What to do when a girl looks or smiles at you
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In today's video, we’ll cover how to respond to when a girl smiles your way. 99% of guys think it's about what they're doing wrong- but it's not about what you do, it's about what you DON'T do. Watch the video and let me know in the comments if you learned something new.
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whenever i smile, it feels like i am sexually harassing someone.. darn it.
Start talking to another girl😂
Q😊
Some girls might smile but doesn’t mean they want you to ask her out
When a woman smiles at me, I look to see who is standing behind me.....up to 5 miles
I just assume she wants to sell me sth.
consequences of being ugly, I do it too brother
To pickup a girl at a supermarket, you have to be Mr. Casanova or else forget it.
Dude I did this one time, there was no one behind me and she kept looking smiling eyes wide open at me, I triple checked, refused to elaborate and went out 🥲
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855not if she sends a choosing signal
I find not getting attached to your desired results helps maintain confidence. Just put yourself out there and have fun.
Sure
That costs me energy I don't like to spend that much energy without getting something in return.
Exactly, this is magic !!!!!
Honestly, I just taught myself no beautiful woman would be interested in me so I started to treat a beautiful woman like a normal person... No hitting on her, no special treatment, no stupid pickup lines I was just myself which allows all my nerves and fears to vanish. Little did I know it makes your confidence look HUGE. This is how I met 3 of my long-term gfs. It actually caused a few of them to ask for my number especially if we had something in common. I was a guitar player so at one point I was asked to give her lessons because she always wanted to learn, found out later she didn't care about the guitar lessons 🤣
@@jay-pg2ib nah actually thts good
I remember when the thumbnail tweet said "don't smile back"
Click bait 😅
It's all about being relaxed. Match her energy, build rapport, and then it's all about keeping it interesting. Don't push the conversation if it's ending. You guys are studs 🤜🏼🤛🏼
Great tips Scotty!
Relation with girls and understanding girls overall is like learning about some new species everytime to me 😅
That's the fun part imo
This Man posts the right video at the right time for me...
His content is just the right one
Happy to help in any way
Just.. the thumbnail could also be genuine. That's not nice!
No matter a girl or whatever person smiles at me, I always just look back with a straight dead face
That's a mistake.
like someone with a brain injury or a severe mental illness
Same! I assume everyone dislikes me, or, agnostic at a minimum.
When a girl smiles at you, the best thing to do is leave - quickly.
If you want to be alone and an Incel.
It's a trap!!!!
Not always
If a Girl really loves you, she will move a mountain and if she doesn't love you, she'll add a mountain in-between. It's that simple.
but, she doesn't even know you...
My experience has shown this to be true. They will let you know and make themselves readily available.
@@RockyVegaTVnot true a women won’t talk to you first.
Oh they wont but they will drop hints when started talking to you . But sometimes those hints are just difficult to read@@blastorange2460
Congratulations! Very clear, no bullshit, and most of all genuine. Thank you for sharing.
This man changed the way of my style thanku so much alex ❤❤
That means a lot thank you
Watching Alex is going from zero to hero,
going from Alex Free to Alex Costa
thanks Alex, you broke it down really down for me to see where you going at with this. good inserts in the videos!’ 👍🏼
Day by day Alex improve their content quality.
Keep it up bro👍🏽
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I started watching your videos about 2 years ago . It is literally noticable how great the videos turned out to be . Keep it up this is what we call "Quality Content"❤
Alex sir! I and my friend just had conversation on this topic and you uploaded this video... Helpful for us we both watched your video also I got some positive energy from your speech... Thank you... Btw i changed my dressing sense by watching you .... Love from India🇮🇳
Great one !
I think if the person is interested then she will make it known by coming up to you, make conversation, proximity etc.
So my advice to any bro out there is to always be in position of strength. You dont show interest if she dont, you dont be friendly if shes not. Treat them as they treat you.
Key thing is, for any succes, the person has to find you physically attractive. If she dont then theres no point.
Attraction is hair, face, body and cloathes.
So make sure your hair and cloathes are stylish and dont be overweight.
The only thing you cant control is your face/genetics.
And you've been with how many women?
And you're wrong. Personality & Game over rule looks.
@@NicoSimonPrincely Looks first before personality or game...She need to find you physically and sexsualy attractive before she can even notice your personality and game...Can you upload you personality and game on dating app?
Have you ever heard the word superficial ? Cause you just described it, social media dreamer.?
Cope.Looks are everything.@@NicoSimonPrincely
You are right my friend, it starts with attraction. From there you can show them your personality. But if there is no atracción there is nothing.
