I cycled around in Mumbai with Kamiya Jani
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- čas přidán 1. 03. 2023
- Moving further in her journey to explore a city at night, Alisha finds a partner to share her craziness with. Kamiya Jani- the founder and CEO of @curlytalesdigital talks about her experience as a woman solo traveller and as a Mumbaikar. Later, the Nirbhaya Squad and the Mumbai Police join Alisha in the women's safety conversation and leave her with a thought.
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0- 0:50 Mumbai meri jaan
0:51- 1:34 Hello Kamiya
1:34- 2:31 Cycling in Powai is fun
2:31- 3:40 “Mumbai girls are half goons”
3:40- 4:30 Travelling solo as a girl
4:30- 5:58 Let’s walk?
5:58- 8:06 Patrolling with the Nirbhaya Squad
8:06- 9:40 City report card - Zábava
Im from Mumbai, born & bought up here.. At 12 midnight i met with an accident while i had just left from work. I suffered 3 major fractures, my brother was called by my colleagues.. While going to d hospital in a cab, i was seated next to the driver , my brother & 1 of my colleague were seated at the back seat. I was in immense pain & almost unconscious, thats when a man on his bike almost followed us & overtook our car & asked them where they were takin me & what happened to me. My brother answered she is my sis & met with an accident, so takin her to the hospital, he came to me & confirmed the same & then left.. Proud to be a Mumbaikar
That's how we should raise our men
@@poorchef1895he was a chad🗿
I'm born and brought up in Mumbai, and I think incorrect to claim entire Mumbai totally safe for women. It's about the area you are in. Areas like Powai, Mindspace are definitely safe, but Mumbai city has its share of shady areas where even men would feel unsafe.
Hello Siddhesh, thank you for pointing it out, do let us know which areas you are talking about? 2AM stories aims to be a social experiment that presents OUR experience and I believe that is what we have truly presented here.
@@hauterrfly how about in mira road,thane ?
@@hauterrfly you should do in mira raod kandivali
@@hauterrfly try Kurla , Mumbra , gowandi area
True. Mumbai may be safer than say Delhi. But part of the reason is because it is so crowded even at 2 am. The year round humid weather makes sure that staying indoors is not very comforting. The weather also makes a difference.
As a Mumbaikar, I feel extremely happy if women feel safe in my city. Hope one day, every citizen feels safe in our country.
Indeed
I am born and raised in Mumbai. I have travelled very late in the night and also early in the morning. From Airport to home. From home to work. For events, emergencies, late night birthday parties, get togethers and a lot of other random reasons. Never have I ever felt unsafe here! Kudos to people who try hard to keep this place safe for men and women alike ♥️
I have travelled alone in train at 2am at the age of 16 in 2002. At that time too it was safe. Never ever a thought came to my mind that I was unsafe!
Also want to mention the difference lies in the history of Delhi, once the capital of Mughals, such domination and patriarchy has creeped in most men, crossing the barrier of religion. Because culture is more influential than religion itself.
I do that now every weekend I’m 16 and never once have I felt even 1% unsafe or concerned literally not once has a thought about not being safe crossed my mind
Mumbai was able to be this beacasue of some high value police officers who are iconic for their decisions. Mumbai was known for underworld gang war like Dawood Ibrahim form late 1970s to 1980s till 1993 Bombay blasts even after this incidents city is still safe. Something which Delhi police always lack, even I heard one thing that Delhi police is also notorious for bribery.
Most people feel responsibility of the city as their own. Also lets not forget ShivSens shakha culture in mumbai, where you would get swift justice outside court. If authorities are not listening , you can always walk into any shakha for the help hence no eve-teasing out of fear of local people. Also Marathi woman's are strong headed in general.
what do you mean that Marathi women are strong headed? Marathi Culture and Marathi Men are extremely respectful towards women
Marathi women are strong because we grew up listening to stories of Shivaji Maharaj & his mother- Jijau.
@@mangopudding5979 also, Marathi women won't take nonsense from anyone and will give it back on the spot.. that's what I meant
@@gnxtpankaj very true, because Marathi women are considered equal to Marathi Men and treated with great respect by Marathi men. Marathi men also protect Marathi women or women in general with their lives.
