authenticity | why i hate shy people RANT
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- čas přidán 20. 05. 2020
- a chatty rant about authenticity, likability, and shyness. i'm assuming i have a ton of unpopular opinions so beware. p.s. shy people don't come for me too hard. lemme know what you think and LIKE if ya feel me.
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Extroverts when they think you owe them a conversation
exactly.
Lol
You’re definitely the girls I actively avoided in highschool
She the kind of woman I avoid now lol.
@@las9582 lol
Same
Some people never grow up, like this one above.
Racist
girl being shy doesn’t mean you’re not confident or inauthentic…this whole vid is just a no
I think people just don't talk to you because you're annoying, doesn't mean that they're shy they probably just don't like you
Glad someone said it. She keeps mentioning that people say she’s overbearing but won’t take that criticism cause she’s too “real” for the rest of us.
Lmaoo right that’s what I was thinking, she’s so rude. How does someone even think it’s okay to post this
🤣
@@bunni9843 oh that’s definitely a red flag I hadn’t noticed. People who say I have no filter or I speak nothing but the truth are usually assholes, like is any of that shit you talked to your “friend” really something you should’ve said considering their feelings? 🤔
Most accurate comment
It's always the people who talk the most that don't think things through
Bro facts I rather have a person who doesn’t talk that much than a person who doesn’t know when to fuckin shut up 🤐
Ain't that the truth.
I was always told that we have 2 eyes 2 ears and one mouth for a reason.
@@fatlemondemon6810 alot people think that being shy is annoying but dont know what happened in their lives to make them be shy, something traumatic, etc. So many reasons on to why you can be shy. So it pisses me off when someone thinks being shy is lazy, or why is it so hard to talk to people.
You aint lying 😀
she seems more insecure than the shy people she’s talking abt lmao
Wait...she? Genuinely thought it was a boy. Just a loud mouth boy.
@@allthatjazz9000 😂😂😂
It tells a lot when people are bothered by others not showing them the attention they want.
That they are narcissistic
THIS!!!!
Fr, like how am I bothering you, by not bothering you?
It's so odd for you to feel bothered by people who go out of their way to not bother you.
@@nxbxxha_1764 well maybe it’s just exhausting to talk? Maybe it’s just better for us to observe and think? What’s wrong with that? We do nothing.
@@Jasjwjwjwhw EXACTLY, You guys do NOTHING. LAZY AF
@@Jasjwjwjwhw Tired even to talk? Alright. Also, I get tired of talking too. I also love peace sometimes and observe, I do understand but I'm still an Extrovert because human beings are social Creatures, we need to express ourselves and open up you know...
@@nxbxxha_1764 yes, but we can do that at our own time. I take a lot of time to open myself and that’s okay.
@@Jasjwjwjwhw yeah but some people are just shy and insecure and It's like they're not here...
I find it offending how you think people who are shy are praised and put on a pedestal, while in actuality if you are shy literally no one cares about you
Actually
I agree, shy people are always neglected and the only time shy people get attention is when people want to change them.
True
LMAO YEAH
Fax
I dislike loud, obnoxious people
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Nothing but facts they’re so annoying
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me too. especially in public. they are the reason I rush to get home
Fr
In a nutshell: why a narcissist hate shy people?
I lost my job because of people like this, people who couldn't mind their business and not harass innocent people who's done nothing to them
Man its horror working with a bunch of extroverts who talk and are so social and youre so quiet it makes you feel unwelcomed and scared
Same. I wasn't bad at my job at all, but simply because I didn't kiss ass and eat lunch with them they thought I thought I was better than them?? Like you can see the insecurity seeping out of them. That's why they're in the huddle and you're not. You're comfortable in yourself. They need constant validation and attention. I know people who can't keep quiet for even two minutes. I know people who call people when alone on the bus stop. Who's really the insecure one here? Ironically, the extrovert.
@@jordanferguson2254 and then some bitches be like, “insecure, no you’re insecure with your quiet ass” sounds like projecting to me 😂
Same. Truly horrible people project their issues onto shy people
@@jordanferguson2254fact
These type of people are what makes the workplace hell, this is how workplace mobbing starts
Yup! Currently dealing w ppl like this in my classroom.
