What the hell is going on with men?
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The Red Pill movement or the Manosphere has grown massively in popularity over the last few years with figures like Andrew Tate, Just Pearly Things, and Justin Waller getting millions of views with their controversial opinions. But is the type of masculinity they are touting good for men?
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"A good woman is hard to find, and worth more than diamonds..."
-The book of Proverbs
Teaching my son early and often to pay respect to those who give us the gift of life, and for him to look for a strong woman that in turn will make him stronger.
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I do believe in chivalry but Dave Chappelle said it best: Chivalry is dead and women killed it. A lot of what you say is actually part of the Red Pill. I am not Red Pill but it has been useful because I am also no longer a Simp :)
Fyi Andrew Tate agrees with 99% of what you say in this video. Top G is an online character, an inside joke who we laugh with.
Well… first off no men are not going to obediently serve women on general principle lol. Honestly most men just don’t want to play this absurd game that is why most have just checked out of relationships. There is no upside to marriage and relationships given the nonsense ideology that most modern women have adopted. Men can be happy with very little. Give a man a garage, some projects,adequate tooling, a shelf full of books, a bbq pit,peace and quiet we are cool. Women on the other hand need well a lot lol Well, good luck ladies we got stuff to do
@Baggage Claim
I'm going to repost this here, in hopes that maybe you see it, cause while I agree with most of your takes in videos, this one is off by a country mile.
The main flaw in your video is that you don't address how the laws screw over men, even when they're innocent like Johnny Depp, Justin Roiland, and so many others falsely MeToo'ed, and how women can ruin a man's life in an instant. No, it's "not all women," but the fact that it only takes one of them, is the problem. And frankly, if women were at risk of being r*ped as much as men are of being falsely accused of s*xual misconduct, they too wouldn't want to be in a relationship either. None of this even gets into how AWFUL modern Western women are, how insane their standards are for modern men to where only the top 5% of guys can even qualify for some narcissistic Plain Jane, or how Passport Bros have exploded as of late (which I'd technically qualify for, being an American teaching in Asia.)
Also, this whole "women should accept it if a man cheats on her" is such BS that I have literally NEVER heard any man say before. I seriously don't know who keeps making up this lie of this being some kind of "red pill quote." You also use terms like "this whole community" implying the red pill is personified in some ridiculous grifter like Andrew Tate, while also dismissing the very issues you just brought up with men's suffering. As in, "con artists like Andrew Tate and Pearl Davis exist, therefore, the entire movement can be dismissed and invalidated and has no legitimacy." Which is frankly, a terrible and sh*tty argument.
This all dismisses the 99.9% of men who aren't like Andrew Tate, who still feel lonely and unappreciated, as well, only adding more gasoline to the fire by dismissing men's problems and suffering and implying it's merely their own "negative attitude, which is the problem" as if that came first. Also, your solution basically boils down to "Men will be happy be serving women," regardless if she's a lady worthy of chivalry or not. Which no, as a man, I completely reject.
In short: the red pill is not just douchebaggery and actual misogyny from Andrew Tate and to imply it is, is a weak argument. Most of the red pill is about not focusing on romantic relationships at all (MGTOW) rather than Tate-level misogyny.
As someone who is under six feet tall and considered near universally physically unattractive by straight women, I too know what it's like to have been crapped on so much by modern women who'd offer next-to-nothing in return in a relationship, that I have become red-pilled because it's inevitable. While I DON'T hate women and haven't given up hope on all women, I know the chances of finding genuine love from a woman who isn't a soul-sucking leech and would actually like me for me (a less-than-perfect, 180 cm manlet, physically-unattractive man that I am and willing to admit, despite all inner qualities) is about 1 in 16 billion, at the very least. So maybe there's some unicorn there for me in the infinite multiverse, but for now, I'm just focused on myself, since statistically, a woman is more likely to decrease my happiness in the current era. Until things can change, this is just the way it's gonna be.
"bring back the sacredness of the relationship between men and women..." Perfect rallying cry for our culture's next steps
A little long winded but I’m here for it haha
Honestly, I don't know it was sacred before.
How you do that, when morality is based on nothing more than …how you feel
There’s *nothing* sacred about relationships. It’s just humans wanting to breed
Go to church if you want this.
I have never felt that cheating was a "masculine" thing to do. It's a sign of being too weak to control your desires. Never cheated on any girl I have been with my entire life.
Also mathematically. If men cheat and women dont, who are they cheating with? Each other?
@p382742937423y4 good one.😂
I think it's crazy to expect your partner to be ok with getting cheated on no matter who you are
Crazy is as crazy does
Yep, this. If you wanna swing around you should be committing to anyone in the first place.
You know back in my day, toxic masculinity or toxic femininity was just lumped in with being evil.
I can sense how fucked up I would have been without my father. He mediated, he made me laugh, he taught me reason, he showed interest in everything I did. I had a female dominated environment as a child so without him I would have been alone, shunned and misunderstood so much that I wouldn’t have been able to handle it.
We can champion equality and tolerate gender imbalance as adults all we like, but kids? They need one of their own.
Sadly most people probably have a female dominated environment growing up, men are discouraged from joining and sometimes even discriminated against in early childhood education and even primary/elementary level eduction. "They lack a mother's touch" is the warped justification.
i agree, my Dad was very often absent when i was a kid, and most of my current psychological struggles are due to this absence, and my Mom's consequent deep feeling of insecurity. At some point he came back, and things got so much better, peacefull and secure for everyone. But i was already a teenager then, and i think most of the harm was made between 3 and 8, and probably before but i can't remember.
@@Sam-uz4iyIndeed, this is exactly how I ended up as a grateful male-attracted post-op transsexual ✅
@@Sam-uz4iyWomen wouldn't even let males have BOY SCOUTS. They HAD to force their way in.
It was NEVER about equality.
My father, of the intellectual type, was pretty much absent, still there at times, but my brother and I never seemed to be that important.
It made me look for masculine men who would show strong love for me (the opposite of my father). But I often made wrong choices for not choosing men who would really value me or that I chose myself.
The answer is monogamy.
You don’t have to get married at 18, but have respect for the person you’re with and self respect for yourself enough to understand that empty sex with strangers isn’t going to do anything good for you.
But women line up for it anyways. Id argue women are the more sexually devious gender because it excites them more and they want to be
True.
And that's what they want to destroy: Marriage and Family
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You know every time I comment on a woman content creators video about masculinity, I advocate for men to get their passports, because 1 they have no obligation to save a community that demonizes them and 2 there are cultures out there that still appreciate men, so since they want to delete my comment I'm gonna send it out as much as possible so the message is clear, MEN GET YOUR PASSPORTS SO YOU CAN FIND LOVE AND BUILD A STRONG,HEALTHY, LOVING FAMILY AND COMMUNITY.
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Healthy masculinity: a man that respects himself and what he does, and his WIFE admires him and feels treasured, loved and protected by him.
