When an Evil Mom Realizes She's Been Caught
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- čas přidán 25. 04. 2024
- In today's body camera video, we're covering the insane arrest of Rejanie Morris.
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"Yeah I wanna press charges. Hell yeah I'll go to court for that kid"
Protect this lady at all costs
I teared up when I heard her say that!! She and her fiance [I believe they said] are heros!!
Seriously, she's awesome.
So true 💯 she’s a perfect example of.. if you see something, say something. ALL of them that stepped in were awesome!
It honestly comes off more like she was getting even with the woman for hitting her as opposed to just simply out of the goodness of her heart for the child
I totally respected that too❤
That blobfish TRAUMATIZED that little boy. I hope she loses him and he gets an amazing loving family.
BLOBFISH HAHAHAHahahaha that's perfect. Thank you
BLOBFISH IS CRAZY 🤣🤣🤣
Yeah, probably not gonna happen, at least the last part
BLOBFISH💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
An insult to blobfish tbh
I was diagnosed with "Severe" ADHD as a child. I was a -terror- similar to this. I put my parents through a LOT. Never EVER did they ever behave like this. This woman is horrible.
Exactly. Even so you don't handle your child this way. If they have ADHD and autism or anything that make them act this way you need to call someone that can handle them appropriately and safely and not throw them and abuse them like that. It's horrible 🙁
I also have severe ADHD (C type) and autism, and I know I was a lot as a child, but my parents were just like this lady. They were both military so didn't 'believe' in mental health, which resulted in C-PTSD now as an adult. I never had anyone stand up for me like that, but I'm glad that this kid did.
same goes for me , came from a. family that wasnt too familiar with adhd or how to work with it and it led to many misunderstandings and me being a menace as a kid , yet never was i treated this way by my family. I truly wish for the worst for the pathetic excuse of a mother and the absolute best for that child.
Yea maybe because you had both parents.. and theyvdidnt have other worries like this woman.
I have a kid who has a mild form of autism - it's hard but really hoping he starts talking full sentences and better at conversing soon
"I don't give a f*ck if you care! Put the child down!" Bro is a real one for that.
"You ain't going to disrespect no child in front of me"
Full respect for that man
That's iowans for ya believe me ! They care an not afraid to get involved ! ....
When your son feels completely safe behind a total stranger you probably aren’t fit to be a parent.
@@peggypasson8794 as an Iowan, I’ve discovered it’s most likely because the school systems do NOTHING about the bullying, harassment, and mistreatment, causing the kids to snap and say “this isn’t going to happen in front of me again.” I am one of these kids, my highschool, commonly known as su!c!de high because of this problem, does nothing but put up posters. I’ve told my school that the next time a bully goes unchecked around me or my friends I’M handling it MYSELF and guess what? They started doing something. Only two three years of getting on good terms with the principals and getting good grades before they decided to say ”we don’t want this kid to get in trouble, this is a good kid with potential” and actually start acting (and even taking my advice of harsher punishments like moving the bully to another class and after school detention instead of in school detention getting them out of class. I’m keeping this attitude when I get out of this h3llhole.
@@Dreevy420 110%
רואים שהאם לא בדיוק 100 והיא בעצמה צריכה עזרה וטוב שהזמינו משטרה
"If she's doing that to him in public, imagine what she's doing to him in private."
My thoughts exactly.
I’m worried he is going to get it after all this settles
Scary to think about.
@@andythomas9564 Thank god the cameras were in decent quality and audio, something tells me the father is no longer in the picture because of this.
That's the line that made my wife and I look at each other, hard.
As soon as she said to the officer in the back of the car "He's due for his medication when we get back home" remained me of the thriller movie "Run" where a young girl named Chloe Sherman is made to believe that she is extremely sick by her mother and take's pills then aren't meant for her.
It takes real balls to assert yourself in a situation like this in public. Bravo to the guy for getting involved.
I love this community. They didn’t know the kid but they saw the disrespect and took action. Hard respect. Some even took hits for a random kid.
That woman who stepped in to help, pressed charges, stayed with the kid and helped get him into the police car, she is a saint. God bless that woman.
I got a tear in my eye when she put herself between the “mother” and the kid.
I think those are two different people.
@@peztopher7297 it was all the lady in the red romper 🖤
@@peztopher7297 I rewatched it to double check; it is the same woman. Her dress just looks a little different as the sun is setting (same tat on left shoulder). She is beautiful inside and out 💕
Edit: romper not dress, my bad
Honestly they're all saints for stepping in and putting a stop to it. ❤
she's so used to abusing a child she thinks that yelling and screaming at adult is going to scare them away
Fr tho
Just sad
At least the cops got her instead of someone who go full Red Hood on her
As someone with a mom who was unfortunately pretty similar in some regards even if my story was also quite different than this little boy's... as an adult I still would be pretty scared of a person this chaotically yelling in public. But I still would do what I could to protect a little boy especially with the support of other adult friends or family or kind strangers also on my side in the situation. One on one n it would be hard to know how far I'd go before I had police backup though. I might be too scared to choose a 1 on 1 confrontation with that lady.
Americans mind set
"I'm not gonna let you disrespect no child in my face" What a LEGEND. I'd love to have a father like him!
“That is not abuse!”
