Woman Murders Boyfriend on Cliff After Bizarre Cleansing Ritual | Megan Shaffer Case Analysis

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Komentáře • 688

  • @CrazyCatAER
    @CrazyCatAER Před rokem +191

    My grandma used to have picnics in cemeteries because she said it was so peaceful and there were a lot of pretty flowers… however, no ferrets were involved

    • @kaboomkelly
      @kaboomkelly Před rokem +29

      I love cemetery picnics, too! I knew it was weird but I didn’t know it was Get-Called-Out-By-Dr.Grande weird.

    • @CrazyCatAER
      @CrazyCatAER Před rokem +11

      @@kaboomkelly 🤣

    • @aarondavis8943
      @aarondavis8943 Před rokem +29

      Australians do this all the time. Cemeteries are peaceful places. I don't know why Americans make such a big deal over it.

    • @memecathar1263
      @memecathar1263 Před rokem +15

      We smoke drugs together in the cemetery and play cards on a big flat grave stone

    • @CrazyCatAER
      @CrazyCatAER Před rokem +7

      @@memecathar1263 munchies = picnic 🤣

  • @jimc.goodfellas
    @jimc.goodfellas Před rokem +327

    I had to do a triple take when I heard, "he transferred $180k + with her name as beneficiary"...that's a pretty big detail. How did he have this money? Why would he put it in someone's name who claimed they weren't even in a relationship? A lot we don't know here

    • @rullvox5912
      @rullvox5912 Před rokem +77

      Considering his mental issues, how did Alex ever acquire 188,000 dollars?

    • @anythingbootneck
      @anythingbootneck Před rokem +28

      Yes, most odd.

    • @TwistedReality13
      @TwistedReality13 Před rokem +47

      ​@@rullvox5912Have you not seen some of the weirdos we have as millionsires/billionaires? Couple hundred grand isn't that far fetched.

    • @gillroygarlic3616
      @gillroygarlic3616 Před rokem +47

      Probably mommy an daddy

    • @SentMyOwnWay
      @SentMyOwnWay Před rokem +57

      @@gillroygarlic3616 true but honestly that’s where 99% of people get their wealth. Pretty much every business/home owner that you know started with money from their folks.

  • @starphase1623
    @starphase1623 Před rokem +65

    After reading all the Comments , I understand that the Cat is fine . He was found by a friend and doing well . 🐈😻

    • @terryKessler42719
      @terryKessler42719 Před rokem +11

      I’m so glad to hear that the cat was ok. These 2 ding dongs deserve what they got, but the poor cat was innocent.

    • @marcellepesek3038
      @marcellepesek3038 Před 11 měsíci +4

      @starphase1623 Thank you for mentioning this, I was concerned about the poor creature too. I wish Dr. Grande
      had said something about the cat being o.k. What disturbed human beings! They shouldn't even be allowed to
      have a pet! Thank goodness someone else took care of her/him.

  • @roxannespahr2804
    @roxannespahr2804 Před rokem +91

    Listening to these cases Dr. Grande covers both scares and intrigues me. And also makes me realize how boring of a person I really am...my goodness people do some odd, horrific and unimaginable things to each other in this world...I am grateful to be just a normal, boring person 😂

    • @MatthewMS.
      @MatthewMS. Před rokem +9

      I agree 100% and this comment was the point of Cohen Brother’s classic film “Fargo”.

    • @jodybrown4956
      @jodybrown4956 Před rokem

      Surprised Magical demon Marijuana was not at the heart of this loss of life mind altering drugs seemingly play role in Great % of lives being lost Particularly People acquainted with one another crazy humanoids anyway .

    • @roxannespahr2804
      @roxannespahr2804 Před rokem +2

      @@MatthewMS. I have never seen the movie but I have heard of it...I have a perception of North Dakota as being a desolate, freeeeezing cold place with small diners and not many people...Alaska and North Dakota have always been 2 states I think I'd never want to live in. I've traveled the entire the us since I was 10 and always felt North Dakota had a gloominess over it. No offense to any North Dakotans...just my perception.

    • @roxannespahr2804
      @roxannespahr2804 Před rokem +2

      @@MatthewMS. I don't think I'll ever understand how one human can hurt another, let alone take a person's life. I've always only wanted to help anyone and everyone I could since I can remember...grateful that lll never be the star in one of Dr. Grande's videos as someone who has hurt another person. 😂

    • @johnnyearp52
      @johnnyearp52 Před rokem +2

      I am not normal or boring but I want my life to be boring.

