Cheating Wife Uses Sword and Pillow to Murder Her Entire Family | Manling Williams Case Analysis

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  • @TruthBeTold0914
    @TruthBeTold0914 Před 6 měsíci +871

    She murdered her two children then went out with friends. If that's not evil, sociopathic, psychopathy, I don't know what is.

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 Před 6 měsíci +24

      It’s not actually. It’s much more in alignment with BPD (borderline), brought on by a severely abusive childhood. Sociopaths don’t care THAT much to freak out like this just because they got dumped. That’s why they’re sociopaths. Also- they tend to have a long history of ASPD behavior and she didn’t.

    • @Scorned405
      @Scorned405 Před 6 měsíci +21

      @@kateashby3066 Yes to some extent what u are saying is true. BPD and sociopathy share similar traits. BPDs seek validation from others and are scared of abandonment. Yet at the same time don’t have much remorse over hurting others. Axis 2 disorders can mix and overlap. I definitely think she is sociopathic. Maybe a bit of BPD mixed with it

    • @franklinnose
      @franklinnose Před 6 měsíci +9

      Just like CASEY ANTHONY.

    • @jamegumb7298
      @jamegumb7298 Před 6 měsíci +11

      PRactical.
      She wanted John, he didnt want a married woman, and her chances as a single mother of 2 were not great.
      So get rid of the kids and her man, get any assets and pension funds etc, all in one fast night.
      Except it went another way.

    • @kaoskronostyche9939
      @kaoskronostyche9939 Před 6 měsíci

      The indigenous, endemic malignant narcissism of the female of the species.

  • @HL-ud8xx
    @HL-ud8xx Před 6 měsíci +284

    Even if her husband didn't agree to a divorce, she still could've gone forward with it. If her husband had a choice between divorce or death I'm sure he would've chosen the first option.

    • @RiceDaddy07
      @RiceDaddy07 Před 5 měsíci +5

      You never know.

    • @mrsr003
      @mrsr003 Před 5 měsíci +17

      True! And if she didn’t want the kids anymore, she could have given them to their Dad or grandparents! I would take my grandkids if their parents didn’t want them anymore!

    • @jeffreyhowerton1320
      @jeffreyhowerton1320 Před 5 měsíci

      Amen

    • @user-mo2sg8mf5k
      @user-mo2sg8mf5k Před 4 měsíci

      Yes. Why not just divorce and give children to someone.

    • @HL-ud8xx
      @HL-ud8xx Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@user-mo2sg8mf5k I think you meant to say divorce and give custody to husband

  • @marilynmcmahon5932
    @marilynmcmahon5932 Před 6 měsíci +629

    I can never get my head around the idea of a mother killing her children.

    • @blacksuite1
      @blacksuite1 Před 6 měsíci +30

      It's becoming more common

    • @Youtubereplies
      @Youtubereplies Před 6 měsíci +79

      Or father. Either, anyone.

    • @moonfighter4872
      @moonfighter4872 Před 6 měsíci +75

      ​@@blacksuite1It's not. Crime is just more openly shown due to media now. Rates have actually gone down.

    • @ohsweetmystery
      @ohsweetmystery Před 6 měsíci

      @@moonfighter4872Every abortion is a mother killing her child,

    • @blacksuite1
      @blacksuite1 Před 6 měsíci +15

      ​@@moonfighter4872 lots of vids coming out about women putting kids in microwaves

  • @robinantonio8870
    @robinantonio8870 Před 6 měsíci +242

    My sister was a spoilt brat. My entire family indulged her, never stood up to her, and when I wouldnt give in to her I became the family scapegoat for her narcissistic abuse with them blaming me for it and enabling her. When she was about 16 she attacked me with a butcher knife when no one was home because she thought I had taken a pkt of chips from her room. ( I hadnt.) When I got away and called the police, she wasn't at all concerned that there would be consequences because " it was only over a pkt of chips". The fact that I was injured and her attack was out of all proportion was irrelevant. After she was released from jail after her trial, she wasnt allowed to be near me. As I still lived at home and had no money to move out,my aunt took her in. When she pulled her spoilt brat behaviour there, my grandmother, who was the main narcissist in the family and was largely responsible for turning her into one, took her in and I was then unable to visit my grandparents in their home because they would not make her go out eg to the movie so I could visit. Eventually even my grandmother got sick of her attitude and was going to kick her out but died before she could. Then she made my grandfather her virtual slave ( eg out welding a birdcage in 40degree C( over 100 F) in his shed because she wanted it, at the age of 78, and she told my sister when she said it was too hot that she told him to listen to the radio because that would make it more pleasant.) She told the whole family she was going to inherit everything because she had put her name on all the items and nagged him to change his will. He didn't.

    • @GingerBreadBlaze
      @GingerBreadBlaze Před 6 měsíci +32

      That's awful. She's def most likely to cause harm to someone else too, in the future. Good thing you stayed away from her, her dangerous ways could've escalated.

    • @edamameedamame1202
      @edamameedamame1202 Před 6 měsíci +34

      I cannot believe the exactly the same story with me… minus butcher knife. Exactly the same with slightly different identities: my sister a violent abusive women, my mom (not grandmother) the source of extreme narcissism; both tried to kill me and take my kids away and control money and properties. They ruined my marriage and have been verbally and physically abusing me for 40 years. Your sister is a psychopath, not a spoiled brat. I’m 55 five now and just got away. Now they try to confine my dad (100 years old) and abuse him. I did five years and therapy and most importantly is to educate myself via open resources. I find Dr Huberman’s channel super helpful to learn about brain science, I find Mormon Stories helpful about ridiculous “cult disguises as religion” helpful. I find JuliaChristine (easy to spot all her videos are black and white) helpful. I watch a lot of divorce channels, especially with subject of “ divorcing, a narcissist”. I avoid all froufrou self-help channels and brought basic textbooks how to use law language and “think” (remotely) like a lawyer. I picked up Japanese sword fighting, Japanese floral arrangement and Chinese calligraphy to help me tune inward to fortify myself. I subscribed to Walking Up and listened to all the lectures of Alan Watts and even a series by Amanda Knox (very helpful). And I cross stitched Bruce Lee’s saying:
      t speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke. Your body doesn't know the difference. Words are energy and they cast spells, that's why it's called spelling. Change the way you speak about yourself, and you can change your life.
      Please send FORCE my way as I send FORCE your way.
      ⚡️🌈👩🏻‍🎤🏋🏻‍♂️✅🍵Happy 2024 year of the dragon. We are all our own dragon warriors🐉🐉🗡️🗡️🎉🎉

    • @stephaniesamra7960
      @stephaniesamra7960 Před 6 měsíci +11

      @@edamameedamame1202God almighty - your story is unbelievable- have a fabulous 2024 ❤

    • @Meela234
      @Meela234 Před 6 měsíci +17

      Is your grandfather still alive? If not, who did he leave everything to? How did your sister react?

