Women Like This Are Impossible To Please (MAJOR Red Flag Behavior)
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I’ve never had a date where I’ve said “I’ve learned so much from you”. She must be going on dates and preaching her values and her insight on things instead of simply having a conversation.
Good guess, I was thinking along the same lines. It's seems a peculiar thing to say. She was lecturing him and he simped on it.
@daveblackman816 any man saying that is probably being sarcastic and she's too stupid to get it
She hasn't had a date with Chad who will spend so much on her the f'inism leaves her body. Then again I can see this one resenting someone for spending that money.
Out loud, "I've learned so much from you". Inside my head, "I've learned I don't want to date you".
@@pierrelevasseur2701 Pretty much spot on. Every time she hears that she know's the guy is bouncing.
She's freaking out becauses they always say that before skipping out on her.
"Youve taught me so much..." reall means: "about you, and that's more than enough, bye!"
Yup.. she made a vid because this isn't the first time.
Yep
Exactly! Im surprised Courtney didn't pick up on that and mention that as well.
I love the theory, but I don't think there are that many men who have the balls to even passive aggressively say that. Most people (men and women) just ghost.
@@jtp336 To be fair, there's no context, so she could be talking about anything, but I agree with the poster. They dont mean it the way she's taking it.
For a guy to say..."You taught me a lot"...usually means this woman was running her mouth the entire time without asking him any questions or showing interest in him whatsoever. She obviously got triggered and felt some type of way about it. This is a guilty conscience response. She didn't view it as a compliment because it is a subtle reminder of a character trait she has. She's self absorbed.
If she doesn’t want to teach men why is she lecturing men?
And if he interrupted her, she'd take to TikTok to complain how she was abused on a date...
To feel superior because she feels inferior. It's a narcissistic complex being developed in the greater population of women, in my opinion.
Exactly! Why would she "school him" and he tells her "Thanks for teaching me" Then she turns around and says "What do you mean? I'm not your teacher"! 😂🙄 I feel so bad for men nowadays
@@Naturefan354 Her lecture that we saw - repeating "women are not her teachers" - might be something her subconscious is saying to _her_ that she's misinterpreting as being for others. She knows _she_ isn't supposed to be the teacher - so she's blaming the man for being the student, even though it wasn't his doing.
She was speaking to women
I had a serious relationship with a woman that would pick apart everything I ever said to her, not because she actually took my words the wrong way, she knew exactly what I meant, but because she thought it was good to “keep me on my toes.” It was a game to her. She thought it was fun and humorous. I told her it was rude, extremely disrespectful and that I wouldn’t tolerate it. She didn’t understand. She couldn’t wrap her head around the fact that our relationship wasn’t a game to me. She turned out to be one of the worst things that ever happened to me.
Predictably.
At least you finally left
I would have noped out immediately. I wouldn’t tolerate being disrespected.
Begging your pardon, but WHY did you stay with her long enough to have a serious relationship with her in the first place? Why didn't you GTFO after the first few dates, when this trait no doubt first manifested itself? THAT'S what I can't understand!
@@markymarknjThis seems incredibly simple and obvious to you, because he summarized the relationship only from that perspective. But there is more to people than their flaws. Even if those flaws turn out to be permanent, acting like one red flag should be an obvious and immediate dismissal is funny.
I was in a 4 year relationship with an unconscious, passive aggressive and feminist who NEEDED to be at war with me. I tried to make it clear that she was wrong, but she couldn't understand until after I was gone, her cats died of neglect as I predicted and she scoffed at me, she lost her job and was admitted to an inpatient psychiatric facility after having a psychotic break when she gave her heart to a guy who wasn't interested, but didn't mind the constant sex.
It took me a long time to figure out she was nothing worth fighting for, and she couldn't even understand that I am also a human being. Not until she was destroyed.
Dating social media is so negative constantly. Really glad I found this channel.
Agreed. Check out Corey Wayne too, solid relationship/dating advice.
Growing on my 20s, women used to tell me i wasn't financially there to commit into a relationship.
Last day i saw a girl complaining about guys on their 30s not knowing relationship skills.
It's a check mate, we're just never enough
so, they don't blatantly ask for a car anymore?