  • @imtired6104
    @imtired6104 Před rokem +128

    "Less thinking, more feeling." I think this is the motto of the current zeitgeist. Thank you Dr. Grande for another interesting video!

    • @hopeseekr
      @hopeseekr Před rokem

      Since 2015, we've become a civilization governed by "The Ideas that Sound Good". That is the root axiom of Woke Culture.

    • @hopeseekr
      @hopeseekr Před rokem

      The Western World is no longer governed by the People or even the Corporations. It's governed by The Managerial Class (ever since Blackrock got huge post-2012. It now controls $9.74 trillion, more than every country except China and the USA. This is the true "Deep State".

    • @drdr76
      @drdr76 Před rokem +4

      I know it is in politics.

  • @possumaintdead
    @possumaintdead Před rokem +611

    I hope the cat was okay! 🐈

  • @tmajcan94
    @tmajcan94 Před rokem +100

    A Dr. Grande video for a nightcap. Perfect! Only Dr. G can make a sad case of death sound relaxing. Thank you Doc!

    • @TwistedReality13
      @TwistedReality13 Před rokem +7

      That doesn't sound psychotic at all 😂😂

    • @katherinef9110
      @katherinef9110 Před rokem +5

      his bedtime stories put me right to sleep

    • @roxannespahr2804
      @roxannespahr2804 Před rokem +7

      That's so true 😂 Dr Grande's voice puts me to sleep easily...even while listening to horrific, insane cases. His voice is calming.

  • @crittercrossing2913
    @crittercrossing2913 Před rokem +84

    How bizarre can it get? My mind is baffled. I do hope the poor kitty in the carrier was rescued. Thanks Dr. Grande for analyzing this story in a clear, compelling manner. What in the world gets into some people?

    • @ALT-vz3jn
      @ALT-vz3jn Před rokem +13

      Yes, the kitty went to his parents.

  • @tinawindham6958
    @tinawindham6958 Před rokem +85

    I hope the cat didn’t freeze to death and someone kind adopted him😢🙏

    • @trace9657
      @trace9657 Před rokem +18

      I was wondering about the cat too. The poor thing was the only creature that did not choose to put itself in a stupid position.

    • @nl-ho4wm
      @nl-ho4wm Před rokem +3

      Lets hope someone adopted him

    • @trace9657
      @trace9657 Před rokem +7

      @@nl-ho4wm I read up on this a little. It was a friend of Stevens that found the car, pack, and the cat. The article said he took the cat to Stevens' parents. Hopefully, it was homed somewhere. That person also talked about how Stevens loved animals, but the year before he had also left a dog in a cage at cemetery where he used to hang out. There is no telling what he was thinking, maybe he wanted to animals to benefits from cleansing too.

    • @marcellepesek3038
      @marcellepesek3038 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@trace9657 That's a very disturbing trend. These poor creatures can't liberate themselves. Why would he to
      this to a dog and then a cat? That's practically leaving them to die!

    • @MorningStarMidnightSun
      @MorningStarMidnightSun Před 6 měsíci

      @@trace9657hey the ferrets are innocent until proven guilty!

  • @jenanne31
    @jenanne31 Před rokem +34

    It's just not a picnic without a ferret and a cemetery! Thanks for the entertaining videos, Dr. Grande.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Před rokem +4

      And the checkered tablecloth and ants! 🐜🐜🐜

  • @NikkiTrudelle
    @NikkiTrudelle Před rokem +18

    You should be the one that writes the dry quips at the beginning of CSI episodes. Yours are so much better than their writers come up with

  • @cyb0rgirl
    @cyb0rgirl Před rokem +57

    two completely bizarre individuals. we will probably never know what actually happened 😨

    • @roringusanda2837
      @roringusanda2837 Před rokem +6

      Could they have been high on LSD? Thinking to go out "in touch with the universe" that way??

    • @XenaXOE
      @XenaXOE Před rokem +4

      @@roringusanda2837 the LSD would’ve shown in their systems. Alexander had no drugs in his system, based off the official toxicology report.

    • @roringusanda2837
      @roringusanda2837 Před rokem +1

      @@XenaXOE ahh, I wondered if LSD would show up... thank you

    • @XenaXOE
      @XenaXOE Před rokem +5

      @@roringusanda2837 in normal drug tests, the kind employers do, LSD, psilocybin and other psychedelics aren’t normally included and tested for. However the police will include them in a more complete toxicology investigation. And you’re welcome!

