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- čas přidán 21. 08. 2024
- Why I had to fire my nanny and resume full-time momma duties.
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I've actually never commented on any CZcams video but I felt a want to comment on this one. I have been watching you for 6-7 years now, through all the meal preps, moving to Toronto, living with Larissa, all the traveling with your dog, etc. and I have to say it is so inspiring and motivating to continue to watch you grow, change, and just flourish. I know things may be more stressful off-screen than the 10-20 minutes you show us, but it truly is amazing to see how much you have overcome in life, and going through so many things but still remaining authentic, relatable, and all-around an amazing person that I look forward to watching each video from. I hope you are able to manage your new schedules, and I hope the next nanny you have lined up will show up for your family!
🥹 thank you for this
This was one of my favourite comments!
@@marlaniamagdalene7262she worked her ass for everything she has 😂 stop projecting.
I’ve been a full time nanny for nearly a decade, and you are 110% right. Your baby is your most precious thing, if someone shows you that they are selfish and unreliable the last thing you want is them in charge of your child! Of course we all run into crazy traffic and run a few minutes behind or have family emergencies but for all that to happen in her first 3 weeks of employment is pretty unbelievable. Wishing you all the best!
I just heard the bit about you feeling guilty about missing your son’s early days and I felt compelled to share this with you. My mother runs her own accounting office which of course gives her some flexibility but obviously she still needs to work and put in the time. I feel it’s a tiny bit similar to your work situation. My mom had a full time nanny for me throughout all my childhood (who of course became part of my family) and she has always told me that the way she looked at it was this: “I got to come home and experience the best and most special parts of your life with you. I didn’t have to spend my time preparing things for you, cleaning up after you and doing all the tasks that ‘surrounded’ you in order to be with you. I just got to come home to love you and hug you and sing to you, the best version of you that was already rested and fed and bathed, and you were at your most open to receive my love and play.”
I know that some may respond with “the cleaning and the bathing and the cooking is part of it all” and that’s true! But my mother did those things too from time to time and she still provided for me and my siblings and I have never EVER thought “mom, you should have done it all yourself”. I’m actually grateful she so cherished the time she spent with me.
Thank you for this ♥️
Kudos to you for standing up for yourself, for Easton and for both of your needs 🙌
Thanks Marthe 🫶🏼
Lmao, this girl got played too many times.
I was a nanny for a handful of years and always texted my employer the moment something came up on the rare occasion that it did. It sounds like she didn't care about the job and that's someone you definitely don't want watching your kid! It's been a year or two, but I still find myself wondering how the little boy i used to take care of is doing. He was 3-4 when I took care of him so I don't think he'd remember me, but I think of him often ❤
I never nannied but I regularly babysat the same little guy for a few years growing up and I also wonder how he’s doing today 🥲 but yes, she wanted to be a teacher so this was just a summer job for her.
I'm a long time watcher but very infrequent commenter, but I wanted to let you know how inspiring your vlogs are. Even when they are "scattered" like this (didn't feel that way to me tbh), or pieced together, or when we're in different seasons of our lives than each other (we almost always are). Your vlogs are a sense of comfort and have brought me through a lot of hard times. Thank you for continuing to share your journey with us, and I wish all the best for you and your family.
Thank you so much for sharing 🤍
Absolutely, they are both comforting and gently motivating.
As a nanny, this behavior is unacceptable and am so sorry you went through that and I’m very glad you stood up for your child and your family 😢 I could never imagine hurting a family like that especially when it comes to there work, there relationship, there child’s well being and schedule😕
I work in childcare and would literally do anything to be a nanny for a family like yours! Your ex-nanny really took that for granted :(
Always admired and respected parents who put their children’s comfort, safety and convenience before theirs, no matter what. Very inspired by your parenting style 🫶🏼
as a former nanny, that behaviour from her was not ok. i worked with the same fam for 5 years, never once called in sick and only late once (out of my control). you will find someone perfect 🩵 there are good nannies out there !
But you’re absolutely allowed to call in sick! Please give your body some rest if it needs it. It helps no one if you overwork yourself!
@@sarahsparkling ya I totally agree, it’s good when you can provide notice as soon as possible but your family will believe you when you really need time off if you’re always honest and generally hard working
@Sarah Sch. thanks for saying that. the problem was if i didnt go in, i didnt get paid. so i would take an advil if needed and would go in. thank God i have a job now where i get all the sick days now though !