    • @edamameedamame1202
      @edamameedamame1202 Před 6 měsíci +18

      Pardon me… here is the full Bruce Lee quote:
      Don't speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke. Your body doesn't know the difference. Words are energy and they cast spells, that's why it's called spelling. Change the way you speak about yourself, and you can change your life.
      We all stay strong one moment one breath at a time. FORCE and kindness with all of us no one can break us, NO nada ONE. 🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵 social matchas for everyone

  • @roadpizza3470
    @roadpizza3470 Před 6 měsíci +115

    If you are unhappy, go away and get on with your life. Don’t take others down with you…

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 Před 5 měsíci

      One of the mysteries of a person's mind.... Don't judge here

    • @kp361
      @kp361 Před 5 měsíci +15

      @@Moodboard39 I most certainly will judge someone who murders their children and spouse.

    • @davidng8870
      @davidng8870 Před 3 měsíci

      It’s very hard to understand. If she divorces him and even gives the kids up to him or for adoption then it’s functionally the same.
      Now they are saying that the MH870 (?) mystery was due to murder-suicide… what sort of personality needs to commit mass murder along with their suicide

    • @user-dk3up2nl1m
      @user-dk3up2nl1m Před 2 měsíci +1

      Hell has endless space

    • @joefishtale
      @joefishtale Před měsícem

      Well. Now you tell us.

  • @sandangels73
    @sandangels73 Před 6 měsíci +142

    This case is like a cross between the Chris Watts case and the Diane Downs case. Diane thought that she could gain the man she wanted by exterminating her children too.

    • @coolblue1812
      @coolblue1812 Před 6 měsíci +20

      Similar to Susan Smith😊

    • @sueblack5794
      @sueblack5794 Před 6 měsíci +9

      Yes...I was thinking of Diane Downs as well.

    • @GingerBreadBlaze
      @GingerBreadBlaze Před 6 měsíci +13

      And even after, he still did not want her, he was married and wanted to stay with his wife. She knew that. But with who she is, she'll turn on her own flesh and blood to get a man.Sad. She still has no remorse to this day. She didn't even want to see her grandchild born from her daughter she was pregnant with in jail. She was just using being pregnant as way to get attention. Really messed up there are other people like her out here.

    • @peggypeggy4137
      @peggypeggy4137 Před 4 měsíci +3

      True. Imagine a person that is so self centered to kill her kids with the sole purpose of getting a man. In the case of Diane Downs, that guy that she was in love with couldn't wait till she moved out of state. He was creeped out & I think this boyfriend was too.

    • @scottwooledge6387
      @scottwooledge6387 Před 29 dny

      Susan Smith was said to be motivated by the fact her new love interest had no desire to be a step-dad. Crazy.

  • @bryantturner97
    @bryantturner97 Před 6 měsíci +381

    When entitlement merges into psychopathy, limits seem to go out the window....truly saddening story.

    • @anotheryoutubechannel4809
      @anotheryoutubechannel4809 Před 6 měsíci +7

      💯

    • @patch8376
      @patch8376 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Well put

    • @JP-ht6nm
      @JP-ht6nm Před 6 měsíci +6

      I think a true psychopath would have done a bit better at getting away with this. I think there were other problems with her, described by dr grande

    • @Lonesome_Loser
      @Lonesome_Loser Před 6 měsíci +4

      Reminds me of the current Republican Party.

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 Před 6 měsíci

      @@Lonesome_Loserboth parties are sociopathic and both work together to pin us against each other so we don’t care and hold them accountable for their corrupt acts that work against us. The fact that you felt the need to turn THIS video into a political statement goes to show how easily manipulated you are.

  • @Soravia
    @Soravia Před 6 měsíci +172

    4 bedroom house in California? She had unrealistic expectations 😂

    • @colleenpeck6347
      @colleenpeck6347 Před 5 měsíci +18

      Plus, if she had childhood trauma why would the materialistic size of her house matter. She really only needed 2 good size ones for the parents and the boys.

    • @dontatme2012
      @dontatme2012 Před 5 měsíci +8

      😂😂😂😂Say that again!!!! Add delusional to her list of diagnosis.

    • @nemeanlioness
      @nemeanlioness Před 5 měsíci +13

      It was possible in 2010 to 2013. My brother got his for 130K in 2012. Now worth over 500k

    • @svenskanorsk
      @svenskanorsk Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@colleenpeck6347her own mother probably complained about the family house as well. These things are usually generational.

    • @kingjoe3rd
      @kingjoe3rd Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@colleenpeck6347 it probably wasn't a "materialistic" view, but just a practical one so that everyone in the family could have their own space. The lady would have probably been satisfied with a 3-bedroom house had her husband not been a loser.

  • @AreTheyAllYours
    @AreTheyAllYours Před 6 měsíci +120

    She was born the year I was born. Her boys were similar in age to my two oldest sons. One of my sons is now married, the other is about to get married. Life with them has been so precious. To think of the futures she destroyed and all she took from them 😢 Taking any innocent life is heinous, but that of your own child? Incomprehensible! 😢

    • @tdgdbs1
      @tdgdbs1 Před 6 měsíci +3

      I'm glad your boys found love; my son is 21 and currently serving in the military, never had a relationship, he has been to 14 countries in the last 3 years and will never get into a relationship with a western woman.

    • @KittyGoldPaint
      @KittyGoldPaint Před 6 měsíci +7

      ​@@tdgdbs1​Never? Geeze, they're only 21; they have their whole life ahead of them.

    • @patty-pat-pat
      @patty-pat-pat Před 6 měsíci +1

      He's a Tate fan isnt he? @@tdgdbs1 Hopefully he wont bother a non western woman with his ideology.

    • @charlyforrester
      @charlyforrester Před 6 měsíci

      @@tdgdbs1 well Manling was a first-generation Western woman, so good luck with that

    • @kp361
      @kp361 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@tdgdbs1 What? He's 21! Never is a very long time. And Ling wasn't a 'Western woman' so not sure why you've mentioned that.

  • @skycloud4802
    @skycloud4802 Před 6 měsíci +194

    He was sleeping not knowing his kids were dead in the house? That's very creepy and tragic. I hope he never got to realise it before he died. What he went through was horrific and bad enough.

