Article Claims "Grown Men Shouldn't Waste Their Lives Playing Video Games" & It Backfires Epically
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People: Gamers are kids trapped in adults bodies
Same people: I'm gonna scream and throw a temper tantrum at my television because football man didn't catch football like I would have.
LMAO yesssss!!!
Or worse... Football man kneeled during anthem.
Sports fans are insufferable.
Or! Watch reality tv lmao
Don’t forget how many of them also trash their own cities because their favorite team lost. Or even if they won too.
She is the kind of woman who tells homeless people "just don't be poor"
😂🤣 I understand the logic
A wise woman once said, "If you're homeless just buy a home!"
@@kaiser8659 or just buy more
@@rjohnm666 so in short she's a Karen
@@theunhingedgamer3762 Zero shock if she was. At the very least, just so, so far up her own ass she could check for her own polyps. She actually said "instead of video games you could be a commentator on the royal family, like me."
Fucking commentator. On the. Royal family. Who fucking cares about the royal family? And she says video games is a waste of time.
I'm a doctor who plays video games. The article is a displaced expression of anger. Writer is actually angry at her daughter for rather playing games than spending time with mommy.
Same. Doctor here. My best friend is an investment banker. We both have kids and we both love games as much as we did back in high school. This woman has issues.
@@MTLGSE thank you for that. I have countless friends who are doctors and game and also MD/PhD or PhD that play games and also play games way more than I ever have.
I have a friend whose doc prescribed him an N64 with Goldeneye and Turok in order to 'curb his violent tendancies.' Further reinforces that the mainstream view of videogames and gamers is woefully inaccurate.
@@HeavyProfessor same here. Lots of my friends and colleagues play games. It saved us during our board exams. One of them would being his switch to our review courses out of town so we could blow off some steam.
If you made videos on this subject, I'd definitely watch.
This article is so over-generalized, under-researched, reliant on stereotypes and just plain wrong that I honestly can't take ANY offense from it.
So if I may say, this article and the community’s reaction is
Article: you’re childish, infantile, and immature
Community: and you’re and idiot what’s your point?
Yeah man, it's just mind-boggling
It's clear that she thinks that grown men should be spending their time making money selling off byproducts of biochemistry experiments to seedy professionals in back alleys to distribute to 'interested' customers.
Well, I don'tr believe she can do it any other way, It's in her playbook. How else can she write about ROYAL and politics. LMAO
@@FuzzArYo There's nothing wrong with writing about politics. There are geopolitics nerds out there just like there are rock climbing nerds. As for writing about royals -- eh... I really don't get it, but different folks different strokes; right?
“When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty, I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.” - C. S. Lewis
heyyy my man, same thing that popped into my mind.
awesome quote
You'd be surprised how often that quote has been bastardized to say the opposite.
Amen 🙏🏿✝️📖
@@Webshooters1 I believe that the original was a bible quote to indeed say the opposite. So technically, the C.S. quote's the knock-off, but I prefer it greatly.
Society to a kid once they turn 18: “Now that you are an adult, you are no longer allowed to have fun or enjoy any of your interests. You are expected to work, do chores around the house and sleep for rest of your life. If you would like a hobby you may select from predetermined socially acceptable ones such as sports, reality tv or mowing your lawn.”
"Oh and woodworking when you are like 65"
"OH and btw if you look at a female the wrong way you're a rapist."
A woman can sue you if you even look at her funny
If they had video games during the 40s, the boomers would be playing them.
@@chuckchan4127 And women started to wonder why less and less men pursue them and the government are now worried why number of marriages are low.
They're right, men should do grown up things like gambling at casinos, servicing automobiles that don't have proprietary parts, and getting to know the local strippers while guzzling booze
I rather play video games and watch anime then spend my life savings at a casino. fuck this article man
This person's article is the epitome of "someone else's fun greatly affects me for some reason."
To quote an XKCD comic: "I'm happy to grow up. But I won't pretend that fun things aren't still fun out of fear of looking silly."
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To quote a much better source:
“Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”
-C. S. Lewis
Is the comic called like that or is an abbreviation? Would like to read them
@@martinmeza9714 Yup, XKCD is the actual name of the webcomic. It's nonstop random hilarious and often sciency humor that's been going on for a ridiculously long time. :P
@@martinmeza9714 XKCD is the name, yes. Prepare to read a LOT of pages for that one, it has been running for over 15 years now
I'd rather be a child in an adult's body and enjoy a good time, than being stuck as a bitter middle-aged person who is too busy talking about their interpretation of politics and gossiping about what the rich and famous people are doing every waking second.
Truly
Based
And add 'dissing other passion & hobbies because they can have fun when I myself can't'
It's not just limited to videogames, but you get the idea.
I also would rather not be a character living in the world of the sitcom The Office.
Seems fucking terrible.
HOLY SHIT YOU HAVE A CZcams CHANNEL!!!! IM NOW SUBBED! Been a huge fan for years
This woman is literally the meme of "if they're having fun, I'm not having fun"
Vicky from The Fairly Odd Parents?
I remember an old friend telling me always that "when you grow up, you'll stop playing videogames", now he's 41 and is confined in a retirement lair (or an asylum if I recall) due to his mental health for not having any hobbies (only work & sleep) and getting consecutive distress burnouts.
That's sad
@@edwardteach1992 Blackbeard rules.
Dear lord...