So apparently body slamming, choking a kid, and throwing them, amongst other things isn’t abuse? That’s just horrifically disgusting.
The way he asks "Are you taking my mom to jail?" with concern, breaks my heart. Children are loyal, even towards undeserving parents. It's heartbreaking.
When you put it that way... Dang... That hits me in the gut... When he said that, I was like we "whew"... but then you put it that way and it broke my heart
same with people who beat innocent dogs and they just hang in there no matter what too.
It's because they have nothing else, they have no one else to turn to.
I saw a social worker discussing how she observed in her experience that the child who clings to and protects the parent the most usually are the most abused, that behavior comes from them wanting to be loved and accepted by the abusive parent. Hungry for love
@@ljl8764 I have a friend who along with his wife, have fostered several children, due in part to their inability to have their own. He & his wife are so gentle & kind, people you'd trust with anything from fine china to plutonium. Just calm, pleasant, generous people. I spoke with him about how the child they've had for years now is doing - and this kid was a handful, always getting kicked out of school, etc. He's doing ok, but barely - and I heard my friend say for the first time ever & hopefully the last time, that given the opportunity, he would "mouse drag to select all the text, then hit backspace" the kid's bio-parents. Pardon my metaphor - but he wasn't speaking metaphorically. The more love these kids get, the vulnerability goes against what's now instinct. Love isn't enough.
That kid was pretty poorly behaved. Dare I say bad.
“If my son has to go to foster care, I will understand.” That one sentence speaks volumes about the lack of care for her child.
Maybe she knows she can't cope?
@@NotAnotherKuromi its to much for her .
you can tell .better he in a place with the right care.
Not all parents who got a special needs child can handle it .luckely most can.
@@-jessie-49It's almost like slamming children into things isn't excusable (hint: it's not). She could have called for help, but she chose to be abusive.
@@valafarcedricsmith Having a child with mental health issues can be extremely challenging. You're right about her needing to seek help if she can't handle it. However it's not an easy task to put oneself in her boots to understand why she did what she did.
Everyone has his limits (even you). The first step is to know them.
Thank you for caring witnesses❤
I love that entire crowd of people and how they reacted to protect that kid.
I love the fact that there was a whole community there to protect this innocent child. Everyone jumped in rather than saying it isn't their business or their place.
Looks like most of them were filming it and not helping tbh
@shirleysp8176 it's not every single person's role to act, it needs to be filmed too, and many people myself included would only aggrevate the situation further. Relax bro.
@@toastywrath2346 good point
Yeah, it’s rare for see people stand up for kids in situations like this. It’s amazing how many of them were there to help
That's what I love about living in Iowa
100% promise she has him on disability and she lives off the checks.
Literallyyyyy
tbh alot of parents do that including my own mother but technically they cant do anything because its supposed to cover things in the household not just the child
Oh absolutely. There's SO many "autism moms" that act like theyre a saint because they do the bare minimum or even less
Too common and no real oversight....broken system.
LMAO YESSS THIS HAPPENS ALLL THE TIME!! it's so sickening.
The AUDACITY of her to complain about the cuffs after she just body slammed her 9 year old son
him saying he missed his mom made cry a lot it caused a lot of memories of seeing my parents being arrested to just flood back
DHS thinks there is no need for removal if the kid wasn't injured from the abuse?? I beg your finest pardon?!?!?!?!?
DHS and CPS sure do hate children, they literally never help them, ever.
They always wait till the kids dead to do shit.
Probably a legality.
Both my parents and i have been mandated reporters f9r a few reasons in the past and learned a lot about how cps and all that stuff works and it is heartbreaking what they will let a child go through before they remove them from a family. They will leave a kid in a home sleeping on a floor with no pillow only having a bowl of cheerios for food and if the kid isnt covered in injuries or starving to death theyll leave the kid in the home. It is heartbreaking the cruelty some kids have to go through in order to be saved from abusive homes.
Yes. Apparently it is perfectly okay for a parent to body slam their child into the ground… As long as the child doesn’t get hurt. WTF?
Dhs is so stupid. There are many kids who end up dead from a parent because DHS refused to remove them. I hope this little boy won't be one of them
When Regina said you have "5 seconds to give me my son" and lady in red said "12345- so whats up!?" I couldnt help but to laugh
Fax nice comment
That poor little boy. This is most certainly a core memory for him.
That poor kid screaming for help breaks my heart. I dont care what diagnosis he has no one deserves to be treated like that 😢
That child’s problem is NOT ADHD. His problem is that he lives with a mentally ill and abusive mother who should have lost custody of her son a long time ago!
Thank you!!! Everyone still saying “he’s difficult, has ‘something’ going on clearly” etc etc.
It’s called trauma. Get that child in therapy, and love on him, and give him all the patience and support he never had and I guarantee he will transform. I’m not saying he doesn’t have ADHD, but you can’t see it here. I don’t know any child who wouldn’t act like him dealing with that as a mother.
Even at the hospital, he needs someone to sit with him and chat and give him attention. He is clearly acting out because he’s been through it and wants someone to pay attention to him. I feel for him, and I bet if red dress woman who was with him at the gas station was there, she could manage him. When he was there with her kids he sat quietly with all the chaos going on. Because he was being cared for.
Absolutely!