    • @glow1815
      @glow1815 Před 6 měsíci +11

      If you're a deep sleeper he wouldn't know nor hear a thing.

    • @robertwu8092
      @robertwu8092 Před 6 měsíci +45

      He was too tired from playing video games to hear anything.

    • @Ultradude604
      @Ultradude604 Před 6 měsíci +47

      They were suffocated. So they wouldn't be bleeding or anything. He might have assume they were sleeping.

    • @MateDrinker33
      @MateDrinker33 Před 6 měsíci +24

      The children were killed when he was away from the residence, and he simply failed to discover their bodies prior to being murdered himself.

    • @franciscopino5284
      @franciscopino5284 Před 6 měsíci

      He was a good-for-nothing slob not much better than his wife.

  • @lastpme
    @lastpme Před 6 měsíci +149

    The crazy thing is her high school boyfriend wasn't really interested in her, he just wanted to sleep with her. Once he did that he was done....even if she got a divorce I highly doubt he would want a relationship with her. Plus, if she cheated on her husband with him...she would probably do it again once she was bored of their relationship.

    • @sean5558
      @sean5558 Před 6 měsíci +20

      @@cht2162no that’s not the logic behind it . Many people cheat on their spouses and not kill them to be with someone else. If the old boyfriend encouraged her to kill her family and he would be with her after then that would be the case. Whether it was for a simple hookup fling or he decided a relationship with a cheater was not his thing and he just didn’t want to be with her any further.

    • @MovistarMonster
      @MovistarMonster Před 5 měsíci +4

      Exactly, who wants someone elses used goods 🥴

    • @mr.miller3432
      @mr.miller3432 Před měsícem

      🙋

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom Před 6 měsíci +947

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what happens when a woman goes total 'Kill Bill's like this.

  • @meFatuations
    @meFatuations Před 6 měsíci +104

    Its hard to even comprehend what it must be like to be devoid of feelings of empathy. To see people as objects. She had no feelings for her children, so it was easy to kill them. But to go out with other people for dinner after killing your two children! Like I said, there is no way to imagine how this is possible. While your company at dinner are laughing and joking, you are eating a plate of food knowing that you just killed both of your children. To me, that makes her a different kind of organism, but definitely not human.

    • @michelleobrien6996
      @michelleobrien6996 Před 6 měsíci +22

      Imagine the people she had dinner with finding this out.😮😮

    • @tommytortuga3073
      @tommytortuga3073 Před 6 měsíci

      Humans are just primates that operate off the chemicals in their bodies…you shouldn’t put them on such pedestals

    • @riri820highfi
      @riri820highfi Před 6 měsíci

      No. People need to stop with this "monster, not human" BS! Humans are the most depraved species of all, this is what we are capable of! She is HUMAN. That makes it even more disgusting. Learn to live with that fact

    • @peacelove7437
      @peacelove7437 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @@michelleobrien6996right. That would give me PTSD.

    • @pummy44
      @pummy44 Před 5 měsíci

      Most women like her tend to not have souls

  • @rullvox5912
    @rullvox5912 Před 6 měsíci +48

    I saw a video of this case in detail. She should have just proceeded with a divorce, she didn't need her husband's consent to divorce him.

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 Před 6 měsíci +7

      It’s cute when people try to use logic with cases that are clearly influenced by mental illness lol

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 Před 5 měsíci

      ⁠mental illness is not proven. U no better than her...

  • @Shamiterrific
    @Shamiterrific Před 6 měsíci +97

    I can't believe wanting your husband to find the children you murdered and be driven to such dispair that he kills himself. And thinking that scenario wraps things up nicely so you can start a better life.

    • @Kelthor85
      @Kelthor85 Před 6 měsíci

      I would hope that sort of attitude took MANY years to cultivate and wasn't there from the beginning... Yikes.

    • @hopeseekr
      @hopeseekr Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@Kelthor85He sounds like quite a loser. 7 years of hate building.

    • @alukuhito
      @alukuhito Před 5 měsíci +3

      She probably started out wanting to kill him, then realized she couldn't continue with the 2 kids, constant reminders of him. She probably initially thought of killing her husband, then the kids, but somehow came up with that other idea. She forgot how dull he was though. He didn't even know his own kids were dead. Very low situational awareness. She should've thought it out more. Better yet, she should've just divorced him for not pulling his weight in the marriage.

    • @GizmoMaltese
      @GizmoMaltese Před 5 měsíci

      I’ve noticed that in a lot of these stories the killer has a very low IQ. They premeditate a crime that they had no chance of getting away with.

    • @user-vm1qr5cv9i
      @user-vm1qr5cv9i Před 5 měsíci +3

      This is I think the most disgusting thing I've ever heard in my life, literally.

  • @roxannespahr2804
    @roxannespahr2804 Před 6 měsíci +81

    The fact that anyone can suffocate their own kids and attack another human with a samurai sword is so hard to hard to comprehend. I feel really bad when I kill a spider, yet this lady is running around killing her whole family. Scary that people are capable of this. Thank you for another interesting case, Dr. Grande. Your voice is calming, I fell asleep twice trying to watch this and then I wake up when the video stops.😂❤

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 Před 6 měsíci +2

      No not “anyone”. These things are very rare and always involve mental illness to boot.

    • @smurfie8412
      @smurfie8412 Před 5 měsíci

      Because your not strong enough

    • @joestockton7016
      @joestockton7016 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Stop killing spiders 🕷️

  • @tracyking5945
    @tracyking5945 Před 6 měsíci +215

    “Now moving to the timeline of the crime” is a line you say in all your uploads, and I appreciate you giving us this polite signal. I tune in mostly for your thought-provoking analyses. Happy New Year Dr. Grande! 🎉🎊🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @MartyWoodcock
      @MartyWoodcock Před 6 měsíci +19

      That should be put on a shirt.

    • @DrLC.
      @DrLC. Před 6 měsíci +29

      I love how his videos are organized like a good research paper. He’s perfected his flow and delivery of his content.

    • @AlessioFratticcioli
      @AlessioFratticcioli Před 6 měsíci +5

      I also love how he neatly organizes his videos. Extremely clear and logic.

    • @Giantkiller130-t
      @Giantkiller130-t Před měsícem

      @@AlessioFratticcioli Same. I especially like when he goes over stuff that's happened recently or on TikTok because it saves me from having to go and dig it up myself

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 Před 6 měsíci +97

    Happy New Year to you and your family Dr Grande. Sadly there will continue to be cases like this for you to "not diagnose, but only speculate on". 😢

  • @messrsandersonco5985
    @messrsandersonco5985 Před 6 měsíci +104

    Sadly, it is becoming all too predictable these days to blame your deceased spouse for wiping out your family when you, the only survivor, is actually the family annihilator.

