Ashley Cain stood at our baby’s grave and asked to have another child before getting woman pregnant
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- čas přidán 15. 12. 2023
- THE Real Full Monty’s Ashley Cain got another woman pregnant after standing at his daughter’s grave and asking her grieving mum Safiyya Vorajee: “Can we have another baby?”
The couple had discussed having a child together before they separated, while struggling with grief after losing Azaylia to cancer in April 2021.
Yet now Ashley has said he is having a baby boy next month with a friend he has known since he was 18.
It has shattered Safiyya’s dream of them having a family together.
In a heartbreaking interview with The Sun on Sunday, Safiyya, 36, says: “I don’t know why he would ask to have another baby with me knowing he’s sleeping with someone else.
“When he asked me, it was the moment I’d been waiting for.
"I sighed with relief that we could reunite and have a family again. It was at Azaylia’s garden, in front of our daughter, such a precious, safe space for us.
“He said, ‘I don’t want another baby with another woman’, and asked if we could have one together.
“I couldn’t speak, the tears were rolling down my face.
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She might not want to hear this but she's better off without him and not having his child. His inability to commit is obvious.
She'll meet someone and have a baby and have a loving family unit one day I can see it.
I mean not having another child with him. Whilst I'm sure he'd be a great dad she needs that loving partner too.
Why does he need to commit to her? Do you have any ex’s? If you do, should they commit to you? Just because they had Azalia together does not mean he is obligated to stay with her and can’t have children with anybody else. Ashley has found peace and has moved on. All I see here is an ex who isn’t over her ex relationship and is trying to guilt trip him. Sorry but move on and leave your ex alone.
@@Daniel-ps8wnwatch the damn video before commenting. HE said he wanted a baby with her then produced a baby with someone else weeks later.
@@BabyJellyfish how do you know he said those words?
Exactly she is better off without him
I can’t even begin to imagine the pain. Such a strong beautiful woman
Funnily enough, neither can I...
I'm trying *very hard,* to imagine the pain she says she's going through.
Beautiful? 😂😂😂 It’s a chav made of silicon! She looks like a rubber boat!
ive been through somethig similar...not a dead child ,bless her soul💔But a partner who agreed to another child, weeks before he left me for someone else...he had been seeing her for a year! Dear lord the pain of the deceit was all consuming....i.felt every bit of Safs pain..what an effin rat🐀
Any man that can't be loyal isn't worth having
All women have to be strong in life in the real world its worse in 3rd world country
Ive always said there was something about ashley that screamed "narcissist" saf deserves the absolute world! Even the fact he asked her to have another baby knowing full well he was just stringing her along! Saf absolutely loved ashley,shame he didnt feel the same! This woman is an absolute hero to so many women..even the fact ashley said in his statement saf congratulated him when it was a full on lie to make it look better for him! Azaylia would be so proud of you saf,so many people are behind you saf 🧡🧡
His behaviour of this goes back to ex on the beach. Don't get me wrong he was in pain and no doubt was a wonderful father however this action towards her is horrible and quiet disgusting asking to have another baby while you visiting there daughter resting place know he was going to be a father again to her Friend 😢
Tattle Life
@@bluey_mumwas going to say that when he was on ex on the beach he was not a nice person
You nailed it soon as I seen this interview narcissist came straight to mind. People like him don’t care who they hurt or how they destroy people. I feel pain for her but she is strong women and this will make her stronger x
I've never liked him , I'm really sorry he lost his gorgeous baby girl but I don't like him he seems arrogant, but it's bitter sweet for saf because her next beautiful baby will be a blessing but hopefully she will realise it will be with the right person
I’ve said it sinse day 1 it’s been all about him him him he is narcissist he kept saf holding on he’s disgusting this woman is one of a kind and deserved better ❤
Would you trust this woman then?
Is that what you're suggesting??
This is most men these days sadly
Why wouldnt you? @letsdiscussitoversometea8479
@@letsdiscussitoversometea8479 sorry but you sound hurt , go heal somewhere
Oh ffs shut up. You don't know either them and their personal conversations. Stick your nose out of it!
She’s always came across as too sweet for him.. I feel she supported and loved him out loud and he just didn’t seem there
Maybe he saw through her??