Time and time again ignorant abusive people think they can beat mental illness out of a child whiles they're the ones making everything 100 times worse. She's all memememe and the poor kid is this and that. Poor kid doesn't stand a chance with that woman. Clearly "mom" never wanted the poor kid and he will think thats his fault. That's how he's feeling. I know from experience
That mom's probably got an undiagnosed processing disability, too. I wonder if she'd make better choices if she was more aware of her own frustration. That quickness to anger could be bpd or a bpd like trait of asd.
I am aware of my quickness to anger and frustration that swells when things are not perfect. I take my autistic behind away from a situation to calm down and walk or smoke it off. She could probably get use from walking that anger off. Getting the blood flowing helps unblock that mind.
She could be npd, though. If the dad passed the disability genetically, he might have been manipulated and easily controlled by a npd partner. That gaslighting she attempts is familiar to red flags I've dated.
ADHD can develop as a response to trauma, she made the poor boy so afraid and frightened all the time his brain developed an extreme coping mechanism
The fact this entire group banned together to protect and vouch for that boy is proof there’s still good people in the world.
Word.
To be fair, this isnt a rare thing at all. The average parent usually stands up to defend children. And these were a group of parents.
👏👏👏
Of course there are. It's just that the media always highlight the bad ones
Man those people when above and beyond to protect that child. That poor child. No wonder he has issues.
That’s not a family dispute. That is a woman abusing her child. A family dispute is like two sisters getting into a fight.
The fact the poor boy still cared for his mother after what she did to him is truly heartbreaking
Bro and it’s sad that the mom is like not yk
If that was in public then it would be much worse at home, or not because she stated she has workers and if they see abuse that have to legally report it
When the dude said “I’m not gonna let you disrespect no child in my face” it made me tear up. Im so thankful people like him step in to protect kids from abusive people
He should be a cop then or a CPS worker...lame drama setters! If lady was same color as him be no big deal 💯
Especially when he said “you touch her, you touch me”. True courage in time of need.
I've noticed the guy in white shirt trying to stop the guy from intervening but he stood up for the poor boy all the way till cops arrived. On behalf of us, parents, thank you Sir!
Such an IGNORANT comment. Helping children is helping children. They took personal risk to help him AND stayed until he was in the car.@@scorpjess84
@@msriver11 I was with him until I saw him laughing in her face. Some people just stir stuff up. I thought it was good when he stepped in, he didn't know when to step out.
The saddest part for me is the child doesnt understand that that isn't okay for his mom to do that to him.
Calling and crying for his mother after being thrown down is fucking sad man
Kids from abusive/toxic households who experience stuff like that regularly just think it's normal and don't realize that other parents don't do that stuff too, coming from personal experience.
My mom is like this mom, so I get it. Its just very sad to see it happening to another child. In childhood I remember begging my mom to hug me after she slapped the fuck out of me in a fit of rage. I was 9. All i did was ask her a question. Dont remember the question but ai remember her snapping in anger and slapping the absolute shit out of me.
@@bossreims3908 I am so sorry.
now that he's had a little taste of the outside world, like in school, it's likely he knows he did not deserve any of that. Unfortunately, due to her blaming him and willing to give him up, he's probably absorbed minor details the grownups did not pick up on, and it will take a lifetime for someone to break through to him that THIS incident and him getting separated from his mom, is NOT his fault, if they even can :(
guy with the hot fiancé is an absolute G for keeping his cool and doing everything perfectly
Seriously!
As a child abuse survivor, the actions of that family made me bawl, they deserve the world. I wish someone would have helped me like that. They put themselves in real danger to help a child in need. I remember being the child who, even after a beating would seek my mother's comfort, it's heartbreaking to see in another child. But as much as this broke my heart, I felt so uplifted seeing people step up and step in. The woman in red and her fiancé need to be given a medal seriously
Same I got raped and beat almost to death for 7 years until my dad said if someone is doing something to me tell someone at school now I'm dealing with it at 14
Wish i can give you a hug
You deserve the world. I went through the same and I'm glad it made me better like it did you. Idk if you'll see this message but don't ever let trauma hold you from peace. ❤❤❤
The woman who saved this baby deserves so much more than a medal. She is a saint
You should be embraced.
"You ain't gonna disrespect no child in front of me"
Respect, brother. Wish everyone had that perspective.
That Couple restored some faith in Humanity for Me. God Bless them ❤ I hope that Lady's Son grows up to be Happy.
Give me my paycheck so I don't have to get a job 🤨
They have all of my respect for protecting the little boy
As the tattoo on his belly says: 💯
Extremely righteous man and woman who stepped in to help this child screaming and crying "Help me!"
Whoever said: if she's doing this to him in public, imagine when it's private.
YOU ARE THE CHANGE WE NEED IN THIS WORLD.
Lol I agree with the comment that was stated by that woman. But, my god ..lol how dramatic. "YOU ARE THE CHANGE WE NEED IN THIS WORLD" hahahahaa wtf
I wish someone would have said that about my mom. My heart breaks for this baby
@@TrollynnWithTheHomies THAT IS A CHANGE WE NEED. If you haven't lived it, don't judge
My dad does this. He’s a huge dude and has used his threat to kick ass to stop people from mistreating service workers etc 😅 not the most orthodox method but it makes a change
@@courtneybowman1915 There's been no change. The kid is back with the mom and she's angrier than ever. She's going to channel the rage from the people who accosted her to the kid.