  • @allineedis1mike81
    @allineedis1mike81 Před rokem +31

    Theres so many weird drugs out there now that pathologists have to know to look for that "no drugs detected" doesn't mean much. Some of those drugs also make people weird, weirder than we usually are. And I also hope the cat was ok.😼

  • @melaninqueen707
    @melaninqueen707 Před rokem +35

    I just love this guy. So calm but absolutely hilarious. I remember the video on Jussie “Foot Long” Smollett and I was on the floor. Much respect 😂😂😂

  • @dalepointer9414
    @dalepointer9414 Před rokem +24

    Cliff hanger evaluations from Dr. Grande. The highs and lows of madness, brought to you from a calm and insightful dry humorous personality.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Před rokem +1

      Apt description of our good doctor.

  • @MargieM10
    @MargieM10 Před rokem +49

    But did the kitty in the carrier survive?

    • @nektulosnewbie
      @nektulosnewbie Před rokem +17

      Hope it wasn't part of that ritual. :(

    • @dorothyrohland4689
      @dorothyrohland4689 Před rokem +16

      My question also...hope the kitty survived their madness

    • @ToyInsanity
      @ToyInsanity Před rokem +16

      His friend found it. His sister and friend were looking for him before Megan called 911.

  • @christinaslocum8761
    @christinaslocum8761 Před rokem +10

    Picnics with Ferets 🤣 Good name for a band!

  • @kellydean3497
    @kellydean3497 Před rokem +3

    I used to go to High Rock all the time in my early twenties. My girl friend and I would park our car at the bottom and walk up in the dark, avoiding the military surveillance. People used to use the platform as a hang gliding launch. It had an amazing view of the stars and was very peaceful both day, and night.
    What a horrible curse on that place now.

    • @Scipio_Americanus
      @Scipio_Americanus Před 6 měsíci

      No one cares big girl. You're not the main character.🙄

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom Před rokem +9

    Just a reminder that "Bizarre Cleansing Ritual' was the name of Dr Grande's college smooth jazz band!

    • @kelvyquayo
      @kelvyquayo Před rokem +2

      You should hear his high school Ska Band.. ‘The Ferret Enhanced Cemetery Picnics’. 🎺 🎸

  • @nursemelissajane
    @nursemelissajane Před rokem +21

    "Ferret-enhanced cemetery picnics" is my new favorite event descriptor & I am absolutely determined to wedge it into as many situations as possible, regardless of suitability.

  • @ceilconstante640
    @ceilconstante640 Před rokem +76

    Meghan is possiblity a highly manipulative Narscissist that talked Alex into something bizarre. It's just to weird he chose to sign his finances over to her yet tell his friends he had other ambitions. Struggling with alcohol possibly made it easier for him to be manipulated.

    • @johnnyearp52
      @johnnyearp52 Před rokem +2

      It sounds like he was mentally ill if he thought he was the messiah.

    • @ceilconstante640
      @ceilconstante640 Před rokem

      @@johnnyearp52 some drugs do that to people besides mental illness.

    • @JackIsNotInTheBox
      @JackIsNotInTheBox Před rokem +2

      Doesn’t matter because she’s cute 🥰

    • @johnnyearp52
      @johnnyearp52 Před rokem +2

      @@JackIsNotInTheBox 🤢

  • @manic5150
    @manic5150 Před rokem +50

    Mixing severe mental health issues with religion can sometimes become a toxic concoction of disturbing behavior.

    • @manic5150
      @manic5150 Před rokem

      @Whatapp249 SCAMMER

    • @Dr.Pancho.Tortilla
      @Dr.Pancho.Tortilla Před rokem

      Without people with severe mental problems there would be no religions

    • @marcbaigrie2295
      @marcbaigrie2295 Před rokem +3

      Mix religion with anything and it always ends up weird.

    • @spicyphilly
      @spicyphilly Před rokem +3

      I can attest to this as I have a close family member that's an untreated Schizophrenic and religious. Very "out there".

    • @dems000
      @dems000 Před rokem +1

      Yes adding delusions together leads to exponential outcomes. Adding the delusion of religion to a person's life has negative outcomes in general. Pretending doesn't actually solve problems, sadly lol.

  • @LeftyBlue
    @LeftyBlue Před rokem +14

    Yes but what happened to the cat in the carrier?

    • @cail171
      @cail171 Před rokem +10

      Love that I'm not the only one worried about the poor kitty.