No such thing as
I was going to say healthy masculinity channels a man's competitiveness and physicality into productiveness and honor, and eventually someone who instills those values into his family and community.
Why is this masculinity though? Shouldn't a woman also respect herself and what she does? And shouldn't her husband admire and feel treasured, loved and protected by her? (Protection need not only be physical but also emotional support, which both men and women generally need).
It’s masculinity when applied to men and the same things largely translate to femininity when applied to women. It’s the complimentary roles played by each and the differences of how they are expressed in a healthy masculine/feminine way.
There is no patriarchy unless a patriarchy is defined by only men being drafted, accounting for 90% of deaths at work and %80 of suicides.
With women accounting for 80% of purchases.
Being equal doesn't mean being the same.
Feminism did not destroy any form of patriarchy. It created that as a distraction so feminism could give women their marching orders. Think of the Wizard of Oz going, "Pay no attention to that man behind the curtain."
That system was created by men. You complain about a system your gender created
As Jordan Peterson said (whether you agree or not with his views), this 4w feminism attack on men had two consequences: weak men who will submit due to their sexual intercourse cravings, loneliness and desperation, and weak men who let their Jung's shadow overtake their life, becoming this evil, narcissistic, charismatic guy who conceive women as a tool rather than a person.
Perfect example being Andrew Tate.
Well said (jordan).
The first point about men being weakend by their sexual cravings is so prevelant these days.
You see a little bit of a thirst trap post on social media and its swarmed by horny simps.
Men need to realise that being an addict to your sexual desires isnt normal. Men didnt achieve the things they have throughout history by being this way.
Sex was a reward, not an obsession.
@Datwaifu
Or... How about men who aren't weak and just tired of being shit-on by modern women and told they have to be some impossible standard of perfection in order to "impress" someone who doesn't even have her own life together, let alone looks or a loving caring heart for you? I'm not even MGTOW, but if a man isn't seriously doubting getting in a relationship nowadays with how bad modern Western women are, then he's either a fool/simp like you implied, part of the 5% "Chads," or an option three: Just sick of all the BS and not willing to emasculate himself anymore for a society that doesn't respect him anymore. Doesn't have to be either extreme of being a feminist soyboy or Tate cultist.
@@DLC1990Id argue that men and women are both equally weak to sex. Women are laying down for casual sex the most and willingly line up for it over and over. Why? Because they desire to sleep with the most physically attractive man too
When both genders can discipline sex, to be able to wait until they have a meaningful relationship built then that is when people will start feeling better about themselves because the sex is earned
While it is true Andrew built a lot of his money off of women through cam business, he doesnt see them as any less. Any of Andrews female associates will speak very highly of how protective and prodviding he is
And Andrew Tate only became prominent because the Feminists and other Leftists maligned his perfectly reasonable views as "N×zism" and "sexism." The only two options after that were give up or become more extreme.
It’s like anything in life. You go too far in either direction("left" or "right") and you just find utter stupidity.
The thing is, even the Leftists tacitly admit that THEY start the stupidity FIRST.
They always malign "the Right" as "reactionary." You can't "react" to the status quo, only to changes.
Men are only doing this as an adaptation to the behaviors women act as if they want...it wasn't men who started the "Sexual Revolution," burned their bras, and started taking the pill so they could sleep with everyone without consequence.
Big facts. I find modern feminism to be insanely frustrating but it’s just as irksome that people clap for a moron like Andrew Tate when pushing back.
What would middle ground be? Perfect alignment between left and right - does utter stupidity cancel itself out or just remain utter stupidity regardless? 🤷🏻
@@leetimmins6817 My preference is a little right of center but honestly anything near the center is workable and reasonable.
Utter stupidity is utter stupidity. Having it come from both ends in this kind of action/reaction doesn’t cancel each other out, if anything it causes an exponentially greater amount of utter stupidity.
Yeah and as a guy in his mid 30s I look at the modern dating landscape and I just shake my head. I don’t blame people for not dating
A chivalrous gentleman is the golden middle between the two types of men we see nowadays: the domesticated house cat, and the polyamorous thug. To me this signifies that as a society, we had already discovered the best type of masculinity (the gentleman), but since every generation needs to change things just for the sake of it, we had to make a change for the worse
Apart from everything else, I'm just so so so so glad to have found another human being who understands the difference between LESS and LESSER. Good on you, Baggage Claim!!
Haha fellow grammar enthusiast! Welcome.
Human bean
The worst part is feminism grafting in men in dress up as real women and allowing them to speak on behalf of women.
And now we see how bad it is with trans(formers) infiltrating every aspect of women's circle like sports
The worst, and pretty much only purpose of feminism was to brainwash women into hating men, and to treat purity, marriage and children like slavery.
The last thing I want is to spread hate to people with gender dysmorphia but women are losing their voice to men playing feminine characters.
One of the most popular transgender creators transitioned to female and is now taking sponors from top makeup and designer brands which previously went to women.
That person is also being a spokesperson for womens rights and what they want/need THIS PERSON CANT BARE A CHILD AND IS TALKING ABOUT ABORTION RIGHTS.
And the worst part for me is that before transitioning they acted "normal" but after their transition they put on this facade of being dainty and ditzy and giggly and its just weird and young girls eat up that persons content.
I want my daughters to have role models like Ellen Ripley and Ramirez from alien, Natiri from avatar, Mulan (the original not the concentration camp one), Leia from star wars etc
Hell my own university has 2 student representatives, one is a woman the other transitioned to female but is still very clearly a man. Guess what we were told?
The woman is running for the "open" position so anyone can vote for her. The transgender woman is running for the "closed" position and will represent woman and transgender people so only girls and transgender people can vote for them.....a representative for WOMEN and WOMENS ISSUES is being voted for by women and biological men/biological women who dont want to be women.....lets be realistic 99% of transgender people would vote for the transgender candidate for solidarity or progression etc. But that would mean a biological man was voted into power to decide whats best for women by people who are biologically not women. HOW IS THAT GOOD FOR WOMEN IN ANY WAY?
The trans people Ive met in person have been chill normal people and theyve been decent friends of mine but online they are mostly just as deluded as the far right n far left radicalists
But at the end of the day, although those people are my friends they are not women, Id never date them I have zero attraction to them, they dont experience what women do so they are not women, they can identify as female if they want I could care less but they are transgender women or transfem whatever. They shouldnt be the ones deciding whats best for women. If I decided today I could transition and work my way into a position of power for women and vote for things that would be bad for women. THAT IS NOT OKAY.
@@User-kq3od Who fucking cares about those sickos’ feelings? They’ve gotten away with their sick behaviours for too long. The days of tolerance and compassion are behind us.
That’s not feminism. That’s the trans movement. TWO very different things. Just cause feminism was hijacked by intersectional feminists doesn’t mean the Trans Ideology is feminism.