    • @ellenkennedy6950
      @ellenkennedy6950 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Not all the time budd

    • @420noscopesonlylol6
      @420noscopesonlylol6 Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@ellenkennedy6950 it is certainly a very understandable starting point. The question is always "why didn't you die, if everyone else did?"

    • @NoReply28
      @NoReply28 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Cause and effect... Action and consequences.
      Basically the husband gave her the "gun" and reason to shoot but she was the one that "pull the trigger" Both responsible and had a role to play in the annihilation of their family.

  • @erinjk123
    @erinjk123 Před 6 měsíci +22

    Sad imagining a kid just sleeping with his spongebob blanket being killed. That stood out to me. And the samurai sword against husband, total insanity. Wow

    • @Dan-xx5jq
      @Dan-xx5jq Před 5 měsíci

      in her eyes, he liked his swords more than her!
      The poor guy must have taken a while to die. He thought he was getting a simple tradional submissive Asian wife.... Poor guy. It looks like he liked Asian culture, he should have gone to Asia to get a simple wife

  • @awhynn8270
    @awhynn8270 Před 6 měsíci +111

    She should have just left!!!

    • @klauswigsmith
      @klauswigsmith Před 6 měsíci +12

      Thank you, Captain Obvious!

    • @awhynn8270
      @awhynn8270 Před 6 měsíci +7

      @@klauswigsmith always one

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali Před 6 měsíci +4

      Honestly!

    • @amateur_ckaiyion5999
      @amateur_ckaiyion5999 Před 6 měsíci +16

      ​@@klauswigsmiththere's always gotta be that one downer in the group and that's you

    • @klauswigsmith
      @klauswigsmith Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@amateur_ckaiyion5999 Thank you, Captain Obvious!

  • @bunberrier
    @bunberrier Před 6 měsíci +63

    Dude might have been lazy but the picture of him with his children, and her assumption about what he would do after she smothered the children, make me think he probably loved the kids

    • @420noscopesonlylol6
      @420noscopesonlylol6 Před 6 měsíci +34

      He was probably depressed because of his crazy wife. If she was able to kill them without any care, I truly don't think she was a good partner even before the murder.

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@420noscopesonlylol6Some people are just lazy. Doesn't mean that they deserve to be murdered.

    • @hazelhadley-britt6396
      @hazelhadley-britt6396 Před 5 měsíci +5

      He was lazy? Lol! I will never believe the killers excuses.

    • @JourneyDestination
      @JourneyDestination Před 25 dny

      Women go to clubs, party, and sex a lot of men up, but are never called lazy. Depressed men, are called lazy everyday. Men are most definitely held to a double higher standard. That said, don’t be naive, and assume the killer’s account is accurate.

  • @HexagonFL
    @HexagonFL Před 6 měsíci +28

    She didn’t need much motivation to commit these crimes. These types already have the necessary evil within themselves to complete the gruesome acts with little ambition or reasoning behind them. If it hadn’t been then, it would have been another time due to some other trivial reason. Same with Chris Watts.

  • @jenna2431
    @jenna2431 Před 6 měsíci +20

    Happy New Year 2024 to everyone who managed not to unalive anyone in 2023. 🎉🎈🥳

  • @BetaBuxDelux
    @BetaBuxDelux Před 6 měsíci +56

    Why don’t people in these situations just leave?
    Just walk away.

    • @J-_-
      @J-_- Před 6 měsíci +7

      Codependency sometimes. Heck, they even end up marrying these Cluster B's sometimes, surprisingly. Low level of insight too like Dr. Grande mentioned.

    • @BetaBuxDelux
      @BetaBuxDelux Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@J-_- I’m sure you’re right but, like I’ve heard Dr. Phil say, appeal to your own greed. She could have walked away and pretty easily found someone else.
      Some people may have judged her for walking away from her kids but it beats murdering them.

    • @ginaharden2111
      @ginaharden2111 Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@BetaBuxDelux it may be that she would have had to pay child support and spousal support...he wouldn't work to support the family so he would not have been able to find employment for himself to have an apartment much less a 2nd bedroom for the children. They lived in a condo owned by her family-maybe he would have been given the condo. [still no excuse for her actions]

    • @BetaBuxDelux
      @BetaBuxDelux Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@ginaharden2111 I was thinking that too.
      I think she could have found a “thirsty” man to help her out though.
      I just don’t get killing the kids.

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 Před 6 měsíci

      @@BetaBuxDeluxlol please don’t quote dr Phil who is just a tv show host 😂. Heck even dr grande isn’t qualified to insert an expert opinion when it comes to personality disorders. The dude is just a counselor.

  • @charleendavis8171
    @charleendavis8171 Před 6 měsíci +75

    I just can not imagine how a mother can murder her own children. Either parent actually....however as a young mother...it is almost impossible for me to wrap my head around. 😔

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Psychopaths.

    • @yoleeisbored
      @yoleeisbored Před 6 měsíci +1

      Probably cause she'd be stuck with the kids he would be able to walk away free...

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@yoleeisbored she chose to have kids. Some women have kids to hold onto a guy then realize he’s not worth holding onto and lose interest in the kids. Sad but true. But they don’t strangle the kids and play Kill Bill with the dad.

    • @ericantone8709
      @ericantone8709 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Its driven by a selfish desire to have a better relationship. Susan Smith did the same thing. Read David M Buss' work.

    • @Ran-33
      @Ran-33 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Sexual deviancy is almost always the root of it.

  • @americandad4864
    @americandad4864 Před 6 měsíci +52

    The boyfriend did not turn Ling down due to her marriage .
    The boyfriend
    “hit it and quit it” and nothing more …..

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 Před 6 měsíci +2

      💯

    • @tanikokishimoto1604
      @tanikokishimoto1604 Před 6 měsíci +4

      We have no idea one way or the other.

    • @vinsanity982
      @vinsanity982 Před 2 měsíci

      @@tanikokishimoto1604 we know, if have own a penis, u know for sure

    • @Lpm100
      @Lpm100 Před měsícem +1

      💯. And she wasn't all that good looking, as Asian girls go.

  • @GenXWRX
    @GenXWRX Před 6 měsíci +112

    I have a private group on Facebook, a support group for those who’ve lost loved ones to homicide. One of the victims family members is in my group. Just in case anyone wonders how we get closure: we don’t. Closure is a made up word. We serve life. Neil’s mother is a very kind woman who honors her loved ones with strength and courage.