I hope he gets better. Poor guy definitely needs help.
I suggest the inability of people to divorce their identity from work and productivity is a big contributor to our mental health crisis.
I'm 64 and I've been playing video games and using computers since the 70's. Yes, i was in the military and played wargames on the NTDS (Naval Tactical Data System) real time network. I'm retired and still love playing video games. It keeps my mind sharp and hurts nobody.
Thats awesome
You're epic. If I had money I'd buy you some Dunky Donuts.
Hell yeah man, that's awesome to hear!
Hell yes!!!!
Gaming: good for all ages.
Being an adult doesn't have to be a joyless slog of work and taxes. You're allowed to continue enjoying your childhood interests, and playing video games as an adult is a perfectly respectable pastime.
Couldn't agree more.
More respectable than simping for 40-years old harpies with rotten ovaries, for sure.
Not to mention there are video games made for adults idk how this doesn’t click in there heads
Exactly am I not allowed to reminisce??
When I was young I thought being an adult was working all day and throwing away all kid things and replacing them with drinking Scotch at night. I became an adult and I work all day and come home to drink Scotch and play video games.
The most immature adults are those who worry about being mature. Worrying about being mature is what children and teenagers do. Adults are supposed to be mature enough to know maturity isn't about what you like.
I feel like this is an argument I have with people in my own family. Recently I was told that I was losing sight of reality because of how involved I am in gaming…even though I have a full time job, pay bills and handle my own shit as a man. But…I play video games so…I’m out of tune with reality…I’ve never been so pissed off in my life. Well said. Well said.
imagine what that person would say if they found out about vr
Its all misplaced anger on the part of those people. Often jealousy because you have your shit together well enough to live life and have hobbies
I love how it was specifically geared towards men completely disregarding adult female gamers exists lol
that woman's poor child
It makes you wonder how people this ignorant are so proliferate in the industry. Why is nearly every gaming news outlet full of writers just like this? And it's all the news. Literally they've been reporting for the past few years that a garage pull was a n0 0se on mainstream media.
As far as gamers, and many companies, are concerned: We don't.
Some women specifically hate that men spend time enjoying videogames instead of lavishing time, attention and money on (insecure, needy) women.
That's exactly what I was thinking
Her child have an excuse of being a child. Imagine being her partner...
"Waste time playing video games""
*Goes back to watching 9 hours of TV a day
Lol! Facts man. 🤣
i can read for hours and hours
i can play video games for hours and hours
however, i personally, cannot do nothing but watch tv for the same length of time
*Goes back to screaming at people kicking a ball and getting x1000 more money than them
*9 hours of Royal Family taking a dump and drinking tea
*goes back to watching 9 hours of TV a day while planting the kid in front of the PC with no supervision and not caring what the kid does, and then compain that the kid managed to see/play non-kid stuff and that the government has to fix that!!!*
No one on their deathbed or grave stone epitaph ever said:
If only I had spent more time meeting other people's expectations.
Weve literally been through a pandemic involving several lockdowns and idiots have the nerve to write articles like this when a massive chunk of the population turned to gaming to stop themselves going insane from boredom.
I’d rather be a grown man “wasting my life playing video games” than serving someone who doesn’t have my best interest in mind and wants my life to be boring.
Remember that the rich think that you are an object, a tool, a cog in the not-so-great machine, a starving dog! To them, you are expendable. Replaceable. A toy they play with and throw out when they had their fun. Proof them wrong. Stand up for yourself and your rights as a hard worker.
I think it also reaffirms Qui Gon Jinn’s famous saying “the ability to speak doesn’t make you intelligent”.
I love that that line exists. So applicable to soooo many things/people.
Really? The prequels are terrible movies and do not deserve to be quoted. The ability to speak does in fact prove intelligence, at least relative to non-communicative creatures.
@@30noir The prequels aren*t that bad!
And we aren't talking "compared to animals". And even then, there are humans that are less intelligent than your average crow, usually due to birth defects.
@@30noir Whether or not the prequels are ‘bad’ is quite subjective, but the quote is meant to be understood as meaning “just because you can speak doesn’t mean you’re actually making sense or saying something worth listening to”.
@@30noir Mate, the fact that the prequels are sometimes absurdly quoteable is one of their more defining qualities.
If it can be memed, it deserves to be memed and if it is memed it shall be quoted.
And well... Intelligence is always relative to begin with.
i wasted a lot of time when i was kid staring at chalkboards with nothing of importance being taught. i'm gonna use my remaining days playing all the videogames i want. i'm not going to die rich for sure but i'll die content with all the various experiences gaming have given me so far.
she must be partaking in the finer things in life like alcohol, watching vapid soap operas and creating snide articles to stay relevant.
CLOWNERY AT ITS FINEST
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I literally just finished watching your video to see you here lmao
@@coolguy-qb7kg same
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“Grown adults shouldn’t waste their time reading books and articles. Go scavenge for berries and cook your food in ash pits like a real adult.”
I legit use to forage when I lived out in the country. Its great fun, but so is gaming. I did both and Id still forage if there were some dang muscadines in this town XD
Bears shit in the woods! 😊
Now I just want to make some fire pit potatoes
Age of Empires vibes 😂
RETURN TO MONKE
One of my favourite hobbies is painting miniature figurines. The skill and knowledge of art goes so deep, I've learnt more than I ever did studying illustration at university.