Fatherlessness left a huge hole in men that is being filled by either feminism or red pill. Both unhealthy extremes.
Not just fatherlessness, but the mainstream and popular culture of denigrating men and boys. Those grow up to be bad fathers.
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@@FannyAdamsGhost Good catch. Thank you.
Never in my life have I perceived chivalry as an offense to my strength as a woman. I love when men do things for me because they want to make me comfortable and I will never not love it. It’s a show of care, that’s what I’ve learned from my father, brother, grandparents and male friends. It has never been about condescension.
Exactly!!
But chivalry was initially a code of conduct among knights it was not an exclusive packaged present for women
Yeah but remember there are other extreme that women demand it. I personally practice kind evertone, but I don't like the "you should do it because she is woman" mentality.
Never say Never
Agree completely, Michelle, and I always look them in the eye, smile and say a sincere thank you when men gift me with these acts of consideration.
"Having that thing inside you doesn't make you a monster. Knowing when to let it out makes you a man"-Raven, Teen Titans.
Positive masculinity:
Aragorn, Legolas, Gimli and Sam
The noble selflessness of Aragorn that makes you want to fight for what you believe in and respect those around you.
The willingness to change from your own selfcontainted world views as Legolas did when he befriended Gimli son of Gloin
The adoration for a beautiful woman done in respect as Gimli did when he fell for the beauty of Galadriel and carried that love until the day he died without betraying his own worth and person
And the brotherhood and dedication Samwise Gamgee showed for Frodo, is what 'bros do', be a friend for your best friend, stand by them as they stumble, help them through their flawed mistakes and carry them if they are unable to continue.
Tolkien, showing me how to be a man without me ever realising it, in a healthy way
As a Tolkien fan, I 100% agree.
Exactly.
The fact that you used fictional characters as your example shows you have something wrong with your view on life.
@@MAGAMANThis video used fictional characters as well. And fictional characters are valid. Atticus Finch is fictional from To Kill A Mockingbird but is a positive example (in the first book). People constantly reference 1984 or Fahrenheit 451. Art imitates life.
Should they use a positive personal example that no one has any context on instead?
Sam the brave is the type of man i want to be.
But that's the main issue, how can you bring back "that" masculinity when modern women don't want to bring back "that" femininity?
Respect should go both ways, if a woman doesn't respect you OF COURSE you will be considered a simp if you are a "gentleman" with her.
Women want all that chivalry and respect BUT ALSO the to live that wild fun romantic life like in movies and shows
Just like getting the vote without being drafted, women want all the privileges and none of the responsibilities.
@@DeadlyPlatypus The draft isn't tied to voting, jury duty is.
@@lainiwakura1776 You misunderstand history. Militia service and voting ONLY became separated with the 19th Amendment.
@@DeadlyPlatypusand us men have oddly gone along with every demand thus far 😂❤
I don't get why people always use Andrew Tate when talking about the manosphere. The red pill has existed long before him and was spearheaded by people that were much more intelligent.
Chivalry was, from what my parents taught me, learning to be of service to others. To not be sellfish, like a boy. Be a man, meant you can take care of others and you know how to act in public. For some reason, younger cats think bring a "knight" is bad and a "troll" is good.
Men don't want to be of service to those that won't even acknowledge their efforts. Society has to *earn* good men.
I feel that one of my core duties as a father is to teach my son and foster his traditional masculinity, along with keeping my daughter off of Only Fans or worse. They are both young (9 & 12) but seem to be headed in the right direction so far. The wife and I talk about it regularly.
Boys are aggressive. I’d get him into something physical or something that allows him to unleash that aggression in a safe way. Girls are more emotional and thoughtful, recommend doing some crafts and reading. In my own experience as a parent and having been through many types of environments and knowing many different people, I can say that it’s never easy being a parent, but it is rewarding in the end when you raise them well and they grow up to be responsible, smart, and kind.
Isnt that a song by walker hayes? "Im just tryina keep my daughter off the pole & my sons outta jail" lol.
Fax over feelings
For every action there is an opposite reaction.
The pendulum is swinging back against wokery and 4w feminism, and it's coming in like a wrecking ball travelling at mach 3.
Perfectly said.
People need to stop acting like there's a significant difference between the "waves" of feminism. It's all the same, just with revamped marketing every few years.
One of the first feminist slogans was: "Votes for women, CHASTITY for men."
@@DeadlyPlatypus we gave women the vote, then they turned around and used it to pass prohibition and make beer illegal…..
All Waves Stunk 😂❤️
@@DeadlyPlatypus Underrated comment.
@@DeadlyPlatypus Yep. My grandma was a real strong woman. She grew up in the middle of WW2 and she absolutely HATED feminist. When I was younger I was kinda puzzled by this, but now I know that she was just ahead of the curve by several decades.
She saw right through their demands, their (thinly veiled) dislike for men and their narcissism.
So glad I'm in my 40s, I can't imagine how confusing it is. Even the so-called "hyper-masuline" men like Tate just look like awkward gay pornstars from where I'm standing. The mental health crisis with young men is heartbreaking.
“A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control.” -Jordan Peterson
He's correct on this. Also, your comments about chivalry are accurate. It's also much easier to be chivalrous towards some one who's humble and grateful for the kindness, than to some Boss B queen who demands to be treated like a princess.
Highly recommend the book ‘King, Warrior, Magician, Lover’. It outlines so many good examples of positive masculinity and is just generally a great and interesting book about this topic
I read this one based on the recommendations from a men's group I was in. I couldn't relate to any of the archetypes.
It seems like a good book for someone without a foundation or frame of any kind.
You are the business 😊😊😊. We DO need more civility between men & women.
I believe wholeheartedly my Grandmother said it best to me.
Mind you I grew up with a father who abandoned me, so prime real estate for these kinds of issues 😂.
She said, “A man will always define what a man is to himself. One may say ‘a Real man hunts’ and another says ‘a real man expresses emotions more’ it depends on their experiences usually. So I encourage you to firstly be someone who can live happily with himself, find balance and peace in his behaviors, and above all is someone you are proud to be around others and for decades to come.
Then whomever that man is, will be the kind of ‘Real man’ you are.”
And I really really like that way of putting it.
No forcing a mold or box. No verbal abuse about being a guy. No being put down for not being a stereotypical guy.
But just reminding a younger me to grow into someone that I’ll be at peace with and proud of. To be a version of me that makes me happiest.
And that that, is my version of being a Real Man and that’s okay.
Edit: Why this edit even has to be said is beyond me, but okay I guess guys are misunderstanding? She basically told me to let myself define what a man is and not anyone else. To at the very least have that man be someone I’m proud to be, am happy with, and brings peace and balance to my soul.
How some guys are having issues with that is beyond me? Just let me be the man I am.
Yeah but that means a real man is literally anything you decide on a whim. Thats basically nothing.
