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The Right to Be an Introvert (Finland) - Radical Introverts & Extroverts
Finland is the place where you can be an introvert pretty much anywhere and nobody is going to touch you in any way shape or form. You can dress simply, walk quietly, be in your mind and feel safe, especially in smaller cities. One quality that Finnish society has is that everybody minds their own business completely and they don't care about you unless you ask for help. It works for some, and does not work for others. But would it work for you?
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00:39 Introvert from a Southern Country
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What Makes Finnish Women Special (Different than other Scandinavian Women)
zhlédnutí 1,2KPřed měsícem
Why are Finnish women are so desirable by foreigners? Why do some foreigners prefer Finnish girls to Swedish, Danish and Norwegian? How to get a great Finnish girl who is sweet, relaxed and adorable? Let’s talk in this video! Reach out to Eduard: Instagram: eduon3 Telegram: t.me/eduon3 Telegram Channel: t.me/stayingsanewithedward 00:33 Foreign Men Love Finnish Women More Than Fin...
Finnish Men, Don’t Date Finnish Women
zhlédnutí 2,6KPřed 2 měsíci
Finnish Men are great, Finnish Women are Great, but we are too similar to one another and it's not the best idea to consider someone from Finland as your life partner seriously without experiencing how life can be when you date someone who is different than you. This video is going to help you understand if it would make the most sense long-term to date someone from your country or from another...
It’s Okay to Touch Finnish People (Dispelling the Myth about Finland)
zhlédnutí 300Před 2 měsíci
Today we are talking about myths surrounding so-called "human interaction" in Finland. Why Finnish people are generally afraid of new people, why Finnish people struggle with socializing, what is the cause of the myth regarding not touching Finnish people and why you should meet Finnish people and encourage us to be more sociable. Stay tuned! Get consultation: Instagram: eduon3 T...
Why European Women Prefer Tea to Coffee (Caffeine)
zhlédnutí 143Před 2 měsíci
Whenever we speak about caffeine, we quite often think about coffee or energy drinks. However, caffeine is present in other forms as well, for example in most teas. One very interesting trend about caffeine that can be observed in Europe is that young European women prefer to drink tea to coffee with the exception of few countries such as Italy and northern European countries. In this video we ...
Finland Makes You Face Your Fears (Why Foreigners Run Away From Finland Part #2)
zhlédnutí 2,5KPřed 4 měsíci
We've already talked about how terrible social skills of Finnish people make it hard for foreigners to assimilate in this beautiful country. Today we are going to discuss the other side of the coin - how foreigners struggle to assimilate due to their own poor mental resilience and their own weaknesses. Get Your Free Consultation: Telegram: t.me/eduon3 Instagram: eduon3 Telegram C...
Finnish Sales People Are Very Honest - said a British Woman
zhlédnutí 793Před 5 měsíci
One very distinct quality that Finnish Salespeople have is honesty and directness. In fact, that's how you are able to spot if a salesperson is a good person in Finland. If they don't tell you everything about what you are buying and you feel they are hiding something - that's considered scamming and is a huge turn-off when dealing with salespeople. Let's talk about what a British Woman said to...
“Finnish People Are Bad People” - She Said (What Do Foreigners in Finland Mean?)
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She said, "Finnish people are bad people". And it was not my first time hearing a foreigner say that. Today, we are going to discuss why foreigners in Finland sometimes say such things, how foreigners can start understanding Finnish people, and what Finnish people lack to be perceived normally by foreigners. Eduard helps Foreigners build extraordinary lives in Finland and Finnish people who are...
How to Change Finnish People so They Behave Like Everybody Else
zhlédnutí 653Před 10 měsíci
In this video we talk about a common probem foreigners face in Finland in which they find it hard to accept the fact of how different Finland and Finnish people are and then try to change finnish people. You'll find out a solution how to make Finnish People behave the way you want them to behave. Free consultations: Telegram: t.me/eduon3 Instagram: eduon3 Telegram Channel: t.me/s...
Finland. Number One Reason Foreigners Run Away From Here
zhlédnutí 13KPřed 10 měsíci
Finland is the kind of country that once you get there you love it and feel relaxed, then you start despising it with every single sense that you have and then you either leave, stay depressed or make it big. Finland is developed, weird, peaceful, boring, safe, and tense all at once, and people here are so different from almost every other country that foreigners struggle to enjoy their life an...
How to stop Fake Smiling
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In this video we talk about signs of fake smiling, how to avoid fake-smiling, how to help people who fake-smile and what happens if you don't stop fake smiling. Enjoy! Reach out to Eduard: Telegram: t.me/eduon3 Instagram: eduon3 Telegram Channel: t.me/stayingsanewithedward 00:40 How to Know You Are Fake Smiling 01:55 Fake Smiling Wrinkles 02:40 Fake Smiling is a Social Phenomena ...
Coffee Makes You a Slave (Caffeine)
zhlédnutí 299Před 11 měsíci
In this video we talk about how coffee makes people slaves, why it's good to be a slave sometimes, different types of slaves and why it's pointless to drink coffee. Reach out to Eduard: Telegram: t.me/eduon3 Instagram: eduon3 Telegram Channel: t.me/stayingsanewithedward 00:24 What Slavery Actually Is 01:26 How Coffee Makes You a Slave 02:23 Pro-Caffeine vs Anti-Caffeine People 03...
Beware the Quiet People. What does it mean? (Evil Toxic Introverts)
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Beware the Quiet People. What does it mean? (Evil Toxic Introverts)
Good People Don't Read News
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Good People Don't Read News
It’s not Caffeine That Causes Your Side Effects
zhlédnutí 184Před rokem
It’s not Caffeine That Causes Your Side Effects
Phone is Just a Tool (Phone addiction)
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Phone is Just a Tool (Phone addiction)
Nobody is Toxic
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Nobody is Toxic
Healthy Rudeness, Stop Being Nice
zhlédnutí 223Před rokem
Healthy Rudeness, Stop Being Nice
Stop Smiling! What’s Wrong with You?
zhlédnutí 3,9KPřed 2 lety
Stop Smiling! What’s Wrong with You?
Worst Dangers of Coffee Nobody is Telling You and How it Destroys Who You Are
zhlédnutí 9KPřed 3 lety
Worst Dangers of Coffee Nobody is Telling You and How it Destroys Who You Are

