[M4NB][TM4NB] Accidental Coming Out to Your Roommate [Non-Binary][Supportive][Pride][Comfort]

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  • čas přidán 3. 06. 2022
  • HAPPY PRIDE EVERYBODY!
    Kickin' it off with an audio for the NB folks, this audio doesn't use pronouns as I know many people use different pronouns in different combinations so I wanted to keep this as ambiguous as possible.
    Have a good Pride month, stay safe and don't forget that you're valid and you're loved.
    Any hateful comments will be removed as soon as I see them, get outta here with your bullshit. This is a safe space and harmful comments will not be tolerated.
    Images:
    Picrew made with ろ式男子メーカー by ろってさん
    Sound Effects:
    roomtone sunday open
    freesound.org/people/Yuval/
    Small growling dog
    freesound.org/people/Jickle/
    sw_paper_ripping_1
    freesound.org/people/jppi_Stu/
    Crumpled paper
    freesound.org/people/anamaria...
    dorm door opening
    freesound.org/people/pagancow/
    Grabbing a single sheet of paper out of someone's hands
    freesound.org/people/pfranzen/
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Komentáře • 61

  • @busy_bee4362
    @busy_bee4362 Před 2 lety +158

    This legit made me happy because sometimes I forget that they're supportive people out there. And also I'm listening to this the day after I saw a homophobic video and being lesbian and going by He/She pronouns did not make that easy to see at all.

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před 2 lety +42

      Aw that sucks. Homophobes just need to get over themselves.
      Hugs to you.

    • @busy_bee4362
      @busy_bee4362 Před 2 lety +17

      @@TobiVA Thanks. This made me smile

    • @Name__80
      @Name__80 Před rokem +1

      I’ll help you burn the body

    • @AveryLovesGoats
      @AveryLovesGoats Před 2 měsíci

      homo"phobia" is bs bro. what are they scared of? most of us don't bite 😻

  • @alisteruiz
    @alisteruiz Před rokem +44

    "Im not crying u are!"
    My goofy ahh non binary sibling listening to this

  • @nights_the_nightingale
    @nights_the_nightingale Před rokem +36

    throwback to when my father bought me a nonbinary flag and proceeded to misgender me 😗✌ saw the label and everything, I still have it on my door, I'm very open about it 🙃 whatever, only 156 days until I'm 18 and can legally change my name and gender marker
    HA I'm gonna be walking graduation with my real name!! Oh gods!! I'm gonna walk graduation with my real name!! :D
    edit, 22 May '23: Guess who just changed their legal name and gender marker~ :D
    edit, 16 June '23: Little bit late but guess who graduated~

    • @s_k_y_13_43_4O
      @s_k_y_13_43_4O Před rokem +8

      you dont understand how happy this made me

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před rokem +8

      Congrats on graduating, changing your name AND your gender marker! Very big steps, I'm so happy for you! (sorry this was so late lmao)

    • @sparklepugtea
      @sparklepugtea Před 7 měsíci +6

      YAY 👏👏👏👏
      GREAT GOING KEEP IT UP BOO!! ik I’m so late but this comment made me happi and i am happi for u 🫶

  • @wicketmoon2255
    @wicketmoon2255 Před 2 lety +97

    The world needs more people like you

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před 2 lety +19

      Aw that's so sweet of you to say. Thank youu :,)

    • @RXfren_0
      @RXfren_0 Před 2 lety +10

      I agree

  • @thecrazygooseofyourdreams4785

    I'm NoT cRYinG You ArEeeEe

  • @Geicoo
    @Geicoo Před 2 lety +30

    GEICO APPROVES🦎!!
    -Remember fifteen minutes could save your big head 15% or more on car insurance. (Stop asking if i can give you insurance for free the answer is no, broke ass)
    -Remember to not overwork yourself, eat and stay hydrated.YOU’RE LOVED

  • @dumplg2177
    @dumplg2177 Před rokem +17

    Running around giggling

  • @Silly_Patches
    @Silly_Patches Před 2 lety +19

    The package would have the name Sox on it.

    • @Silly_Patches
      @Silly_Patches Před rokem +6

      Sooo just came out to my mom last week and she was supportive and bought me a flag and pin so yay

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před rokem +6

      CONGRATS!!!

  • @pidgeon6024
    @pidgeon6024 Před 2 lety +57

    this was so sweet it made me cry a little bit (in a good way ofc)
    thank you for making this video

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před 2 lety +10

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @zmbieIvrs
    @zmbieIvrs Před rokem +4

    when u said kota i’m like “MY DOG??” (my dogs name is Dakota but we call him kota💀”

  • @simivalleydave
    @simivalleydave Před 2 lety +30

    I wish there were more people in my life like this I have always wanted to come out and this made me very happy knowing that there are supporting people out there so thank you

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před 2 lety +7

      You're very welcome, I hope one day that you're able to come out and properly be yourself. But remember that being closeted doesn't make you any less valid. Have a good day :)

    • @simivalleydave
      @simivalleydave Před 2 lety +5

      @@TobiVA maybe someday but have a great day or night as well , but I will tell you a little secret I plain to tell my parents when I turn 18 next year

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před 2 lety +4

      I wish you the best of luck!

    • @simivalleydave
      @simivalleydave Před 2 lety +5

      @@TobiVA thank you

  • @annnie6662
    @annnie6662 Před rokem +10

    haha not my CZcams recommendations being vids of how to come out after watching this 😃👍.
    I wanna figure myself out before I choose the come out.