@@heyarnold7256You didn’t read to comprehend what was said then. 🤷♂️
Be a man that makes yourself happy, that finds balance within himself, that finds peace within himself, and that you can be proud of at the end of the day when around others and in the future.
I interpreted that to mean Be a good person, work on your pitfalls, be mentally well enough to find internal peace, and work towards the betterment of your community because that’s how the people around you get proud of you.
You have a very negative viewing of it in a “I’m being a contrarian” kind of vibe. Most people would have taken it as “Focus on developing into a better person rather than on what makes a ‘real man’ “ and you somehow made it “Change who you are on a whim” 🤷♂️ idk man. Seems like a bad mentality.
That's amazing. Feminism made me into a (happier) male-attracted post-op transsexual and i know that with a Grandmother or figure like that I'd be mentally healthier
I respect where you are coming from, but Absolutely Not, because it's NOT "how he feels", it's "what is his nature", the need to be a man is as biologically and mentally strong as a woman's body wanting to get pregnant, and life is designed to forcing us to be that man not suiting his wimps. Visions, self-definitions cannot be in conflict with what man's masculinity demand from him, and vice versa for women. It's not a stereotype designed by humans, it's a fact of existence, we also don't function on constant "happiness" and peace, we need a struggle, a challenge, a fight to feel fulfilled. You have the pain of birth; we have and need the pain of a "fight."
@@bahaadeenal-ees1488 You demonstrably misunderstood where I was coming from and the point made.
So with respect? Keep your opinion to yourself because it made you seem like a jackwagon to me and I don’t like people like that. 🤷♂️
Let me be the man I wish to be and don’t try to think you get to tell me what that means. Simple.
I mean hell.
You even assumed I WAS A WOMAN towards the end there. That tells me you don’t even speak English as a first language. So if you can’t understand what I am saying with proper comprehension then again, don’t even offer an opinion telling me I’m just flat out wrong. No body appreciates that.
Judging by name, I can even assume we don’t even come from the same base culture so we are going to have incredibly different perspectives on this from how we were raised.
So again, this comment was not appreciated.
One thing that impresses me is that a few days ago I saw people comparing Harry Stales dressing "like a woman" with other celebrities like the Beatles, Queens in that Break Free video or even David Bowie. And asking why it bothered people now. And well, it's not a question of disturbing, but how woke culture distorts all of this. Yes, these humons wore women's clothing sometimes, but not as a gender identity or anything like that, much less to break the taboo, it was more like a "performance". And men who don't conform or don't recognize this apparent "fashion" nowadays (wearing more "feminine" clothes, makeup, etc.) are accused of "toxic/fragile masculinity".
It's a toxic positivity, as if people insist that men need to be more feminine or sutff, so as not to have "toxic masculinity". This is ridiculous. Society does have sexism against men, but people didn't talk about it
People complained, but they were called extremists by the radical leftists so the uniformed moderates did nothing. Leading to the crisis we have now.
I'm hoping this is all a fad.
You’re not seriously trying to convince yourself and others that men would wear jeans and a top get bullied more than men who break the status quo, come on be for real 😂
Im a woman and I can't understate how important men are in society! It makes me sick how much society is attacking men right now, it's not masculinity that's toxic, it's the lack of real masculinity (chivalrous, self-sacrificing, protective, responsible etc.) I have a son and I tell him all the time how important he is in society and how important he is in the family! Men, you guys are awesome!! Don't listen to the garbage, there are countless women out there who love and value you!
I would disagree with countless unless we actually provide something then we are loved
But thats part of the redpill. Is men understanding that we bear the burden of performance and providing and thats why love for us is conditional
So in that vein, can women provide what men ask for? Thats really what all the manosphere says
Where?
This was good to read - thank you
Im grateful you feel that way though as a happy hippie male-attracted post-op mtf trXnny i really am not sure about "countless" 🤔 TBH i see a massive difference between rural & urban women, and urbanites far far outnumber ruralites.
Ive always been chivalrous and self sacrificing and responsible and have spoken out dozens of times about women's safety in sports and changerooms etc; most of the pushback comes from women who call me a transphobe lol. NOTHING can please a majority of modern women
Yeah it's nice of you to say all that. But it's quite another to put it in perspective. Countless women might value men as a whole. They might even value a specific man for what he can do, or how he treats people, but I guarantee that the average man is still unsuccessful where it counts, regardless of how many medals, degrees, or practical achievements he has.
This is what happens when people push things too far. Balance is gone forever.
Not forever but a lot of damage has been done. It will take a looot of time to recalibrate.
And now we don't seem like moving in a good direction.
@@arminxvs3372it's only gonna get worse from now on
This makes me so sad I want to cry because my first thought is that chivalry is never coming back, but then I think of my 12 year old son and what a kind, thoughtful, considerate lad he is and I can almost dare to hope.
Thank you, for continuing to voice your logical, balanced, objectively fair perspective on sensitive issues. I hold doors for my male friends & women for them same reason: respect & consideration, not because I fear they're incapable of using the door themselves. And I look forward to your video on positive femininity.
Thank you
Agreed; holding the door for others was taught to us (both men and women) just as basic manners, it’s so estranging to me that someone could think of this as offensive lol. I’m glad it’s still the norm where i’m from, i never personally witnessed anyone say otherwise.
When society goes after men for existing, and so many family units are broken, is it so shocking our kids, or even our current adults are so weak in character?
No. It's what Engels and Marx wanted. They believed this was the road to the communist revolution.
You know every time I comment on a woman content creators video about masculinity, I advocate for men to get their passports, because 1 they have no obligation to save a community that demonizes them and 2 there are cultures out there that still appreciate men, so since they want to delete my comment I'm gonna send it out as much as possible so the message is clear, MEN GET YOUR PASSPORTS SO YOU CAN FIND LOVE AND BUILD A STRONG,HEALTHY, LOVING FAMILY AND COMMUNITY.
So many family units are broken because men break them.
@@wft15 Women break FAR more than men. Take your unfounded sexist garbage somewhere else.
@@wft15 that’s a stupid fucking statement
It’s literally a meme of women getting mad at men for problems women create “I cheated on you because you didn’t take me out to dinner!” Type shit
Broken family units, barring any data that we probably don’t have, are a universal problem caused by both, the point is these people have no father figures (because women win 90% of custody battles because the judicial system is biased towards women, in some places like the UK it’s built into their laws) to teach them how to act
Manlyness is being erased, men defending woman from attackers is turning illegal because the attacker get hurt, we are being shamed left right and center in all medias and either the perception of inspiring legends, like the recent Napoleon movie or the common people in other places. It can't all be a coincidence
Stop being a b*tch, only real men get through it. The media won’t hurt my feelings
To he fair napoleon's relationship was about as fucked as it is in the film
@@anotherhappylanding4746 Napoleon was a man held in such regard by his soldiers that he raised an army when he came out of the exile imposed by the french government and took the country back to himself. In the movie he behaves like a 5 year old when his mom tell him she won't buy the candy he picked from the shelf
@@brothatisfunny I know the history
You know every time I comment on a woman content creators video about masculinity, I advocate for men to get their passports, because 1 they have no obligation to save a community that demonizes them and 2 there are cultures out there that still appreciate men, so since they want to delete my comment I'm gonna send it out as much as possible so the message is clear, MEN GET YOUR PASSPORTS SO YOU CAN FIND LOVE AND BUILD A STRONG,HEALTHY, LOVING FAMILY AND COMMUNITY.
