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you're adorable <3 Yeah idk man their socks have kept up TO THIS DAY

you saw my wardrobe and I invite you to join my future videos! And thank you SO much. <3

@@alterlait2601 Same, I think we need more blouse-content lol

@@Nick-dx2pt Making a video on it soon! I am still...searching :(

I'm happy you could learn something! I'll drop you some places I know only write scientific stuff: The World Health Organization, www.who.int/health-topics/contraception#tab=tab_1, especially on the right where it says "Fact Sheets" The Turnaway study (one of the biggest studies on abortion and getting denied abortion) to be foundhere www.ansirh.org/research/ongoing/turnaway-study, "A brief history and future prospects of contraception" in Science (which is next to Nature THE best scientific magazine in the world) here www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.adf9341?url_ver=Z39.88-2003&rfr_id=ori:rid:crossref.org&rfr_dat=cr_pub%20%200pubmed, General history by Planned Parenthood with many traditional methods (not safe by today's standarts but good t know) www.plannedparenthood.org/files/2613/9611/6275/History_of_BC_Methods.pdf, adn www.glowm.com/section-view/heading/History%20of%20Contraception/item/375 and pretty much the entire GLOWN page as they are a worldwide organization of doctors for female health. If you need books to read, I'll search for such!

also, spermicide is only unsafe with prolonged expose! The tests they do are not reflective of use! I don't think anyone is out here slathing it on morning noon and night, but the tests tested like they were! (Unless they are, ultra nymphos trying?? to be? safe??) But Never heard of such a thing If you one use it when needed, and cleaning up excess, its a pretty okay product. I think it is too expensive tho

@@VVilde36 Bless your IUD! Yes using it with spermicide is even safer, maybe I was unclear: I meant for me it was not safe enough. Besides always remembering the pill made me pressured to do so. An IUD can be a great alternative to a sterilization and it lasts for years. Whoever reads this, make sure to ask for painkillers or a sedation, I at least couldn't t tough it out. :D I'm 28 and have been trying to get sterilized for ten years. It took me TEN YEARS to find a MAN (I only visit female doctors but I was desperate) who just asked: Waddaya need? me: a bisalp. him: okay this is how we do it! I had ZERO bingos unlike with anyone else. Reddit has a doctor's list on r/childfree and I highly recommend that. In Germany technically you can get sterilized at 18, but most doctors think women can only sanely consent to kids and not to no kids. Ten years, for fuck's sake. (⁠┛⁠◉⁠Д⁠◉⁠)⁠┛⁠彡⁠┻⁠━⁠┻

@@VVilde36 OMG I didn't even think of Assassin's Creed ffs people will compare a random organ to *anything* for money

Let me directly quote, since I, a European, don't care about what bullshit these two parties claim about another. Trump claims to "never have heard" of this document while being an obsessive liar in any way he opens his mouth. I just remind you he suggested using desinfectant as vaccines during the Cov-19 pandemic. He is a moron. On birth control: Trump backs in and out of being for or against birth control. He is claiming whatever benefits him the most. Project 2025 on the other hand is by HIS party, backed by HIS people. Page 483: "Restore Trump religious and moral exemptions to the contraceptive mandate (also a CMS rule)." Page 485: "Eliminate the week-after-pill from the contraceptive mandate as a potential abortifacient." (the morning-after-pill (what I assume they mean) is NOT an abortifacient, it just suppresses ovulation) Page 485: "Now that the Supreme Court has acknowledged that the Constitution contains no right to an abortion, the FDA is ethically and legally obliged to revisit and withdraw its initial approval, which was premised on pregnancy being an 'illness' and abortion being 'therapeutically' effective at treating this 'illness.' The FDA is statutorily charged with guaranteeing the safety and efficacy of drugs and therefore should withdraw this drug that is proven to be dangerous to women and by definition fatally unsafe for unborn children." (which is a lie. Mifepristone is safe) Page 459: "Stop promoting or approving mail-order abortions in violation of long-standing federal laws that prohibit the mailing and interstate carriage of abortion drugs." (Planned Parenthood relies on mail orders, so do women who abort at home) Page 473: "In July 2022, HHS/CMS released guidance mandating that EMTALA-covered hospitals and the physicians who work there must perform abortions, to include completing chemical abortions even when the child might still be alive. The guidance also declared that EMTALA would protect physicians and hospitals that perform abortions in violation of state law if they deem those abortions necessary to stabilize the women’s health. This novel interpretation of EMTALA is baseless. EMTALA requires no abortions, preempts no pro-life state laws, and explicitly requires stabilization of the unborn child." (Doctors can deny an abortion even if that leaves the woman dying) How come I can google direct quotes from this 992 paged document and US Americans cannot?

