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  • @cut
    @cut  Pƙed 5 lety +11075

    Follow the sweet couple on IG: @kayla.steen + @brianchinn_

  • @sohamprasad6696
    @sohamprasad6696 Pƙed 3 lety +8913

    I love how she's a white woman with an Asian son who's dating a black woman, but they're still the perfect family

  • @MargauxSauvage
    @MargauxSauvage Pƙed 4 lety +7082

    omg when the mom said "i even thought : does it bother you that i'm white?" jeezzzzz she's the purest

  • @mirmo1727
    @mirmo1727 Pƙed 2 lety +6765

    when his mom reassured her that her race is not an obstacle rather something to cherish and learn from i actually cried. what a wonderful bond

    • @lujorom9172
      @lujorom9172 Pƙed 2 lety +38

      That’s like the bare minimum tho

    • @mirmo1727
      @mirmo1727 Pƙed 2 lety +148

      @@lujorom9172 it should be, but nowadays it still isn't sadly, and there are way too many situations in which this does not happen. so the fact that the lady can reassure her it will never be an issue feels much bigger than the bare minimum

    • @DeVarriousMcGruder
      @DeVarriousMcGruder Pƙed 2 lety +10

      Glad I wasn't the only one

    • @rawt3n315
      @rawt3n315 Pƙed 2 lety +36

      @@lujorom9172 the concept of bare minimum has died. For many the bare minimum is not being assaulted or cheated on whereas for many the bare minimum is to be treated better than the duchess of brunei or something. Add to that the fact people never even live upto these standards in the first place.

    • @scuffz14
      @scuffz14 Pƙed rokem +9

      I’m so crying. As a Chicana that is attracted to “white” people, meeting the parents was the scariest part because I didn’t want them to immediately write me off based of my skin tone or family up bringing.
      I am hopeful though and know when your SO and their family, accept you as family
great and healthy relationship even if the romantic part doesn’t last.

  • @GurpreetSingh-hk3qt
    @GurpreetSingh-hk3qt Pƙed 3 lety +14299

    Everyone is talking about mom , but girl is a keeper

  • @MariaLuisa-vv4ug
    @MariaLuisa-vv4ug Pƙed 4 lety +12684

    when the girl said "I would love to give him like 5 babies" the mother in law was like BING BING BING WE GOT A WINNER

    • @Ceez542
      @Ceez542 Pƙed 4 lety +35

      What's the big deal of having a lot of kids? Genuinely curious?

    • @vengeancegm7490
      @vengeancegm7490 Pƙed 4 lety +99

      @@Ceez542 of course as an old person (which I'm not) would like alot of grandchildren because it's a dream from raising a child, asides from seeing their child grow up to become a better person.
      See it from this perspective :
      You raise a child, then your child will have children . Isn't cute and satisfying for a parent?

    • @Gabrosoft
      @Gabrosoft Pƙed 4 lety +6

      Cesar 2 old people loves babies

    • @Rinsuki
      @Rinsuki Pƙed 4 lety +22

      @@Gabrosoft Yeah old people love babies lol. I think babies are cute and it is like a cycle of life thing too. It's a legacy.

    • @HDB1974
      @HDB1974 Pƙed 4 lety +18

      5 babies? I see a lot of sleep deprivation in his future...
      Oh, and empty pockets...

  • @alpackz9464
    @alpackz9464 Pƙed 5 lety +2625

    Mixed Asian boyfriend, black girlfriend, white mother. Very diverse

  • @jackieanderson8357
    @jackieanderson8357 Pƙed 3 lety +7025

    She’s the type of mom where if you were having a really bad day, she’d hug you and everything would be okay

  • @elizabethtimothy4776
    @elizabethtimothy4776 Pƙed 3 lety +3341

    Brian has won in life, to have the two most important people in his life not only get along but love each other is a fit most men never achieved; treasure it man, you are blessed.

    • @kenfaunt7930
      @kenfaunt7930 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      No Brian is officially screwed ,Mum has made her choice hes done lol

  • @nickinderrieden7630
    @nickinderrieden7630 Pƙed 4 lety +32202

    When Janet asks to speak to the manager, it's to compliment the food, the service, life, the universe, and everything

    • @iDor2
      @iDor2 Pƙed 4 lety +716

      absolutely fucking correct

    • @anazambrano8936
      @anazambrano8936 Pƙed 4 lety +124

      Hahahahaha so trueeee!

    • @elzadesouza8839
      @elzadesouza8839 Pƙed 4 lety +617

      she would be like “i loved the food, and the service, and the aura of this restaurant is just... is just.. really making me.. tear up a little”

    • @hsmacaraig
      @hsmacaraig Pƙed 4 lety +24

      yesssssssss

    • @PigeonDetective
      @PigeonDetective Pƙed 4 lety +246

      the anti-karen

  • @wilddaisyprincess
    @wilddaisyprincess Pƙed 5 lety +3109

    When she started crying because the mom said she was ok with her being black...bruh y’all have me crying in the club. As a POC who dates a lot of non-POC guys, I have definitely been worried about what the parents will think of my race. It’s a sad reality.

    • @ailiab373
      @ailiab373 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      😭😭

    • @Alexander_Winther
      @Alexander_Winther Pƙed 5 lety +6

      tf is poc?@@ailiab373

    • @ailiab373
      @ailiab373 Pƙed 5 lety +17

      @@Alexander_Winther Person of color

    • @Alexander_Winther
      @Alexander_Winther Pƙed 5 lety +9

      Oh! thx!
      @@ailiab373

    • @johnnymai8014
      @johnnymai8014 Pƙed 5 lety +28

      It really is since so many older folks are still living that generation of being super conservative/traditional
      Brought someone of a different culture into my parent’s house and a racial slur was the first thing that came out

  • @Noraa666
    @Noraa666 Pƙed 3 lety +3296

    The part where she was scared about her not being liked because she was black literally made my heart ache........... :(

    • @josephpercy8772
      @josephpercy8772 Pƙed 3 lety +80

      Me too, man. It's heartbreaking that that's still a thing even after all these years.