@@cassidy757 yes! Thank God for It ❤️
That sucks that you had to go through that stress with the nanny. I’m glad you can see the positive of having more time with Easton when he’s little. Also, I’m pretty sure we have the same couch 😂😂
It’s the best couch ever 🙌🏼
These early times can be so rocky, but you are handling the ups and downs like a champ.
Thank you 🫶🏼
Loved having my morning coffee & catching up w your vlog 🤍 wishing you & your family all the support & rest you need during this season 💞 what a *beautiful* walking spot 🐝
My son was 6 months when the first Covid lockdown began. We didn’t have any family come over, certainly no daycare program, no help at all watching him while we were also expected to work from home and justify working from home by meeting equal or higher expectations from our jobs. It was one of the hardest, most stressful times of my life. We ended up creating this crazy routine where I began my day at 5 am, did several hours of work, switched off with my husband for a couple hours in the morning, switched back and continued in that manner until between 5 and 6 pm every day. So I feel like I can completely relate to your struggle here. It is not easy. But I found the strength I needed to do what was best for my son and you are too. Looks like you’re doing an awesome job!
Same, my son was 10 months in March 2020. When I went back after mat leave, my husband and I worked opposite hours until Sept 2021 when my son started preschool. It was a year and a half but I also am so happy I had the extra time with my son! I'm not able to wfh now and can't imagine how I have to send my second to daycare full time at only a year old. I know I have it so much better than so many others, especially in the U.S.!
Woah there's some salty mum shaming comments in here.. it is beyond obvious that Easton is Kalyn's number one priority and that people have to have an income/work! Kalyn is so lucky to spend so much time with her son even when he is being taken care of by a nanny a few hours a day.. Jeez
Thank youuu!
@@KalynNicholson no thank YOU for still showing up! I’ve been watching since 2016 🩵
Wow, you are handling this like a champ, Kalyn! Props to you for pushing forward and just going with the flow. I understand how it feels to have a crawler, I'm finding it difficult to get much done with my almost 10 month old crawling around everywhere lol.
I can relate to giving people the benefit of the doubt to the point it gets ridiculous! You will figure this out, you always do! Looking forward to witnessing the journey as you do 💕
Hi Kalyn! I have been watching you for many years now and am so proud of all of your accomplishments! I wanted to just come on here and say that I have worked as a full time nanny for years now. Always trust your gut feeling, you have those instincts for a reason! Every nanny and family is unique, and sometimes it takes a few tries to find that perfect bond. I recently left my nanny family to continue my education, but I still think of my nanny child every day. He will always be a part of my heart! I wish you and your beautiful family all the best!
Loved seeing you again! I like these short vlogs too, life updates in different seasons are always fun to watch. I’ve been watching you for 10 years and you’ve grown so much. I’m proud of you for standing up for your and Easton’s needs. Sending positive vibes your way for the next nanny! Also, happy summer!
ugh i’m so sorry you went through that nanny nonsense. it’s frustrating AND awkward. really hoping you can find a nanny from june-september!! rooting for you!
Missed these types of vlogs! Can’t wait for more! ❤
Soft front, strong back and Wild heart. ❤
Omg I’ve been watching your channel for 6 years and I’m over the moon for you for your little family. You’ve grown so much from those cute apartments in Toronto. Hugs from Iowa 🖤
Haven’t been back in a while!! Glad to see you’re doing ok!! I love the name Easton so much 😭 so crazy to see you as a mom now!!
As someone who has had sh*t hit the fan for reals (my grandma died and then I got really sick following my first week of working somewhere) I tried my best to push through and communicate what was happening throughout. That person was making things up 100%. There’s no excuse and you made the right call especially since being a nanny effects you so intimately.
Keep it pushing Mama! You got this!
So proud of you Kalyn for managing everything so nicely. 🎉🎉
I wish I lived near you. Being your nanny seems like a dream job. You deserve someone to treat you how you deserve. Nannying IS the most important job ❤
ugh nothing is more frustrating than unreliable people especially when you're paying them! that's so frustrating so sorry you had to deal with that, glad you set boundaries and made your expectations clear! Like you said, universe redirecting you, you got this!
Good for you for setting very clear expectations. The people who care for your kids when you work are truly the most important people, and if they don’t take it seriously that is a huge problem.