Just be yourself and be ignorant about the bad critics. Though never ignore well-meaning critics.
I've been saying for a while that when women say "there aren't any good guys" what they actually mean is "no man is good enough" (or, alternatively: "the guys I want don't want me and I don't like that")
As the song goes, ' Sometimes love just ain't enough!'
It's in their nature to never be content
If she’s so easily triggered by that, she should definitely stay single. She already sounds like a pain in the ass to be around. 😅
She's like that one girl who when you say you look pretty today she's like "WHY AM I ONLY PRETTY TODAY? AREN'T I PRETTY EVERYDAY?! DICK!"
All of them are
She sounds like she smokes 3 packs a day.
I don’t drink. I had one woman say “if you don’t drink what would we do?” These ladies are getting weird. I know not all women are like this. But man, it’s getting hard to find some who aren’t.
True that!
She was asking for sex.
lmao i had exactly the opposite with some. dude just don't waste your time on this 😆
I told someone I didn’t drink on our first date, her response was “That’s weird.” 🤨
They are being twisted by social media.
In this instance, “You’ve taught me so much” translates to “you have so many issues, I’m going to pass now before I incur additional damages.”
That's how I heard it, even though the video maker was deaf to it.
Run. Fast. Far.😮
Its a polite way of saying "I'm outta here you crazy 304!"
When a guy says you taught me a lot, he was politely saying you have too many red flags and oftentimes the features like nails and hair can tell you who those women are from a distance. Regardless, if women are teachers why are the vast majority of teachers in public schools women in the vast majority of kindergarten and preschool teachers women? Of course they aren't teachers of special skills but they sure can keep the attention of a child far better than a man who has things to get done
Well in your case you are educating so when people comment you taught them something, it's not in a rude way
I think she's paraphrasing (or lying). After listening to her for 10 seconds, I think he actually said he had learnt his lesson.
Why is there always a dude who makes it cringe
Because about 2/3rds of college degrees are awarded to women. You can say the same thing about college educators.
Well said Mate, Basically a Man has a real job to get on with.
A little child threw a tantrum. The child wanted a toy. The parents reluctantly purchased the toy. Upon receiving the toy, to the dismay of the parents, the child began to complain about the toy. 😆 Some people never grow up.
Stop saying the stupid gd saying grow up it doesnt help anyone learn a different fucking phrase
Couldn’t be put any better than that. She sounds insane. Don’t even look datable anyway.
The “Pardon my lack of grace” comment has gotta be the funniest thing I ever heard you say since I started watching your channel 😂😂😂
Well I didn’t experience this as a boyfriend but as a husband from my ex wife. When I would ask if she can make dinner she said I’m not your maid, or your mother. When I was trying to understand certain things, she would say I don’t need to explain it to you like if your a little kid. But yeah there is certainly some resentment going on with that woman you showed.
I worked in a restaurant for and there were guests who were extremely miserable. I could tell before they got food that nothing we do will be good enough. When the family came with out that person it was a night and day difference
Interesting perspective, thank you!
Some people have whatl I call the Goldilocks complex with
one major difference. While Goldilocks found the porridge and bed that were just right, these people are never satisfied. To hot, to cold, to wet not wet enough or dry enough etc.
Women are here to make us better men. My grandmother, my mother, my daughters, and the women I call friends have all helped to become not just a better man, but a better human being.
btw aren't mothers making the kids better humans too? 😆 doesn't make sense xd
When you said “If you’re not their first choice.. then why be one at all?”. That shit really struck a chord with me after being rejected by a women I was crazy over. I can’t settle for less.. and I won’t. Thanks Courtney.
Jesus I needed to read this comment as well. I can relate
This kinda stuff happened to me yesterday. I was flirting with a gal, her nonverbal communication said "i like whats happening right now" yet she kept saying "hahaha youre such a jerk hehehehe." I asked why she said that and she said she didn't mean it and i should know what she thinks from her actions. I asked her to stop calling me a jerk then she just kept doing it. I even repeated asking her to stop calling me a jerk. Needless to say I won't be talking to her again but why did she keep being insulting after being told about it explicitly? Why are women ok with expressing contradictions? (Hint for the ladies being confusing makes good men run)
I would have ended it and walked away after she called me a jerk the second time. She kept insulting you because you allowed her to. She found a way to trigger you and by continuing to insult you, she was showing you zero respect.