  • @enamelx
    @enamelx Pƙed 3 lety +2228

    that women asking her if she was alright with them being white- okay, i love her to the death of me. that is upmost respect.

    • @sevendaysaweek2622
      @sevendaysaweek2622 Pƙed 3 lety +12

      what kind of question is that😂 “ is alright with you that I’m black”

    • @enamelx
      @enamelx Pƙed 3 lety +78

      @@sevendaysaweek2622 it's called "racism"

    • @tristen9149
      @tristen9149 Pƙed rokem +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rumham7466
      @rumham7466 Pƙed rokem +39

      @@sevendaysaweek2622 unfortunately it is an issue to some people. Sadly. I have a friend who was disowned by her father for dating outside of her race. And there are other cultures as well who don’t want their family going outside of what they are. It’s getting better but it’s still out there

    • @roid1510
      @roid1510 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      @@sevendaysaweek2622if you dont have to deal with it, it seems like a ridiculous question

  • @kristiemartin5669
    @kristiemartin5669 Pƙed 4 lety +10700

    When she started crying because his mother accepted her skin color i started crying thats exactly how I want my future in law children to feel nothing but love and accepted.

    • @kimberleywilliams7802
      @kimberleywilliams7802 Pƙed 3 lety +48

      aww that's really nice

    • @imlikett5293
      @imlikett5293 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      ‌đŸ„ș

    • @macyeezy5342
      @macyeezy5342 Pƙed 3 lety +5

      Yup

    • @fermitthekrog427
      @fermitthekrog427 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      I almost cried as well

    • @kristiemartin5669
      @kristiemartin5669 Pƙed 3 lety +74

      It is really sad that people care so much about race,religion,or sex, when it cones to who your children love I just want my babies to be with a goodhearted moral person that loves them as much as i do idc what that person might look like or where they come from. I want my children to find their soulmates and have the kind of love we all wish and hope for.

  • @shadenshama459
    @shadenshama459 Pƙed 4 lety +36374

    She really hit the jackpot with the perfect mother-in-law

  • @joshserrano554
    @joshserrano554 Pƙed 2 lety +1591

    Brian is confirmation that men are attracted to women who share similar characteristics of their moms. Janet and Kayla are both kind, sweet, humble, and yet spicy enough to make life more pleasant. The fact that this was their first interaction together and they gelled so quickly is a blessing!

    • @kevinroyfr
      @kevinroyfr Pƙed 2 lety +54

      At the same time, kinda creepy tho

    • @GRRRRAAAAAAHHHH
      @GRRRRAAAAAAHHHH Pƙed 2 lety +15

      @@kevinroyfr LMFAOOOOO

    • @iblisthemage
      @iblisthemage Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

      Mom was a psycho bitch, then I married one
 (for a while). holds true in this case at least

  • @mydogismybff
    @mydogismybff Pƙed rokem +515

    5 YEARS later and they are still together. AHHHHH!!!!

    • @expresslysoy8573
      @expresslysoy8573 Pƙed rokem +10

      What are their social medias?

    • @shondig
      @shondig Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +5

      @@kayzzzzzzzzz pinned comment you two

    • @gulturgut798
      @gulturgut798 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +7

      Where are the babiiiies?

    • @carinaabreu2264
      @carinaabreu2264 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +9

      Omg this is the comment i was looking for 😊

    • @carinaabreu2264
      @carinaabreu2264 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +2

      Give us the details

  • @spangledangle1487
    @spangledangle1487 Pƙed 5 lety +7544

    His family gonna be mixed as hell
    Shits dope 10/10

    • @rebelrouser6678
      @rebelrouser6678 Pƙed 5 lety +22

      I think he’ll is made up of the same kind of people-regardless of race

    • @atyashaverma6586
      @atyashaverma6586 Pƙed 5 lety +13

      I had the exact same thought 😂😂

    • @FinnJohnson
      @FinnJohnson Pƙed 5 lety +18

      Reminds me of me lol I’m white/black dating a Hispanic gurl😂

    • @Anastasiya13J19
      @Anastasiya13J19 Pƙed 5 lety +26

      FPV Finn same i’m half white half asian dating a half hispanic half black boy ahaha i’ve called is the rainbow couple bc i’m lame

    • @tari1894
      @tari1894 Pƙed 5 lety +30

      same i’m black/white dating my bed👉👈

  • @Yet2b4Sakn
    @Yet2b4Sakn Pƙed 4 lety +16033

    Now he has to marry her because the mom and girlfriend are perfect for each other 😂😂😂

    • @theejuanitadiaz
      @theejuanitadiaz Pƙed 4 lety +58

      Yet2b4Sakn i was thinking this đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @jenfren723
      @jenfren723 Pƙed 4 lety +12

      Yeeees. Haha

    • @alking7655
      @alking7655 Pƙed 4 lety +242

      If your girlfriend gets along with your Mum that well and feels she can be that honest with her without backlash, you should marry the chick.

    • @tupacshakurfan9280
      @tupacshakurfan9280 Pƙed 4 lety +11

      Fuck mariage

    • @indiamoore5349
      @indiamoore5349 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Right lol

  • @ruangelique
    @ruangelique Pƙed 3 lety +1678

    We all need a Janet to talk to sometimes. Im crying.

    • @tequila._.7415
      @tequila._.7415 Pƙed 3 lety +17

      I am literally crying rn, it's so stupid

  • @asekhaunomercy9742
    @asekhaunomercy9742 Pƙed 2 lety +494

    Update:- it’s 2022 and they’re still so togetherđŸ„ș

  • @tomboerstra2533
    @tomboerstra2533 Pƙed 4 lety +23116

    A Janet is officially the opposite of a Karen.