  • @dicedrice7216
    @dicedrice7216 Před rokem +10

    Taking ferrets out for a picnic. What a thoughtful considerate guy

  • @OneMeanArtist
    @OneMeanArtist Před rokem +16

    Psychedelics are definitely not something to be trifled with, that's for sure... esp. w/ serious pre-existing mental health issues. Tripping definitely shouldn't involve cliffs and coming down shouldn't involve knives. You could say her story didn't pass w/ flying colors.

    • @janinemccartha1811
      @janinemccartha1811 Před rokem

      Hi Dr. Grande. Thanks for your interesting videos. Megan is the flipside of the new Megan movie/artificial intelligence doll. The doll murdered bad people, she murdered a good guy. Peace to you & yours, love, Janine Smiley✌😏😉😍🤩😎🆒️💯❕❗

  • @glendasully
    @glendasully Před rokem +8

    Such a bizarre story. She deserves the 30 yr sentence

  • @lisabelle7553
    @lisabelle7553 Před rokem +37

    What happened to the poor cat?!

    • @jomccutcheon2173
      @jomccutcheon2173 Před rokem +18

      I am concerned about the kitty too, maybe the police found the kitty, I hope so,,,

    • @ToyInsanity
      @ToyInsanity Před rokem +5

      His friend Steven found it

    • @SpitefulAZ
      @SpitefulAZ Před rokem +2

      Cat is drinking piña coladas in Mexico thinking about how they got away with murder. 😂

  • @ponli7532
    @ponli7532 Před rokem +3

    "picnics with ferrets" made me laugh so hard.

  • @dorothyrohland4689
    @dorothyrohland4689 Před rokem +11

    I ask the same question...what happened to the cat?

  • @jamese8508
    @jamese8508 Před rokem +2

    When I started watching this video, I had playback speed set high from the previous video I was watching. Oh, it sounded so wrong!! I would never do that to Dr. Grande! His deliberate, reasoned pace is such an important part of his presentation, and indeed, of who he is.

  • @Meenadevidasi
    @Meenadevidasi Před rokem +12

    Thank you so much for daily doses of "reality check" But I have to ask, "How are you able to keep your own sanity seeing and analyzing all this madness?" Praying for your well-being. ♥

    • @GeekyShyMama
      @GeekyShyMama Před rokem +2

      By being sarcastic, it helps a lot, trust me.

  • @traceyseltzer2157
    @traceyseltzer2157 Před rokem +7

    What happened to the cat?

  • @marshmoreland8365
    @marshmoreland8365 Před rokem +5

    Incisive easy listening, insightful criticism, opinions & observation, puns a "dad joke" would disown, wild dead pan wit -infrequently hilarious, clang-associative structured poetically ironic summaries, and absolutely freakish situational awareness & self-awareness inestimably beyond "normal" scales such as what may be considered adept and inept. Todd Grande is my favorite show. If I could add anything to success I would suggest study and practice humility and being humble.

  • @dogdefender6946
    @dogdefender6946 Před rokem +8

    Ferret enhanced picnics!! My favorite line today!!
    Thank you for your extra dry sense of humor!!
    It is the elixir the world needs! 🏆

  • @jan9659
    @jan9659 Před rokem +6

    I care more about that poor innocent cat than I do 2 big dumbazzes

  • @scientistsalarian480
    @scientistsalarian480 Před rokem +36

    Sounds more to me like maybe they were planning some ritualistic double suicide and she either got cold feet or just didn't die from the fall. Then after he was severely wounded she killed him. Who knows though this situation is crazy

    • @vicvega3614
      @vicvega3614 Před rokem +4

      Why wouldn't she just leave? He wouldve died from exposure anyways, either way she killed him and deserves prison

    • @aldranzam3456
      @aldranzam3456 Před rokem

      @@vicvega3614 True. But I hope she's also getting therapy in prison and she can recover from her obvious disturbed state...

    • @jackwilson5542
      @jackwilson5542 Před rokem

      Exactly what I was thinking.

  • @mEnTL32
    @mEnTL32 Před rokem +79

    Doesn't it seem more like a suicide-pact situation? Dousing the car, shed clothes, etc.

    • @makeshift_battlefield_music
      @makeshift_battlefield_music Před rokem +14

      If that was the case and I had to choose which of the two was the instigator in such a hypothetical situation, Megan would be the one to escalate Alex's already unstable state of mind. Their pairing was unwise in hindsight, but some personalities are drawn together to disastrous consequences. It is a fact of life

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Před rokem +4

      "Their pairing was unwise in hindsight, but some personalities are drawn together to disastrous consequences."
      Right? They could easily have been a "natural born killers" type couple.