I have North Indian ancestry n settled in Mumbai I agree that marathi girls are brave I have seen them beating eve teasers on the spot..and public joins them in public dhulai…Mumbai police is best and over all culture of this city is out of this world…
I’ve travelled so many times late night and hats off to mumbai police . They are everywhere. They’ll try to make sure that every girl on every street will feel safe . And at the same point men who intent to do some bad thing they get alert that police is nearby. We cannot do that . Plus the difference between delhi and mumbai is many people come to mumbai for work so they really dont have time for this shit 😅
in mumbai we are told to travel in gents compartment at night because it is much safer 😁
Haha my friend told me to travel in gents compartment in rush hour lol it becomes a battlefield in ladies coach
Yes true
@@kdjoshi726 it is very true😂
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i keep telling my sister that too and also its General compartment, not Gents. There is no such thing as Gents compartment, but maybe there should be.
Ah, the golden Uni days! Nights on Marine Drive with our cool mixed crew, partying till sunrise! We felt invincible, unaware of any danger lurking. But the memory of police and Taxi drivers checking on us, offering help or a ride, brings back warm feelings of safety and care of Mumbai. 🌟
I being a Mumbaikar can point out few reason …
1.law n order /Mumbai police
2.Maratha culture with ingrained empowerment for women (don’t mess with a marathi women else public dhulai is assured😂)
3.fortunately Mumbai doesn’t share border with haryana or Uttar Pradesh but delhi does share the border with all these states ,it is also close to Bihar n sadly some of the people from these states don’t abide by law( my parents migrated from Bihar to mumbai so me too have roots from Bihar but truth is truth😢)
4.there is something special about Mumbai..have anyone noticed it? A melting pot of culture ,highly diverse population, glamour,magical city living up to its name ‘sapno ka shahar’.here people mind their own business and abide by law largely..once u live in Mumbai for long , then other metro cities in india (also abroad as i m in abroad currently ) will feel pretty boring .
Great explanation 😊
It's actually good and bad both. Take local trains for example. Fights keep happening every now and then between regular people but most of the time people just say sorry to each other and move on. Like bruh they are already late for their work so they not gonna waste time fighting over petty things. And when they are going home from work, they are too tired to fight anyway. So most of mumbaikars just avoid fights. They have too much of responsibility on their shoulders.
Second from what I've experienced from my family, neighbourhood and other maharashtrians is that we abide law but not out of fear. We do it because of "log kya kahenge. Izzat chali jayegi agar police Ghar pe inquiry karne aayi toh". So most of us just abide law to avoid unnecessary troubles 😂😂
And majority of mainstream Mumbai is safe for women. Obviously if you go into the deeper parts and streets, then it gets dangerous but still.
Its becuz of local Marathi culture..marathas dont see women as sex objects
Correct ❤ Jai maharashtra 🚩🚩🚩
The policeman's opinion was not off putting. - in beginning itself Mumbai or in Maharashtra - there are no major restrictions. But when women do not consider the problems or evil part... it is the problem. Anyone who is telling you to mind your own step - is not always discouraging you.
While watching the video of Delhi i myself was disturbed but this video 'mumbai' made me a bit happy
Jai Maharashtra ❤️🔥
Jai Mumbai, Jai Maharashtra
Mumbai is safe, not because women are empowered, but because the men of that city make it safe. Enforcement of the law, and punishing unruly behavior is done only by men in every single society.
When you summed up your video, one very important aspect of Mumbai safety you missed which is the mind set of Mumbai men. Here majority of men have the mindset that women are equal to them and do not see them as objects. Thanks to their upbringing which teaches them to respect women indiviuality.
What police kaka said is 💯% correct!! We should always listen to our parents, how can that be off putting??
Trueee
It can be off putting because he said that even it is the girl's fault sometimes.
Main point missed in this video is there's always a police travelling in ladies compartment of local 9-10 pm onwards..
Mumbai is definitely safe i live in slums of Mumbai many Times i have stepped out in night with my husband and even alot of time travelled alone at night no worries i love Mumbai no place like it in India
Its the culture of the local people that makes it safe. In Mumbai you will not find any special treatment being given to women as they are equals.
Nice Video . Yes Mumbai is lot safe for women . Even the Rick , Taxi Drivers , they see woman with respect. 1 of incident may happen as it's a big city but otherwise , it's the safest city of India for woman .
The lines quoted by police kaka was a REALITY and not off putting as narrated by you...Parents play a vital role in our upbringing irrespective of whatever freedom we enjoy .
True. The cop says follow your parents' advice and that is offputting. I am amazed how shallow young people are now. The cop is talking sense.
If those parents are also teaching their sons to treat all genders equally respectfully and daughters to be more confident instead of fearful, sure.
thats what i thought he just said some simple thing
We should definitely listen to our parents but he also said that it is the girl's fault sometimes, and is def not acceptable.
@@newbiekhyberwokeness bro thats why she was saying like that. Ye channel kinda woke vibe kabhi kabhi deta ha ngl
Those words said by police at the end were not at all off putting girl....i support what he said ❤
Great episode!!