This is a clear and unfortunate example of a parent who does not know how to care for a kid with ADHD
Omg, couldn’t finish the video. His screams are so heartbreaking, I cannot even imagine what he’s feeling in that moment. Poor, poor baby boy.
The way he was screaming for help shows this was not the first time.
honestly breaks my heart hearing that kid... god bless the girl and her fiance
I agree. I'm sure it was not the first time.... And how sad afterwards he was crying for her to hold him..... So toxic!
Alot perhaps but that's not why he's screaming, kid has problems he's just scream overall all the time we all saw that here in the video him still screaming towards the end
"HELP HELP, I DON'T WANT TO GO" that's what the kid said that broke my heart
I love how the first guy defending the kid and updating the cops is a dude wearing "I
Same lol
IkR ❤😊
That shirt was the best lol.
I didn't notice that but I LOOOVE knowing that! I'd buy that guy a steak dinner for him and his girl lol
Ngl I’d buy him and his wife dinner w freaking couple !!! That is a power couple right there I love it
"i would like to press charges against them too" lmao 💀
"He's adhd" just shows she doesn't understand her son. The poor kid screaming broke my heart. I hope he's thriving in a safe environment now.
This, exactly. The fact she kept throwing around "He has ADHD! My son has ADHD!" as some twisted form of an excuse to treat her child like that. I'm surprised not many people in these comments mention that. We can't argue what we don't know; which is how "difficult" he is, but I do suspect a lot of it is heightened with how he was raised. AuDHD can *definitely* be a struggle, but the mom on the other hand seems to be the difficult one here.
As someone who was diagnosed with adhd at 8, and my MOM refused to believe it, but she never yelled at me or hurt me like that fucking monster, I hope that kiddo is safe and healthy now, and adhd can also be a response to trauma, poor guy, it ain't an excuse to physically abuse and mentally damage ur own child just because he has "adhd" trust me it AINT.
@@Rio-dg5on so you were traumatized to have this?
@@alezimmerli Nope, adhd can also be things you're born with.
@@Rio-dg5on No. People are born with ADHD. It's a neurodivergence. It isn't a "response to trauma", you are born with it, like autism. It's a different structure of the brain and chemical makeup/production (in the brain).
What you may be thinking of is the traits of ADHD "appearing", which doesn't mean someone suddenly developed ADHD, it just means the traits are noticed (which is different).
It's SO RARE that ANYONE stands up for a child being abused in public. This man and his wife/girl .....they're legit angels
Where are all these folks when thousands of babies are aborted…likely in their own neighborhoods? Or is it a convenience thing?
@@mudderjen abortion is a medical procedure that has nothing to do with this situation. living breathing children are different than clumps of cells.
Abortion is a selfless and kind act. It’s a medical procedure that terminates a pregnancy. Discontinuing pregnancy when you shouldn’t be having a child should be applauded. It’s a mature choice. It’s also very personal.
Maybe if this crazy abusive psycho of a woman had an abortion, a child would have been spared horrific abuse. Poor little Brenden’s soul could have been born into a different body, with different parents, with different circumstances, and could have had a beautiful life.
The reality is…The more abortion and birth control are limited…the more you’re going to see situations like this. It’s sad. Quality over quantity of life.
Not really. It's pretty common. Strangers help kids pretty reliably. If it's two adults fighting, most strangers won't get involved because they don't know what is going on, but if a parent is abusing their kid in public like this, most people will do what they can to help the kid. You'll notice it wasn't 1 person stepping up, it was most of the people in the store. And then they called other strangers (the police) to come help as well.
@@mudderjen Imagine being this crazy
respect to that guy giving her a big gulp of her own medicine and not allowing her to overpower like she’s obviously used to.
Yeah, she’s “used to” overpowering that innocent little child in her care ALL THE TIME at home. She messed up bringing that behavior into public where other people could see and respond. What a mixed blessing, so sad that the kid is dealing with this every day but finally he’s vindicated by all this footage of the abuse. And if he really IS on the spectrum like she said, he would have even more difficulty than the average child speaking out and asking for help…
4:02 Why one talking about J cole being in this gas station after getting dissed by Drake
Is Honicutt your last name?
It's my maiden name too but I have never seen it spelled that way before! So cool 😊
Mine is Hunnicutt
@@milliewoo337 hes obviously on the spectrum
Big Gulps seem to be part of her daily diet
Finally people stepped in to help a child. We need to do this more to prevent abuse and child murders.
I am so thankful for those that stepped in. People now just want to record it and watch. So great job for them.
"abuse is okay, unless they are hurt. So can't take him in." - DHS
DHS is absolutely a failure of a system. They absolutely failed this kid.
Oh yes. According to DCF you can hit your child, you just can't leave a mark.
@@crowmedicine3890and it sounds like she did leave a mark when they first checked him out
I mean, he definitely was hurt 😅 I guess it was too early for them to say one way or another without more information, but still
You are right! I did a DHS stint in grad school and if something like this happened, we had to go out there, not 'send an email.'