Komentáře

  • @talvetar3385
    @talvetar3385 Před 4 dny

    All those cliches are so boring, frustrating and never ending... 🙄

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 2 dny

      Yet people still experience them.

    • @talvetar3385
      @talvetar3385 Před 2 dny

      @@loweffortedward yes if you hang around with asperger engineers 😁

  • @markkujantunen8298
    @markkujantunen8298 Před 4 dny

    Finland was less homogenous 300 years ago than it is today. The Finns themselves were more different from each other than they are now. Regional differences were greater. Have you heard of the notion of "The Finnish Tribes" as in Tavastians, Karelians, Ostrobothnians and so on? No one talks about those any longer. The history of Finland begins from 12th century. The earliest written documents are from that era. Around that time, the concept of Finnish people didn't even exist. Tavastians (hämäläiset) fell under Swedish rule when the Kingdom of Sweden built a castle in Tavastia in the mid-13th century. In 1293, they fought against Karelians, won and built the Viipuri castle. Until that time, the Tavastians and the Karelians were adversaries competing for the same hunting and fishing grounds. There was no political structure uniting these two groups before rule by the Kingdom of Sweden. The current monoculture is the result of a long process of homogenization. These days, many of the differences between Finnish regional dialects clearly present until many decades ago have started to disappear from young people's speech. This has been documented. For example, in my dealings with people from Lappeenranta about 10-20 years younger than myself, I've found that their speech sounds much closer to Standard Finnish than that of my late grandmother who was from that region even after her living in the heart of Tavastia for nearly 60 years. A couple of generations ago, people from different regions spoke in different enough ways as to sometimes get mocked for their speech if they relocated to regions other than their home region. These days, accents may differ between different parts of the country but vocabularies are fairly uniform and Tavastian syntactic and morphological features are making inroads into the speech patters of people in other, faraway regions.

  • @markkujantunen8298
    @markkujantunen8298 Před 6 dny

    Finland has had its share of traumatic events in the past but what country hasn't? When it comes social interaction, each culture has its own characteristics. Whether you like them or not is a subjective matter. Some countries were founded by colonists and immigrants. Those countries inevitably have an extroverted culture because most people are not that many generations removed from being fresh off the boat themselves and with no networks to rely on. Under those circumstances, you'll see a lot more extroverted, contact seeking behavior. The flipside of that is the attitude that there's plenty of fish in the sea. If you fail to meet someone's expectations even after some time has passed knowing them, they are more likely to drop you like a hat. Finland is a small country in Europe and Northern Europe at that. Most people have their old networks in place and are not seeking to expand them. In this regard, our dear Nordic neighbors aren't that radically different from us. Swedes tend to somewhat be more polite and less blunt but in terms of extroversion not much different. Norwegians give you some leeway as a newcomer but strongly expect you to conform to their ways if you stay for the long haul.