  • @lr4439
    @lr4439 Pƙed 5 lety +3785

    "You are an adult couple, and you dont have to change that for us" đŸ˜± that's amazing. She totally respects her son and gf for who they are and expects nothing else, thats beautiful man

    • @chrisbriscoe7138
      @chrisbriscoe7138 Pƙed 5 lety +15

      L W Translation: y’all wanna fuck in the crib, koo.

  • @loon3111
    @loon3111 Pƙed 3 lety +542

    Oh hunny when she cries when the mom says she's happy she is black my heart breaks for her. The pain she must carry, the pain black people must carry just waiting to be rejected or discriminated against. That this has to be a question is heartbreaking in itself.

    • @morganepg
      @morganepg Pƙed rokem +15

      Yes....We anticipate it in every instance.

    • @richardthompson3296
      @richardthompson3296 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      Ya me too because I am white. Most people of color no longer accept me. Pretty sad seeing that only changed when Obama took office.

  • @Erika-kw7ur
    @Erika-kw7ur Pƙed 2 lety +247

    This one had me bawling my eyes out. When she said she thought she wouldn't be accepted for her skin it broke my heart because you could see how badly she has been hurt by that in the past.
    This mom is a treasure and I pray they get married and get them 5 babies 💞

  • @haily8720
    @haily8720 Pƙed 5 lety +53728

    The mom looks like the type of person who makes really good cookies

  • @ilomilo0877
    @ilomilo0877 Pƙed 5 lety +41141

    A white Mom with an Asian looking son and his black girlfriend. That's mixed up and I like it 😂

    • @housseinayash5086
      @housseinayash5086 Pƙed 4 lety +2652

      f*ck racism

    • @Luchingador
      @Luchingador Pƙed 4 lety +1133

      Welcome to America

    • @SuntrapMC
      @SuntrapMC Pƙed 4 lety +817

      all we need is a hispanic

    • @deadxne7588
      @deadxne7588 Pƙed 4 lety +260

      1 ' he didn’t bash any of them nothing racist.

    • @samanthasoltis3000
      @samanthasoltis3000 Pƙed 4 lety +1056

      @@deadxne7588 He said fuck racism meaning racism can go fuck itself meaning they agree. No one was calling anyone racist.

  • @emberya9561
    @emberya9561 Pƙed 2 lety +88

    Brian sits there like "If I ever hurt my gf, my mom will disown me.".

  • @urewlcm
    @urewlcm Pƙed 3 lety +295

    This woman is the definition for: KINDHEARTED..she’s so impressive..we need more of these pure hearts

  • @Ammbb02
    @Ammbb02 Pƙed 4 lety +6865

    I literally burst into tears the moment the girlfriend started to cry when the question came up whether the color of her skin was an issue for the mother and her sons future. Literally cried to her relief of the mom's response but also the sadness of the girls past relationships

    • @xKarinneb23
      @xKarinneb23 Pƙed 4 lety +11

      Amj1994 SAMEEEEEE

    • @naryiahcopeland5414
      @naryiahcopeland5414 Pƙed 4 lety +8

      I swear😭😭

    • @blackkatt777
      @blackkatt777 Pƙed 4 lety +91

      Yeah. That hit me hard, then I started bawling my eyes out. This episode was pure goodness.

    • @siosworld4064
      @siosworld4064 Pƙed 4 lety +3

      Oh my God I cried.

    • @ItsNyxie4
      @ItsNyxie4 Pƙed 4 lety +13

      Same. It got me hard as it felt like they were asking me that question.

  • @kcelestej1
    @kcelestej1 Pƙed 5 lety +6744

    Ummmm I Love his mom. “I think Brian really likes black people.” 😂😂

  • @perrusten9754
    @perrusten9754 Pƙed 3 lety +509

    Update: it’s March 2021, and they are still together!

    • @caitlynmatthews3569
      @caitlynmatthews3569 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      What’s their socials?

    • @luketrevena9750
      @luketrevena9750 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@caitlynmatthews3569 I would love to find that out too these guys relationship is everything

    • @ellieh8156
      @ellieh8156 Pƙed 2 lety +23

      Update, it's May 2022 and they are still together! đŸ‘đŸ‘â€ïžđŸ€—

    • @21c10q
      @21c10q Pƙed 2 lety

      @@ellieh8156 Really? I’m so happy!

    • @hiimapotato123
      @hiimapotato123 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@ellieh8156YAYYY

  • @tais1355
    @tais1355 Pƙed 3 lety +192

    when Kayla said she wanted five babies it was over for Janet! that’s what almost every mama wants to hear from their potential daughter in law!

  • @Wwumzymumzy
    @Wwumzymumzy Pƙed 4 lety +14312

    This dude is getting married way sooner than he thinks

    • @itsmehani7446
      @itsmehani7446 Pƙed 4 lety +55

      No Madge for reaaaaalll

    • @thecoi7672
      @thecoi7672 Pƙed 4 lety +72

      Yessssss! he knows it now 😂

    • @paperfox8794
      @paperfox8794 Pƙed 4 lety +234

      way sooner than they both think. The mommy is gonna arrange their marriage

    • @julesx8593
      @julesx8593 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      NO CAP 😂

    • @putzlerluke
      @putzlerluke Pƙed 4 lety +22

      He better...hotness

  • @MarcoBMark-rt6ke
    @MarcoBMark-rt6ke Pƙed 4 lety +6932

    Brian has two beautiful women in his life, lucky guy.