When people ask about what I like to do, I tell them "painting models" and their response is always a good gauge to what kind of person they are.
I've had people talk to me like that before about video games, and my take-away from the discussion is that they're generally upset that when you play video games; you're not being "productive", you're not being an asset or contributing to society... or you're not benefiting them in some capacity.
As a "fully grown adult" I will exercise my prerogative to spend my spare time doing as I see fit, and if they dislike what I'm doing they can proceed to behave like a fully grown adult themselves and mind their own business.
To hell with that “productivity” mindset. I’m already wasting nine hours of my life, five days a week in a place I don’t want to be, doing things I don’t want to do, for a wage I can’t even live on; I refuse to do any kind of work-like activities in my meager free time that isn’t for myself, my family or close friends. If someone who isn’t family or a close friend wants something “productive” out of me from my precious free time, then they are going to have to pay me at least triple the rate I make at work. My free time is a scarce resource and I don’t part with it cheaply.
When you're an adult: Oh no no no, you can't play games, that's for kids.
When you're a kid: Oh no no no, you can't play games, you have to study for school.
I'm over 25 ... pretty sure I can decide for my self what I consider "adult activities worthy of my time" and if that's playing a game, where I get to pet a virtual representation of a horse and then proceed to press the punch button by accident and feel irrational levels of regret for accidentally pretend hitting my non existent horse, then so be it.
This is me... I dreaded living under those ideals. I'm so happy I moved out. Things are so much clearer. I'm realizing how much time my rents wasted doing this. I love them both to the core but man did they make growing up a gamer hell. I studied, got the job, even got a couple cars by myself. But it just wasn't enough to justify me playing games at any time.
Assassin's creed has a action button to pet those dogs or cats (i dont remember which) and in portuguese the text reads 'afagar' (a really old school way to say pet imho), The problem is, that is REALLY close to 'afogar' which means 'to drown'. I was devastated when I passed by a dog/cat and pressed the action button, I was totally expecting the guy to just dunk on the poor animal and drown it in the nearby puddles.... I actually released a breath I was holding when the character just goes and pet the cutipie.
@@ZumaB You should have the power of stoicism.
Honestly the older I get the less I give a crap about these arbitrary lines of what I am and not allowed to enjoy. Life's too short for that BS.
@@ZumaB it happened to me as well
This whole article screams, "My boyfriend/husband is wasting his time playing video games when he could be investing that time into making more money for me."
Exactly, that was the same vibe i was getting from that article, sounds like she is bitter her partner bought a PS5 or Xbox instead of spending that money on her and her vanities/likes.
@Andrew Holt Guys, we're making wild assumptions..... As if she wasn't an angry, bitter and lonely individual
I honestly wouldn't be surprised if it's not by chance that she very specifically uses the words "grown men" instead of "adults". Everything else here is so stupid, so why not?
Hammer+ NAILHEAD
Stuff like this needs to be included in the "Trashy moms that scream at food workers" starter pack
"I'm miserable and so should these other adults!!1!1"
Honestly sad to see her opinion of others hobbies.
She sounds like one of those "where have all the good men gone?" types who blame video games instead of realizing they have problems.
wheres the streetwise Hercules to fight the rising odds?
@@Sniperbear13 Either already married or so sick of the shit, he decided to live in a cabin in the woods. He also might've been a little experimental and found dating other men preferable.
That's my guess anyway.
@@Sniperbear13I see, I'm A Hero reference you're a man of culture.
Well... will admit I've gone on dates where friend tried playing matchmaker. Their exe's played too much video games is basically what came up.... after hearing a full story it just sounded like they were suffering from depression...
Feminazi
When my Tennis coach's father passed away, he was told by the doctors to play video games to battle his depression. It worked out good for him in the end! He played a lot of Guitar Hero and he said he had never had so much fun in years!
Yeah I remember a video game study was done in a care home with elderly people. The people in the care home were given Nintendo consoles to play with for a certain period of time and some tests were conducted afterwards. If I remember right the results were positive and playing the video games had some positive benefits.
I was told the same thing. I had actually quit playing video games because I saw them as a waste of time. But when I was seriously depressed my doctor recommended playing them. What I've learned is playing a game for an hour or two every few days (sometimes every day) makes me more productive because it helps me not get into really depressed states.
I suffer from PDSD, gaming (and those I've met by gaming) enables me to get through the day. Gaming does have negative aspects, but without gaming I wouldn't be here.
Also, just have say, love the Freddie avatar.
My Dr. suggested gaming to help with anxiety.
@@Dwarficus what is PDSD
Had this argument a ton of times with my other half. Then I pointed out the fact that girls do the same thing at 55 they do when they are 5. Play with hair and makeup and talk to your fake friends for hours on the phone. so how is that any different?
It's only taken her 7 years to realise that if she puts the phone down I'll put my controller down.
Well, I'm a US Army veteran and a gamer and I have never ridden a scooter. In fact, we used video games in the military for personnel training. Anything from ground combat simulations to flight simulations. Technically these are games, even if they are meant for training purposes. Didn't seem infantile to me.
Hell, a modified version of Doom II was made specifically for the US marine corps for fire team training and in my mind if the military can use a FPS game to help train their men even a little bit on top of the normal training then good on them, not only does it provide a bit of entertainment to the men but it also provides a 100% predictable run each time if nothing in the settings is changed but if they want a unique challenge that can also be done and it won't put them in potential danger that could happen if something similar was done not in a game setting.
