Husband Unable To Forgive Wife's Infidelity is Haunted by Letter | Mark Jensen Case Analysis

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Komentáře • 616

  • @julieashton8322
    @julieashton8322 Před rokem +281

    Chilling. Never negotiate with narcissists; they are notoriously noxious and needlessly nasty .

  • @susanmann5286
    @susanmann5286 Před 6 měsíci +48

    It must be a horrible thing to suspect someone is trying to kill you, yet stay with the person.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před 6 měsíci +1

      It’s really a terrible experience

    • @KanyeKetchup
      @KanyeKetchup Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@lostandfound5145 😂

    • @KanyeKetchup
      @KanyeKetchup Před 5 měsíci

      Can only blame yourself

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před 5 měsíci +9

      @@KanyeKetchup if someone is trying to kill you the blame goes to the person being evil. And it’s almost never as easy as waking up one day, realizing that your partner is a psychopath and you need therapy and an escape plan and then coming up with that in just a few hours’ time. Especially when children are involved. You have to be very smart when you find yourself in that situation. You can think you’re clever and flippant and funny but I pray none of the people you love find themselves in that situation. Leaving is the most dangerous thing an abuse victim can do.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@lostandfound5145
      It sounds like you have firsthand experience. And I am sorry if that is the case. How horrible. I pray for your soul to heal.

  • @karensansui
    @karensansui Před 6 měsíci +476

    Dr G even uploading Christmas Day. The good Doctor is a machine

    • @Judi4Him4Ever
      @Judi4Him4Ever Před 6 měsíci +37

      You do know these can be scheduled ahead of time right? Even so, Dr. Grande is amazing.

    • @Heywood.Jablome
      @Heywood.Jablome Před 6 měsíci +11

      Knock it off already. He's got dozens of videos in the can ready for upload. Get a clue.

    • @Locutus
      @Locutus Před 6 měsíci +11

      Do you really think that he filmed, edited, uploaded and released this on Christmas Day??? He probably does a week of videos on the weekend, uploads them, then sets a release date for them throughout the week.

    • @hattyburrow716
      @hattyburrow716 Před 6 měsíci +42

      Why are you all being so nasty about a lady complementing the Dr? 😳😳😳😳😳

    • @irinamay4673
      @irinamay4673 Před 6 měsíci

      Why ? Inferiority complex 😂😂​@@hattyburrow716

  • @loiskondo8349
    @loiskondo8349 Před 6 měsíci +220

    Another great look at horrible behavior, thank you Dr. Grande. Those poor boys, I hope whoever is raising them now is loving!

    • @raymonddriggers
      @raymonddriggers Před 6 měsíci +5

      I think that ship already sailed! Them kids we will be hearing from them on the 11 o’clock news

    • @tylerbrown4483
      @tylerbrown4483 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Those kids are 29 and 25 now.

  • @Iacon40k
    @Iacon40k Před 6 měsíci +101

    The moral of this story. If you get busted cheating, never let your spouse prepare your meals

    • @KaarinaKimdaly
      @KaarinaKimdaly Před 4 měsíci +5

      Nah, the moral is not to cheat on anyone you are in a committed sexual relationship with, and open marriages are an invitation to divorce., or worse. . .
      It is interesting how often murder victims whose spouse eventually is found to be behind their murder, have premonitions about, suspect that it may occur. They may talk to friends or family, but they don't leave, too often.
      Of course, getting out can be logistical ordeal, and change in general can be hard. I hope people can somehow find the resources and energy of focus to get away from others who
      they intuit are so malicious as to harm them in the way they are being foretold within them selves may occur. What a tough spot to be in for them!
      Crimes of passion.
      Maybe the moral is not to marry anyone unless you know both yourself and your spouse- to- be very,
      very well.
      Or, in addition, learn to identify narcissistic traits in people in general when you are young.
      Almost everyone has an ego. Be committed to the idea and practice of innocuousness as much as possible.
      Do not confuse love with sex. Sex is a primitive drive, and it is very strong in many people. Be responsible.
      Be damn sure you don't procreate with narcissistic people.
      It is interesting that before Dr. Grande started producing these true crime expositions, in some earlier videos he tried to teach about the dangers of narcissism.
      I think it is worth relistening to, but I can't recall its title.
      I wonder why Dr. Grande would post such a negative story on Christmas?
      Merry Christmas and every day matters. Joy and awareness to all.

    • @johnl5350
      @johnl5350 Před 3 měsíci +3

      I thought it was, if you actually love and respect your partner, don't betray them in the most painful way possible.

    • @klauswigsmith
      @klauswigsmith Před 3 měsíci

      @@johnl5350 "if you actually love and respect your partner, don't murder them"
      FTFY

    • @suzerick75116
      @suzerick75116 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Leave if you feel your life is threatened..

    • @Chopper650
      @Chopper650 Před měsícem

      you're a cheater

  • @Annenigmatic
    @Annenigmatic Před 6 měsíci +147

    Vulnerable narcissists are scary. My mother was one & when she divorced my dad, I had to get her gun on false pretenses and hide it at my house. I was truly afraid she might try to kill him. (He's okay!)