    • @wrfgradiofreegoodlandthefi5914
      @wrfgradiofreegoodlandthefi5914 Před 6 měsíci

      My son died 9 months ago. The investigation is ongoing. His death is still documented as "undetermined" despite a suspect having threatened him directly, telling several other people he'd "get rid of him" before his death, including my daughter, and me. Afterward, texts between him and a mutual casual acquaintance of him and my daughter were exchanged in which he asked the person to kill my daughter, giving specific instructions along with specific amount of money?! The acquaintance contacted another casual friend who informed his wife and through her my daughter was able to speak with the person approached to "do her" and obtain copies of the texts exchanged. LE now has this evidence. When the person recruited refused to cooperate or further communicate with the suspect His life was threatened. My daughter obtained restraining order and that same day the suspect followed her to a donut shop where he tried to get her to leave with him. She was able to text the Detective and tman was arrested attempting to flee, on foot, with a machete and several knives in his backpack. He was held overnight and released. Still in the area. The entire situation is frightening and absurd. Of course the suspect had been in a relationship with my daughter and my son, though civil, did not like the man from day one. He tried to avoid him when they were in the same vicinity but it was clear he did not trust the man. When neither I nor my son succumbed to the person's obviously fake charm and obvious signs he was manipulative and abusive he blamed us for the relationship not going his way. It took my son's death and the aftermath to convince my daughter her ex may have had some responsibility in her brother's death and she may be in danger. I contacted our sheriff personally, directly, after detectives concluded their investigation in 24 hrs, wanting to write off the strange death of a healthy 42 year old man as accidental, despite multiple unexplained injuries on both arms and around his neck, with suicide immediately ruled out. Your statement about closure is absolutely correct. There is none and never will be no matter the outcome before I am gone. I only know I would never wish the pain of my eldest child's loss on my worst enemy. A child's death is a life sentence visited upon all their loved ones. Still, most family and friends actively avoid speaking his name and though I can understand in one way, my wish is that for those who know someone suffering from a child's death they find the courage to say their name and just BE available to listen or at the least don't pull away from fear. You don't have to worry about saying the wrong thing. Your presence and support mean everything to us. Nothing can replace my son and life has forever changed. I struggle daily though try to live as I know he wants me too as we spoke many times before his death about many personal beliefs and dreams and plans and wishes. He was so sweet and always protective of and concerned about ME. I thank God our last conversation ended with "I love you" and "I love you too mom" even though we didn't always see eye to eye. Thanks for letting me speak. God Bless you all. XxxOoo

    • @MethodiousMind
      @MethodiousMind Před 6 měsíci +6

      She should’ve raised him to have some responsibilities I didn’t get to the end, so I don’t know how horrible this woman is, except for the fact that she’s a sadistic murderer. But Neil sounds like he didn’t much care about his family either.

    • @damagecontrol2424
      @damagecontrol2424 Před 6 měsíci +10

      Maybe you don’t need to share that! How rude, violating the privacy of a support group!

    • @lacienagalacey9454
      @lacienagalacey9454 Před 6 měsíci

      @@damagecontrol2424yes I agree!

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane Před 6 měsíci +7

      ​@@damagecontrol2424Are you serious?!

  • @hahaha9076
    @hahaha9076 Před 6 měsíci +9

    I'm 61, single and lonely at times.
    It seems to be worth being alone these days.
    How do you really know your partner.

    • @BlueKungFu
      @BlueKungFu Před 6 měsíci +1

      How do you really know your partner? You don't. You don't actually know anyone except yourself. That's a fact of life. You can live your life staying away from everyone, or you can live a normal life knowing that these types of people are extremely rare. There are no certainties in life, except death. It's not "these days" either. It's always been this way. In the UK, two women and one child die every week at the hands of their partner. It's been that way for centuries. Tragic for those involved and a terrible statistic. However, when you take the population is 67 million, it's a tiny percentage and therefore a very low risk of it happening to you.

  • @SpitefulAZ
    @SpitefulAZ Před 6 měsíci +10

    Randy Kraft was sentenced to death in 1989 in Cali. As of 2023, Kraft remains on death row at San Quentin State Prison. He's 78 years old.

  • @margeritahorvath8306
    @margeritahorvath8306 Před 6 měsíci +24

    She probably thought her children would be a hindrance to a new love..

    • @traybern
      @traybern Před 6 měsíci +3

      Susan Smith JUNIOR!

  • @carnifaxx
    @carnifaxx Před 6 měsíci +12

    yes, if you have a lover who is not morally ok with you being married, he would certainly accept you as a murderer... that's ridiculous.

    • @user-mo2sg8mf5k
      @user-mo2sg8mf5k Před 4 měsíci

      She would’ve lied to her new partner that her husband killed her children and himself and she’s innocent

  • @Graycy808
    @Graycy808 Před 6 měsíci +47

    He's right about death row in California. I've been waiting for the man who was convicted of killing my 98 year old grandma in a home invasion that occurred in my mother's home were she resided. Oh wait that's right it was over turned on appeal because of a witness that was excluded during the penalty phase. Him and his buddies murdered a woman who could not have identified them because she never saw their faces, she had macular degeneration and couldnt see faces anymore.

    • @gabrielleandrew542
      @gabrielleandrew542 Před 6 měsíci +9

      What a nightmare for the family . One never gets over a family member being murdered in a senseless crime . It is truly the worst thing and causes a generation of heartache

    • @Graycy808
      @Graycy808 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@user-zg9st8ox3m everyone is allowed there opinion but I was a member of amnesty international before it happened to me. Walk a mile in my shoes because I didnt know how fast my opinion could change. Call it vengeance but I'd like him to experience facing death without a loved one in sight. I was 5 months pregnant at the time and was calling to give my mom and grandma an update on test results. I spoke to the machine to give her time to get to the phone... they say my voice was what she heard as she passed. I wish I found more comfort in that. Please dont judge when you have no way to truly understand what violent crime does to change a person's perspective.

    • @ally93796
      @ally93796 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Im so sorry for your loss. Its sickening that you and your family were denied justice after such a horrendous and senseless crime.

    • @Graycy808
      @Graycy808 Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@ally93796 thank you, it's been a very long time but some grief never fades... you just learn to live with it. She was a beautiful person who I loved very much.

    • @DMalltheway
      @DMalltheway Před 6 měsíci

      Death penalty isn’t the answer simply because you don’t want to kill an innocent person, not saying the person found guilty on the crime is innocent.