CPS/DHS apprehend kids first & ask questions later where i’m from. kids get wrongfully taken ALL. THE. TIME. this kid would’ve been in custody immediately if this happened, or at least a worker sent & care plan established. mom would not have gotten him without a long battle and trainings, etc. (even if she hadn’t gone to jail like she luckily did here. if she would’ve been released, he would’ve been home with her.. these people really did save him by intervening, recording evidence, staying there, etc etc etc.)
"that's my lady, aint nobody gonna attack my lady" what a man
Yeah some women are ""ladies" and then we have 304s
Most in the hood ain't "ladies"
@@josmclove4426yea I can tell you’re one of those
@@Agentsex they have a point tho, if you've ever walked into a place where the residents call it "the hood" you should know that you will have a challenge to find any actual "ladies" there
Yet he attacked someone's lady!
When my husband was a teen, he went through a lot of mental health struggles. During a rage blackout, he threw something at his mother. His stepdad pinned him against a wall and said, “first off, that’s my wife. Don’t you ever threaten my wife. Second of all, that’s your mother”. Husband had a lot of respect for his late stepfather, and he especially respected him for putting his mother first. His stepfather was a very chill dude, a buddhist, but would not tolerate his wife being disrespected
It's nice to see cops actually going through the process to see whats going on instead of just arbitrarily deciding who's right and wrong.
She volunteered him for foster care so fast & this is one of the few times I hope that happens! Thank goodness for the sweet people who had his back! 💜
I feel shes using her childs condition as an "excuse" to abuse him, disgusting!
She absolutely is. She's vile
Last time I saw a back that big was the defensive line of the 1985 Chicago Bears.
Thats typically what people like her do, the fact even her one supposed friend was mortified at her treatment shows that obviously she doesn't do so when the workers are with her. Even then its obvious that the son likely doesn't even know that she is hitting and abusing him, so he likely never mentions it to the workers.
That kid was literally hiding behind the woman his mom hit and let her pock him up. He felt safer hiding behind a stranger than his own damn mother. Wow
Pick not pock
@@R6betterit was obviously a typo.
@@thespear4083 and I was obviously fixing it.
@@R6better thanks
@@R6better Thanks, you saved the world.
Bravo to all the caring people who stepped in for that little boy. Poor little boy.
Mic : "astonishing brawl that leaves the community stunned"
The Community : *filming while jumping of excitement*
I LOVE all those kiddos keeping him company, sitting with him, and sharing snacks. Such sweet little friends
That’s what i was thinking too, they weren’t acting like anything had happened, just sitting and keeping him company, so cute
They were so chill, so awesome
The fact that the child runs to a STRANGER for comfort when the police arrives told me everything I need to know.
He's nine, he's likely been taught that police are to be respected, both in children's programming and school. Autistic children are very compliant with kindly authority figures, esp those that are new to them and give off a gentle presence. They were quiet and talked to him kindly, and it still took a few tries, because he was recovering, not from a TANTRUM, but an AUTISTIC MELTDOWN.
Yup this womens evil
They are manipulative he wanted something in the store and mom wouldn't give it to him maybe a stranger would an I think he got his way on that one. Judging is so easy if you are not that person
@@naomiashcraft8080 at 19:50 the mom body slams him onto the floor. In a public place. In front of a stranger. Could you imagine what she does to him in private? That kid was running for a reason 🥴
@@naomiashcraft8080Victim blaming at it's finest, folks!
You know whats crazy is after watching all that and ADHD child hearing that man yelling, being held back from mom, watching mom get in fight... he still gladly went with lady in red to get lifted over fence. That situation must have been terrible at home to trust lady in red over police and mom.
Kudos and respect to the couple that got involved.
The fact she's unbothered by her son being placed elsewhere but insists she goes home "to calm down". Says a lot about her and not in a good way
right?!? That was nuts
We call it narcissistic personality disorder.
How is he arresting a planet
Gee, I wonder why the kid has behavior issues 🙄🙄🙄
The little boy running to the lady in the red dress and hugging her is heartbreaking. He's terrified and knows she won't hurt him.
😢😢😢😢💔
ranting alone in the police car, she goes, “Brendon always has a way of making things worse!” in the most blame-shifting tone, you can definitely tell it’s her normal cope and defense mechanism. sick, and sad
Her saying “see, I’m strong.” While lifting him up over the fence was one of the most wholesome things I’ve seen in a while😭 14:36
A dress? I thought it was underwear.
I said that too. It broke my heart to see a child run to a stranger. Ive always been this way with abused kids in public. Caught a lot of slack for it. But do the right thing.
The fact his shirt says “I love hot moms” while helping the kid is amazing
She ain't a hot mom 😂
@@davelo3506 The mom in the red jumpsuit was tho 😍
Dude has good vibes
@@stasiyasworld FRFR!!!
@@stasiyasworld omg yes
Unfortunate case. In CA there’s been horrible child abuse cases. And it’s heartbreaking when the children love and care for those that harm them in the worst ways imaginable.
That mom is not mentally well at all. And the foster care system is also broken and unsafe for children. I feel so bad for the child. :(
"Mind your business" No ma'am. There is no "My business" when children are involved. The way I'd risk jail if that happened in front of me.
lmfaao thats what kills me! this demon acts like her grabbing and slamming her son to the ground by his neck is normal and *just* her disciplining him. how she kept arguing and just repeating “give me my son” “my son *is* adhd” makes me feel like shes just not all the way there mentally? idk
You are part of the problem.