    • @CardsFan6969
      @CardsFan6969 Před rokem +2

      I am shocked she didn't claim self-defense; i am shocked she didn't claim he wanted to kill them both so she had to kill him instead.

    • @lf9341
      @lf9341 Před rokem +1

      No because he would have left his money to someone else.

    • @johnnyearp52
      @johnnyearp52 Před rokem +4

      I wondered about a suicide pact as well.

  • @TheJanicemorris
    @TheJanicemorris Před rokem +25

    You're the best, Dr. Grande. Was the cat okay?

    • @cail171
      @cail171 Před rokem +12

      Curious about the cat too

    • @ashleysmith5001
      @ashleysmith5001 Před rokem +8

      I wonder if he was going to sacrifice it? It's very odd. I hope the cat was okay, it probably was because they found his body fast.

    • @andykerr3803
      @andykerr3803 Před rokem +4

      Was it even their cat?
      We're they sacrificing a black cat?
      Somehow, it seems she may have had help.

    • @azulgaia7782
      @azulgaia7782 Před rokem +4

      Cat got rescued, apparently.

    • @andykerr3803
      @andykerr3803 Před rokem +2

      @@azulgaia7782 👍 It could not have been there for any good reason. You wonder what happened to the ferrets...

  • @azulgaia7782
    @azulgaia7782 Před rokem +2

    Hey! What's wrong with taking your ferrets to a cemetery picnic! Spookily delightful!

  • @TimPerfetto
    @TimPerfetto Před rokem +5

    He said they were not technically dating -- calling card of someone who cant get rid of a psycho with a personality disorder

  • @MatthewMS.
    @MatthewMS. Před rokem +25

    Dr. Grande is a CZcams legend. Now moving to my only critique. Dr. Grande needs to make more New Jersey Jokes. This is only my opinion, I’m not diagnosing him for the lack of New Jersey jokes.

    • @kevinc809
      @kevinc809 Před rokem +1

      New Jersey is a beautiful state. Except near the airport.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před rokem +1

      @@kevinc809 everywhere in NJ is near an airport 😂

    • @kevinc809
      @kevinc809 Před rokem +1

      @@lostandfound5145 Sure it is.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před rokem +1

      @@kevinc809 I lived there for 10 yrs. You’re always within 2 hours’ drive of an international airport

    • @kevinc809
      @kevinc809 Před rokem

      @@lostandfound5145 So that's like 100 miles? If you lived in NJ then you know other than the area around Newark and Camden/Trenton is a beautiful place. Better than most states. But if you like the lame NJ jokes that aren't funny I'm happy. I'm here to learn about crime cases myself. I don't find the lame NJ cheapsots insulting, just ignorant and baseless., therefore not funny. I'm writing this while looking at the Ocean out the window of my 1.8 million dollar NJ home. Just so awful here. Wish I lived in like Ohio or Minnesota or somewhere nice. Like Tampa. Think I'll move to Tampa.

  • @localbod
    @localbod Před rokem +1

    'Picnic With Ferrets' would make such a good short story title.

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 Před rokem +3

    Thanks for the bizarre tale Doc and congratulations on 1.3 million subs.

  • @MooseCracker
    @MooseCracker Před rokem +9

    Damn, there go my plans to get naked on a cliff in freezing temperatures.

  • @ecom2320
    @ecom2320 Před rokem +4

    I recently found your YT channel and was blown away by this story because this is the same area where I’m from. Pretty cool to hear neighboring towns where I grew up. Also very relaxing which is what drew me in 😅

  • @bunnybgood411
    @bunnybgood411 Před rokem +18

    What happened to the cat left in the carrier by the car? I care more about the cat than I do this murderous, weirdo girl.

    • @LilyfromUruguay
      @LilyfromUruguay Před rokem +1

      The cat is the real victim of the story.

    • @jodybrown4956
      @jodybrown4956 Před rokem

      Think its possible the entire earth full of malfunctioning humanoids is ready for a second and final reboot wipe slate clean of all failed attempts society fraud religions fraud governments fraud family producing selfish dysfunctional generational failure discredits creator of all universe must be final days simular to days leading up to deluge in Noah's day great thing to look forward too. Bring it soon.