@@letsdiscussitoversometea8479 each to their own opinion, possible!
Hey uncle fester, see you in the fupa balls universe!!!!! It's far and wide like chatales grey knickers!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
@@user-eb9vi1md7s LMAOOO hi beautiful! Fancy seeing you here 😭💖😂
Fancy seeing you here, Funcle! 😅😘
What a complete RAT there was always something false about him. You are a completely strong beautiful woman who will thrive much love xxxx
Thats so horrible that he asked her that knowing he already was going to have baby but with her friend too that's stabbed 3 times in the heart on different levels
I agree. Some comments on her our terrible Some people haven't got a ❤
For real
They betrayed her
Wow so the woman he got pregnant is her friend??? 😮😮😮
@@Joshua-re3xw yes. But there not together as partners. That what I thought he said on Good morning britain. It will be on utube somewhere
I’ve always got bad vibes from him. He’s always used the death on his daughter to further his own image and fame.
Saf started the charity and then got her qualifications and started her business. Ashley is having photoshoots every other day and acting like he’s the king of the world. It’s been so bad to watch. I feel for Saf so much that she’s had to sit back and watch it all unfold.
I feel like he is soooo narcissistic!!!
To be fair though he is the star of that relationship . She was a wag . So he will have to photoshoots still . It's his Job .
Fair play to her for doing what she has .
They were both grieving .
So it might be where his head was at the time.
But don't doubt that he ever loved his little girl . They both did photoshoots together .
Is he an arse . ?Probably .
Wow you sound jealous...
I just wanna hug her 😢
And me..💯💝....What a monster..the other ...🧠less bird is no better👎
Poor woman... you deserve so much better 💓
Yeah and she will get better in her own time.
My heart goes out to this lady. You can see how broken she is, her heart is smashed in two, all over again ❤️🩹 x
Yes your so right. X
When he first announced this in a tv interview he said he congratulated him and was happy!!! And it didn’t sit right with me!! I always thought he was abit or a narcissist I don’t know why but when you have been with one you just see all the signs!!! I’m so glad she is now speaking out so honestly and it just makes us love her even more. A true honest woman I hope someday soon she receives all the love she has always put out ….she set the whole world this woman does. ❤
💯- I agree with everything that you’ve said 👌🏾xx
Where did you gain your degree in psychiatry ? Given you’re diagnosing personality disorders.
@@Mike-tb2wr "a bit of a narcissist" isn't diagnosing a personality disorder. There's a difference between saying someone seems narcissistic & calling them an actual narcissist.
@@a.s3523 oh I see how silly of me. You can now be diagnosed with a bit of a personality disorder. Can you point me to the latest clinical paper on the subject please. And accept my apologies for the faux pas.
@Mike-tb2wr Diagnosed with a bit of a personality disorder? Nobody here tried to do that though, so why are you trying to force it.
There's narcissism & then there's NPD, & making the observation that someone is/might be narcissistic is not (necessarily) the same as trying to diagnose them with NPD (although lots of misguided people do overuse the word & label people narcissists as if they have NPD because someone has displayed a couple or few problematic traits that may or may not all even be on that spectrum, or even just when someone has done one thing e.g. be selfish, those people might not even know that there's a difference between narcissism & NPD, but again, in this case you're just trying to force it).
I cried with her. I can't imagine what she is going through.
How he could do this & hurt her like this I will never understand
Ah yes - the woman with no tears when she begins crying...
@@letsdiscussitoversometea8479such an odd response, do you honestly expect her to have no emotion over this? Find a heart.
Wait till the baby is born and how the child is thrust into the spotlight. It’s all about money for Ashley. This new child is his new money maker. Hence the 48 paid interviews he’s done about the child thus far that isn’t even born yet
Because he’s selfish.
Exactly, and you don't need to understand this. It's not your relationship and neither of them are your personal friends. Stop sticking your beak in others business.
May God bless you and heal your heart . You’re just way too good for Ashley and God works in mysterious ways to give us what we deserve . I can tell you that you deserve to be a wife and be honoured and cherished by your husband . 😊
Absolutely xxx
This hurts so bad to see her in pain like that. God send her a man who’s going love and appreciate her and have another baby.