The way she uses her son's diagnosis as an excuse to abuse him.. nobody has ever benefited from being slammed on the ground, lady, diagnosis or not. Also, the sentence "Brendin has a habit of making things worse" is just.. say you never take accountability for your own actions without saying it..
This lady needs to be checked herself
I let my dad move in with me. He started causing chaos and destroying things. He used my PTSD diagnosis from the stupid war as an excuse to abuse me. Crazy how people will refuse to look at any evidence. You MUST be the one who is wrong. He's your dad. He's always right, you're always wrong. Have to keep the delusion alive! It's a conspiracy theory to say someone who has gotten a women pregnant could ever do any wrong.
That’s so true!!
Indeed
My parents were told to bear hug restrain not chuck me to the floor!
That couple was so protective! They protected that boy like he was their own. The world needs more people like them! Glad they were in the right place at the right time.
The families that stepped up are champs!
That woman was fantastic for shielding the kid with her body.
Massive props to the guy for instantly having her back and placing himself between him and her when Rejina started to get closer.
"You touch her, you touch me too." Absolute W of a man.
They deserve a 4 star honeymoon to wherever they want to go. Very impressive people!
Absolutely agree!
All very cool people. I wish them all the world.
He also follows through. He later states "You hit her and i am going to hit you" - The crazy lady strikes both of them, and he retaliates. Good. Ironically, crazy lady then exclaims to her son "Brendin he hit me in the head!" as though she didn't do that exact thing herself a few seconds prior!
He is what all men should be.
Bad moms like this don’t need to exist. Thanks for the people who have a heart.
If she acted like that in public, how is she at home with him? Thank God for those who stopped her.
As a PCA for special needs kids. This is unacceptable. The mother is wrong when she says that the kid always makes things worse. It is indeed her
The mom might be a little slow.
I'm autistic so I know sometimes it's hard, but I also know that an adult screaming at me will just make me more upset. So it is indeed the parent who makes things worse. I mean just like with any kid, just give him the chance to calm down instead of THROWING him.
Lady should've said "Okay Brendin we're going into the QuikTrip to buy XYZ. That's all we're getting. It should only take about 5 minutes." So they guy in there, buy XYZ, Brendin might start getting upset, so she says "Now Brendin I told you all we were gonna buy is XYZ. Why don't you take some deep breaths for me?"
I'm willing to bet that most of his behavior problems are a result of her antagonistic parenting style. When a autistic person/child gets overwhelmed the last thing you want to is upset them even more. All those threats were only making things worse.
It definitely shows she needs help as well. This is not how we treat any child, yours or not, especially a special needs child. I hope she can get counseling and treatment while serving her sentence.
yeah especially since he is a kid, he doesnt know he has an issue or problem, he is just being himself. Hopefully he gets proper care and the mother takes some ownership of her own issues. Raising a kid is rough, especially one with some mental or physical disability, but it was your choice to bring them into the world.
That whole family stood ten toes down that entire time to protect that boy. So much respect for them!
Yooo I made a joke literally like 2 days ago about how people say standing on business? I said give it like 2 months before it's somthing stupider than that I swear to GAWD I said 10 flat!!! Thank you 😊
@@chicokahn 10 toes down is not new 😭 I’ve been saying that since high school and I’m 32
@@chicokahn ten toes down old af, you hear it in heaps of rap from the 90s so it's probably been around since before then
@@queenkoopaa it's history repeating itself😮
@@MavSavMorganstandin on business 🎉‼️‼️
God bless those people stepping in and saving that child’s life!
if she's slamming him down in public, it can only be 10x worse at home. he needs to be taken away from her custody immediately, the kid's life is literally in danger
That woman in red is amazing. The fact the little boy trusted a complete stranger to hide behind over his own mother speaks volumes. But for that lady to continue to stand in front and protect him, even with the mother getting into her face, what an incredible woman. Just shows there are still genuinely caring people in this world. Thank god for those bystanders. This woman deserves to never have a child in her custody again. Hope they threw away the key.
she's a f*cking legend 🙏
It looked like she hit mom first. After a second look, she hit mom twice. Are you guys blind. She instigated the already crazy mom even more.
She is a legend.....what BS.
@@peachyrider9987 she was defending the child
She a legend
@@peachyrider9987 so if you see a child being abused you would stay quiet? That alone makes her the aggressor.....and there's video all over the place, mom was out of control and she got handled.
@@peachyrider9987 so you think she’s the ‘instigator’. Did she tell mom to throw her child?
The police car footage of her talking to herself and constantly saying "I just want my son" was very unsettling. It's like a neurotic fixation.
More like "I want my property and cash cow"
Does she want her son...? I wasn't able to tell what she wanted
Meh. She's an adult using toddler level 'if I stamp my feet & use pester power, I get what I want' tactics.
@@sarahholland2600
Ah, the tactic every damn store teaches them gets them what they want.
@@TheHeroWTF That's up to the parents! We were never allowed to behave like that as kids.
BAREFOOT in the store?? WTH?
She should not have a child.