Increased my respect even more towards mumbai
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Loved what she said I think a city shld be safe like ek ladki ko kahi ana ho ya Jana ho to usko apni ghadi bar bar na dekhni pade ❤❤❤
A couple of months ago, I was riding back home with my cousin sister, Neha, at night. She sat in the back, head down, obviously tired. That's when I saw a 1090 car parallel to us, they were checking on us. I found it pretty funny back then. I said to Neha "oye, kisiko aisa lagega mai tujhe kidnap kar rha. Sarr upar kar" but with time I realized how unsafe it actually is out there.
Interesting to see victim blaming even among police "ladki ki bhi kabhi galti rahti hai" instead of saying "hum ladko ko koi manner sikhate hi nahi hai and they end up rap*ng and harassing women".
True. It is weird.
Sb parents ki glti h ldkio ko belan sikhaya naan chaku chlana nhi ldko ko awaragardi sikhai ghr p rehna nhji
Kyu ladki galat nahi ho sakti kya?
@@positivekumar3546 theek se padho
@@eri-zj8kr tum theek se samjho. Context/ Out of Context ye cheeze samajti hai kya tumhe?
That policeman was not saying this line about "rape" cases. He was saying That in certain cases girls are also at fault.
Satyug ki nahi he ladkiya....I support women rights but don't do it blindly
The city never sleeps❤
Whatever kamiya jani mam said is absolutely TRUE!!! I JUST LOVED THE EVERY SENTENCE SHE SAID. and yes we girls and women of Mumbai are fearless.. We don't have that feeling of fear and we are always ready to fight.. To make noise if anything wrong happens to us.. And yes also Mumbai is very fast city..and also the best!!! ❤you will have to be fast, if u wanna live in mumbai!
Loved that song Ae dil hai mushkil jina yaha.....
jara hatke jara bachke ye hai Mumbai meri Jaan❤
Mumbai mein abhi bhi cops ko dekh k first thought toh Fear hi hota hai, I dont think the first thought is Safety. And there have been incidents where these cops having found alone couples take bribes in the name of Morality.
When u asked that Cop about Women's Saftey, his first thought isnt about Mard ka Nazariya kaise badlein, or there needs to be better Education or Knowledgeable Campaigns amongst people of all classes.
Yes, compared to other cities in India, it maybe 'Safer' but not completely safe at all
Exactly, I was not shocked when the cop started blaming the dead victim. They be justifying terrible male behavior while blaming the victim.
@@talkingtochapri yes true
Its way more safe than other cities.
@@mangopudding5979Yeah I think vo jalrhi hai
I'm also from mumbai n it's safe very safe in mumbai n I proud of it
I miss my Mumbai ....powai Hiranandani ....Marine drive ...juhu ...local trains ...school....
Yes Mumbai Police are very friendly..after late night shift I usually chat with the Mumbai Police n many a times I shared Chai with them..
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Mumbai is safe because Mumbaikar mind there own business. Like literally here people do not have time to stare at anyone… i am not saying that there is no unsafe place. Yes there are but when you go in toooo extreme. The major part of mumbai is very safe.
Every working women trying to make money is a hustler. Mumbai has nothing to do with it. Ms. Kamya!!!!! Having said this Indeed Mumbai is safer.
When policemen said
Ladkiyon ki bhi galti hoti hai
.... Why you stopped it
Its show your double standard
Kyuki ladkiyan bhi ladko ka rape krti hai ya unko jhute ilzam me fasati hai it shows how stupid you are
Vo kehna chahata ki ladkiya parents ka nahi sunte isliye ladkiya bhi galat hai
When the policeman started saying , " Ladkiyo ki bhi galti hoti hai" you abruptly cut the video. Now thats double standards😊
No he was not sayin that roaming at night is wrong for women. Don't take him wrong. He was saying about a case where the parents restricted their daughter for a relationship. Mumbai might seem like a Western City to a lot of Indians but believe me it's people respect their culture and parents a lot. Mumbaikars are very down to earth. They have a helping nature
I am amazed you people came along way someone else would have gone missing till now you people have incredible luck
Yeh hai Mumbai meri Jaan. Jai Maharashtra ❤
we want one video without cam or with secreat cam like delhi tht will be like perfect comparison
Mumbai bahot safe hai depends areas to areas vo us me bhi same hai us ke State me bhi nights me safe feel nahi hota like robbery etc
Enjoy girls🧚🏻
Great content 🎉
Mumbai is safest among most cities. Period.