*Me a shy person:* *reads title*
*Me:* *goes straight to the comments*
ikr also tbhk!!!
@@heysquimble yeah it’s a wholesome anime☺️
@@mello.1483 im a simp for natsuhiko :v
@@heysquimble Actually it’s Kou-
SAME THATS THE EXACT THING I DIDDDD
Shyness is not an expensive handbag we wear as an aesthetic to show off
It’s a pair of handcuffs
Yes
well said
Yeah, it really is
And i like it
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I don’t get why people hate shy people when shy people bother nobody and always get bothered
@Eynis Rose Varda ?
I am shy
Because there’s this thing how are you going to get mad that ppl don’t talk to you when you do not talk to them every shy person I met does this
@@jbbrad6798 Bc they are not shy, haha shyness is not real. They are just cowards.
goes both ways I hate loud people that talk to much, all they do is cause chaos with their big fat mouth, try shutting up sometimes because I personally don't want to hear you
Your very negative when it comes to shy people. You are impatient and want everything to be just given to you by the looks of it you don't like building friendships. The foundation of one is building it through time,and shy people and people who are the shyest are actually the most genuine people you'll ever meet. Its actually people like you who can often times be cold and distant not wanting to know someone just because you don't understand them. Obviously you said it yourself "I know you guys have issues" if you know it so what? You don't know why they are being shy there's many reasons for every unique individual. You also sound angry at the fact that you feel like you are straight up and genuine and people don't praise you for that vs the shy person does nothing and they are well liked for doing nothing at all and are more approachable and liked. Within time you'll see that this video was not something to be uploaded but more of a private video for yourself to analyze and see your own problems. Pride vs humble. Often times Pride is loud and fake while humble is quiet and true. Education is Key.
Exactly, this proves 99% of thots to be entitled!!! Malditos comunistas!!!! ☭☭☭☭
Period
Well said
PREACH!!!!!
I don't want to be a nuisance to conclude the fact that you just contradicted yourself.
Wow. People like you are the reason I have had severe anxiety for the past 20 years.
Me too
Me too
Me too
Me too
Same, I can’t stand people like her. Just makes me have even more trust issues
Just need to put this out there. Shy kids are bullied by both teachers and students in school. Never praised, just talk down to
Personal experience
Kinda vague
Yeah..that’s me.
I've experienced both sides of the spectrum.
I'm very shy and a loner with little friends but I was never really bullied people wouldn't really bother to talk to me and just ignore me. But it's alright it's better to be ignored than be bullied, I guess.
I hate rude, loud and opinionated people....most people do
U are opinionated just hiding it behind shyness
@@ladybird491 Having an opinion is not the problem. Opinions are like asses, everybody’s got one. It’s the constant need to express your opinion out loud in effort to be seen and/or validated that is the problem. Some people that are labeled “shy” are just really confident in their truths and don’t need validation. The loudest is the room is oftentimes the loneliest :/
@@ash.ohhhhh the loudest in the room is often at times the most insecure also
True
Being introverted and shy is very difficult in a world filled with extroverts. If I had the choice, I wouldn't be this way. Please, don't make our lives harder by acting like a victim and saying that you hate people like us while you make zero effort trying to understand why we are like this 🙃 That's so incredibly damaging.
It’s because of videos like this is why shy people feel bad about being themselves. Everyone is born different! And there’s nothing wrong with being who you are!
@@strawberriesblueberries2258 i agree
So true
I’m shy but stop saying “we” it’s fucking creepy
Same with me I'm a introvert and shy
Real title: why introverts stay away from narcissists
Ding ding!!
Or how to sound like an idiot for 7 minutes and 22 seconds.
This video was very insensitive and probably something you should’ve kept to yourself. It’s extremely rude to insinuate that someone has no personality just because they’re shy. Being shy also doesn’t mean that a person is scared to show who they really are, and it isn’t something you can just stop overnight. Plus, have you considered that they may just not want to talk to you? Not everyone will and that’s ok. It doesn’t mean that they have walls up or are “hiding who they are.” I personally have no interest in getting to know random strangers on a deeper level, and they probably feel the same.