They are though? My state just banned plan-b, made it to where teens need parental consent (There are tons of reasons that is problematic in the south where at home sex abuse is very normalized) And they are trying to make it to where employers do not have to cover birth control, which means that conservative employer like hobby lobby who are known to lord birth control withholding over their female employees to promote their probirth stance. This is a disproportional affect females bc they are the ones who have to deal with all ramifications of onprotected sex, therefore by moving the goalpost to get protection you make it clear that you are in control of their sex lives. As a female I can tell you it is not propoganda, its happening to us. They want to make employees at some types of companyees give bio data, and if they are female and detected possible pregnancy signs then you naturally miscarry they want to be able to jail you, as has already happened in texas 2 months ago.

@@EnyoBowBtch except project 2025 is from the heritage foundation and has nothing to do with trump. He’s never had an issue with it. Find anything he’s said about birth control. His agenda is on his website and contains nothing about birth control or abortion. Yet again, find where trump said anything at all about birth control.

@@EnyoBowBtch trump never said to use bleach as a vaccine. You’ve been misled again. Go read the snopes article on it (I’d link it but I can’t on CZcams). Snopes is pretty ideologically biased and even they admit it’s bs

Good luck with that! And don't worry. Lolita is expensive as fuck and I can only afford it via working and keeping expenses low.

@@skogsdocka Thank •you• for watching!

@@brittany16950 Oh you're such a darling! YT has a strange algorithm (Actually it has three) so sometimes things disappear. I upload every 2 weeks on Fridays if that helps! ⁽⁠⁽⁠◝⁠(⁠ ⁠•⁠௰⁠•⁠ ⁠)⁠◜⁠⁾⁠⁾

Thank you so much! I think indeed I am funny but nice is a bit too kind lol. I'm fairly blunt and need to work on not getting too harsh with people and then I'll be nicer. ^^"

Danke! Habe ich dich schon von Bittersweet überzeugt? Das Coordvideo jedenfalls kommt diesen Monat noch...

Ich fühle mich sehr geschmeichelt, danke! Ja, bittersweet muss langsam die Welt erobern und dafür werde ich sorgen...*hints at upcoming video lol*

@@luluchan8099 💖

@@HerRoliness All the way! ᕙ⁠(⁠ಠ⁠ ⁠ਊ⁠ ⁠ಠ⁠)⁠ᕗ

@@VVilde36 💜💖💚

thank youuu <3

life goals: get a girlfriend who also wears lolita and never fit through your apartment door together again!

Thank you so much. Spreading love amongst gals is THE shit <3

@@VVilde36 Thank you for the love! 💖 I have an upcoming video going more into detail (and a bit detached from Lolita) of men trying to keep us as dumb breeding cattle via talking about Project 2025 and the war on birth control. Uhm yeah safe to say I'll continue the feminist propaganda 🥞

@@angelmaraich me waiting for the day until sweet tart releases in black: (⁠༎ຶ⁠ ⁠෴⁠ ⁠༎ຶ⁠)

@@EnyoBowBtch ahh true a bittersweet tart would be so cute!!!

@@angelmaraich I might just search the print, I just remembered brands as well as Bodyline keep using stock illustrations. So maybe...