My question to you is, why did you stick around?
@SteveLuke1 We were in a group, not one on one.
I want people to tell me I did something they didn't like and be given a chance to correct myself, so I do that for others.
@@ethanmiller5487 How were you flirting with her? What did you say to her that prompted her to insult you? Did she call you an idiot in anger or disgust, or was it playful banter? We need all the details! Knowing the whole story will allow us to form a better opinion and offer you advice.
Women like being mistreated by men, so they assume that we like it when they're disrespectful to us. We do not, we actually LIKE when people are nice to us!
Imagine going on a date and getting lectured from the moment you meet until the date ends. Let me guess, she's still single.
She probably talked the boner right out of him. He was probably saying everything she was saying taught him everything he needed to know about her
If you've gone on a date in the past 10 years with a Western whoman, you don't have to "imagine."
@@CharlieBravo887 The last time I went on a date was 2015. I'd already thrown in the towel by then. Want a peaceful life without never ending stupidity and drama? Just do what I did. Thinking hard about moving back overseas.
Some feral cats are looking for a HOME!
And not only that but it’s this girl with the extremely off-putting dramagirl attitude.
She lacks emotional maturity. She has no business being angry about something so stupid. I grew up around people with terrible anger issues, some even bipolar. It's unsustainable. People who are emotionally immature at a late age behave this way because they're around submissive people who are willing to put up with it for a long time, and the emotionally immature people feel validated by their behavior because no one calls them out on it or they retreat to the people who keep putting up with it. Some day, when they decide to go on one of their fits, they'll do it to the wrong person at the wrong time. Not everyone puts up with others' behavior the way you expect.
I loved that. Thank you for the detailed clarification.
Hi i know we don't know each other personally but I grew up around some people with terrible anger issues too and as a person with anger issues myself, I am nothing like those assholes
“I’m GOING to lose my mind?” Honey, it’s gone already. Elvis has left the building.
Taught him so much about what he doesn't like in a woman. From looking at her face and demeanor, that's what I call a teachable moment. Her voice is like nails on a chalkboard. 😆
Your channel had helped me so much since my seperation with my ex. Been dating and have had many first dates. Recently started dating someone and my healthy mindset has been because of you and she really appreciates that about me. So thank you.
Bro, it would really be hilarious if you ended it with; "I learned so much from you." lol jk.
When people look for the negativity in life, eventually that will be all they will see. I was like that and then I changed my perspective on life to look for the good. Life is so much better now. Never been married but I do believe that a spouse should be a partner to learn from to better themselves and the relationship, that goes both ways.
Hey OG, Could you tell me how to find some good weed?
I had a date recently tell me that I ", asked too many personal questions" too soon. Im confused. Is talking about political views, wanting kids in the future too personal?
I personally wouldn't see the difference between the first date vs the 3-5th.
Also. Why would you wait or waste 2-5 years of your life when you could have saved yourself so much time.
Lmk. Thank you.
She's right, those are not first date questions. On the first date you're just looking to see if you're even interested in getting to know this person. Asking deep and divisive questions to someone you barely know is just going to put people off, even if your views are compatible.
Where is 2-5 years coming from? Are you waiting a year between dates with this person? You don't have to wait five years to ask them if they want kids, but you should wait for at least the 3rd or 4th date before you start asking about the dealbreakers.
Uh yeah...I would never talk about politics or having kids THAT soon.
@@dgwaters I do. You're asking if she's considering it as an eventuality, which isn't the same as starting to plan it. If kids are a solid Yes or No for you, you want to know upfront where she stands on it so you don't waste your time.
@@dgwaterscope.
@@aaronharlow2137depends how you're asking, i immediately saw the category of questions and 😶.
"Are you seeking/ dating with marriage in mind?" or something that doesn't make it look like you're talking about "with me" would be sensible.
