compliment* ugh I like your face
    crush:huh
    me:*compliment*uhhhh... your so funny
    crush:thanks?

  • @lilianacardenas9241
    @lilianacardenas9241 Před 4 lety

    there is a charm to being awkward! thank u for that

  • @mickey7280
    @mickey7280 Před 4 lety +5

    Every time I try to talk to my crush I freeze up, give myself a double chin, do a creepy weird deep-voice chuckle, and run away...

  • @Iluvgeeway
    @Iluvgeeway Před 3 lety +7

    Im thinking of trying to atleast become friends with him, he's so amazing, and funny and adorable and he's everything I've wanted. But isk how to approach him so this video helped. I might compliment him tommorow.
    Edit: if this gets 100 likes ill tell him

    • @glitchant
      @glitchant Před rokem

      I’m in the same situation. Did you approach him? What’d you say?