This poor woman!!!! Ashley should be ashamed of himself for not being more careful, knowing he’d asked Saf for another baby.
always felt like he made everything all about him and azaliah and how he was feeling.. seemed to cut saf out alot
Or mby she wanted to cut herself out? Don't believe everything you see on the telly or read in the papers🙄
@@isabelakatrina7385 wind it in jezable... i said i felt not that its fact...
This is what happens when women settle for less in a man, settle for less in a relationship. A man worth his salt will love you and treat you like a queen, will marry you, not just knock you up then move on to the next woman.
👏💯👍🙌
❤ Absolutely agree
He will receive his karma
Nothing to be embarrassed about, amazing lady.
My first child was stillborn in 2020. I haven’t even been through 1% what this amazing girl has been through. The thought of my son’s father having a child with another woman is enough to rip my heart out. You are an amazing woman safiyya. My heart is breaking for you
I'm so sorry for your loss 😢❤
Im glad she told her side....We all knew.....The silence spoke a thousand words. His is wrong for this. I hope she knows her daughter is sending her better.....because thats what she deserves. Her happy Will come
She is absolutely amazing ❤ such a beautiful lady. We live close by and our son was born on 10/08/2020 in the same hospital around the same time as azaliyah and I can’t imagine her pain. We light an extra candle every year❤ she deserves the earth and she will find someone that will give her that ❤
Omg the fact that she has gone through what she has with her beautiful daughter. Then to in quiet go through this with Ashley. Absolutely shocked. The strength she has without realising how strong she is. Beautiful Woman! ❤
Sounds like he strung her along for a long time in the belief that they would reunite and have a family again. Poor saf.
What a sad story, but you escaped a narcissist who will never live his full life. You’ll find happiness with a lovely man, love your natural self❤️❤️❤️
Oh saf 🥺 I'm so so sorry, I just want to give you a hug 💔
What an incredible, strong and beautiful woman! I pray she finds nothing but peace and happiness ❤
What a beautiful woman! She holds her self so well a true lady! The feelings the hurt and the pain she must feel from this news I can’t imagine how much this hurts. The betrayal. And the fact he’s not even in a relationship with this new girl must hurt even more! Knowing that could of been them welcoming a new baby into the world together no the new baby won’t replace there daughter but it would of given them strength to get up in the morning and a reason to smile again. I hope u eventually find peace saf I hope ur able to find abit of happiness and love again ❤
Hang on a sec, haven’t they been broken up like a year! I’m pretty sure saying he would like another baby with her at the time was an emotional thing to say where he probably hasn’t healed himself. Yeah he shouldnt of said it but things get said when you are hurting emotionally! Sounds like she is just really hurt that this child will not be with her so she has decided to go public to try and hurt him like she is hurting. Shame on the media for getting involved. This should not be aired in public.
This is heartbreaking ❤ she’s so strong I respect her so much for being kind with her words and respectful towards him even tho he doesn’t deserve it your a queen your strong and beautiful I wish you so much happiness in the future ❤
My heart goes out to her. The shock she must of been in to hear him doing an interview and saying she was happy for him.
I always thought he was off, I'm so sorry for you great, heartbreaking loss. I hope you find healing. Sending you so much love. You are so strong and so beautiful 🙏🩷🩷
What a women ❤ you carry yourself so well. What a credit you are to your daughter. You will get your happy ending, and Azaylia will be with you the whole way. Sending you so much love xx
Grief does strange things to us all and none of us know what Ashley was going through. It’s a crazy time n I think none of us are at our best or our sanest in these moments. Im sorry for the pain of what they went through but it’s not up to us to judge ppl in their weakness moments. What a terrible tragedy ❤
Your a gorgeous caring and fantastic mummy to your little girl. You deserve so much better than how you have been treated. Coming from someone who was left for dead after being beaten 3 weeks after my son was born. I felt like my world had ended as I wanted the family unit so so bad but I now thank my lucky stars I was strong and walked away. It was hard and you don’t forget but if anyone can hurt someone mentally or physically and normalise it then I would say you have had a very lucky escape. You will find your happy when the time is right for you… I can’t speak for how Ashley is actually feeling. But he has a strange way of going about things. And how can having a baby with someone your not even with from the start be the right thing for all concerned. Take your time. Slow and steady wins the race. And never move backwards ( in never works ) always always keep moving forward. Followed your journey and I can only imagine how your feeling right now. But brighter days are coming. Much love darling xx
Man.. How could Ash do this Saf! She’s a lady she’s a champ! The world loves her!. So if he gets black lash that’s on him!. How are his do this to Safiyyah
Don't believe a word she's saying.