But politics is such an extreme topic, i feel you have to build trust before going to that stuff, we see those memes about ruining family get togethers because of political opinions. Everyone gets heated, it's easy for the date to assume you're trying to fight if you started talking politics on a first date and get guarded.
Courtney, it takes alot more energy to be negative, than to have a healthy positive outlook. This world is gravitating towards alot of insecure unhappy people. They need to get their emotions in order, and step back. I met a woman online, and when we met, it appeared to be a good interaction. After we parted, I texted her that I found her conversation quite stimulating, and she replied " OMG, you are wayyy over the top for me, I'll have to move on". We have to be mindful of who we interact and potentially date.
On a happy note, what a great start to your day, Teddy doing such nice gestures for you. A great husband/partner, and a cute cat (Bisquit). Life is good for you!
Wisdom again from Courtney - respect! You’re so right to say avoid this type. My first wife was like that in some ways “damned if I do; damned if I don’t” kinda existence is no way to live
I have definitely learned some things from this channel but the organized and articulate delivery helped me visualize and effectively comprehend. Deep thanks for the content of your channel.
Glad it was helpful! Thank you 🥰
It's like saying "Look at me because I'm beautiful! But stop looking at me that way!!!"
It seems no matter what you do it's a lose lose situation.
Take a hike, baby!
Courtney I do have to say that while I am not actively looking for a partner, over the past 6 months or so of watching you I have really gained a lot of context for this type of thing. Thanks for all the videos you made! 🙌
I’m so glad I can help! Thanks for being here ❤️
“I’ve learned so much from you" is man speak for "bloody hell, stay away from me, I don't ever want to speak to or see you again.". Bunny boiler territory.
Your deconstruction of that blasphemous and ignorant person's video was right on. I've been married for 34 years, and one of the key things we've both done is overlook the faults and mistakes of each other and looked to encourage, edify and find what's RIGHT about each other.
I loved your video Courtney with you dealing with an open heart with your lovely message and how negative some people can be and how to heal and get rid of all negative things!
Thank you sooo much!🌹🌺🌷🍀
Well said Courtney, well said.
Someone i dated in the past had similar behaviors, and I always wonder why. Thank you for showing me this example and I finally understand the reason behind these behaviors.
*I was the date. I told Sourino I learned so much from her. But one thing she missed or she missed to add was my wink at the end.* 😂
Well done. Very wise insight here Courtney. Im glad I picked this for my one youtube video for the day during my lunch break. Have a great day and keep your chins up fellas!
I am definitely confused as well. But I really want to thank you for the tips and advice that you give. it has helped a lot.
Best video yet!! Something everyone should watch, especially right now! Eye-opening.
Definitely worthy of a conversation. And I think you touched on the key to unlocking the root of what is happening in a lot of senses: understanding the why behind it all. Once we know that, then we may be able to help create positive change.
The way you said stuff had me cracking up 🤣 too throughout the video. You delivered some fire 🔥
I’m interested to see if she makes another one too and would love to see you react again if so! Didn’t know you liked doing reactions, plan on keeping my eyes out!
I think you are right, though, probably more to the situation. Comes back to needing to have that understanding.
Very kind of you to say you value our perspective and that you learn from us…that felt good 🥰 like an honor 🥹
Also, one last thing, someone had told me that we shouldn’t date until we had ourselves mostly together, or at least that we felt we didn’t need someone to complete us, so that view you brought to romantic relationships was revolutionary for me! Gave me confidence and comfort, thank you!! 😊 Always learning things from you as well, you awesome teacher 👩🏫 🎉
I definitely learned a few things ffrom this channel. One time I got high while watching CZcams and I was hyper aware of everything being said. One of courtney's videos about mens fashion started playing and almost every second of that video was packed with so much info it actually felt like being in a lecture hall or having someone read an encyclopedia to me.
She was reading a teleprompter.
Key phrase. There are always people who want the drama/ chaos/wanting to be mad. I made it a point to stay away from that toxicity. Unfortunately, or fortunately that also meant that I have less and less friends. Do we need context? I think we've heard enough to stay away from a person like this regardless of context
My ex-gf was like this, everything I said, she turns into personal attack, and keep saying "I don't do this for you", or “I don’t want to teach you anymore”
It's so insufferable.
