Sex Workers: The Real Story | Sarthak Goswami
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- čas přidán 14. 01. 2022
- The Supreme court recently directed the central and state governments to issue Voter IDs, Aadhar cards and Ration cards to sex workers in our country, which is actually their fundamental right. This community has been socially stigmatized for a long time and in this Episode we talk about some of the problems faced by the sex worker community.
We also try to find the answer to the perennial question: Is Decriminalization the next logical step?
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Edits:
Kirtan Chandak
Script:
Sarthak and Rubiya
"शरीर बेचना, देश बेचने से तो बेहतर ही काम है"
A perfect line to finish a tremendous episode!
Keep the good work my brother!! 👏🏻👏🏻
Both are evil.
If an Individual doesn't sell his country but sell his body for money doesn't make sex work less evil. It will always be Evil.
@@aamir-khan what's evil in that... Maybe not moralistic but definitely not from the workers side... The traffickers are Evil.
@@user-mv9tg4fe1fnot every sex worker is trafficked. Many do this for easy money
Excellent presentation of such a serious issue along with a humorous skit.
India needs two subjects to be taught along with our High School education and graduation. First is Mental Health and Sex Education. Both these are important but people think these are just taboo. I hope people like you give us the proper education which we need. Our parents should also go to coucil sesions which address these "TABOO". Love you work 👍
Bilkul sahi
Absolutely right 👍
Absolutely right dude
How many serious issues are there in country to talk about and politicians still doing Hindu Muslims that's really sad keep it up bro u r doing great job 😣😣😣
Forget politicians its the news channels responsibility to highlight these issues but 😬 they never do
I watched movie “TALASH “ that talks about this issue long time back… unfortunately nobody supports or comes out on the road for this to demand recognition to these people
What an in-depth research about a topic which is the least discussed or rather, not discussed at all! Well done Sarthak Bhaiyya👍 too good
@Akash Mishra, MGTOW if it is the case then saying 'randi' is an abuse to sex worker ==
Proud of you Sarthak bhaiya. We need young people like you who can address this problem with intense precision , proper use of words / vocabulary and no melodrama. This report was indeed eye opener loved it.👍👍👍
“शरीर बेचने, देश बेचने से अच्छा है।"
It's perfect line🔥🔥
You are improving in every episode. I am not talking about the presentation woh toh humesha se badhiya tha, I am talking about the quality and sound of video.
No doubt in saying that this should be and this is a very important topic to be talked and should be given all human rights to them ❤
Respect for you increased many folds Sarthak you literally justified your name 'सार्थक '....
A very difficult topic to be discussed. Have sympathy for the poor condition of the women trapped in such situations, they deserve to be saved. However, legalization is not at all an option 🙏
Sini mam aap ka khayal kafi sahi hai legalized karna na karna chod kar inki madad karna chahiye take ye apni zindagibizzat se guzar sake hum mevse kafi logo ko ideas hain ke kis tarha ek chota karo bar banta hai chote se invest ment se hum kuch log milkar 1 workar ko bhi sapport kare tab hum 1 sal 10 se 20 logo ki zindagi ko izzat de sakte hain sirf hamri deri hai ye log is dunya se nikal na chahte hain laikin support koi nahi karta jobhi in ko dekhta hai to sirf inke professional ko dekhta hai hum apne apne area me aware hokar help kare
Yes, they should be saved from doing such an immoral and dirty work.
And sex work should be illegalised in any form.
Yep most of them are by human trafficking n it's not choice 😔😑😑
Much needed topic to discuss in India….
All humans are equal 🙏🙏🙏
You know sometimes it's shocking to hear such things that people stilll don't have a Aadhar Card, but yeah they need help..... Awesome Video bro...I just have one shameless request can you be more frequent..
Bhai kar raha hu koshish, dheere dheere, haule haule
@@SundaySarthak
Sarthak bhai, we support you. Wish you all the very best with what you are doing.
Keep smiling, and make us smile too, that's the best way, I'd say that's the Sarthak way.. 😀 #sarthakgoswami
Well done my boy! You did no one can imagine. The story on womens who are in prostitution, I really like the way you are going. keep it up!👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍
The best part of this episode is :-
"शरीर बेचना, देश बेचने से तो बेहतर ही काम है "
Well done Sarthak, talking abt issues considered "taboo"... good R&D, well drafted, scriply edited n shot.. Way to go brother 💐
What a topic to start with !!! Kudos to ur work !!! More strength to u !!!!!
