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Should we move from suburban comfort to a big city for a higher paying job?
Suzanne answers an email about whether or not a family, after finally getting settled in the Midwests, should move to a big city for a higher paying job.
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"There was never a time anyone acted like it was normal for me to say I wanted to be a mother."
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Suzanne reads several letters from women who've been shamed for prioritizing marriage and motherhood over career and juxtaposes this message with the reality of Barbara Walters' life, who did just that. LINK: www.washingtonpost.com/books/2024/04/22/susan-page-rulebreaker-barbara-walters/ MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
30-something women everywhere are BLINDSIDED by the reality of motherhood
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Suzanne talks about her follow-up conversation with Alex Clark of The Spillover and the shocking reality women experience in becoming new mothers. Suzanne on The Spillover Podcast: czcams.com/video/1zuLwSOLjZs/video.html MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
Wife and mother of four littles wants to stay home but husband isn't supportive
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The culture-and now even husbands!-insist women with children are happier when they work outside the home while raising babies and young children. But study after study after study after study proves otherwise. LINKS: news.illinois.edu/view/6367/542579 www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/ slate.com/news-and-po...
#199: Marriage and family matter more than money and career
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Suzanne makes an announcement about The Suzanne Venker Show and discusses her new book, How to Build a Better Life: A New Roadmap for Women Who Want to Prioritize Love & Family, which is now on sale at Amazon. LINK: www.suzannevenker.com/books/how-to-build-a-better-life/ MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
Of course women can’t concentrate on their careers the same way they did prior to giving birth
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Suzanne quotes hedge fund billionaire Paul Tudor Jones, who made a bold observation ten years ago. He said the reason why there are fewer female traders than male traders is because women, as a rule, lose their focus after having a baby. Suzanne agrees-and explains why. LINKS: www.suzannevenker.com/books/how-to-build-a-better-life/ abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2013/05/investor-paul-tudor-jones...
What's the recipe for a happy life?
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Suzanne announces the publication of her new book, How to Build a Better Life: A New Roadmap for Women Who Want to Prioritize Love & Family. What’s the recipe for a happy life? If you listen to the culture, you’d think the answer for women is to postpone marriage indefinitely and to prioritize career over love. Problem is, somewhere around the age of 30 most women become walloped with a desire ...
#198: You don’t need to have a big life to have a valuable life
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Why should women (or men, for that matter) feel obligated to "change the world" when everyday life can be just as much, if not more, fulfilling? What if staying focused on life in your own backyard brings more joy and satisfaction than trying to "disrupt the status quo"? In this episode, Suzanne explains why women shouldn't feel pressure to live a big life when a smaller one is just as noble an...
The Difference Between Preschool and Daycare
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Suzanne plays a voicemail she received on Instagram that had a question from a SAHM. She then explains the difference between daycare and preschool and gives parameters for how long Mom and baby can "safely" be apart from one another without causing problems. MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: www.suzannevenker.com/coaching/
#197: Are you ready to build (or rebuild) a life that prioritizes your relationships at home?
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Are you a single woman (or the parent of a single woman) who wants to take her foot off the gas pedal and settle down with a husband and kids? Are you a married mother who wants to quit her job and stay home with the littles, but your family and friends-even your own husband!-want you to continue to work full-time? If so, you will NOT want to miss this episode! Suzanne has written a book just f...
#196: How to Date for Marriage-In Any Era
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Dating in America has become an absolute mess. Men and women have no compass for how to proceed and no idea what the roles and the rules are anymore. In this episode, Suzanne lists 7 dating rules for marriage-minded women since they have the power to get to what they ultimately want: marriage. MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES? Sign up here for coaching with Suzanne: www.suzannevenker.com/coach...
Lies Democrats tell about the needs of very young children
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Suzanne reads a newsletter from Mark R. Warner, a Democratic senator from Virginia whose subject line read “The child care industry is in crisis. I want to do something about it." In it, Warner writes that the child care industry is a "moral and economic imperative for America" and that our current economy "relies on a fully functioning child care system so that parents can return to work." MAR...
#195: MORE relationship experience is correlated with LESS marital quality/stability later on
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#195: MORE relationship experience is correlated with LESS marital quality/stability later on
#194: How to Stop Overachieving
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#194: How to Stop Overachieving
“Everyone’s a feminist until it’s time to split the bill.”
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“Everyone’s a feminist until it’s time to split the bill.”
#193: Should Boomers help raise their millennial kids’ kids?
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#193: Should Boomers help raise their millennial kids’ kids?
#192: Lies our daughters believe
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#192: Lies our daughters believe
#191: 5 Gen X Tips for Raising Kick-Ass Kids
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#191: 5 Gen X Tips for Raising Kick-Ass Kids
Dads, Stop pressuring your daughters to be high achievers!
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Dads, Stop pressuring your daughters to be high achievers!
#190: Mothering is more than enough
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#190: Mothering is more than enough
#189: Love & Money Series: The best thing you can do for your marriage is to fight about money
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#189: Love & Money Series: The best thing you can do for your marriage is to fight about money
#188: What’s Really Going between Mom and Baby in the First Three Years
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#188: What’s Really Going between Mom and Baby in the First Three Years
#187: How can I get my husband to see the significance of my staying home?
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#187: How can I get my husband to see the significance of my staying home?
#186 : Single motherhood is NOT the answer to the lack of marriageable men
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#186 : Single motherhood is NOT the answer to the lack of marriageable men
#185: Building a Family Friendly Life
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#185: Building a Family Friendly Life
Quick Announcement and exciting news!
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Quick Announcement and exciting news!
BONUS EPISODE: "I'm raising great kids, but I still feel like a failure."
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BONUS EPISODE: "I'm raising great kids, but I still feel like a failure."
#184: Ideas for How to Live on Less
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#184: Ideas for How to Live on Less
BONUS EPISODE: Q&A: Suzanne reads listener emails and answers questions
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BONUS EPISODE: Q&A: Suzanne reads listener emails and answers questions
#183: Dismantling the lies feminists tell
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#183: Dismantling the lies feminists tell

