how to be a better conversationalist | learn how to talk to anyone & attractive conversation hacks
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I always thought I was socially awkward until I realized that it's other people. People aren't used to deeper open ended questions and most don't have real interests or an exciting life worth talking about 🙁
Most ppl wont return your energy, but they do exist. Keep trying ❤
Absolutely agree. It's the people you are around. You'll find your tribe.
I totally agree, as an emotionally mature person I don't find people interesting or can have deep conversations because they are so stagnant in their life and they feel intimited by my energy. I hope to find my kind of people who seek growth mindset
@dmvmeu7140 No, not judging them at all. What I'm saying is that those people who can't hold a conversation with you, just aren't for you. You have to find like minded people who love to converse about the same things you do. Just continue to do what you're doing and you'll eventually find your tribe. You'll click with one person who knows someone who fits right in with the 2 of you and your tribe builds from there.
Ohhh! That’s very true, sorry to misconstrue your message! I agree ❤️ you sort of wade your way through life to find people that “suit”/vibe with you better
1. Mindset shifts
Validate yourself: approach the situation as yourself
It is my birthright to be in new environments and grow
Visualize the best case scenario before turning up to an event
It's the story you tell yourself, change the narrative
New environments cause anxiety because the brain goes in survival mode when faced with the unknown, instead of automatically thinking negative thoughts, visualize of the best possible outcomes
People have different skillsets and experiences
2. Conversation hacks
The familiarity concept: offer detail and vulnerability to the question how are you?
Make it about them: ask deeper and genuine questions, listen to understand not to respond
Build a point on their answer to your question before you ask another question
Focus on offering value
Offer a familiar smile
Keep it personal, ask questions about details, build up on past knowledge about the person
Record and listen to your own affirmations to change your subconscious mind
Thank youu
i just shifted schools and had trouble making friends but oh my lord, did this give me the confidence to socialise w new people????THANK YOU SO MUCH
6:33 this is so true, like last year I didn't want to go to this school event we have and then I just decided no I am going, and thats where I found my best friend. Like literally her and I, we said the exact things that we prayed to God, and we found each other ❤
Video request: HOW TO LOVE YOUR BODY AND AVOIDING HATERS ( I'm a teenager and I'm slim plus everyone makes fun of me . Even my friends say that I'm so flat and so on ) I cried and decided to request a video on it coz I love to listen Tam's words & implement those strategys she says...🌷✨♥️ Btw Thank you so much Tam for your precious video 💌😭😘
Sending love~♥️♥️
season 2 self obsessed podcast has info about how to build your body confidence!
You're a teen, and I'm an early adult. I'll tell you right now: whatever they say will not matter in 5 years, you're placing your priorities in the wrong place and asking the wrong questions. The question isn't "how do I gain confidence", it should be "why am I feeling and validating their opinions of me when everything outside of me is completely out of my control". Chin up, believe in yourself and appreciate who you are as you are and confidence will follow. It's all about mindset shifts.
Hi Miss Tam Kaur. Im a girl from Lesotho, a country landlocked in South Africa. Im mentioning this because I wanted you to know that your dream of reaching people all around the globe came true. I genuinely don't know where I'd be in my life right now if I didn't watch your videos. The mindset shifts I have had are crazy. My self development journey started with me just wanting a flat stomach and that was January but now the dreams I have and I am most definitely going to accomplish are endless.
Who knew loving myself could be so fun tho😹
Kudos to you sister!! Keep growing and putting in the hard work, your community needs more examples like you ❤
Family of MILLION 🎉🎉🎉🎉
OMG YOUR TIMING NEVER FAILS TO BE PERFECT BUT ANYWAYS CONGRATS FOR 1 MILLION SUBS QUEEN!!!!