Everything I do, she finds a way to fault me.
I'm so glad I got out of that mess.
I am looking for a woman who is intellectually stimulating for me. It's a deal breaker for me if she is not. I hope to be the same for that woman. I hope to continue to teach as well as learn.
Exactly! You want to be interesting and interested in who you date.
You are spot on Courtney
One thing we have to do is really super dissect the word (challenge)
Because,
Like my self it meat
Fighting
Argument
Personal Attacks
It’s not the case
People need to open
there minds for better self and to better others
Instead we are caught up fighting dramatically
argumentative
We to have a calm conversation and learn from our mistakes to make us healthier together
Thank you
Courtney
Very informative
Thanks Courtney for another good video. Some women act like they're too beautiful for men and other women. The truth is we are all equal humans who deserve no greater than or less the last person before us. Thanks for being neutral.
You are such a good teacher - a real natural. Not everybody has that talent.
We all should be here to make each other better - ideally.
But like many are saying.. most likely that's what she was told as she was kindly dumped - a "it's not you, it's me" kind of thing.
Thank you Courtney. I have always needed help interpreting women’s queues on what they want and need from men in relationships.
This is one of the things that make dating difficult for me. In additon to being shy and quiet, for most of my life I haven't had much experience being with a woman. I have been with women but they have been VERY far and VERY few in between. I'm talking years. I'm just afraid that if I do open up to a girl she'll be like "I am not going to be your teacher." (Or something like that.)
you should not need to open up. just be yourself. they will signal you if they like you or not. let it be mature and natural.
I leaned so much for you Courtney thank you 😊
When I care about a woman/girl, I let them know openly how I feel. Once done, I don't chase, give excessive compliments or do things seeking her approval. I meditate and not just visualize but actually get into the feeling of how it would feel being with her, until the feeling is real to me. I never doubt just believe that its a done deal. Of course, she has already given me hints of interest. Then, because I believe, it seems that she subconciousely picks up on the positive energy and reciprocates. If she doesn't, then I simply accept it and move on, never allowing her to "friend zone" me.
You are so right, that the man and the woman can bring so much to the table and this is really what love is all about. True love never has a happy ending, because true love has no ending, it's eternal and forever.
Much love to you, sweet lady.
"Energy Vampire". WOW! I can relate! Love this term.
your videos are awesome thanks for all the help!
Morning Young Lady 🌹! Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to be a part of your Alluring Platform 💯 and your Alluring Appearance 🙉 wow.
Courtney, you are so articulate in the way you speak. You are such a positive person and you don’t bash anyone in a negative way. You will just state that you don’t agree, or that you don’t understand, or that you don’t like something, but you are very articulate in everything you say.
You’re so kind! Thank you ❤️
This is my first Courtney Ryan video, damn, its was like therapy, one of my favorite video now, i mean i can hear you taking life in general for straight 24/7. So cool, thanks Courtney, and justmehabibi for the introduction XD.
Thanks for being here! 🥰
This video has taught me so much about people who get mad when they've taught me so much.
Thanks for teaching me! I may not have much input, but maybe onday I can find the woman who can be the one. All I see is people telling me things like "you would be the perfect husband" or "how have you not gotten a girlfriend", but I have yet to get a first girlfriend. Its just kinda hard to approach people, and with your vids I have been getting more confident and improving. All I need is to finish school so I have more time(i work at the same time so got not time for romance yet) and find a better environment
I Am an easygoing guy who went thew this very same thing thank god It only lasted a few
months I can tell you that there is only 1 way their way and is hard to see at first
they have a terrible attitude, which I did not see in the first place they just want what they want and that's it good show thank you👌👌
You are such a great teacher Courtney
Thanks for the video.
I'm fond of saying that our country's greatest addiction problem right now is the addiction to self-righteous indignation. People seem to draw more emotional sustenance from this harmful emotion than they do from anything else. This trend is harmful to our society, and I worry that we will decline even faster as a result. Absent other context, this woman seems to be suffering from that addiction.
As you stated, maybe there is some other context to her video. In the right context, her video could be a confusing communication of a rational feeling. I'm not sure what that context would be, but I am willing to consider the possibility.