Hi Kalyn, I just want you to know you're not alone in these types of situations and you will find someone reliable soon! I've watched your videos for a long time but now that I'm a mom as well I don't get to watch as much. I had the same experience as you and this was with my husband's niece, and since it was family it was kind of worse. Idk what it is if it's a generational thing or young adults aren't as motivated but it's really disappointing. Even though its hard, you have to push through and allow yourself to go back to work and reconnect with ur former self. You n ur baby get to miss each other and it's amazing how good it feels to actually have time to drink your coffee while its still warm or have some adult conversation. You go home in a better mood and with more patience for your baby. I struggled with leaving my baby every morning and my my therapist said something that helped, its not about the goodbye, it's about looking forward to coming home. Something so simple but so true. Now I barely say have a good baby and she's already waving goodbye at me. 😢😂 ❤ Hang in there mama!
Childcare struggle is so real!!! It does get easier as kiddos get older. I hope you find the perfect person for your little family ❤️❤️
Excited for this phase of your life, however long it may last, and excited you'll be bringing us along with. You're a badass so we know you've got this and will make it all work one way or another
Longterm follower here. I babysit my close friend's 8 month old daughter 1-3 times a week and even though we have that friendship base, I show up 10 minutes early for my shift and I text her two days prior if anything comes up, which only happened once when I got the flu. I couldn't imagine handling a job that involves A WHOLE PERSON so carelessly. I'm so sorry you had to go through this! And I hope you find the best care for your little boy xx
That’s such amazing commitment ♥️ I can only imagine how much she appreciates you!!!
Hoping you will find the help you need that is perfect for your family ❤ love you!!!
in case you haven't heard this lately, you're doing a great job 🥺
Momma you're doing amazing. Those moments are precious and you are finding balance in the ever changing days that are children. Praying for good solutions for work so that you can rest up and feel confident in who is watching sweet Easton. ❤
Loved this little vlog+update! You always inspire me to keep going and try my best in life, also you're such a great mom and I just love watching these little snippets of your mom life
Parenting is so hard and stressful once they start crawling and becoming more independent but the time you have with your baby will be good. Just remember to breath and be patient with your partner. Wishing you best of luck with the search for a new nanny.
Love you K!!!! Thank you for sharing, you were completely in the right. Reliability is a valuable skill in the work force many people lack it.
Hi Kalyn, I just moved out of our neighbourhood where you live, and I have watched since you were in Kingston! Ugh if I was still there I would totally help you out! You’re such a good mama! Stay at it, the right person is there!! ❤
Kayln you're killing it right now your a wonderful mama for Easton + your first furbaby too and a great wife + dealing with your business you'll find a balance of it all hugs...❤🤗
When I went into being a nanny full time I knew basically this is signing up for never calling in unless I’m sick and don’t want to get the child sick. You’re being there for a family!! Yes they’ll be understanding of your emergencies as long as you actually show up
Thank you for sharing and being so opened, I love your little vlog / talk and I love the length of the video ! I need to say it, because now youtube videos are getting longer and longer but as a mum too, a 10/12 minutes video is the best for a little break. I am also sorry too read some of the comments here... You amaze me with your energy and capacity to bounce after such a big change of plans.
You are so cute and loving with your baby 🥹🫶 and I totally get why u were so frustrated with the nanny situation 🤧 sending love!
love you Kalyn!! excited to see more vlogs from you 💖
a similar situation happened to my stepmom and baby sister- let me just say she still raves that it was the best “worst thing” to happen to her!! you never get those early years back with your baby and your quote hit it on the nail- sometimes it sucks how things end up but it’s leading you to your correct path🫶🏻 love you kalyn!
what about a summer aupair from aupair world , lots of people would do that .
Babysitter, nanny, and au pair and different levels of care, responsibilities, training, and education. Some people want to be called the later two because they what the difference in pay and benefits. It sounds like you want a nanny but she was acting more like a first time babysitter.
I am glad you heeded the read flags and although in the short-term it may cause some challenges with your schedule but the overall peace of mind is priceless. I am confident that you both will hire the person that is the right fit for your family and needs.
Love this update and your positive attitude towards this hiccup with your former nanny! Super inspiring as always ❤
I come from a family of 10 kids and have been a nanny/babysitter until now at 21 and and work with many ages during the weeks and so wish I could fly out and help you guys out! hope she learns that communication and time management is really needed when caring for little ones, All my work kiddos are treated as if they are my own so it’s sad to see that some people don’t appreciate the second best job out there 🤎
Missed the vlogs💛 That sounds super stressful, but at least it's over now and although it will be a tough balancing act, it will be so sweet for you to enjoy summer days with the little dude!