  • @femiloner9138
    @femiloner9138 Před 12 dny

    I'm not Finnish but I don't think you have a right to tell people who they should date. Of course, b*tches are everywhere. Men and women are not so different. They can be equally t*rds or kind but blaming only one sex for problems is discriminatory. Do you think it's only the women's fault that men don't hate? Every men are innocent? "How to get a great Finnish girl who is sweet, relaxed and adorable?" from What makes Finnish women special video: What about confident, strong, smart? (not being ***hole) Don't misunderstand me! I support interracial relationships, it's also not okay if we are too similar or too different. Too similar is boring, too different causes conflict. But reading the comments and seeing similar videos from antifeminist youtubers I smell antifeminism here. I've seen tons of women blaming video titles. Even women make such these videos. If you agree with them you are just another hypocrite antifeminist. Hypocrite because you live in a feminist country and you try to look nice.

  • @hawkeize
    @hawkeize Před 12 dny

    Good answer Edward 😂 as if you need to speak fully a certain way to be classed as Finnish 🇫🇮 it’s nonsense

  • @quicherice1821
    @quicherice1821 Před 14 dny

    You sound pretty finnish to me especially at the end 😂 I love rally english so much ❤

  • @murunbuchstanzangur
    @murunbuchstanzangur Před 14 dny

    Picolainnen! Herkepekkala, em durpelë verbannen mi mikke harkkonnen vi mäts mäkkäpacca Paul MacCartney! Perkele! Hnufs hnufs hnufs hnufs!! 😂🎉

  • @maausva
    @maausva Před 14 dny

    Lievää yleistämistä 😉

  • @gabrielgabriel5177
    @gabrielgabriel5177 Před 15 dny

    Very interesting. As a finn it is good to hear these things also. I have lived abroad and i think its true what you saying. Its good that you have read so well about finlands history. Some people might think that finland always has been developed country but only 50 years ago it really wasnt. Also its good that you notice difference between western countries and finland. Some people think that finland is western country even that its totally not western.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 14 dny

      Thank you! :) Yeah, Finland is not totally "Western".

  • @peketee2278
    @peketee2278 Před 15 dny

    Noh... kukapa sen kissan hännän nostaa, muut kuin kissa itse. Elikkä toisin sanoen, voihan sitä noinkin kehua omaa erinomaisuuttaan🤔🤔🤔

  • @stevenjohnson7086
    @stevenjohnson7086 Před 16 dny

    Or maybe… Finland! Silence is golden.

  • @stevenjohnson7086
    @stevenjohnson7086 Před 16 dny

    New tourism slogan: Finland! The less said, the better.

  • @trikyy7238
    @trikyy7238 Před 16 dny

    When Europeans were building cathedrals, Finland had a population of under 100 000. It took a millennium to get to 5 000 000. Faced extinction every 100 years or so.

  • @Paltse
    @Paltse Před 16 dny

    Eeh, other cultures need to learn how to be introspective, like ammonium chloride candy and be socially awkward other than naked in a hot room with same sex compatriots to live in the happiest country where ever they are.

  • @atiithe
    @atiithe Před 18 dny

    U have ur history wrong. Finland wasnt a very poor country in the 70s. We actually collaborated with the nazis unfortunately, and thus lost ww2, which did leave us in a somewhat bad place. The push for education and specialisation comes from the lack of natural resources. I also think u get finnish society and culture totally wrong. Finnish people aren’t a monolith, seems like you’ve just bad bad experiences and go off of weird stereotypes

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 17 dny

      It’s not my personal experience. It’s what people say.

  • @ttiwaz4398
    @ttiwaz4398 Před 18 dny

    If a foreigner wants to get to know finnish people, at first they have to humble down and take our society as it is. It's intimidating for finns if you are loud and pushy. Finnish people speak good/understandable english in general but we have got a very noticable accent which make many finns shy speaking english. If you take effort to learn some very basic finnish you are already in a right track breaking the ice. It doesn't matter how good your finnish is or how you pronounce the words and we might giggle a bit and correct you, but it's all good and some feel less shamed speaking english back. In general finnish people absolutely love talking with people from foreign countries and would love to get to know them. You only have to understand Finland has got a very small population and our land is located in the edge of the world and our language is unique. Climate is harsh. We are also patriots and we adore our country. Be respectful and things will be fine! I hope these tips help you if you want to visit Finland or are planning to stay a while :)