A narcist women....got triggered when police man advised to consider their parents suggestions...lol
Yes absolutely police officer was right. He was saying the truth. Why to get offended.
The good memories I have are all that moments that I have spent at night, out on the streets of my small town in Vikhroli or even the main Mumbai.
I remember one night the women in our building were feeling this urge to just go out on a long drive, so there we went with the car of one of Aunts and we spend almost the whole night out. Since I am a daughter of a policeman and they were the wives of other police uncles, we even got to use washrooms for the night at police station. But even if we weren't related in that kind I am damn.sure they would have let us use the washrooms anyways. We started our journey back from Marines, exploring VT and having icecreams, to back to our homes by around 4am lol. It was fun.
I want to visit Bombay because You know what my father had immense love for it because most of the time he spent there he is no more now. But one day i will come
Plz try Bangalore is it safe or not
There are many areas but less than all other areas in India where even men feels unsafe though low frequency of sreas but mostly overall it is safe
Very nice vedio Alisha
Congratulations hauterrfly Team
Thank you :)
I'am born in Mumbai and brought up in Mumbai yeah if u compare Mumbai to other cities yeah its safe but it doesn't mean that hole Mumbai is safe there are some particular parts which are safe if u go in kurla dadar mumbara kalva mira road and many more places are not safe for women there are bad people who stare females very badly make them uncomfortable harras them and do bad things yeah if u compare Mumbai to other cities yeah it's safe but not hole Mumbai its safe in some parts of Mumbai so yeah Mumbai is safe compare to other cities but it doesn't means it's totally safe criminals are still everywhere so yeah be safe and never panic and police is there 24/7 for our safety and to help us out ❤
Mumbai, Maharashtra ❤
I am proud of My Mumbai❤❤❤mai jab jab bahar gayi hu bakio ka nahi pata mrsth kbhi kch glt nahi hua Mumbai Me
I live in mumbai I feel so safe ❤
One of the safest cities ever :)
You visited the safest spots in Mumbai
Make this video on kolkata
7:15 Strongly disagree. For people commenting about the "offputting" statement: Parents ki baat maanni chahiye in general is fine but that's not the permanent solution. I think that's what she was trying to convey when she asked "kuch ajeeb nahi hai?" Obviously, the world isn't an ideal place where if we have some rights on paper it will be IRL too. So, as a precaution "for the time being", we can avoid being out late at night for our own safety which is not always possible. So, a more effective solution would be to raise your kids right, be it a girl or a boy. Jaise ki respectfully taking no for an answer, not using girl empowerment rights to abuse men and taking away from those who actually need those rights. And those that have already grown up, live and let live. It's very easy. Please try
It's a land of Chatrapati Shivaji Maharaj. No doubt it's safe for the women in Maharashtra.
Should be done in PUNE as well.... Just a test
Yes its definately Mumbai knows how to respect a women.
Want to know about Delhi and Kolkata
There should lights in the walkways.
Please try this in ghaziabad ncr..
Mumbai girls are queens
Have been all over India but trust those people wearing turbans. They are really helpful
I don't think any state in India is safe enough... U just have to explore those places.. U will know!
This is fine for a show. But my definition of feeling liberated is not venturing out at 2 am (man or woman), unless it is an emergency. Simple.
there should not be any concept of 2 am associated with emergency or unsafe.
Just being out at 2 am does not define being "liberated" In Mumbai people go out for dinners, movies, parties even work late at night. If you are not aware, street food stalls are OPEN till 3 or 4 am. restaurants till 2 am. People who work in export companies, movie industries work till 3 am and then go home in Public transport. Families, singles all love to take a walk or run at Marine Drive / Juhu Beach after midnight. its a matter of pride that none of them are concerned about safety. all this does not mean "Liberated" it means in Mumbai nobody needs to worry about what time they are out. be it for whatever reason emergency or not.
Abhi toh kurla, mumbra, govandi toh gayi nhi
I think that policemen want to say don't disconnect with your family , don't hide something .
Welcome to Mahratta Mumbai
Gajab
Thank you :)
Is there any video on Delhi??
Yehh czcams.com/video/sNUcUDmtckU/video.html
Nice
Thank you :)
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Because most of the Mumbaikars are native marathis & marathis have good mindset
Video Title should be Delhi in parallel universe 😂
It's maharashtra, nor delhi or ncr.
Hauterfly team also one video in Ahmedabad
cops are really friendly here. they dont pose themselves as a threat to common citizens. I have "friends" who are cops. one of them is such a nice guy, he brings me organic bananas and home made aam papad from his village home. he makes video calls from his village and introduces to his family and his plantations around his home. since I stay close to a police training camp in Mumbai, ive meet a lot of women who are wives of cops. such sweet women, they invite us over for Ganpati and Diwali. without a doubt Mumbai is the most friendly, safe and livable place on this planet.