Oh beautiful girl, we love you so damn much and as a FTM to a 1 year old, also in a similar working space as you, I sooooo get it! You are always so positive and a forward thinker, this will all work out! You are giving your best to that sweet baby, while also living out your dreams and creating with passion, THAT he will see and be inspired by! His Mama does it all with Grace and Gratitude! ❤ Better days ahead!
Some of these comments are absolutely WILD. Kayln, please ignore the hate and mom shaming. Your true followers know you put forth every good intention for your son. If you need to step back from youtube just know we will still be here whenever you upload! Much love from the US 🇺🇲
I admire you standing in your strength to do what is right for you and your family 🤍
Thank you ♥️
Honestly I think people just don't want to work and I can't believe she did that to you, because at the end of the day, it is commitment and respect. Your baby it's the most important human being and if you can't respect that, she at least should be honest with herself about working as a nanny. At least you know it was not for you Kalyn and for Easton of course. You'll find someone great! Sending you positive vibes!
Best of luck with everything ❤
I was a nanny, and this behavior is wild and unacceptable. It’s her loss! You will find a wonderful person that is supposed to be in your and your son’s life!
Sending you guys support! I love the perspective that the universe is redirecting you :)
Totally understand why you had to let the nanny go- I get so stressed about childcare and needing it to be consistent and reliable. Definitely the best decision
Man, I'm sorry you went through that with your nanny. Inconsistent behavior sucks. If I lived in Canada I would help. Good luck finding a good nanny for the summer!
Wholesome ! Such a good mother
As a nanny, not okay!! I was with my last family for nearly 5 years.. I never used a vacation day/called in sick/nor was a late. I worked roughly 60-80 hours a week, and absolutely NOTHING came before my job. And during Covid, they had me move in with them to make things easier.
My current family- (as I moved out of state) same exact way; if someone isn’t going to show up and do their job, good riddens.
Sending much love while you navigate this new period in life. ❤️
That momma intuition with also tell you everything you need to know about making the best decision for your boy
Μέσα από τα βίντεο σου στο youtube σε αγάπησα και ήσουν η έμπνευση μου για να ξεκινήσω και εγώ το δικό μου κανάλι πριν από 5 χρόνια! Σε νιώθω μια από τις καλύτερες μου φίλες και εύχομαι να συμβεί και από κοντά!. Σε ευχαριστώ για τόσα πολλά που έκανες για εμένα χωρίς να το γνωρίζεις.. μου δίνεις έμπνευση , χαρά, γίνομαι καλύτερος ανθρωπος μαζί σου μέσα από τα βιντεο! Ανυπομονώ για το επόμενο.. να εισαι πάντα καλά με την όμορφη σου οικογένεια Kalyn , η φίλη σου Αννα☀️✨🤍
We will always be here for you kalyn ❤
Ive followed you since i was like 14 im 24 now with 2 baby girls and all i have to say is your a great mom im fortunate now to be a full time mommy but my husband works 6:30am-5pm gets home 6:15pm and then when i worked i went from 3pm-12am never slept because i needed to be their for my girls didn’t have the same days off with my hun and only had a sitter for 3 1/2 hrs we do what we need to do for our kids luckily your in a better position than most to do so.💜
As someone who used to babysit as a middle school and high schooler not even I was that irresponsible at that age when it came to taking care of someone else’s kids. I always did was was asked of me. I even worked at a resort as a baby sitter for resort stayers and complete strangers would ask for me every time they came back to the resort. Sometimes people don’t understand that even though there is a certain relaxation of having this kind of job it is very important and the duties of care for the child and consistency are top priority. Child care is such an important job. You are someone who is making an impact on a childs life and how they grow. I hope you find someone to help you.
Your vlogs are my fave actually!
Love seeing you as a momma ❤️
I thought something very bad or traumatic happened! Her being unreliable is of course not ok, but in the grand scheme of things I’m so glad that you guys are ok! 🙏🏼 You’re right, things happen for a reason and I’m glad that you’re seeing the positives too! 😍🤩🥰🤗👏🏼👍🏼👌🏼🙏🏼✨🫶🏼💕❤️
So happy to see this vlog from you ❤
My nanny since Februaryis constantly late for reasons like a half hour late. And usually needs a day off a week last minute, so only is there 4 days. Debating letting her go.