I had recently helped one of my friend in his dissertation about women trafficking and prostitution, and im amazed by the depth of research you have done on this topic. Had the video been created earlier, we could have taken few notes too.
A really commendable effort from you and your research team.
Never seen a youtuber or a person like him who speak so truly and frankly 🙏🏻. Good to see this guy is working hard even after losing his job from other channel
a reality we were unaware about.. a topic much needed to be discussed.. thank u for being this informative video with so much shocking info..
Where are you
@@sp2959 who r u
@@princyrawat9839 good one
@@sp2959 saale tharki. Bhaag yahaan se.
@@princyrawat9839 am good Man and your
Finally!!! Content apart from the Sunday Show in this channel. Best of Luck! This channel is sure to grow ten-fold in 2 years! Tab bhul nahi jaana hume dada🙈🙈🙈.
Bohot neeche se aa raha hu baba, kuch bhi bhula, to raasta kho dunga :)
@@SundaySarthak You always have our support baba and we here, are sure of your success❤
@@SundaySarthak
All the very best for your future career. Good to see that last week even though you spoke about Deshbhakt team, your exit, and everything. You still didn't say a bad word about them. I support Deshbhakt too. Akash da also does good satire. But you are no less. We don't know what just happened. But we don't care too. You are good at your work. So keep doing it. With or without the deshbhakt.
Just assuming, Akash kuch jyada hawa mein urr gaya kya, that he didn't afford to keep you in his team. Sorry if this comment pinched. Bas assume Kiya hoon. Don't know inside story. But never mind. We as Indians support both, Akash and Sarthak. As you guys show us the real matter what's happening around.
Keep up the good work Sarthak Goswami. 😀👍
All the very best.
बहुत सटीक बात कही आखिर में, शरीर बेचकर अपने परिवार का पेट भरना देश बेचने से तो अच्छा ही काम है । बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद सार्थक इस मुद्दे को इस तरह से उठाने के लिए । यह एक ज्वलंत मुद्दा है जिससे समाज हमेशा मुंह चुराता हुआ नजर आता है ।
Amazing topic man.. No one talks about these things... but you did. Great
Congratulations for 100k in advance..
Thoroughly done !!
Don't stop making videos and never stop being sarcastic !!
Love the content bhai !!
Sex work really should be legalized so that criminal acts can be stopeed and the sex worker really need to be respected
No sex work shouldn't be legalized it will increase the forcefully girls will be dragged to do that work the % will just increase it won't change anything ? This is my opinion their should be something more things needs to be studied 🤔
@@motorolaandroidone412 i understand ur thought but if the work is legalized there will be regulations which can actually help in saving the women from abuse and exploitation
@@darnaram yes but people will take this in wrong way do anything it won't work in INDIA AS THE POPULATION IS HIGH THE EXPLOITATION OF GIRLS WILL JUST INCREASE AND IF THE CASE PUTS THEY WILL JUSTIFY THAT SEX WORK IS LEGAL SO THAT GIRL SAYING IS NOT TRUE AND STILL IT WILL BE SAME IN ALTERNATIVE WAY I THINK ITS BETTER TO BE FOCUS ON HEALTH AND EDUCATION THEN THIS TYPE OF THINGS WHERE THE FUTURE CHILDREN S WON'T HAVE A FUTURE SAY ME IF EVERYONE WANTS TO WORK AS SEX WORKERS FOR MONEY THEN DEVELOPMENT WILL BE SHITTED IN THE TOILET AND WOMEN EMPOWERMENT WILL BE COLLAPSED AS THE GREEDY ONES FOR THE MONEY WILL TAKE THIS BAD WORK TO EARN THE MONEY AND WE ARE INDIANS WE HAVE A WAST RELIGIONS AND CULTURES AND IN THIS MAJORITY WOULDN'T WANTS TO BE THEIR CHILD A SEX WORKER
@@darnaram well ya sorry if I said anything bad but even sex workers don't want to do the sex work they were just forced to do so if it gets legalized the problem will increased i hope you understand it it will become business
@@motorolaandroidone412 the health and education is always the first priority but i am saying it that for those already involved regulations will help them at some level i think
Sarir bechna desh bechne se to behtar hai----- hats off to u Sarthak for this line💯💯❤❤
Same feeling over here
Lekin bewaja sarir bechna jabardasti karna is not correct and not selling country to its like just trying to justify so this shouldn't be taken into a wrong motive that's it
Lekin bewaja sarir bechna jabardasti karna is not correct and not selling country to its like just trying to justify so this shouldn't be taken into a wrong motive that's it
Yes, isliye tum shareer bechti ho.