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What a heartfelt and beautiful comment!! It’s so amazing when we support each other and are able to celebrate all of our victories! You rule girl! ❤
Couldn’t be timed more perfectly, I’m literally leaving to go to a painting workshop/socializing event all by myself in less than an hour. Can’t wait to use all these tips
Bro literally she saves me everytime in the right time fr😭😭 currently I have been feeling like this the whole time and here she is ❤️
girl I follow you on like everything and can I just say you're glowing differently lately, you can tell you're upgrading your life and it's so beautiful and inspiring to see. you've been the absolute guiding star on my self growth journey love you so so much 💗also the lip combo ate
Hi Tam, I just wanted to let you know that you have helped me so much these past couple months! I listen to your videos whenever I need a pick-me-up and my life has leveled up so much since I started implementing your advice. I exited from a toxic relationship, let go of people who didn’t align with my energy, and worked on my self love. Now I am blossoming and I have more abundance than I ever thought I could! Thank you so much for being you and helping tons of girls like me. :)
Thank you so much for this! You have no idea how much I need this, especially since I'm introverted and I think I have social anxiety because I sometimes don't know what to say, especially to strangers I meet
She’s always right on time with all of her videos!! Right!? 😍
she read the book "how to talk to anyone" during her solo trip. summarized that. and is helping us now. in a video format with the ultimate goddess voice. she is a real one. she is so genuine. you can see that even if youre blind. i love this woman so much. Tamanna Kaur. thank you.❤🩹
She's like a treasure that keeps giving ❤
U can be literally confident while owning all ur authenticity...dayum this
i swear, i needed this soo bad, tam saves the day yet again! congrats on 1M, queen~
CONGRATS ON 1 MIL TAM!! I LOVE YOU FOREVER
Omg!! Tam--
You can actually read my minddd!! I always watch your videos when I have very low self esteem, I couldn’t be more grateful for you! Also I’ve been waiting for you to reach 1Mil. Congratulations! Love youuu❤
Tam, here’s a video suggestion - can you please address how to overcome anxiety and have a clear mind and how to be always self motivated.
Have been watching Tam for a year and a half and now she has 1 million subscribers!! Congrats! So proud ❤ feel like it’s our journey
THIS WAS VERY MUCH NEEDED QUEEN!! ALSO, CONGRATS FOR 1MILLION YOU DESRVED A BILLION!
It's really helpful and needed. I was struggling with social anxiety disorder and couldn't hold a single conversation with anyone. Whenever I try to have a conversation, I feel like they are not interested, and now I know why because of my social awkwardness, I was just answering their questions and that conversation started to become all about me I was not making that conversation about them, which means I was not engaging them or not even trying to make that conversation deeper.
(I apologize if I made some mistakes in English, as it is not my first language)
We are officially a family of a million. Queen T congrats for being our biggest inspiration as a big sister 💗. Lots of love tam 😘✨
More millions to goooooo!!!!!
PART 2, THANK YOUUUU SO MUCH FOR THIS TAM💗
YAYYYY! already a million subscribers. so proud of you girl. sending you hugs and love from the Philippines
Congratulations on 1 million subscribers Tam!!! We love you ♥️
Omg i‘ve been thinking for three days that it’s time to make new friendss this is SO HELPFUL!!! Thanks tam 🤩 hope you have a great day!! ❤
The way you changed my life and mindset...you deserve so muchh more tam ! You did the work that my therapist cannot like omfg really i love you sooo much...Thank you, thank you, thank you !! 🌷💗
ur timing is always excellent !
I love that all of these positive comments can give her the awareness of how good she’s doing.
Perfect timing as always Tam❤️ you look amazing btw!
Tam, just noticed the 1M+ subscribers!! Woo congrats!! you deserve it 🎉
OMG THANK YOU TAM! I need this sooo much ❤️
Love you loadsss!!💗💗
Your my inspiration girl!
Congratulations on 1 million 🎉
I started watching your videos recently and I applied your valuable advice in my life and it already changed a lot. Thank you so much for your advices and for always being your genuine fabluous self 😍❤ I Love you so much Tam and I am very grateful that universe guided me to your videos ❤❤❤ keep up the great work Tam!❤
This was definitely what i needed now Tam! I just started clinicals today and I was very shy , and didn’t know how to talk or make room easily for new conversations,so this video is going to be very helpful 😭💕💕✨
GIRL I WAS LITERALLY SEARCHING FOR SMTH LIKE THIS A FEW DAYS AGO AND UOU POSTED THIS I LOVE YOU
I love this look on you, oh my gosh!! It feels so light and elegant and neat in its own very vibrant way :O
congrats on 1 mil tam!!
This came at the right time for me. Been feeling like this for a while, and this video really touched me. I'm going to try these out. Thank you so much. A part two is definitely needed
I LITERALLY NEEDED THIS SO MUCHHH OMGGG ILYSMMM TAMMM
part 2 PLEASE!! This was amazing I learnt so much thank you xx
YOUR TIMING COULD NOT BE MORE IMPECCABLE!😭😭 I WAS JUST GOING THROUGH MY UNI'S INTRODUCTORY INSTA PAGE AND FREAKING OUT OVER SOME OF THOSE SOCIAL SKILLS IN THE COMMENTS AND WORRYING ABOUT NEVER ACHIEVING THE SAME LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE - THANK YOU!💗💗
ALSO, CONGRATS ON HITTING 1 MILLION SUBSCRIBERS, LY!🎉🎉
You deserve all of your success, because you actually help so many people
Congratulations!!!!