  • @Fresh-lite
    @Fresh-lite Před 5 měsíci +8

    I don’t even want to see my kids cry, how can someone kill theirs? Oh Lord!

  • @rockingruth9360
    @rockingruth9360 Před 6 měsíci +53

    I enjoyed the Christmas decorations at your house, and appreciate all the work involved. You and your wife did a great job! It was beautiful!

  • @AndyOakleaf
    @AndyOakleaf Před 6 měsíci +14

    In California, Death Row should be changed to Death By Old Age Row.

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Před 6 měsíci +27

    She completely Brutalized Neal! So Savage! And her sleeping Babies! Rest In Peace 💔💔💔🥀🥀🥀🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏🙏🙏

    • @nowayhosay50
      @nowayhosay50 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Was such a cowardly attack too, while he was sleeping.

  • @ThejeffJr8
    @ThejeffJr8 Před 5 měsíci +12

    His only crime was he wasn’t getting enough money

  • @elizabethhamm5320
    @elizabethhamm5320 Před 6 měsíci +47

    I know women who have completely escaped the responsibility of their children by walking away. They have even avoided child support by letting another man support them rather then getting a job. I wish Ling had chosen this route (as horrible as it is)

    • @yoleeisbored
      @yoleeisbored Před 6 měsíci +7

      It's much harder for women though.

    • @nowayhosay50
      @nowayhosay50 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Nah not really. The whole "Harder for Women" excuse is BS today.@@yoleeisbored

    • @Meela234
      @Meela234 Před 6 měsíci +7

      @@yoleeisbored It is not that hard these days. It happens more than you think.

    • @nanettevantriesteharder2469
      @nanettevantriesteharder2469 Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@Meela234 That is true. My step-dad raised his three boys from his first marriage by himself before he married my mom who had four of her own from previous marriages and they had a boy between them. My second ex-husband raised his daughter from a previous marriage by himself until we married and after we divorced.

    • @kingcosworth2643
      @kingcosworth2643 Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@yoleeisbored What do you mean 'it's much harder for women' More mothers kill their children than fathers do, surly they can just walk away.

  • @KikiCatNovelties
    @KikiCatNovelties Před 5 měsíci +17

    Sounds like he didn't want a divorce cause he was living off of her.

    • @Hypno_BPM
      @Hypno_BPM Před 3 měsíci +5

      how ? he had that disney job and was happy with it. he left it for her

    • @scottwooledge6387
      @scottwooledge6387 Před 29 dny +2

      He quit the Disney job for another job, which he later quit. It said he was then a stay at home dad. But regardless, it’s not ok to kill your partner for being lazy. And we probably only have the testimony of his murderer to evaluate whether he was good at being a SATD or not, so I would take it with a grain of salt. I also wouldn’t trust Chris Watts to evaluate his dead wife.

  • @andrewdewit4711
    @andrewdewit4711 Před 6 měsíci +34

    Perfect partner for American Psycho character, including the narcissistic materialism and penchant for cutting-up victims. Dreadful what she did to her boys.

  • @TerezaNoel
    @TerezaNoel Před 5 měsíci +5

    Devon would have been 22 years old now.. my daughter and Devon went to the same elementary school.. it was very very sad

  • @Cookinaskdee
    @Cookinaskdee Před 6 měsíci +21

    This title is insane omgg!!

    • @dreac6241
      @dreac6241 Před 6 měsíci +3

      i clicked so fast 🏃‍♀️💨

    • @sanepillow59
      @sanepillow59 Před 6 měsíci +5

      "Sword and pillow" didn't even knew that this martial art existed

    • @FFootagefetish
      @FFootagefetish Před 6 měsíci +2

      You think that's insane?Wait till you hear the entire story

    • @stantheman4964
      @stantheman4964 Před 6 měsíci +1

      😂​@@FFootagefetish

    • @Cookinaskdee
      @Cookinaskdee Před 6 měsíci

      @@FFootagefetishyes she is definitely nuts smh

  • @Apocryphal_Soldier
    @Apocryphal_Soldier Před 6 měsíci +48

    It’s very telling reading comments of people almost justifying the wife’s behavior due to laziness on the part of the man. If the roles were reversed, there would be absolutely zero sympathy for the husband. Consider that some men fall into deep depression caring for their children and being married to a discontented and emotionally unhinged woman. She didn’t love her children or her husband. This is extremely horrific yet people try to understand this ruthless killer. How many house wives have become alcoholics that binge watch shows on Netflix while letting the children and the home go completely to hell? Do the kids deserve to die? Does the wife deserve to be hacked up over 90 times with a samurai sword? Certainly not. Imagine that 4 out of 8 on the jury did not want her to suffer the death penalty. Insane.

    • @jhisk
      @jhisk Před 6 měsíci +19

      I'm not too sure that if the roles were reversed that there would be 0 sympathy for the husband. Because I remember way back in chris watts' case some people were blaming his wife for constantly being online and having an MLM wife. Neither deserves whatever happened to them. And both killers should have just ended their marriage *sigh* (People will justify whatever they feel like I guess)

    • @statusdisarray9598
      @statusdisarray9598 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@jhisk exactly this was tragic period

    • @NatBKiev
      @NatBKiev Před 6 měsíci +13

      Chris Watts case is an example with reversed roles. People blame Shannan all the time. As well as Nicole

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@jhiskYes.

    • @kingcosworth2643
      @kingcosworth2643 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@NatBKiev I've never heard of the wife been blamed in the Chris Watts case not that she should have.

  • @jenanne31
    @jenanne31 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Happy New Year to you and your family, Dr. Grande! I enjoy your content so much.

  • @nhmooytis7058
    @nhmooytis7058 Před 6 měsíci +34

    Sad when a woman with a husband who’s never grown up has actual kids. But she could have bailed.

    • @kingcosworth2643
      @kingcosworth2643 Před 6 měsíci +5

      She chose to have kids with a childman, remember that

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Před 6 měsíci

      @@kingcosworth2643 true

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@kingcosworth2643 I'm sure she expected that he would mature as most humans are expected to but was sadly disappointed. No excuse for what she did though, she should have just gone through with the divorce despite her husband's protestations.

  • @katrinashostakovich3607
    @katrinashostakovich3607 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Have a happy New Year's, Dr. Grande! Thanks for another year of awesome, thought- provoking, unique, valuable content. I appreciate your work so much

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před 6 měsíci +3

    What a case! Thanks for your interesting analysis of this situation, Dr. Grande. ❤ I learn a lot from your videos every day. ❤

  • @iMatti00
    @iMatti00 Před 5 měsíci +3

    💰 ~ I wonder if the insurance company was Primerica. When you mentioned that he was “awkwardly approaching his friends and family“ that reminds me of them.