Komentáře

  • @aa1589
    @aa1589 Před dnem

    feminism is the scam the corporations and government uses to keep the economy inflated and to keep both parents so fixated on work that the kid is raised by the state and media

  • @aa1589
    @aa1589 Před dnem

    Even if your partner isn't like this, media is constantly sending them the message. It requires constant checking and it's exhausting.

  • @cinlakech888
    @cinlakech888 Před dnem

    I've never felt more at home in a comments section. Suzanne you have the best following of women!

  • @desking8065
    @desking8065 Před 2 dny

    Women All very well but she is not mentioning the root cause. SEXLESS WOMEN. Before marriage men get more sex. Sex is used as a trap to get a husband. Sex is a marital duty that goes by the way side very quickly. Sex is the stalwart of marriage. With out sex marriage falls apart. Men are better off just shacking up for short periods only like six months at a time, Marriage is a defunked institution, that should never happen again. The rise of ME TO is a big creator of the no marriage syndrome. Asian women are by far the best choice of women They are very permissive and caring, Women have bought all of this dilemma on themselves being sexless shortly after marriage. Do not ever get married to Western women. You will regret it the rest of your life Women do not care about the needs of men it's all about them. Women do not have the same sexual needs as men. When a woman recites her wedding vowels she is lying right to your face. The Victorian govt; appointing a minister for mens’ behaviour is absolutely stupid the problem is staring straight at them. And it takes a woman to come up with that idea. Women have an obligation to men after marriage which is not being fulfilled. It’s withheld as a bargaining chip or sadistic reasons. Women would rather give sex away for free than do their duty towards their husband. And they wonder why men get frustrated against women. The whole dynamics of marriage is geared towards the woman. If you break up she gets the lions share by law. How else do you want to create friction. The only equal way of a break up is murder in the eyes of the law. Women have created their own demise by the mismanagement of mens’ needs. [Infidelity, women are experts] Hwo has changed women or men. ? What were women put on earth for ? The only way is rule out marriage, the plot has been lost to self entitlement. Get your oats somewhere else, there are plenty of willing women out there, because it’s your health that is at risk. 10 times a year does not cut it. That is a woman's idea of doling out sex.