It's a trade-off - if women want chivalrous masculinity from men, then men should expect courtly femininity from women.
My friend and I were just discussing this exact topic yesterday. We were primarily talking about how Andrew Tate isn’t the solution for the woes of men. He’s mentioning a lot of the common known problems, but his solutions to them aren’t long-term viable. Your video very concisely explains why.
I don't think Andrew Tate could exist in a world where male role-models were common, and I think to some capacity we've made it socially unacceptable for men to aspire to those types of positions. Maybe it's my societal programing, but if a woman I don't know tells me, "I want to work with kids" I'll nod because it checks out, but if a man I don't know says, "I want to work with kids" I'll have a minimum of one followup question. We all have a dad, but men don't make up 50% of daycare workers and elementary school teachers, and most people would logically object to lowering the bar in order to bridge that gap, so where are these men teaching boys how to act like men supposed to materialize from? Some people have terrible fathers and need a different example. Also, one guy can't teach a kid everything. My dad is fantastic, but he didn't ever give me advice on women, so guess where I learned that from? My idiot friends, tv and the internet. Thank God Andrew Tate wasn't around, because I might have seen him and thought "I need to be more confident, and this is what confidence looks like." Although I can't think of a female equivalent to Andrew Tate who's out there telling women how to be better women, I feel like (and I could be very wrong about this, hear me out) those kinds of resources are more widely available to women; for example, in high school my girlfriend had Seventeen Magazine and I had skateboard catalogs. Maybe there was a 'Young Men's Health', but I never saw it behind all the Teen Cosmo's at the grocery store. She was casually learning how to become more socially acceptable, and I was casually learning which ball bearings were faster; I would imagine this phenomenon is much worse with the advent of TikTok. Now imagine you're in your 20's, you don't know how to interact with women you're interested in because you've been reading about skateboards, and you need some kind of teacher or a class to fill the holes in your knowledge... Well, Andrew Tate is right there for you, and he swears he'll teach you how to get so many women that YOU will be the one on the pedestal dishing out rejection next time. And if it's not Andrew Tate, it's some other opportunistic blowhard cashing in on the market of rudderless lonely men because these clowns will exist as long as we provide the conditions for them to thrive.
One interesting side-effect of the evolution of gender roles is that during covid all of my friends had babies, and a couple of dads I know became stay-at-home dads because hiring a nanny was either too expensive or there simply weren't any available-- which theoretically means the next generation will have stronger bonds with their fathers, and who knows, in 20-30 years maybe that will lead to more men in role model positions, and fewer Andrew Tates.
Tate is but a byproduct, a short term quick hit for a chronic condition.
@@moresnacksplease526I love your comment, it resonated a lot with me.
I have nothing to add of value to your story in normal words or solutions oriented manner, I only feel this raw energy of an idea - I wish skateboard magazines and resources on anything else a boy/a dude/a man can be into would go full esoteric and psy-op us in a good way. Hear me out - imagine you spend countless hours reading which bearings roll the fastest, which trucks turn the smoothest, how to setup bushings loose but without getting wheelbite all the time only to realize those were the metaphors for interactions in society all along😅 Sometimes it feels almost inevitable that we'd have to do that sht - with alphabet gang (not the government kind) howling like rabid dogs at the slightest hint of men not playing into and going along with their delusions
Society has been crumbling over the last hundred years. We are seeing the fruit of a society that casts off morality.
Exactly! Morals and character matter. People against this are creating a hotbed for criminal behavior.
PROBLEM MEN AND WOMAN SERIOUSLY
You know every time I comment on a woman content creators video about masculinity, I advocate for men to get their passports, because 1 they have no obligation to save a community that demonizes them and 2 there are cultures out there that still appreciate men, so since they want to delete my comment I'm gonna send it out as much as possible so the message is clear, MEN GET YOUR PASSPORTS SO YOU CAN FIND LOVE AND BUILD A STRONG,HEALTHY, LOVING FAMILY AND COMMUNITY.
We always have had problems and have always found solutions, and we will do it again. You have to trust our adaptability.
@@rexs.5188 yeah it's called gtfo of America
Great video!! I think we as a society should move past the question of "what is a good man?" or "what is a good woman?". We should instead ask ourselves: "What is the best that I can be? Both for myself and the world around me". And we should just respect and try to understand eachother.
That would take maturity, critical thinking and self reflection, all skills that not even music is allowed to teach anymore.
very well put 👏. It's not about genders at all. It's about being a good human. This should be given the first priority.
I recommend Lori Alexander’s books for womanhood. ‼️‼️‼️‼️
This is so helpful. In addition to chivalry, we need a revival of meekness - strength in its holster, knowing how and when to use all that masculine aggression for the good. Great video!
Exactly!!
Definitely ‼️‼️
I'm honestly shocked how many boys think that an adult man should live like a playboy/pimp. Completely motherless and fatherless behavior. Like the idea of being mature is alien to them.
There's a supply - demand going on about that though. It's just true that there's people for everybody. You can hate playboys/pimps/fvckboys but a lot of women still gravitate to those types of people. Same with filthy simps on OF thots.
Because it works.
I absolutely never comment on anything but I gotta say a girl you nailed it. I'm on the older side of my 30sAnd frankly threading this needle with masculinity and respect for women is not difficult because we were taught by our fathers how to behave. And we will teach our sons however all the boys and young men inBetween our fathers and ourselves definitely need to see this video
Another great and interesting video. I can never understand why there is so much objection to the middle ground. Mutual respect and appreciation should and can be on both sides. Maybe it's just peoples inability to compromise. Keep up the good work I love your videos.
Dehumanization and a sense of confirmation bias. Both groups create a Pigmalion Effect and become each other’s self fulfilled prophecies.
Don't you know? Anything less than submission is Haram.
Men will decide what is good for men. Not women. Not media. Not “entertainment”. Deal with it.
I wish women were allowed the same privilege, but whether you go men can’t seem to respect women as human beings and instead just see us as women incubators to control.
Nailed it in this video. One of your best.
I’m raising two teen girls and with social media, school, and friends it is very difficult to get them to think for themselves. Just teaching them that men and women have evolved with unique skills for specific roles triggers wide eyes and dropped jaws, like it’s a taboo subject. It’s so unbelievable and sad.
if they don't have brothers, its hard for them to imagine how much stronger men actually are. So many young women honestly never really realize how much stronger men are because they have never been presented with it in front of their faces, either with a father in the home or with brothers (post puberty).