Excellent work!!! This is serious issue in our country. I believe that this should be legalised. Because punishing only the woman who do it is wrong, those who use them face nothing....it makes me think how even they live in these situations. It's shame on us not providing them basic human rights.
This is better time to watch your videos..hope you'll get 1million n more soon ❤
big fan of ur work since ur hafta nikal days...but that's something much overwhelming to see u covering a topic that hardly spoken in india...literally nailed it bro...😊💓 and a lil request, can u plz also cover lgbtq issues in india...🌈
Heyyy piyush, if it helps i have a podcast called UNMUTE which is entirely based on the issues of LGBTQ+ here we talk about the lives and issues faced by the people from the community. I am need of the guests to join in for the podcast, someone from the community. If you know someone who would like to join, make sure you tell them about it💚
dont know any...but i will listen to it definitely 😊🌈
@M.O.X then u say what is progressive in india....child bride?marriage with dogs,trees and other superstitious marraiges? FYI talking about sex, prostitution and lgbtq was never a taboo(if u ever read abt our vedas) in ancient india and here we are in kalyug, being ignorant about khajuraho temples which itself is a big proof of it....nd western culture is what we're blindly following today itself...section 377(which illegalize same sex sexual intercourse) was implemented by britishers itself in the colonial rule....don't follow the crowd blindly instead let ur brain do some work to distinguish what's wrong and what's right...then only progress way it's path to us 🌈
@M.O.X now u are showing ur hypocritical mindset...acc to u only men can go seminude if they want but for women there's a famous line that's always preached by ppl of ur type "samaaj kya kahega...orat ghr ka ghna hoti hai, hmaari izzat ka kya hoga" but for men there aren't such shits...and i got the point...the shit in ur mindsets can never be cured...u r ill of ur thinking...and if u have lil knowledge about our culture, u never say child bride and sati pratha was ok in ancient but unfortunately u r ill of ur knowledge too...have u ever see any such things in satyug? As I haven't read or saw such things of that period but yup i saw gods being genderfluid like lord krishna who was very well known to incarnate as girl and doing rasleela with other gopis & even he moan for a men in mahabharat ...king bhagirathi was given birth by two women on the order of lord shiva...varun dev and mitra dev was a homosexual couple nd much more but plz it's a request dont include those man made shitty prathas in our culture!!!
Sex workers also deserve respect in society , they also have human rights. There are many forced sex workers or sex workers who do this due to bad circumstances in life. We should give them social security. If they want to do this sex work then government should issue licence for this. And we should rescue forced sex workers out of red light areas. And government should arrange for their marriages
@M.O.X right ✓
@M.O.X yes
Thank u for bringing this issue up.. unfortunately, as a society, we haven't been able to bring help to this community... keep up the good work sartak...
@Sarthak: You should start 2-4 editions every week with trending topics as "Deshbhakt" with Comedy ka tadka in which you are good at.. 👍
Now the previous sarthak is back with the same essence. 🔥🔥🔥
Love you bro
Superliked, this need to be discussed on larger platforms (national television), sadly it cant
शरीर बेचना देश बेचने से तो बेहतर ही काम है।
Bro, I salute you on this comment.
Great work Sarthuk ji..u are growing professionally...in an awesome way.
no one talk 'bout this topics but we need to start from somewhere!!!! kudos to you work sarthak bhaiya
Very good episode, well researched and thoughtfully picked a serious issue . Well done Sarthak!
Last line gave me goosebumps... It was an amazing episode sarthak Bhai... 👍
Kudos to bring this topic into light Sarthak
@learnwithsarthak There are few like like you, who have the guts to openly talk about such issues which are considered below the belt by our society. I hope this video becomes the first candle to the darkness in the red light areas.Hope you continue the great work sir.