  • @jeffreyallen2232
    @jeffreyallen2232 Před 3 dny

    Thank you

  • @lcbenites
    @lcbenites Před 3 dny

    I'm an elder millennial (41). When i married 16 years ago, my husband and I lived 5 hours from our hometown. We had our first 2 children away from my family. My boomer mother cried and begged for us to move back to our hometown to be closer to family. She expressed that we're being selfish by living far from them and she is not able to enjoy her grandkids. When we found out we were having our 3rd child, we moved back to be close to family. Nothing has changed. My parents live 10 minutes away from me but we might as well live 5 hours away because they literally have never asked for their grandchildren. We rarely see them. My mother still works, father is retired but has plenty hobbies to keep him out of the house everyday. My children do not have a bond with them, it's terribly awkward. I stopped trying to make plans with my parents as they have their own lives and interests. One thing boomers are good at is criticizing millennial parenting lol I do not understand boomers. I invite them to my children's award ceremonies or musical concerts but they never make the time to attend. My mother simply asks me to take pictures and send them to her. I don't ever ask them to babysit. I simply ask them to come celebrate their grandkids accomplishments with us but they so not make time for them. They will attend birthday parties but never actually help with it. God forbid i do not remember them on their birthday or mothers day😱 my mother would have a melt down. My husbands mother lives in town and is also a selfish boomer. She never asks for her grandchildren or makes time for them. I'm upset and heartbroken over this one thing for sure is that i will always be there for my children and vow to help them with their own children. Want to also mention that i was a SAHM for the first 10 years marriage and now i work full-time for the past few years.

  • @lauriesimonds9229
    @lauriesimonds9229 Před 5 dny

    What mother of 4 children under age 4 could possibly EVER be bored???

  • @LLBlackhawk-mc3sq
    @LLBlackhawk-mc3sq Před 5 dny

    If a man treats his wife like dirt is she supposed to feel like his princess? Beat your wife and expect her to desire you? Your wondering eyes and she is supposed to like she is the only one!?

  • @shelbybuttimer1397
    @shelbybuttimer1397 Před 6 dny

    My oldest was a difficult sleeper and I was eventually worked out a complicated schedule of stroller naps, contact naps, and watching wake windows religiously. He never would have slept at daycare. My second was easier, but he mostly wanted to sleep on me in his carrier. Again, wouldn’t have slept in daycare.

  • @celinerieu9415
    @celinerieu9415 Před 6 dny

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @K.mit338
    @K.mit338 Před 6 dny

    100% facts

  • @rachelheise9601
    @rachelheise9601 Před 7 dny

    Where we live in Australia it is illegal to leave a child under 12 unsupervised. You can’t raise free range children without fear of them being taken away by family services where we live. Some of the millennial parenting tropes are not by choice 😢

  • @EquippingBroadcast
    @EquippingBroadcast Před 7 dny

    Your content has really blessed me. Now I know what to look for and the questions to ask..

  • @willmichael4033
    @willmichael4033 Před 7 dny

    I think regardless of gender, that there’s an order to doing things. First priority should be finding a good partner who has compatible life goals. Second should be finding a career (or combination of jobs) that supports those goals. Third should be finding a location where you can make those goals happen. Too many people get this backwards or out of order, and their lives become difficult in the process.

  • @noela7689
    @noela7689 Před 9 dny

    Just a note to everyone, there might be scammers on here. Watch out for comments mentioning ridiculously high investment returns. Don’t get burned.

  • @gurusukumaran1304
    @gurusukumaran1304 Před 10 dny

    😂😂😂 this americans 😂😂 my wife salary is 3 fold of my salary we have no problem in sex life . Iam a bus driver and my wife is a government employee we met 20 years ago we living together for 18 years

  • @sebbedelle
    @sebbedelle Před 10 dny

    Thanks for your good work

  • @liquidmath4045
    @liquidmath4045 Před 10 dny

    Fantastic interview. Thanks.

  • @arthurdirindinjr1792
    @arthurdirindinjr1792 Před 10 dny

    What exactly IS an "identity crisis" I do not understand how any adult who made the vast overwhelming majority of the decision in thier lives that got them to 30 let alone older can not know what thier "identity" is Im a man a father responsible for providing for and protecting my family and raising my sons to be successful conservative men of honor and morals My "identity" is a simple as mud pies.

  • @CarportCarl
    @CarportCarl Před 11 dny

    WE CAN PARK MOST OF THE BLAME RIGHT ON THE 1960s young people that were the perverts of their day. Gloria Steinem and all.

