[M4FTM Version] Coming Out as Transgender to Your Older Sibling [Accepting] [Loving] [Supportive]

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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2022
  • (This is the M4FTM version! The M4MTF version is below if you would like to listen to that!) Hey loves! This video actually was not a request from anyone, but instead something I really wanted to make. I know that its pride month, and that there may be a lot of people discovering who they are and may be coming out as transgender. With that being said, I really want those people to feel safe and comforted about it all. And I'm so so proud of those who are getting through it, because I know its not easy.
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    Coming Out as Transgender to Your Older Sibling [F4F, F4M, M4F, and M4M versions] [LGBT+] [Supportive] [Protective] [Hugs] [Accepting]
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Komentáře • 52

  • @Master_Shifter
    @Master_Shifter Před 2 lety +61

    As a person with an abusive transphobic brother, this makes me happy, thank you :)

  • @lynx2179
    @lynx2179 Před rokem +6

    when i told my brother i was trans he said “cool you still smell bad lol”

  • @SHink-of6hh
    @SHink-of6hh Před 2 lety +9

    As someone who has an abusive and transphobic family, I really needed this. Luckily, my friends and my boyfriend are all incredibly supportive. It's still upsetting to know my older brothers and parents will never truly see me as a guy. At least I only have a year or so until I leave for college and get to live as myself

  • @matthewlightwood5412
    @matthewlightwood5412 Před 2 lety +18

    My brothers were extremely transphobic when I came out, calling me the t-slur and the f-slur, telling me I wasn't human anymore, telling me I didn't have the right to speak anymore, telling me I didn't have the right to eat....it's been years and they've come around, but I wish I'd had a reaction like this instead.

  • @lux_24601
    @lux_24601 Před 2 lety +15

    I've been questioning my gender lately and this brought me a lot of comfort

  • @cherisher4477
    @cherisher4477 Před 2 lety +25

    I can't relate to this but it makes me feel so respectable towards the trans and other genders... Thank you and this is for all my LGBTQ lovelies we love u all and u all are special as the way u are

  • @emily.thestrange
    @emily.thestrange Před 2 lety +18

    Jay. I'm gonna cry. this is perfect oh my god

  • @zion_be_tired4202
    @zion_be_tired4202 Před 2 lety +7

    I am not trans but I have a friend who is and he struggled coming out to his family. When he came out to me I was shocked to say the least but I fully supported him. Now I am happy to say he is one of my closest friends

  • @sirenfitzpatrick183
    @sirenfitzpatrick183 Před 2 lety +8

    I dont have a supportive family at all and the person that does support me (coincidentally my brother) passed recently so this REALLY made me happy. Don't think I'll ever find anything more...comforting.

  • @JustKai69
    @JustKai69 Před rokem +2

    When you said you were so happy to call me your little brother I started sobbing because I've never been told that ever and I've been trans since 2020. Nobody in my family tries to call me their brother/son it's always sister/daughter and they don't even try

  • @Cuntyboyfr
    @Cuntyboyfr Před rokem +4

    Closeted trans here, this is the best :) most people in these type of audios are like “you shouldn’t feel that way, you’re handsome” but it doesn’t really do much comfort 🥲 so this is so nice to listen to.

  • @royalgalaxywolf
    @royalgalaxywolf Před rokem +4

    This has made me almost ready to come out to my older brother (coincidentally he and i are six years apart in age lol) i must say videos like this give me a unbridled amount of confidence but the question is if ill have this confidence still by the time i can tell him

  • @batsinacave7853
    @batsinacave7853 Před 2 lety +3

    This honestly means the world to me, as a trans guy, it made me feel very loved. Thank you <3

  • @turt1esharkasmr
    @turt1esharkasmr Před 2 lety +6

    Your voice is super relaxing and I can feel the heart you put into performing this! Thank you for filling my script!

  • @alayna550
    @alayna550 Před 2 lety +6

    Obviously I may not be able to relate to this but your making whoever does happy we all appreciate your uploads jay 💓💓💓 love uuuu

  • @emerycorner
    @emerycorner Před rokem +1

    I came out to my older siblings, and so far only one of them has made any real effort to care and accept it, which is surprising by which brother it was😂. Just him and my dad really put the effort into it.

  • @Limerant_Evangeline
    @Limerant_Evangeline Před rokem +3

    My brother makes fun of me for dressing masculinely. He doesn’t know I’m trans. Me and my brother don’t have a good relationship. And I don’t just mean regular arguing. He’s done actual physical harm to me. If he had the option, I’m sure he’d chose for me to not ever have been born. I always find these kinds of audios comforting. If my brother ever found boxers in my room, i’d be screwed- lmao

  • @yourlovelyduck_1306
    @yourlovelyduck_1306 Před 2 lety +5

    bruh as a woman (i'm not sure tho) i wear boxers all the time. Not the wide one's but the thight boxers. They are MUCH MORE comfortable. And they actually make them for women. Do they not sell them for women in the US? because where i live, they do. I think that it's ABSOLUTELY valid for women to wear boxers. I never knew that people think of it as "not typical". I don't think it matters

  • @luvleydody
    @luvleydody Před 2 lety +4

    as usual perfect time

  • @yourlocalsimp2765
    @yourlocalsimp2765 Před rokem +1

    to be honest i started full on crying..since i came out as genderfluid i have received more and more hate (i guess you could call it that) and even tho i am a person who doesn’t care about what people think of me all those comments really ripped me apart and this had me sobbing on the goddamn floor 😭