Well done Sarthak! Keep it up and keep focusing on social, economic, political issues like these.
*HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY*
Thank you Sarthak for taking about this *taboo* subject and highlighting their plights.
Bravo.. Sarthak bai you broke the stigma of not to discuss stigma on these very important and deserving matters.🙏
to find the solution, u need to recognuse the problem.. i loved the fact tht u stated that it needs to be regulated cuz making the sex work as illegal is nothing bt just denial of basic service and the dignity of the individual which the constitution promises.. lots of love and respect to u for such a topic..
@Akash Mishra, MGTOW and do the people abuse after thinking the deep meaning.. be it BC or MC etc???
Forget about legalising . We can't expect these things from angutha chhap politicians. If we want to change the society, we'll have to start from very grassroot level. i.e educating children
This country will start coming on track Even if half of the mainstream news channels picks & discuss quarter of the issues like these..absolute treasure to watch Sarthak as always. Job well done ✅
Excellent video. This has educated me about the real challanges out there for this marginilised section of society. Its is definately a step up from your previous episodes (I've seen). Thank you for covering this subject and Keep up your good work.
We really need to discuss such topics , thank to you for contributing and trying to bring change in our society , you are great 👍🏼
I just skipped my class because I got notification of your video ❤️❤️ and I immediately clicked on it... Love you bro 🤗.
Sharir bechna DESH bechne se to behtar hi hai. What a line Sarthak. Good work.
Thanks for covering this taboo topic 🙏
The fear is that legalization may lead to exponential rise in sex trafficking & normalisation of sexual exploitation in name of work/ industry.
The question is if this is a legal industry- will we want our mothers, sisters & daughters to be employed there? Then why do we want "other women" to be there.
Are we ok with our fathers & sons hiring for the industry & taking "legal services" from the hires?
What prevents men from transferring the same attitude of commodification to other women around them.
Turning a human being into an object of use or sale reduces respect & dignity for other living beings as equals.
Very true .
Great work 👍🏻
Such type of topics are not even touched by our media.
I learned about leagalization of brothel and prostitiution in Australia in 2013, talked with this issue in my Known circle many times since then....but everyone was saying I am thinking like a stupid person even to propose leagalization of so called immoral act according to my friends and knowns :(
@Akash Mishra, MGTOW Bhai...khud hi ke definitions create Kar raho ??? I know you are using the word "Randi" as an abuse, but please google hi kar lo Randi ka actual meaning, probably self bias clear ho Jaye...
Crimes ko Legalized Karne se Crimes Kam Nahi Hote ulta Crimes Khullam Khulla Hone Lagte Hai...🙄
@@checkpoint9201 hey good channel name bro..." point to be noted" mast Naam laga...!!!!
Waise in general crime Ki definitions society Ki aur governing authority K profitability se change Hoti reheti Hai....
For example, Cigarette & Daru khridna bechna aur consume Karna Criminal activity honi chiea thi...Kyu Ki is K dush parinam prostitiution se jayada Hai.....but usme govt ka profit Hai ..so is Ko leagal kar dia...
Same way EK past time pe widow remarriage Criminal activity thi...
Waise hi jab society and govt ka perception change ho jayega....to Shayad Purge and Prostitiution dono legal ho Jaye ;)
@@ThinkAloud Insan Kabhi bhi Apne Liye Sabse Sahi Laws Nahi Bana Sakte Kyunki Insan ko Khud Insan k Nature Pata Nahi Hai aur Na hi ye Pata Hai k Future me Kya Honewala Hai to Insan Jo bhi Laws Banate Hai wo Kuch Time k Baad useless ho Jaate Hai,
Isiliye Insano ko ye Chahiye k Jisne Insan ko aur is Puri Universe ko Create Kiya Hai us Creator k Banaye Huye Laws ko Follow Kare Take kisi k Sath bhi Na Insaafi Na Ho Sake aur Insan is Planet Earth par Peaceful Zindagi Guzar Sake...🙂
@@checkpoint9201 Wow, good thinking bro....
EK Aur baat add kar sakte Ki at last it will also come down to Ki rules/laws banane K baad bhi, humans follow Karte ya nahi.....