The first lady had it right. If she does that to him in public, imagine what she does to him in private. No matter what, you don't pick a child up by the neck. She should never be trusted with a child, and if he has "workers" they should all be fired because they're not doing their job and reporting. Wow, being thrown down , but not injured, doesn't warrant removal from the home. What kind of laws do we have in this country that protect our kids??? And this kid has obviously been through this before. My heart breaks for this little boy. ZERO sympathy for the mom. And a HUGE KUDOS for the couple who defended that child. He is definitely difficult.
They won't take the children even though they're endangered, but if they are homeschooled, yeah, they'll take your child.
Well said
I can speak on Iowa's DHS office from personal experience.
I was a ward of the state, thrown away into their custody when I was 9. My first worker was utterly useless AF, and would drink coffee with my abuser while ignoring me completely. Family court was equally useless, as they took recommendations from DHS as gospel, even when workers were lying, corrupt, or working from a personal bias with nothing resembling evidence of wrongdoing. I was placed back in that abusive house repeatedly when I wasn't being shuttled off to other facilities to be warehoused or "fixed" by so-called child psychology experts. I was pumped full of prescription drugs like some experimental rat for nine years, which wreaked merry havoc with my brain chemistry and physical health.
Fast forward to today.
DHS office is still utterly useless. My local office refuses to answer their phones, the state office has their phone system set up to reject anybody dumb enough to try calling them, and getting information from some of the horrible people working at these offices is like pulling crocodile teeth with a pair of marshmallows. I personally witnessed a guy who was begging for help from a front desk worker, telling her how he had filed all his paperwork on time yet was still removed from his prescription assistance. He informed the worker without his medication he would die, and he even had paperwork proving that claim, yet all the worker said was, "That's not my problem."
That poor boy Brenden has no chance.
He does seem to be a very difficult child, but look how much patience and kindness Donesha showed him. None of the ways that psycho ‘mother’ dealt with his behavior was going to work. I have a child with ADHD and ODD and it pissed me off to no end to watch that pos use his ADHD as an excuse to abuse him and I can guarantee you that none of those methods she tried (yelling and cussing at him from across the store and then threatening him with the police… no wonder he didn’t wanna go with them) were taught to her by any professional. She has no idea how to manage any of his behaviors… or she’s just too lazy to bother trying to do things properly.
I've witnessed the same thing once. I was getting groceries for my mother, waiting for my turn, suddenly we heard little girls crying, their dad screaming as loud as he was capable of. He was pulling one by the air and beating the other one who was laying on the flood. They we're probably around 5 ou 6 years old. All the staff came to the rescue but he managed to get out with his daughters quicker. They followed him while calling the cops, giving them his licence plate. I really hope they found him, because if he was capable of that in a public place, it was 100% worse at home.
If you treat your child like that in public in front of cameras and multiple witnesses, then you do ALOT worse when you're behind closed doors...
You mean under the bridge….
Its like cockroaches, for every one you see there are probably 1k you can't.
Theres a reason the kid didnt want to go with her
and they tried to say he had no injuries. someone else in the comments said that dhs couldnt help him, this whole thing is heartbreaking bro
The fact she was so quick to let him go to foster care is a huge red flag. I can imagine she didn’t want him, is overwhelmed with having a special needs kid, and probably resents him a lot for it. I hope he gets into a loving home
So thankful that couple stood up for this poor boy.
I hate how she's saying "he has ADHD" as if that's a reason to treat him like that. Awful woman. 💔
I have ADHD and it's absolutely no excuse. It does paint a better picture of him being difficult but that doesn't give her the right to manhandle the poor child.
It’s her self importance
Me too. Lots of kids have behavioral or psychological problems, and you STILL never manhandle them the way she did. She’s thinks she’s the victim here, not just of the bystanders but of her _son!_
@@houndnz4703Amen. Her responsibility to maintain self-control is even greater because her son is vulnerable.
I have ADHD and all it takes is a rational conversation to redirect me. I’ve been able to be parented smooth like this since I was the kid’s age- no behavioral issues whatsoever. This lady is insane and is using disability as an excuse to treat her child as subhuman. Disgusting.
Props to the woman in the red!!! Her motherly instinct kicked in and went straight to protecting that child! Even the kid trusted her more than the cops!
i really think that if she went with him to the hospital he would have been calmer.
I was impressed by her partner, he really stepped up.
I agree. The child even let her pick him up so he could go with the cops. She came to that child's defense. Period.
Yeah but it's just being human. I'm not a mother nor have I ever wanted to be one but I'd have done the exact same thing. A woman doesn't have to have "motherly instincts" in order to be a decent person. I don't hear people saying that the guy has "fatherly instincts". Maybe they're both just nice, normal people. We need to raise the bar when just saving a kid from being beaten is somehow being a hero. It's not.
@@gaylebynumcardosa7034I agree that it is a normal human instinct for some to step up and save others. And that is not new, history shows that people allow this kind of behaviour as ''It was none of my business'' far too often.
My son has ADHD, ODD, and bipolar disorder. I have NEVER laid hands on him or emotionally abused/belittled/or blamed him for things he cannot control! I’m a single mom also. What I DID do was get him into therapy, study his diagnosis as much as I can , and learn what I can do to help him when these things get too much for him to handle. Kids don’t act out defiantly for no reason. There’s either trauma/abuse/mistreatment whether it’s at home, school, daycare whatever. It’s always a red flag. Too many people have custody/access to children who should never be allowed too.