On 1 million subscribers. You really improved my life so much I can't tell you how grateful I am to have come across your content. You made my boring life worth living and interesting. I wish you all the best for the future. Just keep glowing as you do. Love from India 💕
Your videos are so inspirational Tam, Thankyou for posting this :)
Congratulations for 1 million tam❤🎉..
Love your content ❤️ u are the best
girl, thank you! this has made my day. so ready for the next party/networking event!🎉
You have helped me become a woman I can say I am proud of. Love you girl!!!❤
How do you know i was searching for this? Girl every time i need something i make a video about it. It feels like u know me. Love ya congrats for ur all achievements. U always inspire me.
your skins glowinggg.....thats so great ur growing in every aspect of ur life, ur amazinggggg and hope u keep growing and achieve a lott more love ya
Thank you so much for this! Yes please do a part 2 💚
Tam you read my mind!! I needed this video ❤️❤️ congrats on a million BTW Queen
Hi Tam, just want to let you know that I love videos, especially because they are helping a lot to become finally the person I want to be❤
Part two please!!!! This was so informational, loved it !
She looks so pretty, my goshhhhhhhh🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
This is super helpful in everyday life. Thanks for sharing xx
YAYYYY TAM POSTED !!!
I was sooo wanting this video, u always seem to get us, and ya congrats on 1million u deserve every bit of it ❤❤
fresh perspective as always 🌸💕
These kind of videos are just awesome and could you please more videos on what to talk in a conversation and how to maintain that
This is actually what I wanted, thank you! These tips are super cool, I'm excited to try them🤭
This was very needed. Thank you so much 💓
Thank you so much Tam for this video❤❤Before I used to be very anxious of myself and was too shy to talk to new people but this video changed my life and made me feel way too confident!!! Once again thank you very very much Tam🥰❤❤
Perfect timing. Love your content.
You have no idea how u help us Tam ❤ we want more self confidence content. Tips and hacks to put into practice xxxx
Girl you are honestly such an inspiration,💗
I really like how you suggest other related to the subject videos throughout the video. It really gives as a direction for our questions. 😘 As an introvert myself, thanks for your words !
Cant tell how helpful this video is, coz im campaigning for student council. And im new to the school. I really felt insecure but now i know what to do. No mattter what the result is, i know that im gonna come outta this, stronger and with a different skill set that could be helpful, further. Thank you Tam, you made my day❤
I'm just soo happy that she posts soo many useful videos
Woman!! Lots of loveee
Thank you soo muchh tammm!!!
best youtuber ever u provide literally the best content that is needed!
She is that elder sister, we all need ❤️🩹🤧🤧
I was searching about this topic a few days ago and seeing this video now really makes me feel happy ❤❤❤❤
This came at the right timeee omg❤!!!!!!!!! Also congrats on 1 mill 🎉
Congratulations 1M Tam , proud of you
Turns out I may be kind of a good conversationalist?? I already do most of this things😭 thx Tam💗
REALLY needed this thank you 💗
Some great advice Tamana, tysm!!😊
CG FOR 1 MILLION 🎉
HAPPY 1MILLION QUEEN!!
when i saw the notification i instantly clicked as soon as i saw it.. turns out i NEEDED this tutorial
thank you tam kaur 🛐🛐
Congratulations on 1 million Tam 😭❤️
you know?that yesterday was my birthday and this video is a gift..I'm soo happy!!!! love you Tam Kaur❤❤❤
Wait she looks perfect gorgeous💞🌟
TAM YOURE GLOWING 🥹🥹 APPRECIATE U ALWAYS
Congratulations Tam for one million subscribers and for all your achievements 👑💖💟
Truly thank you Mother
I'd very much like a part 2 please! Really enjoyed this video!
Just when I needed it ❤
We'd love a part 2!
You have such a great personna and have never once failed to motivate me!! Love you xxxx
thank you so much tam
I was thinking about how I would cope up once I start college in a completely new city and environment. This video came at the perfect time. Thank you ❤
The makeup is stunning
OMGG THE QUEEN POSTEDD
This video has soooo much value!!! Thanks a lot ❤❤ It came at a perfect time, as I am going to have a dinner with a new friend tonight who I feel intimidated by due to her being so successful. Now I have a different way to approach the situation.
Girl you are so prettyy 😭✨