(Deutsch ist auch oke :D) Danke für die Liebe! Die online comm ist toxic af wenn du dich auf 4chan und Konsorten herumtreibst. Generell bietest du Angriffsflächen beim Existieren wenn du dick bist, groß, muskulös, keine brand trägst, irgend ne Behinderung hast, schwarz bist, und so weiter. Es ist so lächerlich dass Leute nicht evolven und so ein dummes Hobby einfach ein Hobby lassen. Ich war auch eine Zeit lang der Überzeugung, wenn ich online ne Bitch bin schützt mich das davor, selbst gehatet zu werden, aber das tut es nicht und es ist hart peinlich (und gemein). Komm einfach mal auf den deutschen Lolitaserver, sobald du ein Outfit hast! Es gibt viele tolle Leute online, die kreischen nur nicht so laut, wie weniger tolle!

@@brittany16950 As all people should do!

and that is why I like it as a guy, there is a real art to putting a coord togather, and long ago where there was more handmade stuff and people were making their own stuff I find it laudable and love it, there is a real skill that used to be ubiquitous among people 40 50 years ago but no as much anymore, I cant sew to make cosplays or clothing i wish I could but have a hard enough time to thread the needle which somehow I manange to always pull of to put a button back on but never for cosplay go figure, that and I like oldschool and nicer looking leave a bit to the imagination and the pretty but badass huge platforms often worn, sugery looking or formal but intimidating, if I got to be honest also I am a lover of history so I am looking though rose colored glasses but like what is timehonored vs new and fast fashion, from when we made our own stuff and put more into it to make it look nice like our buildings though art and ornamentation is starting to come back a little after the starkness of post modern and cement boxes for buildings.

@@EnyoBowBtch also on the western religions not all Christians are alike, not all of us force the ladies to stay home or try to keep ladies uneducated far from it, it is centered around God, and not all are called to the married life some are single, some are devoted religious and missionarys, or take vows same with men, though we very much reguard the family as the central unit of society, and the ladies are not objects infact this is sin to think so, or deminish from the dignaty or reputation of another, gossiping or telling unkind truth of another without good reason to, and we catholics dont give a woman away we stand up at their weding is our wording, furthermore the church at least in its teachings only witnesses the union it dont confer it like other sacraments, marrage is a self given sacrament between the man and woman, giving of whole self though humans are not perfect and we often do wrong we dont keep up our end, especially men we are hard wired to be visual creatures but we are supposed to be in mastery of all our senses and facllities, and as for woman they were last created thing created more perfect then the man adam created closer to the nature of God, we belive, and are complementry to each other, however this is lost in this social media fueled porn and objectification addicted sociaety today 51 percent of ladies and 75 percent of men polled say they look at it or are hooked on it. 75 percent and 51 percent we as a society need to let that sink in, also by the nature and type of material it changes litterly the connections and meaning of love or the way it looks at the opposet of the other, it changes it physcally so we are not even capable of proper love or understanding of the relationship. its not good, I know you might disagree with me about much but I also would like to speak to the fact that no religion is a monolith and that christianity and judiism for example you got some that are conservative and fundamentalis to those that are liberal and bairly recognizable to what that faith might teach, or it is misunderstood why someone might do something or why a relgion might dicate something, its not always just to spoil fun or make life dregery, but remember freedom is the right to choose to do good or right or the choice between many good things or actions, freedome is not doing what ever you want whenever no that would be license and no one is granted that though many take it anyway since we got free will the ultimate dignaty we have as humans beside life itself I was told by a scholarly Catholic Priest, though he nor I are perfect far from it and sarry my bad grammar or if you want to boil me in lead for disagreeing with my statements or beliefs EnyoBow. >^O^< signed J manga12