    • @DH-ve5bl
      @DH-ve5bl Před 5 měsíci +7

      @Many people consider infidelity the ultimate betrayal. One thing is for sure: It destroys trust. Things will never return to the way they had previously been.

    • @Annenigmatic
      @Annenigmatic Před 5 měsíci +6

      @@DH-ve5bl My father was NOT unfaithful.

    • @MrTangent
      @MrTangent Před 4 měsíci +1

      The narcissist was killed though?

    • @DH-ve5bl
      @DH-ve5bl Před 3 měsíci

      @Annenigmatic. I was talking generally. I was not making a comment about your father.

    • @Annenigmatic
      @Annenigmatic Před 3 měsíci

      @@MrTangent No, she abandoned me & my father and lived out the rest of her life across the country. I asked repeatedly to visit, but I never saw her again.

  • @stlounsbury
    @stlounsbury Před 6 měsíci +80

    My thoughts…: Unless you’re cool with 3 hots and a cot for the rest of your life, when someone betrays you, leave. Get a one way ticket to anywhere, and never look back. Ever.

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito Před 6 měsíci +7

      Yes, and you should also have the fortitude to leave your partner if you're the cheater.

    • @victorygarden556
      @victorygarden556 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Orrrr, just don’t commit serious crime. You can always get back legally. Social suicide by cheating, cause trust issues with their business partners, etc.

    • @reneegardner2286
      @reneegardner2286 Před 6 měsíci +4

      ​@@alukuhitohe cheated too, and didn't leave either

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito Před 6 měsíci

      @@reneegardner2286He should've left as soon as he knew she cheated. He was a stupid cuck to stay with her.

    • @hesedken
      @hesedken Před 6 měsíci +4

      I agree as to not accepting something that can ever be clean. However, there is a biblical duty for a man to separate from a treacherous wife. He can't sleep with her after she has been with another man. It would defile him, his whole house and the land he lives on: Dt. 24:4.

  • @KingfishStevens-di9ji
    @KingfishStevens-di9ji Před 6 měsíci +104

    Never stay with a cheater. There is no fixing it. Every argument, it comes up and any hope of trust is gone.

    • @klauswigsmith
      @klauswigsmith Před 6 měsíci +27

      Yes, but SHE wanted to end the marriage but HE wanted to her to stay SOLELY so he could have revenge by psychologically torturing her.
      She's may be a cheater, but he's a psycho and a murderer.
      If we're looking for an innocent party here, it's clearly her.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 Před 6 měsíci +11

      @@klauswigsmith
      ???
      Nobody is innocent in this situation.

    • @peaceunion5316
      @peaceunion5316 Před 6 měsíci +10

      @@klauswigsmithno. There are two crimes. She committed infidelity, which is despicable. And he is a murderer. Which is a separate league of despicable.

    • @Doidao-xx5vf
      @Doidao-xx5vf Před 6 měsíci +7

      @@klauswigsmithidk why people kill their cheaters either just walk away or cheat on them back. I had an ex in 2011 that cheated on me with a friend of mine so I cheated on her back with a cousin of hers that she hated, then I just broke up with her. She almost drank herself to death but I didn’t lay a finger on her. 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @klauswigsmith
      @klauswigsmith Před 6 měsíci +8

      @@peaceunion5316 cheating is bad, but it's not a crime.

  • @Nethezbet
    @Nethezbet Před 5 měsíci +8

    Weird, typically hearsay is allowable when it comes from the victim, it would seem that this would also apply to a letter written by said victim.

  • @Gracefulclutz
    @Gracefulclutz Před 6 měsíci +38

    Trust your instincts…and Just. Get. A. Divorce!

    • @notme123
      @notme123 Před 6 měsíci

      Or don't use antifreeze. Ethylene Glycol. once odorless and tasteless, was reformulated to contain a substance that makes it unpalatable and detectable.

    • @TiffWaffles
      @TiffWaffles Před 19 dny

      She probably tried to get a divorce multiple times but she was being abused and manipulated by her husband. It's not her fault that she was murdered.

  • @michellel564
    @michellel564 Před 6 měsíci +59

    The man harassed her for 6 years with these pictures and she didn't think he was the one doing it?? How was she so blind?

    • @Floridafanatic28
      @Floridafanatic28 Před 6 měsíci +25

      She wasn't blind she was scared. She knew it was him but behaviour like that isn't enough to keep him locked up for long (if at all). Once he got out he'd go after her and she knew it. It was safer for her to deny it.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před 6 měsíci +15

      @@Floridafanatic28and it didn’t help that she relied on him financially and she may have felt that he’d hurt their son even if she survived a divorce. Unfortunately, her bet did not pan out. Poor woman and her poor sons.

  • @moni3634
    @moni3634 Před 6 měsíci +18

    Shows again how Dangerous narcisism is......

