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Yess, all of them! Thank you for sharing!

I'm an INFJ, Libra/Pisces, Year of the Rooster. I met another INFJ, Libra/Pisces, Year of the Rooster... And we met at 2:22am. We're in the same friend group. We've never had an argument. We feel and think exactly the same about everything. We both believe the other is a perfect angel, even though we have the same personality 😂

Being alone in nature is AMAZING! It's the nicest feeling ever, just connecting with the world. Taking it all in. I love to just go out into some beautiful natural area, and just listen to the sounds of the wind, the trees, the birds, the water... And feeling the breeze in my hair, the ground under my feet, and even the smells of the environment. The "human world" can make me really disappointed and depressed, seeing all the problems, the war and violence, the hate, and the propagation of broken and nonsensical systems that don't serve the greater good... But nature, it just reminds me of how beautiful the world is, and how amazing it could be if we all just worked together to love and understand each other.

It really does start to feel all very comical once you’re cognisant of their game play and their constant need for drama and manufactured chaos. The final two years of our seven year marriage, I just observed him like he was a specimen in a lab. I trained myself to remain rigorously self regulated and non reactive. His confusion and frustration at my point blank refusal to engage any longer with his baiting and goading, were on some deeper level recompense for the shite I had endured. Lessons learnt, I shall never again allow myself to be suckered by one of these toxic, sad arse ghouls. Single and celibate from here on going forwards!! 😂 I’m enough, and after a lifetime of being in relationship with these types, I’m no longer willing to risk polluting my essence and soul with these fools. The full power of my INFJ functions feels intact and fully operational. It truly is a super power. 💪

Okay. I don't know what's going on with that commercial that suddenly starts playing about communing with the devil, but I'm not into it and am going to unsubscribe from any channel where it pops up until I hear that the problem has been fixed. That's nothing I want to see, ever.

Autopilot here. I find myself in new locations all of the time, thinking….WTH?

I can care less about this so-called "Urban' Dictionary''opinion.

Damn. I like INFJ

What is the point of all this is always on our minds.

Please make videos with more normal looking people instead of everyone being young and gorgeous

Ouch

It's the "neither" nature that I've always been interested in. Not male or female traits, it's about taking away these traits and what are we left with, something alien. That new alien nature evolves into something more imaginative, futuristic concepts and spiritual nuance.

Why do so many people claim to be a Sigma when they’re not/

feeling lonely yet have a magnetic personality...lol

As an introvert, I do not use social media.

I thought it was odd to not like compliments 😂but i understand myself better now

You just described every single part of me! Now I did have a near death experience that also I think helps me not be afraid of dying. I was five years old and I was drowning, and I was pulled out at the last moment by my ankle so I only left my body for like two seconds. So I don’t have a big memory of going any other side like a lot of your death experiences are, but I remember leaving my body and coming back into it.

Things have to make sense. There has to be a reason behind everything. I won't just agree with something, or do something, because everyone else does. I don't take reasons such as "because that's just the way the world works" or "because everyone else does". It has to be a *LOGICAL* reason, while also being moral and ethical, for the good of humanity as a whole. If any system/rule is not good for people, or the world, I will not participate in it.

Only in my wife of 35 years was this brought out explicitly but, in retrospect there were others at work during my 35 year career with the same company. I was unaware of this (because, I don't care) until recently. They never confronted me or said anything because they knew it would not give them the responsive payout they were looking for nor yield any tangible results and would have made them look like the fool. Authenticity and respect are standard fare for us INFJ's. Those who don't respect that can grow up. Jeffrey Z. in SC

Emotional connection is everything.

As an INFJ woman what I experience often in conversation is being assaulted with rational thinking. For heaven’s sake people, please, once in awhile, just go along with other ways of looking at the world.

I am more of a writer than a talker!

I've been working 20+ years in corporate culture. I do wonder how I managed so long.

The societal norms I will never understand is people believing their government's and media that lie all the time, with their deceit and false flags. People just can't see the wood from the trees, when it's just so obvious, and they just keep doing it.