Amen preach
Exactly and people act like we’re that obligated to speak to them
Facts
Because of people like you I’m struggling to survive high school and life in general. Just leave us alone
Don't worry. After school is over, that kind of stuff doesn't matter anymore. Popularity also doesn't matter anymore. Many of the popular kids in my school ended up gaining a lot of weight, not to mention their personalities did a 180.
Exactly !!!!!
After the quarantine us introverts will have our rise!!!!
I disliked the video before I watched it, 😂
@@DreamingHearts well damn🤣🤣
a lot of shy people actually aren’t shy but have social anxiety. especially when you have selective mutism, trying to talk is some sort of challenge. a lot of quiet people were belittled for many years and because nobody tries to help them they hide themselves so they don’t get hurt anymore. a lot of it also develops into trust issues.
Omg yes. I struggle with this as well as the fact that nobody listens to me
Why does someone feel someone's rude for being quiet? Is there some reason those that need to hear themselves speak can't survive in a silent situation? If you walk into a room and the person doesn't say hi that's one thing but being obligated to speak why? I hate speaking for the sake of speaking
@@melmcbride Smh y’all think it’s SO easy..
@@melmcbride Usually people who say this have egos or self centered not everyone has to socialize just to make you feel good about yourself
She sounds like she has an ego problem.
she talks so much..
....... She probably thinks she doesnt say enough
Right! But you dont see me making a whole video about it. Who would think that being a shy person causes her to be this enraged.
@@ninaboston4714 I don’t think she’s shy, she’s just open minded, which is not a common trait among unauthentic people
@@_devil__0nline67 pretty sure they meant that people who are shy make the lady in the video mad, not that that lady is shy, its really just the opposite,, she is very obnoxious
People like her are the ones people don't like because she is forceful and feels that she can dictate to the world.
Narcissist extrovert. Shy people are like her, but introvert.
"Don't ever hit my line"
Girl you're talking about people who actively avoid others, you don't have to worry about them hitting you up 💀
I’m shy and I don’t feel offended by this.
@@ms.playboyinternational393 Well a lot of us are so 🤷🏽♀️
God forbid there’s more than one personality type! People are multifaceted!! Don’t tell people to stop being shy!! Ask yourself what is it in you, that it bothers you so much! Worry about your own life!!
I don't think he\she quite gets that through its stupid skull. Gross little person it is.
A lot of shy people grew up in emotionally abusive households and literally can’t help it bc they grew up trying to protect themselves
Girl, you think you have a strong personality but you are just rude and uncomfortable to be around. I hope you realize that in the future, it will make your life easier...
exactly! she’s nothing but some random rude woman up here talking about absolutely nothing
I was watching this video, and my face was all scrunched up like there was a stank ass smell in the air, because that’s all this video produced.
I'm so proud of the people in the comments section ! These so called extroverts who consider themselves authentic are actually the biggest bullies ever and can't digest the fact that not everyone is loud, annoying, judgemental and obnoxious like them !
As an extrovert myself I am sorry to say this, but you clearly do not know what the word Introvert means.
I wouldn’t want to live in a world with one personality type. You’re basically saying people should conform to your ideas of how a person should be. Let people be different.
Amen I agree
Diversity!! Let's goo!
Yes one personality type, thats boring, if theres one personality type then everyone would be boring and probably like the same things, we need diversity.
I really like how everyone is dragging her 🤷🏾♀️
Yup, she deserves it lol
lol yeah
Restores my faith in humanity. I may be shy but I've met charismatic people who rape children. I'm the bad guy??
She deserves it
Exactly. So far, the charming extroverts have been the people who destroyed my life. Never again. Lol.
I talk, I get told to shut up, I stop talking and I'm told to talk more...
Yes
Yes, we are never good enough.
and i hate people who talk too much or bully someone else for being different. your point is..
No wonder they “switch up” and don’t wanna be friends w you😭
School Bully Vibes
Yea
Yupp ! She's definitely bullied a lot of people in her life !! Can't even imagine how miserable it must have been for them !
Some people have mental illness and you can't just say stop being shy, well it's hard okay! If it's that easy, there will be no shy people in this world.
_You're ruining our image_
Omg that's what people need to understand
exactly that’s what people need to understand! maybe we are shy cause something happened in our lives like bullying
There is nothing wrong with being shy. It’s okay to be yourself. I have social anxiety that’s why I’m shy.
