The Psychology of Desire - Luke Burgis
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- čas přidán 31. 07. 2024
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Do you ever wonder why you want what you want?
Our desires shape almost everything we do in life: what we value, what goals we pursue, who we choose for a romantic partner, and even what career paths we go down.
Yet very rarely do we stop to ask ourselves why we want these things.
In other words, what causes us to desire them in the first place?
In this interview, I’m joined by Luke Burgis - a writer and academic who has recently published: Wanting; The Power of Mimetic Desire and How to Want What You Need.
In the book, Luke explores the work of René Girard and his theory of Mimetic Desire, which offers a fascinating and illuminating explanation for human desire.
In this interview, we discuss some of the key takeaways from the book, including:
- What mimetic desire is, and how deeply this is ingrained in human nature.
- How understanding mimetic theory can help you transform your relationship to desire into one that leads to long-term fulfillment, contentment and wellbeing, rather than just getting caught up in the latest trend or fad.
- How to change course if you have the nagging suspicion that might be on the wrong path in life.
- The influence that 'models' may be having on you, and how to create boundaries with unhealthy ones.
- The power of choosing ONE core, overarching desire to subordinate everything else to.
And more.
If you're interested in exploring this subject further, I highly recommend picking up a copy of "Wanting", and you can learn more about Luke's work at www.lukeburgis.com.
Interview Links:
- Luke’s website: www.lukeburgis.com
- Luke’s book: amzn.to/3C2haUE
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Thank you for this presentation. Mr. Burgis seems to be a man of Knowledge. Knowledge is defined as "the deeper spiritual intelligence that lives within each person....that exists beyond the realm of the intellect....an eternal wisdom to guide us, to protect us and to lead us to a greater participation in life..... Knowledge is your true desire. Think not that your desires are false, for all desires, if recognized, are for Knowledge....Do not attempt to be without desire, for life is desire. Desire is purpose....meaning....direction.... Carry Knowledge with you. If Knowledge is not in doubt, you need not be in doubt. If Knowledge is not afraid, you need not be afraid... Your inner and outer life are where you apply yourself and where you give yourself. They are where you carry Knowledge. In time, you will see that Knowledge will carry you." (Steps to Knowledge, Marshall Vian Summers)
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I just want a home to feel secure in. We rent and every year we bite our finger nails when the rent goes up yet we have lived here for 12 years. We live in a lovely neighbourhood but our house is looking like a museum and the neighbours have changed towards us
We know we are not safe now.i just want security.
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you are talking 30min about "forces that drive our desires" whitout explaining those forces or explaining anything really. My desire is to learn something and this video doesn't help.
I can't listen to more Neoliberal affluent whining.
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