"She really is no fun at parties."
- her 8-year-old daughter
I would like but it's at a perfect 69
@@ResidentEvilFan686 cringe
That profile picture.... whoooooo
Feel sorry for the daughter. Too bad if she ever wants to consider e-sports/streaming/commentary as a way to earn a living, Mum won't be having any of that. Wouldn't be surprised if Daughter has a miserable time at school because she's not allowed to play any games and must focus only on her schoolwork and "becoming an adult who only does adult things".
If she wanted to make a fuss, she could just try the classic "Videogames lead to violence" 🤣
Ahh such simpler times where my dad would read about that I'd say it's dum and go right back to shouting die die playing doom to be fair I didn't turn in to a psychopath but do still kill things on doom
Ah yes. Made me remember how EVERY media tried to cancel Pewdiepie because he's a very famous gamer
The before times with Jack Thompson ranting about violent video games. Seems almost idyllic when compared to what Saarkesian & her ilk have done to Vidya.
My girlfriend plays video games. Sweetest young lady you’ll ever meet 🤣🥰
I'm sure she'll make a future article talking about how she was 'attacked' by gamers.
Thanks young for sticking up for the little people without a platform. I have an UNBELIEVABLE story related to this.
Co worker bullys me for playing switch on long (2 hours) rides to jobsite, breaks, and lunch also weather events like lightning stand downs on big work sites that can last hours. For about a year he bullied me about gaming and how I should be doing side work and working weekends making money etc etc until he brought his son to work. His 10 year seen my switch case and for the entire day he talked to me about pokemon, zelda, splatoon, mario odyssey. He followed me around and that day and vocally expressed his excitement to see me after times apart. You could see it in his father's eyes how upset he was that his son was connecting with this strange man he had bullied the last 12 months and I felt extremely uncomfortable about it but since that day he never bullied me about it again . I feel like he felt like I was more connected with his son then he was and in front of other co workers it was a bazaar experience but I think about how I treat people and they're life choices either on hobby or cars or clothes etc etc. Sometumes people get to tunneled on certain things and dont see just how close minded they are untill a huge reality slap hits them square on the jaw.
That's an awesome story if true. Unfortunate that dude was being an ass, but hopefully he could see a little bit through your shoes by now.
My first exposure to a video game was at 7, _attempting_ to play _Pong_ in 1973, when I didn't know enough about the game to play it right. I still play games to this day, and I always go back to an old-school game like _Ms. Pac-Man,_ my absolute favorite.
Since this woman mentions 3 Nintendo games in her gravely short-sighted (to say the least) article, you can tell she's never seen the Game Boy Pocket commercial with people in their 70s and 80s playing _Tetris_ and other games on it. You can pretty much tell she obviously knows nothing about the multi-billion-dollar _E-sports_ industry, full of grown men and women. And many of the grown men and women who played video games as kids are now game developers or have started game companies and businesses of their own.
Grown men shouldn’t worry about what other grown men are doing lmao
I think it’s a woman
@@planetcrazy654 don’t assume 😂 😂
@@planetcrazy654 Point still stands no grown man and woman should be in any position to know what other grown adults are doing with their time
@@ae86takumi he assumed correctly.
@@planetcrazy654 Bona Fide? Or Identify?
C. S. Lewis: "When I became a man, I put away childish things. Including the fear of being childish and the desire to be very grown up"
I love that quote! I'm a responsible adult, I show up to work on time every day, I rarely call out sick unless I'm so sick I can't even stand up, I pay my bills and taxes on time, I vote, I take care of myself and my loved ones so if I want to do something "childish" just for myself, no one is going to make me feel guilty for that.
Ah the man who wrote Alice in wonderland
@@haruhisuzumiya6650 Actually, that was Lewis Carroll. C. S. Lewis wrote The Chronicles of Narnia.
Everyone is childish about something. No one just becomes an adult all of a sudden.
“you’re having a good time? what a waste, think of the agony you could be in!”
On another note, many parents just give their kids games and ignore them. Actually engaging with their kids and playing with them is something that helps them develop healthy social skills and helps prevent them from becoming angry beasts when the lose a game.
This makes me remember, how my parents used to say that "You"ll grow out of playing video games".
Now I'm 31 year old and working in the video game industry as a 3D animator. So now I not only play videogames, but I also contributing in making them.
You rebel x3
You followed your dreams and I respect you for it. My parents or more specifically my dad told me the same thing, I'm still playing them and I've made friends I otherwise wouldn't have if I gave up on my favorite hobby. I may not have a career yet, but I did take passion for games a bit further and I have created some CZcams videos, mainly some montages that I'm very proud of. It's a start I suppose.
Parents: YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO DEFEAT THEM NOT JOIN THEM
The Dream™
King shit
I think this highlights a major problem of society. The idea that maturity is tied to things people enjoy rather than how one carries themselves through interactions with other individuals. Its rather sad that people will openly judge others based on what they enjoy and see them as immature but refuse to look inward to themselves and see the irony of the situation.
Exactly. Well said.
“Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”
-C.S. Lewis
I agree with you there. I am in several sub-cultures simply because I find most of the people in them enjoyable to converse with, even when we disagree about something. Because its far easier to become well seasoned and meet lots of different types of people in online games. I have met people from all corners of the globe that have differing views on things and few of them go on the offensive simply because they don't like or understand the things I like. When you focus your life on a small group of people, such as the royal family for instance, you loose site of the diversity in the world around you. Its easy to forget that even if we like the same things, we are individuals, not copy and pasted machines. Just because we like something different doesn't mean we are broken and need repairs, it means we don't want to conform the the beliefs and ideologies of a small group just so we can "fit in". I for 1 refuse to be a Borg... which is strange to me being a bit of a cyber punk fan
Yup. People can't just mind their own business.
And this is what lies at the heart of the social conservatism this article represents: Childish fears projected onto harmless things.
I'm a middle-aged man. An adult. Some of the video games I play are made specifically for adults. I work an adult job. I drive an adult car. I wear adult diapers. I do adult things like taxes and take adult medicine for my adult problems like arthritis. The thing about being an adult is that you can do whatever you want in your free time as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. If there's anyone wasting their lives it is these Karen types that write articles complaining about other people's hobbies.
Oh, and my dear old mom likes playing the Switch too. She's played multiple Xboxes and Xbox 360s until they stopped working, and some of my earliest memories are of my parents playing Atari and NES.
The irony is that it is adults who program the games in the first place!
she is the type of person that sits alone in a room saying how mature she is while being bored
More likely gossiping behind people's backs and being petty (based on her article). However, I don't know her so... who knows, maybe she was just paid to badmouth us all unwillingly (however doubtful).
You know she is the kind of person who watches those drama / romance tv-shows, or gossiping news about royals or "reading books" like 50 shades or harry potter. Probably playing board games too.
@@narudan hey, board games a pretty great
@@MRtacoslicous I don't mind either way but don't pretend one is somehow superior than the other
Like what you like
I'm positive she lives in a spartan house or apartment, either white or cream colored, with minimalist furnishings, and one room with a bookshelf with books that NO ONE on here would ever read in a million years, that she uses mainly for zoom conference calls.
She sounds like she would be mad about childless couples and single people going to Disneyland too actually.
I'd say that's quite accurate.
@Anal Farmer who cares? What's wrong with having fun?
Which is funny given Disneyland is a more of trip for parents than their toddlers if you think about it
@@isaacgray2909 anytime a parent brings their young toddler to an amusement park it’s rarely for the kid, who will barely remember the event when their older.
The child is just an excuse
Being a grown ass adult means I can do what I want within the bounds of the law.
I'd like to see the writer stop me.
I think it's interesting how some people think it's childish or immature to play video games or enjoy Lego, etc.
The irony is that most people end up having kids, and generally have to relearn how to "play" to develop a connection with their children.
So in truth people that enjoy playing games, reading novels, playing with minis, etc. Probably have a head start when learning to connect with their child.
>"Don't waste your time playing video games"
As if complaining about what people do on the internet is much better...
At least you have fun with video games. Twitter? They're just rageaholics.
Seriously!
Self important people not realizing that folk don't care about the thing you like. It's like a celebrity chef losing his collective shit because he spent his whole life in pursuit of his thing and here you are eating a Borger from Wendy's. How uncouth, disgusting lower class man! He doesn't realize he's eating garbage! We must educate him!
Exactly. Why are so many people complaining about what this lady does on the internet? She just wants to write an article and people are giving her a hard time smh
its kind of upseting how complaining on the internet about what other people do in their free time has itself become a hobby to many nowadays
"We don't stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing."-
George Bernard Shaw
Hilariously, every time i run into some mid aged adult or older that is completely grumpy and looks miserable and obviously doesnt play games.. that is just one extra log to the 'never stopping playing games" fire. Yeah.. you have fun being bored.. ill be over here at least entertaining myself.
George Bernard Shaw, Proto-Gamer
Hilariously enough, "I'm proudly ignorant of [thing], therefore anyone who isn't ignorant of it is immature, because my tastes are the only valid ones" is a childish mindset by its very nature. Is there childishness in the gaming community? Oh god yes, a ton of it, but that's true of movies, music, etc. as well.
I see video games the way old people see books.
A way to immerse yourself in a world, and go on an adventure following a story and its many characters along the way.
"why are you playing video games?"
"Don't you know video games are for kids?!"
"QUIT HAVING FUN!!!"
- Camilla Tominey, 2021.
She writes about the royal family ffs.
Imagine then worst type of journalist trying to bash a multi billion dollar industry.
She needs to get laid 😂
@@WithDreday I don't think she's getting laid anytime soon
DID I JUSS CATCH YOU HAVIN' FUN!! *SMACK*
@@FukurouYGR Men lost to Feminism, Women lost to gaming.
@@WithDreday I feel more sorry for the child she has.
Think of what it must be like for them living with her.
An industry that regularly makes more money than the film industry.
An industry worth more than movies and music combined.
Are "you" making money
*An industry worth more than movies, music, TV/streaming and sports....combined*
@@tigeroyer7789 everyone enjoys movies not everyone enjoys games
@@GForceIntel ... And?!
Being an adult is really sad, most of my coworkers have that mindset.
An issue I've been dealing with at work is guys in their 40s who believe that going outside and living g life to my fullest is better than wasting time on video games. I drive for 10 hours a day delivering XL packages. My work outdoors is already plenty.
Literally everything we do is a “waste”. We’re all going to die, so we might as well spend the brief time we have on this earth doing what we like to do. Nothing you enjoy doing is a waste.