@@strawberriesblueberries2258 i also have social anxiety
No one puts shy people on a pedestal, they get forgotten. If anything society puts people like you on kings throne and let you get away with anything
I completely agree. Shy people get teased and laughed at as children, and as teenagers, they get dumped by boyfriends and girlfriends. Everyone worships the out-going and out-going people are always popular and the biggest bullies too.
@@strawberriesblueberries2258 yes and even my classmate who i thougt was my friend said she dosnt like me because im shy and not active and i almost cried
Exactly, I feel like extroverts are more openly praised, noticed, and gravitated towards. Shy people don't really get attention at all. At least it's hard to, cuz we're so freaking quite and boring
@@Once_2 I'm sorry, you'll come across a lot of people like that in the world though. It's best to just open up to people who actually care about you, and tell everyone else to get f***ked. Of course you gotta be careful who you open up too, or else you'll get a repeat of that, or worse get stabbed in the back. Keep your head up
I saw ur title and clicked. But r u serious?? to all my shy and quiet people their is nothing wrong with u guys. I’m shy and quiet myself and people like this use to make me hate myself for it.
I completely agree with you. I was shy all my life. This person is obviously a bully, and very ignorant.
All my life I felt like something was wrong with me. Am I weird or something but this girl is a bully, she is giving me Regina george vibes.
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This person screams narcissistic
If you’re overbearing you don’t scare people you just turn people off. It seems like you are trying to control people instead of allowing people to be themselves. If you don’t like shy people just go find ppl who are more extroverted and stop focusing on ppl who are shy. Then ppl may care to be your friend
Amen!!! I can’t stand people like her.
You sound insecure. You don’t have to admit it. You know deep down inside your heart,that you are. You’re covering up your insecurities. You don’t want the world to see the “flawed” you,so you hide it. Work on your insecurities instead of hating on people that you don’t even know.
Exactly
@@makailarobinson8723 Thank you for agreeing with me😊.
why do we bother you so much? what did we even do to you lmaoo
For those of you who hate shy people! Shy people hate you too!
Lol word
Pretty sure
True facts
Im a social introvert, this chick is the type of person I wouldn't allow to know me.
On behalf of other shy ppl,
*LEAVE👏🏻 US👏🏻 ALONE!!👏🏻*
I've literally been bullied since I was in 5th grade for being shy, people spread rumors about me, talked about me RIGHT INFRONT MY FACE, I had NO friends, and even the fucking teachers would judge me and my OWN mother. Then when I tried to stand up to myself, they always to fight me, and no one even took up for me... The whole school was against me, for just literally not being social.
Because I was shy everyone thought I was @bU$ed
Me tooooooo seventh grade was one of my worst years
Same here
Sameeee
Bro❤😮
Just because you don’t mesh with shy people doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with them. I’m a shy antisocial woman and I would 100% avoid you lol. Maybe it’s a insecurity within you that needs the validation of someone being exactly like you to feel comfortable. People don’t have to change themselves to please you just move around..
Do you mean asocial lol
@@user-ui7tn1fq2bexactly. i like that u caught that 🤙
@@user-ui7tn1fq2bYes! I was going to say this too. Other than the misuse of antisocial this comment is awesome and I fully support it.
Asocial not anti
It’s weird to “hate” someone for that you could be annoyed by it but to “hate” is actually weird
Why would you even be annoyed by it?
i doubt she actually "hates" shy people. its most likely just to get more clicks. and even if she does, ok so? Who cares if some loudmouth on the internet 'hates' you lol. Thats actually hilarious. Just keep living your life
Tell me that your insecure, without telling me that your insecure.
I hate loud irritating self obsessed people...