The fact that I got a reel on ig where girls ask and us guys answer and then literally i got recommended this video 💀🔥🔥
Don’t forget guys….she also missed her shot.
😂
And that change anything? Its a missed shot, end of story.
She has 99 bros left on read
Cope harder goof
@@jcransome5616That she doesn't want...
The confidence we all want🌕🍷
Thanks brother ,really helped alot
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REMEMBER,.. The thing is, you miss all the shots you don't take.. a friendly smile or hello doesn't mean your hitting on her, and if SHE does take offense at that, TRUST, she is not anyone you want to be with.. jus match the energy.. the bad rap cold approaches get is that 99% of dudes can't read the ZERO INTEREST signs and misinterpret friendliness as flirting..
so jus get out there!!
Great video Man , Absolutely love your content!!
what 😭
This speaks to me
I'm assuring that I'll definitely forget each and every step at that point
thank you Alex for teaching men, you will create more and healthy relationships out there ❤❤❤
Amazing , keep it up Alex costa ❤
Thank you, will do!
The level of these videos are going crazy 🔥🔥
Crazy good
Thanks for the advice but I don't think Ana De Armas is ever smiling at me 💀
Never heard of her, whats her OF so I can research
@@phabeondominguez5971shes an actor bruh, man said OF
@@phabeondominguez5971if that's the first thing that came to your head you got bigger problems
You are a total heartthrob dude!😉
Thank you Alex costa
the conversation should be true or rather genuine which then leads to that polarity
The Background Score is OP🔥
thanks mate
*Smile back and nod head up and down, yes thinking "lets do it baby.* 🙂
A very nice and helpful video.
Some girls might smile but doesn’t mean they want you to ask her out
True but you won’t know until you try.
3:00 "What do you say?"
"Chiti chiti bang bang Ya ba da ba doo"
Hell yah, works for me 🤣
winner 😂😂😂😂🎉
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Hey alex, can you plz do more videos on fashion
Hey Alex, I wanted to buy the Forte Pomade, but its sold out everywhere and its not on the main site no more?
Best way to get over the anxiety is to not expect anything just talk to her as you wanna be friends
Good video! Mostly too, you have to be ready , when your ready for the opportunity, they’ll fall in your lap
First love from India Alex❤
IDK. It's never happened to me, ever.
I've been in that same kind of situation I just don't know what I'm going to do so I just looked in different directions and try to get out in that situation as fast as possible.
The whole “we live in a simulation thing” y’all ever think something bigger is controlling media? I know some people may think this is harmless situation but the core problem of influencers all doing the same videos around the same time is alarming. Why/how do TMF/Alex and other influencers roll out the same video on the same time and no it’s not part of a trend.
question. i feel like girls always smile, but its meaningless. like they do it to everyone, and they are just being polite and would rather not engage in actual talk. is this incorrect?
Same. Sometimes it means nothing at all to be honest. I had tried once to speak at her first but it seems she don't want to talk. Failed miserably!!! 😂
Most men are invisible to women like a background or wallpaper. If you’re being smiled at then you’re halfway there champ.
@@chrizmarkdeasis7761 after waking up ill have everyone all peppy and saying "good morning how are you". i respond with "good". and thats it lol. so when i finally wanted to up my socializing game i said, "good, how are you" the girl misheard me and though i said only "good". i missheard her and thought she said she was doing "bad" lol. i wish things are clear. people seems cheery and talkative one day. then quiet another day. ill put in work brushing my teeth and using deodorant. then everyone gets quiet. life is confusing and i already dont have enought motivation to deal with this shit. single for life baby, ima live the best life i can i guess lol
@@saltgame5823 We're on the same boat buddy already!
Tks. I’ve been barking at girls for 5 years and had no clue what was wrong
Hi i am form india . Appreciate you bro
Nice non-toxic advice! 😄
My Future dream couple in the thumbnail🥺❣️
OR the girl just being nice, smiling to to you ,not necessary mean anything .
Just use eye contact to your advantage and just smile back. And pay attention to her body language. If she looks away, could be she is also nervous. Just think she is looking at you for a reason. If you weren't even in the picture, her eyes wouldn't lock on to yours in the first place. They love sending signals. So play the game and play a game of your own. The results are pretty staggering when I treated them like they were equal to me and not above me in anyway. Even if you fail the shot with conversation, it still sends signals that are positive. So just practice your art and delivery. Then things start getting easier. It takes practice guys. So get out there with conviction and have some fun.
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Caraxes looks more terrifying than ever... good
Hi Alex, I am from India love ur content. Got the insight of the lives in NYC by ur videos.