  • @TheCvr92
    @TheCvr92 Před rokem +4

    Dr. Grande! I love your videos.. informative, insightful, calming voice and the best dry humor

  • @EgaoKage
    @EgaoKage Před rokem +3

    I'm almost disappointed that Megan didn't blame the murder on the ferrets! That would have rounded-out this carnival of events quite nicely.

  • @boowho9990
    @boowho9990 Před rokem +1

    Dr Grande, I LOVE YOU! Keep up the interesting content... love the quick quips... well placed

  • @BhadBishopp
    @BhadBishopp Před rokem +6

    Hiii Dr. Grande. I just want to say I appreciate your work and videos.

  • @AlisNinsky
    @AlisNinsky Před rokem +10

    Does anyone know if the cat was ok?

  • @manewland1
    @manewland1 Před rokem +2

    Glad to wake up to another of your videos, first thing in the morning. Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande!

  • @mrparlanejxtra
    @mrparlanejxtra Před rokem +3

    1,300,000 subscribers as at today. Well done.

  • @lisagorman3462
    @lisagorman3462 Před rokem +5

    Oh my goodness two totally bizarre people, I know Alexs death is not funny but I really did have to laugh about picnicking with ferrets in a cemetery 😅 and meghan saying her finger prints might be on the knife 😮
    Love your videos Dr Grande ❤ always clear, informative and funny 😂

  • @BlstFrmThPst
    @BlstFrmThPst Před rokem +4

    Earliest I’ve been to one of your videos. Found you a week ago and been binge watching since. Keep up the great content!

  • @wearytoad
    @wearytoad Před 11 měsíci +3

    I went to highschool with this girl. She was totally normal then. Participated in martial arts and won awards. Put on a presentation in front of my science class once

  • @amstarla
    @amstarla Před rokem +2

    I feel like the cacti are breeding in the background because there's more and more each video❤️👍👍

  • @elizabethwarman9028
    @elizabethwarman9028 Před rokem +1

    Good evening Dr Grande, excellent analysis. What a bizarre case. As always I learn something new from your videos.
    Have a wonderful Memorial weekend.

  • @douchecraft3113
    @douchecraft3113 Před rokem +50

    If she smiled at her family it's because she's being deceptive! Or maybe she just found a moment of comfort seeing them there to support her?
    Always weirds me out when the jury draws conclusions based on the emotional state of the defendant....

    • @roxannespahr2804
      @roxannespahr2804 Před rokem +12

      I thought that VERY thing when that was stated. I thought to myself how does anyone know if it was a smirk as if she was saying she just manipulated the jury with her wonderful acting...or could it have been when she saw her family she just felt the need to smile since she sought comfort in them? That seems like a more plausible explanation...I too am not comfortable with the way police and juries make crucial judgements based on people's reactions in traumatic situations.

    • @Bloodbain88
      @Bloodbain88 Před rokem +7

      Like when investigators are suspicious of a person because they don't seem upset when they find or are informed of a loved one's death.
      Some people don't show emotions to others much. I could come home and find everyone dead, and I would be deadpan while the police and first responders were there. I would only break when alone. So under this logic I would appear suspicious..

    • @fragrancememoir2350
      @fragrancememoir2350 Před rokem +1

      I thought about that as well (it could've just been the extreme stress & nervousness). .. but maybe that was their suspicion because of their overall perception of her... Dr G mentioned that the jury didn't buy her testimony either. ... Sometimes people make the wrong conclusions.. but what's also true is that most jurors/people can generally smell bullsh*t 🤷 (it's hard to say without watching the whole trial ourselves).

    • @38201013
      @38201013 Před rokem +5

      ​@@Bloodbain88 same. I exhibit emotionless responses. Some people find me suspicious of things sometimes because of that. But like you, I do have emotions, but like to express them in private. It's just the way I am.
      Do you encounter people treating you suspiciously sometimes? Just curious.

    • @Bloodbain88
      @Bloodbain88 Před rokem +3

      @@38201013 Not really suspiciously, but I get the feeling sometimes that people feel awkward around me, because I don't feel the need to constantly talk.
      I've had people think I was angry because I wasn't saying much.

  • @WhoIsWhatIDK
    @WhoIsWhatIDK Před rokem +5

    Ferret enhanced picnics….

  • @bsangel93
    @bsangel93 Před rokem +4

    Seems like they both had a hand in Alex’s demise. In the end, even if a person WANTS you to kill them, you are still liable for their death. Maybe it was even a double suicide gone wrong? What a bizarre crime.