As a father of two boys that abuse brought me to tears. My neighbors son is autistic and this is terrible. So sorry for that child.
Did I just hear her blame her SON who is being abused by her for making everything worse? Wow. She’s insane.
I'm genuinely curious as to what kind of man found ragina to be an attractive personality.
She probably took advantage of some poor guy cause there is now way someone would willingly get with that long enough to have a child
@@lynnlynn9124 Tax season
Classic abuser behavior
She's not well herself, definitely got some screws loose. There is some evilness going on there. That poor child of what he has gone through up until his age now. This was not a one time deal. Probably been abused from birth.
love the woman who said
"yes, ill go to court, for him, that kid"
restores some faith in me for sure
The fact the boy ran to a stranger is all you need to know!! ❤
She is a wonderful woman who has a wonderful man.
The white dude with the cap trying to step in having no idea what was going on gave me some comic relief. Everyone else just watched and filmed or acted like it was an average day in Iowa. I think he was caught up to speed pretty fast. Thankfully, some people would throw hands walking in on that with no context.
Leave that lady alone! Watch your own illegitimate children!
@@sdays59 who are you even talking to?
that family is amazing thank you soo much for saving that boy
God Bless that gentleman and lady that took up for that poor boy!
My son has adhd and autism. THAT was not discipline. THAT was child abuse.
I actually gasped watching that footage.
Yes
With kids on the spectrum in my family, this made me start to cry hearing that poor child. Thank goodness all those wonderful ppl who stepped in and stood up for that boy. What a disgusting mother, if you can even call her that.
As a mom who had trying days with my spawn this made me cry. That child don't need this and is soooooo heart breaking
i have Adhd and its NOT a disability!
Agreed. U love on them when they act up. Eventually loving works. that poor baby
That poor kid. He was willing to stay with complete strangers rather than go with his own mother, that really says something. Bless those 2 folks who intervene
He literally cries for his mom the rest of the video tho lol, he loves his mom
@@thehost7697 idk about that. anxiety is hard for children to process. he'll be 20 some day talking about how shitty she is, don't worry
@thehost7697 He's dependent and attached to his mom, he doesn't understand that he shouldn't be because he is a child.
@@thehost7697 yeah and I would cling to my mom growing up only to find out later on she caused a lot of trauma for me that I now have to work on
@@oogieboogie5941what gets me is if she could do all that in front of all those people and on camera in a public place imagine what she does to him behind closed doors when nobody is looking that's what gives me the chills
It truly takes a Village
Terrible situation...
That couple deserves some kind of award for intervening with the abusive mom. They stood their ground and told the evil woman no.
Dude went all Papa Bear
You just know, that if he has a child, he's gonna fight for the child till his dying breath
some kind of award...? really? This isn't the boyscouts where you get rewards for good deeds.... A good deed shouldnt be rewarded for adults because we already know what is good and what isnt....
Yeah they were like literal super heroes that day. Good on them both.
@@Wurmpiej you can take your holier than thou attitude somewhere else. Not everybody would’ve done what those two did because that woman was clearly mentally unstable and could’ve had a weapon on her. She completely disregarded the safety of her own child so I know she doesn’t care about some stranger’s life.
@@Wurmpiejwhy do you talk like that
It speaks volumes that the little boy was willing to go with a stranger over his own mom, despite him having ADHD/Autism
Well people with ADHD or/and Autism are still fully aware of their surroundings, so not only is this poor boy aware of everything that is happening, he was always aware that something bad was happening to him
i think eliza just meant that it might be harder for the boy to trust new people with those diagnoses
@@spoondirtmeow i am aware, my husband has ADHD. But yes I think its telling when the woman told him to come he came in an instant yet was especially resistant to leaving with his mother. It wasn't a "tantrum" like the mother made it out to be, he desperately was searching for somewhere to hide from his aggressor
it's normal for children with autism to trust strangers.
it's normal for children with autism to trust strangers
Biggest question here...who tf knocked her up?!? 😮
That woman in the red is an angel and her fiance. Seriously, thank you. We need more people like this couple.
As a child who was abused, and who had no helpers or defenders; Thank you to the very fine, beautiful, upstanding people here, who took the child's side. This was like watching my childhood fantasy come true. I don't think this boy will forget that a bunch of people cared about him.
Hopefully your life got better! Stay strong you're loved by me and the universe! 💜🪬
So sorry you had to grow up in an abusive house. I did too. no words to explain the aftermath except to say it felt like your soul was being shredded. But, we are stronger than most and survived it. Praying that you are now happy and healthy and enjoying your life.
Same here. Never had anyone fight for me either. I'm glad the boy got helped.
Both child and mother are victims. She needs parenting skills. Tells everyone he has ADHD which seems to give child permission to act out. He is a handful already. . Mom and son could benefit from love parenting skills and some good therapy’s
Feel so bad for him hiding behind a shelf. Reminds me of the people I grew up with and my own childhood
I love that that girl in the red dress (and her fiancé) said “for him I will” go to court to press charges. Standing up for the innocent is what we need to do as a society. ❤
Totally agree! Too many "Not my business, not my problem" people walking around