He has a right to his own happiness as does she I hope she heals but let him get on with his life
@@deirdreloughran8258 asking her for another child no strings attached is normal?
@@letsdiscussitoversometea8479 alrite ash 👍🏽
@deirdreloughran8258
Yes, let him continue to use his dead daughters name and unborn child for money by doing every interview possible, he's a disgusting man
She deserves so much better so sad such a strong lady ❤
😢 my heart goes out to you beautiful. Be strong and brave ❤️
Girl, you don’t have to “ Congratulate “ Ashley for nothing!! You’re better on your own and God will send that special person in your life who isnt a narcissist.
The very last sentence 💔 Prayers from the U.S.
It was always going to be a hard thing for either of them when the other one was expecting another baby. She was a beautiful baby. I hope they can both try and move on as best as they can. ❤❤❤
Breaks my heart for you 💔. One day, you will get what you deserve ❤️ x stay strong
Love ya saf 🩷 your a warrior, we all here following you & supporting you 💋💋 I feel ya pain watching this , please don’t feel embarrassed. You are such a beautiful women , you are strong . You are courageous 👊🏽 azaylia will be so proud of her mummy ❤️ it was so beautiful meeting you with my family at winter wonderland with your nephew ❤️ safiyya my husband is a spiritual medium I’m not sure how you feel about that but if you would like to reach out your more than welcome ❤️❤️ love & peace Xx
She should be grateful the awful man is out of her life
I have no idea who this woman is or who Ashley Cain is. But she seems so sincere and ao very upset and i want to send her all of my love. Seems like she has so mucn grief and hurt on top. Please, if you read this, please hang on and keep going.
And be proud of yourself for expressing this, you will help many people with your honesty ❤
You know Ashley probably watched this interview in anger, angry that she was truthful instead of protecting his image. This new child isn’t even born and he’s done every interview possible talking about the new baby and the health conditions they may have when born. He’s going to use this new child as a new money making opportunity. Sick man
Cashley Vain- the ultimate narcissist with NO RESPECT for women
My Heart goes out to you.
Ashley is a ghastly guy.
Such a strong woman i am praying that you get more happiness and Ashley gets his karma one day
I believe Ashley is a narcissist. She is much better off without him. So sorry she went through this.
I hope you find a real man that treats you how you deserve to be treated. So heartbreaking to see you like this. 😢
So sad for the both of them losing a child, He comes across like an attention seeker, although saying that, she seemed happy and jolly in the bullring yesterday with a different fella with her!
I’m so bloody sorry about this ..I have no words tbh 😢
Right from the beginning he seemed to only speak on his feelings. He never seemed to support Saff.
This was so obvious at azaylia’s funeral..
This should be private .
You both are allowed to move on and heal and also have other children .
Yes totally...but money makes the world go around so she may of had no choice financially.
He started this by selling his story several times over and speaking for her. She's allowed a right to reply
I think the point is that this bloke is a complete tool bag. Who dances at their kids funeral, I mean it’s abominable
That dope don’t stop telling the world about himself, it’s all about him in his mind
Exactly...They are both allowed to have kids etc and it should stay private..Both are wrong
Where is the rest of the interview please?
Poor Saff honestly a leopard can't change his spots he's treated her despicably.
Blokes a knob all about him. I genuinely hope shes ok ❤
This is all very sad to hear about. I don’t think either party are at fault and I do believe that if their little girl was still here they would still be together and united as a family. Perhaps Ashleigh asked because he did want another child, but then if safiyah said no or not yet then maybe he slept with other women carelessly thinking in the back of his mind that if they get pregnant it’s okay because he wants another child. Grief makes you so strange things, it also makes you shut down. I think these two simply stopped communicating about what they truly wanted, as grief probably made it too difficult to communicate. It is heartbreaking but hopefully they can both move forward and continue to be friends as they have already done so much good in honour of Azalia.