It's shocking how few people seem to ever realize your point.
Time you enjoy wasting is not a waste of time
B-but if I don't spend all my time in performative suffering, how am I going to impress all of my fake-ass friends and acquaintances?? Surely, the lukewarm approval of people who would stab me in the back for the slightest gain if they could get away with it is the greatest measure by which to gauge my self-worth?
Well said
@@BackwardsPancake ekacnaP has Twitter down to a science!
I just went to see the tweets linked in the description and found this absolute gem
"We play games for the same reason you wear makeup sweet heart, It’s a nice little escape from reality"
MAN DOWN WE NEED A MEDIC
SHOTS FIRED, SHOTS FIRED!
Ain't no senzu bean that'll heal that.
"DEFIB DEFIB I'M NOT GETTING A PULSE!! "
Makeup is pretty relaxing, really.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Judging how other people spend their free time when they enjoy an activity and it isn't hurting anyone is the least "adult" thing I can think of.
Bunch of nurses and doctors doing dumb tiktok dances are totally a grown up thing to do….
My girlfriend was suffering from depression, so i got her a switch to play whenever she wanted. We both play it every now and then and she loves mario. She has never touched a video game in her life. It had helped her move on with her depression, along with many other stuff.
Nice, hope all of you carry on with your lives happily 😁
I find that indie narrative videogames attract thousthands of comments about how they really improved their lives. You know, like undertale or omori. Glad to see other videogames can do the same thing
You're no trash can. You are a Good Man.
This. I'm not a pscychologist, but I guess that when (real) life is a mess that you feel that you can't control, playing games can relieve stress and get your mind off things.
@@gabrote42 like Ori?
"Grown people" is a subjective term these days. I've seen 50 year old men have about as much maturity as actual toddlers and teens acting mature and taking on responsibilites that come with
There are 70 year olds that still throw temper tantrums because they choose to have their feelings get hurt over listening to actual advice. You can't grow out of it unless you want to.
Exactly , Age ≠ Experience.
To paraphrase Sir Terry Pratchett, just because someone is old doesn't mean they're wise. They could also have been very stupid for a long time.
@@ajitsen6927 Age _can_ = Experience, but it takes effort on your part. You cannot be strictly an observer and learn how to be mature--you must act and then learn from what you've done. Far too many people try to skip the doing things part and think they're "grown up" when they lack a lot of personal interaction with others. Going to work can help but it isn't the standard that defines what and who you are by itself. What demonstrates that you have grown up is how you treat others and how you treat yourself. If you cannot take a joke, if you get upset by the things others do or say when what they do has 0 effect on you or anyone else for that matter, if you go around telling other physically grown people what they should and should not do with their free time... then _you_ are a hypocrite and are demonstrating that you have no idea what being a grown up actually means.
@@knusperkeks2748 Said 70-year-olds are the people that run the U.S.
This response really hits the nail on the head. Thanks for the Vid!
Grown Adults Shouldn’t Play Video Games…
Snobby newspaper writers need to get a life.
There’s a saying that someone reaches true adulthood when they realize that it’s ok to act childish sometimes. In other words, this author is more immature than any real adult. After all, she’s mocking gamers the same way as an elementary school playground bully.
CS Lewis: "When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”
@@carlycrays2831 Thanks, that was it. It's been years since I read it, so I couldn't remember who said it and the exact context.
That's what I think about whenever I see stuff like this. This is true childish behavior. Children push stuff they deem childish away to seem more grown up. Adults don't care what others think or do in their free time if no harms done.
As someone who went through multiple years of college to become an aerospace engineer, got employed with NASA and is currently working on the Artemis program, I'm glad to know I'm still an immature child for playing games in my free time. When we next land on the moon I hope this lady covers it, just so she unintentionally recognizes a gamer who helped make it happen.
Quick Edit: Thanks for all the love everyone, didn't expect this and I love basically any sci fi/space game.
It's always the biggest losers who have to whine about how others spend their free time. Carry on Some Dude, I think what you're doing is pretty damn badass and infinitely more fulfilling than anything this woman has ever done in her life.
Nice man!
Also have you ever played kerbal space program?
Good luck and godspeed to you and all of NASA in the upcoming space faring missions.
Onward and upward, always.
@@winstonsmith3703 Hell yes, I love KSP, I've got over 200 hours in it.
@@Pengun3 you sir, are an inspiration to us all. Keep being a badass
Us "Man Babies" will stop doing our hobbies. If Twitter stops playing Make Believe political.
This artical is doing exactly what they want... causing an emotional response to get ppl to click or talk about it...you taking the bait my dude
Exactly what I thought. Love you yongyea and I understand the anger but this is clearly bait
The 80's called, they want their overblown outrage back.
I was getting déjà vu too.
There are plenty of different stuff that was normal and no big deal in the 80s that people now think is wrong so people have way more of an outrage about things now than they did back then.
Same with the 70s, 90s and the 2000s that those same things were perfectly fine back then but are wrong now.
Also in the past it was mostly violence people had an outrage about but now there are many different things people love to censor, remove and change because it could hurt somebodys feelings.
Careful. Lol. That's my decade! i often wonder why it is that I still play games. Then the answer presents itself: It's a rich medium - one providing both amusement and escapism, one learns a lot too while gaming. It's also had other applications besides entertainment. I'm not sure why someone would write this crap. This clown is making us look foolish. At the VERY least - she should have researched this before mouthing off on a subject she has ZERO knowledge/experience on.