@@manga12 unfortunately that is not true. Lot's of christian america is still very conservative and does reject their girls getting higher education, and even my generation "As a girl, you only need High School Ed, because less than that will be a flaw for my husband, but more will make him insecure or tempt me into working" The incredible effect these have on society are so negative that it eclipses any hypothetical "goood Christians" And no matter what it is used heavily now to police female bodies and bully people- especially politically right now. Despite the separation of church and state, 2 months ago a judge in my states court cited the xtian's god in his ruling, which is illegal AND wrong. I as a tax payer who is not christian should not have to pay taxes here is xtians are gonna police me anyway. For reference I went to catholic school growing up and they still teatch that females were made to serve and be used by men; which is disgusting and untrue it is a bias taight by those people that leads to ladies being hurt. This is not the video for you to go saying "NOT ALL XTIANS" bc it comes across as very tone deaf when we say "hey these people are hurting us" and you come in whinging about "not all of us"

@@manga12 also nothing is wrong with porn??, that is another xtian belief that has to do with thinking monogamy is good (it is not, it is just easier to execute for less emotionally intelligent people than polygamy) Please go get de-programmed you will feel happier when you stop judging everyone else, its very tiring.

You're such a darling, thank you! <3

@@VVilde36 hell yeeeah 🩷🩷🩷

@@hopeofdawn I just checked their website, they are all adorable and indeed detailed. And so many nice long-sleeved options which are usually tricky since most brands don't add anything to the arm circumference. They are ~90€ each for me which in my head is *one half brand dress* but I'll definitely keep an eye out on LM. They are beyond cute!

@@EnyoBowBtch the Plus Plus size also fits lolitas like myself with big shoulders - even in plus size, Meta's shoulder width is too small for me. But Plus Plus fits super well (and has button on waist ties to cinch in the waist if needed). This is the first time I've seen a brand put out a blouse for big shouldered lolitas, so I want to make sure to spread the word! :)

@@hopeofdawn Thanks for doing so! If I ever get a Meta blouse I will definitely mention that!

Thank you so much! <3

@@asteriscofooljourney You're so welcome! And...no. At least I have never been to a foodless meetup, I can't imagine? Like even when our local swap meet happens people will at least snack something. :D

@@ratstraw Oh hell yeah I think there was not a single meetup where we didn't decide to eat...once we went eating TWICE. First we met up at a café with fancy doughnuts only to have 4 out of 8 orders mixed or fucked up and our doughnuts were dry as hell. After that we went to a Vietnamese food place as redemption arc lol

@@urbiologicalfather8787 You were heard, daddy. I added it to my Lolita trello ✨

IKR I feel like this has to become a running gag on this YT show haha I noticed the lack of blouse-content so I'll do my best to fill in the gap. <3

Thank you so much! Psssst planning a Halloween edition right now...〜⁠(⁠꒪⁠꒳⁠꒪⁠)⁠〜

Always make sure you also have a physical safe word like tapping twice. ;D

That is such a cute story! Your eagle eyes spotting the dresses due to your Lolita knowledge certainly made your friend's life brighter! ✨

That's literally so sweet and amazing!

Thank you! Please also spread the holy grape word and let us participate in the Temple of Wine™

Did you mean Glitter Tale? I still haven't seen a dress I like but I'm thinking of getting some blouses customized! It's cool to hear you got inspired by her- if you take any steps towards a business I'll gladly buy a piece and review you. 💖

Tune in next time for a (hopefully) Halloween-themed episode...;D

Oh that's so lovely! I will certainly try to keep up the production. :D

OMG the one that is ancient af and Bodyline never restocked for 10 years at least and that I think is a knockoff but who cares? I even considered that but my wardrobe is not musically (is that a word) hehe. Hold it close to your heart <3

Oh I could definitely do a video on that! I'm currently waiting for my Starry Frills Jsk so once it's here, I'll film that. <3

They are, they'd be so suitable for a printed book. Imagine brands get X pages each to showcase their photoshoots! Like the Gothic & Lolita book published by Phaidon. Would love that!

Oh same, it's almost impossible to not go "uwu" lol

Happy Pride!! <3

Danke, fand ich auch! :D

Omg shoutout to the people like us using regular blouses with spiky collars and a way too low neckline thinking it is RoRiTaH

Oh thank you so much! ✧⁠◝⁠(⁠⁰⁠▿⁠⁰⁠)⁠◜⁠✧ When is yours?

The EGL blouse discourse will grow and take over the world and thank you for the love!