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 Před rokem +4

    What a bizarre case. I have a feeling that they might have engaged in some strange ritual that resulted in this.
    Happy Friday, Dr. Grande!❤
    Also, congratulations on 1.3 M subscribers.✨💐✨

  • @rchrd_sn
    @rchrd_sn Před rokem +3

    There was a similarly bizarre case in Brazil about 5 years ago. A couple went to a small area of a beach at night that is usually closed, it's private at night. They managed to enter. Early morning, the girl is crying and looking for help. Her boyfriend's body was found naked on the sand. I don't remember how he died and her account, but remember police said his heart was outside on the sand. Apparently due to the fact that both their families are rich and have a reputation, we never heard of follow-ups of this case in the media anymore. Maybe the couple were into some similar ritual. Coincidence?

  • @abigailh7715
    @abigailh7715 Před rokem +34

    I only hope the cat was rescued and placed with sane loving people

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns Před rokem +3

      Good news! ❤ Kitty is safe and sound and has a new family! 🐈

  • @stt5v2002
    @stt5v2002 Před rokem +6

    Not convinced she’s guilty of second-degree murder? The good doctor might be losing his edge. I think that the part where she sawed his head off was the convincing part. I guess I can’t be exactly sure how he fell off the cliff, but then she tried to saw his head off. I doubt that was a random head sawing offing opportunity She does not dispute that she was wielding the knife. There is absolutely no reason to think anyone else was in the area. Again, the key fact seems to be the undisputed sawing offing.

  • @mirandajsummers
    @mirandajsummers Před rokem +4

    Yeah, but was the cat ok?

  • @yvehooson9262
    @yvehooson9262 Před rokem +6

    But, seriously, what happened to the cat???

  • @jerichoharperjmc6277
    @jerichoharperjmc6277 Před rokem +3

    Lovely voice. Listen to Dr g almost every night while I zzzzzz

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 Před rokem +1

    We appreciate your dedication and consistency. God bless you

  • @rullvox5912
    @rullvox5912 Před rokem +13

    Considering his mental issues, how did Alex ever acquire 188,000 dollars?

    • @ToyInsanity
      @ToyInsanity Před rokem +3

      He inherited it from a deceased aunt

    • @applepie9576
      @applepie9576 Před rokem

      ​@traybernNo, Alex was murdered and she was convicted.

    • @rullvox5912
      @rullvox5912 Před rokem

      @@ToyInsanity ..Bounce, twiggy.

  • @mcnultyssobercompanion6372

    I agree with the good doctor's theory, I think that sounds very likely. I'm also wondering if it was possibly a mercy killing. Perhaps she found him so horribly wounded at the bottom of the cliff- and his suffering was so great- killing was- she felt- her only option.
    A;ways be wary of individuals who practice ferret-enhanced picnics.

  • @ReSearcherSusie
    @ReSearcherSusie Před rokem +5

    Whoa! 😮 This has similarities to the Ezra McCandless case. 😢

  • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
    @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata Před rokem +1

    Brilliant as always! Thank you Dr.Grande!

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva Před rokem +1

    I’ve never heard of this case before. It’s so bizarre.

  • @mattb6646
    @mattb6646 Před rokem +5

    If he transfered money to her account, why would she need to murder him? She already had the money

    • @welutha
      @welutha Před rokem +4

      Right? Makes no sense unless they did have some sort of agreement and it was payment for whatever was supposed to happen during the 'ritual'.

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette Před rokem +2

    Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande.

  • @wanderingjackwolf9510
    @wanderingjackwolf9510 Před rokem +1

    Picnics in cemeteries with ferrets...that is nuts.
    I mean, squirrels- MAYBE.

  • @45kimmyb
    @45kimmyb Před rokem +6

    This happened in my neck of the woods, I live between Cumberland and Frostburg. It is my belief that she killed him for the money. I think she planned the whole thing, the hike, the weird ceremony all if it including killing him that day. She played on his desire to be more "spiritual" luring him to his death and helping him on that journey.

    • @snow999
      @snow999 Před rokem +1

      My daughter went to Frostburg 🥶. I can’t imagine how cold the temp actually felt like!

    • @kennyg1358
      @kennyg1358 Před 10 měsíci

      That sounded planned to you?

    • @tlouise6
      @tlouise6 Před 8 měsíci

      She was saludictorian of my hs class. She wouldn’t have killed someone over that amount of money.