@@CyberLance26 Yeah, it's almost as if people can change their sensibilities over time. Weird, huh? There was the same kind of outrage in the 80's and before and after, it's just louder now thanks to the internet. We have echo chambers of outrage and echo chambers of being outraged at the outrage, ad nauseam. People clickbaiting with outrage isn't very different from what you'd see on TV in the 80's and 90's, right down to the same profit motive. I don't know how old you are, but what you're describing is nothing new.
The stars are right. I guess it's time to blame D&D for leading kids to Satan again. Proceed to scream in an orderly fashion.
"I'm not so insecure about myself that i have to dunk other people's hobbies just 'cause I lack an understanding of it" It is just a precious quote which resumes many aspects of social media nowadays
and not just social media. That attitude of wanting to micro manage everyone else is found everywhere.
And it's not just the last few years either, though it's been getting worse and worse very quickly.
I lost a job in 2007 (right at the start of the mortgage crisis), officially "because you're not a good fit in the team" (after nearly 2 years of working quite well in that team, no complaints from anyone and good performance reviews) but I suspect because of my opposition to the insane new dress code which dictated what we, office flunkies who never saw a customer, were supposed to wear down to the styles and colours of our underwear and socks.
thats so amny peoples out look. oh my god XD
@@jwenting That has to be the most stupid dress code I have ever heard of
We are just like sheep to those shepherd-wannabes. People can live their life without their fake pity anyway. Have a good day, people
She's one of those who is wasting they own time writing something nonsense and wasting all those poor adult mans time.
god i just love it when yong speaks from his heart
Yong, this is why you have swiftly become my favorite CZcamsr. Everything you've said here is perfectly succinct.
This is my parents at their finest. Perfectly willing to sit in front of the TV as often as possible, but me doing the same with video games? Well suddenly it becomes a waste of time and I should be out socialising 24/7.
Yep, tell me you’re close minded without telling me you’re close minded.
They see it as an age thing, but if youre underage playing video games all day is 100% waste of time
Dude I'm 40 and it's been this way forever. For some reason video games have been the whipping boy and scapegoat at every God damned turn. It's honestly tiring hearing this same old drek regurgitated every few months about one of your favorite past times.
@@bane9951 I did that the whole time people are shit lol
@@clblanchard08 It's been this way longer than that. First it was "novels will ruin our children, they're addicted," then it was TV/movies, now it's video games. Stupid people are a constant through the ages. Just ignore them and enjoy games.
I've never understood how gaming is somehow less of a hobby than watching football or movies or reading books.
it isnt. not anymore. it became a hobby and these people hate that. and their trying to stop that
and failed
Reading has it's benefits
But I agree
Reading is better than playing games. That is a fact. But this karen is butthurt beyond belief!
@@Deathbringer99699 reading doesn't help keep my busted ass hands working, doesn't aid in practicing racing lines on tracks, doesn't keep my hand-eye coordination up, in general doesn't keep my problem solving skills acute though there are situations where the game is dumb and the book is challenging...
I generally play survival games, fighting games or racing sims, wheel and pedal included, nothing that is even remotely mindless button pushing.
@@glenwaldrop8166 i also play games but there are better things to do in life.
It’s like saying her 8 year old likes movies, TV, music, and books so they are all for children. Every kind, every type.
Skill ups responses were so good!
I'm a 53 y/o grown man who plays strategy computer games, keeps my mind active, if I didn't, I would probably end up as a dribbling moron, like this author.
My Father plays strategy games too. Recently introduced him to Total War, and he's having a blast. Helps him relax after a day of work.
@@MarcusTrinnias those are my go to games as well.....
These people are still thinking about video games as if it were the late 80’s or early 2000’s smh
keep on gaming mate 👌😎
I'm 35 and intend to keep right on gaming until 53 and beyond.
Things I have learned in life: 1)Anything that moves you is art. 2)As long as something isn’t hurting yourself or others, anything that makes you happy is never a waste of time. 3) Journalists who write click-bate articles that attack something people like just to kick a hornets nest and get angry clicks are not journalists as they have sold their integrity for short time gain.
Did you mean bate or bait? Because they are not the same thing and in this particular case could lead to very different understandings. Cheers
4) If someone uses Video Games as a scapegoat for something, they don't care about the real problem and are most likely a dumbass.
Well said
She most likely doesn't even have a degree in journalism. Glorified blogger.
Good insight
Much respect to this video! Thank you for this.
So well said sir! Bravo!
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I'm an orthopedic surgeon , currently in the process of finishing my masters degree. And video games have been (and always will be ) a great stress reliever from all that pressure.
this lady needs some hobby, she's clearly miserable enough to write that shit. May I suggest gaming?
I worked at a prison for 12 years. They helped, and by a noticeable amount.
If I got paid a dollar for every time I've seen a comment with the time posted right as it's playing I'd have at least a $50 in my wallet. It's bizzare lol
@@wutsit2yuhhuh246 Only 50?
The fact this article is behind a paywall really speaks volumes about this particular publication.
Yeah I found that weird when I tried goin to the article asking me to pay 🤦🏽♂️
Sad thing is, there's actually people out there that pay real world money for pathetic slopaganda like that miserable ignorant person wrote.