  • @haruru6846
    @haruru6846 Pƙed 3 lety +91

    STOP WHEN THE MOM COMFORTED HER I WAS ABOUTTA CRY

  • @ogentlematea7406
    @ogentlematea7406 Pƙed 3 lety +56

    "I just want you treasure her"
    I got something in my eye...
    😭

  • @spazztasticart6424
    @spazztasticart6424 Pƙed 5 lety +13303

    Officially the purest episode of truth or drink

    • @luciannegabriel4143
      @luciannegabriel4143 Pƙed 4 lety +67

      Yea but its cut so they still have to throw several sex questions

    • @ZackClements804
      @ZackClements804 Pƙed 4 lety +15

      Agreed. I teared up.

    • @leodenardus6595
      @leodenardus6595 Pƙed 4 lety +11

      @@luciannegabriel4143 There is nothing impure about sex, Is there?

    • @AaaAaa-mh6zv
      @AaaAaa-mh6zv Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Yes, it just seems so emotionally healthy compared to most.

    • @sroc2766
      @sroc2766 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

      I agree

  • @caseylinker7568
    @caseylinker7568 Pƙed 5 lety +4442

    Broke my heart when she was explaining she was nervous about how his mom would respond to her being black. Completely baffles me that we live in a world where that is still an issue. I loved this video, I love the love shown 💕

    • @hernamenichea
      @hernamenichea Pƙed 5 lety +2

      Casey Linker right ... so sad .. I’m happy for them

    • @animalmother556x45
      @animalmother556x45 Pƙed 5 lety +38

      Casey Linker It is from all sides as well. As a white dude from rural Iowa, I never expected "racism" to necessarily manifest anywhere around me. Rural Iowa is quiet...we leave each other alone, and don't pay much attention to someone's race...we just live and let live as long as no one is being hurt.
      So, I never expected it around me...let alone HAPPENING to me.
      My wife is from Mexico and her parents are very traditional...all of my wife's siblings (there are 8 of them) are in relationships with other Mexicans...and the vast majority are even from the same area in Mexico. When we broke the news to them that we were going to get married (they speak very little English, so my wife did the talking) I could immediately tell they were upset. My wife wouldn't tell me what they said for a few days...but she finally told me that they expressed they did NOT want grandchildren that were half white. That was about 5 years ago...it has been hard, but they finally see that I treat their daughter properly, and have accepted that we are together. We have no children yet...but their comment about "not wanting" mixed grandchildren is still in my mind.

    • @summahthevegan3796
      @summahthevegan3796 Pƙed 5 lety +18

      Ikr! It made me sad she had to worry about it but the mother's response was so pure and heartfelt and kind that it made me happy.
      At least she's finally had that acceptance.

    • @mayak2349
      @mayak2349 Pƙed 5 lety +21

      I related to that so hard bc i dated this guy who’s family didn’t like interracial dating and they wouldn’t allow me to see him and that broke us apart but now I’m happy with my boyfriend of 2 years and his family treats me as there own (I’m black and my boyfriend’s Mexican)

    • @Chalize
      @Chalize Pƙed 5 lety +11

      I'm so scared to meet my bf parents as well. I am black French and he is White Lithuanian/Russian. T^T

  • @user-mb9yl5bl9r
    @user-mb9yl5bl9r Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +11

    Checked up in 2023 and they’re still together!!

    • @lonelywolf0.0
      @lonelywolf0.0 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      what’s their ig?

    • @user-mb9yl5bl9r
      @user-mb9yl5bl9r Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      @@lonelywolf0.0 cut pinned a comment with their handles!

  • @guessmynameist
    @guessmynameist Pƙed 2 lety +135

    It is wild seeing how motherly and caring this woman is. I can just feel the love coming from her

  • @kat4500
    @kat4500 Pƙed 4 lety +19235

    she's the typa ex the family still invites to holidays

    • @akiivaj4317
      @akiivaj4317 Pƙed 4 lety +163

      lxvelykat those are the worst

    • @waliyahw1
      @waliyahw1 Pƙed 4 lety +18

      😭😭

    • @laDy_A1ram
      @laDy_A1ram Pƙed 4 lety +302

      lxvelykat she seems awesome to hang out with

    • @laurasophie9206
      @laurasophie9206 Pƙed 4 lety +22

      i love your profil pic a lotđŸ„ș🐣

    • @jgvh
      @jgvh Pƙed 4 lety +9

      lxvelykat fr though

  • @yanna8746
    @yanna8746 Pƙed 4 lety +9156

    That mom looks like she makes BOMB cookies

  • @moonimiii
    @moonimiii Pƙed rokem +28

    i’m actually sobbing right now. as a black girl, if by chance i do end up getting with a person of a different race, i can only hope to have an angel like this women in my life 😭

  • @isaachudson6902
    @isaachudson6902 Pƙed 3 lety +177

    ok but this is actually one of the most wholesome truth or drinks i've watched in a while

  • @mosslinden5058
    @mosslinden5058 Pƙed 4 lety +5699

    People: what race are you?
    This couple's kid: yes

    • @ebe29
      @ebe29 Pƙed 4 lety +33

      Moss Linden Lmfaoooooooooo

    • @marshaarbi
      @marshaarbi Pƙed 4 lety +3

      lel

    • @_gremlinboy
      @_gremlinboy Pƙed 4 lety +81

      All 5 of em

    • @susshibe2207
      @susshibe2207 Pƙed 4 lety +7

      Lmaooo bruuhđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @Urhiness415
      @Urhiness415 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚

  • @bethflinn602
    @bethflinn602 Pƙed 4 lety +14792

    Bro when she started crying bc she was afraid she wasn’t going to be accepted for her race đŸ„ș

    • @jedimasterjoe5386
      @jedimasterjoe5386 Pƙed 4 lety +124

      Her sons asian tho

    • @A6Legit
      @A6Legit Pƙed 4 lety +52

      I teared up

    • @bethflinn602
      @bethflinn602 Pƙed 4 lety +362

      Jedi Master Joe yeah but she’s so used to being disliked and disapproved of because of her race that she still had that fear

    • @gamingsaint6238
      @gamingsaint6238 Pƙed 4 lety +204

      Jedi Master Joe if you date outside of your race its in the back of your mind regardless.