The fact that men and women are different being so hard to swallow for modern brainwashed feminists is incredibly sad.
@@hengineer I know, i was actually shocked when i saw a bunch of stories and threads from various places, about how women were extremely surprised how much stronger men are.
can you tell me what part of evolution says women are better at vacuuming or washing dishes? or that men are better at driving? could you tell me what evolutionary trait caused this belief that women are for home and men for work? when will you admit you just hate women and enjoy putting them down to feel superior because deep down you know how weak you truly are? that's what's unbelievable and sad. Gender roles are human made and always changing, in Ancient Egypt, women worked and men tended to the home. In Sparta and Viking communities, women were respected as strong warriors, equal to a man. Gender roles existed to put everyone in a box and tell them it was their idea to go in it. Lots of women hate barbies and dresses and sparkles, lots of boys love them, yet gender roles dictate that as unnatural, yet they can't control what they don't like. Some girls aren't feminine and hate femininity, and forcing it on them makes them hate it more. I know this triggered wide eyes and a dropped jaw from you, since you think everything just comes perfectly packaged and preferences aren't a thing. Funny how your definition of making your daughters think for themselves is to push your world-views on them and simply tell them that they are inferior to men in every way, therefore they should worship them while the same men will treat your girls like dirt beneath their boot, and that is exactly what the roles you love so much say how men should treat them.
CS Lewis had an excellent essay on the subject of chivalry. Highly recommend watching it.
The main takeaway for me was that chivalry had a moderating effect on men: it taught rough men the importance of a soft touch and taught weak men the importance of a clenched fist.
"The sacredness of the relationship between men and women" is so aptly put because its origin is from God. It should come as no surprise to any of us that when we (as a society) turned our backs on Him, we inevitably turned our backs on each other.
Gods not real 🥱
One of the things this kind of video fails to properly state is that the manosphere doesn't say every single man deserves to be treated in the way described at around 3:30 in the video, it says if you are a man extremely wealthy with a very good physique and have your life set with a excelent job a home etc... then the women who surround this very particular kind of man should have the described requirements. This same people in the manosphere will tell other man who do not pocess those qualities that they should mostly ignore woman and work on themselves instead and mostly they don't even have the option of having women.
Today I watched as a man in a wheelchair struggled up a long ramp-way in the Mall. He was not far from the top when I seen him and damn it he struggled to the top. Chivalry was in abundance, by my inaction. If he started to roll back and was done, I'd have helped him. Chivalry isn't actions, holding doors open or giving up a chair. It's the intention, I wasn't looking to help someone who was weaker, or less than myself. I was looking to help, I could carry a little bit of the load because together we are better. When I hold the door open it's not disrespectful, When I carry the shopping bags or lift the bed as she wants to clean under it, it's not because I am better than a woman. It's because I want to be useful, carry the weight I can so we can be more, achieve more or work less. It's nice to be nice. It's terrifying as a man to be looked at as a threat or "weird" for simply being nice. I'm still nice, I've just learned to avoid eye contact and continue with my day. I can't change the world, I've adapted, yet inside, it's a lonely world.
I get this massive "I let them struggle because I'm sure of their triumphant overcome. but if the need be, I'm more than willing to help in a heartbeat" vibe from your story. It's the respect, specifically here - admiration too, and being nice because you are nice that makes your whole explanation click for me.
There's also a notion that you don't want to treat disabled people to your help too soon as to not have that be felt as flaunting your ability, or diminishing his. I'm not disabled, but for this argument - whenever I struggle with something that is within my reach, people rushing into helping me too soon might feel as an insult, as not believing in me at all. I think that's the angle I'm reading your story at
I remember when I told my family I wanted a man that believed in 50/50. I meant a man that wanted a family and cooked and wanted to do the family things too. That if I could miss work because our kids were sick so could he. I wanted the man that wanted to be an active part of the family. I wanted the Ruth Bader Ginsburg relationship she had with her husband. They were both lawyers and even though she went on to reach the top of their field he still was there and supported her emotional and helped with the meals or family things despite the fact that he remained an active lawyer too. Most people don't remember that. My family basically told me to enjoy being single.
Jordan Peterson has been saying this for years. It’s good to have another voice approaching the same issue from another angle and in a positive manner. I love your videos
Many women need to listen to Peterson without any prior bias. He's not putting one gender above another, he's trying to make society healthy and cooperative again
@@Discussion4Peace I meant 'also' in a positive manner. Sorry, I realized by your comment I may have left the impression she is being positive and he is not. I did not mean that. I meant that like him, she is approaching the discussion in a positive manner, because like Jordan this isn't about putting down one human over another. I agree 100% with you D4P and I appreciate your comment adding that clarification. Cheers
Incels are incredibly tragic. They just want to be with someone and get rejected over and over and over. Its honestly so easy to understand why they get bitter and resentful. They just want a human connection and intimacy. Its psychologically damaging to be rejected so much.
But its still imperative that they have hope, no matter how much rejection they face. Those people that rejected them werent for them... but someone out there is. If they give up, they'll miss them.
People hate incels it's the hip new game nowadays
Men got the right to vote, being subject to the draft. Women got the right to vote because they asked. Women already have equal rights, without the same responsibilities as men, creating entitlement in women. So when Pearl says "women shouldn't vote" that's why. Women have less skin in the game.
The draft wasn’t tied to voting never has been. It was actually created long after voting framework was established
@baggageclaim - I think you have the right idea. I've written a bit on Chivalry, and there are important parts I think you overlooked. First, chivalry was a system, with demands on both women and men. This was mostly to socially constrain our passions for a civilized society. It's not a one way street. The other half of chivalry was that it acknowledged the inherent DANGER of the the gentleman. A knight trained from childhood in combat, and carried impressive armaments. The elegant and lethal rapier got its name from espada ropera "sword of the robes" - the weapon of choice for the early modern gentleman. Victorian and Edwardian gentlemen were expected to lead from the front in war. Chivalry is not weakness, it's about being strong enough to not have to use it in order to receive respect.
I love the call out. The red pill stuff I've sometimes seen does go too far. But I'm so tired of left wing woke nonsense. We need to not be afraid to have real conversation about real roles. Looking forward to the next video!
How has it gone too far?
@@joashedwards7206 a lot of stuff nowadays is borderline misandry
@@gray3508 absolutely correct
@@gray3508 Not even borderline, it's pretty much blatant at this point.
united we stand , divided we fall
"Both are arguing for their gender's supremecy." 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I wonder how many men have just given up on dating and marriage. Comfortable living in quiet desperation.
I definitely haven’t given up but I have stopped pursuing for the time being. The juice just isn’t worth the squeeze at the moment, especially with the economy going to shit and demanding more focus on that front
Look at the marriage rates for a good idea.