  • @GrumpCatMara
    @GrumpCatMara Před 7 měsíci +4

    I live in the Deep South. I feel like I’m living an entirely different life to myself. I’m out but nobody acknowledges it. I’m still dead named every day and the people who gave an effort in the beginning ended a little after a year. The last time I tried to correct my boss, she said “that’s too hard to remember” (I just asked if she would use they/them pronouns)The only person that has actually put effort into making me feel accepted was my hair dresser. I accidentally put my chosen name in online and when they found out they made it permanent and they called me that every time they see me.

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před 6 měsíci +3

      I'm really sorry the support around you isn't too great, your hairdresser sounds lovely though! It'll get better, unfortunately sometimes it has to take some resistence and standing up for yourself (of course only if it's safe to do so). I definitely had some people who "gave up" and it hurts a lot, you're allowed to push them though, you can correct them or not answer to your deadname/incorrect pronouns. Some people have to be told "no, that isn't my name" or "don't call me that". They may come around or they may not, but I know you will find people who respect you for who you are and stay that way. I hope you get some more support and acceptance soon, everyone deserves to feel that. 🫂

    • @GrumpCatMara
      @GrumpCatMara Před měsícem +1

      @@TobiVA I come back to this message whenever things get hard. Thank you for being so kind. It’s an extra push that keeps me going through the bad days.

  • @Moon-11
    @Moon-11 Před rokem +10

    I chose for my name at school and other places to be may I’ve also changed my pronouns to they/them/theirs or it/its
    And my friends also have preferred names

    • @ashthepersonlol
      @ashthepersonlol Před rokem +1

      Hello fellow human, I see you have a fizzaroli pfp.
      Have a good day/night fellow non-binary,

  • @Sariah_rios2805
    @Sariah_rios2805 Před rokem +11

    This right here is what i needed to hear for 3years because my dad is homophonic so I can’t tell him so this I just what I needed so thx And keep up the amazing work thxxxx🥲🥹🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @Onyresthegaywriter
    @Onyresthegaywriter Před rokem +8

    This is amazing bc I can’t come out due to having a homophobic family I can come out to my friends but I could never come out to my parents bc I might start going by she/they pronouns as well as that I’m bisexual 💗💙💜🤍

  • @RXfren_0
    @RXfren_0 Před 2 lety +16

    This is great, this makes me feel so happy :) I literally smiled at my phone

  • @EVILTHEO
    @EVILTHEO Před 22 dny +1

    Hearing that someone was proud of me made me feel good inside, thanks for this audio

  • @random36391
    @random36391 Před 2 lety +18

    This is amazing like always!

  • @Blxshing_Adds
    @Blxshing_Adds Před rokem +3

    Hello! I’m nonbinary and my roommate has a dog who does this- his name is Charlie! Goodest boy yet he outed me to my roommate as well 😵‍💫

  • @SLEEEEEEEEEEP
    @SLEEEEEEEEEEP Před rokem +2

    I remember when I came out I told was my mom and she said she loved me unconditionally but the look on her face said she was sad then I told my father and he asked if I could speak to my mom alone I went up the stairs and he asked if I was being serious nobody other than my best friend and Antie has had a good reaction to me telling them thank you so much I wish someone was there to react like this

  • @leea-young6073
    @leea-young6073 Před rokem +2

    Holy shit that scared me when you said my name dude💀💀💀

  • @damonsdemons6067
    @damonsdemons6067 Před rokem +2

    It’s funny because I have the same name as you so hearing “I don’t recognize this name” was hilarious

  • @c4t_v0m1t4
    @c4t_v0m1t4 Před rokem +7

    *laughs in genderfluid*

  • @GamerGal13
    @GamerGal13 Před rokem +2

    Ok as a non binary person i can fully say i love this and that i would be expecting a negative because my parents dont really believe in non binary people being alive and i am forced to act like a girl around them and if i said anything about it they would send me to a hospital to get find or scold me hard for wanting to be non binary

  • @galaxyqueen4987
    @galaxyqueen4987 Před měsícem

    Them: by you coda
    Me: pulls out the subtitles, only bc the letter c instead of k, lol thats literally the name I go by to most people I know, absolute panic for a sec

  • @juleekeck461
    @juleekeck461 Před 2 lety +5

    Part 2

  • @Sebster4r
    @Sebster4r Před rokem +4

    Listen I'm not non-binary (I'm ftm!) But this is honestly adorable

  • @jryfy2892
    @jryfy2892 Před 2 lety +6

    I’m early

  • @dylaninpieces2
    @dylaninpieces2 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I'm still deminonbinary. Seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @crushed_bit_central
    @crushed_bit_central Před rokem +1

    :D

  • @dreamchaser4038
    @dreamchaser4038 Před 10 měsíci +3

    … can you do asexual…? Please. Needed.

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před 10 měsíci +3

      I really want to, I'm working on it :)

    • @dreamchaser4038
      @dreamchaser4038 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@TobiVA thank you sm 🥹

  • @onee_
    @onee_ Před rokem +1

    Did he say DAY or DATE at 6:41 ?

    • @TobiVA
      @TobiVA  Před rokem +3

      I said "day". I do understand the confusion though, I kinda mushed "day" and "today" together. 😅

    • @onee_
      @onee_ Před rokem +2

      @@TobiVA Thanks for making things clear