  • @ChalkboardCreativeHomeschool

    Absolute truth

  • @TSgtOzzy
    @TSgtOzzy Před 13 dny

    I combined money with my wife for 13 years. She didn't like that I put us on a budget, so she went out and got a new account in a completely separate bank. 8 years later, I am really thriving on my own, because I still budget, meanwhile she doesn't have $150 to her name after she pays her bills. The marriage isn't great, but this is what she wanted, so I display no sympathy for her financial issues.

  • @olddog-fv2ox
    @olddog-fv2ox Před 14 dny

    No, they are fulfilling their destiny as another Darwin award casualty. Leave nature alone, it wants them gone.

  • @Strider9655
    @Strider9655 Před 15 dny

    "Debt I was encouraged to accrue" that one sentence says it all. Refusal to take accountability. We ALL live in a world that encourages debt, plenty of us don't take that path.

  • @astroterra5021
    @astroterra5021 Před 15 dny

    My mother died when i was 9yrs and this has impacted me terribly....even as an adult i have weird issues from this as well as health problems. A constant underlying sense of anxiety because i dont feel safe

  • @Strider9655
    @Strider9655 Před 15 dny

    Women need to grasp the concept that they don't have to do it all, playing the victim is not noble, their partner needs to know how to help (he's not a mind reader and he's allowed to have his own priorities), he needs to be given more than 7 seconds to actually begin to help, before she goes into victim mode and does it herself "because if I don't nobody will" (ie coercive manipulation).

  • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265

    We lived on one income for 7 years from 22 years of age. Bought a home, as well It can be done if family and children are the priority. 4 beers per week was my quota😅

  • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265

    I have also seen in my family couples chasing materialism instead of living within their means. Fulfilment comes from family not career. Most men try to earn more for their families

  • @betterapproachtolife.motiv3265

    Love this video. Shows how ideology has tilted one way. Men and women need to be brought up with knowledge of all options including the joy of marriage

  • @crazyralph3585
    @crazyralph3585 Před 16 dny

    Your video and many others like it has encouraged me to take a counter action. I am calling for a type of MEN'S LIBERATION MOVEMENT. To get on board, you must do 3 things: GET A VASECTOMY. If you are 18 or over, then get this done as soon as possible. This way you can enjoy being intimate with a woman without the fear of pregnancy. STAY SINGLE. If you are not married, or cohabitating, then stand your ground and stay as you are. REJECT ALL DOUBLE STANDARDS, GENDER STEREOTYPES, and GENDER ROLE EXPECTATIONS that are placed on men, and refuse to live by them. Remember, as men, we are only LEGALLY required to obey one gender role expectation, registering with Selective Service (military draft registration) I have decided to call this movement "OPERATION INDIAN OUTLAW" (named after a song by Tim McGraw). My challenge to all men is: Do you have the strength and the courage to join me and get on board with this movement? I pray that God helps you to do so.

  • @hiddenhand6973
    @hiddenhand6973 Před 16 dny

    The elderly won’t get the end of life care they want by being selfish.

  • @Vic2point0
    @Vic2point0 Před 16 dny

    I mean, it is a real possibility that a woman who's grown accustomed to having a full-time, full-fledged career would end up getting "bored" with staying home afterwards. But if he was using that as reason for her *not* to stay at home, that'd be foolish.

  • @WillieJones-dl8bs
    @WillieJones-dl8bs Před 17 dny

    modern woman focused on self career travel money shopping family friends no time for husband

  • @WillieJones-dl8bs
    @WillieJones-dl8bs Před 17 dny

    women raise feminine energy boys and teach girls to be independent masculine

  • @WillieJones-dl8bs
    @WillieJones-dl8bs Před 17 dny

    men are raised by women so they take her characteristics

  • @gold3084
    @gold3084 Před 17 dny

    Most women will just divorce you and take most of your wealth and the kids !

  • @Balinux756
    @Balinux756 Před 19 dny

    Our grandmas had their shit together.