It's called voluntary celibate - they choose not to play the game because it's not worth it. Some unplug altogether and others dip their feet in occasionally to scratch an itch.
yes! I was talking about this with my husband the other week! We are radicalizing both sides and pitting men and women against each other.
One of the best videos I’ve watched in a while which discusses the issue without being biased. The resolution you came up with is extremely satisfying.
This is why I watch your channel- you take such sweeping, inflamed topics, and distill the issues down to their essence in a coherent, articulate, concise way. We need more commentators like you!
My dad wasn’t perfect, but he was and still is a great patriarch of our family, and although he is a dominant person, his respect for my mum and his ability to provide and support all of us kids comes above all else for him.
I’m so glad I’ve been able to see their yin/yang dynamic where my dad leads but also trusts mum’s creative and intuitive strengths.
As a young woman I really hope we can shift toward a more productive, healthy, realistic and positive notion of masculinity. One that isn’t just trying to make men more like women, but one that celebrates all aspects of true masculinity like leadership and integrity. I would love to find a partner to build with but it honestly feels impossible these days.
It's not really complex - men are logical, if you give them a raw deal, they're not taking it. The juice is no longer worth the squeeze. A man that thinks you are worth it has no problem putting his life on the line for you - the modern woman sadly is not worth that anymore. Without reciprocal value, it's not worth a man's effort.
Well Said!
Chivalry is almost completely dead for good.
Nowadays when you offer a hand or something they shrug it off like: "I can do that myself. Thank you".
bravo to you for providing a well-rounded and comprehensive approach to such a chaotic subject right now 👏🏽✨
Fantastic breakdown. Thank you for being a voice in this space.
Men and women absolutely need each other. My husband and I are a good team because we are very good at different things. These things happen to be what the other partner is bad at. We both work full time, so that is equal but around the house we have different roles.
Me: cooking, cleaning, making sure all the bills are paid and outgoing (he doesn’t know how much/ many there are and just provides funds), all household and family admin, gifts for our families.
Him: DIY, decorating, gardening, internet and technology/appliance issues, carrying heavy stuff or opening things, protecting the household.
"Women need a man like a fish needs a bicycle and being a man is to be a Woman Oppressor"; that's how i ended up a happy-go-lucky male-attracted post-op transsexual 😂🎉
That's so well-put... Thank you for making this video. The world loves replacing one extreme with another, which just shows its immaturity as a whole. Balance is key.
Let's talk of chivalry when ladies actually behave like ladies.
Agreed
what's that supposed to mean?
I'm a cabin crew and lemme tell you: a few years back it was unheard of we would carry our bags up to stairs or open bus doors and climb ourselves out in heels, now you have to beg. "Can you please help me out?" "Would you take it please?" and most of the time we don't even bother and just take it ourselves or help each other out. That's where we are as a society. We taught men we don't need their help so they stopped. In return we stopped expecting it and learned we need to rely just on ourselves. It's sad.
I know it's not literally true of YOU specifically, but, the collection of women (mostly academic and celebrity) who seem to speak for all of you DID ask for exactly that. No, not asked, DEMANDED. They say it is insulting.
While social media is only a sliver of representation of the entire world, this part has (succesfully) tried to make it clear it is wrong to be chivalrous. The amount of "views" of men being shamed because they had the audacity to help made it that men started to fear being nice to women because there was a serious risk of damage to ones reputation.
Most practical example are what has happened in gyms where men are no longer helping women even when they are in precarious situations, just because they are afraid / conditioned into believing they are being set up to show the evils of being a man.
@@NeoN-PeoN Oh, I know this. Absolutely. What I try to do is to tell and encourage men that these woke feminists don't speak for most women. I have these conversations all the time. "Hey, thanks for helping me out with that bag, it's great that chivalry isn't dead." and what I hear back is usually "I don't offer help because I don't want to offend you... you know... feminism." or something in that vein.
@@hw5614 Social media and especially Tiktok is literally a plague on society. It skewed view on what is being polite, chivalrous, gentleman and just "nice" to being pushy, unwanted attention, offense and being rude. There is a major difference between "I can help you with the bag." and "Hey, sweetheart, give me the bag before you hurt yourself." Social media totally destroyed the difference and meaning between those.
I used to be happily eager to assist and have been demeaned so many times it must be a very mature woman for me to offer. As a male-attracted post-op mtf tr𝕏nny i have been demeaned enough since before kindergarten over being a non-girl ... if i ever get assisted deletion or delete myself, everyone will say it's because i was a trnny but it's really the relentless nonstop criticism
Women were asked to turn against their grandfathers, father, uncles, brothers, nephews, and even their own sons - and a high percentage of women said Yes!
"Children don't need fathers" is my favourite quote of theirs. Imagine raising your own son, telling him that he isn't needed! They are poison!
This is definitely how I ended up as a happier and grateful and male-attracted post-op transsexual
@@bigtomboyeit is really obnoxious and cringe inducing that you keep inserting yourself into the comment thread with announcements of your identity. No one here is interested. This is a conversation about men and what they’re going through. You are either trolling or blatantly attention-seeking and neither is working.
Definitely ‼️
It's alright if through circumstances you end up having to raise a child alone but pretending like it isn't better if the child has both parents is idiotic. Better for the child and for the parents who get to split responsibility rather than shoulder everything all by themself.
@@bigtomboye at this point knowing how women are, i wish i was gay.
I stumbled across your channel by way of Drinker’s Open Bar, and I’m SO glad I did! This is one of the most articulate, cohesive, well-thought-out discourses on the pitfalls of modern feminism that I’ve encountered on CZcams.
And more than that, you presented it in a way that is not inflammatory or hateful. THANK YOU for your grace and insight BC!
Chivalry is still alive in places like Mexico and other romantic (as in latin-root speaking) countries. Whether we are Latin American or European, we are taught to give our seat to a woman, especially if she is pregnant or older than us by any margin, to hold doors and even walk on the side of the street the traffic is flowing. Most places, where at least some form of Christian culture was prevalent, still hold to these chivalrous customs (caballeroso/gentlemanly)
Your videos are always a slam dunk on their topic. Hard to imagine anyone arguing aginst this
The absolute truth has been laid out in this video indicating the major problems of both sides.. Anyone who disagrees with anything she said is most definitely either a 4th wave woke feminist or a red-pilled brainwashed psycho..
I am 28, and have struggled with masculinity my whole life, and until recently I didn't even realize the problem.
Something I wish more women realized was just how hard it is to be a man. The loneliness, the lack of empathy, the absence of kindness and comfort. The inability to let go, and just let it out. To be yourself and be weak when you want to be. That saying "just be yourself, don't let the world tell you not to feel" doesn't make it any less disgusted with you when you are soft.
It takes a lot od cultivation to be effortlessly strong as men are expected to be. I was never taught that, and it caused me so much suffering.
The lack of empathy is a big one. I call it the "empathy" gap
I can relate
always SO excited to see one of your videos come out!!