  • @BBallRambles
    @BBallRambles Před 5 měsíci +15

    Brutally murdering 2 innocent children with your own hands AND ruthlessly hacking an innocent man to death is punishable by lifetime free room and board with access to enrichment opportunities? Seems odd to me.

    • @donut_life12
      @donut_life12 Před měsícem

      It isn't fair but we can't give greenlight for our government to be able to kill their own citizens.

  • @user-oh6db5ko8g
    @user-oh6db5ko8g Před 6 měsíci +3

    Dr Grande describes the stories of all his videos in terms everyone can understand. It shows he thoroughly researchers his material. He takes his work seriously. He is a true professional. I admire Dr Grande! He is the best!

  • @mrsv5736
    @mrsv5736 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Always such great analysis! Thanks Dr Grande such a great story teller. Happy New Year’s!

  • @suekelly3744
    @suekelly3744 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I love your dry sense of humor Happy New year to one of my favorite creators ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sandralynn1114
    @sandralynn1114 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Happy New Year Dr. and Mrs. Grande! Thank you for another year of great content.

  • @michelleapril3098
    @michelleapril3098 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This happened right up the street from my church. We pass by often and it’s just so sad 😔

  • @honeycomb97
    @honeycomb97 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I'm glad this case is finally getting covered more, even 6 months ago there weren't youtubers covering it, and only a few shows had either.

  • @Cats-a-Tonic
    @Cats-a-Tonic Před 5 měsíci +5

    Imagine thinking some guy would really want you after you've done all of that. He must feel such enormous relief, also regret for going anywhere near her in the first place. Dodged a flying B there for sure.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 Před 5 měsíci +1

      She thought be happy but guess not lol a boy playing video games...ain't that ridiculous?

    • @user-vm1qr5cv9i
      @user-vm1qr5cv9i Před 5 měsíci

      Dodged fucking artillery or some shit not a bullet

    • @user-mo2sg8mf5k
      @user-mo2sg8mf5k Před 4 měsíci

      @@user-vm1qr5cv9idodged a sword

  • @yasemins1313
    @yasemins1313 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Happy New Year Dr Grande 🎄 Thank you for all the hard work and dedication 🌺

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Happy New Year, Dr Grande. Wishing you all the best this 2024.

  • @donnakennedyadams6315
    @donnakennedyadams6315 Před 6 měsíci +7

    In my opinion, this is what a narcissist does when don't know what else to do.

  • @diannaboss4167
    @diannaboss4167 Před 6 měsíci +3

    It was the title for me‼️
    Happy 2024 Dr.Grande 🌍EVERYONE

  • @amandawilkinsontarot7096
    @amandawilkinsontarot7096 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Happy New Year Dr Grande and family and all of you from Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada 🇨🇦

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for the analysis Dr. Grande 🙏
    What an unimaginable act. Wow!

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Here’s to a Happy New Year with Dr Grande and his followers 🎉!

  • @koalatheworld
    @koalatheworld Před 6 měsíci +27

    Happy New Year, Dr Grande! Looking forward to more of your exceptional content in 2024 🎉

  • @susankay497
    @susankay497 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Of course it was premeditated!! If the husband had been the murderer, the jury would have had no hesitation giving the death penalty.

    • @klauswigsmith
      @klauswigsmith Před 6 měsíci +3

      The death penalty is barbaric.

    • @enjoystraveling
      @enjoystraveling Před 6 měsíci +9

      @@klauswigsmith She definitely gave the death penalty to her children and her husband in a most the most violent way

    • @wilhelmhagberg4897
      @wilhelmhagberg4897 Před 6 měsíci

      Yes but she was a lunatic. Expect better of a state in civilized country.,

    • @nowayhosay50
      @nowayhosay50 Před 6 měsíci

      Nah, eye for an eye is realistic.@@klauswigsmith

    • @klauswigsmith
      @klauswigsmith Před 6 měsíci

      @@nowayhosay50 You know that innocent people have been sent to jail and put to death in the United States, right?
      As long as human error exists, the death penalty should be unthinkable.
      But sadly some people are so bloodthirsty, they let that could their reason and judgement.

  • @GAshoneybear
    @GAshoneybear Před 6 měsíci +2

    Very informative video, Dr. Grande! I would love your analysis on the Guy Heinze Jr. case.

  • @bruceyung70
    @bruceyung70 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Happy New 🎊 Year, Doc! Great videos!

  • @DiegoSanson
    @DiegoSanson Před 5 měsíci +3

    I'd personally knew Manling. It was a total shock.

  • @stonehengemaca
    @stonehengemaca Před 6 měsíci +26

    When people with depression meet narcissists with zero empathy.

  • @rebecca4253
    @rebecca4253 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Happy new year dr. Grande .

  • @echo_hello
    @echo_hello Před 6 měsíci

    Happy new year Dr. Grande

  • @Psylliumhead
    @Psylliumhead Před 6 měsíci +4

    Murders innocent people and she sits in prison. Ridiculous.

  • @jmicha91
    @jmicha91 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I'm surprised she didn't try to for "he killed my children, so I killed him"

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Yeah. The Chris Watts defense. I thought she'd go there. It fit the evidence better.

  • @cherylcalogero3330
    @cherylcalogero3330 Před 6 měsíci

    Hi Dr G! I hope the new year brings you good health and a new cactus- Happy new year! 😊

  • @colindeer9657
    @colindeer9657 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Dr. Thank you as always for your keen supportive work.
    I appreciate the videos.
    Was going to start by saying that in this case, but then caught myself thinking, and want to say that in all cases, support for the developing child in the form of love and nurturing is a root component for adulthood and social development. Get a bad deal as a child, and our subject matter will sadly become a discussion paper.
    Innocent children/ families are torn apart by the consequences of the crimes committed.
    My question to you is, are there enough people switched on to this one truth that we really need to get going with child welfare if we care about our children and humanity in general !
    I think that this IS that serious a social disorder. Cheers

  • @CatalinaFOIA
    @CatalinaFOIA Před 6 měsíci +4

    😢😢😢 Why? How? I will never understand these murderous evil monsters.

  • @dammar117
    @dammar117 Před 6 měsíci +48

    She could have said that her husband killed the kids and that she lost it and took the sword to him. It would have been credible and she would have escaped responsibility.