    • @marclloyd5443
      @marclloyd5443 Pƙed 4 lety +62

      Jedi Master Joe Even still it’s hard. It’s something that’s a huge factor in most people’s lives and sometimes families don’t always approve of you because of your race. So it’s something that is always kinda there

  • @woodsavenue
    @woodsavenue Pƙed 2 lety +145

    the diversity, the positivity, the tears of joy, the laughter, the love... it giving everything i'm hoping for in a relationship!

  • @Still_who_Iam
    @Still_who_Iam Pƙed 2 lety +52

    Janet heard kayla's first answer and was like "take him please god please gift me 5 grand-babies" these two are great.

  • @WarlandWriter
    @WarlandWriter Pƙed 5 lety +5872

    I feel like if they'd break up, Janet and Kayla would be closer than Brian and his mom.

  • @mivias6768
    @mivias6768 Pƙed 4 lety +3021

    This video literally destroys racism.... Like literally shatters it... A black gf, accepted by a white in law and loved by her Asian boyfriend ... So beautiful

    • @laureenlight
      @laureenlight Pƙed 4 lety +15

      IKR đŸ„șđŸ„ș😭

    • @Abraham-gf1oi
      @Abraham-gf1oi Pƙed 4 lety +30

      I don’t know. A part of me felt like the boyfriend was almost fetishizing her. With the mom saying, “He likes black people.” and then her little “That almost makes you more interesting.”. Didn’t sit right with me.

    • @user-cx4xo4qb7x
      @user-cx4xo4qb7x Pƙed 4 lety +3

      And also an old European type of opera music in the background .

    • @jasminee204
      @jasminee204 Pƙed 4 lety +56

      @@Abraham-gf1oi I feel like she was just trying to make her feel better in the way that that generation does. My mum is the same, she's around 60 and says awkward things but says them with good intentions. She is white and I'm mixed btw so she isn't racist.

    • @Lia-gx6rx
      @Lia-gx6rx Pƙed 4 lety +10

      ìžìŠ€ëŻŒ you can have mixed kids but still be racist. people fetishize

  • @beccabeccaTV
    @beccabeccaTV Pƙed 3 lety +84

    This mother is a national treasure.

  • @Eskey__
    @Eskey__ Pƙed 2 lety +38

    This is one of those relationships that if they didn’t make it as a couple the mom would still be friends with her. This was a great one.

  • @jasminemeagher4377
    @jasminemeagher4377 Pƙed 5 lety +7730

    The girl looks like a black version of Camila Cabello, but omg she's sooooo freaking cute!

  • @slinkid9410
    @slinkid9410 Pƙed 3 lety +7164

    Janet is the Anti-Karen

  • @Azrael2812
    @Azrael2812 Pƙed 3 lety +131

    That was really sweet but fuck, it's so sad that she is afraid of not being accepted into the family for being black. That's horrible.

  • @AM_201
    @AM_201 Pƙed 2 lety +43

    6:10 damn man i almost cried myself, you could feel the relief on the girlfriends side and the warmth from the mother.

  • @mediumsav9454
    @mediumsav9454 Pƙed 5 lety +2834

    omgg i started crying when she cried bc she was scared about not being accepted bc of her skin color,,, it just makes me sad that poc even have to consider if they're not going to be welcomed because of their skin.

    • @daqqur3164
      @daqqur3164 Pƙed 5 lety +11

      gay armys it's goes all ways

    • @soala4928
      @soala4928 Pƙed 5 lety +35

      boi you wouldn't believe, I relate so hard so I literally started bawling when she teared up

    • @22Maggy22
      @22Maggy22 Pƙed 5 lety +4

      Not invalidating POC but i can relate. Surely not as deeply as they can. Clearly they face much more hardship... But im together with an indian and white... Lets just say his father isnot talking to me at all... Which is fine... His mom and sister like me so im fine... But this discrimination happens to any race. But again. Making clear. Caucasian usually do haveit easier. Not invalidating the hardship poc have to go through

    • @22Maggy22
      @22Maggy22 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      @Ndinku N'Jadaka over 2 years now... We are living together actually. If he does not come around ill be fine but its always a little awkward when im at my boyfriends place. 😅

    • @22Maggy22
      @22Maggy22 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      @Ndinku N'Jadaka i hope it doesnt have to come to that to be honest... I want him to love his grandkids for simply existing and not because of any feature like skin colour... It just sucks. I really feel for the POC community and any other who gets discriminated on bases of looks... Theres only hope to work for a better future and more understanding i guess 😊 thanks for chatting felt really nice just getting it out!

  • @rozalina20009
    @rozalina20009 Pƙed 4 lety +5187

    HE BETTER NOT MESS THIS UP!!! she is perfect, and perfect for him. His mother is amazing and they are so cute together.

    • @antoniocoimbra5832
      @antoniocoimbra5832 Pƙed 4 lety +6

      do u know them?xd

    • @rozalina20009
      @rozalina20009 Pƙed 4 lety +14

      @@antoniocoimbra5832 lol no. Only what I saw in the video.

    • @joycem9686
      @joycem9686 Pƙed 4 lety +33

      Austin King it’s not even that serious fuck off

    • @nunya2189
      @nunya2189 Pƙed 4 lety +4

      rozalina20009 he’s a male, he will.

    • @dark_queen3605
      @dark_queen3605 Pƙed 4 lety +2

      @Austin King Chill out.. No need to be rude

  • @ianwhipple8842
    @ianwhipple8842 Pƙed 2 lety +58

    When she asked if it bothered her that she was white that was really nice to give her that opportunity and it was awesome of Janet to assure the girlfriend that she thinks she’s a beautiful person.