I just hate on a divisive topic how one side will be like, "Well i believe i struggle more, so therefore your struggles dont matter"
It’s fine to want a return to chivalry. But what do women have to give up in exchange? Independence and hierarchy are mutually exclusive.
Why do women need to be independent? What is wrong with having someone you rely on?
@@sarakeeet that depends on who you're allowing to make that choice. Also what you're terrified of is what existed successfully for hundreds of years.
@@sarakeeet Independence and autonomy are not the same thing. Autonomy is self-rule, i.e. choosing for oneself. Independence comes from words meaning not relying on others for support. You can still make choices for yourself while being dependent on another person.
@@nobodyknowsforsurewhat existing for hundreds of years before was men oppressing women.
I know saying both sides are equally at fault makes one sound so fair and reasonable . But is it really. The so called toxic oppressive men put women and children first on lifeboats. What is the feminist equivalent ? I like Baggage Claim . She makes a lot of sense but I don't think we are going to solve the problem until we have the courage to speak the truth on where the fault lies.
Yes as a grateful male-attracted post-op mtf trXnny im 98% confident i was criticized into this mental disorder by feminists and this video def seems fence-sitty 🤔
I dislike Tate and avoid his content TBC but his kind of content seems quite new 🤔
Blaming all women won't solve this, tho. It just swings the pendulum back again. Stop worrying about what people think. Just be good and kind
@@destinyhntr that's false, responsibility is putting the blame where it should be regardless of it's yourself or others and setting things right where possible. I do expect some level of over reach from the pendulum swinging back but ultimately men have a tendency to get a fair outcome and balance the scales. I may not agree with _all_ of redpill but most of it, is accurate information that can be _easily_ tweaked based on your ideology. For instance if you believe in being honorable and wouldn't cheat, then you don't have to - 'exercising options' is not mandatory. Eat the meat and spit out the bones.
@@destinyhntr personally i blame feminists not women
@@bigtomboyeThe vast majority of western modern women are feminists or beneficiaries of feminism. That means the vast majority of women are to blame
If I could like this video a thousand times, I would. Brilliantly put.
Thank you!
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: *Kindness is the new punk.*
Male misbehavior is actually punished more severely. Men get 60% longer sentences than women for the same crimes.
Maybe the OP's point is that it's more socially acceptable for men to misbehave even though they're punished more severely.
Good video, and nice to hear someone who is not advising for one extreme or the other. Good relationships don't work if they only benefit one of the parties
@BaggageClaim Thank you SO much for making this video! This is an extremely important subject. I can't wait for the next video!
My nephew sent me a video the other day where girls/women kept saying boys/men meant nothing and were worth nothing. He asked why they kept saying that. I did reply explaining as best I could, having been a former feminist myself in my late teens.
My nephew has just turned 13yrs old. Your video has come at an opportune moment, I will be watching it with him when he comes to visit next Tuesday, so we can talk through it together.
I'm not a very articulate person, so having someone able to concisely get across these points is very valuable!
So thank you again Baggage Claim! ❤
For a society to thrive, it needs to have a strong sense of morality at its core, which ironically is deeply rooted in Religious, Conservative values.
Yes, that's right, the more we move away from God, the more messed up our values become and our current reality speaks for itself.
Sadly feminists have successfully framed Judeo Christianity as well as family values as The Patriarchy 😱🙉🙀
The root of chivalry isn't viewing women as weaker, the root of chivalry is manners by which a knight (chevalier) doesn't embarrass his lord in front of his noble guests. Its manners for the private soldier of a lord to not cause upset of people of higher status than him since he's going to have to interact with them while he's not doing the soldiering part of his job.
Yes, treatment of men and women differed but the whole point is to treat people as if they are higher than yourself because the root cause is literally how to deal with people higher than yourself.
On some parts I agree with you, especially with the extreme movements. However why is it so hard to recognize that every human being has feminine and masculine traits? Of course, we can find a tendency which often fits the social norms. You talk about sacredness, however it is a spiritual truth that all dualities are an illusion (which does not necessarily mean to disregard them).
What I find weird about chivalry is that women are portrayed as sacred as you say. But what about the sacredness, sensitivity and beauty of men? In a way men from the manosphere and incel culture have very toxic feminine traits like talking bad about other people‘s looks instead of having compassion or self-love. I strongly suggest that everyone, no matter their sex, should develope positive feminine and masculine traits.
And last but not least - your argumentation is a very hetero-normative one which… leaves a weird impression.
😢😢😢 the last one... I also didn't realize the dialogues change so much depending on the chapter. Great video, thank you!!
Thank you! It's refreshing to hear the sound of reason from time to time!
Always, ALWAYS hits it on the nail. Well said, well done.
Seemed kinda fence-sitty to me compared to other stuff she's done
For one, masculinity needs to lead. Plenty of boys arent being taught leadership skills or self confidence/esteem to set goals and achieve them.
Finally someone has said this. I realised this long ago but just didn't know how to convey it. You have beautifully explained it. Thank you
Excellent analysis! Excited for the next video.
Chivalry and Christianity is definitely needed in men lives to show how to truly be a man and leader to protect and care for women. Definitely need that masculinity in our society
Wow! as always, I'm impressed by how well thought out and balanced your opinion is. It's reassuring to know that I'm not alone in wanting to make the best of an imperfect situation. We can all make life more livable with some empathy and understanding.
My Dad taught me that being a man is not a superpower, it's a heavy responsibility that I have to carry out with courage and humility. We have lost track of this.
I usually don’t like to comment at all on anything social media, but I 10000% agree with you. I couldn’t not comment on this video.
I want encourage you on what you are doing. I’ve been watching your videos for a while and I like your content.
For context: I’m a young man from the Middle East and it breaks my heart to see everything deteriorate and drift away from the Truth, whether it’s in the West where a lot of people from my region may still look up to and want to follow, or whether the corruption is from within the region. Trust me, our region has unhealthy masculinity as well, it is a world crisis.
I’v been learning for a while to always understand all perspectives on an issue before I make a judgement and always try my best to find a common ground with people I may not agree with.
thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world 🙏🏽🙏🏽
God bless you!!
The West is alright, the real crisis is in the brain that falls for these fear mongering vids made to generate bucks for the creator
It's not only men that is on a slippery road, humanity is (not all but too many).
We need more of this content. A rational , balanced and centrist point of view. Unfortunately, nuance isn't easily digested by the fringe on either sides of the political spectrum and doesn't sell as fast. This is us as humans having to make peace with the greys rather than embracing black or white.
Gaddamn Manisha, you never dissapoint when it comes to crystal clear explanations of incredible complex societal issues. Please keep up these amazing videos and keep spreading your wisdo, here. I know a lot of people that benefit from it and even more should hear what you have to say.
great video!! absolutely agree with all of it. men and women need each other. we need to show love and respect to each other, neither sex degrading the other.
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