Off putting ?? Mam, the police wala is right. Listen to your parents and keep them informed. If anything happens they are the first to rush to you. Don't take your parent's love for granted. My mom and dad shout at me whenever I'm late at night. But behind that, I know how much care is there. Let them shout, But I do inform them where I am, how I late I will be, with friends/colleagues, having party/whatever, etc.
You forgot About "KOLKATA". Which has been voted safest City of INDIA Numerous times.
Just avoid the Shady areas even guys avoid them at night.
Ant bhalah to sabh bhala
Jai maa kali 🙏🥺 peace' out😊
This is a personal opinion of ONE Mumbai cop doesn't mean remaining 10k police have same opinion
mumbai is safe
I love mumbai❤️🫶🏻
Main road mein ghumoge toh safe he rahega na. Andar jao, sunsaan gullyon mein jao. 😂
Come to Ahmedabad...abad bhi bohot safe place h girls k lie
Adding it to our list
Rajkot , Surat❤
PLEASE BE CAREFUL PLEASE BE SAFE KAMIYA JI AND ALISHA JI👍👍👍💪💪💪🐯🐯🐯👍💪💪🐯🐯👍👍👍💪💪🐯🐯👍👍💪
I stand strong with police parents ki baat manna restrictions nhi h as long as vo restrictions pdhai career s related n ho rhi bt kpdo ki toh i kmow kuch over conservative parents hote hnjo t shirt tk allow nhi krte pr y hr ghr m case nhi h sb jnte h rhi bt delhi ki toh mubaikers saying mumbai m bhi rape hote h n told 2 3 cases bro delhi , hr ghnte case ate h n true main reason up haryan bihar hi h i m born n brought in delhi ncr only i had male frnds who casually carry gun everywhere ( gurjars thy are) eve teasing n all is very common but i learnt one thing delhi k ladke ek acche male frnd ya male toh shyd nhi bn pate lekin ek ache bhai jrur hote h i had many gurjar jaat people as my muh bole bhai wse toh khud ldki chedte firte h vo lekin agr mne 2 bje bhi call krdia they all will com3 immediately n thts how i learnt to love in delhi delhi bhaichare p chlta h 1st of all when traveling alone have that rough n mean look also dony wear too girly outfits t shirt lowers r best along with sports shoes u might think kya bkwas krri h pr nhi try it out have that rough look with kada on ur wrist n thn go out in delhi u will be safe even on gb road lol second thing avoid dating n promote bhai chara here in ncr jitni source hogi tumhari utne safehoge tum
For people mentioning Thane , Powaii, Miraroad ,govandi blah blah . As a person born and lived in Mumbai city for 28 years ,i can say south Mumbai is extremely safe for womens .I cannot say the same for Thane which is not a part of mumbai nor the suburban regions which are Andheri ,Miraroad etc.
Mumbai for us is where there is no rickshaw!!!
Haha true that. Anything beyond the sea link is not Mumbai. 😂
I can assure North Mumbai is safe too! Though i live in Sobo too but my cllg and stuff were there and being an Architecture student i used to travel late at night just to finish the projects and same as Marine drive GoMaKaBo Andheri are also safe
Thane is in Navi Mumbai. Andheri, Bhayandar, Mira road etc are mumbai for us Navi Mumbaikars
Chattrapati Shivaji Maharaj ki Jai!!!🚩🚩🚩
police wala stonks 📈📈📈
Mumbai local trains at night are unsafe for womens and sometimes men aswell
Special bogie are available for women's
Mostly in women coach there is one police available at the night time
@@Saurabh____ you know what happened last recently in Mumbai, a young teen girl was sexually assaulted in a running local train at Harbour Line, today is 19th June 2023 , please Google
Mumbai looks and feels safe but it's not safe otherwise anywhere anytime.
A girl raped in a govt hostel near Marine Drive recently aswell.
@@tauhidshaikh4304 yes recently in the special bogie for women a girl was sexually assaulted in a running local train on harbour line
Mumbai feels safe, but it's not
@@parag1193Jhut kyu bolrho? Aisa kch hota to news me nahi ata kya
Simply its safe because it's the state of marathi people the birth place of shiv chatrapati ❤
How was the police kaka's advice off putting to you??
Is obeying to parents considered uncool now?
Hi
If you are matured enough, Police uncle was right
She was with an intention to defame Mumbai but she doesn't know she herself screwed up after seeing Mumbai