  • @tamrashafer7373
    @tamrashafer7373 Před rokem +5

    What happened to the cat? 1:49

  • @ck9436
    @ck9436 Před rokem +5

    But did the cat in the carrier survive??

  • @tessaducek5601
    @tessaducek5601 Před rokem +5

    What about the kitty???

  • @MothmanLurking
    @MothmanLurking Před rokem +6

    I hope the cats alright.

  • @Aware_Bear
    @Aware_Bear Před rokem +5

    Is the cat okay?

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před rokem +1

    The stuff of nightmares. Thanks for another great and interesting video, Grande.❤

  • @peterolbrisch8970
    @peterolbrisch8970 Před rokem +2

    If I said it once, I've said it a thousand times, never go anywhere high for the "view", unless the place you want to "view" is where you die.

  • @MrLewbaugh
    @MrLewbaugh Před 2 měsíci

    This was in my home town ..I hike to high rock several times a year..Alex's father was one of my teachers growing up.. this whole story only leaves more questions than answers..only 1 person truly knows what happened that night

  • @JAYDUBYAH29
    @JAYDUBYAH29 Před rokem +2

    I keep feeling you were even more prickly than usual Dr. Grande…

  • @SkySpiral8
    @SkySpiral8 Před rokem +3

    Can you cover the recent case of Aderrien Murphy, an 11-year old Mississippi boy who was shot in the chest by a cop after he called the police to his home because his mother was involved in a domestic violence situation?

  • @BeverlyM52
    @BeverlyM52 Před rokem +3

    I come for the lessons, and love the bonus humor.

    • @parasitesundinism
      @parasitesundinism Před rokem +1

      Lessons huh

    • @BeverlyM52
      @BeverlyM52 Před rokem +1

      @@parasitesundinism I learn much about mental illness from the doctor. How 'bout you?

  • @btetschner
    @btetschner Před rokem +1

    They might have been the type of people that liked to explore unusual philosophical ideas and systems.
    She probably would have been free if she didn't change her story, but I imagine that she became stressed realizing there were holes in it.
    They might have just liked doing unusual things.

  • @boldANDcontrolled
    @boldANDcontrolled Před rokem +1

    Hypothermia can onset quickly, I have really bad circulation and can have it come through in 45 minutes once anything gets wet and that could be sweat… I don’t think the fact this chick was suffering from hypothermia means she didn’t try to kill him at all, could just show poor planning and lack of experience with being in nature…

  • @Jacksonnnnnnnnnnnnn
    @Jacksonnnnnnnnnnnnn Před rokem +2

    Your videos are awesome as always. I miss the old background though

  • @roringusanda2837
    @roringusanda2837 Před rokem +3

    THE CAT! Dr. Grande, THE CAT?!!
    If it had been a cactus, 🌵 you would have told us already...

    • @terryKessler42719
      @terryKessler42719 Před rokem

      He’s keeping the whereabouts of the cat a secret. Perhaps it’s in the witness protection program.

  • @megatherion2695
    @megatherion2695 Před rokem +1

    Good one, Doc! Thanks!

  • @kennyg1358
    @kennyg1358 Před 10 měsíci +1

    For everyone wondering; the cat was eaten by a coyote, Male, 3 years old. He's currently doing 15 months to life for catslaughter.

  • @joschmo1007
    @joschmo1007 Před 10 měsíci

    The deadpan snark in all these analyses is hilarious. Well done.

  • @cathybaldry7822
    @cathybaldry7822 Před rokem +10

    Lots of bizarre behaviour in this one. I'm sure the detectives were astonished at the oddness of the case at times

  • @peterantonsen3539
    @peterantonsen3539 Před rokem +1

    See that you past 1.3 mill subs, Doc😀👍. Thats great

  • @Big_Tex
    @Big_Tex Před rokem +15

    How did that weirdo get into the Coast Guard Academy in the first place?

    • @aarondavis8943
      @aarondavis8943 Před rokem +5

      You mean the Coast Guard which is already full of people who believe a carpenter from the first century will come back to save them from his father's reign of destruction? Yeah he must have really stood out.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před rokem +1

      @@aarondavis8943 you genuinely believe that every Christian ever is an idiot? Ok…

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Před rokem

      @Aaron Davis Is it a requirement to be a Christian in order to be in the Coast Guard?

  • @wolfsta90
    @wolfsta90 Před rokem +3

    Your theory at the end made me think it was no doubt a straight up murder. Not manslaughter.