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SEX STARVED ……THAT HAPPENS FROM MANY REASONS …..FIRST IS BECAUSE MEN NEED TO UNDERSTAND ONCE MARRIED THEY CAN NEVER LUST FOR SOMEONE ELSE ……EVER …..OTHERWISE THE WIFE WILL REFUSE SEXUAL ACTIVITY …..MONOGAMY …..MONOGAMY ……

He he, first I didn't push, but now after 15 yrs of rejection, I have started confronting. Anger is her answer. But the sex stops Then the intermacy stops Then any touching at all intiated by the sex dodging partner starts. Then prayng together and communicating stops.

Problem is when I bring, or try to bring the subject up, my wife gets angry " you got sex on the brain, we are to old for that" But zero times in 15 yrs????????

Getting married after aged 58, I do not give a fuck, love me anyway?

When I try to “listen and find out more” I find that people get very defensive and I can’t get to the bottom of the issue. It makes communication impossible.

10+ years and no matter what you do to help the situation, it just never changes. Take care of self.

This just sounds like another woman who wants to manipulate men. This is why men are pulling away. We are tired of the manipulation. We’re also realizing that women are not made of sugar and spice.

Sex is a waste of time

"dont wait to long, or else the marraige dies. it feels like I'm a lodger in my own home, we keep it going for the family." 42 years, (Im the bloke)😱

I quit initiating entirely several years ago. There's only so much rejection a person can take before they shut down. I no longer view my wife as a sexual person anymore. She is a non-gendered being that lives in the house with me.

Addiction is a secular term for bondage what the Bible cause bondage to sin. This is from someone who has had drug and alcohol addiction. Something that is being completely overlooked is the spiritual, demonic element also.

Very encouraging

Mercy / pity sex is the worst.

These frigid selfish people putting their spouse through hell. End the marriage.

Thank you for your service to help marriages!!

She is wonderful.

Looking at porn is not normal.

@21:23-23:25 hit hard!!

No, just no. He may be a Dr, but he doesn’t have a damn clue.

So you never had him back it seems to address this nutritional stuff and brain health, incl after brain injury?

5:55 Why I have my own bedroom.

I do all the little things, putting my wife first. Come home from 24 hour shifts as a firefighter and get my daughter up for school so she can sleep in. I take over evenings of dinners and do bedtime with my daughter so my wife can watch tv and relax. It’s endless. Getaways for herself as Mother’s Day gifts, airbnb trips as a family as surprises and constant words of affirmation and acts of service and trying my best at emotional connection. If it wasn’t for me coming in for hugs and kisses even I wouldn’t get Jack shit. I work 60+ hours/2 jobs so she can be the stay at home mom she wanted to be. I leave notes, give back rubs foot rubs, the list goes on. I take care of my health and fitness and image, and living depressed and get belittled for wanting more and wanting my wife and our romance and spark back. At the end of my ropes, not looking good.

In ten minutes I learnt more for free than thousands of dollars of counselling which ended in divorce anyway

I hate life. Life is flawed. I wish I was never born into this mess.

That apology at 7:00 is meaningless.

sorry, that is wrong and off base wow.

I too tried counselling for me She only heard my side She didn't give me choice of staying together only said he can't change you won't be happy that negative talk made me think ill prove you wrong last week husband wanted to split up after 22 years I was shocked he's now seen my vulnerable side and I am now being kind and working on myself and respect to him I regret how I treated him This book is amazing and I can relate completely

You can't just do it - when "we will never have sex ever again." is followed by "I don't see that it's that big of a deal." That is no starter. Perimenopause and completely intimacy withdrawal is impossible to consider. Will not discuss it - states she is happy to never have sex again.

Thanks to shiela I haven’t had sex in 6 months. My wife wants 100% perfection first. I paid her $106,000 student loan, she hasn’t had to work, visits friends and family whenever she wants. I took her mother in with Alzheimer’s when all her siblings refused and she died in my den which I set up as bedroom in her last 3 months of life. I am a doctor and she has full control of our finances, so she is not refused clothes, food, decorations, whatever… She is a control ing person. All I have ever wanted was her to stop criticizing me for things which is constant. I am very physically fit and quiet and listen. We talk 1-3 hours per day. Another 6 months and I am leaving.

11:11

Just dump her. Cut your losses because this issue is not going away.

Is this, word for for word, the same speech Bettina Arndt always gives??? Its even the same examples given! Are they twins, or the same person, in disguise?

Men, watch and listen to Bettina Arndt a psychologist on CZcams, she has a 20and 30-minut videos of women’s changing attitudes all too soon after marriage. They lose interest in sex leaving men wondering what did they do wrong. Women’s chemistry changes after marriage and the husband is out in the cold wondering what is going on because she is just not interested anymore. I did not know about Bettina Arndt until the age of 76. I am writing so men will know what to expect when they get married or live with someone.

This is something I am working on in my marriage. The big issue, is my partner is not willing to communicate on the issue. It is frustrating. When there was some discussion, it felt like a power game shift. I felt in some ways it would degrade respect me. I ended up pulling away, sleeping in another room. Drinking, reading, karaoke in the living room by myself, studying. Then any attempt by my partner to build bridges, it was civil sometimes warm, sometimes cold, and keep enough space. After several weeks, it starts to create tension. The loss of cuddling and other things also affects your partner. They will want to be cuddled as well. Now is a good time to discuss each other's emotional needs. Why those needs are important. This does open the doors a bit. Communication is very important. Sex that doesn't provide the emotional bond the marriage is over. It is just like having casual sex, it isn't something special for you to share together.

Thank you for sharing this.

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If you're not able to get your man interested and hard for sex, then it's not enjoyable for him anymore, and you should seek some kind of professional help with what your doing wrong

"How to avoid a sex starved marriage." Easy. Don't get married, buy a Realdoll. You can as much sex as you want with no condom. Shell never say no or tell you your dick is small or cheat on you and take your stuff in divorce court.

Just visit have Sex with a neighbour, neighbours can be good friends.

Im leaning toward divorce.

She says the exact same thing in every video. I want new. I want more. New

I make several cups of tea for my partner every day. Each time it takes about 5 minutes, is a bit of a chore, gives her a small amount of pleasure, I barely get a thank you. I do it because I love her. But for some reason she can't bear to put in the same amount of effort for me if it involves my penis.

Don't know why i watch the whole video I'm 25 and i haven't have a boyfriend yet😂😂😂

Seven years since my wife let me touch her. menopause is cruel

I am a woman.. And in sexless marriage for 5 years now. In 2021 once v had... After that never.. I am so so soooooo pissed off.. Being so much deeply connected to his family im unable to take a stand for myself

"Get more bite-marks on your tongue" - Love it!

am thrilled...😍

Men should marry only with their first choice …otherwise it’s not going to work .they will use porn , cheat , sexting ….anything….personally if I see I am not nr 1 choise ….I am not going to fill a sex void in anyone .

What if you don't recall any specific memories of being "comforted" but you didn't grow up feeling "unloved" ?