I don’t agree with point 4. I have had a fwb for years now. I don’t ever feel sad we don’t have a relationship. We do have a deep connection though, being there for each other through a lot of bad times. I would never have a relationship with him. So I disagree that infj’s can’t have a sexual relationship without committing.

I'm very lonely, but I'm not afraid to be vulnerable. I love it. I'm always open, I share everything. I want everyone to know everything about me. I want to be completely understood. I value deep, emotional connections, honesty, trust, and authenticity. I want to be able to cry with someone and pour my heart out to them, and know that they care just as much as I care about them, and that they'll put in just as much effort for me as I do for them. It's very important for me that someone will always be there for me, listen to me, and validate and understand my feelings.

Many people seem to care more about staying COMFY than using their own ideas and dreams to fuel their counter-culture journeys in life. INFJs have a hard time wrapping our brains around that conundrum and waste of time… ‘Social norms’ are what you probably want to stray away from if you’re trying to do something unique in life. Go against the grain and stand out if it’s something you believe in and you’ll never regret it.

I agree with this. I've always found rigid gender roles to be suffocating. Also tend to prefer environments where there is a mix of men and women.

SPOT ON, as always..👊💥

I really envy the care free to be honest.

I was divergent in becoming an entrepreneur, ensuring my autonomy, flexible hours to raise my sons, & cut out the “middle man.”

I don't get feminists bs as INFJ

The norm that guys are the ones who are supposed to chase , flirt and impress ladies. If you like someone it is your responsibility to pursue them irrespective of gender.

Nope, women should be women and not try to compete with men. Should know their place - like men do. God designed it that way, not me - it will never works and it´s only ticking bomb, sooner or later awaiting catastrophe for world. Otherwise i agree. Stop keep falling for social engineering and "princes syndrome".

Not so much that I am 6 decades later. But so many times in life. Why did I do that? What was the point? Why did I take that break the work is still here? So many allowed regrets cause we thought we were suppose to be that way. I don't know. ........................................... Now my 2 best friend have 4 fuzzy paws. So much easier.

Hey PSYCH-Os! 👋 *So, is there a social norm that you can't comprehend as an INFJ that we didn't cover in today's video? * Comment down below 👇

When I say I just made the executive decision the other day to cancel an entire meal I started because a key missing ingredient that I refused to leave home for. I an a homebody for sure. Resonated with all of these!

INFJ autistic here. The thing about some of these characteristics is that they can also apply to autistic people. Very interesting indeed.

Come on, you forgot the most interesting one-Darth Vader!

This video was perfect 😊🤩! You know me better than I self do 😂🤭

You lost me at Taylor Swift. She doesn't seem like INFJ to me. I got tired of all of the publicity she had with Travis Kelce. Jesus was supposed to be an INFJ and Adolf Hitler. Quite a contrast between those two!

I have never left anyone. Whether as a friend or a romantic relationship. I'm over 30 now, and I've never left someone in my life. I just stay, keep trying, taking abuse, being misunderstood, and being the only one putting in any effort. I spend years and years just trying to make people stay, until they abandon me instead.

Whoever wrote this knows their stuff… the insights in this video can not be faked or inferred…. Whoever wrote this experienced this. Not only are the ponts true but the logic behind them is valid. The word “repellant” is an apt metaphor.

This video is an almost verbatim copy of the @introvertedsoul video of the same name, released July 2021. Very dishonest.

I have always had both protector and nurturer, both mom and dad in my one parent life.

I am secretive, yes!!

I hate thinking so much

I hate feelings things so deeply. I wish somehow I could reign that in.😢

I think this concept is still quite misunderstood. For me, this is not a deliberate move, it happens spontaneously. And it is not "reserved" for anyone in particular. If I see that the other person does not respect or does not care about me, or if the person betrays me in some way, then I just automatically stop reaching out to them. At some point you just become acutely aware that you're mistreating yourself and that spending time with some individuals is time away from other genuinely valuable connections.