She's a bit of a snob from the UK.
There are sites to bypass the pay wall, you just need to paste the link.
Yep
It’s hilarious. “Adults” are supposed to sit at the bar drinking whiskey and smoking cigarettes until they die for entertainment to be responsible adults because that’s what normal adults can do without being criticized for behaving like a child . . .
This article is nothing new, it’s infact so 90’s it’s adorable
It seems people in this era have forgotten this unwritten rule:
*Don't talk shit unless you can take a hit*
It's not even unwritten. In nearly all religions, you will get some form of "Treat others the way you want to be treated".
I've always seen belittling others' pasttimes for the sake of "maturity" to be the most childish and embarassing shit, surprised these people haven't been laughed out of existence yet
Yeah, you basically can't waste your free time no matter what hobby you have. It's "free time", you use it to entertain yourself or otherwise get some rest from thinking about all your responsibilities and problems. Some watch sports, some play sports, some watch anime titties go "boing". To each their own.
My guess is, is that they're such shallow individuals with nothing to show for, any semblance of individualism that somebody ELSE has, rustles these shallow peoples'* jimmies due to their lack of.
Yeah like I'll take this kinda shit from a guy who's cut social media and TV and all that out of his life, makes furniture and teaches his kid survivalist skills for fun in his free time - THAT guy can tell me I need to grow up and stop wasting so much free time playing video games.
But something tells me that the folks who write articles like this spend plenty of time mindlessly scrolling through their social media and vegging out as they binge whatever the f on a streaming platform - and those people can go f themselves because video games are way more engaging, challenging and meaningful than social media or TV/movies. Screen habits are a vice, no doubt, but as far as screen habits go, video games are the least bad IMO.
@@SquareNoggin But they are the best of "the bad" though. I play mostly sandbox survival/building games (Minecraft, Valheim, etc.) or MMORPGs. First ones works up my creativity and imagination while the second ones help me work on my social skills, organizational skills and leadership (I do lead group content once in a while), teach me focus and concentration (consistently perform my dmg rotation while dealing with any mechanics game or non-careful players throw at me), economics and data analysis (smart ways of earning in-game currency), and some more. Oh, and also basic stuff like eye-hand coordination, reflexes, etc. I've also finally started speaking English (not my native lang) while so far I was only listening to it and writing myself thanks to online games.
Meanwhile, watching stuff is a very passive kind of entertainment. I do get something out of it (like learning foreign languages or even just game-related stuff) but it's almost like studying at that point and not the kind of binging netflix or something that's so popular lately.
Anyway, I'm back to wasting my time improving myself and making others' day a bit better by succesfully leading them to victory in challenging videogame content.
yes yes and yes.
It's almost as if she were dumped by a gamer.
Thanks for backing your fellow gamers Yong! 👍
This feels like an oddly specific rant about a single person or event that pissed them off…
Probably a scorned lover.
@@Rich_P_Anya Probably the lover had more fun with Mario than her
With how much detail she went into with e-scooters and public transportation, she probably got elbowed on the subway or something like that and decided to vent about it on an irrelevant website.
@@randomSaltyUser - That's what I thought too. Her ex-boyfriend's main phrase around her was probably, "Just one more level/mission/quest, hon, and I'll do whatever you want."
My thoughts exactly.
I’ve learnt my English from playing video games, listening to journalists on gaming news cause that’s what I’m interested. I wouldn’t say that my English is good now but better than those days in school where I used to fail my english test. YongYea’s English always inspire me and had me keep on following his video.
Your English is good! You're eloquent with it.
Consequently, highly Japan-focused franchises like Yakuza (especially given almost every game lacks a dub) is teaching me quite a bit of Japanese culture and phrases.
Also, as the other person said, your English is pretty good.
Bro if you didn't mention it I wouldn't have ever known English wasn't your first language. Trust me your English is better than English natives. You're doing great! Keep it up :)
trust me, what make my English better (still crap and idc) is anything but school.
Same as u, I wouldn't even be a doctor rn if it wasn't for video games teaching me proper English where my country teaching system failed to do so, and when u enter a medical college a good English is just the base requirement as there is no time to start learning that when u already have thousands of medical Latin terminology to memorize
In "le rouge et le noir", a 19th century novel (1830) by french romantic writer Stendhal, the main character is dissed by his family for spending his time reading books, an ativity deemed useless, childlish and immature at the time. What a trip we've done, since. Boomers gonna hate, always.
The way you addressed this article is awesome as you stated a lot of obvious things for us gamers but unfortunately there is a lot of ignorance and your videos are educating this people . Thank you ! 😌
Check out the author’s next op-ed piece, “Get off my lawn, you damn kids!”
Followed closely by “get out of my sun, you cantankerous cloud”
@@exceedcharge1 followed by "get out of my solar system you asshole aliens"
@@exceedcharge1 ending with "I'm better than you! Because I poop in the woods!"
More like: I got conned into giving this article clicks and views.
Folks. Come on. This is a clear example of clickbait and y’all got conned into it.
Yep
Her: "Grown men shouldn't waste their time playing videogames."
Karens: *kicking and screaming to get their way*
karen try block guy play skate board
"Yeah. They should be spending their time trying to woo me. Just like that Madonna's Material Girl music video..."
She probably spends her time shopping - buying new outfits, decorative junk and scented candles.