Ahhh bless you it’s hard but meet somebody new and be very happy maybe a good man to have a family with in time be strong beautiful mummy xx
He only cares bout is self to do what he as done to this lovely poor girl he should be ashamed of him self and on the day of is daughters funeral that is the lowest of the law.girl you deserve the world.keep your chin up 😊
I'm unfollowing him. No one should give this man air time or attention, he is terrible for what he has done to this poor woman. Cashing in on what happened
Hmmm I can’t lie, I never liked him. He’s always been so full of himself. Always preferred Saf, she’s actually genuine.
U are amazing u pick ur self up don’t give him any more of your time
He got another woman pregnant it’s so sad.
It should of been u
😢 I feel for u so much
He’s a complete donut, saw him a mile off
Wow, the bravest women! U deserve the world saf! Xxx
It looks like she dodged a bullet. Now she can go find a real man to have a family with now that he's busy playing house. There's nothing worse than co-parenting with a toxic person.
Her pain is blatant…so sad. My dear I wish you great strength and healing so you can find someone to love you the way you deserve to be loved❤
This woman is.beautiful inside and out
So brave ❤
My heart breaks for this Amazing strong gorgeous woman xx
This is the Sun, they probably found out and made Ashley break the news
I dont know why people struggle to understand why they get a "feeling" ashley is a narcissist, he literally took his top off in every photo that was about his family unit and the pain they were going through.
What has comments about her face got to do with this news nothing. This poor lady lost her baby. And the break up between Ashley and her .poor woman. And now he having a baby with a friend he was on tv other day❤
I reckon she aborted the baby and claimed she "lost" it.
That's why she's able to wear all the high maintenance makeup - zero empathy for others.
@@letsdiscussitoversometea8479That terrible
What kind of sick in the head petson sais that?..you should be ashamed of yourself.@@letsdiscussitoversometea8479
@@letsdiscussitoversometea8479what a disgusting comment to make
@@philippamcqueen5430should I??
Is me saying "I don't believe a word coming out of her mouth" any less appalling in your estimation?
They are both so heart broken ❤❤❤❤ love and support to them both ❤❤❤❤
You truly deserve better and that man couldn’t love you like your deserved. we all hoped you’d have more children together but it’s hard if you love him and he can’t love you and commit to you. God knows the love you deserve is coming soon.
it seems like he has some hold over her and it doesn’t sit well so I’m glad she has her own place and is speaking up.
You *
❤❤❤❤❤ sending prayers xxx
I am sure he told this morning that she was fine with it 😮 how could he do this to her ... He acts like he's a celebrity now and all for the wrong reasons
❤❤big hugs lovely
Where is the full interview?
Wow, in this video you get to see how much her daughter looked like her ❤️
It’s very sad that her relationship with Ashley didn’t work out. They’ve been through more than most parents ever have to.
I wish them both peace and healing as they move forward. They both deserve happiness, even if it’s not together 🙏🏾
My heart goes out to her 💔 Ashley has always been a narcissist and Saf deserves way more than he can give!
Disgusting thing to do to someone. 😡
I hope one day she finds a special kind of loving partner and has a beautiful family ❤
This has massively put me off ashley. Zero respect for him altogether may even unsub from him on the gram
What a woman ❤️ so so strong x
Shes so beautiful ❤
Then Ashley named the new baby an identical name to angel Azaylia…no words
That's heartbreaking 💔
he is also broken and so his actions can be seen as a result of trauma and grief also. lets give both of them some grace and stop judging
I am so sorry❤
Who are these people?
😂
I'm trying to find out myself
Celebrities
Poor woman ❤❤
You're better off without him! You deserve so much better 💓
I feel so sorry for this poor woman.
I’m so desperately sorry for your anguish ❤xxx
My heart goes out to you so much as a mother I feel your pain ❤
Omg! 😢 I wish I could give her a hug . Momma you will find your happiness with someone that honestly loves you💕
Her whole clothing line is about her middle name Diamond. She wears a necklace with ADC which is now also his sons initials. He could have had the same name he has picked but a different middle name.
Keep strong you know who you are as a person.
It really didn't surprise me with Ashley.
Men are selfish! Its such a shame for a grieving mum!