  • @RinpochesRose
    @RinpochesRose Před 6 měsíci +26

    Since when does a physician prescribe for a person via the spouse like that? 🤔 Doesn’t sound professional or safe.

    • @notme123
      @notme123 Před 6 měsíci

      This was before medical records were protected against improper disclosure by HIPPA .

    • @evelynwaugh4053
      @evelynwaugh4053 Před 6 měsíci

      Yes, very strange. I wonder if that is only Mark's statement and not what really happened.

    • @kathyflorcruz552
      @kathyflorcruz552 Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah, that really bothered me too. And Ambien is a dangerous drug. Added to Paxil she could have been zombified. Totally irresponsible.

    • @meumnomen
      @meumnomen Před 2 měsíci

      Yeah I never heard of a doctor prescribing anything without examining the person. Very weird.

  • @kibunjojo4499
    @kibunjojo4499 Před 6 měsíci +24

    1:20 If there's an early bad sign already, pull out from the relationship as soon as possible.

    • @johnl5350
      @johnl5350 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Being jealous because your wife loves and dotes on your son is vile all by itself. If only she had divorced him then found a new partner, maybe none of this wouldve happened.

  • @neilcook4710
    @neilcook4710 Před 6 měsíci +18

    Glad I'm not the only one watching true crime vids on CZcams on xmas.

  • @alcoholfree6381
    @alcoholfree6381 Před 5 měsíci +4

    What a sad, pathetic, wicked, evil man! I wonder what has happened to the two boys? As usual, an informative, thoughtful and thought-provoking episode. I’m a disabled retired physician and love Dr. Grande’s subtle humor and super professional analysis of tough cases.

  • @mamaduck9370
    @mamaduck9370 Před 6 měsíci +17

    Terrifying how common these cases have become... Human beings regarding each other as disposable assets. Sad.

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito Před 6 měsíci +2

      People have been killing cheating partners since the dawn of humanity.

    • @carnifaxx
      @carnifaxx Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@alukuhito probably even more often when there was no divorce available... and when investigation methods were very primitive

  • @michellel564
    @michellel564 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Who are the idiots that keep letting this man out of jail??? 😡
    💯 Guilty 😳 WTF

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 Před 6 měsíci +54

    Six years of pictures is quite a feat. Wondering why her letter was never admissible? I agree with your points. Great analysis again. Thanks Dr G😊💜💜

    • @stlounsbury
      @stlounsbury Před 6 měsíci +17

      Her letter was not admitted Round 2 because it was too prejudicial (damning to Mark) and also, because defendants have the right to face their accusers, and Mark couldn’t face Julie given the fact that she was dead.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@stlounsbury OK thanks for the info👍

    • @denniscrannie1126
      @denniscrannie1126 Před 6 měsíci +23

      Somehow that does not seems right to me. If the document could be verified as for as handwriting or DNA it should have been admitted as evidence, IMHO.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Před 6 měsíci +9

      @@denniscrannie1126 I agree sounds odd. Murderers face trial all the time when their victims are dead. Maybe the lawyer found some legal loophole?

    • @Locutus
      @Locutus Před 6 měsíci +8

      I thought death bed confessions were allowed? It probably has to be done in a certain way I guess?

  • @jacquelinejacobson6789
    @jacquelinejacobson6789 Před 6 měsíci +65

    Why would she not RUN with the kids when she discovered the kill list? I suspected my ex husband of plotting do suffocate our baby son. After a week of nightly repeating nightmares of him creeping into the nursery and smothering the baby, I took action and fled with just the baby and the diaper bag. I filed for divorce. During the divorce proceedings it was revealed that he had taken out a large life insurance policy on the baby!!

    • @sheviper
      @sheviper Před 6 měsíci +7

      Holy moly. How did you know? Glad you had that sense to keep your baby safe

    • @ekonamare7219
      @ekonamare7219 Před 6 měsíci +6

      That’s so interesting sounds like a precognition. It saved your son, good on you for acting swiftly

    • @tessajones9393
      @tessajones9393 Před 5 měsíci +5

      What the?! How good are instincts!?

    • @katarina1852
      @katarina1852 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Holy smokes, I’m so thankful you are so clever and perceptive and got away from that monster.

    • @Cinder_311
      @Cinder_311 Před 5 měsíci +4

      Wow! Thank god you got away. Never a reason for a large life ins policy for a baby

  • @tracyking5945
    @tracyking5945 Před 6 měsíci +24

    Cactuses have shallow roots so that they can absorb moisture when it rains in the desert. Dr. Grande’s cactuses are flourishing because Dr. Grande is their source of energy. We benefit too from absorbing Dr. Grande’s deep understanding of human nature. Thank you Dr. Grande for giving us two uploads for Christmas showcasing your gifts of great joy and devotion! ❤️🌵

    • @angelawatson1594
      @angelawatson1594 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Isn't the plural of cactus "cacti"?

    • @tracyking5945
      @tracyking5945 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@angelawatson1594 “The plural of cactus can be either cacti (from the Latin plural) or the conventional English plural cactuses.” Cactuses sounds better to me. I’m not a big fan of Latin when I don’t need to use it.