I will go with the thumbnail 😂
Just keep walking!
Hey, what shirt is that? or at least the brand
I am from India
I am also see your videos
It's really good 👍
Where did you get the knit sweater and what size?
Girls never look at me. Or smile at me.
The same happens to me.
Its all about looks dont stress to much 😉😉
Run
''What to do when a girl smiles at you''
Lol jokes on you, women never smile at me 😅
Hi iam a very big fan of you alex love from india
This is really hard when your on the mild of the autism spectrum.
I consult the manual immediately,
damn bro , your videos are getting great day by day .
Me: i see a very stunning women look and blush's at me.
My brain: Run as fast as possible, and don't look back.
If a girl looks at you and smiles, look at her and ask, will I become a dentist now?
First, Love from UK Alex
I smile and ask them how they are today
Works everytime
i dont want to force a smile, if im not in the mood to smile.
Run 😂😂
Women just want to have fun, so just have fun. Keep it playful, a little funny or cheeky and JUST HAVE FUN with it.
What if she's recorded for her tiktok and you don't know?!
Where’d you get that sweater my man?
Does it still mean attraction if you smile first? I work retail and during my breaks and after work (When not in uniform) its very common (Multiple times a day) that I lock eyes with a female and smile, then they give me a smile back. Is that still a sign of attraction or a common courtesy? I just couldn't imagine locking eyes with a girl and NOT smiling, it just seems so cold and serial killer like....
Because they later say.....what are you looking at CREEP
Love from Bangladesh. I'm live in Texas.
Its not just that we dont know. Its more that we dont want to... we know what comes after. Most men nowadays prefer to end alone
The trick, is forgetting everything he said in the video, and just being open, honest, and yourself (don’t put on an act, show her immediately the real you, take it or leave it). Go in with an attitude of “I find you attractive, but if you are not into me right now, that is fine, there are literally billions of attractive women out there”. When you care too much about the outcome, you mess up, if you don’t care at all about the outcome, you might be too distant and seem unmotivated, BUT when you care + you have the courage to be rejected + the self respect to not be needy or let a woman walk all over you.. you have a winning formula. In the end, it doesn’t really matter, there is literally millions of women besides the one you are approaching, many of them might be more beautiful, or of better character, or a better fit for you.. so just chill man, take it easy, and the right women will always reveal herself in the end. (I recommend you look for a good woman to marry, don’t just fuck around with casual sex. Even if one women is not enough for you, get multiple women in long term relationships, take care of the women you are with, don’t just treat them as sex dolls).
I think if Ana De Armas smiled at me I’d just faint! 😂
for real, bro
00:10 now listen it from the start once again 0:01 "okay picture this........... "😂
I am Faisal and I love your videos Alex
i Had this on a pretty busy trolley a couple a days ago i wanted to approach her but didn't want to akwardly pass a couple of people
Love From Nepal Alex Brother❤
Me too
Most of the times when girl stares it feels expressionless(just eye lock),what to do then?
Those things rarely happen in Asia, where I am from.
Jose released a video like this
I just want a friend thats a girl (ive never had one)
I thought that I miss my shot with my crush but turns out I’m still in the game 😮💨
What bugs me about this is after highschool most smiles I see are from women who I can't even tell if they're in my age range. I'm in that weird position where the girl could be my age, but also looks like she could be 5 or 10 years older.
Plus most smiles are unclear if they are "approachable" ones.
Sometimes u got to fuck around and find out, just ask and decide for yourself or else you'll be stuck in a guessing box
First thumbnail was better alex❤
changed it back for you
Hey Alex I approach girls all the time I’m at the gym but what if they say there talking to someone what should I say
Just say you respect that and tell her to have a good workout. Nothing wrong with that
The honest truth about the friendzone is.... If she puts you in the friendzone and you're being yourself, honest, you feel things have gone well and she still puts you in the friendzone... She's not for you. A mature woman who is genuinely into you won't put you in the friend zone they ACTUALLY communicate. Theyll make sure you're not interested before assuming based on your scew ups because women know we are human and we mess up. Like he eaid they can sense fear, confidence and nerves. The intelligent ones can also sense when you are full of crap or you are being real. If you're being real, your chances of getting her are much higher. It's the materialistic, high standard woman who put their value on the outside that put you in the friendzone and assume without communicating. You don't want that! They want that alpha male take control b.s. and lemme tell you that can get the girl but years down the road it'll get old and you'll get tired of it unless thats your genuine personality.
Alex are you still in newyork