Always love your videos, sorry your nanny didn’t work out!
I mean this in the nicest way possible, but you do realize there are millions of us moms who raised our babies, worked full time jobs and ran our homes all without the help of a nanny. Having a nanny is strictly a privilege and not a right or necessity so don’t let it ruin your mind frame or way of thinking and limiting you.
The story with the nanny is like 50/50 with me where she had sooo much going on its hard for me to believe that she wouldnt be upfront upon being hired and say hey, my life is fucking crazy right now. Cut me some slack and keep up that communication especially being a personal nanny?? Im happy she showed how flakey she was early
Yessss love the vlogs and the talks ❤❤❤
I would love the job.....I live in Michigan 😕 I have watched you for 6 years! My favorite is your father putting your makeup on you. I raised my son (26yrs) on my own. I so totally understand your stress. I wish your family well!
With respect ,No one cares. Seriously…. Why you share this?
Your routine is your business.❤
What a lovely video thank you for sharing! Felt like catching up with a friend
Woooow, my dad had an incident at work when I was 16, both me and my sister went babysitting for the same family (two brothers with own wives/kids). I stayed with my working family for 2 years and a half, caring for their 2 girls like they were my own kids! There is nothing more serious than supporting a working family by babysitting their children, you can’t mess up! A baby needs affection, routine, stability, bonds 😢 I am so sorry you had to go through this!
Omgggg so sorry you went through that. You’ll find the right person. That wasn’t meant for you guys. ❤
But honestly, I mean this well..
😂😂😂 funniest nanny story ever. Gotta have a humor at life.
I'm so sorry you got a flaky nanny. I was a nanny for 10 years, and that behavior is completely unacceptable. You are literally leaving your most precious possession with someone else. If you don't have someone who is going to make Easton and your family a priority, there is someone out there who will. You'll find the right person, but in the meantime, enjoy this extra time with Easton.
Also, I've been watching your channel for...not sure how many years. I know your number of subscribers was still only 5 figures when I started watching. I love watching you, because you are so good at taking on new challenges and reworking things until you get it right. It's really inspiring to watch how you organize and conduct yourself. You're definitely in the right line of work as far as being an influencer. Love your videos. Keep it up, mama!
You're doing great with your kiddo ❤ that consistency will help a lot and there will be a nanny that will be consistent for your family. It's hard to balance but you're a very strong and capable momma ❤️ you've got this!
And happy for more vlogs!!
I was a full time nanny and I did housework and stuff and I never called in sick except when I had the flu.
I would recommend maybe getting a mothers helper for a few hours and then a house cleaner for the light housework?
I do not blame you for firing your nanny. You did the right thing. It is best to hire slow and fire fast, especially when it comes to your child. I believe you will find someone that is the right fit for you. Remember things always happen for a reason.😊
O.M.G!!! As a professional Nanny for over 20 years, this is super upsetting. I personally always think of making sure to not inconvenience the parents when I have emergencies, get sick, need vacation time off etc. I plan a head as much as possible and communicate with the parents asap if I'm going to be late or unable to come in for the day. Everything you asked for her to do on the 2nd chance, is literally what every full-time Nanny is expected to do. Even though my hours are guaranteed I still log in and out, daily. It helps the parents know I'm working hours agreed on and making sure to calculate my over time. All this to say, parents should focus on hiring career Nannies. Or make sure you require the Nanny to have 5+ years of full-time experience, letters of recommendation from previous families and references. Hope you can find the ideal Nanny for your family!
We all love you so much!! Thank you for sharing a glimpse into how your life is going. 🫶🏼
Hope you are feeling good and able to breathe Kalyn. Would like a suggestionen how to keep on when you are already struggling
I’ve been waiting for another vlog
And alas it is here
Oh my gosh! I totally agree with you!❤ I understand that circumstances happen and even all at once and days off and being late, however , it is all about how you treat people and communication and I would have been the same as you xx and I can’t believe when she asked for a second chance and then said can she think about it!🙈🙈🙈🙈that’s literally unbelievable xxx I totally agree with you and I would have been exactly the same xx sounds extremely frustrating and very upsetting xx and kudos to you for even thinking giving her a second chance! Xox❤
i woke up sicker than i had ever felt and called the mom i was a nanny for, and she (a DR) had a prescription for me waiting on my arrival and i showed up right when expected (7am). most will say "omg you came around the baby sick" but the mom needed me, and if she felt comfortable, i was going to do my responsibility. was it my hardest day babysitting? 100%. i cried as i threw up during the babies naps. but i still got the kitchen clean and the mom not only ordered me meds and brought them, but also gave me a huge bonus. communication is the key! no excuses. when you nanny, its because the family needs you desperately so they can do their job, so i know you will find willing and capable folks!:) ps:no baby did not get sick, found out it was food poisoning.