  • @larryclifford8928
    @larryclifford8928 Před 18 dny

    I tell you what,Come to NYC,, you'll beg for Peace,,in your sleep,, You'll still be Begging.Its so damn noisey and people can be Loud And disruptive,,You wish you'd kept your Tail Home.😂🎉😂

  • @larryclifford8928
    @larryclifford8928 Před 18 dny

    Your Right,,There Are Beautiful Clouds Up there,,Here in NY Who Notices them,,, Maybe everybody,,You wouldn't Know,, Cause everyone is focused on the Grind. Sad,,So SAD,,,Grind meaning, trying to Survive the Day

  • @PhucNguyen-yn7ng
    @PhucNguyen-yn7ng Před 19 dny

    Finland is seems the perfect country for me ❤

  • @stevenjohnson7086
    @stevenjohnson7086 Před 21 dnem

    Your Finnish introverted behavior quickly turns when alcohol is added.

  • @stevenjohnson7086
    @stevenjohnson7086 Před 21 dnem

    The more you explain how Finnish people are, the more I realize I am supposed to be quietly living in Finland.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 21 dnem

      What’s stopping you?

    • @stevenjohnson7086
      @stevenjohnson7086 Před 20 dny

      @@loweffortedward Six years to retire. I can’t quit now or I’ll lose my pension.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 20 dny

      @@stevenjohnson7086 You have something to look forward to!

  • @stevenjohnson7086
    @stevenjohnson7086 Před 21 dnem

    You don’t need foreigners. You need to try harder to get your women pregnant.

  • @jannegranlund2230
    @jannegranlund2230 Před 21 dnem

    Finns peaceful? Its easy to get in trouble if you are different. I remember my early days where outside of discoteques fights were frequent. Ok. youthzs I agree but my estimation stands. Finns are aggressive and expansive. They cannot tolerate any diversion from their collective groupresonace. However, the true individual who you find outside the "ruuhka suomi" , busy Finland is genereally a very nice person. But an endangered species sorry to say. Anyway when you find decent finns they re usually the best of friends

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 21 dnem

      It’s hard for Finns to handle the Capital vibes and they start very often to look inwards too much. To meet the most awesome Finns - definitely shoot for smaller cities, they are a bit shy as well, but it’s easier to find someone who is not reserved. Are you living in Finland?

  • @PersonalNotPrivate-rl8dv

    Dating is a problem these days throughout much of Western Civilization. At least in the US, females are becoming more and more quasi-masculine and the males, quasi-feminine. It is better in general to have masculinity and femininity from the original sources.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 21 dnem

      Luckily western countries are only 15% of the world, so if you don’t like women from here, you have almost 6 times as much women elsewhere. Is that something that sounds appealing to you?

    • @PersonalNotPrivate-rl8dv
      @PersonalNotPrivate-rl8dv Před 9 dny

      @@loweffortedward Why is it lucky that western countries make up only 15% of the world's population? Also, I never said I don't like women from the US or Western women. A comment about a trend involving some women, even if a large amount, is not necessarily a comment about all women in the same geographical place, etc. Especially in the US, where there was a "mad dash" to have as many people arrive on its shores as fast as possible so a functioning economy could be developed to be able to trade with England, France, etc., and so we could trade internally, not to mention learn how to manufacture weapons to defend against future invasions, etc. The point is that the population is diverse, in the older sense of _diverse_ as a result. I have yet to know a place, a people, and/or a culture that doesn't have tradeoffs if one starts making comparisons either across other/different cultures and customs, etc, or when compared against personal preferences as if one could start over and build a nation as some sort of "thought/mental exercise" or perhaps even to buy an island and try to start over, - in the sense of creating something original. 🤪

  • @tanafreak6098
    @tanafreak6098 Před 22 dny

    A Brit, who lived in Finland over 20 years, was asked if he would change some things in Finland. His answer was: people, location and climate. Now the first one due to low birthrate and large immigration shall happen in near future. After some decades the people here will be mainly African an Middle East people. Sadly we cannot change the location, but the climatechange will make the weather suitable for nicer people.

  • @marlonelias
    @marlonelias Před 23 dny

    He’s good looking!.!.

  • @vonheiz
    @vonheiz Před 23 dny

    As a Finn I found this video very interesting. We can still learn 😊

  • @vonheiz
    @vonheiz Před 23 dny

    Introvert people have usually deep thoughts and rich internal life

  • @glenglen6386
    @glenglen6386 Před 24 dny

    The off spring being healthier due to parents being of different backgrounds is not always true. We have a situation in Sweden now where children from interracial couples cant get any bone marrow transplant because there's hardly any mixed people that are donating. The genetic cocktail of the child makes them unable to recieve a transplant from either parent. Only match for them is from people who are also mixed.