  • @jillstonesifer6731
    @jillstonesifer6731 Pƙed 2 lety +62

    I think Brian's girl and mom will spend almost as much time together as Brian and his gf! Looks like a wonderful relationship between them already.

  • @tbnrvipper5808
    @tbnrvipper5808 Pƙed 5 lety +9499

    They were both sent down from heaven they are so pure

  • @bruhlano3129
    @bruhlano3129 Pƙed 4 lety +3095

    Her: **starts sobbing**
    Mom: "you are sooo beautiful."
    MY HEART, OMG

  • @angels904
    @angels904 Pƙed rokem +27

    Omg when she started to cry and mom in-law held her hands made me start to cry they’re going to definitely have a beautiful relationship and family ❀

  • @butnaruantonia9390
    @butnaruantonia9390 Pƙed 3 lety +105

    It’s so sad that she was worried about his mom not accepting her skin, I am so sorry

  • @cupcakekhali2182
    @cupcakekhali2182 Pƙed 5 lety +4619

    I cried when she brought up that she has had past issues with parents due to her race. That is such a horrible feeling and I would never wish that upon anyone. She seems to have such a beautiful soul that this hurts me to see her reaction.

    • @formecm
      @formecm Pƙed 5 lety +11

      I cried too!!

    • @MysteriousBeingOfLight
      @MysteriousBeingOfLight Pƙed 5 lety +26

      I had the same with being trans. Not cool at all and make you feel very vulnerable for the rest of your life..

    • @ReignBow.
      @ReignBow. Pƙed 5 lety +2

      omg! I teared up too!

    • @lildepression1098
      @lildepression1098 Pƙed 5 lety +3

      CupcakeKhali I had issues with my girlfriend’s dad because I’m mixed but my girlfriend reassured me that it didn’t matter what he thought but I always had in the back of my head that It does matter.

    • @penaltypolice9907
      @penaltypolice9907 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      That happened to me and I couldn’t go to any events because I wasn’t accepted and didn’t feel like I fit in(dating a white girl)

  • @TheLifeofKiara
    @TheLifeofKiara Pƙed 5 lety +40177

    She is going to be an amazing grandma (whenever they have babies)

    • @mateobanda6808
      @mateobanda6808 Pƙed 5 lety +226

      She Is An Extrovert, He Is An Introvert "Their" Mom, Is Awesome!!!

    • @louka7917
      @louka7917 Pƙed 5 lety +44

      3 top comments, well done.

    • @derreact
      @derreact Pƙed 5 lety +65

      why the fuck are the 3 top comments all yours?!?! what is that spell u used

    • @BLCrazey
      @BLCrazey Pƙed 5 lety +20

      Omgsh, this was a really good one....I got ALL the feelsđŸ€—đŸ€—

    • @jakob4414
      @jakob4414 Pƙed 5 lety +23

      The Life Of The Cassells She Will be That one grandma who brings a fuck ton of presents at christmas

  • @TechWithShon
    @TechWithShon Pƙed 3 lety +35

    “Don’t be sorry, you don’t have to be sorry”

  • @Skylakeely
    @Skylakeely Pƙed 3 lety +185

    UPDATE: it’s March 2021 and they’re still together!

  • @karrinnoire9888
    @karrinnoire9888 Pƙed 5 lety +8613

    Who else was surprised when they saw the boyfriend?

    • @Zx14rrrrrrrrrrr
      @Zx14rrrrrrrrrrr Pƙed 5 lety +82

      Karrin Noire way more people than saw your comment

    • @karrinnoire9888
      @karrinnoire9888 Pƙed 5 lety +16

      spafro101 thanks I thought it was funny. I was expecting more likes tbh but i never gotten this many before

    • @daniellelove3832
      @daniellelove3832 Pƙed 5 lety +15

      Guilty 😂

    • @amira7708
      @amira7708 Pƙed 5 lety +5

      meee

    • @user-er3xx4sd9j
      @user-er3xx4sd9j Pƙed 5 lety +333

      idk why i was expecting to see another girl

  • @rachaelstubes
    @rachaelstubes Pƙed 3 lety +7538

    You can see how Brian scored a girl like Kayla with a mum like Janet

  • @christhong7421
    @christhong7421 Pƙed rokem +6

    This MIL is 'A cool placid mountain lake' personified. NOTHING shakes her. She's so sincere and gentle that she doesn't have to think twice about her replies/words. Love her.

  • @MinhVu-yz5rr
    @MinhVu-yz5rr Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +9

    Good news to anyone who just watched this, they’re still together ❀

  • @Rusty845637
    @Rusty845637 Pƙed 5 lety +3533

    Omg when Kayla started crying bc she was so worried about what his mom would think I literally started crying. Like to imagine what she was feeling when she met her ex’s parents who weren’t as accepting is so devastating and especially to know it’s bc she’s black. Awful. Glad that Janet is so kind and loving ❀

    • @YamsOnToast
      @YamsOnToast Pƙed 5 lety +44

      I know! I have personally never expierenced that worry but seeing her body languague shift as she spoke about what worried her broke me. I am so glad she met this loving thoughtful mother. Just amazing.

    • @asiablack5892
      @asiablack5892 Pƙed 5 lety +13

      I started crying too omg

    • @jonl1319
      @jonl1319 Pƙed 5 lety +12

      Yeah I've been there especially being in the South just a lot of white friends talk about how their parents would disown them for dating outside their race. Not all but it's definitely been a good bit.

