QUIET individuals are often disliked. People HATE what they can’t figure out!
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Another reason to stay quiet is because the more information you reveal about yourself, the more your coworkers will use it against you for gossip. I learned that the hard way. Always keep distance from everyone at work.
I need to remind myself of this.
I'm a quiet person. I'm fine. I like my privacy. There are noisy people that wanna know this and that about me. I DON'T CARE. I do me and keep it moving. I don't do messy people. That's why I do a lot on my OWN. Love it.
Love it!!! Be comfortable with who you are and make NO APOLOGIES for it!!! Thank you for your comment! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
That is me 100% of the time at work. I go to work, I do my work and go home. I am very polite and respectful. People wonder why I’m so quiet and keep to myself. I’ve been burned in the workplace before. Our finance controller alwayysss comments on how I’m so quiet. Coworkers are not your friends.
I always feel the need to job hop every few years because at work they are offended by me being quiet.
Literally same here.
Currently going thru this
People are weird man smh.
Being a quiet introvert i see how people look at me im chillen
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Chatty people always seem to talk gibberish and look foolish, whereas quieter people tend to seldom look foolish for the reasons I said about chatty people.
Yep! People love busy bodies because that's who they are.. people are full of drama and mess and they hate when you are set apart and focused on doing good and staying out the way
FACTS!!!
In other countries like Sweden, Finland, or Japan, being introvert is not big deal at all.
FACTS!!!! I’ve been to Japan and they could care less about a quiet person.
I have been to Finland and Japan and both countries were nice and quiet.
I need to move to Japan bro
I love my solitude and privacy. I don't like people. I don't trust anybody. I don't have any friends and that's the way I like it. I go to work, do my job and go home. I have two 15 minute breaks and 1 hour lunch break and have them in my vehicle. Peace and quiet. Enjoy your day ❤❤😊😊.
Chile me too! And my coworkers can’t stand it but I do not care!
😂love this 🙌
Most of the people at your job don’t like you anyway they’re just offended that you figured out they aren’t worth engaging. Nasty people don’t like to be exposed lol.
LOL FACTS!!!
Especially narcissistic ppl
My problem is that it hurts my ability to network and find better jobs. People assume that the more charm you display, the smarter you are. They just want to be around charming, talkative people.
Really much of a struggle. It messes your finances. We can't get fire all the fkng time. Ugh !
I feel like people think I’m boring and goody two shoes. I don’t like gossip or talking negatively about anything but most women in the office do that unfortunately.
Yeah like a lot of work places… People will do whatever in order to help them get through the day. If you not gossiping or talking constitutes you as “boring” then so be it. There’s no point in gossiping with others because they’ve already shown you what they would do when you’re not around. If they gossip to you they will also gossip about you.
Ohh ya . At work. They want to know all your business for their agendas. God knows. 👍🤙☝️
Exactly!… It’s none of their business. 💯
They will definitely use whatever they can against you, or just undermine you because they’re resentful. I had a co-worker I was close to for years, but she changed and became self-serving. So when my paid-off car got totaled, I didn’t tell her I paid cash for a replacement. I told her I had a high car payment.
I was eating at the lunch table at work. People were talking about their personal lives. I minded my own business. One young woman announced: “Amy (referring to me) is judging you.” Why on earth was she being hostile toward me, and trying to get everyone against me? What’s wrong with keeping your opinions to yourself? Once upon a time that was considered good manners.
Because misery loves company and they hate those that don’t engage in it. Just as much as they put their business out there they want to know yours and you’re not giving them ammunition. Don’t worry about that though… Keep doing you! They’ll be alright lol
I don't fully buy into the introvert/extrovert thing. Human beings are innately tribal and are open, friendly, and honest towards those who share their beliefs, values, and interests. We tend to hostile and reserved towards strangers and bitter enemies that we don't like. Being silent is at certain times is a necessary survival instinct whenever you are surrounded by ppl you share no common ground with or seek to harm you. A so called quiet person will easily be sociable when he is around the right person that knows him very mall. Morality is tribal and conditional not universal.
This is a good video!! I used to have a small group of girls that I hung out with, and one thing I remember them doing was just bad mouthing their husbands. I just sat and listened because I couldn't relate to any of it because I don't have those problems with my husband. I was accused of acting better than them, which was not the case at all. People are funny!! I no longer have them as friends or have any friends, but I am okay with it at this point in my life. 😊
Yeah some people just hate that you don’t share in their misery. Misery loves company and that’s good on you for not taking the bait. Even if you did have issues with your husband what business is that of theirs!!! People are insane these days I swear lol. Lastly I saw that you became a member of the channel last night! Thank you so much and I can’t tell you how grateful I am to have loyal supporters like yourself. God bless you and your family! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
It took me a longgg time to like my personality, but I realized like you said it sure is a blessing
It’s easy to not like it due to others not being accepting of it so it may cause you to question yourself. But if you are most at peace just being you then you’re happier than a lot of people who aren’t comfortable being themselves. 💯
It definitely is 💯
TYmy brother. I have gottn that for years at work! I feel best with my family and few select friends.
And there is NOTHING wrong with that! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Same here. People in the workplace can be toxic
Thank You. Im glad you told us what I’ve been thinking and saying all along. People who talk about this always point that finger at us. But as we heard many times, when one finger is pointed at us, several more will be pointed back at them.
Just because we’re quiet, doesn’t mean we have to be mistreated a certain way based on how quiet people are perceived. It’s a personal problem that they need to re-assess. Perhaps if they show up better, then problems wouldn’t arise everytime they see us.
There the way things should be, and there’s the way things are. We are living in the real world. Smile and put out some energy to greet people in a friendly manner. Always be cordial and pay attention to others when you walk from one area to another.
So much truth brother
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Great content my bro, keep it up! Love your mindset, very helpful bro
Thank you for your support. I appreciate you! 🫡💯💯
The girlfriend of my manager at work would always scream in my ear "hi" (my name) !! In a overly non-authentic tone, when I'd pass by her for three months, its was soo annoying. What he sees in her...... who knows.
lol… guess there’s someone for everyone as they say.
Such a great content
Thank you friend! 🙏🏿💯
So true
jeeez, lot of realness
This video definitely made me feel a little better about myself but I have a question. What does it mean if you're an introvert but that doesn't necessarily mean that you want to be alone? In the sense that while you're a loner, you secretly desire approval, validation, recognition, and affection but getting those things seem hard without compromising.
Getting that isn’t hard from those that are meant to be a part of your life. Being an introvert has nothing to do with being alone, but that you don’t require as much attention as an extrovert. To expound on that what I mean is that instead of desiring attention from the majority, you’re content with fewer. At the end of the day, no one desires to be totally alone as that’s not even healthy, but that you don’t require validation from EVERYONE, but rather those that matter to you. You don’t have to compromise yourself for those that are meant for you…. They will understand you.
@@BigMike_RTTV I see, thank you.
🔥🔥 thanks for the video. I just started my CZcams channel. And used this for reaction
Yo I saw that! I’m honored man I really am! Thank you and hope you go on to do great things! Salute! 🫡💯💯💯
@@BigMike_RTTV thanks man I appreciate it. Do you have any tips on getting my videos noticed?
Key words in your title that people commonly search for is one (i.e. narcissists), and another is key words in the tags before you post. However if I’m being honest, I’m not really big on that type of stuff. I just post what’s on my heart & I have just gotten more comfortable in front of the camera over time as it was really awkward at first. Lastly, I’m just my authentic self. When others sense that you’re being authentic they will rock with you bro.