Ok wow you are a champion!!! I definitely would understand staying home in that condition. In fact I understand staying home in lots of different situations, it was just a lot of coincidences in such a short three weeks that my understanding wore out.
Girl, you're still crushing it. I'm so proud of you. We obviously don't know all the details of your former nanny, but I swear... let me say this, it's NOT every person from newer generations, but it's a lot. I cannot relate to the nanny experience, but at my job, we could barely keep any younger person on. Their excuses on late and not showing up seems to be some sort of trend, idk. We would have to get rid of them too. I see it at of other jobs or my friends tell me the same thing at their jobs too. Like I said, not every person from the younger generation is this way. But either way I'm so sorry.
at my job it's the opposite. the younger ones show up and the older ones are on constant month long absences. i think it depends which career it is.
I had the same experience only the other way around when I was in the process of being hired as an au pair (mind you, I live in Norway and was moving my whole life to England in order to work for this family). I had scheduled a Skype meeting with the mother to get stuff in order. I think we ended up having 5 meeting where she just didn't show, and messaged me after the fact (and I had taken time out of my busy schedule with work and studies to meet with her). No apologies, a lot of weird excuses. Loved the children, but communication with the mother was so awful that I decided to nokæt take the job. Luckily ended up with a great family in the end, and I still talk to them 7 year later! Hope your next nanny will be better at the coms♥️
Yay for more vlogs! 💙
I don’t have any children yet, but the thought of someone else besides me or my boyfriend watching our child is so scary. Every mother knows what’s best for their child. I’d be like the FBI with mine😂😂😂 Everything will work out the way it needs to❤️ you got it!
Saaaaame
You sound like you'd be a great mom!!
@@binababy113 aw thank you!❤️😌 I know i’ll give it my best.
I was a full-time nanny for 10 years with multiple families over the years & you gave her more than enough chances. I rarely rarely called out despite having so many different circumstances come up. One time I had to drive my roommate to a psych ward at 2am to stop her from harming herself & I still showed up the next morning at 7:30am to work because I knew how much it would screw up the parents schedules if I called out with that short of notice. Yes things happen & things come up but if she had that many things truly going on then she should have just said “Hey, I’m really sorry but I don’t think this job fits into my life right now. I took it on prematurely and have too much going on right now to show up consistently & focus, thank you for the opportunity but I need to give my notice.” Simple. And the other thing is that if someone is being that inconsistent with a job then they clearly don’t care enough about it because that’s also money that she’s missing out on so if she really needed the job or wanted it she would’ve still showed up so she could still be making money.
I wasn't a nanny, but I babysat 3 little girls for a year while I was in college. I would pick up the youngest 2 and pick up the eldest daughter from the neighbor's home. From about 3 to 5:30 I had them, I made sure they had snack, had clothes on for practice, and complete as much homework as possible before they had dinner. Whatever their parents needed, I did my best. I even had them during the summer from about 8 to 3 some days. If I ever needed off, I gave the couple a good few days to at least a week advance notice. It's crazy that people don't want to have the decency, especially when dealing with someone else's child to be somewhat professional.
Oh hun, I wish you lived in Minnesota I'd nanny for you! As a mom myself and former nanny that kind of behavior is just 😩 why!? Why waste people's time like that AND mess with peoples sense of trust with letting people into their family circle. I'm so sorry you went through that.
So two things, 1. I was a full time nanny and I NEVER EVER would miss one single day. I did their laundry, grocery shopped and cooked dinner for the whole family and was getting paid 15 dollars an hour. This was in 2020. If I needed to miss one day I would give two weeks notice. Second, I had my 8 month old baby boy Ezra in September around when you had your baby Easton. I also have a business and I work from home. Someone watching your baby is the most important job in the entire world. My mom watches my baby, but truly can be so stressful if you don't have consistency. You deserve MUCH better from a nanny! Good luck with everything.