    • @DavidCeeya
      @DavidCeeya Pƙed 5 lety +4

      I also cried. :(

    • @mocrazy247
      @mocrazy247 Pƙed 5 lety +4

      The tears were flowinggg. I've been there. One of my exs, his mother spoke Spanish and would talk so much shit about me while I was around. My ex never told me why he didn't like to be around her until we broke up and years later. Someone I dated in college once told me that his parents probably wouldn't like me based on my skin color, and that made me so upset too. It's a lot to deal with.

  • @TymetheInfamous
    @TymetheInfamous Pƙed 3 lety +15275

    best mom in the world

  • @taylahjane8486
    @taylahjane8486 Pƙed rokem +29

    As of Dec 2022, they are still together and it makes me SO happy.

  • @christianurena510
    @christianurena510 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +5

    The giant weight lifted from her shoulders when her mother-in-law told her she accepted her as she was! I hope they’re still together

  • @vvv6420
    @vvv6420 Pƙed 5 lety +3155

    janet ended racism well done

    • @TooCoolforCardi
      @TooCoolforCardi Pƙed 5 lety +33

      VVV: If only....🙄

    • @peachgames7484
      @peachgames7484 Pƙed 5 lety +26

      Racism is much more than not liking about race it has to do with power and wanting to be greater than others as well as an individuals insecurities.

    • @FlapjackR
      @FlapjackR Pƙed 5 lety +7

      Peachgames
      racism (rāˈsÄ­zˌəm)â–ș
      n. Discrimination or prejudice based on race.

    • @EverythingKash
      @EverythingKash Pƙed 5 lety +2

      F A C T S ! ! !

    • @FlapjackR
      @FlapjackR Pƙed 5 lety +3

      Corena Lawson That is the definition. Always has been.

  • @kaymcgarden
    @kaymcgarden Pƙed 4 lety +5624

    That guy has a bomb mom and girlfriend. He's one lucky guy.

    • @user-vb5dv8oi2w
      @user-vb5dv8oi2w Pƙed 3 lety +18

      Bayonetta yes

    • @emilebon8168
      @emilebon8168 Pƙed 3 lety +35

      @@umbra014 sadly true. People seems to be insane these days.

    • @johntitor308
      @johntitor308 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@umbra014 yeah man
      I think I have been a really good loving person and some people have treat me pretty bad
      So I think he is lucky to have a kind people on his side.

    •  Pƙed 3 lety +4

      It usually goes that way, when you grow up in a loving environment you usually look for the same patterns. Sadly, the same goes for not so good upbringings.

    • @Marshay
      @Marshay Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Yesss

  • @haibah7893
    @haibah7893 Pƙed 3 lety +72

    Kayla casually hitting ari's high note everytime she laughs and 2:23 LMAO

  • @thankyouforincorrectingme
    @thankyouforincorrectingme Pƙed 3 lety +23

    This was the coolest one I’ve seen. This dude is surrounding by amazing women/people/family. If only all people could be so loving and accepting.

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 Pƙed 4 lety +3535

    Both women are ridiculously beautiful. That man is blessed.

  • @bebeenderson7863
    @bebeenderson7863 Pƙed 5 lety +2228

    I cried and recognized with her when she started crying because I truly means a lot to us black women who like to date men outside our race when the parents of significant other whole heartedly accepts us for who we are. It's heartbreaking when you love someone and the family doesn't accept you for something that you can't change.

    • @lacyalaniz9640
      @lacyalaniz9640 Pƙed 5 lety +86

      Bebe Enderson I strive to be this mom. I want my sons to be confident with any women they bring home. Or any man! It makes no difference as long as they are truly happy. I wish my parents would have been that way towards me.

    • @DangerBossGaming
      @DangerBossGaming Pƙed 5 lety +15

      What your said was very inspiring. So thank you! Also what's your type of guys

    • @VixitTanya
      @VixitTanya Pƙed 5 lety +25

      I am a white Russian girl dating a muslim indian guy from South Africa. I am so blessed with our families fully accepting our relationships. Can't even imagine how it would be possible to last for so long and being as smooth otherwise.

    • @shreksboyfriend2572
      @shreksboyfriend2572 Pƙed 5 lety +1

      KKK im just hanging man

    • @kathleenmansure7416
      @kathleenmansure7416 Pƙed 5 lety +9

      @@VixitTanya I am a white US girl who dated a Muslim Sudanese guy for a year and a half and never got introduced to the family and they didn't even know we were in a relationship. I am happy for you that that is not the case for you!

  • @benjaminmatte5225
    @benjaminmatte5225 Pƙed 2 lety +19

    That Mom was awesome, you’re a lucky dude Brian, all three of them were pure gold

  • @nilla880
    @nilla880 Pƙed 3 lety +62

    I really hope those two stay together. They seem like as a whole they will be really happy. Blended unity like that is so important in this world for tearing down stereotypes. I thought this was really cute. I wish all three of them the best.

  • @thelemoncafe
    @thelemoncafe Pƙed 5 lety +2897

    we love a multi-racial family

    • @sumayam6927
      @sumayam6927 Pƙed 5 lety +4

      They Make Me Feel Like Swimming To South Korea we really do :)

    • @avit2984
      @avit2984 Pƙed 5 lety

      1

    • @thelemoncafe
      @thelemoncafe Pƙed 5 lety +2

      woah wtf i didn’t expect this to get so many likes hahaha cool

    • @lovemiah9293
      @lovemiah9293 Pƙed 5 lety +1

      Yesssssssss

    • @neliaaguiar1814
      @neliaaguiar1814 Pƙed 5 lety

      YEEEEEEEESSSSSSđŸ˜†â€đŸ‘đŸ˜ƒ

  • @alexalonzo4070
    @alexalonzo4070 Pƙed 5 lety +7892

    They about to create a panda:
    Black, White, and Asian

  • @ravenbeast813
    @ravenbeast813 Pƙed 3 lety +77

    Update May 2021: They are still together!