    • @angelawatson1594
      @angelawatson1594 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@tracyking5945 great to know. I was taught UK English and that was always in my tests, along with the plural od " hippopotamus". 😉

    • @kathyflorcruz552
      @kathyflorcruz552 Před 3 měsíci

      Saw a MSM ridiculous "climate crisis!" story of huge cacti in such as AZ where temps have ALWAYS soared in the summers- and they were implying that "the world is on fire!" as per their usual ridiculous fearmongering & their proof of this was these huge cacti were DYING out there as a result. Truth was that the one dead cactus 🌵 they showed had rotted from the inside because the woman who's yard it was in was CONVINCED it needed tons of water to survive & she killed by flooding it every day to "save the planet!". The MSM broadcasted this stupid story as proof of their claims of the world being on fire. Nevermind in the desert these particular cactus live decades out there at the mercy of the desert nature, surviving on their adapted root systems FOR that climate. It's so infuriating & damaging when these fearmongering lies cause ecosystems to fail, and the Green Dealers regularly DO destroy ecosystems with their "cures".

  • @dissidentfairy4264
    @dissidentfairy4264 Před 6 měsíci +14

    A toxic relationship from every perspective. 🧚‍♀

  • @azulgaia7782
    @azulgaia7782 Před rokem +130

    I'm thankful there's some justice for Julie and this video brings awareness of narcissism.

    • @frogmantoad8110
      @frogmantoad8110 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Justice? She shouldn’t have cheated!

    • @alisonsonderfan7576
      @alisonsonderfan7576 Před 6 měsíci +12

      @@frogmantoad8110so cheating is a capital offense????

    • @amateur_ckaiyion5999
      @amateur_ckaiyion5999 Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@frogmantoad8110cheating doesn't constitute death and if that's what you truly think you are a psycho and you need to see a therapist

    • @QuilaGee
      @QuilaGee Před 6 měsíci

      @@alisonsonderfan7576only to idiots

    • @reneegardner2286
      @reneegardner2286 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@frogmantoad8110men cheat all the time. you leave, you don't kill

  • @lindawells8167
    @lindawells8167 Před 6 měsíci +9

    This is chilling since my ex was/is a narcissist/victim/revenge seeker. A few days ago it occurred to me that he will never be satisfied till i am gone. I pray i am wrong.

    • @Meela234
      @Meela234 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Be very careful and take your feelings seriously. Julie also prayed she was wrong.

    • @r1133rocco
      @r1133rocco Před 6 měsíci +4

      OMG be safe

    • @julietrudgill9887
      @julietrudgill9887 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Run!!!

  • @cats.addict6457
    @cats.addict6457 Před 6 měsíci +27

    Good analysis... I still remember his arrogance and total lack of feelings in Court...thanks for this video

  • @JoBlo321
    @JoBlo321 Před 6 měsíci +25

    Scary that you can't speak for yourself in a trial of your own murder! If anyone would know who's responsible...it would be the deceased!

    • @gabrielleangelica1977
      @gabrielleangelica1977 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Dead men tell tales with forensics...

    • @sarahpiaggio2693
      @sarahpiaggio2693 Před 6 měsíci +7

      That's what I thought. Of course his lawyer couldn't cross-examine the author of the letter. His client had killed her....

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ Před 6 měsíci +37

    Dr. Grande works on Christmas Eve and even on Christmas for us 🎄 Thank you Dr. & Mrs. Grande 🙏 We ❤️ You

    • @BrittMFH
      @BrittMFH Před 6 měsíci +1

      Doubtful. Unless they're very bored, they scheduled the upload for Christmas.

  • @jenndunn8718
    @jenndunn8718 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I found this one to be particularly heart wrenching. Narcissism is so scary.

  • @CrystalRicotta
    @CrystalRicotta Před 6 měsíci +5

    She should have left that moment he threatened her child.

  • @godzillamanstreb524
    @godzillamanstreb524 Před 6 měsíci +13

    I live 45 min from Pleasant Prarie, WI….such a lovely little town….. followed the trials….the prosecution was amazing….it’s such a shame the whole story ….so happy justice was served….RIP Julie💗💗

  • @ToLovelyJesus
    @ToLovelyJesus Před 6 měsíci +3

    Off topic, but I really enjoy the dry humor and alliteration that you work into the segments.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před 6 měsíci +51

    It’s Grande time. Let’s do this. Thanks for all the great videos, Dr. Grande.❤ They are much appreciated.❤

    • @reconstructingleslie4597
      @reconstructingleslie4597 Před 6 měsíci +3

      I love this!!! From now on let's call it Grande Time❤
      Dr Grande is one of my favorites on here❤❤

  • @olilumgbalu5653
    @olilumgbalu5653 Před 6 měsíci +12

    There was a female equivalent to this in Montana, where a woman became so upset that her husband had cheated on her that she began to send him threatening emails and make threatening phone calls which she pretended were from the woman her husband had cheated on her with. She eventually killed her husband hoping the woman would be blamed. Her name was Ann something.