I always wanted a relationship where my partner and I would learn from one another. Even if the learning were a bit non-traditional, learning would be worthwhile. My age and poor health make a romantic relationship nearly impossible, but I still enjoy friendships that involve a great deal of mutual learning.
At times, I've had negative interactions with people online and blocked them. As I thought later why I blocked the person instead of just asking the person to stop contacting me, the thought has often crossed my mind that we'd reached a point where we were no longer going to learn anything from one another. Conflict will always happen, even among friends. In some ways, a line is crossed when the bad feelings reach a point that we can't learn from one another.
Hi Courtney! I think that the woman is just angry at whatever and is looking to unload her frustrations on somebody.
My Dad did this same thing numerous times. He would be angry and look for anything he could to start a fight over.
Hope that you, your husband, and Biscuit are all having a great week!
I agree. That's why they post on TikTok, they have nobody to rant to in the real world so they rant online to millions. There are so many of them it's unreal, like the Cheesecake Factory woman. Well, at least us men learn so much from them.
God man, I know that's the truth. Maybe we're secretly brothers who share a dad lol
I don't know how many stupid fights he started over where I parked in the driveway or how loud my door creaked lol Just a miserable sonsabitch
Courtney, you are not just a beautiful person, but the insights you share are very valuable to the vast majority of us guys. IMHO, guys are mostly guessing at this stuff yet you make it all make sense! ❤
I get the concept that it’s not a woman’s job to improve a man but it’s a great thing when two people support and build each other up. I credit my partner with helping me become a better man because her love and support motivated me when I needed it most and kept me going when I was being challenged. It wasn’t her job to provide that, it was done in service of building a life together. People can and should compliment each other’s strengths and weaknesses.
Hi Courtney, I've learned so much from you!
I'm a curious person, and I like to share what I've learned.
There's no requirement that my partner has to be exactly the same way, but at a minimum, it would never work out if they made me feel bad for wanting to learn something.
OMG when you google the teacher stat! Fell in love right there, haha, great work! :)
I think she was trying to reject the guy. He said, "I've learned so much", and she got angry because she didn't know how to respond.
I hope you know that I learn a lot from watching your videos, Courtney. You really are like a big sister to me.
Thanks Courtney, I learned a lot in this video
As a man the greatest lesson Ive learned from women in general is the value of modesty.
One of the biggest attributes I look for in a partner is if she makes me want to be a better man. This is such a significant indicator of long term compatibility that is almost impossible to overstate. If she makes you better just by being around her, you can probably grow together.
Peoples want compliments to feel validated and important, yet they also want to belittle and feel superior to the one complimenting them. They are like a bottomless pit, pure narcissism.
I think it stems from hierarchy. She dosent want to be a teacher because that basically puts her in the leadership role. Teachers are leaders. Therefore she wants to be lead in the relationship not to lead. Most women want a man that leads her and if the roles are reversed she'll lose respect/attraction for the man
I think it’s really sweet and a good thing when someone thinks I’ve made them a better person. That’s a reflection of you as a person and how you touch the lives of other people. In what world is that bad? I would also hope that my significant other would make me a better person and teach me new things too. I think she’s just miserable 🤷🏼♀️
I learned something from you and found value in what you said.
In recent years when I’m asked what kind of woman I want, I respond with:
Fit, Friendly, Feminine, Fertile, and Faithful. I now added an H for Happy because someone who can’t be happy is a spiritual and energy drain.
Courtney hit the nail on the head some women are impossible to please.
If you find yourself with a woman like this take to a shop and ask for a refund (ditch this woman).
Some people complain for the sake of complaining. And have a pessimistic view on life in general. In my belief, Life is a classroom and we will always be the students. We can either learn from Life's lessons and improve ourselves, or ignore it and repeat the same mistakes over and over again.
You gotta walk on eggshells to talk to women like these and they'll STILL find reasons to be furious at what you said.
The only safe thing to say is nothing at all.
They hate the world 🤦♂️🤷♂️
They Hate the world……But they LOVE their idea of what the world is in their heads. Smh 🤦♂️
They hate themselves.
I learn something new with every one of your videos. Thank you, Courtney.