    • @ohsweetmystery
      @ohsweetmystery Před 6 měsíci

      He said she was mentally challenged at the very beginning.

    • @cranmeyer
      @cranmeyer Před 6 měsíci +31

      That's what Watts said.

    • @ExpandingHeart
      @ExpandingHeart Před 6 měsíci +41

      Thankfully she wasn’t smart enough to think of that. The ex that she hooked up with dodged a bullet, or sword.

    • @cranmeyer
      @cranmeyer Před 6 měsíci +12

      @@ExpandingHeart Dodged a sword, nice one! 😂😂

    • @Meela234
      @Meela234 Před 6 měsíci +29

      She still would have been found out. That is exactly what Chris Watts said.

  • @ICEnovaTI
    @ICEnovaTI Před 6 měsíci

    Happy New Year to my Favorite Doc!

  • @Xenaaaa496
    @Xenaaaa496 Před 6 měsíci

    Happy New Year Mr and Mrs Grande ❤ from New Zealand .

  • @Laulie98
    @Laulie98 Před 5 měsíci +16

    Her husband was such a loser. I don’t understand why she didn’t just leave him. No need to drag the kids into this.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 Před 5 měsíci

      Dude, she had dreams... U think dreams don't have meaning? Study pyscology of carl Jung before u sound like a idiot

    • @Dacheat
      @Dacheat Před 5 měsíci

      You Suck. 😶

  • @cursedapostate3705
    @cursedapostate3705 Před 6 měsíci +9

    I get that her husband was useless but why kill him and the kids. When this occurred no fault divorce had been legalized for years I'm actually baffled at all this.

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Good evening 🌆🌌🌃, Dr. Grande! Happy New Year 🕛🎊🎆🎉🥂🍾🎇! Thank You!

  • @buttercatpaws9674
    @buttercatpaws9674 Před 2 měsíci

    Doc. I am praying for all of the babies out there. As always, love ya. Blessings from Memphis Tennessee 🐈🐾

  • @tinawaggoner1031
    @tinawaggoner1031 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I've said it before but the world has gone crazy 😧 Happy New Year to you and your family

    • @wilhelmhagberg4897
      @wilhelmhagberg4897 Před 6 měsíci +2

      It always was.

    • @tanikokishimoto1604
      @tanikokishimoto1604 Před 6 měsíci +1

      There have always been people like this. We just hear about them more often, due to the ease of information access these days.

  • @Yasser.Osman.A.Z.
    @Yasser.Osman.A.Z. Před 6 měsíci +3

    What is the point of having a punishment that is not applied?!

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 Před 6 měsíci

    Always interesting
    Thank you

  • @danieldomingues7142
    @danieldomingues7142 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Dr. Grande, could you “speculate about what could have happened” in Cassandra Bjorne’s case? Happy New Year!

  • @mrich9654
    @mrich9654 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I can’t imagine two men wanting her

    • @michaelpark1342
      @michaelpark1342 Před 6 měsíci +3

      You'd be surprised. Men's bar can get pretty low.

  • @Betty_R
    @Betty_R Před 6 měsíci +9

    This is horrible!!! And so sad.even though he was lazy...I still cannot imagine the disgust, fatigue, and disdain she had for her husband . So sad it came to this, i wonder what the warning signs were.

    • @johndeaux3703
      @johndeaux3703 Před 6 měsíci +2

      She kept watching their 'Kill Bill' DVD over and over and over.

    • @kingcosworth2643
      @kingcosworth2643 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Maybe he had the same feelings for her. She obviously had zero ambition

    • @Dita1994
      @Dita1994 Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@kingcosworth2643He was a grown man, she was probably the primary caretaker and working cuz he was lazy, and even though he stayed home he still never bothered to clean or parent the kids. So a woman is working hard, coking home from work just to work some more when a grown man has been home all day and refuses to help.

    • @Em-wr1rx
      @Em-wr1rx Před 6 měsíci +5

      ​@@Dita1994bouhouhou ill become lazy and unmotivated too if i was stuck with an evil psychopath. Never thought that maybe She was draining him? Lazyness and letting yourself go are the first sign of dépression but go ahead and défend this evil woman

  • @claraguzman6842
    @claraguzman6842 Před 6 měsíci

    Happy New Year!

  • @BREEZYM6015
    @BREEZYM6015 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I was thinking about getting back into the dating scene. Now I'm not so sure.

  • @deborahfairbanks4012
    @deborahfairbanks4012 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Those beautiful babies... 😭

  • @thors1fan140
    @thors1fan140 Před 6 měsíci +11

    This has been happening so often, that it makes me wonder if we’re all capable of doing something so, so terrible under the right circumstances. Please, Dr. G, tell me only the nut bags would do away with their families!😫 Thank you for working so hard this year to keep us entertained! We wuv ya, Dr.G!! Happy New Year!!!

    • @420noscopesonlylol6
      @420noscopesonlylol6 Před 6 měsíci +9

      This is actually very rare. It does not make me question if I am capable of this at all. I know for a fact no situation would cause me to take someone's life, except self defence of course.

    • @tarstarkusz
      @tarstarkusz Před 6 měsíci

      YES, we are. Prisons are filled with people who never before committed a crime, just murder of their spouse and or kids.

    • @wilhelmhagberg4897
      @wilhelmhagberg4897 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Obviously it’s only nutbags who act like this. But then again, sane people sometimes go nuts.

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Turn off the news and social media/internet and it doesn’t happen (almost) ever. Coincidence? I think not ;)

    • @tessajones9393
      @tessajones9393 Před 6 měsíci +4

      It's rare. Its just that we listen to so many true crime tales these days so feels like it's more common.

  • @palletwizard
    @palletwizard Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you King for going off

  • @caladanrude6395
    @caladanrude6395 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Starts off the video saying he's not diagnosing. Proceeds to diagnose.

  • @bottlethrower1544
    @bottlethrower1544 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I cant tell you how many caucasion men I know that had something like this happened. They were all unmotivated nerds who worked at comic stores or played video games

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Killed by their wives?

  • @shitmandood
    @shitmandood Před 6 měsíci +3

    Most ppl I know that hate work and sit around playing video games, have ZERO prospects for relationships or even temporary sexual encounters.

  • @janesummer4433
    @janesummer4433 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hi Doctor Grande may you please give analyze Derek Rosa case in Florida? I would like to know your opinion.
    Happy New Year

  • @EB-wl9st
    @EB-wl9st Před 4 měsíci +2

    Why didn't she just leave?? Abandoning her kids and husband would have been better than murdering them!