  • @michiganjfrog5714
    @michiganjfrog5714 Před 6 měsíci +48

    It's super creepy that Mark's lover/new wife kept Julie's children after Mark went to jail for her their mother's murder.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Před 6 měsíci +12

      They must not have had any other family. How sad.

    • @tessajones9393
      @tessajones9393 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I can't think of anything worse 😢

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Agree that in theory, it seems to fit the wicked step mother scenario. But truth is often stranger than fiction. In a situation with no easy choices, who's to say she could not provide the least traumatic environment for those poor kids.?

    • @meumnomen
      @meumnomen Před 2 měsíci

      It's like a Lifetime movie premise

  • @SindriKr
    @SindriKr Před 6 měsíci +19

    There is also a reason why some people are tempted to cheat on narcissists, because they are not attractive and are deliberately repulsive.

    • @SindriKr
      @SindriKr Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@slowtheplanedown I am not wrong in what I am saying, you just dont understand it. Maybe you are just a "smart" guy that lacks experience.

    • @toscadonna
      @toscadonna Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@SindriKrYou’re right. The awful personality and behaviors of the narcissist take any physical beauty they may have and just flush it down the toilet. They’re so unattractive after they’ve yelled at you repeatedly, cut you down, punished you, ignored you, harassed you, etc. They are their own and our worst enemies.

    • @SindriKr
      @SindriKr Před 6 měsíci

      Yes they are very unattractive though they pretend to be charming, because they have to shock the victim with ugliness.

  • @Ruby-wise
    @Ruby-wise Před 6 měsíci +9

    Great commentary..I watched his live trial 2008. I fully believed in his guilt and was surprised he was tried a second time. I agree he was guilty…for the second verdict! Sheesh. What a jerk…and waste of finances.

  • @fluxaeternal
    @fluxaeternal Před 6 měsíci +5

    Dunno about how to make a request, but I’m so curious about the case of Shelby Hewitt, that social worker in her 30’s who impersonated a high school student at several schools

  • @aero4379
    @aero4379 Před 2 měsíci +3

    How dare him not like being betrayed!

  • @discospiders
    @discospiders Před 6 měsíci +10

    Dr Grande, you should cover some off the weird disappearances and murders that have occurred on Cruise ships!! Since you like cruisin’

  • @raymondpetrovits2336
    @raymondpetrovits2336 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I have witnessed similar situations. A rocky and failing marriage but instead of parting ways they decide to have another child like that will make things better. It only makes the new addition to the family suffer through a declining marriage.

  • @PattyWagon496
    @PattyWagon496 Před 6 měsíci +7

    wouldn't a doctor have wanted to see his patient before prescribing, rather than just handing the medication to a spouse? Really doesn't sound right.

    • @bee-sg1qf
      @bee-sg1qf Před 23 hodinami

      That’s his words. That may not be what happened.

  • @KaraLey98
    @KaraLey98 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Why continue to stay married to a person you think might do away with you??

    • @reneegardner2286
      @reneegardner2286 Před 6 měsíci +7

      you'd have to experience domestic violence yourself to understand coercive control

  • @scroogemcduckrich9705
    @scroogemcduckrich9705 Před 6 měsíci +105

    he cheated but couldn’t forgive her for cheating.. makes sense 🤡🤡

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito Před 6 měsíci +16

      It does make sense actually, because everything was fine until she broke the trust. She's the one that destroyed the marriage. This often happens. One person in a couple cheats, the other tries to forgive and move on, but it's impossible, and they end up cheating too, because why not? They were betrayed.

    • @QuilaGee
      @QuilaGee Před 6 měsíci +35

      @@alukuhitosmh your thinking is off. He made her stay. She wanted to leave. He didn’t forgive. He started having an affair. He stalked and harassed her with nudes😒. What didn’t you understand about this. Yes she made a mistake but he did the same thing for what 6 years then killed her.

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito Před 6 měsíci +8

      @@QuilaGee Maybe he wanted to make her pay the ultimate price for what she did to him. Anyway, both of them should have ended the relationship once the cheating happened. She started it.

    • @98Ashb
      @98Ashb Před 6 měsíci +7

      @@QuilaGee it wasn't about a mistake mate she gave herself to another man she let him claim her.My guess she was his adored wife which switched to another man's easy crumpet and conquest.Her lover was raw genuine desire Mark was a provider.He provided... problems for another man's fast fun

    • @98Ashb
      @98Ashb Před 6 měsíci +2

      Note I have got to 1/4 of the video when I write this

  • @bthomson
    @bthomson Před 6 měsíci +8

    If Mark was responsible for the photo punishment ( 6 years!) he is a very sick dude!

    • @bee-sg1qf
      @bee-sg1qf Před 23 hodinami

      Very calculating and cold. He is a psychopath

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom Před 6 měsíci +6

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating what the hell became of the jet-black curtains.