It's because of people like you that I have severe social anxiety.
the hard parts of being shy
-can’t talk to people even if you wanted
- can’t do things around people
-notice everything but don’t GET noticed
- act differently around friends
- try to follow the trends
- think your not perfect
- wish they were different
-can’t ask questions in class
- wishing they were popular
- some are suicidal
- wishing they were like the tik tokers and wanting to be perfect like them
- being nice to everyone but being treated like CRAP
- being the best person they can be but don’t feel like one
- being told “why don’t you talk” and “stop being shy”
- having to follow but not lead
- seeing videos like THIS and being depressed
- doesn’t talk to peoples cause you don’t know what to say
- only has online friends cause ur to scared to talk to real ones
stop and walk in someone’s shoes or watch Dhar Mann for a change lol
This is really accurate
story of my life :(
Um maybe not Dharmann he makes..not very good lesson videos from a critical view
Exactly, when I was in school, one of the women asked why don't you talk? Also I start to sweat when I talk to someone. I've been really wanting to talk normally to the kid next to me, but I just can't, I can't make conversation. I'm the only one in my family that does't have friends. When my sister mentions her friends, I start to cry, If I can talk, I'll make short conversation, I even got Isol for people who don't speak English but I know it. Being shy is just be trying. I always think before I speak. I really wanna make friends. YES I Had therapy but I haven't went for a year
Spot on! As a shy person, I relate to almost all of these! Thank you for sharing.
I see.. so you're a person who can't put yourself in other peoples shoes
Who hurt you? Sounds like a YOU problem.
Fr
In fact, you know what disgusts me? Extroverts they never stop talking and get pretty annoying
True the irony of extroverts saying people like me and you are annoying, when they are irritating. She thinks I am "mousey". Yet she would not be saying that if she heard me sing louder than a barking dog. 🤦♀️
The thing about quiet people we are very discerning and your personality is something we would pick up and not like
I think most people see shyness as social rejection…so this is mostly based on her insecurities and lack of empathy. It’s actually really sad. Who cares if a shy person doesn’t feel like talking to your ass, you’re probably not that interesting or welcoming to be around anyway.
Y’all don’t even need to watch the video, just dislike and move on. Nothing to see here. Don’t let her insecurity make y’all feel bad about your shy personalities. ❤ Be you. If you’re shy or introverted, you’re still valid. If you’re loud and extroverted, you’re still valid. Just fucking let people be themselves, shit.
I dislike obnoxious people who always talk. They’re like no substance. They talk nonstop that they don’t have time to think and reflect. “Empty cans make a lot of noise” that quote suits you very well.
I like keeping to myself. Quiet people are just them being themselves. They become real to people they trust. Maybe you’re just not trustworthy.
Exactly why she made this video and posted it🤣
how does this affect you though.. if you don't like someone because they're shy, than just don't hang out with them, but with people you like. making a video like this though, that aint it. it's just offending
also about the social media thing. Our online self is the real us. We talk freely and we're chill because we don't have to look at an actual person, feeling their judgemental look, we don't have to frantically think about what to say next or if our voice sounds weird.. Look, if we could be like you and say what we thought, talk how we want, trust me, we would.
@Friskies Catfood yes fr
Exactly, GOD sometimes I wish I was more like other people, but that's not who I am and wouldn't change it for a thing.
@@Livviegirlie YES preach
Facts
exactlyy💯
I’m constantly trying so hard to talk and reach out but I can’t, and when people say stuff like this it absolutely shatters me because even when I put the most effort into trying to be extroverted people still notice I’m bad at talking and shy. Not all people have the ability to be open and loud and talkative.
Stay true to who u are because it's good for the soul don't listen to this young lady because it's clear she has no sense
I would much rather stay shy than be friends with someone like you. Shy people are not incapable of making friends. We just know when someone is worth befriending and we open ourselves up from there. If shy people aren't picking you specifically, that sounds like a you problem.
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daaaaam told em
@@Tenebrae6918 SHUT UP PLEASE
Why people can see through her. She is not genuine and kind and we introverts can sense it.