  • @suburbanmush6420
    @suburbanmush6420 Pƙed 2 lety +17

    We need more people like this family. So open and accepting and just want safe and responsible people in their lives :)

  • @yunuslahmer8911
    @yunuslahmer8911 Pƙed 3 lety +3584

    " does it bother you that i'm white " - JANET - đŸ„ș😍

    • @hazelisbrown
      @hazelisbrown Pƙed 3 lety +109

      That's a valid question though

    • @suziyard9465
      @suziyard9465 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@hazelisbrown it’s not everyone has to deal with white people your the majority in America? It don’t matter if you bother people or not yo

    • @mismis1022
      @mismis1022 Pƙed 3 lety +56

      @@suziyard9465 everybody has to deal with black people too, but many seem to have problem with that tho.. point is, it was considerable for janet to ask that question!

    • @tomfoley5837
      @tomfoley5837 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@suziyard9465 ofc that’s a valid question

  • @iremu_chan
    @iremu_chan Pƙed 4 lety +3023

    Protect Janet at all cost, she is the sweetest lady :')

  • @doumicbolduc2234
    @doumicbolduc2234 Pƙed rokem +8

    Brian's lucky to have a mother like that and a girl like that is all I'm gon say. You better treasure both of em man

  • @RAVEN-hf6rf
    @RAVEN-hf6rf Pƙed 2 lety +41

    What’s Brian’s secret to having such a great gf and a great mom

  • @ludwig82
    @ludwig82 Pƙed 3 lety +8047

    Janet is a freaking role model. Kind, loving and empathetic. Humanity has hope, we need more Janet's xx

    • @Minyaweth
      @Minyaweth Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Lol ok

    • @sunny-xo4qj
      @sunny-xo4qj Pƙed 3 lety +2

      666 likes.

    • @ludwig82
      @ludwig82 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@sunny-xo4qj oh wow. Well, didn’t expect that 😉

    • @henloworld514
      @henloworld514 Pƙed 3 lety +8

      out of context this sort of sounds like a reference to the good place

    • @ludwig82
      @ludwig82 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@henloworld514 does it? Too bad I have never seen it - must definitely check it out

  • @Set451
    @Set451 Pƙed 4 lety +7627

    Black girlfriend, okay he's probably-
    oh white mom, well obviously he's-
    Asian. Okay

    • @cutipieeva
      @cutipieeva Pƙed 4 lety +710

      blocktopic Lol this video made me check myself and my expectations. No more assuming for me.😂

    • @bekahnavarro
      @bekahnavarro Pƙed 4 lety +444

      Plot twist when we find his dad is yet another race. (Haha)

    • @britneyroache9559
      @britneyroache9559 Pƙed 4 lety +239

      Rebekah N imagine his dad is Hispanic lol. I have a white boyfriend and was shook to find our his mom was Chinese. Sometimes people just look so much like one parent.

    • @bekahnavarro
      @bekahnavarro Pƙed 4 lety +38

      @@britneyroache9559 Yeah I was joking around. My husband's mom is white and his dad is Mexican. You would never know looking at him. He is pale with blue eyes. My dad is white. My mom is too technically. But we aren't sure of our entire heritage. There's porteguese and french so my brothers and have much darker skin than my parents. My grandma has a tiny bit of Chinese, but that skipped my mom somehow too. But my sister looks really pale with blonde hair and blue eyes.

    • @britneyroache9559
      @britneyroache9559 Pƙed 4 lety +21

      Rebekah N I know you were joking I thought it was funny. lol I was adding on to it. That’s so cool that your family has so much diversity. At some point the census is gonna have to stop asking for ethnicity. Lol

  • @cineaste485
    @cineaste485 Pƙed 2 lety +10

    It was beautiful to see a life long connection grow from people who just met, it was like she’s know her her whole life

  • @jamilasimone
    @jamilasimone Pƙed 2 lety +3

    All relationships all around from son to mother, girlfriend to boyfriend, girlfriend to mother in law (to be hopefully) are so amazing, genuine, and love filled that you can just feel it throughout the video. All smiles from beginning to end ❀

  • @chaelao.4321
    @chaelao.4321 Pƙed 5 lety +4177

    The girlfriend's laugh is hilarious. Keep her

    • @paulwagner454
      @paulwagner454 Pƙed 5 lety +1

      warning_fragile_ babydoll ..... it’s a real , laughter.....

    • @chaelao.4321
      @chaelao.4321 Pƙed 5 lety +2

      @@paulwagner454 .....i......know......

  • @DustSoilStudio
    @DustSoilStudio Pƙed 4 lety +5890

    Ok. This lady is an absolute angel. I love her. If you're adopting, I'm 28 and married and I have a job and my husband has a job and I really just want you to claim me as your daughter. Lol

    • @an3813
      @an3813 Pƙed 4 lety +69

      I support you

    • @mr.playingaoe7227
      @mr.playingaoe7227 Pƙed 4 lety +35

      @@an3813 we all support that claim

    • @merryhart8939
      @merryhart8939 Pƙed 4 lety +22

      She seems like she probably would.

    • @corysfriends8518
      @corysfriends8518 Pƙed 4 lety +15

      I'm 28 and have the best Filipino (mind you smarter than me with a masters degree) Paramore. I was adopted 3 days after birth because it was planned. My mom is my mom , my birth mother was my birth mother, and I've introduced her (GF) to both. Just, shoutout for adoption, you don't have to birth the child to give them an amazing family who they too are apart of, that will one day say "Hey son, hey daughter, I love you and you're making the right call. Your heart is right & we love you."

    • @ewapiatkiewicz
      @ewapiatkiewicz Pƙed 4 lety +2

      Me too

  • @ohnonotzoey6478
    @ohnonotzoey6478 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    This is precious, little choked up by all the love they have for each other. Wish them all the best in their relationship.