  • @michellestultz4211
    @michellestultz4211 Před 6 měsíci +30

    Maybe telling your partner that you think they are going to kill you and you have given a copy of your thoughts on the issue to the police for future use and safe keeping would keep said partner from trying anything? It may put a damper on the relationship but, heck, it could save your life. Just a thought

    • @statementleaver8095
      @statementleaver8095 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Maybe if Adulterous behaviour wasn't present then Happy families would live long and prosper.
      Poor fella......was the kids even his???

    • @michellestultz4211
      @michellestultz4211 Před 6 měsíci +15

      @@statementleaver8095 I totally agree with what you say, however, murder is not the answer.

    • @statementleaver8095
      @statementleaver8095 Před 6 měsíci +10

      @@michellestultz4211 And I 100% agree
      Murder is NOT the answer 👍

    • @rhondaparr5739
      @rhondaparr5739 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Most likely not

    • @tiggerpup_nz
      @tiggerpup_nz Před 6 měsíci +8

      @@statementleaver8095I don’t agree with adultery but I get the feeling that marriage was on the rocks before she did that.

  • @EricFullwood
    @EricFullwood Před 6 měsíci +32

    To be fair, a spouse having an affair is impossible to forgive. Lives are forever changed. Divorce should be free for the victim with no financial benefit to the cheating spouse.

    • @auemmjee
      @auemmjee Před 6 měsíci +7

      More so, people should take the time to understand what marriage is legally speaking, for example: what it means when you marry in a no-fault state.

    • @robgrey6183
      @robgrey6183 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@auemmjeeThis is why fewer young men are marrying.

    • @esteemedmortal5917
      @esteemedmortal5917 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Speak for yourself. By no means am I endorsing blanket forgiveness, just saying it’s going to be a couple by couple basis.
      Also, prenups are a thing.

  • @laabogadadeldiablo_
    @laabogadadeldiablo_ Před 6 měsíci +13

    jensen really gave me the creeps. thanks for the video, dr grande! 🌵happy holidays! ✨

  • @TheScapegoat420
    @TheScapegoat420 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Dr G you really killed this one.

  • @RobertKempf122
    @RobertKempf122 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Thanks for the videos. Sorry it's not more. Will have to join patreon soon to get more videos.

  • @Bostongirl4eva
    @Bostongirl4eva Před 6 měsíci +39

    Winding down from an amazing, yet busy (& traveling) Christmas, with another one of Dr. Grande’s analysis! Thank you and Merry Christmas to Dr. and Mrs. Grande & family. 🎄💚✅

  • @CB-ke9rs
    @CB-ke9rs Před 6 měsíci +17

    Dr G is the hardest working creator on YT❤! Thanks for making our Christmas extra special by dropping a video on Christas Day❤. Happy Holidays to you and yours🎄🎁

  • @leeannkaiser2782
    @leeannkaiser2782 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I think this is one of the most spot on analysis’ that Dr. Grandes ever done!

  • @leannemo7382
    @leannemo7382 Před 2 měsíci

    Narcissistic rage is one of the most dangerous aspects of a malignant narcissist. Get away from a destructive person like that like as soon as you can…you must protect your overall well-being immediately.

  • @carriefawcett9990
    @carriefawcett9990 Před 6 měsíci +12

    I'm so glad you have 1.38 million subscribers, Dr Grande! I was here when it was only 1000s😊. You deserve every bit of success. ❤

  • @melissacampbell9214
    @melissacampbell9214 Před 6 měsíci +4

    A Christmas present from Dr. Grande. Thank you!

  • @mybestebay4u
    @mybestebay4u Před 6 měsíci +22

    Merry Christmas & Happy New Year Dr. Todd and Amy! Many Thanks for a Great Year of Top Entertainment and Education!

  • @janac407
    @janac407 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Dr Grande, could you please analyse the Prague university shooter? He shot students, teachers and passers by - from the rooftop, after killing his father and setting a bomb in his house. What is the most heartbreaking about this case is that several days before this he killed a random man and his 2 month old baby. What kind of person (and diagnosis) would shoot a 2 months old baby in a pram?

  • @mr.sinjin-smyth
    @mr.sinjin-smyth Před 6 měsíci +29

    This sounds so similar to Jade Janks case. Both lost their minds over photographs and killed the loved ones they lost trust with. In Jade's case, she went fast for kill, while Mark took several years and gradual for kill.

    • @Sleepparalysisdemon2
      @Sleepparalysisdemon2 Před 6 měsíci +12

      Jade Janx's case is completely different. In her case, it was a man she thought of as a father. There was the profound love and trust ..a completely different bond she felt for him. He started with hiding cameras and taking video of her when she was just 14. The cases are not even remotely like each other.

  • @carmenhunter4380
    @carmenhunter4380 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Dr G we love you. You're a machine, I'm sure you've never missed a day! ❤

  • @roberthopkins3621
    @roberthopkins3621 Před 6 měsíci +4

    The background looks nice , it looks clean and professional.