Shy and introverted are two separate things. Maybe they don’t wanna open up to you because they either have anxiety or they just don’t trust/like you! As an introvert I love showcasing my personality, just not to ppl I don’t fw 💀
If I were to try to be more outgoing, I wouldn't be authentic to who I am. I am authentic in my quietness. I own it. Quiet people are quickly drained from social interactions. It's biological and i honor that in myself and care for that. Ive come to love myself even more because of the judgment ive taken from people like you who don't try to understand people who arent accepted by societal standards. Quiet people are not put on pedestals. We are harassed and judged and ignored by society. However it's great not needing to be surrounded by others to be happy. My happiness comes from within, not from external validation. I prefer a few quality friendships rather than quantity. Im quiet, but am judged for minding my own business throughout the day. I can hold a conversation, but dont force them. Im creative, thoughtful, wise, and have a lot to offer to those who dont judge me for something as superficial as being quiet. Im happy being the way I am, as are you. We don't want people prying into our lives, breaking down our "walls." They aren't walls, they're boundaries, and it isnt anyone's "job" to violate them and pry them open. I only hear a lot of judging what you don't understand. That same judgement is the reason we decide to stay quiet. If it bothers you SO much, then I encourage you to look at your relationship with your parents. You can talk to them about it and learn from them. Even if you don't understand, at least try to accept the differences instead of judge. We will only open up to people who can show they are accepting, understanding, and not so pushy. Otherwise we know we will just face more judgment. I don't see myself as having any type of illness. Im just not a clone of society. I think for myself. When I speak I offer value and thought. What's wrong with being different?
Humans do not understand that they too selfish and arrogant
What a weird person ain’t nothing wrong with being shy. People like you are sometimes why people are shy.
She doesn’t realize how immature and weird she is
It's always the people crowing about how "real" they are who have the least amount of self-awareness.
Shyness tends to come from trauma so shy people tend to be more empathetic, unproblematic, and open minded. The world is designed for extroverts to thrive and oppress the introverts/shy/anxious people in this world.
Imagine telling someone to stop being shy, it isn't a setting that can be turned off, that sounds like a 1 brain cell argument.
This is a very personal thing to disclose, but i was abused my whole childhood in every way imaginable! I was painfully shy as a kid, and as an adult I've grown out of much of the shyness but not all of it! You have no clue what a shy person may have gone through to make them this way! I don't like people like you, because you're a bully!
Shy people are actually aware that they are potrayed as shy to certain people because they dont wanna open up to that person simply because they are not their vibe and they dont feel like wasting their time on that person. So if you are dealing with shy people is time for self reflection. You might discover that shy people have a small list of quality friends which they do open up fast.
Out-going folks don’t have much friends either they just have more acquaintances.
Some shy people are narcs
Honestly if u meet a shy person there going to be the best friend u ever had and that’s a fact. 💅🏽
Lol too bad a shy person won't become her best friend
They are the most loyal mates too
@@Leauhh LOL PLS
@@strawberriesblueberries2258 ikr
Exactly. When people met me they thought I was shyest person ever. But I'm just observant. And when they got to know me, they would talk to me non stop, always come to me everything. Invite me to everything.
I don’t think you have to worry about any shy people coming your way. Your unaware presence is likely repelling for many. And it is a good thing! You said so much about yourself within 7 minutes that I could easily break down who you are. Please continue to stay in your own bubble with types like yourself. People who are truly communicative and sociable respects other differences, perhaps research why someone is the way they are. If you don’t have time or patience to educate yourself about shy people, that’s okay! Some people ain’t meant to gel with certain others but the ignorance is very unnecessary. And it sounds like you have personal problems that makes you on the strong defense against shy people. Only you can figure that out of on your own. Self reflection helps, including some QUIET time to sort out your frustration. 😊
Holy Hell. Drag her for filth! Thank you.
Couldn't have said it better queen
And she's very unattractive looking too.
Ong
nah bro u sat her tf down
You're obviously projecting. You should really learn about people before you hate on them.
"personality that scares people away"
nah just an annoying personality
What did us shy people do ? We’re just trying to live our lives like you .
Believe me, no one wants to be shy. With shy, i mean - poor social skills, being nervous and scared around people, some degree of social phobia or anxiety... I don't want this lol. It sucks. I didn't choose to be this way and it's not because I'm trying to be edgy and "hate people." It's like an irrational fear that holds you back. Just avoid us but there's no need to be rude.
Alot of people fake shyness, are narcs.
People who talk endlessly (ahem) tend to not know how to think sometimes and it’s showing in this video.
It's like she wants all shy/introverted people to disappear.
Why are you even on CZcams to be insulting people like this. Get off
extroverts are the least authentic people tbh
why do u need to go to shy people tho? just go to outgoing ones??? why do u have to blame them?