  • @user-qy5ue5ih7y
    @user-qy5ue5ih7y Před 19 dny

    Biggest red flag I ignored before I married my nurse wife! She actually said I've got a great career, so I'll never have to depend on any man. We were married 23 years, and 19 of those years were virtually sexless. I wasn't even 2nd to her career, but 3rd after the kids. She finally let me see her slow dancing with strange guy at the bar we went to. He was seriously and passionately fondling her ass, and she was very much enjoying it. I had suspected for years that she had been cheating on me but had no proof. I divorced her three months later, and she still maintains it was just a silly mistake. Silly, really!

  • @PeachWookiee
    @PeachWookiee Před 19 dny

    SAHM will only truly be a viable choice for all when women are rewarded for it by being compensated as is the case in European countries. And in the meantime, get off your high horse.

  • @deezed6478
    @deezed6478 Před 19 dny

    Let’s not forget that the reason women fought so hard for the right to work is because a lot of men treated women like they were less important and had to do whatever men said because they made the money

  • @worldcitizen242
    @worldcitizen242 Před 20 dny

    A marriage is what you make it. Stop letting people tell you how to be in a relationship. There is no wrong or right way to do it. We all get one life to live. No one is going to care when you leave this planet.

    • @CarportCarl
      @CarportCarl Před 11 dny

      🐂💩. There are rules. When you 'leave' this world it's judgement Day.

    • @worldcitizen242
      @worldcitizen242 Před 11 dny

      Says who? Explain yourself. Your comment is baseless otherwise

    • @CarportCarl
      @CarportCarl Před 11 dny

      @@worldcitizen242 Almighty God and his infallible word. The Holy Bible.

    • @worldcitizen242
      @worldcitizen242 Před 11 dny

      Even in the Holy bible, there's stories of infidelity, multiple wives....etc. So your comment is still baseless...

    • @CarportCarl
      @CarportCarl Před 11 dny

      @@worldcitizen242Wrong, mentioning these things doesn't condone them.

  • @user-ry7kq4rx6d
    @user-ry7kq4rx6d Před 20 dny

    Thank you for all you do on behalf of men’s rights and couples. I find you as one of the best voices out there.

  • @Rose-xe5fy
    @Rose-xe5fy Před 20 dny

    My children are grown now, but I regret allowing their daycare provider, as great as she was, to be such a big part of their daily lives.

  • @elizabethmonsell1847
    @elizabethmonsell1847 Před 20 dny

    Don’t allow meddlesome women (friends, aunties, playgroup acquaintances, daycare, other teachers) tell your son what to do / what not to do; or discipline your son.

  • @elizabethmonsell1847
    @elizabethmonsell1847 Před 20 dny

    Do not circumcise / amputate very important foreskin on your beautiful baby boy born perfect. It will traumatized your perfect boy. He needs his foreskin.

  • @amandlaawethu1538
    @amandlaawethu1538 Před 20 dny

    The agenda was to destroy the black American nuclear family structure. Now that it did WS have to retrain their own son's & daughters to see value in each other so that the can replenish the WS ranks. Good luck

  • @21truthbetold
    @21truthbetold Před 20 dny

    "Career women" should not get picked on. To play the devil's advocate, I am BLESSED that I got a Master's degree, and a job. My first marriage (age 24 yo; 2 months after grad school) ended because my ex was sleeping with everyone at his job- the entire bank. My 2nd marriage (age 31 yo, and he was CHRISTIAN) ended because my ex was secretly sleeping with men he would look up online! And NO there were absolutely no "gay" signs. It is indeed important to have 2 legs to stand on, on your own, because the truth is that MOST marriages end due to infidelity, and MOST of the infidelity is from men. Both of my exes were financially independent, thank God, and I was able to take care of myself and LEAVE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS!! It's a sad truth. Not to mention, some men die and then women are left widowed. Get an education, get a career established for at least 1-2 years of experience, and then pursue children. Women are just more vulnerable and have to have different manners to defend themselves and any* potential children.

  • @jorb8572
    @jorb8572 Před 20 dny

    It could be fun

  • @elizabethmonsell1847
    @elizabethmonsell1847 Před 20 dny

    Many people put yearly fancy vacation on debt (visa or line of credit). I wonder how they can afford the vacations. My kids see the vacation pics and feel the lack. We go camping cause it is what we can afford. And we love it and are mostly happy.

  • @careforashow
    @careforashow Před 21 dnem

    Wow, I am not here for this. Referencing Jordan Peterson. Yikes.