  • @wendiwonderly1419
    @wendiwonderly1419 Před 6 měsíci +3

    At one point mrs Jensen hired a private investigator to find who was harassing her. Not only is this expensive they sometimes tell you more than you really want to know. Be sure before you go to the expense that you are prepared for what he may tell you and what you are going to do with the information

  • @audralynn7454
    @audralynn7454 Před 6 měsíci +16

    I just woke up from a fitful nap due to a tooth infection, and I have 20 minutes until I can take my pain meds, I'm pleasantly surprised that I can pass the time with a Dr Grande analysis. Thank you and Merry Christmas Dr Grande, and fellow fans!

    • @peacefreedom4930
      @peacefreedom4930 Před 6 měsíci +11

      No need to torture yourself. In the hospital we get an hour window, 30 minutes on either side of the scheduled time, to give the medication. If it’s due at 9, we can give it from 8:30 to 9:30. If you’re waking up 20 minutes early your pain isn’t under control. You want to get ahead of pain and then stay on top of it.

    • @gaiaiulia
      @gaiaiulia Před 6 měsíci +2

      Hope your tooth infection clears up soon! Happy Christmas (even with a toothache).

    • @gaiaiulia
      @gaiaiulia Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@peacefreedom4930I never knew that. Great info thanks. Happy Christmas, btw.

    • @mikeballard8404
      @mikeballard8404 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I'm in a rehab hospital for my knee replacement surgery and if I don't ask for my pill they figure I don't need it. I usually sleep from midnight to 5 or 6, so I miss one pill, you don't get 2 when you wake up!

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos Před 6 měsíci +2

      Get it treated - infections can kill.

  • @youlig1
    @youlig1 Před 6 měsíci +4

    And he works in finance. What a surprise.

  • @dolorestroeller4734
    @dolorestroeller4734 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I guess that’s one good reason to be happy no one else in your house cooks😮

  • @urantia1111
    @urantia1111 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Thank you Dr. Grande! I look forward to your videos everyday. ❤

  • @bunnymad5049
    @bunnymad5049 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Oh, Julie. Poor lady. Those poor lads. I hope they are being raised with love. Thank goodness that not even having her letter didn't stop the conviction.

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito Před 6 měsíci +5

      She started it. She should've ended the relationship when she cheated.

    • @carnifaxx
      @carnifaxx Před 6 měsíci +7

      @@alukuhito but she wanted to, he threatened her to stay because of their son. And it still doesn't mean that cheating requires murder - why didn't his mistress kill her husband as well?

    • @blackgold754
      @blackgold754 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@carnifaxxshe wanted to after she cheated. He was talking about before she cheated.

    • @carnifaxx
      @carnifaxx Před 6 měsíci

      @@blackgold754 that makes no sense - why would he threaten her BEFORE she wanted a divorce? Just to be safe or what? And when the relationship is already over, the paperwork just finishes it, not starts. (Also I don't see your own rules being applied on him - and he cheated for a very long time, not one weekend in a whole lifetime.)

    • @blackgold754
      @blackgold754 Před 6 měsíci

      @@carnifaxx You replied to a comment that said "She should've ended the relationship when she cheated" to which you replied "But she wanted to". To that I simply tried to tell you that she wanted to end the relationship after she cheated on him, not before she. Also, yes I'm well aware that my rules do not apply to him because he cheated only after she cheated. I don't consider counter-cheating as bad in my book as the type of cheating started first by individuals. Although, I wouldn't recommend it cuz you gotta move on and it is unhealthy, I can understand why people would do that. He did that to make her feel how it's really like to be hurt by somebody that betrays you.
      Also interesting how you mentioned he cheated for a long time, not weekend, not days but a longitme. Like as if that somehow makes cheating good if it was done for a weekend or days lol.

  • @eternalreality4346
    @eternalreality4346 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Thank you so much Sir!
    Happy Christmas from India 🙏

  • @thesincitymama
    @thesincitymama Před 6 měsíci +13

    This video makes me wonder - how many people actually get away with killing their spouses? To me, it seems like lots of people get convicted for crimes like this. Why do they think they’re gonna get away with it? Why do they even try?

  • @mariesimpson7613
    @mariesimpson7613 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Merry Christmas and thank you for your videos, which I always look forward to.

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande.

  • @marisawoods
    @marisawoods Před 6 měsíci +3

    As usual, you're spot on, Dr. Grande!

  • @rocioordorica1197
    @rocioordorica1197 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Doc rocks
    Every shift I listen to his newest video I’ve almost seen almost all of them ! I learn from these videos to look for signs and symptoms

  • @Tiffany-pz6dj
    @Tiffany-pz6dj Před 6 měsíci +4

    Hell yeah! I listen to you every night when falling asleep and this is the first time I’ve ever had a newly uploaded video to listen to. Merry Christmas!

  • @treydaypnw
    @treydaypnw Před 6 měsíci +2

    Man, Dr. Grande's work ethic is 2nd to none 💪

  • @robinmaynard1640
    @robinmaynard1640 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I'm confused . . . did they have the same last name when they met?