Exactly.
Exactly her arguments are so stupid.
“Like omg their all losers and I’m the awesome one”
Pretty much all this video talked about 😐
Normally I am open minded and say "to each his own" but in this case I can't, this whole video is ridiculous, from the title to the last second, literally her only argument is that "being a shy person is synonymous with being aesthetic and fake". Ignorance at its highest potential
I just KNOW u talk about ppl behind their backs
I don’t know why anyone would want any to talk to you if this is how you are.
This video is an eye opener, now I see how bullies think because that is literally how it starts. Bullying doesn't have to only mean getting pushed around in the school yard. It can also be people like this person in this video or being ostracised in the workplace for not laughing at your boring, nonsensical "jokes". People like this are the reason I'm shy.
She thought ahe would get tons of approval and likes from us but she is close minded and thats worse than being shy
Why can’t people like you understand that some people just want to be left alone? The ones you talking about don’t f with you and you’re triggered by it. They want nothing to do with you and that bothers your ego. I’m an introvert and am only very social to people that I feel I have a connection to.
Since when did extroverts become authentic ? Y'all are confusing authenticity with rudeness !
I'm guessing you were one of those annoying, chatty, mean girls in high school🤨 riiiight? Lol, you are a prime example of why people don't like a lot of extroverts🤣
I HIGHLY doubt it.... Definitely not "mean girl" material
@@workphone6883 she's literally being mean in the video. read the title
You know what I've always found sad about extroverts? (Because lets be clear, there are just as many cons of being an extrovert as there are for being an introvert). Ive always noticed that extroverts can never actually relax either. Like they always have to be DOING something or always have to have other people around them to be comfortable. If they have to be alone with themselves, they just ITCH AND SQUIRM. Another thing is that they often speak before they think (kinda like this whole video). Introverts have a better ability to observe their surroundings and that actually comes in handy for having positive interactions with people and for safety situations as well. Also i have to add that nobody knows what the hell you're talking about when you say that shy people are on a pedestal. We constantly get bullied, walked on, insulted, disrespected, etc. I see no pedestal here. But either way, i like who i am as a quiet person because im also an extremely caring, loving person who can be comfortable in my own skin whether im alone or not and whether im at home or in public. I will never have to feel the same anxiety as you do if im not constantly surrounded by people and pointless noise. And you know whats best about people like me? The things we do choose to say are usually things of value and are positive. We dont just blat loud dumb stuff at a constant rate so we can feel liked lol
Being shy has nothing to do with authenticity. In fact, you're trying to paint naturally shy people as being "inauthenitc" is your insecurity towards people you can not understand. It's one thing to think they're "interesting" sure, but your title includes an actual emotion towards someone that isn't even paying attention to you, and you can't stand that. That's called insecurity.
Being an introvert is so scary in this world. People hate me when I mind my own business and staying to myself. It so fucking annoying
Yeah its even harder at work
yep. it certainly is hell at work.
yeah I have introvert qualities and I don't care what anyone thinks.
@yakzivz1104 what I'm noticing is even when u don't care, they will try to make you care by harassing u.
@@sigmasiren777 I was harassed for a year and a half straight, everyday
No they aren’t a shell. Shy people take time to open up but once they do they are just as extroverted with you as the next person. If a shy person remains shy around you it’s means they aren’t comfortable with you.
People that ramble on is like hearing a dog barking to me lol.
Now I understand the bible verse which says ''the voice of a fool is known by a multitude of words''
Basically you’re compensating for something and don’t want to be picked on about it so you’re overly extroverted to appease the group and introverts intimidate you because they don’t need the validation that you seek.
That’s exactly what I get from this video tbh.
You're the kind of person the world doesn't need
FR
Tf no
Exactly
I get that you're upset but comments like that are pretty dangerous
@@juliane2102 for God's sake, please dont look at it from some racist angle cause it's not, she's legit talking bullshit and all I'm saying is she should really change her thinking because the only thing 'dangerous' around here is her mindset
Hating people just because they aren't the way you want them to be makes you an AH sorry.
Bro wtf is this
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This video is absolutely disgusting, insensitive and offensive. So heartless and rude