Aur Nahi Karne pe consequences face Karne K liea wo liable hote ya Nahi....
For example Road Rules mei Helmet use Karna kai states mei Law hai...
But log follow Nahi karte....
Ab Nahi follow Karna bhi phir current rules se offense ho gaya....
Phir face Karte log consequences...ya to fine Bhar K....ya Phir accident Hua to jaan Gawa kar....
Great job Sarthak..👍 Aapne vo issue uthaya jo sayad hi koi youtuber iss tarah se present krta .. Keep it up🙂
Gave me goosebumps. Well done on doing a video on a "Stigmatised" topic. We need more and more discussions on similar marginalised communities which have been ridiculed, and also ignored ,for years and years now.
Woah!!!That was smashing.Keep it up Goswami,spreading awareness on unconventional topics.
Great work. The last few lines gave me goosebumps... Power to you brother , and power to these women...
एक गंभीर मुद्दे पर इतनी सहजता से बताया है। आपका काम निःसंदेह काबिले तारीफ़ है।
देह बेचना देश बेचने से तो बेहतर है। उम्मीद है ये वीडियो देश के कोने कोने तक पहुंचेगा।
This is a long due topic which is hardly discussed openly in any forum. Thankyou Sarthak for taking about it
You're picking up most important and much ignored issues of the society, liked this way of picking up real social issues apart from satire, audience will understand others issues as well! Thanks to Meena Sheshuji for her lifetime work & efforts on marginalized communities, prevention of AIDS & sex workers betterment. 🙏
Great efforts buddy..
Really liked your research and presentation..
Keep highlighting such topics
your editing is getting better and better with the background keep going on with the unspoken content and that needs to be addressed lots of love and support.
Great work . Sarthak. There aren't many who spoke about such a very relevant topic. And there aren't any other than you who has researched this issue so much and presented the same so impactfully within so much less screen time. You have mastered in delivering big in short timelines .. And as even others commented, the last line is such a punch. I remember the time I saw you first on Haftaa Nikaal. To be honest your weren't very impressive. Then from thereon the way you worked yourself and leaped higher and higher episode after episode .. It was just awesome. And let me add ... With this piece of work you have placed yourself a lot more higher. A lot of respect brother.
This is exactly how to talk about sensitive topics! Keep teaching us :)
And forget about legalising it at least recognize the fact that they are human beings succumbed to their situations.
Everything else will fall in place then.
Keep up the good work Sarthak hope someday we as a society will grow and actually do something towards such matters, let's see.
"Gali dena hi hai kisiko toh neta bolo na, kyuki shareer bechana desh bechne se toh behtar hi hai na", kya baat boli hai Sharthak bhai. Much support to you and your work.
Sweet
Artistic
Respectful
Talented
Humble
Accolade deserving, and,
Kick-ass wit.
Sarthak, wishing you the very best in this journey. Been seeing your growth since Hafta Nikaal, and I agree with many of the comments, that your strengths are growing very consistently and awesomely. Keep up the fantastic work. I especially appreciate your first topic; as it challenges many of us, to be rightly discomforted and, at the least, think about socially stigmatized and legally oppressed individuals. What got me to tears was learning the fact, that is 2004, there were 1,008,000 (1.08 million; thr 36%) children in the sex trade.
Thank you for doing what you do. Bravo!
Great episode Sarthak Sir..I have never seen this issue have anyone raised in thier episode. Great best of luck 👌👌👌👌👌
I am really loving the informative route you are taking. Keep up the researches and do well !!!! ❤️ Love your work sarthak.
Absolutely brilliant work... Well researched as always. Much needed work and great effort to prepare this.
Hey Sarthak! It's another great show. I have been watching you for one year and am a great admirer of your presentation approach. One suggestion though, consider citing the sources within the video (maybe at a corner of the frame or below the snippet) when you show snippets for reference. It would increase credibility of the info. I'm just writing my opinion as a viewer and friend, who craves your videos and want them to improve over time. Please don't take it otherwise. Good luck😊
Very good topic too choose
Keep doing work
I was shocked first ke aj to Saturday hai 😂😂 video kese but keep working hard bro we are with you
Thanks a lot Sarthak for bringing out this story which no channel wd like to💯💯🙏🙏❤❤
Good work Sarthak bhai. Hafta nikaal se leke abb takk, sirf humourous side dekha tha. But this time absolutelyy great work, you should do more of these.