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 24 dny

      We’re talking about scenario when people are healthy

  • @ShubhamPandey-uo8rr
    @ShubhamPandey-uo8rr Před 24 dny

    your videos looks honest, i am an indian, planning to move Finland, I am a chartered accountant(ACCA), is it good to move for an indian?

    • @loweffortedward
      @loweffortedward Před 24 dny

      If you are hardworking and are curious about the country - definitely ;)

  • @AwRighttttt
    @AwRighttttt Před 24 dny

    You are a joke lad your the one who's boring

  • @lonley1753
    @lonley1753 Před 25 dny

    sounds like societal cuckoldry with extra steps.

  • @billiecrouse8002
    @billiecrouse8002 Před 26 dny

    Let me explain it to you. She is full of sht. The Finland people are very good.

  • @JanoTuotanto
    @JanoTuotanto Před 27 dny

    Extrovert southlanders very easily portray themselves as narcissists or sociopaths. Such people are better avoided.

  • @AndrewTheVikings
    @AndrewTheVikings Před 27 dny

    I give you straight answers is because most men over there are scared to approach and they need to look themselves in the mirror and have a real conversation about what’s holding you back? Is it abuse? Is it you’re not good enough? Is it you came from dysfunctional family? Is it you let society tells you what to do? What is it? You got to be a man, gentlemen.

    • @Stryker-K
      @Stryker-K Před 23 dny

      You're another guy pushing double standards that hurt men.

  • @Aldarionz9
    @Aldarionz9 Před 29 dny

    They are finished with each other,and look to catch the fish by the fins elsewhere out of Finland.

  • @Dirty_Dumb_NAFO_Scum
    @Dirty_Dumb_NAFO_Scum Před 29 dny

    Finnish men won't give their benis to finnish women.

  • @Astuga
    @Astuga Před měsícem

    A nice little fallacy you've got there. While it's true, that variety is common in nature and overall something positive. The way you would practice it with relationships and offspring would only lead to a new uniformity. In nature variety is the result of differentiation and isolation (be it spatial or in behaviour). In human populations we see how this also manifests itself as different peoples, cultures and languages. Would we continue to follow this natural path we may end up with different humans species one day. If we crossbreed on the other hand, we would only get more uniform as a species and stagnate.

  • @user-my9us2ox4w
    @user-my9us2ox4w Před měsícem

    you are so right

  • @lindaostrom570
    @lindaostrom570 Před měsícem

    scandinavians like their privacy and a certain amount of aloneness. friendly not necessarily your friend. there is a distinction.

  • @Redfizh
    @Redfizh Před měsícem

    What is the thing with Moomins? Some half swedish L women write stories about fictional creatures so what's the point? Finland IS the moomin valley and finns ARE moomins. 🤯 Think about it. Deep dive.

  • @Roshea
    @Roshea Před měsícem

    true perkele moment

  • @justroman2150
    @justroman2150 Před měsícem

    I dated a finnish girl for 2 years , it was quite good . Italy here 🇮🇹

    • @Roshea
      @Roshea Před měsícem

      not as good as italian women right?

    • @justroman2150
      @justroman2150 Před měsícem

      @@Roshea nah I guess at the end of the day you gotta be lucky finding the right one .. on average they aren't no big deal both

  • @briansmith2160
    @briansmith2160 Před měsícem

    Beta! The problem is feminism, not people who are like you. Ruining your genes and culture is suicidal. Have some self-respect for yourself and your people.

  • @ingridthompson6512
    @ingridthompson6512 Před měsícem

    SISU!!! I 💛 Finns.

  • @merc340sr
    @merc340sr Před měsícem

    With all due respect, I'm not sure Finns have had more traumas than any other nations,...Most nations at some point have experienced war, famine, poverty, colonialism, conquest, etc...

    • @watermelon7998
      @watermelon7998 Před 20 dny

      Exactly. I don't really get that argument. Many countries, like mine (Hungary), have had a lot of more recent traumas, eg occupied by the Soviet army until 1990 - Finland has been prosperous, best country in the world, happiest country in the world, best education system in the world etc. The country most Finns were born has been thriving all their lives.

  • @hahaayukko5543
    @hahaayukko5543 Před měsícem

    And Swedish women are tyrants and the men are feminine. Right back at ya random Swedish woman.