    • @kenmccormick8059
      @kenmccormick8059 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Apparently not; it seems her last name was Griffin when they met.

  • @cindyguevara3175
    @cindyguevara3175 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Thanks for the upload Dr.Grande. I find myself working today so this is a nice treat. Merry Christmas 🎁🎄💕

  • @ArtVandelayLovesPretzels
    @ArtVandelayLovesPretzels Před 6 měsíci +3

    Merry Christmas, Dr. Grande and Mrs. Dr. Grande!

  • @koalatheworld
    @koalatheworld Před 6 měsíci +4

    Merry Christmas! Great to see your post on this special day 🎉

  • @manewland1
    @manewland1 Před 6 měsíci

    You never take a break! Looking forward to getting caught up on last weekend's videos; in the meantime, I hope you had a merry Christmas. Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande!

  • @christiandulaney1638
    @christiandulaney1638 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I appreciate the lengthy alliteration on this day after Christmas.

  • @cindyhesson9213
    @cindyhesson9213 Před 6 měsíci +3

    You work so hard Dr and we appreciate it ❤ Hope you're having wonderful holiday and a blessed New Years 🎉🎉

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks again for reviewing yet another horrific case. It keeps me thankful for my normal life. Happy New Year to you!

  • @michelecrosse4261
    @michelecrosse4261 Před 6 měsíci +11

    I love your videos. I really like your voice and extra dry humour 🐨🐨🐨🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🦘🦘🦘How was your Christmas? It was the coldest Christmas Day in Adelaide Australia in 20 years!

  • @alyssamcbride2993
    @alyssamcbride2993 Před 6 měsíci

    You're the best Dr Grande!! Thanks for the content even through the Holidays!! We ❤ you!

  • @rebekahedwards5318
    @rebekahedwards5318 Před 6 měsíci

    Great post,as usual. Your voice is clear and soothing. Thanks!!!

  • @maryronan8446
    @maryronan8446 Před 6 měsíci +3

    We all wait for the brilliant words of Dr Grandes analysis-
    “Mark wasn’t going to let the heinous, homicide hypothesis, hinder his harmonious happiness of their holy matrimony”-😂😂

  • @rerite2
    @rerite2 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This reminds me of the couple in Orange County, CA. About 4 years ago. 2 medical doctors. The husband started to feel sick. He secretly installed cameras in the kitchen and the video showed his wife putting anti-freeze in his morning tea. Yikes.

  • @michaelgreer9023
    @michaelgreer9023 Před 6 měsíci +9

    "Spending Time Together"-One of the Five Languages of Love😍🥰😘
    I would like to use this case to illustrate the five languages of love. They are, in ascending order, gift-giving, physical contact with affection, words of praise, quality time and acts of service. Love in fact contains these various forms, much as light contains all the colors of the spectrum when it passes through a prism. You might notice that in this case the value of quality time was lacking; Mark's wife Julie felt "left out" when Mark began spending a lot of time with friends. This forced Julie to spend the night with a male friend.
    What then does it mean to "spend time together'? What is quality time? I have no idea. Maybe you can help? I think Mark's life-sentence will help him begin to understand the meaning of "quality time." Thank you.

    • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
      @StAlphonsusHasAPosse Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you for listing the 5 languages of love.
      Julie is the clear victim here. However, she was not FORCED to have an affair, even though Mark spent too much time with his friends.

  • @naturalroyalflush
    @naturalroyalflush Před 5 měsíci +1

    Most spouses of cheaters don’t harbour good thoughts. Doesn’t always lead to murder though. Jealousy can unhinge people. This is definitely different and something I never thought about.

  • @sbrown6434
    @sbrown6434 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Gotta love DrG! Merry Christmas doc❤

  • @karensansui
    @karensansui Před 6 měsíci +7

    Merry Christmas to everyone! Minus New Jersey. lol. jk. we"ll throw you some love today.

    • @NYCHFAN
      @NYCHFAN Před 6 měsíci +3

      😂😂😂

  • @travisnunya7960
    @travisnunya7960 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Damn you are pumping these vids out! 🙏

  • @marytaylor8482
    @marytaylor8482 Před 6 měsíci

    Great video and analysis! So glad I stumbled across this channel!!

  • @jaketobias449
    @jaketobias449 Před 6 měsíci +3

    They could have excluded ALL the evidence and the jury would still convict.

  • @carolyn-wu6xr
    @carolyn-wu6xr Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this insightful and educational analysis and on Christmas day no less!❤ Happy Holidays, Dr. Grande!🎄🎁

  • @CountrysideCutie
    @CountrysideCutie Před 6 měsíci +2

    Merry Christmas, Dr. & Mrs. Grande! 🎄

  • @mistyblues6762
    @mistyblues6762 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks for another interesting video

  • @shehaw1
    @shehaw1 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Merry Christmas. Thank you for all your videos.

  • @DeeIsFierce
    @DeeIsFierce Před 6 měsíci +1

    Merry Christmas! Dr.Grande and your Family! ❤