Bhoooot aage jaoge. You are my one of the most favorite CZcams artist.
This was so informative and thought provoking. Keep up the good work❤❤
Good job! Shining light on a serious subject. Mazey lene hai toh istemaal karo, taqleed bataayi toh bhaag jaao. Hypocrisy ki seema. I believe that we as a nation are maturing superfast. Marginalised community issues are being dealt with at a rapid rate. If this "world's oldest profession" has crores of members I think politicians, activists and the public should get together to do something radical. The SC has taken a huge step in this direction. I think they should be allowed access to financial market services, so they can increase their income through investments and get out of it sooner if they so desire. *Vishwa Guru aise hi nahi bantey"👍
A topic well addressed!! With years of socialisation, the majority of population has been conditioned to disregard the existence of sex workers, alienating them from the society which selectively 'utilizes them as a commodity' however fails to socially accept them & protect their rights. Irony just died!
Thanks for bringing this onto your platform, Sarthak. Hope we evolve as an inclusive & sensitive society.
Love, Support & light. 🙏 🦋✨
बहुत ही अच्छा एपिसोड है. अंतिम दो शब्द काफी बेहतरीन कहे. आप ऐसे ही काम करे और अपने काम को आगे बढ़ाए बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद सार्थक सर 🙏
Sir I salute you because you pick up the topics which really everyone has to know. And each and every person deserves respect it doesn't matter what kind of work they are doing. At the end they are also human beings.
last line was the show stoper Sarthak bhai, you gave the perfect message to India thank you for that ,.we love you and support you.
Loved that you didn't beep those words...keep up the good work bro
Woah!! Whaatt an episode👏👏👏 such topics needs to be discussed 👍
All the very best Sarthak!! go ahead.👍👍
Yes I believe that this should be legalize by the govt as other countries have done so far because they also have a life and right to live life with dignity..
And love your work❤
Keep it up brother ❤
I do think sex work must be legalised and they deserve respect, humanity at least. I hope one day we will see every community with the same eye.
It's need to show such issue in public
Hatss of to you
Ur my favorite 👍👍
Well done. Kudos for taking up such a sensitive issue and doing an in depth episode. Will look forward to many more such episodes. Power to you!
Social Independence, in every era women have fought for it, and it still continues.
Nice and in-depth conversation, hope people who watch your this episode does an introspection, of self, of soceity and of nation as a whole.
Raastey me gaddhey ho sakte hain, gaddho me raastey nahin, baaki to sab samajhdaar bhi hain aur kaafi had taq insaan bhi...!!!???
I was also thinking about this topic for quite sometimes
When a Nation starts thinking & helping the downtrodden the Nation is truly mature.
Sarthak sir ur just awesome" Mai iss word ko beep ni krunga ye gali ni n the line body bechna desh bechna " hats off atlest ur speaking we know many people infact in generation of social media hrr baat pe video aati but really ispe shayd 2-4 log bolna chahte n ur the one... Really hr kuch aaj bol deta h sb koi but basic chezs hi bhul jata💥❤️
7:19 I like how you used "infection" not "disease"
Cherish your presentation!
Love you bhai! ♥️
Love your content from my heart's depth 😊😊😊
Hats off for the last lines dude ! That's really brave of you to put that fact out so boldly WITH THOSE WORDS .
Too good, well done💯👍👏 dude, we're unaware to this very important topic..... Good job..... 🙏🙏🙏🙏
We need to find the root cause(s) of such problems, which cannot be done by looking at them through a specific perspective. We need to consider hell lot of factors, which are resulting in such situations.
In my personal opinion, Society plays a very important role here because the Society doesn't want to look at other POV at all. That can only be changed when Educated people start becoming the part of society who have seen everything so that they can judge things from a bigger perspective instead of their own angle only.
Sarthak bhai you are doing such a great work .and irony is ki nobody wants to talk on this topic...
You are awesome bro ❤️❤️❤️
Good to see someone aised this topic with such details which most of society is not aware about. Hats off Mr Sarthak
Excellent sarthak...we want u to bring out more episodes on real social issues.... everyone should know about these things,🌻 proud of u