I am not really into a lot of these woman (and I am a woman myself) but I imagine if I am tuning it to what some of my friends and acquaintances have said - I have heard from them - THAT this is a way that some of the dudes basically end up telling the woman that they are more interested in pursuing others but thank you so much for helping them learn what they really wanted or something else *lol*
I once met a hippie girl from Texas at a Halloween event in Troy, NY(I think this was 2008). We were super different and not a couple type at all but we stayed up smoking cigarettes and talking about our lives. Different outlooks. It was great. She told me about hitchiking across the country and her Baptist family she missed back home. The next night we saw Taj Mahal on a whim. It was relaxed and honestly one of the coolest interactions. I learned a lot from this woman a out the country, how you get around working small jobs. She was awesome. She messaged me out of the blue months later that she had made her way back out to Santa Cruz and was engaged to a man she had dated a few years before. I was thrilled for her. People can learn from each other.
Added to my "Not for me" list...thank you...! :D
learning from each other is the way it should be
There are people who are happy with what they have in life. There are also people who are unhappy with what they don't have. The only way to "fix" the unhappiness is to look within oneself and change the attitudes and expections that they have. Nobody else can do that for them.
Morning Courtney. As human, I hope I learn something from others every day!
Courtney I am just blowing away with your maturity level. I mean this when I say it that if every man and woman would listen to you and live by your example this world would be a different place. Reality is you have to look for good things to make your relationship grow. Tearing down like this girl does will never ever work with anyone. Please keep this channel alive and going strong. Your subscriber base keeps growing. Good on you!
I had to replay the start of this over and over due to Courtney's reactions. Too funny. 😂💀
What the guys most likely meant was "you taught me a lot...about what i dont like in women" and she is fed up hearing that as it results in them flaking.
This video has taught me so much. LOL Maybe I should start saying this on dates to draw out a red flag very quickly.
Indeed. I always learn something new from Courtney being all cute and presentable (and often having to say little to nothing) while reacting to some insane TikToker. I think she likes it because it makes her look good relative to them.
Courtney needs her own tv/news channel🔥💪🏾
What she is saying is - The man has told her that he “has learned so much”
1 It’s definitely not a compliment to her.
2 He has learned so much on the first date about her, that he is bailing early, and doesn’t have to waste any more time or money on her and obtaining nothing from it.
3 He has learned lessons on that date about what to look for in other women when he takes them on dates.
I went on a first date with a girl and we spent 3 hours together. Even planned a second date she agreed to it. Then the day before the second date I reached out and made a joke about the bowling date. She said she had a good time the other night but only wanted to be friends. I said I respected her decision but I’ve got enough friends and wished her the best of luck.
I’ve been dating since I was 14 years old. I was in all long term relationships my whole life. I got back out there like a year ago and it’s been an absolute disaster like idk what happened to people to be honest. I’m starting to get the feeling that I am the problem cause I just really don’t understand.
this video taught me a lot
You know Courtney sis, you are really a High Value Person for having such a thought process and such a simple, yet great clarity of mind, but the truth is that many girls in today's age aren't like you....
I really appreciate your POV's and agree that Both men and women can benefit and learn a lot from each other....
I've noticed, you are a person who would always notice the positive side in a situation and Focus more on that, rather than the other girl in this video who just wants to focus on the negative side....
Huge respect for that....
Love from Mumbai, India! 🇮🇳❤️
I wanna talk to you privately..
Regardless of how old we are or the circumstances behind it, all of us learn something from others whether we were taught something intentionally or not. Even a grandparent can learn something from their infant grandchild. There are moments when a person behaves so badly, that we learn from them what we will and won't tolerate. And then there are moments where we learn that it is us who need to improve. Either way, our ability to learn never ends, regardless of who our teacher is.
I believe I have learned a lot from you, and saying I appreciate what you do, isn't saying enough.
A big issue that I've noticed is that there are many people out here who are trying to find a partner, but have not healed from a previous trauma. These people need therapy so they can actually be ready to be in a relationship.
They Say 45 percent of women will be single and childless by 2030 " listening to This woman" there goes the next lonely Cat women " today's modern western woman in a nutshell.